Surround Yourself with THESE People

[@RespectWong]

“He who fights too long against dragons becomes a dragon himself; and if you gaze too long into the abyss, the abyss will gaze into you.” -Nietzsche

[@KUDAFORLIFE]

not in the right context

[@SkylerSaenz--SJ]

I actually just realized how many people I've pushed away because they didn't benefit me in some way.

[@eddysplosion]

I'm sure thats not the answer he was looking for LOL Dude wanted his ego stroked so hard. Good job bringing him down to earth Elliot.

[@VashtiPerry]

Boy, he did enough ego stroking for the rest of our lives

[@MadZilla33]

I forget who coined this quote but it says you can tell the character of a man by how he treats others who have nothing to give.

[@abidkhan-pm3gf]

Malcom S Forbes 1972

[@jsavagetooreal]

Damn I swear I see the realist comments on eliots videos this some real shit💯

[@WoWguidery]

This is amazing because I get mocked for trying to achieve my dream of becoming a neurosurgeon. I'm actually a 16 year old female who had gotten low grades when I was younger because of wicked depression. I was a 65 student when I was in 8th grade. I had felt like even a bigger failure. So over a long process (it wasn't one day it was many months) of many months, I said "fuck you" to all my haters including my teachers. (I remember one teacher even saying "Morgan, be more realistic." It hurt like a knife going into my chest.) And during my third quarter in eighth grade, I have finally gotten 80s. And then I went through another sad point when I began believing in people when they told me I couldn't do it. Got back down to the 65s. So then again I snapped back into awesome mode and in 9th grade I got 70s. Then the very next year I got 75s. And this year, I'm now 85s-90s. And in college, I'm going to a community then going off to med school. You know why? Because incentive is the key. People will tell you things because they are too embarrassed to admit that they themselves cannot do what you want to do. They will tell you to go the crappy path they took because what scares them the most is if you achieve your dreams. If you honestly try your hardest, you will get there. If someone like me can do it, then you definitely can. Hopefully my life maybe gives you hope and incentive to achieve your dreams. Yours always, -A future neurosurgeon

[@teranmm]

+WoW Guidery They are jealous. Keep working.

[@WoWguidery]

Thanks guys. You too. We can all do it. Make this a world worth living, do the right things, don't screw people over, and bes of all, accomplish your dreams. If I can do it, you can.

[@WoWguidery]

update: now in the 90s.

[@superMMAfreak99]

your an amazing keep perceivering and a wish you success

[@andrewp3358]

As long as you're humble, do what ever you want with a calm mind ;3 as long as it's legal :0

[@MrCitrusfruitz]

I live simple, i am content, i have enough. No suffering is important for me, be grateful.

[@matthewhernandez8342]

I respect that

[@colelolicato5574]

MrCitrusfruitz s

[@obitouchiha1918]

When I was younger, I used to click your videos just to talk shit in the comments.. But now a few years later, I started actually listening to what you talk about and you have changed me a bit.

[@roycegretch2538]

LMFAO!

[@theccanyon]

this is the ultimate compliment.

[@Giovanni123456789101]

Had to laugh loud sorry XD

[@GamercalledSTYREX]

Fucking leafy fan go hiss xd

[@YoungKeezyLSEU]

Obito...

[@IceTom87]

If you think 95% are not interesting for you, then you probably need to develop social skills and see that everyone is a master in his own way. The problem is, nowadays most people are so egocentric that they do not take the time to get to know somebody deeper than asking them what they work. A little love hurts nobody, you will meet everyone twice in life.

[@kamizumoku]

Thing is that even if you develop social skills you still may not be interested in interracting with these people or be disgusted by their lack of passion to evolve themselves.(It's not my opinion it's how I understand this guy is feeling)

[@oguzhan7636]

This made my day.. i'll try something else tomorrow

[@aamadchaudhry2656]

Creating real relationships,friendships is more important than having all the money in the world!!! The early you realize the happier you will be !!!! And nothing but respect for Eliot !!!!!!

[@quirkyquester]

Word!

[@T10Edits]

Im speechless! This video was so fucking inspiring!

[@JustAlexN.]

like all his videos

[@TheLoserian]

How weird is it to think that Eliot is alone talking to a camera in all his videos. He makes me feel like I'm in the same room as him when he speaks. Truely amazing.

[@imback2killu328]

Julian Brock ik it's half a decade long reply but I agree

[@boonwarner]

Spot on Elliott. In the end life is about the relationships that we have here. The impact that we have made on other people's lives. No one's going to care how much shit we've collected.

[@hydrocarbon2195]

I've watched 99% of his vids and I'm watching them all over again learning more and more I'm 20 and I feel like this

[@chessdude67]

Well said, Elliott.

[@rangv733]

chessdude67 100th like

[@LivingMyLexLife]

I think this video will actually affect my life.. That's rare. Thank you. God bless.

[@gorillamode47]

everyone has something to offer

[@ggd408]

Well said Elliot. Couldn't have put it better myself. I've been chasing after dreams and goals for a few years now, but because I'm in Public Safety/Health, I can appreciate good people around me. It is hard finding others with deep motivation /passion who understand our plight and that inner drive that pushes us every day. Be safe please!

[@mikeblitz4029]

There are some people who say, "I work 40 hours" and feel like that is more than enough. Then there are others who say, "I work 40-70 hours, what else is there to do? I want more!" 95% of people are the first person. 5% of people are the second person. The 5% just can't help themselves, its their vision and way of life. They see their drive as their reason to live. 95% of people accomplish their 'responsibilities' then go and have fun. "It's lonely at the top."

[@Jaygd1548]

Yeah, and they're both idiots. The smart people know how to work smart and not hard and work 10 hours a week and accomplish more.

[@nicosheldonflorendo]

***** I don't think he forgot. How could bringing them up be ideal be useful?

[@jlghfe36]

Elliott you should make a video on meditation, how to meditate and the importance of it. People need to know how beneficial meditating is and how simple it is once you've mastered the basics. There are over 100 benefits to meditation and it allows you to see beyond your ego.

[@cmattbacon7838]

Anyone who focuses on "saving" instead of "growing" is a fearful person who isnt aiming to succeed, theyre aiming to not fail.

[@Nicole-bc1bm]

I want to meet this guy! It's so hard to find people that are passionate about getting out there and enjoying all life has to offer. I don't want to go through my life being miserable and doing the bare minimum just to 'get by'.

[@dominik_lasota]

absolutely love this video

[@TonyLewis42]

Truer words have never been spoken. I became very financially and personally successful at a very young age. I too searched to surround myself with people who I assumed were "on my level" I learned the same lessons as you and decided to reevaluate my perceptions of with whom I surrounded myself with. You hit the nail on the head with your video.

[@LA1047]

Balance in life is everything... Started with scraps and now I'm pretty comfortable cause I've always admired peoples drive that had more than I had growing up... But I never forgot the humble beginnings that I came from... Strong Polynesian culture background

[@K20civicsirturbo]

In life the most important thing to have is balance...energy flows where attention goes

[@Pompasaurus]

Love Elliot's work and life story. A classic case of narcissism haha. But they realized it and changed! Narcissists who don't realize how they are end up hurting every person in their love. I learned that the hard way and was hurt deeply by a narcissist. Wish some people were wise enough to realize it like Elliot.

[@astonishedantoinette8737]

it is wrong to look down on people and it is hard NOT to look down on people, too. this young man's attitude reminds me of myself a few years ago ( I'm 25 now not so much older) :D take what's good from other people'S company but draw a clear line. do not let them infiltrate your mindset. Be grateful for your pair of eyes which allow you to SEE but dont look down on others. no one has the right to criticize anyone for achieving their dreams therefore also dont let them get you in a bad mood. just say 'really? Im the happiest I have ever been and I enjoy life everyday. what about you?'

[@federicobau8651]

MAN I am writing this in the middle of the video, i ve not even finished yet!!! I had to stop and write a comment!!! All video you do are blowing up of wisdom!!! you are one of the person take example and inspiration, respect and admiration among with people like Bruce Lee, Eminem and others. totally respect

[@manz92]

I feel that guys pain, i feel the same way, and not a single person shares my enthusiasm in life, at least i haven't met that person yet.

[@rangerdanger222]

manz92 There are millions of them. You will find them on the mountain tops and in the difficult dangerous places of life.

[@Azsnas]

You have no idea how much I needed this. *applause*

[@CrAzzyWak]

Elliott, I'm going to give you what is possibly the greatest compliment I have ever given someone: you have lots of subscribers, fans, views, likes, etc. and you DESERVE each one of them. It seems that you are even a bigger of a person than the room you fill right now (which is quite huge). The only thing I hope for is that: 1. You'll get more successful (by getting to more people, not money-wise) and 2. You'll remain just as great as your are now and nothing will happen to your common sense. Keep up the amazing work.

[@MusicandWanderlust]

You're brilliant! I sometimes forgot I'm brillant too because I grew up in a negative environment but I know where I belong now. Thank you for reminding me we are allowed to be who we are.

[@muscleman61589]

It's been always like that. People will hate and pull you down from reaching your goals when you defy the norms. They hate you for the things you have accomplished which something they weren't able to do.

[@jhead3031]

I was that content guy who fell in that "95%", I was surrounded by friends. I played lacrosse, multiple friend groups, partied, etc.. However, that life style crushed my ability to succeed in college and important parts in my life. so, after I was kicked out of college I made a life change, "im going to work my ass of in school next semester and make this my #1 priority!". well, i did just that. I started to go to counselling each week in order to help me in this " impossible" goal. I worked my ass off to pay off school in time to get financial aid at another college, and fallowed that with great grades. I was beginning to fall into that "5%" you mentioned. I have basically trained myself to have a stricter life, the life I worked hard for. though that is a great accomplishment, I have become so distant from my fellow friends, I have become a loner through this choice. Im afraid to get back what I miss so much (close friendships). although I miss it, I am afraid to fall back into the stagnant "me". I feel like I took control of my life and recently realized I lost control of my social life. Idk what kinda people to bring into my life anymore.. Elliott, im not sure if you'll ever see this, but to all the other posters who might have helpful advice

[@TheFoxfourty8]

Elliott, The words that come from your mouth are sacred. Your past experiences gave you the wisdom that you needed to prevail through your own version of adversities. The fact that you choose to share these very knowledgeable and heart filled words is indeed noble beyond question. I must thank you for the time you take out of your personal life to help those who are in need. You are an angel, as well as a wise man.

[@marufalikhan]

" the friends you surround yourself are a means to an end" . . .That is so profound to me ! I also have had people tell me that I am an old soul in a young mans body . . .

[@Jon-Jon-Jon-Jon]

I feel like for me it's the other way around. I kind of want this drive for more but I can't find it, I'm pretty resignated in terms of that, I know I'm smart,I know I'm strong, IF I WANT TO! But I get so easily distracted by so many things, and I can't take the time to write a stupid text about Nazi's for school, even though I know it would only take 2 hours, and my grades would be much better if I just spent those two hours... (that was just an example, I think of many this way) I just don't want to do ANYTHING, I know some things I wanna do, for example: I want to travel the world, but I'm always in the mindset of WAITING for something to happen, and not actually doing anything to reach my goals. BTW, I'm 16 from Germany and gonna be done with school

[@lifeforgod07]

***** is that a quote you found somewhere or did you come up with that?

[@VxNemesis]

You will need some kind of "electroshock" to move your ass, I was the same before. Oce you will have to man up and take responsabilities to get out of a shithole you will have enought motivation for the rest. One advice, try to force you in a situation like that to see how you react because when life puts you into one of those you generaly don't have a second chance.

[@EvanJS5]

I can definitely relate. I have a lot of aspirations but there have been many days when I just don't even want to get out of bed.

[@IanusRage]

Dude, I'm german too but I'm going to write in english for the other fellas. Get the book AD(H)S : Eine andere Art die Welt zu sehen aka ADD: A different perception by Thom Hartmann. I'm 29 and I felt a lot like you at your age. You need some encouragment to find a purpose that excits you. 'Cause this is all there is to it. I am doing this under the implication that you are "A hunter in a Farmer's world." I am also implying Ellliot is too. He might disagree with that but it seems all so familiar :). Well: I was up to nothing to. But I wrote three novels later in my life.

[@Jon-Jon-Jon-Jon]

***** Thanks man (and everyone else of course) your story covered pretty much the rest up, I didn't expect that much feedback when I first wrote this post, and really didn't know there were so many feeling like me. When I write I can somehow expolain myself very good, and learn many things about how I feel, because I have time to think about it, just writing a comment, or a message to Elliott helped me so often :D

[@soalaidasetima5545]

The way I look at things, you don't only need business-related friends. You just need friends that serves purposes. Like that friend that goes from job to job, for example, serves a purpose because he's making your life pleasurable and you're right, you need pleasure once in a while. To me, the type of friends you need to remove are the shit-talkers and the people who discourage others because those people are concerned about other people that are irrelevant to their lives.

[@projecthappy3800]

Dude took words right out of my mouth! I'm working all the time minus 7 hrs that I sleep. People around me including my partner waste days each week on entertainment while I work my ass off. Always having to suck up to others to get them to contribute more. It's frustrating and I want to isolate myself from people on a daily basis. Anyone with crazy work ethic here in Auckland, NZ? Let's support and encourage one another x Contact me.

[@projecthappy3800]

ReflexGaming™ What you say sounds awesome - I'm just a little confused as to how ReflexGaming and expensive jewelry you seem to be associated with on your account are not feeding the type of environment you described as "shit hole"? What am I missing?

[@TheVideoNoobster]

Thank you for this Elliot, I'm 19 in university and have the exact same problem. It's no secret that students love to go out and get hammered. I hate that, I get no pleasure from it, and with that said, it is difficult for me to surround myself with people who want the same thing I do. Keep it up strongman

[@domientack]

I know what I want in life. I want to be happy, share happiness and be a good person. I'm working a long time now trying to accomplish that and I wouldn't want to do anything else!

[@halrymel5372]

Elliot, you are truly a king. I started watching you videos because I was a little teenage boy. Mentally and physically. However, I watched you for the physical I wanted to be big everything in me wants to be big. However recently I have started growing not physically but as a person. You are an amazing teacher someday I know I will be on a high level physical, emotionally, and spiritually. Love a fellow King

[@TheRainbowgary]

I think its okay to be an achiever but i would never look down upon other people who are content and dont have the same goals as me .because everyone has their freedom i am never going to force my way of life upon anyone .i would do healthy criticism but not loose any respect for the others .

[@MrKonand]

Yes I agree with you Elliott. I used to be in the same hard-working mood when I was trying to finish University and later when I went on to take a Masters degree. The only thing that mattered for me at that time was to achieve my personal goals. But when I ultimately managed to accomplish them, I realized that the most important thing in life and what really gives you courage to go on, is to have some good friends who will make you laugh and forget temporarily any difficulties you face...

[@CocosLaurentiu]

that's amazing Elliott...thank you for your wisdom!I was contemplating these days and i taught about the same things for my future,and you provided great answers.I'm also 23,but unfortunately,i started to take more from life 2 years ago,when i seriously considered learning the things that passionate me.Up till then i was surrounded by that type of people(the ones from 95%) and i was very much influenced by them. Now i'm all alone but i've never been stronger than now,and more focused to what i really want.

[@ePiiCxHoMiiE]

I never in my life thought someone could explain to me how to really accept people who aren’t like me... this gave me a very deep openness to other people, especially “normal” people, that I never thought I would have... I really do appreciate this... this video has totally altered my perception of reality and what my place is in this ever changing world... GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY... you’ve always given the most beautiful, articulate advice on what are souls purpose is here on this planet...💯❤️👑

[@theogaaron]

Omg this video is the story of my life. I spent 4 years in the army and developed myself to be the Grade A soldier, however didn't have any friends except the ones that where on my level. I quickly realized that i wasn't happy no matter how good i was. All i wanted was my old reliable friends back. even though they weren't nearly on my level. Like elliot said, i wanted a FUCKEN HUG! one thing that has helped me calm down and fullfill that gap in my life is my 8th month old son. spending time with him allows me to stay focused on life and come home and feel the love from another person. Who would of thought that since i grew up disliking kids. Great Video.

[@Shindig58Ireland]

Elliott, I am 100% ambitious, driven and motivated and have achieved a lot in my life but I am also the least neurotic person I know and I am full of compassion and feel completely content with myself in all that I do. I believe having this mentality is what makes me succeed in life. Not feeling content with myself would in my opinion, negatively impact on my progress. You don't need to search and use people for that compassion, loyalty etc from an outside source, you already have it within. The more that 5% realize that, the better the world would be.

[@mikeblitz4029]

I'm so impacted by your message Elliot. This video was a great reflection on myself and how I see others but you helped clarify some 'fog' that I've had pertaining to how I should go about understanding other people who don't share the same qualities that I contain. Thank you!

[@VaporClouds1]

Thats some of the best advice ive ever heard.

[@RangerM98]

So true.....just....its good to see there are people that understand me. That I am not an alien.

[@ThiVids]

I could really relate to this. Not many people are like you and me, but that's alright when you accept that. Embrace solitude, while it's there.

[@hydrocarbon2195]

been watching your vids for over two years, still could watch them every single day , love you mann!!!!

[@1piece473]

Maybe for a month for me.. But i still agree with u..

[@hydrocarbon2195]

hassan ahmed​ honestly carry on bro, you might stop and even i did, but you will and should always go back :)

[@TriplePJ]

I'm 18 and I have that mindset everyday

[@margaretmouka5552]

Im 17 and i do too

[@0s0sXD]

+LoneMystic 0 I'm 15 and i do three

[@superMMAfreak99]

+Mohamed Osama same

[@andrewp3358]

I'm 6 and I do too!!

[@weezyfan25]

Elliot your entire life is genius and I aspire to one day be a father like you

[@kusindan]

I love the videos you put on this channel Elliott.

[@arod0291]

i've never been able to connect so much with one of your videos until now. this is my exact situation and it's really enlightening to know i'm not the only one going through this loneliness.

[@TheWRXnFX]

Solid advice Elliot. Driven is good, driven and nuanced is better. Finding a purpose bigger than you and your goals is also a key that is best found earlier in life than later. When you find a reason to help other, the way to help them will be evident and the deep human connection you find will be it's own reward.

[@NamiBurger]

I recently learned to do this.. Like literally a couple weeks ago. I wake up everyday, ready to work for my dream, and i came to the conclusion i really was alone on this journey. I decided to not try to reel in friends who i thought was into the same things as me or are as hardworking in the same way, because that is hard to do anyway. I so far have two friends who we mutual like each others company. We laugh, get through hard times. They both give me strength i need.

[@andorhalier]

I can find myself in what that guy said. I have nothing but RESPECT for you , aswell as for Elliot Hulse.

[@ponder2006]

It is about the ego running wild. Do what you have to do, but get rid of your ego and allow people in. Do not discriminate, just because you see your self at a higher level than other people.

[@GattoriSancho]

you are wrong if you want to accomplish something mix yourself with people that can help you.

[@Micahlifts]

This is amazing Elliot.

[@MasalaMan]

I've met this kind of stage before and not too long ago at that, where I've reached a point where I've just felt lonely in my endeavors. I yearned to meet a person that was like me and had the same thinking patterns that I did. And when I did meet him I realized that it wasn't this super cool magical moment that I had built it up to be inside of my head, We only ever helped each other in growing stronger - everything else didn't matter to us. It was only then and after that point that my father helped me realize that I had to be grateful and thankful for everyone that was in my life. Even the people I disliked and didn't yearn for that same success that I had; It meant i had to help and support them in any way I could in whatever they wanted to do. Now it didn't mean I go get drunk with them. lol. it means I just say ''Have a good time, hope you have some fun.'' I say it with a genuine smile on my face because I want them to enjoy their lives as best as THEY possibly can. It requires an open, friendly and loving mind which I'm still developing to this day.

[@MrGunn5]

This video hit me the hardest out of all these videos you've made. I thank you for making this one Elliott. I like to think I am in the 5% and this hit the nail on the head.

[@lorrainepascale]

This is brilliant. And I totally relate. Swimming with the tide is not what I am about. Brilliant. Thanks

[@FunkyLebaFin]

Nice to hear another honest man talk. God Bless

[@StepanTheGreek]

One of his best vids

[@EdCo94]

So true.

[@ljmaxwell9781]

Mr. Hulse. I want to slap you in the face sometimes because of how right you are. I thank the Lord that He has placed this passion of yours into your heart to shed light on so many things in this life. Keep impacting the world. Keep being you.

[@varungrover9993]

for such an amazing comment, i want the whole manosphere to slap you in the face :)

[@aurelkurtula]

I can't say that I have seen all your videos, I have seen those that I know would benefit me. Whilst this doesn't benefit me in any way. This has been the best video of them all. I love the fact that you described those people as "content". For what ever is worth, my respect for you just went on a totally different level.

[@Nolandey]

Elliot, this video speaks volumes to me. It is exactly what I needed at this point in my life. Thank you for being truly honest with us, I really appreciate that. If you consider yourself in the 5%, it is hard to find mentors that can understand what you are going through. Your channel has given me mentorship in a lot of ways. Much respect!

[@tnapan9157]

Thank you for being with us Elliott. Good videos.

[@chrismhp]

True speech of wisdom...I can identify with the guy's current situation. I am lucky enough to have the few friends I do, who compliment me and I to them, without the underlying competitive notions. Amen to your words, Elliott.

[@foreigncreations1793]

This was two years ago, but I myself I'm 23 now and in the same situation. Just recently I came to that conclusion which is that I need at least one day to completely relax and enjoy the little things. Thanks for the vid Elliott.

[@JohnnyWunderboy2]

I agree with the people that are saying this is one of Elliott's best. Wise words.

[@mannisstannis2255]

If you cant be alone, fully content and happy...EVEN more happy than in company. Youre not a loner, not a wolf, not an alpha.

[@Justin-jh3kb]

These videos are so amazing, I’m only 18 but I feel like your stories and lessons have given me a lifetime of knowledge, logic, and morals that I can live by. Thank you Elliot, I love when you share stories and relate to the questions that are brought your way.

[@Justin-jh3kb]

These videos also have given me a new perspective on life and how to analyze the things I go through.

[@06livefast]

Hey Elliot, I just wanted to thank you for this video. I have always sat in groups of people, whether it be fellow classmates or even my own family, and have never known what to talk about and when I do engage in conversation I find myself talking and feeling like people are analyzing me making me feel different from the rest of the world. I used to take this really personal and think I was doing something wrong or I simply couldn't match up to everyone else, but now I'm 22 and understand that I was hard-wired this way to constantly pursue my dreams and that I don't relate to other people and that's okay because one day I will be successful and happy with who I am. I don't think people really understand what advice young men need especially in their late teens and early twenties because that is when you are transitioning from boy to man. You have helped me in so many ways with your videos, and on behalf of all dudes in their early 20's, THANKS BRO

[@SebiSalient]

Really impressed by what you shared with us, thank you. All those benefits you have as a "5%er" tend to bring the drawbacks with them that you mentioned, I experience it on a daily and reading the comments below, I noticed that there are several others dealing with the same situation. I, personally, love it to have a good time with others where we can just laugh and enjoy other's presence but it is too little time, too seldom.

[@jennifernevarez6078]

I agree with what you said. I can relate to what you are talking about, and I have experienced those feelings of being lonely. Thank you for making this video. I will try harder not to dismiss others so freely.

[@vanessa_annie_ikebudu]

I can't believe how profound this is on so many different levels!!!!

[@mrmikeyboi1]

This is a great video, actually right on time! I'm currently in this situation, I will hang around anyone but I did not take notice that I let them sort of hold me back, by not focusing on what I really wanted to do. I'm not gonna lie some folks really don't care about where you wanna go in life. Its not that it's a competition for me, and I don't want to be labeled northern I care as a loner. It's bc I know where I need/want to be and by these people not really caring about my future or even having respect for me as a person, shows me that they are not around me for greater purposes. They are the only ones benefiting from this relationship. I also learned that it was me allowing the people to hold me back. I'm no better than anyone but at least let me be a better me.

[@theMasch1na]

I just turned 18 years old and I can really relate. I used to look at people thinking what the fuck is wrong with them, they don't have the same goals, no ambition, no respect bascially they're fucking worthless. I felt so alone because of that. Long story short, I found a girl who shared the same beliefs and views that I do and cheated on me with my best friend and that's when I started to see the beauty in "regular" people. There's something so special about them I haven't discovered yet. They make me so comfortable, relaxed and uplift me in a way they don't even know they do. I love people..THANK YOU ELLIOT

[@BountyFlamor]

his videos keep getting better and better to me.

[@brellynmuldoon8642]

Being a bit older than the writer of the email, I took a while to get to this mindset. The problem I found is that, during Occupy Wallstreet, I related to the mindset of the 1% and could feel the anger growing towards the 99%. And it isn't that I have what the 1% have, but understand the mindset and relate to it. That is the great divide a lot of us, find ourselves in. Then we try to find a life of balance between Machavelli and Diogenes, but can find some common ground in small talk to seem relatable. Just my two cents to Elliots great words.

[@fhoplist]

You know, places on the internet like these videos is one of the few places or really only ones I have that present a venue for me to exchange thoughts with similar people. Keep it up.

[@thedefinitive6296]

I've found the key to finding your own personally happiness is creating balance. So I completely agree with this bit of wisdom. Sure, have some people in your life that are as driven and maniacal about their goals as you are, but also make sure you bring in quality people who radiate a calmer energy and learn from those people as well.

[@tsimmaring]

Elliot, I made 100% your experience and can only agree and give the same advice. Being 30, having achieved anything and having no friends is a shitty place to be at. Building a social circle is one of the must crucial things in life.

[@MrKevo123]

This video has to be my top 3 if not #1 of the videos you have really touch me in a deep way Elliott, believe it or not you're changing lives here.

[@johnpaulpalmer1981]

that helped me sooo much! thank you Elliot. ive accomolished an excessive amount yet feel isolated due to it. you showed me to look for each persons value and see that as their gift to me. to not only look for their likeness to my best attributes

[@strikerray5418]

The greatest friend u can ever have is yourself

[@ST3ADY95]

no idea how to feel about this i feel at heart i'm a go with the flow kinda guy but in my head i see the benefits of going hard and taking every opportunity and logically strive to acquire that mind set, even occasionally faking it hoping i can fake it till i make it... at best i'm suborn and intelligent but i like people and am polite. i feel like ive been given to much and i dont know where i fit in, i need to find myself and im not sure how...

[@MilkySandwich]

This was exactly what I experienced many times in relation to others. It's interesting how often all it takes is a strong feedback from someone to validate that our intuition was damn right about a particular thing. I have always felt viscerally that this is true, that people who are different from me are also completing me and we can learn from each other a lot, even though our paths make us different characters, and listening to Elliott's words, I realize that each piece of puzzle from this whole concept is structured in exactly the same way as it is felt in my mind so many times. This lesson is just phenomenal. It's a fundamental lesson on which the whole humanity should be built in order to create a strong foundation for tolerance, empathy, personal development and so much more. In its essence, life is a journey, an eternal discovery, a great cosmic laughter - we have to make time to remember this, which is often forgotten due to the illusion of superficial differences and competition that separates us from each other.

[@Xaplelul]

Probably one of the best talks I have ever heard.

[@ElseMush]

Nice to see this side of Elliott.

[@bargoroth5609]

Thanks for sharing this. Exactly what I feel as well. I do not train a lot (more of a yogic&meditate), but I can count real friends on my fingers. Since I don't have any. And the reason why is due of my mindset after starting with meditation,yoga, researching on brains etc. So thanks for sharing this video, Eliot!

[@wtfnamestaken1]

Holy crap that was an extremely thoughtful reply. I agree, one of his best videos.

[@TedFormosa]

i like how his words can apply to all kinds of situations

[@mikec1945]

I feel the same. Filtering out the shitters in my life for people who are supportive and positive and want to enjoy life and be successful.

[@KevSoAwesome]

This video was so simple but so awesome, maybe it's because we sometimes forget the simple things in live which are also great

[@MrAcostax]

This topic reminds me of this quote. We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone. Orson Welles

[@robqwert2696]

Thank you for the quote