Nagging hardly works, ever.. but never expressing your own needs and hopes won't help either. If the man is not interested (enough), then.. all the attention in the world will not change his mind. It has to be a mutual strong desire to be connected..
@dellchica23735 жыл бұрын
You can't leave this empty awww....
@SR777365 жыл бұрын
Damned if you do and don't.
@UnexpectedWonder4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, he's gotta desire to change just like she does. It's always a two-way street.
@Xlife0183 жыл бұрын
I've realized that if you give your partner reasons that make them want to do what you are looking for, only then they actually do it. So for example, if you want to see them often then asking wont work. But if the time you 2 spent together is really enjoyable, then they will automatically want to have more of it.
@casey99205 жыл бұрын
You seriously need your own TV show
@rsbroshan77834 жыл бұрын
My sentiments exactly
@mehula_p20224 жыл бұрын
She would lose her real life clients. She can do her tv show much later in life when she’s had much more myriad of real client experiences.
@UnexpectedWonder4 жыл бұрын
I concur wholeheartedly on that one.
@theemperor20173 жыл бұрын
Welcome to Susan KZbin television 📺. Lol
@bluebellbeatnik49456 ай бұрын
@@mehula_p2022 wtf is this comment?
@BlackNella4 жыл бұрын
I'm so grateful for these videos because a session is waaaaay out of my price range.
@theemperor20173 жыл бұрын
And so are you darlin'. Your're PRICELESS💜💮
@acd11682 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@igatti99234 жыл бұрын
I disappeared. I felt so dejected that I thought “I go my way” ( I didn’t even pushed too hard because I was constantly afraid to bother them and be discarded) only to find out, months later, that they wanted to stay with me in a committed way but they pulled the card of the difficult task only to feel less insecure. The result of this brilliant strategy of theirs was that I let go and stopped being interested in them. It happened with 2 people. They would have liked to give an other try to the relationship but I felt too humiliated so I just said “no”.
@louisemc36804 жыл бұрын
You did the right thing- they didn't respect you so they lost you. The loss is theirs- NEXT! ;)
@truthteller44423 жыл бұрын
It's a common thing, nowadays. Most people aren't pulling away because of seeing someone else. They're pulling away because they feel insecure as hell, they are too soft and were raised to not be able to tolerate uncomfortable things, and as a result, they take the easy way out and road less travelled.
@lalixlili3 жыл бұрын
Same here. I let go and blocked him, then 15 days later I cussed him out. I am done. I was hospitalized and sick then him coming back at me agressively and very mean.... I am done and interested in other men.
@anjcruz87745 жыл бұрын
Shifting the energy to yourself is so powerful ;) Be the person you wanted to attract. Thank you Susan, this comes really on time. Ive been practicing the laws of the universe, and it amazingly bring abundance and gratitude in my life. I already feel I have what I wanted in my life. The universe will always bring it, and I know its already part of me, by thoughts, my actions, my words, and my feelings ❤️
@SusanWinter5 жыл бұрын
I'm so pleased to read this, Anj.
@dellchica23735 жыл бұрын
Anj Cruz hi how do you reach shift to that stage??
@anjcruz87745 жыл бұрын
@@dellchica2373 hi, you can watch The Secret Movie, they can explain it well better than I do. :)
@rsbroshan77834 жыл бұрын
Well said
@theemperor20173 жыл бұрын
@@SusanWinter the allegory about ya best friend, friend has such beaut and rare💮🕊
@illinoisvideoatlarge80395 жыл бұрын
Notes: Your energy and dating. What do I want to happen in this relationship? Have you been applying pressure? Are you needing assistance? Humans do not respond well to being pushed. Watch what does work. Do not nag. Express yourself. Find another door. humor, letting go, make fun of it, appreciation on other things, stand back and see what else you could do ..try another angle, break your pattern... your shift will create a partner shift. Use a different angle.
@Phaedrus-th7bi2 жыл бұрын
Towards the end of this a thought shot through my head: My wife has never understood the more she nags me to fix this or that around the house, the less I am actually likely to do it. When she finally shuts up, I usually have it fixed within two days. To the ladies out there watching this, tell your hubby do do something no more than twice and never say it twice in the same day. He is not lazy and he is not stupid, he just doesn't want to feel like he is giving into the nagging. It is a matter of self-respect. "Pushing builds resistance." That is good advice.
@caroh28095 жыл бұрын
This is so true. If you keep doing the same thing expect the same result. I had the exact same experience as your friend. I was pushing for his attention and he was overwhelmed and deploying limitations left, right and centre. In the end I backed off through simply giving up more than anything. All of a sudden he was keeping dates in his diary free for me whether I could make them or not, he became much more emotionally invested in the time we did spend together, tried to please me in every which way. Everything I’d wanted. It was simply a matter of letting him make the choice for himself. He’s not easy to get the attention of - even now I still have issues but I have definitely learnt that putting pressure on definitely, as you say, created resistance. In the end every step forward in our relationship began with me wanting it first, him showing a ‘no’, me giving up, him doing it all by himself. So I 100% agree. I knew this would be a great video 😉 xx
@OlderWomenRock5 жыл бұрын
Caro H so glad this worked for you . When I tried everything possible to affect change with my ex partner well nothing changed . Then I tried to accept what I didn’t like , things that hurt me but I wasn’t able to accept what went against the grain of what I needed . He assumed I had resolved my displeasure of his behaviour and kept doing it . Well I hadn’t , I tried to come to terms with it . I could not . I knew even more I was with the wrong man . My needs were unmet and would remain so.
@caroh28095 жыл бұрын
Older Women Rock I agree that there felt like there was an element of compromising my needs at first but I was lucky in that he responded favourably. That’s not to say we don’t have issues still but I think it does give credence to Susan’s theory of ‘if you aren’t getting results change what you’re doing’. In some instances it’s not going to make the difference. When I changed things up I was all but giving up and looking for a way to let go with the least amount of pain for myself. So I guess what transpired felt miraculous. In so many situations it’s true to say that we need to look at what we’re doing rather than expecting the situation to change and sometimes that is walking away. And that takes a lot of strength so well done you! 😘
@OlderWomenRock5 жыл бұрын
Caro H Thanks so much actually he left me first , he beat me to it lol I’m hopeless at ending relationships . I was aiming to leave this ex though . The situation was he only had one foot in and I was wanting all the things you expect from a man who is all in , in love . Crazy thing is I only had one foot in too and wasn’t in love yet I still needed a certain amount of attention and consideration . Anyway glad it worked out for you .
@caroh28095 жыл бұрын
Older Women Rock 😆 Lol. Heh I’m with you on the not being able to leave a relationship thing. I’m not out of the woods yet but at least heading in the right direction. Susan has been instrumental in me surviving so far. Good luck on your journey honey! 😘
@dellchica23735 жыл бұрын
Thats lovely!!! Glad for you....so let the man lead??
@shanitawalker21035 жыл бұрын
This is great information for those who still want the other person after numerous attempts have failed. Me, myself? If someone seems uninterested or doesn't want to give effort, I go mute, lose interest and move on. That's when the guy tries to come back, but it's too little too late and then I'm labeled as "cold" or "stubborn" when the issue is that I don't want to beg for something that the other person doesn't want to give.
@RHammer19834 жыл бұрын
This works like a charm. We always use resentment to point fingers when really it’s the energy we’re giving off and the reactions we’re having that makes that person not trust you to come back. Then they do when you change your approach.
@redsonja13955 жыл бұрын
This is really good advice, because not only does it apply to dating, but to your life in general as well. When you are unhappy with a situation, whether it is work or with a friend or anything really, it's all about YOU being the change you want to see. Getting a new perspective, taking a new approach, trying something different is often the key to problem solving!
@jannieschluter96705 жыл бұрын
Thank you for everything, Susan. I admire your strong and powerful character, feminine energy, and attitude so much, this is so attractive. You have been so important to me and to my personal development. My prayers for you.
@SusanWinter5 жыл бұрын
awww. thank you Jannie!!
@HappyNatallie5 жыл бұрын
I dont have fluent english and strong skills in relationships but i feel with my heart that susan is sensior and kind.)
@SusanWinter5 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@OlderWomenRock5 жыл бұрын
Susan , I think your information and advice is top notch . I love the way you explain in a straight forward easy to grasp manner. You consistently help remind us to not settle and stop making excuses for another and more so to ourselves . ❤️
@OlderWomenRock5 жыл бұрын
You can't leave this empty so agree 😊
@SusanWinter5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Older Women Rock!!
@SusanWinter5 жыл бұрын
@You can't leave this empty I appreciate this. Thank you.
@rubaa.32975 жыл бұрын
There's someone in my life whom I've been getting to know, and to whom I've been wanting to get closer. We both are mindful of this. He once said he's much more likely to open up to children than adults. When asked why, he explained that "children don't try". That was an "aha!" moment for me. He didn't seem to like all my **efforts** to get to know him, which explains why he had been resistant for quite sometime. He doesn't like Q&As. He prefers an organic, natural connection where the person doesn't "try"...at all. Mind you, it does take much effort to not "try", especially when you're a person who is used to doing, and especially when you're aching to get closer to someone, and don't want to have to wait long for that to happen.
@Fallen_Venus5 жыл бұрын
This will only work if the partner is not ultimately opposed to actually being with you and ultimately working on a future with you...even if they're not fully aware they are yet! They need to be progressing in the relationship and having enough level of commitment to be open to a change of tactic or laying off of pressure.
@adasanti73123 жыл бұрын
Altering perspective is so powerful! Thank you, Susan.
@SusanWinter3 жыл бұрын
It really is!
@KristinAlayna5 жыл бұрын
I've tried everything. I'm done. It would take a divine miracle to change my mind.
@mehula_p20224 жыл бұрын
I love you Susan. You’re the best! As much as I want you to have your own show targeting a huge audience, I’d like you to be here as well with few handful of us viewers. It feels cozy. Don’t get me wrong. But you’re my internet-Mom. Keep being awesome and keep touching lives.
@jessicapamel45275 жыл бұрын
Wooow! I love how you deliver your message. Very precise and on point. You have this commanding presence that really made me listen to you. Thank God I found you.
@johnrambo28764 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate that you don't make it men versus women with your videos. I'm glad to have found your channel and subscribed😎
@coachbahman5 жыл бұрын
Love this. Thank you. Someone needs to talk about this
@SusanWinter5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that, Your Favorite Lifecoach
@Jess_sensation5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Susan, this video arrives just on time. I needed this. I've been pursuing and pushing for a relationship, and it hasn't worked out, yet. I guess maybe it's time for me to stop pushing and give space. Thanks for your advice!
@pkk2122 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Susan for this video, I needed to hear this 💜
@minidocstv33393 жыл бұрын
I love her so much she helps my nerves
@blackwidow83025 жыл бұрын
You are my guardian angel. ❤️
@rsbroshan77834 жыл бұрын
I agree
@nicoletobey23565 жыл бұрын
Hi , thank you for your video! My ex & I were together for 1 1/2 yrs & he started detaching in the last 6 months. We have been in no contact since last November so almost 6 months. I had told him I would support him & be his friend until we were able to rebuild our relationship because he was telling me he couldn’t give me what I needed or deserved.I got needy & clingy. There was a woman who had a crush on him & he told me they went on a date before he met me but it ended up being a play date with their kids. Last July when we were still together he was caught at the playground by a mutual friend of ours having takeout dinner with her at the picnic tables. They had different takeout dinners & he claimed that they met there by coincidence-she took her 7 year old son there to play & he took his 16 year old son there to do Pokémoning. When I found call logs to & from her on his phone, he told me he didn’t even like her or respect her & wanted nothing to do with her. He told this to mutual friends as well. Just saw your other video on how that is a sign that they are on the opposite end of the pendulum & that they are indeed interested but they’re not sure what to do with it. He is now with her, I believe they are boyfriend & girlfriend & I see them around town often. In November, a friend of mine saw them kissing in the parking lot where she works. We were established as only friends at that point. I texted him that he was seen kissing her & he texted back “ok, I was there”. I then texted him, “do you love me yes or no “he responded “farewell no”. Six months out & I am in so much pain still. I know this is a quick glimpse of my situation & there’s so much more-like how when I told him in the summer you’re not prioritizing me & I broke up with him in a push pull dynamic, we came back together then I broke up with him again & we came back together again then he did the breaking up & coming back. After my initial break up in August there were emotionally intense, not sexual, messages to another female friend of his. Things that said I’m tired from work I wish I could snuggle with you I would sleep for days &” we have a friendship and love to never be forgotten.” I also found messages to other women on Instagram & Facebook messenger that said the same phrases that he said to me such as “good morning beautiful, thinking of you, you’re amazing”. He needs validation because of his attachment traumas & his low self-esteem, I understand this. He was sincerely apologetic & said he I had given him a lot to think about and work on within himself but then he just jumped into this relationship with the one he’s with now. Am I crazy? Am I stupid? I’m still pulling for a miracle here. Thank you for any feedback you’re able to give 🙏🏻~Nicole
@oneoutoftheninety-nine.33144 жыл бұрын
Thank you again. I just discovered you last night! I'm so enlightened. You do t know how much I thank you.
@aliciav635 жыл бұрын
God i needed to hear this today
@rickki63 жыл бұрын
Ditto
@alexandramaria77545 жыл бұрын
Hello Susan, I think it's very important to find out how are they attachment style and even our. When we do know our attachment style we can provide the an immeasurable benefit and contribute to have more successful relationships. :) Great video :)
@zzz-cb3xe2 жыл бұрын
You are the best Susan Winter
@gunes1545 жыл бұрын
we need to work and maintain our own core beliefs .. thoughts .. feelings .. needy feelings .. as within so with-out
@renataathanasiou28265 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all your videos Susan. All very helpful.
@richiecola94843 жыл бұрын
When I was single I was envious to my friends who got relationship problems now im in their shoes i wanna be single again..sometimes😝
@denniscaressa11514 жыл бұрын
she's right!! and confirms AGAIN my thoughts & inner gut feeling!!
@SorrentoShore5 жыл бұрын
Really loving your advice. Just got back in the flow, starting a new relationship...need your advice after being single for many years! I am jumping in and not letting presuppositions take over in my busy mind. THANK YOU!! for your advice
@UnexpectedWonder4 жыл бұрын
Great Wisdom and Council on this one. It reminds me of what my Parents and various pastors have said over the years.
@evaderxo24813 жыл бұрын
Susan winter is the GOAT
@savelikeaprowithleah51575 жыл бұрын
Super informative! Thanks for sharing! Have a great day!
@nikkobowen30523 жыл бұрын
Susan, you are the best!
@bluebellbeatnik49456 ай бұрын
Oh I actually think I was quite pushy with the ghoster. I really think I gave him a list of what I was not happy with.
@stormfalcon724 жыл бұрын
Aaagh! I needed this video six weeks ago. Thank you for the insightful perspective.
@rajesha98424 жыл бұрын
Thank you. This helps.. Your videos are simple & effective.
@Kenzie13875 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your advice I’m about to try what you recommend. I’ll keep you posted.
@rsbroshan77834 жыл бұрын
I too plan the same
@james73075 жыл бұрын
This question is somewhat in the same arena. Felt one of those fabulous connectionns that only happens once , maybe twice in a lifetime with a lady. Over the next several months our conversations would go on endlessly when I saw her at the gym. We had so much in common it was amazing. The other day we started talking about a program I am a contractor in for an agency of the govt. It involves a little known and under publicized principle of remote viewing. In essence it allows one to project into the future or find answers to things that the tasker may inquire about; some might liken it to having ESP but it is a scientific process. In short she kept badgering me for an answer to a question she had. I already knew the question as I was unfortunately born with the psychic gift as well. I made the mistake of answering her question without her directly asking and it must have literally "obliterated" her world as the next day she informed me she was being transferred to a neighboring city by her employer and this would be her last day at this city. From this point on our conversations were pointed and lost its magic. The look in her eyes seemed to disappear .
@michaelmiller84555 жыл бұрын
I was born with the gift too. I didn't ask for these powers. A little about me: I can always guess how many jelly beans are in a jar; even if I'm wrong. I'm 14 years-old. I type 75 words per minute with only 300 errors.
@shitherdadsays92962 жыл бұрын
Very helpful video! Thank you!😊
@muhdshahmee5 жыл бұрын
I tried it...it so effective
@brsugarbabe5 жыл бұрын
What about when you are in a long term relationship of two years? This is the first time he has pulled away.
@SusanWinter5 жыл бұрын
Same answer. Shift.
@mctrollz96282 жыл бұрын
...your weight
@ralsgradi20545 жыл бұрын
If nothing changes...nothing changes!
@katybrooke07243 жыл бұрын
needed this! thank you! pull back some... need to shift.
@INCA_4 жыл бұрын
Q sensata y logica tu charla. Muy buena!!!
@dellchica23735 жыл бұрын
1. What do i want this person to do? 2. What have i done? 3. Am i meeting resistence?
@hellomynameis6885 жыл бұрын
So beneficial!!! Thank you!
@carolinaflaxman67404 жыл бұрын
This video really spoke with me exactly what I need to hear now about my situation thank you 😊!! Wish I could talk to you for a consultation section
@northernlight46143 жыл бұрын
Makes good sense.
@edgarscirulis11294 жыл бұрын
You’re gold!! You are so incredible!!
@dellchica23735 жыл бұрын
I do want a serious committed relationship, but where????
@Jemgirly3 жыл бұрын
If you can't find a good guy then it just means you're too dam picky 😘
@caroh28095 жыл бұрын
I love this video and I haven’t even watched it yet 😍
@SusanWinter5 жыл бұрын
hahah. you're awesome
@user-yv1fh3fc8y3 жыл бұрын
Plant the seed and give it time to grow. Don’t question whether you planted it. Don’t dig it up to see how it’s growing. Wait
@wilsonwilliams56553 жыл бұрын
He is a great powerful man who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago without delay 💯 💯 💯
@byrdgriffin77865 жыл бұрын
Mrs Susan you are great
@bongkoymil6199 Жыл бұрын
This is a good advice!
@lilliankillian73663 жыл бұрын
Hi ty that was helpful change my pattern .I should change my pattern and stop calling .ty I will try that ty Susan.Lil
@amjadbashir49694 жыл бұрын
Great video, thank you so much! 😊💚🌸🌸
@yvelinacollazo93195 жыл бұрын
Oh my! Wish I would have seen this a week ago! 🙄🥴😭
@AyakoHattori20105 жыл бұрын
Thanks Susan...great video as usual, Love from Jordan
@MDBrnRaisdRDotFlynn5 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@BlackpilledBuddha64765 жыл бұрын
What do you do if your crush likes someone else and has little interest in you? Has anyone gone through this before? All thoughts are appreciated.
@dontbelieveeverythingyouhe55995 жыл бұрын
You really have no choice but to step back and let that play out while you occupy your mind with other things.
@silvershadow76555 жыл бұрын
You move on - she's just not that into you.
@intuitiveself-love95135 жыл бұрын
Go where you are celebrated. If attention shifts leave it alone lol
@dontbelieveeverythingyouhe55995 жыл бұрын
@@intuitiveself-love9513 - right?! that is the bottom line. I am there as well. I feel the pain. ; )
@dontbelieveeverythingyouhe55995 жыл бұрын
I learned that from Susan ; )
@MsRipley765 жыл бұрын
Do you believe this also could work for people who have FWB? He´s hard to read, it seems he tries to control his feelings and sometimes he just can´t and then my gut tells me he actually likes me a bit more than he admits or show me. But could he shift to wanting a relationship? I just don´t know what to do. Maybe I should just end it..
@kellystorm67603 жыл бұрын
Thank you love .
@wilsonwilliams56553 жыл бұрын
He is a great powerful man who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago without delay 💯 💯 💯
@gdubbz785 жыл бұрын
Great video as always! thank u😘
@sukoon11554 жыл бұрын
You are too good ! ❤ Thanks
@SusanWinter4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@foxyroxy1235 жыл бұрын
Great advice!
@dollyblevins29034 жыл бұрын
I’ve done the work I am a different person and I am grateful and I am deserving I will here from her again I have faith god fault my battles and I say that by faith and I believe what will be will be our love is unconditional love will win in the end patience is what I gotta do and I love who I am today
@oscarwilliamson1128 Жыл бұрын
Dolly Blevins,You are beautiful 😍,Hope you are with a good man 👨….
@gaylekemper36164 жыл бұрын
Good abvice
@Kung_Fu_Jonney4 жыл бұрын
Franky ladies. Be straight forward. It's that simple.
@daniellitton92885 жыл бұрын
Good advice
@owenbutcher19544 жыл бұрын
PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE CHEERS SUSAN 🌹🌹🌹💎💎💎🥂
@jimstevens17265 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@infinitywarrior10175 жыл бұрын
Susan Winter!!!! 🔥🔥🔥
@marciamellow12115 жыл бұрын
Why all the work? Move on to someone who really wants you... Period.
@mack_titan4 жыл бұрын
easier said than done....if you are watching this you know that and you have failed to "Move on".
@Jemgirly3 жыл бұрын
Finally someone who makes sense!
@daveneedle98895 жыл бұрын
I love this channel. Great advice always. And your gorgeous 😉
@michaelmiller84555 жыл бұрын
YOU'RE gorgeous.
@daveneedle98895 жыл бұрын
@@michaelmiller8455 aw that's lovely x
@rsbroshan77834 жыл бұрын
Superb
@monsun33655 жыл бұрын
Yes, and then you have a highly selfish person who wants you fron time to time, when she wants it, and she wants a human dog thats gonna chase after her. She says well its the way it is... Take it or leave it... I know i should leave... I know i just need to give up, i know its not worth it... The issue is if i give up she is gone for good. She wants to be in control and thats it. The problem is i dont want to let her go... But i have to, I've been pushing that relationship forward and then it blew up in my face when she said well this is not what i want... Your advice is good when you have a mature, stable person who thinks whit a straight head. But for me, that's not the case. Cuz the second i stopped pushing i saw her pull away and away until she broke up the engagement
@imenbahrini59314 жыл бұрын
Merci !!
@alexanderstevens1455 жыл бұрын
Do you know much aboit personality types and dating? I like these ideas very different.
@nathanarnold5505 жыл бұрын
What If you have tried a lot of things, but you still get no response after a month? I keep hearing 'no contact' so they miss you, but that seems counter-intuitive. I also realize writing this that I probably know the answer already, but i feel she is worth fighting for.
@NarnianLady5 жыл бұрын
As a woman I would say that show her that you care, and are there for her if she wants to connect, but do not get over her boundaries.. if she is not interested, then that needs to be respected.
@nathanarnold5505 жыл бұрын
@@NarnianLady Thank you for the response. I have tried the apology text for losing my cool which lead to the silence. I greeted her on Valentine's day. I wrote a romantic letter that was loving, Lastly, I sent flowers yesterday, and no responses at all in a month's time. Do these things show care and that I am there from a woman's view?
@NarnianLady5 жыл бұрын
@@nathanarnold550 It's hard to say as it depends on the woman. You know her, I don't.. but in your place, I would back off and just let her be. Allow her to have enough space to breathe. Let her contact you, if she so chooses. More often than not, very grandiose gestures can come across as smothering and that is the last thing you want..
@nathanarnold5505 жыл бұрын
@@NarnianLady I appreciate your insights, I will keep them in mind. I am currently on day 4 of backing off, and I am working on myself in the meantime.
@eatermckinnon46445 жыл бұрын
Man....writing love letters and sending flowers doesn't work. It looks cool in the movies but in real life, they don't like it unless you have been in a long term SERIOUS relationship then maybe. But never write love letters or send a person flowers again. You lose a lot of points from it. You be better off giving them a half eaten Reece's and say here's a gift for you
@cillia.o86333 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all you do,your advice has been so helpful..... But my question is why to I have to pull forward when it's obvious he is pulling away????
@wilsonwilliams56553 жыл бұрын
He is a great and powerful man who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago without delay 💯 💯 💯
@wilsonwilliams56553 жыл бұрын
He is a great and powerful man who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago without delay 💯 💯 💯
@cathrinekatsigianni88234 жыл бұрын
Susan? I have done the very opposite. I usually give too much but need to expels my own needs too but still not doing it!!
@catherinedike64465 жыл бұрын
I love you Susan❤
@amyyorke27314 жыл бұрын
What about if someone is giving you mixed signals (could potentially be biased because I like this person) being told that he hopes I find someone, but also that he misses me, calling and messaging me daily, messaging me "sweet dreams" (only if I message it first). So confused :( Anyone's opinion on this would be great.
@johnrambo28764 жыл бұрын
I would only do that if I was interested. I would suggest letting him know you do like him if there's any doubt. He may be playing safe, saying he hopes you find someone to avoid embarrassing himself.
@ParisianStreets5 жыл бұрын
nice nail color
@Sonia-36034 жыл бұрын
❤ this video
@leeanncarriere3995 жыл бұрын
How do I stop thinking and obsessing over someone
@kaylasheppard77465 жыл бұрын
She has a great video on that
@SurlyMontanan4 жыл бұрын
What if nothing works?
@kubrakhan1114 жыл бұрын
Your incredible 🌹
@pinkbutterfly18885 жыл бұрын
What if we stop pushing and they just walk away thinking we are over them?
@phoenixrising80074 жыл бұрын
If they pull away then you step back, it’s a dance so follow their lead
@sshuteandrew5 жыл бұрын
When an ex is only willing to see you to have exclusive sex- no dating or reconciliation. He’s not “in a place right now” for more. Resistant for mos. Seeing him casually brought no results to opening him up. I tried no contact. Now what?
@theworkscw5 жыл бұрын
Stacey S since A year ago I’ve been on various coaching channels and I always see you commenting now and then. Genuinely not having a go at you for that by the way. You seemed to have been really affected by whatever happened to you. Are you finding it hard to move on? Like I said, I’m genuinely not having a go.
@sshuteandrew5 жыл бұрын
Dk of Sherwood 83 No offense taken- yes, you could say it’s been a rough road for me. I’m still holding onto hope. He broke up with me 16 months ago- granted it’s hard to let go when you’re still in a relationship with a person, even a casual one. He started seeing me 6 weeks post break up. I was the one who initiated contact. After 6 weeks he let his guard down enough just to enter into a physical relationship with me, but nothing more. I thought spending time together would soften his heart and build trust, but he seems set on sabotaging himself. He told me he’ll just die alone and that he has a hard time trusting. He’s not seeing anyone else but he’s also unwilling to date me or consider reconciliation at this point. I feel very vulnerable in this casual relationship with no commitment.
@sshuteandrew5 жыл бұрын
Amelia Thank you- and I agree hurt people definitely hurt people. He hurt me so much throughout this break, but he doesn’t seem to realize that. I am feeling much stronger now, but it’s been a long journey. Everything has been completely on his terms. I guess he figures if I don’t like it, I can walk. He has said more than a few times that I deserve better and he doesn’t blame me if I leave. He seems to have turned into a completely different person or maybe this is the real him. That’s even scarier to accept. I miss the old him.
@eatermckinnon46445 жыл бұрын
He is enjoying the booty without the commitment with you. And unfortunately, that might be the only thing he wants from you. It happens allll the time with people. There's some girl I don't want to commit to. But enjoy the other stuff.
@sshuteandrew5 жыл бұрын
nut so phamous I know it happens all the time, but he has genuine feelings of love for me. I don’t believe that just went away. I think he just stuffed his feelings down when he started to have doubts. He’s been honest- and were both choosing not to be with other people. He’s paralyzed in a bad place. It seems like he has depression.
@SteveDestiny745 жыл бұрын
having this issue right now and I know I do it but I just don't seem to help my self, how do you change your brain
@Nutritionistheanswer2 жыл бұрын
Don’t know if you are still following this, but pick one thing to change and focus on changing that and once that is mastered you choose a second thing
@SteveDestiny742 жыл бұрын
@@Nutritionistheanswer thanks moved on from them now but thank you for the advice
@theintenseoutdoors69994 жыл бұрын
I’m really shy when it comes to beautiful woman I’ve been hurt multiple times I just moved to utah it’s new out here for me hardly know any one what’s the best way to meet a sweet person or get to know them
@11Sunbird114 жыл бұрын
Go to a place that you like and from there maybe meet someone where the two of you have something in common. I normally frequent coffee shops or downtown exhibits and that’s normally good and well within my comfort zone. I’m shy as well and it takes some time