Survivor's Guilt and Moving On

Survivor's Guilt and Moving On. Survivor's Guilt and How to Move On. John talks about the feelings many people experience after a tragic event of a death or trauma. Many people experience false guilt or Survivor's guilt and they wonder how they will be able to move on with life. John offers encouragement and some helpful information. This video is dedicated to the students, parents and staff of the high school involved in the masse shooting in Parkland, Florida. John was asked to produce this video for the parents and students.
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John Cordray is a National Certified Therapist and he has been helping people learn to keep calm since 2005. Stop making excuses for feeling bad, stop blaming others for your behavior, and start taking action on your life right now!
John is one of the few therapists who leverages social media and live-streaming platforms to reach a vast audience needing to hear his message. John also uses his expertise in psychology and human behavior as a business consultant and motivational speaker to encourage and inspire people from all walks of life take ownership of their mindset. A good example of leveraging the power of social media and bridging it with psychology, John spoke (twice) at The Periscope Summit in 2016 on overcoming the mindset of public speaking/broadcasting and cyber bullying.
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[@afoninja121]

Not dealing with this topic myself, but researching it for a book I'm writing. Good information.

[@Efexpe]

Its an incredible battle. I lost my love at 12. Found her on her floor. Heroine overdose. The truth is, i had no control over any of it. Completely powerless

[@carldevis]

Awsome session really helped alot thank u so much and please come back to periscope again

[@debhufnagel5912]

carldevis if you don't get counseling soon enough that stuff (which was my case) sticks with you. We're talking that happened 28 years ago. I never got counseling until I was an adult. I was 5 when that happened, I am 33 now.

[@carldevis]

Deb Hufnagel i always go to my councilor after every 2 months

[@JohnCordray]

Hi carldevis, good to hear from you. I'm glad that this video helped! I do miss Periscope and may be back on again. Take care, John

[@philiplauritzenjr.2711]

I lost my bestfriend to drug addiction. The same pills I did in front of him, he lost his life to. It’s a battle for sure. A war, even. But we are worthy of our own forgiveness. Never forget that.

[@Skeletongentleman7808]

Can we ever go back to who we were? I haven’t felt like me for a year now, when does the guilt end?

[@Rollercoaster555]

Never for me 54 years 5/11/69 Quang Nam province

[@debhufnagel5912]

What if you are the one who was blamed for being alive?

[@JohnCordray]

Hi Deb, that would be horrible. Don't listen or believe what they are saying. People say and do things that they don't really mean in the moment of grief. John

[@debhufnagel5912]

John P Cordray I have been told that for my first 21 years.

[@rexremedy1733]

No one has a right to blame another person for simply being or remaining alive.

[@rexremedy1733]

@@debhufnagel5912 this sounds like abuse. I am no psychologist, but maybe this is something a real psychologist could help with. Seriously. And it’s no weakness on your side to consult a doctor or psychologist with this experience. Because that’s what people who blame someone for being alive could try to dissuade you from seeking help to protect themselves from responsibility.