Bad Mom

[@veldaaldridge3361]

Josue:”I have 2” Natalia:”you mean WE have 2” Josue:”no I have 2” good for him

[@Dr4g0nsNr0s3s]

then she says that she didnt even Want them. then why say that We have two.

[@MsElfdee]

sadly i bet they're not even his. he deserves better.

[@leehollow4410]

@@MsElfdee tho if he love's those kid's I think he shod have those kids with someone else that love's him and the kid's. do you think that's nice sorry if that sound mean

[@MsElfdee]

@@leehollow4410 I agree. that's what i meant. he appears a great dad, i doubt he'd love them less if he found they weren't his. the kids are better with him than the vagina which birthed them. they all deserve a better female role model. those poor kids if they didn't have him :(

[@leafinout-youtube]

sick

[@gigilouie9422]

The way she outright admitted “what money am I gonna have left to go out and party?” That’s absolutely sickening to hear.

[@saras.301]

right! so the drug thing may be true

[@ShandeleReynolds]

@@saras.301 well she didn't deny it

[@PilloTheStar]

If I didn't know firsthand just how delusional women were, I'd say this was a skit.

[@WizzleThump]

It makes me feel like this is typical scripted reality tv, no one would say that in court, especially being recorded.

[@codyclem7146]

@@WizzleThump you would be really surprised the shit ppl say in court knowing there being recorded. These are true cases

[@thefakeslimshady8881]

it's so refreshing to see a father win in a child support case

[@BarbarisII]

There's a good bit of that on this channel

[@skittVr]

Agreed

[@CrackedSkullxStudios]

Needs to be more

[@mr.beatspt.2969]

Facts, 1 win is a win for all father’s going through this struggle.

[@NiceOCGuy1981]

Yeah, but often do we see that. Hardly, ever. This is probably scrpited.

[@continms]

“As you should, you’re a mom, the audacity!” 😂🤣😂

[@Barbie_All_The_Way]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@Djivaan56]

The lion, the with, and the AUDACITY OF THIS B!

[@HeyhoBrando]

“You mean we have two?” “No I have two” that right there is when i was on his side 100 percent

[@jazzyfbaby3553]

Right! and then had the audacity to say she dont even want them. She trifling af

[@ghostkins1266]

@@Burnttoastwithvegemite it's real they record all of these she just post's them

[@TrinityWorld06]

@@Burnttoastwithvegemite the case is true but the video is not

[@michaelavena1609]

It says in the fine print at the end that they are actors and scenarios are fictitious.

[@johncarnahan3428]

Did you read the disclaimer? The show is Fictitious and those are actors.

[@rcortez33]

She's a nurse. If this is how she takes care of her kids imagine how she takes care of her patients.

[@theheartmekanik]

Funny enough, there are people out here who take care of strangers with utmost care but ish on their blood/family

[@rcortez33]

@@theheartmekanik I won't argue with you on that

[@CoolCraftCool]

I mean she seems quite focused on her career to the exclussion of almost everything else so she might be really good at her job! I mean being this dismissive of you're own family is hard to fathom so she must be doing something.

[@Sindoku]

She’s probably stealing their pain meds too.

[@MAGA1_4Life]

She is not a nurse... Maybe a CNA.. Not smart enough to be a nurse.

[@stefanc4520]

That mother is actually insane. The fact she handles people's health scares me!

[@RIGTHEGIANT]

Most nurses are not all there mentally 😂

[@stefanc4520]

@@RIGTHEGIANT iuno about that but she need to go!

[@etuara]

She probably on drugs or is just a narcissist

[@izzatchakhachiro3286]

That's the 1st thing I thought of! The fact she's on drugs and painkillers most of the time scares me

[@GrandpappyG]

If they seen this they might question having her on board also

[@ashleyj97]

"You mean you're not sure because you're not around that much?" 😂😂😂😂

[@JudgeVondaB]

😄🤣

[@prestonpowers6831]

@@JudgeVondaBI miss you come back soon

[@KokoRaven211]

“As you should you’re a mom, the audacity” I love this woman 😂👏🏾

[@sarahegee1605]

😹😹😹👩🏾‍⚖️

[@leannegibbs1064]

This is the first time I've ever seen this woman and I subscribed IMMEDIATELY after that I'm dying laughing.

[@LaurenJuicey]

Me too, I just said that rolling my eyes at this girl.. she’s slow

[@KittieNinjaXD]

Me too, she’s my row model! 👏😌

[@KittieNinjaXD]

@@leannegibbs1064 Same, I happened upon a short video on Facebook and had to find more of her videos! She’s awesome! 🤩

[@sarahness9905]

Dads don't have enough representation when it comes to custody. Shout out to this dad and all the great dads out there who step up like this guy does.

[@Just_a_Lad]

My brother has married a single mother and they have a kid of their own. Even though she's not at work at the moment, because my niece is too young she is bored to death and doesn't want to deal with the kid much. She doesn't cook often and she doesn't clean at all. My brother is working home office, taking care of the children, he is cooking and cleaning. And she's just bored and playing on her phone and computer all day long. He complains to me sometimes, but I can't do nothing more than to listen and sympathize him

[@debbieedwards420]

@@Just_a_Lad I don't understand women like this. I had 1 little one & another on the way,I was never bored. I kept house,cooked & played with my daughter.

[@Just_a_Lad]

​@@debbieedwards420 You have my respect, it's great that there are still women out there who are okay with the role of a mother and a wife and they like it. Sadly, not all women are ready to be mothers and sometimes people around them suffer because of this. I have also rejected one lady not long ago, simply because she has issues and she's not ready to be a wife and a mother. I don't want someone with issues who is going to affect me and my children. It's irresponsible. All of this applies to men too, if they're not ready to be fathers and husbands then they should not marry and reproduce, not yet at least.

[@Sassafrass95]

what's sad is how toxic the court system is, dad's are rarely given custody because of the misguided thought that mothers are whats best for the child and yet we hear so many stories of kids starving and/or abused while the father is forbidden to see them while the mom uses the money to pamper herself while she has multiple men coming in and out of the home

[@kr4t0sg.28]

Thank you.

[@kyaraalexandria]

She can’t be serious. The patience of this judge, god bless.

[@BckoftheWdz]

“ He don’t care about saving lives” Him delivering the supplies that is the most crucial part of saving lives

[@Thule21]

Balto looking at this deadbeat mother. *"Am I a joke to you?"*

[@meganfenton4189]

They're both crucial to the process. The skill set required to administer medical care is nothing without the necessary equipment and medication, and the equipment and medication means nothing if there's nobody to administer it properly. The thing that makes this woman useless is that she had children she cares nothing about, and I sincerely hope that on her death bed she gets the comfort and support she needs from her party friends because she certainly won't get it from her children.

[@janilati8631]

​@@meganfenton4189Okay nerd🤓

[@MP-bk9oi]

Too her job, so she can save lives 😂

[@goatbut29]

*BOOM*

[@mellymell33]

That's one hell of a father. I'm very proud of this man.

[@ericrivera8410]

Yes like my stepdad may he rest in peace made sure I learned Spanish along with English telling my sU back then I'd probably need it for my future career ..

[@xvg-comiccomic3573]

Finna need that snap Melly Mel😹

[@BradyMcRae]

@@xvg-comiccomic3573imma need ur snap😏

[@duck8735]

​@@xvg-comiccomic3573bro got no rizz

[@Waltuhonyoutube]

@@xvg-comiccomic3573bro is NOT getting that snap with this pitch

[@jillianxrose1]

I like how she says "I have a more important job than him" ...he delivers medical supplies to hospitals. Pretty sure she wouldn't be able to do her job with no supplies

[@dawnroache9391]

I'm sure that he's been overwhelmed in the pandemic too!

[@lisatrainor1770]

Their MOST important job is parenting....she's FIRED

[@user-mw6jo7ql1c]

That’s exactly what i said when I heard that!

[@ninachesterfield3617]

Her comment about the more important job pissed me off!

[@nicolebailey4426]

I use to work as nurse and I have to thank him for delivering the supplies for us to complete our work. We have many Unsung heroes in Healthcare. Etc Pharmacy Dietary Environmental Human Resources Social workers PT/OT maintenance

[@ObviousAshleyy]

Dear Judge Vonda B, you are flippin amazing. I love your sassiness, and compassion.

[@charliepremostudios8869]

Honestly, the dad deserves TWO rewards. One for being a good father and another for putting up with that awful woman.

[@tanyarandolph4145]

Women do it all the time

[@bluedragonfox]

@@tanyarandolph4145 he did. Judge also gave him back pay which he fully deserves. The sad part is that he has to at some point (when children are older) tell the kids that mommy wants to party instead of spending time with you.

[@Trappy-C]

He deserves an Oscar for his performance as much as he does those rewards

[@MooooonDemon]

he's a good dad but he's the one who chose to have kids with a woman like that. he picked that woman.

[@AnimePonyglyph]

Wow I can’t believe this mf

[@zerozenn]

This is why custody laws need to be looked at from a neutral view, he needs full custody of his kids flat out. Kudos to the father

[@fendertremolo9793]

You do know they are actors, right?

[@bluedragon8762]

@@fendertremolo9793 actors reenacting a real situation if i recall correctly

[@fendertremolo9793]

@@bluedragon8762 "real situation" is subjective

[@bluedragon8762]

@@fendertremolo9793 aka its a real case from the courtroom and these actors are reenacting it because of privacy. im not sure why your being purposefully dense

[@DuctedAndTaped]

You still have a good point.

[@countryboyri]

Can we just take a moment to admire the father's overall demeanor? Not only is he a great father, but he's impressive for the way he stated his case and interacted with the judge.

[@blanebeats8647]

It's scripted.

[@XanderCat]

They are all actors 😂

[@pearltoomer6392]

Yes

[@phillyphan1225]

Based off of actual cases (is what is said)

[@DarkMoonGeneral]

​@@XanderCatproof please

[@LolGurrl91]

That "mother" is such an immature and entitled brat!!! 😠 The father is such a gem, he loves and does everything he can for his kids ❤

[@jorag1649]

He said “NO! I GOT 2 KIDS” Man what a dad 💪🏿

[@bridgettepalmer860]

No, she is a female narcissist-cold, selfish, and calculating. She spoke her truth and was proud it.

[@TheScorpion43]

I respect how brother didn’t go out his way to attack her he just told the truth and let her embarrass herself

[@troyb.4101]

She did a great job of it also!

[@senjo39]

I like how she said what will be left with to party lol

[@SixtySecondsorLess60]

Such a baller, hope he finds a great woman to help with him and the kids. MANY would love his attitude and the way he treats his kids.

[@povertylevelphilanthropy1524]

This is a tv show, not real life.

[@kaylenramirez7690]

Right !

[@BLACKHEAT1028]

“I am not about to play these games” and “These child support payments are going to be an inconvenience” 🤣🤣🤣. I love this Judge

[@nelliegales3546]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Sis Don't Play🤎😅

[@alihaidar5787]

these are not real btw.

[@justaperson242]

@@alihaidar5787 na they are

[@jadadsr.8351]

They are reenactment of real cases that she witness or served in. She is a Texas lawyer

[@9009pam]

I was gonna ask are they real?! Lol 😂 i was gonna say

[@kuyanahatcher]

I'm so proud of this man. He puts HIS CHILDREN FIRST!!! THATS A REAL FATHER!!!

[@streamerguy1970]

This dad is exactly in my position almost in every aspect. Im a single dad, two girls 13 and 8. Mom dipped on us almost 4 years ago and I finally was awarded child support and even full custody!!!! Dads like us who raise our babies alone do exist and women need to realize we deal with dead beat spouses as well!!!

[@joeyromero7251]

Thank you for being a loving Father.❤

[@edsburnout3641]

keep doing you my man, glad that your children have at least one good parent. good luck and best wishes.

[@huchlvr]

My step-dad was awarded custody of his two boys after their mother left. IN THE 1970s!!! It was unheard of that the father got custody back then. He and my mother raised us (three kids from my mom) and my step-brothers as a blended family unit with no child support from either non-custodial parent. My best friend in high school had a similar situation. Her mother abandoned her because she is slower mentally and has a speech impediment. Her father left the Air Force to raise her on his own until he got re-married. I don't think Mr. A ever got child support because she didn't know where her mother was until 10 years ago.

[@johannemontreuil8980]

Your little girls are lucky to have such a good dad...🥰

[@reyon2673]

It's tough, no question. Mad respect for doing what you have to do for your little girls by yourself. Best of luck to you and them, sincerely.

[@toxic2355]

Im a roughneck and also a single father. This video damn near brought me to tears. What a horrible human being that woman is. This man is a legend. Godspeed.

[@aqua6613]

I can't have kids and I'm a truck driver 😂 I'm totally looking for someone with kids... Roughneck means you work in the oilfield? Are you still available ? 😁

[@neverthesame7887]

no, you need to say it this way: "* I * *mean* what a horrible human being that mother is!" She seemed so ridiculously out of touch with reality and so completely void of the genuine love normal mothers have for their children that it almost seemed almost as if this was a scripted episode.

[@tamberlinferguson4156]

Same here. Shes horrible

[@harmonymoxham1719]

I don't know If I can believe this is real

[@CrimsonClover64]

@@harmonymoxham1719 it's not real. This channel uses actors. The "judge" is a real attorney but everyone she has in court are actors. It says so in the channel description.

[@Unkxxwnstuff]

I love the fact that she literally says she shouldn’t have to take care of the kids because she has the more important job and yet asks him for money

[@HelheimsGhost]

The delivery of equipment is pretty important for her to be able to do her job

[@ChikiD]

Without HiS job, delivering equipment, SHE cant do her job

[@samuelschick8813]

Her: " Saving lives is important." Says the woman who is willing to let her children starve.

[@2ndhandSue]

It scares me that she's a nurse. Does she have this privileged attitude over her patients as well? Does she resent them for getting sick and needing to be taken care of?

[@Maninawig]

And she wants to "party"

[@Spiralredd]

This judge is what all judges need to be.

[@amaristr]

OMG...imagine hearing your mom saying that she didn't want you...heartbreaking

[@patmccoy8758]

Been there with birth unit. Karma got her in the end. Karma will get this Piece of Work too when she thinks she can USE her children later and they tell her to get lost!

[@victoriagoodman8144]

Brought me too tears I'm so sorry for those babies I hope he keeps them away from her her words could kill , my babies zremy world

[@phoenixlee7949]

She even said that he forced her to have the kids. Hmmm. How does that work?

[@ericafigueroa747]

Same thing “dads” say

[@polkadots2823]

Wait till the kids grew older and the mom in her 60s 70s and no kids wants to visit her or help her and left to die alone, she deserves that

[@RealGrandpaBullFrog]

I love when the whole “equality “ thing actually is put into action

[@Memerproductions]

Same

[@kristyoblea5858]

Me too. So satisfying

[@MMGhost123]

You can say that again. 👍👍

[@emptycarousels3950]

Yeah…but what’s with the quotation marks?

[@joseg4320]

@@emptycarousels3950 but its not real, theres no equality when it comes to child support, men are doomed from the start because the laws are created that way. Unfair

[@shadmahuda]

As someone whose mother was never interested in spending time w me as a child. That shit hurts. But then u grow up to kno they ain’t shit and it’s not about me at all. Much love to this dad and his babies.

[@nickgarcia1672]

A courtroom based tv show involving cases with issues related to child support/spousal support in Texas. All episodes include actors. Vonda Bailey is not a real Judge. She is a licensed attorney in the state of Texas who primarily handles cases involving child support and spousal support. The cases are based on real life scenarios of events that occur in child support courts. Names, characters, businesses, places, events, locales, and incidents are either the products of the author's imagination or used in a fictitious manner. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental.

[@yankeesfn2]

@@nickgarcia1672 You said that like it's not common knowledge lol. We know what is being presented to us kindly move around sir.

[@roberth4727]

@@yankeesfn2 if you read the comments, not everyone gets that it’s a show.

[@bruppieo5118]

My mother was the same way. She’s passed now and we never really had much of a relationship. I have my own daughter now and I’m not mad about it because I think it really taught me how important and special that bond could be and my worst fear would be to see my baby grow up and not even know her.

[@shadmahuda]

@@bruppieo5118 sorry to hear that but I’m glad u saw what u needed to do to break that cycle. I’m happy U got a chance to break the cycle. Happy for you and yours ❤️

[@poulardu]

Bruh! She said what else imma have left over to party with.. 😂😂😂 the nerve!

[@laurenminter7306]

Her attitude and her role as a mother and a nurse? This is crazy. Love the judge she’s a queen!

[@brianagarcia7387]

The judges face say it all ! Lol I love it

[@mrslywwilliams313]

@@sheliapea3998 she likes to party.....wtf? She need to cut it out.....

[@honeyspice8989]

It’s always the mean ones.

[@nicolebailey4426]

Being a nurse she gets paid and has to follow policies. Being a parent she won't get paid that's in her thinking SMH

[@XaldinDemyx]

My jaw dropped when she said, “what am I gonna have left over to party with?” Like really? That’s what you’re concerned about?! Not your kids or being able to keep a roof over your own head but how much you’re gonna have left so you can party

[@aliciaredepenning8202]

He needs to take her back to court to get full custody of those kids. Some ppl shouldn’t be a parent. She’s clearly stated she didn’t want to be one. Ouch. Hope these kids NEVER hear her say that! Terrible women.

[@robinrymshaw6653]

I agree

[@EeriePancakeyyy]

Her kids will hear her say that, right here on KZbin.

[@pushpika2005rc]

@@EeriePancakeyyy Those are actors.

[@High-Dollar]

The facts that she still has custody is outstanding women privilege. Dude had to work it ass to be able to keep his kids

[@lesleystewart4953]

I agree with you

[@Lizs.Tallent]

My father had to feed my sister and I. My mom had more Important things to do. He didn’t start out a good cook but he ended up a great cook! Your children will never ever forget what your doing for them. Your a awesome dad!!

[@Ellkidz]

wait is that your dad ?

[@willparker9870]

Does nice to hear father being praised you and him were definitely lucky that he got to stay in your life the mother wanted she could have probably divorced him especially in today's age got babysitters money to put the kids in school while she went and get off the so-called better things they always talk about drugs boyfriend's cheating

[@Lizs.Tallent]

@@Ellkidz No but we had a awesome dad like him.

[@alchemist4141]

Thank youu💯I totally agree

[@williambison9772]

What the fuck do all these people do to make $60000 a year in Texas

[@ss6645-f1c]

One minute: "We have 2 kids" Another minute: "They're not my responsibility."

[@Aolani21]

"As he should, he's a dad" "As YOU should, you're a mom. The audacity" couldn't have said it better myself

[@tjcobb3308]

Tripple stuffed

[@Gazing-09]

I grinned like the Cheshire cat when the Judge said that.

[@SynthoidSounds]

100% for the dad, a real man actually being a real father. The "mother", who literally said "giving birth was her job, being a parent was his job", a truly hideous example of a biological parent who should have never become a parent in the first place. "What am I going to be left with to party with?" . . . these kids don't have a mom, sad as that is.

[@leafinout-youtube]

why am i the first one to comment on this even though this has 300 likes

[@anakatsukifangirl2944]

And the way she "I didn't sign up for this..." when she literally procreated with this man twice and decided to keep the baby both times. The moment she said she wanted to keep the babies was the moment she signed up for every responsibility that comes with parenthood and yet she wants to sit there and act like she can claim to be a good mom when she brings home fast food and leaves to do god knows what.

[@BlxckKxge]

@@leafinout-youtube no words were needed to say applaud this comment 👏

[@leafinout-youtube]

@@BlxckKxge okokokokokkokokokok

[@carltonthepug]

You know this show is staged right?

[@youtubesketches110]

The Mom's $60K salary will disappear in a few weeks when the hospital finds out she's been stealing meds for her opiate habit.

[@lisaroland8729]

Exactly!

[@dbspaceoditty]

they would have had her tested the week stuff went missing. chances are she met a junkie while working there. ORRRrrrrr its a shady doctor with a loose pad. i know cause i have friends that are pharamcy techs that do drugs. when some go missing they really freak out because they could take the blame with no realproof.

[@DeviantDespot]

@@dbspaceoditty I know that, if you know a pharm tech is a junkie, that is a great place to hit. So I've heard anyway.

[@dewilew2137]

@@dbspaceoditty whaaaaaat how do they get around the drug tests?!

[@georgemason4921]

Nope. They have to put her in rehab first.

[@JacobASmith59]

"These child support payments are about to be an inconvenience to your life as well" DINGGGG

[@emilylang7844]

“Are you saying your kids are liars?” “I mean they could be” 💀💀💀

[@muldie101]

Well they could be, it wouldn't be the first time a parent sets the kids up against the mother... Or father...

[@OJTierraDeMisPadres]

I had a feeling that she thought that she was going to win the case. I'm just so happy that the father won instead of the mother.

[@yagerr4279]

She’s high or coming down if u ask me

[@yagerr4279]

I feed them “sometimes” 🤯

[@williamyt6174]

@@muldie101 she admits herself she rarely "feeds them". I don't think they're lying if she admits it

[@cheikhsarr5176]

A very responsible dad. I commend his efforts to his kids. For the mom, she acts like a child, she does not know parental responsibilities.

[@kyw4928]

She said she told him prior to have them that she doesn’t want children, if it was the other way around ppl would be saying the dad shouldn’t have to be around since they didn’t want them

[@Silverwind-bc2cr]

@@kyw4928 No one’s saying that. This is the most mismatched couple I have ever seen. She is irresponsible, and he is a fool. If things were reversed, it would be the same. Nobody looks on deadbeat dads with approval, whether they’re present or not. I’m not sure where people get the idea that, just because it happens, it is also accepted. But I feel sorry that these two were allowed to breed, because now their children have to suffer their idiot parents.

[@jasonrodriguez8569]

Bet her mom is the same way

[@OnlyTwoShoes]

The 'mom' acts like a child because she is an actor. This is just a show, it's not real

[@h.a.l.3980]

@@kyw4928 What a bunch of bullshit.

[@emilsesuarez3197]

That judge was just so upfront and blunt. I need friends like her.

[@fendertremolo9793]

She's not a judge

[@youcrazycat1]

@@fendertremolo9793 she's a licensed attorney acting out real cases.

[@redgallantroberts4266]

honestly.. that man deserves the world for fighting for this, and the kids. and good on you judge for keeping your cool! i could never

[@priscillaautrey7318]

The nerve of this lady....heartless. They are better off without her.

[@victoriamccausland8322]

She really asked “what am I gonna be left to party with?” It’s sad but the kids are better off without her and he deserves so much better.

[@kymberlipomerants5520]

She knew she wanted to have those children, that is all they do and want the state to pay for them.

[@alejandraloves102]

Facts

[@Opinionakadatruth]

“I gave birth to them, it’s your job to take care of them” this woman is disgusting. 🤮

[@Mae1111-abc]

8:56 that scene KILLED me. The mug, the fscial expression, the way shes sitting😭😭😭😭

[@sidgrim]

SAME I LOST IT

[@Amandajene52717]

“If I have to pay $1,500 a month, what would I have left to go party with?” GIRL WHATTT 😳

[@Michael-cb5nm]

She’s not bright. Doesn’t even have the awareness to understand how inappropriate that is to say out loud.

[@Dk-hh3uc]

she still would have like 2k flat for partying, but it makes you wonder if she truly spends 3,5k normally on a party and 1,5k was her bills and other things

[@LostAndSleepy]

RIGHT!!!! I don't know how people can say stuff like that and think. "Oh yeah thats a good thing to say and will help me!!"

[@fj1914]

Priorities

[@theL0VERS]

The show is fake so otherwise I would wonder what the hell was wrong with her

[@TherealHK-47]

It’s truly disturbing and awfully sad how she didn’t even pretend to be a caring mother even for the judge’s sake and openly admits she doesn’t want her kids. It’s probably better that she does just exit their life now because if she’s forced to look after them she’ll just abuse them emotionally

[@thetacticalpuertorican]

This almost made me cry. As a parent of a child with Autism spectrum disorder it hit hard. Luckily I have an amazing wife that goes above and beyond to make sure our children have everything they need.

[@santolini]

dude yes, even just as a parent (I am 100% not downplaying or acting as if I know your personal situation at all) im a fairly new parent, but listening to her say theres nothing wrong with dropping off food and giving them a tablet is beyond blasphemy to me

[@thetacticalpuertorican]

@santolini no dude, I completely understand your point. I wouldn't had taken it in the wrong way. Thank you for clarifying though.This lady made me sick to my stomach and I just related to the father a lot. That's all.

[@StreamwoodExplorer]

A scripted skit made you cry? Seriously?

[@thetacticalpuertorican]

​@StreamwoodExplorer at the time I first watched this. It got me emotional. It was very relatable to the situation I am in. I came to found our later these are actors. Your point?

[@thetacticalpuertorican]

​@StreamwoodExplorer at the time I first watched this. It got me emotional. It was very relatable to the situation I am in. I came to found our later these are actors. Your point?

[@donna25871]

Not everyone have the emotional maturity to be a parent - but since she made the choice to have children the least she could do is be there for them.

[@abidababida7096]

i’m speechless that someone like her actually exists. Now i understand why there are so many cases of child neglect and abuse in this world.

[@michaelschneider9305]

And a lot of liberal democrats that’s what most of them are like

[@valentiinehearts]

and this is why it’s important for women to have the option for abortion. no one should be forced to take care of something they didn’t want to have

[@denyshadials5702]

@@valentiinehearts Or they can run off and just be deadbeat moms and take that L. Plenty of dads have done that. Women can do it too.

[@merceduslong4486]

@@valentiinehearts or they should take protective actions. Birth control and condoms can be effective when used used properly. Oh and a shocker: abstinence is 100% effective! Or...or...ask the doctor to take out the plumbing. Oh and just to put this in I would be just as harsh on a guy. They have those options too. Abortion is not birth control

[@kaylageairn]

@@valentiinehearts YESSSSSSSS my thoughts exactly.

[@akeemjoseph9771]

"As you should, you're a mom the audacity" My soul resonated with this response

[@teneil31]

I take a bow and give a round of applause to the father for being a responsible parent and raising his children please get full custody and keep that 👿 witch of a mother away from them for there safety

[@robinrymshaw6653]

He is a good dad

[@matthewhummel1572]

I’m just thrilled that the court system recognizes it.

[@OnlyTwoShoes]

It's fake, read the fine print at the end of the video

[@ericmorris3030]

@@OnlyTwoShoes I believe that many of the actual court cases are real, it's the names used that are different and all of the participants are paid actors.

[@animebrat76]

And force her to pay him 90% of her wages

[@kathleenwhitley7114]

I have to admit, I really like watching you work. You are a Awesome judge. I've watched 2 of your cases, and these women have embarrassed our gender. Keep up the good work, it's Awesome!.

[@catrailalexander4021]

I really like this judge. She is respectful and she is level headed. That’s leaps and bounds better than other judges that I have seen.

[@alfonsopina3976]

This Guy Deserves a Father of The Year Award for Being The BEST Dad

[@mayjimmy9912]

Imagine how her kids feel to hear her say she doesn’t want them. My heart breaks for those poor kids. They will grow up thinking they are unlovable, if their mum don’t love them why, would anyone else love them 😔

[@lilnuggetshy5111]

I mean bc not everyone has to love you. My father never loved me and that’s fine. I had a parent to show me I was worth love. And In this videos case, their dad shows them they’re worth loving

[@barbarareyna2997]

May Jimmy, I agree with your post. My mom left me in the NICU when I was born and didn’t come back until I was 3 years old. My grandma raised me. Growing up, I had abandonment issues and always felt like everyone was going to leave me at some point in my life just like my mother did. It follows you for the rest of your life.

[@mayjimmy9912]

@@barbarareyna2997 I feel you’re pain. Hopefully you have someone who loves you deeply and you can accept the love they offer. This is your mothers failings not yours. X

[@mayjimmy9912]

@@lilnuggetshy5111 the problem with that is, everyone keeps telling kids “no one loves you more than your mother.” Society is woman biased, when raising kids. Now I don’t mean this is a bad thing l, as mothers tend to be more nurturing. So when mothers don’t love their children, it affects the kids more than the fathers not loving them. In an ideal world, everyone would love their children, and put them first.

[@mars7609]

@@lilnuggetshy5111 still hurts tho

[@phantomform4171]

"I want to party" jesus christ, save them kids.

[@BarryWallace-se8lz]

This is scripted.

[@Ickle_Bubba]

This man is definitely a amazing father to his kids, he does everything he can both financially and emotionally to support.

[@joenetherland712]

As an autistic adult that had a lot of difficulties with multiple things growing up (I was considered on the low end of the spectrum) it breaks my heart to hear her say "It's to much work". If it wasn't for my mom taking the time to teach me, I would be in a horrible place right now. (FYI I'm considered to be in the high end of the spectrum now) I couldn't spell my own name at 8 years old, I couldn't talk till I was 5 years old. My mom use to walk me to school because the school said I was to energetic. It takes time, patience, love, and diligence to raise kids properly. I feel for the child with autism.

[@ashleyj97]

Fellow Autistic Adult here. Thank you for sharing your story. Similar to you I owe so much to my Dad. The audacity of this woman to be so cold and unfeeling towards her autistic child was far too much.

[@cherylm4334]

God Bless You! my son is just like you. he could not talk until he was 3, very hyper later diagnosed w/ ADHD. he was also in the spectrum. he did bad is school, could not read on the 1st grade. but we work w/ him & surprisingly he started getting bettee at 4th grade. he will be graduating elementary this year & is on the principal list. it was a lot of hard work to get him where he is now. i would not trade him for the world.

[@raegenarmer2351]

You are amazing!❤

[@miffedcuttlefish6139]

Thank you for telling a bit of your story. I'm always worried in not doing enough for my bbygrl, and I hope that she can be as functional as she can when I'm gone. God bless you.

[@Nathan_Huhn]

I'm a child with autism, so hearing people care about the subject means a lot, God bless.

[@ericchan5055]

Wow, can’t believe she would openly admit these things in front of a child support judge 🤦‍♂️

[@geoculus5606]

But, good thing she did.

[@willparker9870]

Woman an man bouth have done it. 6 months ago I put a restraining order on someone had the police report from Boston and everything police stated I needed to put one on him. In court Dean Cooper told the judge he didn't just assault me he assaulted my girlfriend which was his ex who was pregnant

[@edbar7642]

Lmao this is scripted that’s why

[@owenf6300]

It’s a court of law, you have to tell the truth

[@purplespaceship2417]

​@@edbar7642 Exactly there's not a chance that a person would say such damaging things about themselves to a judge when they're the defendant /respondent. Saying her kids have the tablet to raise themselves, saying its dads job to take care of them and she shouldn't have to spend any $, and that she didn't want to have kids so she could keep partying....no one would purposely volunteer those kinds of things in a convo with a judge. They basically scripted this to make her look as bad as possible. Should be obvious to the rest of these people but I guess it's not.

[@joshvail909]

I love this judge. She's more than fair and she doesn't take any shit at all.

[@kellytillman6489]

When Judge Vonda said, "Go ahead and roll your eyes, I can roll my eyes too." I swear, I heard both my mother and grandmother. 😆😆

[@DeeBraynt2010]

She's lucky she didn't do that infront of my mother. The added part of the "I can roll my eyes too" would have been "after I make yours roll across this floor." My mother would have had zero patience for the way this Entitled Idiot was acting. Hopefully the dad takes her back to court so he can get 100% physical and legal custody of the little ones.

[@dolfan0019]

She's not a real judge dummy

[@mariahardy1201]

@@DeeBraynt2010 I decided to roll my eyes ONCE....by the time my eyes were back to the front, my mom was right in my grill!!!☠☠☠ Neva did that again, I promise!

[@meriraynor1870]

The way she just sat back with that “audacity!” Had me weak!

[@Bb-nq9cs]

When she said “he wanted them I didn’t want them” my heart shattered. How is this monster a mother? Imagine how her poor kids would feel to hear this… it also breaks my heart for the loving parents that want but aren’t able to have kids. Shame on this woman

[@Sassafrass95]

it's called greed and selfishness, speaking from experience she only see's those kids as paychecks not as her kids

[@SilverMaychan]

She should not have married him or got an abortion. She has 2 kids. She is resposible.

[@nicolebailey4426]

A great white shark can be a mother. Caring for your children makes you a mom or mommy.

[@chrisleeharvey]

There is many people like her in this world

[@nikkipenner3629]

I had a mom like this. I never knew my dad bc she didn't want us but she sure as hell wasn't going to let someone else legally take us because then she'd have to pay for us... But I had godparents that watched over me and took me in when my mom got too bad. They never took a dime from her and really helped her more than she deserved. It was hard as a child - especially bc she was quite vocal about how she felt - but it made me VERY aware of how much more my own children deserved... It's sad but it's really more common than people think to see mom's that just don't care. I'm glad these babies have a dad that cares about them. Some aren't lucky enough to have anyone else at all.

[@valeriekesterson3376]

What a terrible mama ! Love your. Favorite southern grandma ❤

[@jackiedoyle1145]

Such a good dad. Happy he's getting the support he needs

[@jasonmillstalks]

This "mother" is something else. I fought tooth and nail for over a year during my custody battle to even see my kid. The absolute NERVE of this woman to say she doesn't want her kids boils my blood. Well done to the dad

[@quintonsm2616]

The saddest part is that the kids may see tgis one day. It'll be bittersweet as hopefully they see their dad as superman and mum as deadbeat.

[@rosietouse686]

I'm sorry that you had to do that. Dad's shouldn't have to fight so hard to be in their kids' lives (unless there's cause for concern). It's not fair that some mothers and the courts put you guys through that.

[@jasonmillstalks]

@@rosietouse686 I'm not. I suffered through that year but it helped me win majority custody. Now I make decisions, dragged my ex into a true 50/50 agreement, and my kiddo sees both of us very regularly. Short term pain for long term gain

[@rosietouse686]

@@jasonmillstalks I'm glad that it worked out for you. I just think that your result should be the standard.

[@johnsmith-fz5pz]

@@rosietouse686 they do it out of spite. like oh you have a new woman. you aint seeing the kids. or you don't pay for my lexus. umm how bout you know the kids you love. let them see the father

[@DevonNothingSpecial]

“As you should you’re a mom, the audacity” had me dead😂😂

[@moniqueromeo5436]

I feel like I just got punked. This woman did not say, "What money will I have to party with?" when her kids need support. Insane!

[@sharonsimmons7824]

Love how judge bailey gets support for the children. Need judges like her. Amazing woman. Much love always.

[@tyeshawilliams1540]

6

[@LoRosa0224]

I can't get enough of her "who raised you?" Look she gives all these people and "the audacity"👏🏽👏🏽

[@Theintrovertednow]

She should look at herself in the mirror

[@tiddlywalnut2682]

The audacity of this woman is literally hard to put into words.

[@tinaseay1107]

It is so sad

[@BenChieeal]

I will give her credit on being honest about how shit of a person she acts. She didn't lie about her intentions or how little she cared. I pray she grows up before it's too late.

[@flickingbollocks5542]

Don't try to put it into words. Just go parrrrrtaaaaaaay

[@ericafigueroa747]

Same as many men

[@reyon2673]

@@ericafigueroa747 And also many women. Don't be trying to point the finger to the big bad scary "patriarchy" now because it's such an easy boogeyman.

[@dailychallenges9596]

I REALLY REALLY PRAY THE FATHER READS THIS COMMENT BECAUSE I WANNA TELL YOU I THINK YOU ARE AN AMAZING PARENT AND FATHER and YOU DESERVE AN AWARD FOR HAVING TO DEAL WITH THAT DEMON LADY YOUR KIDS ARE VERY LUCKY TO HAVE YOU AS A FATHER🤞🙏😁👍👌

[@sirsweet3022]

"What am I gonna be left with to party with?" So her rent and bills are not an issue?

[@HCS-1911]

Bruh I was half expecting the judge to just be like "idgaf mam, get out of my court room." 🤣

[@ruthfoster6706]

These should be

[@jneezypv]

You know she has a roommate.

[@ItsPinky1]

i cant believe she said that! some women are just trifling.

[@joshuapascua7026]

I couldn’t believe that came out of her mouth.

[@lscales6131]

Any one else love the fact that the judge walked her into a corner with two or three questions? I loved it.

[@jimmytomo370]

"AS YOU SHOULD AS A MOM, THE ADAUCITY" that was exactly what I was thinking, Judge. WOW I have to edit this comment because Ma'am you came through with this case. *Subscribed*

[@olarewajuibukunoluwa4293]

"Its too much, if i had to pay this heavy, what am I left to party with?" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 She's terrified of not being able to party! 😂😂😂 She's not ready to raise a family!

[@nataliamiliano150]

She really said “what am I gonna be left to party with” … with a straight face 😮

[@odo432]

I'm just speechless.

[@MemphisDrumma]

And she’s an “adult”

[@senhaku03]

The coffee transition at 8:55 killed me! 😂😂 Judge Vonda's like..the absolute audacity...

[@JudgeVondaB]

🤣🤣🤣

[@flickingbollocks5542]

​@@JudgeVondaBPlease don't play any music when you sum up at the end, Regards from Yorkshire England 👍

[@tkmorrison6404]

My favorite part! Lol

[@HelenaNeves-BR]

OMG SAME LOL

[@maramorales1936]

Omg yes that was hilarious!! 🤣🤣

[@Kerrigan.le.Awesome]

So glad to see a fair judge helping the father, he's the only decent parent those kids have.

[@slyhuot]

Judge, we need more of you in the world. God bless you

[@abigailphillips1013]

My jaw DROPPED when she said "what am I gonna have left to party with?"

[@sabahkhelidj9438]

me too

[@itzsteb7o-o509]

my god f this mom

[@inukaweerawanni554]

@@sabahkhelidj9438

[@inukaweerawanni554]

That made me feel like this is scripted

[@johanncai5184]

"as he should, he's a dad" That set her OFF & she was done listening to her

[@beeenn649]

"But what will I have left to party with?"

[@jonathanramirez8927]

She really said “I should pay less what will I have left to party with” 💀💀

[@nykiasmith7404]

Would’ve ordered her to pay more with that comment lol

[@mariah9441]

💀

[@QueenMel_]

like she's really worried about partying wth ...

[@jonathanramirez8927]

@@QueenMel_ honestly like wth you worried about partying than your kids

[@ericajones991]

Idk I lost it when she said, “it’s too much work having a kid with autism.” Lorrrrrrrrddd 😓😓 how is this woman allowed to be a nurse??!

[@sharri7069]

This man is mom and dad. This woman should be ashamed of herself for ignoring her children. I am so glad she has to pay!!🎉

[@havendomschke536]

So I’m autistic and hearing her say “ it’s a lot of work so he’s better suited “ broke my heart so much. If my mother just walked out bc “ I’m too much for her “ it’s so emotional to think about. Me and my mother have been through so much with my Autism and my 15-20 other diagnosis’s so I’m so so grateful for her.

[@gailrodgers3079]

I also raised an autistic boy who is a wonderful blessing. Currently 40. His dad had more problems than I could count but he never seemed to see the problems his son was having.Our divorce was nasty as all he was doing was grabbing as much money as he could. I have a wonderful relationship with my 2 sons, and the boys put up with their dad as little as possible.

[@jessica_coulter6428]

Me as a parents having anxiety n depression, having multiple kids with adhd is hard work let alone a child with autism 😔 which my youngest whos 3 maybe be on the spectrum and i find it hard most days but i would NEVER walk out n leave the responsibility to their father .... This woman should loose her parental rights 😡

[@jessica_coulter6428]

Me as a parents having anxiety n depression, having multiple kids with adhd is hard work let alone a child with autism 😔 which my youngest whos 3 maybe be on the spectrum and i find it hard most days but i would NEVER walk out n leave the responsibility to their father .... This woman should loose her parental rights 😡

[@samyunknown974]

how could you left your own child alone and dont take care ? thats her kids her flesh and blood... but sadly i know woman like her and these kids from them are gonna hate they mother but if thats what she want so okay but partying to get a clear head and dont have to think about this important things is a bad decision and she dont deserve to be a mother

[@reznovvazileski3193]

Yea same here I'm not even her kid and that hurt me. I grew up in a turbulent divorce myself and I didn't trust people enough to even speak publically until I got helped by a pedagogue on a special needs school I got transfered to. That's when I was 8. Most children seem to be yapping your ears off by the time they turn 3. I genuinely hope for the kid the mom just got her turbulent ass out of his life... While it's difficult growing up with 1 parent isntead of 2, it's better than growing up never knowing what the second parent is going to be like today bringing in constant self-doubt and disappointment to the table.

[@mels9763]

Damn she didn’t even care enough to PRETEND she wasn’t a piece of shit mother. Wants so little to do with her kids she’s actually going to pay more just so they won’t be on her insurance smh

[@sarah-annecarney5458]

Props to this excellent parent for giving his time, energy, love and care to his kids. I can tell they will grow into calm loving and functional adults. He deserves children and she do not. I hope he files for full custody and terminates her parental rights. I hope the kids never see this video of their "Mum" saying she didn't want them.

[@sweetsweet81]

Doesn't that terminate the child support order?

[@sweetsweet81]

@K H good to know

[@Nurse_Xochitl]

I not just want to see Natalia lose custody over her kids, but lose her nursing license, get thrown in prison, and have to do community service.

[@tobybrooks7538]

Love isn't eternal

[@Nurse_Xochitl]

@@tobybrooks7538 But DOOM is.

[@NataliaBatoe]

I love how judge vonda summarizes the whole case, keep doing what you're doing girl!!

[@laruna8228]

This is why more judges need to be unbias and hear a father's side of the story. A lot of unfit mother's get custody of their children and use them like a income for them to party with. This father did everything he could to make sure his children get the care and support they needed and this amazing judge listened. We need more judges like her. As a mother of three boys I cannot understand this woman's thinking at all. If she had spent even a single moment of time with her children she would have learned how amazing children are...

[@Spartan...1337]

Try being a military single dad it took me 3 years to get full custody of my daughter and her mother has never paid squat and trust me they always tried to peg me as drunk and a violent person they do us dirty especially military dad's it's crazy.

[@laruna8228]

@@Spartan...1337 I'm from a military family, so it hits me hard to hear that they try to peg you for those things. Thank you for your service!

[@citlalliyepez5379]

Why did he even get her pregnant tho honestly especially if she told him she don’t want kids yet and for her to get pregnant not just once but TWICE. Like what

[@laruna8228]

@@citlalliyepez5379 Yea that is messed up too. Birth control and condoms work wonders but I guess it's too much of a hassle for people like her.

[@yamithagoddess8694]

@@laruna8228 tbh he should have done himself a huge favor and ended the relationship right there when she said she didn’t want kids and wanted to terminate the firs pregnancy but he stuck around and gave her a second kid smh. Broth control and condoms aren’t 100% that 2% exist and I know of three woman personally who have been on birth control for years and still gotten pregnant.

[@Malhaloc]

"I mean, he has an obligation to give me support..." Honey, no. That support is what you're going to be paying. It's called child support. The sad part is, most courts would agree with her.

[@WintersGold94]

Cases like this frustrates me, because I want to be a mom and can’t bare a child. She’s popped out 2 amazing babies and she don’t want them. Wow the world we live in….💔

[@ronniejack8816]

Prayers shorty

[@dannyross3023]

Miracles happen everyday, keep your head up darling, I’m an 18 y/o mom of a 3 year old boy, i would never treat my child the way this woman has, and it’s been so tough for me to raise a child, and it breaks my heart knowing people like her can do this to their kids. Its really sad.

[@AshleeAmber1287]

I'm a single mom who wants 1 more baby, I have a 15 yr old. Now that I'm 35 and my biological clock is ticking, I won't have another 😢 and women like this don't want theirs, so thankful I got to have one. I'm praying for you. ❤

[@TonganHalfBreed]

I’m pulling for you to have your babies! Good luck! It’s obvious you will love them unconditionally!

[@Swampgurl777]

Right there with you 😖

[@angelsmith2101]

This judge is amazing more judges need to be like her❤

[@Tony29103]

"I have the more important job" "He has an obligation to support me" What the fuck? Nah girl.

[@ruthfoster6706]

Jobs created equal with parents

[@Tony29103]

@@ruthfoster6706 Agreed, I think she was (at that time) referring to her occupation. Well if that's true then she should be making more than him, which she was, so why does she think she's entitled to be supported?

[@camelloy]

“But if I’m paying that much money how will I be able to party” This chick is the apotheosis of irresponsibility, good job judge B!

[@benbaslow8184]

A breath of fresh air. Respect to the dad and the judge

[@jonathanreis3720]

I'm Brazilian but love to watch your vids, what a judge... Brazil needs a law change and a judge like this.

[@jessicahercules6792]

I feel for this man so much. My husband has been through this with my stepson's birth mom. I'm trying to go for adoption now, but she refuses to sign over her rights. She hasn't seen him in five years, hasn't paid a dime in child support in almost nine years, and he's nine now, yet loves to call me names and say I'm not his real mom. I've been in his life since he was one. And people are shocked when we say we're trying to terminate a mother's rights, not a father's. Sometimes the mother is not the good one to raise the child.

[@stacys8729]

Amen!

[@shannonobrien9922]

Yeah...my kids were 7 and 10 and wanted my husband 2 adopt- he never would sign the papers

[@FrankWolenczak]

It sounds like the mother is vicious and you may need the court's help on this. I know it means having to see psycho chick again but for that nine year old son of yours that you treasure immensely, but for him how far would you legally go to make sure he's safe from her?

[@joshkresnik6402]

Take it to court. Best wishes to you guys

[@BBeauy2020]

You trying to adopt a kid that” loves to call you names and say that you’re not his real mother”?