First Date Mistakes (5 Of The Worst Places To Go!) | Courtney Ryan

In this video, I go over 5 of the worst places you could go on a first date. First dates can be uncomfortable and setting plays a big piece of that. My best advice is to keep things as casual as possible on that first date. Thank you so much for watching and let me know if there are any that I missed!
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[@Ash_Wen-li]

Whatever you do, DO NOT take her to a graveyard and say "The dead aren't the only thing here rising tonight 😏"

[@funwithshay5945]

Haha

[@cdb5001]

How did you come across this little nugget of knowledge? Lol.

[@Samurai1999_]

Damn it wish I would've stumbled upon this intel last week would've been so useful. Now she refuses to talk to me.

[@kamham5222]

Its about delivery not the line

[@ismailelmassaoudi4317]

lmao creepy but in a way also genius you'd have to find a girl who would do that with you in the first place these days I don't think a chick would go with you to a forest or a graveyard times have changed I see in old movies that they go to cemeteries etc so yeah you're right lmao

[@coca-cola5048]

1- Movies/cinema 2- Your place 3- Formal/Fancy dinner 4- Bar/Pub 5- A plus one (don't bring her to wedding, family dinner as a date)

[@lubondochilekwa]

legend

[@corinnajohnson7391]

All of these seem like common sense to me.

[@SenorJoeBiden]

Where ELSE would you go if not any of these?

[@corinnajohnson7391]

@@SenorJoeBiden Fun date idea that's cheap, if she has dogs go to a dog park. Great way to spend a few hours, it will totally disarm her defenses, and it's cheap. Even if she is not what you wanted it's not wasted time because your doggo got to have fun :)

[@d3m0n876]

the bar is the best place to go, even if its going bad you're already at the bar and where else would some one rather be

[@vulyus014]

Please make a video on the 5 best first date places. I already know what NOT to do lol

[@kevinig641]

Yeah 😂 we definitely need that

[@oskirules]

if it's a blind date or someone you're meeting online, then it's just coffee, otherwise, dinner. That's it.

[@Treisiess]

The beach is always a good place if its summer and accessible for you. A walk along the coastline listening to the ocean waves is always a winner while having nice conversation. If you're looking for something a little more cultured a museum or the ballet are great ideas and can be combined with a nice lunch or dinner.

[@vulyus014]

@@Treisiess I live in the prairies in Canada so no coastlines for me. I can do a romantic walk around the perimeter of the public swimming pool though?

[@Treisiess]

@@vulyus014 Plan B it is then. To the museum

[@TheTribeUnmourned]

I’ve always enjoyed mini golf and lazer tag. It brought out that “innocent child” and made us talk more and would make us competitive in a none toxic way. And it’s also public and makes both parties feel comfortable that way.

[@swampdonkey4919]

I've done bowling and mini-golf. Neither date led to anything, but it didn't matter because I had FUN and it wasn't a waste of time!

[@truehearted2295]

Lazer tag!!! You might have hit on something. you need a min. of 15 mins of physical activity to get the pheromones flowing. If not dancing, laser tag can do the trick. good alterative.

[@StumpfForFreedom]

3:04 "If you don't even know if you like this girl you don't want to spend three hours cleaning your house for her." ... Courtney, the possibility of having company over is literally the only thing that makes me clean my house, don't tell me things like this.

[@jonkeefer6865]

my last first date was in 1998, when i was 19 and my eventual wife was 18. i think we went bowling, with her twin sister and my college roommate. melanoma took her from me and our kids in june of 2019, and i have no urge to go on another first date in my life, but i enjoyed the video. keep up the good work.

[@antonboludo8886]

I am so sorry you and your kids lost her.

[@dillpickle2712]

Wow some people will do anything for attention

[@garygreen3638]

@@dillpickle2712 idk if someone would make that up just to get a boost up. You need a hug because you sound like a little baby.

[@dillpickle2712]

@@garygreen3638 alright you got me I'm a toddler Wahhhhhhh haha 😂

[@garygreen3638]

@@dillpickle2712 just calling it like I see it 🤣🤣. Couldnt imagine why a person would comment on a sad story saying they want attention, but hey you do you 😁😁👍🏾

[@okihaveaname]

What do you think of these first dates: 1. Coffee shop 2. Dessert bar 3. Bike ride 4. Top golf 5. Game activity: bowling, dave-n- busters, cornhole, etc.

[@JohnBrown-ig5nc]

Going for a coffee, bike ride, walk in a park, walk along a riverfront are cheap date ideas that I've done

[@sahilahmadi3664]

Courtney, your voice is so soft and gentle literally your voice sends chill down my spine and love what you are doing!

[@stopthecap2644]

What always intrigued me about dating is just how fragile people are... if everything is not perfect most people just vanish... strange how people behave these days.. I think if you're actually into someone where the date is, is kinda irrelevant as it shows a different side of them, money aside of course.

[@stopthecap2644]

@SpacePurpBarney well, it's important to note that this concept of relations or marriage based on "love" is extremely new ie, within the 1900s... for thousands of years we as civilizations understood that emotion is a fragile and temporary state of emotion.... a relationship with a core foundation of love is destined for failure... which today's society is a perfect example in comparison to traditional societies which still practice traditional beliefs of relationships based on duty and that belief. The reality is, although you'd like for it to be that way, it never will... there is always a motive behind it, and is a transaction... primarily benefitting the female. Women choose who they sleep with, men choose who they marry. Remember your value and role.

[@Aubatron]

Unfortunately, the fairytale dream is not real. Women will not have a prince swoop in and save them from their circumstances, and women will not love you unconditionally as a man. Relationships are transactional, so is dating. The issue is most modern women have nothing to leverage anymore, but they expect everything to be done by the man and they reciprocate nothing in return. Sex alone is not enough, but modern women think it is because that's what they're taught.

[@mediasawdust2458]

"On our first date, I asked her if I could give her a goodnight kiss on the cheek, she bent over" -Rodney Dangerfield.

[@RoughNek72]

Hahaha!!! Oofff.

[@dknollRX7]

“Maybe she could help me straighten out my Longfellow.”

[@BWater-yq3jx]

Disgustingly inappropriate. That's for the 2nd date.

[@truthimagination2997]

LMAO! Shot out to him; RIP!

[@z400racer37]

Not gonna lie, read it in his voice 😂😂👍🏼

[@nokibnoor3027]

I really appreciate how consistent Courtney is with her content. Bless.

[@nick9202]

Courtney you give such a pleasant and fresh take on many topics. I started watching Teddy and found your channel that way. I am staying because your content you put out is so well thought out and awesome! Thank you :)

[@walkerb1734]

My favorite place is an art museum. It’s active (walking around), cultural, and gives you tons of interesting things to talk about.

[@stevec3526]

Me too, but that does not work for many women. My wife loves doing so, but she is very artistic.

[@BriannaLifeCoach]

For the first date absolutely not unless we’ve been dating because that requires zero effort and most of them a free

[@walkerb1734]

@@BriannaLifeCoach What would be your #1 choice?

[@stevec3526]

@@BriannaLifeCoach 2 adults tickets for the Seattle Art Museum are $50-60.

[@kreaturae]

Well there you go… Check out Rose… I guess if it’s free it’s not worth it… Red flag anyone?

[@Urbrainongaming]

I'm in the process of trying to salvage a relationship I really care about, and your channel has been tremendously helpful. Thank you so much Courtney. The most helpful actually, and I get around on KZbin. I find your content to be the most practical and thoughtful for my position. ❤.

[@venom7558]

Thanks again for the wonderful advice! Taking someone to the movies used to be a go to for me,but you're right. A date is like a fun interview. It's hard to get to know someone sitting in a loud theater.

[@EsliJohn]

Courtney is the sister I never had just live her❤️❤️

[@CourtneyRyan]

🥰🥰🥰

[@Mogamishu]

Did you know her boyfriend is really tall? He is at least 6'3". Probably even taller.

[@dylanvanzyl401]

@@Mogamishu How do you know?

[@IrishScribbler]

@@Mogamishu What on earth has that got to do with anything??

[@CourtneyRyan]

@@IrishScribbler this dude is so weird. He comments this on every video along with tons of other bizarre things. My boyfriend is 5’11 hahahaha

[@mr.zwilliams7389]

Best first date I organized for an ex. Planned a night out to the local sea side restaurant followed by a walk out on the dunes on a secluded part of the beach to watch the shooting stars burst above the ocean while we discussed who we are and what we wanted out of life. It was a success 🥰

[@dontjudgeme58]

Great advice Courtney. You brought up good points that I had never even considered like movies being a poor place to get to know someone on a date. I would definitely like to see a video of you explaining what the best places are to have a first date.

[@ryanvlot2998]

You have such a calm voice to listen to!

[@IDHE007]

The arcade is 1 of my favorites, atleast the ones in NY are damn near built for adults. Drinks, food, bowling, cool & fun interactive games. It’s so easy to have fun & let loose.

[@jhonreckner9155]

Bro that’s a good idea but arcades in ny are crazy expensive now. The little drinks and foods are overpriced but even the games are expensive. I think you’ll spend from $60-$100 which is fine but not for an arcade.

[@davidbodenschatz6478]

Yes, a top 5 good places for a first date video would be great. I hope mini-golf makes the list 😎

[@CourtneyRyan]

I went to mini golf for a first date once and it was sooo fun!

[@zombieslayer7759]

Mini golf is actually not a bad idea. The driving range would probably be a good choice too. :)

[@Mogamishu]

@@CourtneyRyan was it with a tall white guy?

[@funnyguy1256_]

@@Mogamishu yes with avery long unit. Lol i dont he needed a club either

[@Spikebert]

Woman friend suggested to me taker your date to a restaraunt in a mall-you could find out a lot about what she likes walking through it and some malls have interesting things to look at and give you something to talk about

[@runjon]

I took this woman I met to see my psychiatrist on our first date. After the hour session was over, I felt like I really knew her better.

[@rayrautio4011]

genius

[@stanhogenelst2555]

How did your psychiatrist react to the unexpected triangle date? Lol

[@drmachinewerke1]

Was it my wife

[@te9591]

@@drmachinewerke1 yes.

[@NikolajKalashnikov47]

I thought you were gonna say "And after the session, she suddenly disappeared"

[@Jefafa73]

Yes a video about GOOD first date ideas! Also if possible have the panel of girls give their perspective and tips about paying (both on a first date and any dates after).

[@erich2780]

I took this girl I recently dated for a while to the park and then we went to go get coffee afterwards. It went pretty well.

[@bullionsean456]

Bowling and putt-putt were always my go-to, classic first dates.

[@Habsforthewin]

I thought you said bowling and butt-plug....that would have earned my approval. Otherwise, Bowling and “putt-putt” for pre-pubescent teens or virgins...

[@DaherHrr]

I think bowling can be a little awkward tho because when they get up to go for their turn you’re sitting there waiting and then they awkwardly walk back to the seat and vice versa. But thats just my opinion

[@coltonnewkirk326]

I get way too aggressive/competitive with Bowling for some reason.... deffiently not the best version of myself there! 😅😅

[@bullionsean456]

@@DaherHrr never really thought about it like that tbh. I've always had fun taking girls on first dates to do some type of activity rather than just talking/sitting or talking/walking...kinda boring if you ask me. Plus you get to see if she has any type of athletic ability.

[@mohamedadan6678]

@@bullionsean456 "rather than talking"......dude.....THATS THE WHOLE POINT!!!! 🤣 if a girl and you can't vibe when just talking why bother going on a date?? I always grab ice cream and take a walk with a girl. Don't depend on an activity to keep things interesting, MAKE things interesting with your words.

[@Strive1324L]

This is great advice, Courtney. Especially about not bringing your date to your place on the first date. Because you never know their true motives because you just met this person. One first date i had went so bad, she texted me saying "are you there?" i said yes, she told me to sit at a table by the window. I did, she arrived, and told me i was at the wrong table. No joke. Then after talking awhile she practically called me a quitter because i didn't have a career like her, she was a teacher and i was working at a company doing manual work. It was a disaster, with her judgmental attitude and so on, she told me she had things to do, i said go ahead, take care of it. No goodbyes, that was it.

[@jhonnycastro383]

I feel bad to hear that, I think that either a woman or a man should be polite and kind when it comes to saying no to someone, this attitude can destroy anyone's self-esteem. I have never understood why work and social status is so important to so many women. In fact I am a civil engineer and when people ask me what I do I say that I work on construction sites, just to see their reaction, if I feel a negative reaction it is a sign that this woman is not for me

[@Strive1324L]

@K. Gábor Amen to that!😀👍

[@Loits88]

Dude, lucky you! Would you be fine with that woman? Of course not! What a nightmare of person! Thanks her for going away by herself!

[@heypaisan9384]

Great video. I think the best first dates for 21+ are the coffee/drink date. Not too expensive and you can get out of there as fast as you need to. I used to think dinner was a good idea on a first date but that can get costly and may not be worth the investment in time & money especially since you have no idea if there will be a second date. These days dinner & drinks can easily exceed $100. A piece of advice which is very important: Before the date TURN OFF YOUR PHONE, PUT IT AWAY AND DON'T TAKE IT BACK OUT UNTIL THE DATE IS OVER! Have a nice day.

[@user-cz5lj2vx1f]

You're totally RIGHT on BOTH counts. If a woman EXPECTS dinner on a first date & acts negatively because you're NOT taking her to dinner, DON'T ASK HER ON A 2ND DATE!!! (btw I'm a woman)

[@leninfranco9328]

I remember on one of Courtney's videos when she said that she gets awful comments. How can someone dislike Courtney and teddy? You have to be a sad and miserable person to dislike these two good human beings.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Awww you are the best. Thank you so much 😊

[@CourtneyRyan]

@@Mogamishu he’s 5’11 you can stop asking now hahaha

[@bambostarla6259]

@@Mogamishu Sod off. Many people and PUA's trick you to get their programs because they convince you that their product is the only way to get women conistently. As if they were selling you a quick fix and a "trick" to automatically get a girl to fall in love with you. It's not gonna work. The only way to see results is to go out and get as much experience as possible. Courtney's channel is very well made because she isn't trying to sell you a program, it's too the point and direct, and contains valuable information.

[@kamham5222]

Shes a dark and full of kink 😂

[@jsmith7888]

@@CourtneyRyan You say whoever asks the person on the date, but in society men are expected to ask the girl out out and thats what happens 90% of the time. I don't mind paying but if the girl expects for the meal to be paid for and is traditional, then she shouldn't have a problem with other traditional roles

[@Teamshmo]

If the girl brings her mom on a date it isn't weird. If you play your cards right It is about to be the best time of your life lol

[@MarcoAshford]

Meanwhile somewhere in China, guy brings his mom to date the girl and her mom. And they get married after the dinner.

[@BologneyT]

No it IS weird, but the best time of your life probably is, too! And just because it's weird doesn't mean it isn't worth it. And just because it's worth it doesn't mean it isn't weird! It's weird!

[@oskirules]

it's weird, final answer.

[@danielsoares1937]

I guess his joke went over your heads smh

[@BologneyT]

​@@danielsoares1937 I at least guessed there was a joke in there somewhere. I detected an un-gotten joke flying somewhere over my head, LOL.

[@jaymedalbeth6962]

I had to hear your soothing beautiful voice Courtney after a long day of work today ❤️

[@JeanL508]

Always a good day when Courtney uploads

[@VredesStall]

Dating for men is like a job interview. Dating for women is like shopping.

[@extraterrestrial4597]

You can be a man & you have all the rights to view it as shopping.

[@jchi6822]

Actually, men often avoid classic shopping, so....

[@somebb]

True but also a problem because it's the main reason why guys are so nervous. Find a way to flip the role in your mind and you'll have a better time and better results.

[@codychen9036]

I made a mistake having a first date at the movies. Haven’t talked to her since. Oh well, you live and learn

[@CourtneyRyan]

Haha it’s okay. Now you know for next time!

[@codychen9036]

@TheKurdishPrince second or third date maybe lol. Luckily i'm seeing someone else at the moment

[@codychen9036]

@Protect Nature that should've been my first move but i was too reluctant at the time 🤦‍♂️

[@donkeykong1234]

yeah, my worst first date was at the movies right after work - i had a long day, i was self conscious about my breath the whole time and my voice was hoarse for some reason. she didn't want anything at concession and then i found that she snuck in candy and we shared it, but i thought it was really weird as well. it wasn't her fault, just did not click anywhere, wasn't even worth the effort to try. pretty much just drove her home in silence - and it's such a shame cause she was out of my league look-wise.

[@truthimagination2997]

@@donkeykong1234 lol that's memorable!

[@pulzone05]

Going to be a good video. Always doing great videos Courtney!

[@jeffreyfigueiredo1740]

Omg Courtney that was awesome!!! Lmao about he Mom on the first date🤣🤣🤣. Can we say awkward??? I totally feel you were bang on with all of these tips especially the coffee/tea date. I personally feel this is the ultimate option because imo “Coffee can last 15 minutes where you can make a quick getaway or it can last 2-3 hours where you can finish off the date and ask the girl or tell her that you would like to get to know her even more and continue this.”

[@barryholden5774]

So taking her to the local Alcoholics Anonymous meeting is a 'no go' then :) Thanks for another great video.

[@RoughNek72]

Hahaha

[@MrAnarchris]

Unless you are both members

[@LeSyd1984]

Well, if it's your group it might be a good way to break the ice... I mean, if she doesn't block your # after that, I say you're golden!

[@jimallroggen314]

🍾🍷🥃🥂Then take her to the bar!

[@MrAnarchris]

Barry, I met your mother in AA , I'm shocked that you would say that, but your mother agrees that you are a bit of a jerk

[@ClosertoBooks]

This was a pretty good video. A few months before I started dating my girlfriend, this one guy asked her out on a first date to a shooting range. If you made a list for “worst first date activities in Texas,” that would probably have to be included. When my girlfriend and I went on our first date, it was to an art museum. Over three years later, we still enjoy visiting museums!

[@BrittPearceWatches]

SHE IS BAAAACK! With another banger! Freaking LOVED THIS!

[@jamessantaguida302]

You are a god send. And yesss please do a best first date ideas/locations

[@GEORGIOARCADE]

I liked how you worded the first date as a fun interview. You definitely want the vibe to be relaxed, lighthearted and fun. I definitely love for you to do a best places to go for a first date. I don't like the movie idea either. I wouldn't recommend a loud crowded venue or expensive restaurant. A public place for lunch yes! Plus i would be a lil nervous or scared to have girl i barely know come back to my place. I appreciate you keeping us in the game 😊🌼

[@CourtneyRyan]

Spot on! Thank you as always!! 🥰

[@Mogamishu]

@@CourtneyRyan you also forgot to mention how a guy should not bother showing interest in girls if he is short, since rejection will be guaranteed.

[@GEORGIOARCADE]

@@Mogamishu What! A guy being short shouldn't stop him from being rejected. There's someone for everyone. If you always focus on your short comings, and things you can't change like your height; it will hold you back. I know short guys who have no problems getting girls. Sure some girls may like tall guys but you can't speak for all as not every woman likes the same thing. Change your perspective.

[@CourtneyRyan]

@@GEORGIOARCADE you said it best! I dated a guy that was 5’6 (only an inch taller than me) for 3 years and I never cared.

[@GEORGIOARCADE]

@@CourtneyRyan See, that's what I'm saying. I think my cousin is like that height and my friend chris is too. I never seen them without a woman lol 😄. So height is definitely not the probelm.

[@ihateted249]

Yes! 5 best 1st date places please!

[@Honestandtruth]

Right on Courtney...... You are So Understanding and Totally Agree in everything you said here....👍👍❤️

[@MyChico0]

You are the dude I wish I had beside me when I was younger! My friends never really had this kind of good advice. Your content could (have been) Be a life changer.

[@MyChico0]

@@antonboludo8886 I'm pretty fine, I just lost a few opportunities over the years

[@antonboludo8886]

@@MyChico0 At least you are still doing well.

[@dereksmith.]

Im guilty of doing the formal dinner as a first date 😬 definitely wont do that again. It was a disaster leaving me with an empty wallet all because i felt i needed to over impress her smh dont do it guys

[@robtriton]

You don't have an AMEX card?!

[@CodeNfX]

The botanical gardens is great since I have an annual pass and can bring a guest. You have something to look, walk and talk at the same time, it’s a great setting to diffuse those silent awkward moments.

[@clarkhiggins6095]

Always, a great video. Definitely, please do a 5 best places for a first date. Thank you

[@BonyArt6]

Im literally sleeping to your videos, especially the old ones, love from Serbia, Courtney!

[@itsAsian513]

So this is why I facetime a girl first before I take her out on a date. Easiest way to pass the vibe check and you can catch red flags before you spend time and money on a first date. And plus it makes the first date feel less like a first date and just a continuation of the convo, but just in person

[@aliensoup2420]

I hope you have a good lighting and makeup crew. FaceTime makes you look your absolute worst. But then, if you can pass that, it's only smooth sailing from there - you can only look better.

[@mohamedadan6678]

I disagree, its alot like sports, as a rookie the best way to learn....IS TO PLAY! Getting thrown into the deep will make you learn fast and its the best way to learn, fuck face time just do it!

[@itsAsian513]

@@mohamedadan6678 i should have probably clarified that i usually do facetimes before first dates with girls ive met online, which is mostly where ive been meeting them esp during covid. I think most people should do this. I go on many in-person dates, but facetiming weeds out the ones that wouldnt have worked out at an early stage (kind of like interviews are for a hiring process), esp considering how economical and efficient it is (it’s free and fast). Also stops people from catfishing you lol. But i do agree with you that nothing beats an in-person date

[@itsAsian513]

@@aliensoup2420 lol maybe your lighting does that 😂 plus the facetime is to get to know somebody. Looks aint everything haha

[@antonboludo8886]

What about before the internet existed?

[@shay9096]

I think in the first date I'll go to a museum , park or a zoo , because not only they are very quite places for a talk but also they are as I get to see different historical stuff and uncommon animals which I don't know just gives me a weird connection or something with life 🤔 . Also it's fun place for any type of reunion like if I want to meet my friends I would go to these places only because they're fun at the same time quite and chill .

[@BreannaMae]

Back when I was a teen and twenty-something, romantic comedies aka "Rom Coms" were still extremely popular. So for a first date it was quite common to go out for a nice dinner, or coffee or even ice cream. There you'd have a long conversation where you get to know one another and then afterward you'd go see a romantic comedy at the local theater. Unfortunately a number of years ago there was a backlash against Rom Coms, to which they were labeled cheesy, stupid, etc., and as a result they rarely make them today. Now, as we all know, superhero/comic book-based movies are extremely popular. With that said, there's really nothing date-worthy to see in the theater anyway. If you're going to see a movie together at the theater, save it for later on in the relationship rather than the first date. As Courtney stated in the video, the first date is all about getting to know the person. So find things to do that will allow the both of you to get to know one another. The problem with relationships today is that people aren't really getting to know one another. Sadly it's all about the hook up culture these days rather than true relationships. Everyone is so quick to jump into bed with each other, instead of learning everything they can about the person so they can potentially have a future with them. As a single woman going into my 40's, I'm looking for a man to settle down with, not to hook up with. I'm not interested in sex on the first, second, or third dates ...or even further into the relationship. For me, sex will be held off until marriage and it's something I'm strict about. So if I meet someone and all they want is to hook up, I won't continue with them. The ever prevalent hook up culture is one of the many things wrong with our world today actually.

[@andrewkayla7994]

Glad it's a current video. Bless you

[@liamcage7208]

I heard a story of a first date where the girl brought a couple of her friends and expected the guy to pay for everyone's meal. The whole date she just talked and interacted with her friends. Clearly she was only on the date for a free meal for her and her friends so the guy ordered another round of drinks for everyone, excused himself to go to the restroom then slipped out the back leaving his "date" to pick up the bill.

[@marlonmoncrieffe0728]

🙌 Hell, yeah!

[@maxalmonte14]

"if you are more of an alcoholic... drink person", I saw what you did there 😂😂

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂😂😂😂

[@34visciousvideos34]

Would definitely love a video on the 5 best places to go on a first day!!

[@siddheshmirjankar910]

Hi Courtney. Could you also make a video about best places to go on a first date? That would help me a lot. I struggle with getting second dates. Would you also be able to shed some light on things that should be done on the first date that increases the chances of getting a second date? As always, amazing video :)

[@Nmagg1776]

I really appreciate this as someone getting back into dating after a devoice. Can you give us 5 places to go on a first date.

[@antonboludo8886]

You are divorced? Why bother with dating? Just become a PUA.

[@lecruset]

@@antonboludo8886 PUA?

[@antonboludo8886]

@@lecruset Yes, in the early 2000s

[@lecruset]

@@antonboludo8886 I was wondering what a PUA was.

[@antonboludo8886]

@@lecruset Read "The Game" by Neil Strauss.

[@fjrnate]

If I brought my date to my place I'm not sure how my wife would react.

[@undefinedvariable8085]

Just text her on your way back, "Hey honey, I'm bringing home the 3rd. Get the satin sheets out."

[@tripleseven8328]

Why are you even here😂😂😂

[@mevinlettchernongkynrih5914]

Keep up with the good work Courtney!👍🏼🖤

[@keithbrunson7190]

This was great Courtney. I’m a veteran dater, so I like how you shaped your presentation to fit the times. Bars are now obsolete for first dates, but ten years ago that’s where she Wanted to go. She Wanted to get a little drunk. Things are different now. They really are.

[@diax14]

Bringing the mom is new, never heard that one before. I bet it was awkward for a first date.

[@rehmaanfatahu1272]

Next time please make a video on the 5 best places to go on a first date. I'm curious to know about that.

[@kratos1553]

Courtney please do one on the best places!

[@ajjames9065]

Spot on. Although I do meet women at a bar for a cocktail, but we ensure that it's a decently quiet place. Great video!

[@zaidthakur4117]

Can you make a video on how to get a first date?😅 Especially when you just see someone and do not know who they are and want to know them😅

[@aliensoup2420]

#5 Had a girl I met online invite me to her place for a 1st meeting. I think it was her birthday and her family was there. They all behaved as though I was her boyfriend. They had a cake and they posed the 2 of us for a photo, cutting the cake like we just got married. They were all nice people but I couldn't wait to get out of there.

[@pauldillingham6316]

Don't ever date a Chinese woman then.

[@ironmatto3]

OOOF

[@zakariyejama2027]

great video Courtney thanks this really helps alot i can't thank you enough

[@bryanadams5091]

Great stuff as usual, thank you! Yes please do 5 good ideas.

[@admirbarucija2018]

Some bad ideas I can think of are a really fancy restaurant for the first date or a movie theater (unless it’s followed up by something afterward )!

[@badrequest5596]

or before. if you already spent a couple of hours talking to each other one of those should be okay as a followup

[@CourtneyRyan]

You got it!

[@admirbarucija2018]

@@CourtneyRyan Yay! 🙌🏻

[@GarryGraves]

I was SSSOOOOO looking forward to hearing funeral but it never came 😂😂

[@herbcruz4697]

A funeral ain't a date, though.

[@coldservings]

As someone who has issues with "getting" social cues to begin with I would definitely like to see a "best places for a first date" video.

[@mevinlettchernongkynrih5914]

Keep being consistent!🙌🏼🖤

[@stevenglock]

“Never spend over $100 on any date ever”. Tom Leykis, the god of dating

[@mongrlle862]

Who tf spends $100 on a date

[@stevenglock]

@@mongrlle862 live in California. Dairy Queen is not an option

[@bobfg3130]

When did he say that? If it was 10 years ago that's $140 today. Inflation is real.

[@stevenglock]

@@bobfg3130 where are you listening to Leykis these days?

[@bobfg3130]

@@stevenglock I'm not. Inflation is a thing. Just basic facts. In 10 years things get more expensive.

[@jvyeknom]

Courtney it's going to be mandatory that whenever you make a "don't do" video you have to follow it up with a "things to do" video.

[@davidsosa256]

Great tips Courtney, please make a top 10 places to go on a first date. Do women care about the place chosen? I like that you give advice from a emotional & rational women's perspective. Keep it up!

[@skinnygumbo9555]

Always looking for new first date ideas!

[@baldhero6850]

I took a girl to a petting farm once, she loved it. On our way to dinner she couldn’t stop talking about the baby alpaca. 🦙

[@andreamagyar5541]

Very sweet☺. Best first date for animal lovers .

[@pellegrino1941]

Soo the zoo is a great place 🙂

[@baldhero6850]

@@pellegrino1941 it’s has to be interactive. Watching animals is kinda boring.

[@joshuaa.kennedy8837]

@@pellegrino1941 zoo have petting sections for children as well but this category is more for like 2and or 3rd because babies. You need to know if she wants children and if she can be a good mother.

[@ab3585]

Stop living in a perfect world if a woman really likes you it doesn't matter where you take her

[@c.j.6891]

Yes...really enjoying your video's. I would enjoy a video on best places to take a date. Thx Courtney👋

[@isaacaccomando435]

Thank you for saying that movies are a bad first date. I agree.

[@rafaelsocorro3363]

The first date take them to McDonald's laughing out loud 😄

[@Firesword534]

I'd say another bad idea for a first date would be a sporting event. Attention is going to be divided between watching the event and spending time with the person you're with. Best and last first date I ever went on was meeting her at a Panera for lunch. Eleven years later we're still happily married and have two wonderful kids.

[@marlonmoncrieffe0728]

Aw, I live near TWO major stadiums (in New York City) and I thought a sporting event would be a good idea!

[@Firesword534]

@@marlonmoncrieffe0728 Maybe for a second date. Spend the first date getting to know them. If you have sports in common it could be a great date idea.

[@El6abriel]

I think a movie can be a good warm up for something like dinner afterwards to have something to talk about and potentially agree/disagree on

[@mdtorres_76]

Thanks for the tips Courtney. Its a good update. Last time I dated was in 2017. Good thing you mentioned about non-formal dinner, then for me, to visit amazing places in a city, have a walk and chat (what you think?).

[@elgar6743]

Anything more than a daytime 30 minute coffee or ice cream sharing experience is an absolute NO NO for a 'first date'. Read that again if you have to. Don't overthink it...it's not that complicated.

[@John.Doe-OG]

If my first date showed up with her mom, I'd just hand them a $20 for dinner and leave.

[@ignitetheinferno1858]

Yeah, I'm there to date the girl, not the mom.

[@robtriton]

Exactly

[@scottbrown7415]

Depends on what the Mom looks like. The odds of getting a winner are even better if you can talk them into including a sister,Aunt and or first cousin!

[@vendetta5051]

Things that get the heart raising, and are scary or new experiences makes the date memorable to the other person.

[@unappealingundesirable2826]

No! I fully agree with you, Courtney. On a first date, meet in a PUBLIC place. Don't go into a private place, like a hotel room (if he's visiting you from another city), or his or her place, because you don't know them well enough, to know that they "won't betray you and violate you." And, even on a third or fourth date, I would ask HER to text two or three of her friends, when she goes into my place, and afterwards when she is safely back in her car.

[@christopherroberts2557]

1. The movies 2. Back to your place 3. A formal dinner 4. A bar 5. Plus 1 to a party, wedding etc

[@ShreySinha]

LETS GOOOO

[@CourtneyRyan]

😎👏🏼

[@TheHornet1fan]

Thanks ,please do a segment on the best places to go on a first date.

[@Chris-ne5sf]

Totally agree: movie theaters. Movie dates are sooo boring! The best movie date would be at a home and then it should be a movie that yall can have fun with/discuss, but even this, this falls in the the home issue where it only works if it's a first date with a friend that you want to turn into something more.

[@Albanianguy9]

Okay next video, 5 best places to go if you JUST want to hook up😂

[@donhammond4856]

Facts !!! Let's get that courtney

[@Mogamishu]

Biggest mistakes guys make with girls: *Being short. *Being ugly. *Being poor. *Having low SMV (Sexual Market Value). *Living with your parents. *Being a student. *Not having a car. *Not having tattoos. *Smiling too much.

[@Mogamishu]

@OmWIR uT7qu just to p i s s off people like you. Why are you on every comment I make whining because you can not handle the truth?

[@Mogamishu]

@OmWIR uT7qu yeah. That is nice. Good for you.

[@pellegrino1941]

Someone Else wo wo wo being short bro that doesn’t sound fair any guy can be short

[@adammiller6606]

Best date places would be helpful. Appreciate your work.

[@Tendoichi]

I just randomly found this channel and decided to give few videos a shot out of curiosity and... OMG! I feel like this girl has a man's mentality. Absolute spot on about most things in men. She's the second girl I know about that understands men so well (the first one being my best female friend). And believe me, I work in a field where 90% are women and I know women in their 40s that are not even close to that! I basically agree with everything so far from the videos that I have watched. But the argument for why movies are bad choice for a first date was already the point where I had to write this comment because I always thought the same....

[@vwsandvettes3253]

i know next to nothing about what women want/need/like , but I would imagine going hiking or meeting at a coffee shop would allow you and her to get to talk in a more relaxed setting (ok hiking might not be so relaxed but talking can still happen :-)). Good conversation would quickly let you know if the two of you are a match or not. My .02. I fully agree the movies or a fancy restaurant are out due to either the awkward silence or stuffing your faces in front of each other lol!

[@tricky92x]

Drinks at a lounge is always a great idea. You get the chill atmosphere of a coffee shop, without throwing caffeine on top of your already anxious state.

[@doiyama4575]

Good advice as always Love your channel and yes do a top 5 good places for a first date

[@OGkingDC]

My go-to is typically a gastropub or izakaya type sushi bar. Then you can normally share some food, while also getting decent drinks, and it's not too chaotic. Normally if things are going well, you can go to an actual bar or somewhere else after.