love that we've finally tricked andrew tate into going to therapy lmfao
@silent1823 Жыл бұрын
Was supposed to be a negative thing from you people but turns him into a good person and more respected now so 1+ Tate 0 Haters lmfaooooo
@atlantamedia9541 Жыл бұрын
@@silent1823 lol, how is it bad to wish someone go to therapy? If i want negative things to someone, i really wouldn‘t have in mind, to send my enemy to therapy :-) rofl
@misterdoingz Жыл бұрын
😊This is my first time seeing andrew owning up to his vulnerabilities and i l love him more for that. The therapist is good at it. I honestly think he should do same with more therapist, probably a series. It will benefit both Andrew and his listeners.
@ashashh1260 Жыл бұрын
@@atlantamedia9541bc why does he need therapy?
@anown315 Жыл бұрын
the tate brother once joke about how they want to meet with a therapist.@@ashashh1260
@andy.morris Жыл бұрын
The ending 2 minutes was utterly fascinating. When David says “just be present… children long for a deeper connection with their father,” Andrew’s instant reaction is to ask, “but what would we talk about?” We see from this that Andrew has never really had a real present moment or deeper connection with his father and it’s resulted in the coping method of rationalizing EVERYTHING, which has worked extremely effectively, but has also produced an almost a constant state of delusion. He’s gotten so good at it from a young age that he’s been able to build such a firm world view.
@p.m3204 Жыл бұрын
bro said a whole lotta nothin
@michaelclark1811 Жыл бұрын
@@oatsey1345maybe watch it again when you graduate from the 6th grade and you’ll get more from it than “that’s gay”
@x67th Жыл бұрын
clearly you're stuck in that closet @@oatsey1345
@chocomanhwa565 Жыл бұрын
@@oatsey1345 that is not gay
@djstanley1300 Жыл бұрын
@@oatsey1345 “fruity” “”ghey”, must be middle school. Original comment got it right
@miketython1550 Жыл бұрын
The therapist dude is so smart he stumped Andrew a few times without Andrew even noticing.Increased my respect for these guys a lot.
@Raidov13 Жыл бұрын
exactly
@itzReEvolution Жыл бұрын
@@julietrabka🤣🤣🤣
@itzReEvolution Жыл бұрын
@@julietrabkabro Andrew made his money off of women even with their consent that is still profiting of their body and flying them into a country to do that is not only sex trafficking/human trafficking and pornography. Then he made you pay money to learn how to make money.
@Esntrq Жыл бұрын
@@julietrabkaidiot 😂
@TheBananaManfromBananaLand Жыл бұрын
its funny, he has him under his control
@volodymyrkryvonos43134 ай бұрын
It's so heartwarming to see a person with strong protective mechanisms begin to open up. It's like witnessing the blooming of a beautiful flower with thorns. What’s most interesting is that the more he shows his vulnerability, the more you see the real human beneath, with genuine emotions. This creates a space where you truly start to feel empathy for him. Thank you, Andrew, for allowing us to see this side of your personality.
@IanMiller-r3z19 күн бұрын
beautiful sentement mate
@devitus78116 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@derpenis7815 күн бұрын
Totaly agree@@devitus781
@xNinjaPowerz7 күн бұрын
Man, comments like this are just so pathetic and stupid. We all have a human underneath even him but who cares to show this on camera? that's what it's about, I'm sure with his friends and family he's like this all the time, its just our first time seeing it through a debate/ discussion format. Also, Andrew is a horrible human and to say that positive things like thanking him is disgusting.
@yeatdagoat173 Жыл бұрын
ironically i feel this is the most inspirational Andrew has ever been, when he deeply lays out in detail the mental model in which he uses to see the world. i think andrew should just do podcasts with smart people who keep stretching his thinking and mental models
@TysonHockley Жыл бұрын
Agreed! This is also my favourite podcast Andrew has ever done. I had Sneako on my podcast 3 months ago and I’m working towards getting the Tate brothers on next!
@Briknoll93 Жыл бұрын
@@MrChaosiyou're pathetic
@heyhey6821 Жыл бұрын
They say this under every video of him.
@devgru1079 Жыл бұрын
Ive never seen someone so expertly condition himself not to admit any vulnerability while at the same time not realizing that his constant proclamations of his own greatness and exaggerated self assurance gives off vibes of deep deep insecurity.
@jaredrosenberg4965 Жыл бұрын
@@MrChaosi that and he may talk to people that stretch his mind, but his mind is set - do and say whatever panders to the base fans he parasites off of through his multilevel marketing (ponzi) scheme.
@kaspergraf5467 Жыл бұрын
Bro, it‘s so interesting how the therapist has patience and exactly knows how to talk to a complicated person like Andrew. Really interesting interview
@wds424 Жыл бұрын
He ain't complicated
@annaheya2109 Жыл бұрын
Probably complex character is a better description than complicated
@Hunterartman13 Жыл бұрын
@@wds424facts. he’s the most straightforward man on earth with pure logic in every statement
@sbre2t865 Жыл бұрын
@@Hunterartman13there’s nothing complicated about him. He is a charismatic, confident, intelligent guy who wants to stay relevant through whatever means & become famous. May be it’s all an act, humans do love actors after all 😎& drama off course. Some of the things he says is delusional surely but aren’t we all ? At the end of the day he has achieved what he was pursuing.
@a3645211 ай бұрын
Depressed insecure man who hates other men bc they’re better than him occurs in the population at a very high rate.
@lukeweyant6771 Жыл бұрын
I can’t emphasize this enough, this is a damn MASTERCLASS of listening to someone and drawing things out that they don’t consciously think about. One of the coolest discussions from Tate and the Therapist.
@dgbd9030 Жыл бұрын
tate? can u give an example?
@barakaobama4017 Жыл бұрын
@@dgbd9030Did you and I watch the same video?
@dgbd9030 Жыл бұрын
@@barakaobama4017 i didnt watch the vid i went straight comments im not a tate fanboy nor a hater i just wanted exampels
@lilrae1458 Жыл бұрын
Listening to Tates responses is also a master class on avoidence 🤦🏻🤣
@lilrae1458 Жыл бұрын
@topgmedia4702 lol
@ryanmares68145 ай бұрын
If Tate is living the archetype of the hero’s journey, David, at least here, is living the archetype of the wise old man. This was a great watch.
@Jude1918Ай бұрын
No
@PierreMiniggio22 күн бұрын
@@Jude1918 Yes.
@sorucrab12 күн бұрын
@@Jude1918 yes yes yes
@sorucrab12 күн бұрын
@@Jude1918 of course
@CanHaveDiscoHandle4 күн бұрын
insane glaze
@Faerral11 ай бұрын
when he says "these are questions I've never been asked before" is the first time I genuinely felt compassion for this man.
@highestpeeqs95329 ай бұрын
Jesus loves yall, died for us, and rose again! Jesus calls for all of us to repent! He's coming back!
@tserendorjbatjargal9 ай бұрын
@@highestpeeqs9532 But it still takes magic tricks for you to realize that I've been here for quite a while already.
@SentinelAerospaceOfficial8 ай бұрын
@@highestpeeqs9532 Ok good
@Jo70964s8 ай бұрын
Yep very good. Even better than your mother going to a therapist @@SentinelAerospaceOfficial
@JopieGeluk-bv4lb8 ай бұрын
@@highestpeeqs9532 how is this relevant?
@b0b745 Жыл бұрын
As a therapist i have to say, David does an incredible job here. You can tell, that he really appreciates the conversation although it is absolutely exhausting for him i believe. He asks incredibly good questions and he finds a way to like Andrew as every good therapist should. Thank you David.
@TheGuym619 Жыл бұрын
What do you find so exhausting about this though..his mindset is pretty rational and formidable all in all.. I think the people that are his opposition are the exhausting ones
@ToniGromann Жыл бұрын
@@TheGuym619 He is so self centered and arrogant and pretentious for one... great manipulater thou
@b0b745 Жыл бұрын
@@TheGuym619 The exhausting aspect is not his rationality, but rather his avoidance when it comes to being approachable and having an exchange on equal terms. Conversations with him always have to follow his rules and he avoids any invitation to get emotionally involved in a topic. That makes it exhausting for a therapist sometimes. I felt this way during these types of conversations, of course I can't speak for David.
@eigojiyouzu Жыл бұрын
It's because Andrew won't change and he is especially aware of this while Andrew is in front of his Audience who have bought into his brand / image. I can assure you David has come across far more complicated "challenges" with clients. This is pretty plain to see that Andrew is just delusional but it serves him superficially. He won that prize. As a therapist you want your client to have a breakthrough therefore you are empathetic and want the best for them (live a mentally healthy life). To the average joe that isn't delusional we just find Andrew repulsive.@@ToniGromann
@theinternetisntreal11 ай бұрын
@bartbenton8269 who cares. Congratulations average Joe. You want a cookie?
@ScientificGentlemen6 ай бұрын
"That's a very good question... Questions I've never been asked before." And THAT is why therapy can be a great thing. There are questions you will never ask yourself.
@being_black_is_not_a_choice5 ай бұрын
19:48 THE MINDSET
@filthyfrank.55 ай бұрын
But he did not need to ask himself that question. In no way will that help him. Otherwise he would've asked himself that question.
@MrTaker_4 ай бұрын
Your average therapist is gonna prescribe you happy pills the second you say you have any kind of feelings of anxiety or depression. It’s a cope fest designed to mask your feelings rather than resolve them. Therapy is for weak people who can’t handle their feelings.
@Evil_AnGeL204 ай бұрын
But his ability to always turn the hard question to benefit him and his world view and answer in a way where he always circle back exactly to assured his point is amazing.
@bradleyknoll64204 ай бұрын
Take shrooms
@Vanesajz2 ай бұрын
I really like this session. Especially the ending. David started to get Tate to be present and you could see him shaking his leg more vigorously out of minor discomfort. One thing I was surprised with is David not expressing that anger is a secondary emotion from sadness, pain, embarrassment, and hurt. A huge drive for Tate is anger and centering it on something useful. Anger is an emotion, pain is a feeling. So his driving factor is sadness/pain.. very interesting. This was awesome. Kudos to both of them
@LovelyJennax3 күн бұрын
Exactly, I never thought about it like that!
@doriansorzano Жыл бұрын
It's nice to see Andrew with people who can bring full context out of him.
@BladeZlayer Жыл бұрын
Indeed
@slickblowfish Жыл бұрын
very good comment , because all of his points are taken out of context
@ethanproops2217 Жыл бұрын
But let's not forget he's a rapist and sex trafficker
@macvadda2318 Жыл бұрын
@@slickblowfishtbh he makes a lot of bad points
@CCEddieCC Жыл бұрын
no not all lol some but his comments are very harmful to a lot of people.@@slickblowfish
@OceanSuper Жыл бұрын
This is by far the most important interaction Andrew has ever done in the podcast space. They need to do this again!
@pabloduque579 Жыл бұрын
Who is gonna believe in someone as delusional as he is, this guy says he shapes his reality at his will 😂 so when he says, no I didn't do it, does it have any worth? 😂
@willyemful Жыл бұрын
@@pabloduque579 perhaps he is delusional, but look at his achievement, he is successful because of how he shaped his reality. so does it have any worth? I'd say yes.
@pabloduque579 Жыл бұрын
@@willyemful well, there is many many successful people who are horrible human beings, I'm not saying he is, because no evidence, but being financially successful does not mean he then must be a good person. Also, delusion is a mental health condition which has to be treated with psychotherapy and medicine, he has delusions of grandiosity (obviously). He might take advantage of his people person skills to do businesses, and convince people because he is smart, so he makes money out of that, but that does not mean he is trustworthy. People like that can lie to you in your face, without hesitation and with a straight face, just because of their convenience, with zero accountability for how that could affect other ones. So, can you trust him? hmm I personally wouldnt.
@tomedgar9967 Жыл бұрын
1000% agree
@Atreyuwu Жыл бұрын
@@pabloduque579 Everybody shapes their reality through the concepts they know themselves (and their 'worlds') of. He is right, if you don't have a 'depression' as a concept, you can't 'catch' depression. Not saying I agree with everything Tate says, or even if I like the guy (we're all just consciousness behind the masks); but he's correct. All is Mind.
@ΜάριοςΜπάγκος Жыл бұрын
David actually managed to make Andrew like therapy. He said at the end that he wants to talk to you again. Impressive. Great conversation you guys had, it's a breath of fresh air from all the other Tate interviews that sometimes feel more strategic. Well done
@geog26 Жыл бұрын
so was it a conversation or a theraapy sesion ? andew allways said that you get your therpy fro talknig to people =)) i allways felt the same lel
@rkingfarmer Жыл бұрын
@@geog26depends on the person. People who actively listen and understand and can provide intellectual feedback can be therapy
@eisenall1776 Жыл бұрын
@@geog26 I can tell you it was definitely a therapy session. I had the same parenting from my parents and David made SO MANY things clear to me and i never felt that relief before. It felt like potion of peacefulness dropped over my head without him even directly talking to me. I might even consider seeking therapy. I am very successful academically, and i have similar world views with tate but this video was a different world to me
@winterroadspokenword4681 Жыл бұрын
Good therapy IS a conversation..it's just one with someone who understands pain, and knows how to help you grow by not avoiding pain anymore.@@geog26
@yourmom91854 ай бұрын
@@geog26I think it was a therapy session framed as a conversation so that it could make Andrew feel comfortable
@mmichy3 ай бұрын
What an exhausting conversation. With that said, David did an incredible job. We all need a therapist like him!
@alanleao100027 күн бұрын
Totally agree with you!
@yansouldance Жыл бұрын
A great therapist is not one to say the “right things” but one to ask the right questions, to listen, to instigate thoughts in the client organically and to seamlessly lay the armor of the client’s down. Such a fresh breeze of sights with him. Great job!
@sutcliffedavid Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@Mickk0205 Жыл бұрын
No clue who you are but just wanted to mention you look incredible.
@quanofhxd763 Жыл бұрын
@@Mickk0205 you aint pulling her bro bro
@d_no_allyn_86Ай бұрын
@@quanofhxd763he's not trying to.
@emilym6214 Жыл бұрын
I love the way the therapist expresses the importance of processing emotions.
@Person1577611 ай бұрын
Yeah he's very good at this
@Antiteshmis9 ай бұрын
Yet men are constantly told that expression, which is a form of processing, is vile when it comes from them, so they should abstain from it. But open up. But not show anger. But let it all go. But show restraint. By those very "therapists".
@sparta2189 ай бұрын
Where’s the time line on it?
@highestpeeqs95329 ай бұрын
Jesus loves yall, died for us, and rose again! Jesus calls for all of us to repent! He's coming back!
@GGS3487 ай бұрын
curious but, how is that meassured. if you are functional and doing good in your life. Is it healthy, to feel bad about your emotions if you are happy with yourself and by world standard "successfull".
@royduytschaever7874 Жыл бұрын
the way this therapist looks at the camera whenever he reaches a little breakthrough without Andrew noticing says it all. He's good
@RobertMorgan Жыл бұрын
he's seeking attention from the audience, massive red flag, but then again I've been brain raped by a therapist who read his notes about me to a third party against my will so my trust is at zero, especially since I was in therapy for massive adoption-related trust issues.
@lorellaldos5263 Жыл бұрын
The therapist is brilliant, he knows what he is doing, everything is well set: the little gestures, the voice, the words, it's incredible. He does alot without Andrew noticing it right away. That was not an interview or something, that was a real therapy session. I'm not sure A. Tate understood that.
@baronnashor158 Жыл бұрын
yea and Tate has constructed a fucking inner castle-maze so nobody can attack or penetrate it, and this therapist got close a bunch of time
@katelynmcroberts5373 Жыл бұрын
he’s not a real therapist at all lol.
@hen334 Жыл бұрын
@@katelynmcroberts5373 I'm sure someone who isn't a therapist would have a good opinion on if someone is a therapist or not, definitely very smart. 👍
@dr.MadisonSoley2 ай бұрын
for everyone scrolling through and reading this, do yourself a favor and find book hidden laws of the game by Eric Cook
@BeingJones12 ай бұрын
This book helped me understand the importance of a growth mindset, showing that small, consistent actions can lead to significant mental health improvements and wealth.
@sweetdannyandlisa65372 ай бұрын
what are these bots bro😭😭
@gonzax1252 ай бұрын
@@sweetdannyandlisa6537 death internet theory 😨
@buruianamarin2641Ай бұрын
Where I can buy it
@dr.MadisonSoleyАй бұрын
@@buruianamarin2641 Try to search on youtube or google.
@therichreeves Жыл бұрын
The product of asking Andrew insightful, honest, respectful, non-accusatory, genuine, and appropriate questions. fantastic interview.
@vanessadisco6643 Жыл бұрын
It's hard to find when there are so many long form videos of him describing, in detail, how he trafficked women and scammed men.... God bless this sacred space where we can see the Andrew Tate we want to see.
@MustaliS550 Жыл бұрын
@@vanessadisco6643 Sorry for your mental state.
@vanessadisco6643 Жыл бұрын
@@MustaliS550 good one
@Phoenix2024-k1g Жыл бұрын
@@vanessadisco6643yeah but let this be a female who abuse women , you will sing another tune, but look at you giving excuses cause it a man claiming Alpha
@vanessadisco6643 Жыл бұрын
@wallisvictor9688 so your issue isn't that he is a self admitted sex trafficker who scammed men and women... it's that you think people wouldn't care as much if it was a woman... I guess we'll have to wait and see if a woman ever heads up a sex trafficking organization. Until then.. crime is a crime, and both men and women go to jail for their crimes.
@Manfred13139 ай бұрын
I love when Andrew turns his head to the left, smile and touche his beard. Every times the therapist got him with emotions his body language change even tho he doesn’t want to show that emotional weakness.
@rohanking12able8 ай бұрын
Is it weakness
@MasculinityIsFundamental7 ай бұрын
Yes. Poker players call it a "tell," and use it to destroy you.
@jpuc55687 ай бұрын
"weakness"
@weirdo706157027 ай бұрын
@tomhaden2460 Yes because Poker is an accurate reflection of everyday life
@Weekenday7 ай бұрын
@weirdo70615702 it's more accurate than you have ever been
@aiaki8079 ай бұрын
His weakness is that he doesn't know his weaknesses
@Jay-og4yb8 ай бұрын
100's of millions of dollars, lived more life than perhaps anyone... I'll take the same weakness please
@Samuel_Trader_Journy8 ай бұрын
he knows them. he just supreses them and dont show them, like most weak people lol listen to what he says
@FaultyParadox8 ай бұрын
@@Samuel_Trader_Journy I agree with you on knowing them, however he does have clear openings that you can exploit, although I'd feel like a scumbag to do so, and I wouldn't be any better than him at that point. However, if you build enough support behind you, you could likely play it off with choosing a side since there's a lot of people who hate Andrew due to his view on the world being unrelatable. So, he's chosen his weaknesses is a more aptly worded way to say it in my belief. He also has a way to control the variables around his weaknesses that he finds easy to deal with and puts his most valuable beliefs and things he values in a very safe and defended position. Since his need for control and need for security is as high as it is, the best way to deal with him is to ignore him and provide a better alternative to the people that would likely follow him.
@jgoogle42568 ай бұрын
@@FaultyParadoxwhat are the clear openings one can exploit
@FaultyParadox8 ай бұрын
@@jgoogle4256 simply, lying and pretending to agree with him. 2nd, his wife and kids. 3rd taking his audience and giving them better options. 4th, manipulation on a large scale, not on how he thinks, effectively twisting his message. 5th, showing people what following Andrew gets you, it's really nothing special you're just following a rich guy who's taking your money, and isn't going to do anything for you, your just feeding his wallet.
@majerent4 ай бұрын
A child who grew listening and believing that his feelings didn’t matter, and he should never show them for any reason, grew into a very anxious man and fearful of everything, even to be loved and seen. Being needed by others keeps him enough busy from looking to himself and to his needs and feelings. He doesn’t believe in depression, but yet he’s one of the most depressed people I’ve ever seen.
@JPax34 ай бұрын
Your judgement on him says more about you than him.
@AA-gu4mw4 ай бұрын
I agree with everyone except the last part. I don’t think he’s depressed but I think he will explode eventually from suppressing his emotions. Right now it’s happening through nightmares. Eventually it will be anxiety or panic attacks. And he thinks he will be able to control those too until he won’t be able too. He will break eventually.
@vaghelalokesh60823 ай бұрын
@@JPax3truth is spoken, we judges or see people as a reflection of ourselves
@JPax33 ай бұрын
@@vaghelalokesh6082 exactly
@o.o9578Ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯 it was such a sad experience witnessing this.
@kevinm97 Жыл бұрын
I can say that this therapist was one of the people that has stumped andrew at times and made him think more than other guests. Andrew is a very straightforward guy he knows what hes gonna say and he seems like he already premeditates answers to questions people might ask him and this guy broke the glass of that..which is a very good thing for growth. That is what makes this podcast very good
@NOUHqaz Жыл бұрын
SO TREUUUU
@Demigod8ether Жыл бұрын
Definitely!
@shygrammer Жыл бұрын
you took the words out of my mouth
@user-nj1zu2nf1x Жыл бұрын
He did prove beyond the shadow of a doubt that the man is completely delusional and irrational at times. And while that can be a strength it makes him susceptible to his own insane ego
@hyp3r-systems838 Жыл бұрын
honestly it feels like he was just blowing smoke up the therapists ass to be quite honest, there were times where i KNOW Andrew was covering up and masking ANY INKLING of "weakness" or "vulnerablity" and he just gave a fluff fake "doodbro bravado" answer and im 90% sure the therapist could see right thru him and his fake bs answers because he knows he's putting up a front for the camera so the world doesnt see ANY weakness in him, which is understandable BUT it also puts up a shield between him and his supporters, fans, followers, AND the BIG chunk of the fence huggers that are curious about who he is REALLY as a man and then they get these bullshit "im superman!!" answers when a therapist is asking him to be Andrew not THE COBRA...
@twizted3k Жыл бұрын
"I refuse to be a broken man. It's disrespectful, to anybody who ever died or tried hard for me to be raised, for me to emerge from this difficulty as a broken person." Tate has words to live by whether you like or not.
@twizted3k Жыл бұрын
@@Firas-460 I'd do that too. Can't stop rationalizing and don't see what's wrong with that.
@samglazier1433 Жыл бұрын
@@Firas-460 we had a glimpse of the real Andrew right at the end before he shut it down. You see the facial and physical expression of the vulnerable lad. It likely felt both hypnotically terrifying and comforting for him in that moment. I do hope they both continue to meet. As much as I’d love to see it on camera, I respect Andrew if he wants to do this work in privacy. As an analyst this interview left me buzzing. It will be discussed by many in the field for sure.
@BowlerTheHatGuy Жыл бұрын
keep simping
@TheBananaManfromBananaLand Жыл бұрын
what does that have to do with the person? Hitler had more inspiring words to live by. surface level thinking dude
@ndo.bchizzle Жыл бұрын
@@Firas-460everybody has coping mechanisms in real life. Its literally part of life. IDC how much money you have or what you believe in. Everybody copes. You could simply cope from losing a loved one.
@SuperMarsovec Жыл бұрын
If you guys notice at the end. He actually got him. He got him to open up. And as soon as he felt vulnerability, he wanted to stop, hence he went for the handshake. Even that small interaction at the end was all worth it in my opinion. He really felt himself in the end and saw fear and sadness, vulnerability and everything he went through. I believe that if they went on with the conversation 5 more mins he would break or something.
@TheJrPrener Жыл бұрын
That’s was the best part the way the therapist was able to snap him back into presence just genius
@reazer2081 Жыл бұрын
Weird isn't it? For a guy who said that he doesn't let emotion affect what he does, that's exactly what happened in the end
@Primatenate88 Жыл бұрын
What a grand and electrifying ignorance you have
@Jenkai Жыл бұрын
he showed vulnerability once and you think he would break in 5 more mins cause of that?
@reazer2081 Жыл бұрын
@@Jenkai what's the problem with breaking ?
@yassermohareb26 күн бұрын
The best part of the whole interview is "the quite" last part where you "David" said stop thinking, everyone always thinks of a reply and never let there thoughts manifest the present moment. Valuable interview! I would love to have you on my podcast
@bluwrld2030 Жыл бұрын
Never seen somebody pick andrew’s brain with this level of respect with a good genuine conversation going back-and-forth props to your podcast. I’ll be watching more no disrespect just a conversation what I like to see.
@femmebridal6710 Жыл бұрын
That's what therapists do. They will 100% supportively help you and understand you or guide you.
@harrisgrzech1631 Жыл бұрын
Agreed, it made me understand Andrew as a person a bit more. He's very intelligent just a bit ignorant, he should talk to more people like this.
@lanier2141 Жыл бұрын
@@femmebridal6710 Orrrrrrr they try to tell more about yourself that only you could know, but convince you that they can know as well.
@ayandamthimkhulu1264 Жыл бұрын
Andrew is handling the conversation like a chess board, trying to always give the right answer and avoiding being cornered.
@grolstum211 Жыл бұрын
He is reacting like an edgy college boy ( the age in which he is stuck for eternity, ever since he was joining big brother to become known, celebrity and thrive for attention). The therapist is enjoying how many blind spots this dude has, the primary of which he considers himself "succesful" when his peaks of human contribution is playing in big brother, getting some "world champ kick box titles" in one of 320 different kick -box league ( which are all useless if the name of the league is not K1 or glory), and creating an online pimp web camera..... Dude you did not invent anything, you did not create a groundbreaking company, you left for one of the poorest and most corrupt countries in europe, you did not even learn the language ( hyperintelligence), you pimped masses of poor eastern european girls to become rich and now after investing this wealth you act like Soros.
@iambloopy Жыл бұрын
It’s out in the open. It’s definitely not a safe space.
@SergioMedinahouseValuesLA Жыл бұрын
Great opening, middle and then end game! Top G 100%
@WhatsinterestigToday Жыл бұрын
I've learnt from this interview that Andrew is a realist. He is not deceitful in his responses and he is spiritually generous.
@NewSelfNarrative1 Жыл бұрын
Ego fully at play. Couldn't agree more with your comment.
@ИвайлоКачаков Жыл бұрын
This therapist is amazingly skillful at what he does. He can see right through Andrew but instead of confronting him and say something like "Here because you think like that you're a delusional narcissist" he just plants a seed of thought with non-threatening words like for example 18:50 "he first makes him a very nice compliment almost to melt and disarm him and then just plants a simple "there's a potential for self delusion". He just knows exactly how to communicate with such characters like Andrew.
@unknown-tq2yx Жыл бұрын
didn't even notice it but now that you mentioned it wow
@lowkeyunstable Жыл бұрын
You’re also a little delusional, yourself bro
@zachbainbridge93 Жыл бұрын
Yes he may be delusional and narcissistic but I wouldn’t consider those qualities to be negative in him. They actually serve him quite well without those two qualities he wouldn’t be in the position that he’s in.
@thelonesoldier4518 Жыл бұрын
I do not think Andrew is self delusional. I feel he just put things into perspective even though the other person might disagree.
@daahorse1652 Жыл бұрын
@@thelonesoldier4518That’s pretty much Philosophy in a nutshell. If you have a different take on something that’s not like the usual then all of sudden “Oh he’s weird, he’s like an alien, he’s a dangerous man.” I don’t watch Andrew Tate at all but even I know that words often get misconstrued.
@Time4change1114 сағат бұрын
It is so refreshing that Andrew has finally decided to get therapy, even very wise people can easily see that his misogynistic, cynical, God-complex, avoidant detachment style, dishonest, egotistical, highly narcissistic, overly defensive, hero-victim delusional mindset has been on display for a very long time and it has been screaming for help & healing. We all need help in this life and him admitting that he actually exploited men and women for his own gain is a step toward his growth & honesty. I am very happy that my brother has allowed himself to receive help as well which is true strength and growth. Kudos brother 💪🏻
@StoicEvolution111 ай бұрын
"The more you seek the uncomfortable, the more you will become comfortable." - Seneca
@sparklenights54212 ай бұрын
"one must imagine sisyphus happy"
@MrSixohfour Жыл бұрын
As a fellow therapist I loved this! I learnt a lot about myself as I am very left brain dominant like Andrew. It was interesting to watch Andrew move into a les cognitive state, his voice even changed. I also know that being busy is a trauma response, constantly doing represses our emotions so it makes sense he “never feels sad”.
@JustChill-zd4ib Жыл бұрын
If you sit all day on your ass sure you'll get sad after a good workout you are too tired to feel sad. Lazy people problem.
@noahraab2429 Жыл бұрын
Maybe you should be a tad bit less empathetic towards this guy as long you’re not giving him therapy. Considering how many he’s influenced to need some.
@Stixxs254 Жыл бұрын
@@JustChill-zd4ib You have like 0 idea about the topic and it shows, so please be quiet. Working out is not a problem solver for everything, sure it helps but it won´t cure your depression
@dan4992 Жыл бұрын
@@JustChill-zd4ib you sound angry which seems to be common amongst "no sadness, only gym" bros
@Theoneandonlybish Жыл бұрын
@@JustChill-zd4ibthats gonna bite u in the future
@rdcruick Жыл бұрын
I really didn't expect to sit down and watch the whole interview in one sitting, but I just couldn't stop. I learned some new things about myself, reaffirmed some other things I believed before, and disagreed with other things. Absolutely fascinating interview, and a fantastic job. I truly hope we get more of this.
@nickb220 Жыл бұрын
i had to take this in doses lol
@therealsey Жыл бұрын
Definitely, I've never watched an interview before that incited self-reflection within myself.
@Chevvy_Mush3 ай бұрын
Avoided this one for so long for some reason. Turns out to be the best interview he's ever done. Massive props to both. That's how you have a conversation.
@andreiafernandes8719 Жыл бұрын
"That's true... BUT i also feel like..." it's his thing. Deflecting and trying very hard to always be right by the end of his monologues. In the peak of rationality. Seeing David work around him was amazing. The way David can give a compliment right before dropping "potential for self delusion" is a beautiful way to work with personalities like Tate. The last minutes were so interesting. There's your vulnerability. David is so so good.
@JokerInk-CustomBuilds Жыл бұрын
I learned early in life that if you are gonna critique someone or point out potential flaws, the best way is always to start with a genuine compliment and then framing your point as a question to them. Atleast if you wanna move them in any other direction than they are going.... I used that technique alot in my past and during a year I actually managed to make my racist coworker change his attitude and start seeing ppl as individuals rather than judging everyone based on the most extreme example he could make up... or rather; he changed his own attitude... A couple years later he actually thanked me for making him think and being able to let go of alot of anger he carried since being in the afghan war... -Imagine If David ends up changing Tate as a man and makes him realize he doesn't have to be a conartist and predator or even be the best, to succeed in life... That would be fuggin crazy! :D What that techniques specifically does: The compliment makes them lower their guards and the question makes them think about IF your point could be true instead of the opposite; An insult would raise their guards and instead of asking a postulate would make them go straight to a counterattack. A. "I really like the way you are able to articulate your reflections clearly, but could reflection be a defense mechanism?" B. "well... thats a good point, maybe you are right to some extend..." as oppposed to A. "You are really delusional and yoour reflections is a cover for your obvious insecurities and fear." B. "I don't have any fears because I always win and you will never change that!"
@lunartanginamo333 Жыл бұрын
I’m just going home and I’m not going back
@TalesofTwoWorlds111 ай бұрын
I don't think David is working around him. The main agenda behind this conversation is to analyze Tate, therefore, as a response Tate has to explain his point of view. As he said he psycho analyzes himself. He has to have answers to most of his actions. In that case, he always has to include "buts" to ensure he gets the truth across as much as he can. I think everyone who psycho-analyzes themselves will answer just the same.
@ultragear20711 ай бұрын
@@TalesofTwoWorlds1 i constantly psychoanalyze myself and i do the same, just like you said trying to get the complete picture there
@justinhogan378511 ай бұрын
He is truly the most insane and delusional Man pretending to be a Man that exist.
@noodle6754 Жыл бұрын
This was Andrew's BEST podcast conversation yet. It was so nice to see this side of him...I could see he was resisting slightly and it made me laugh to watch him in a more vulnerable space! Great podcast guys, well done
@alizzybookling Жыл бұрын
This interview was amazing. This is the first time I've ever fully watched Andrew Tate. The final few minutes when David does that exercise to force Andrew to stay present with him when he starts to think...Andrew's leg starts tapping because he's uncomfortable and just not used to not thinking. Captivating stuff. And I have to admit...Andrew Tate isn't who I thought he was. I relate a lot to his rational mind as I do the same thing. This is good shit here, David. Truly fascinating.
@RobertMorgan Жыл бұрын
well yeah, we're humans, we don't think we die instantly. You stop thinking on a street you get hit, you stop thinking during sex you knock some chick up. Staying present means thinking about EVERY tiny thing happening at all times all the time, present means 1000% on and on edge constantly. Not being present is when you relax. At least with me. If I'm present other people don't exist to me, they're just obstacles. It's when I'm not present and I can think I can think about other people.
@iwsajet8506 Жыл бұрын
@@RobertMorganI think I disagree with that take. To be present would mean to fully be in the moment and not judging the information or stimulus coming into the mind. This is the core principle behind meditation and most eastern spiritual philosophies. When you are on and on edge, you are judging all input and what it means to your existence and survival.
@obce11 ай бұрын
it's not a nervous thing. Huberman goes over this in depth. It's a trick we (adhd people) learn from an early age that helps us focus. Some people move their tongues. Some bounce their legs. It's the opposite of nervousness, it's increased focus.
@ryojs428611 ай бұрын
More like he's a very energetic person And David had literally nothing to offer You can pretend he's nothing to make yourself feel better though
@Derik.81811 ай бұрын
@@iwsajet8506I think you misinterpreted what he said. To sum up what he said, to be present isn’t necessarily paranoia but understand that LIFE happens. Situations out of our control can happen and simply acknowledging that.
@tanyatj71212 ай бұрын
Pain is a negative label for discomfort in our body which is temporary.. I do not use the word pain in my vocabulary. If I feel discomfort, I remind myself it is temporary and analyse why it's presenting and work with that. I admire the constant positive mindset of the highly inspirational Andrew.
@menschin26 ай бұрын
It was great how the therapist held him and guided the conversation so that it didn't get out of hand. I've never seen so much armor around a person. Good conversation.
@kelseyjanae15 ай бұрын
So much armor
@andrewcourange72245 ай бұрын
Ur small
@Kindacutehuh3 ай бұрын
Armour is the word. I totally agree. Sad as well.
@mikiabc39072 ай бұрын
@@Kindacutehuhyour life is sad brokie
@terryfinkel67552 ай бұрын
Then you've never met anyone who truly suffered. Such a thick armor is a self-defense mechanism against intense pain, more likely than not establish in childhood as the child doesn't know another way to protect themselves. Talking from experience. I can resonate with Tate, lucky for him his way of coping and his intellect made him successful, but I bet he has a lot of pain buried deep within, that he might never resolve.
@spikelou Жыл бұрын
The handshake at the end was outstanding. The tension from Andrew and the acknowledgment of breakthrough from David was unmistakable. The entire conversation was perfectly wrapped up in that moment. I saw Andrew's vulnerability and it was very inspiring. Well done to both of you!
@user-dm5fz4oq7d Жыл бұрын
glazing
@CJWII Жыл бұрын
@-TimeToChangeSpot on but Andrew taint followers have mong brains and can't process all of those facts.
@IllyrianChad3542 Жыл бұрын
@-TimeToChange Exactly. Idk what these people are thinking about his vulnerability or sadness or whatever. Dude literally admitted that he wants to be as vulnerable as possible. Yet there was nothing so sad and bad in his vulnerability. The end was a fucking psychic bullshit that felt kinda gay, which andrew seemed to be uncomfortable. "Feel another man" what the heck are you on about.
@jacopocinelli1410 Жыл бұрын
@-TimeToChangeman we are all humans and therefore we also live on other levels than the rational world. There is not introvert and there is no extrovert, or at least in this case, we all work the same way.
@christinaromania Жыл бұрын
😂 The ending was epic. Andrew just chose to put an end to the interaction as he believed it had just lost any purpose by not being able to analyze and talk anymore. So I felt he thought in a way "Great chat but now you're only wasting my time by asking me to feel your presence. Let's end this bullshit cause I've better things to do" 😂
@jovanav3 Жыл бұрын
Full praise to David for his indescribable patience, excellent questions, and all his effort in order to not hurt Tate's ego. Really enjoyed it!
@Holyinductor Жыл бұрын
If he doesn't hurt his ego he is no therapist the ego is a scam if a therapist doesn't confront the scam he is one himself
@eisenall1776 Жыл бұрын
@@Holyinductorits a natural thing to have an ego, its literally something necessary for survival. Why tf do you keep trying to humiliate and annihilate everyone‘s pride? Are you psychopaths?
@winterroadspokenword4681 Жыл бұрын
God literally brings tests TO confront our ego. Many people see this as growing through pain, but its not true. God doesn't bring us pain, he just brings us stuff to confront our ego. We always grow when we drop a bit more ego and release a little more stored pain.
@austinsch321 Жыл бұрын
@@Holyinductor a good therapist will never hurt an ego, only challenge it within empathetic bounds
@Tommy_2_Smooth Жыл бұрын
@@Holyinductor Absolutely incorrect imo, I believe a true therapist as seen in the video can deliver thought provoking questions without the need to peneitrate someone's ego. An ego is absolutely important, let's say the therapist here started degrading tate now what would that do? Probably make tate defensive less open and overall wouldn't be beneficial. Don't make wild claims without supporting your opinion, anyway I'd say the certified psycho therapist is more qualified to ask questions as opposed to you lol.
@IanMiller-r3z19 күн бұрын
i used to share his exact mindset without the narcissism. but after finally altering my mindset i noticed narcissistic qualities begin to develop. they cloud your judgement and ultimately make you weaker because it shuts you off from helpful perspectives that could cover blindspots in the problem and help sharpen overall approach.
@JasonLeal50918 күн бұрын
Clearly you’re very narcissistic still.
@devitus78116 күн бұрын
@@JasonLeal509says the narcissist seething 😂😂
@JasonLeal50915 күн бұрын
@@devitus781 All I’m saying is, the man is clearly putting Tate down and uplifting himself with his comparisons. Not only that he’s clearly looking for attention. If me calling him a narcissist hurt your feelings that much, get off the internet and do some soul searching. There’s no reason to get upset.
@ladynea11 ай бұрын
Fascinating how Tate's entire body language changes in the last two minutes, no wonder he was so quick to shake hands and end the discussion. Brilliant conversation!
@SP0728910 ай бұрын
That's why he reached out his hands to end the conversation as well. He was looking side to side and thinking about what to say to keep the upperhand. Brilliant work by the therapist to expose how uneasy Andrew gets if he can't somehow one-up his opponent.
@grokkinghumans9 ай бұрын
The way his leg keeps shaking at the end, wow!
@highestpeeqs95329 ай бұрын
Jesus loves yall, died for us, and rose again! Jesus calls for all of us to repent! He's coming back!
@milkxv9 ай бұрын
well in the last two minutes hes literally in a position that I think a good majority might find themselves uncomfortable with. Im not taking sides but the fact that we have casual viewers try to psychoanalyze his body language is wild to me. I might be in the most comfortable position on the couch with my buddies and shake my leg everyonce in a while where I find myself in the present and have to fiddle with something to distract myself. A lot of these actions can be seen literally everywhere, you don't have to be exposed, vulnerable for these actions to show. Honestly I think a wide study would bring intriguing results especially with therapist involvement but overall when you find you have nothing to do, other than during meditating times/mindfulness sessions you would find yourself fiddling or trying to fill that empty space.
@RogerValor8 ай бұрын
@@milkxv it has thankfully nothing to do with psychoanalysis to recognize or talk about body language. Could be anything, but sometimes it is quite obvious it isn't. Usually when a group of people recognize the body expressing some internal emotions, they will come up with a plethora of details they thought was the trigger. But usually that is just rationalizing an empathic response. I think we all know, body language can be deceiving, but it sometimes is revealing, just as being over protective, is, as someone who does not take sides. Smirk.
@tatiyanaviale Жыл бұрын
Joy comes from this video because not often do we see two ppl communicating like this. This is beautiful they are literally smiling at each other even though they don’t have the same perspectives.
@yourfabilouscoach11 ай бұрын
Its suuuuch eyecandy, and also two such beautiful men with such beautiful hearts and interesting personas. haha
@lyvsix10 ай бұрын
Hahah yes this is the defibition of commubicating, listening and connecting lol. He doesnt even have a proper onologue to stixk to, he contradicts himself constantly, often several times in the same interview...if he didnt benefit from being an idiot I woud feel bad for him....smh
@unnamed154 Жыл бұрын
I was depressed and diagnosed with major depressive disorder and prescribed medication. I didn't like the way the meds made me feel because i was still depressed; the meds just masked it. Found a new therapist who gave me a different perspective. I stopped taking the meds and identified the root of my depression and set a goal. Im no longer depressed and my therapist recognizes that. He tells me he can see by the way i talk now, my tone, the progress ive made toward my goal. Still on track to meeting my goal. I have even caught myself in moments of true joy. I have the tools to get myself out of low points. Extremely grateful for my therapist helping me get to where i am by giving me the tiols and different perspectives.
@kristyhawes Жыл бұрын
The meds take 2 mths to work
@unnamed154 Жыл бұрын
@@kristyhawes yup and took different ones as I had negative side effects. Tried for over a year, not worth the money, imo. This is all personal experience. They "worked" in helping me live with it but didn't resolve it.
@theinternetisntreal11 ай бұрын
@@kristyhawes"work" ok buddy
@autisticsuicidal11 ай бұрын
Keep observing the world That which remains true despite being hit hard You will see that your depression was just a mechanism to let you know that your mindset wasn't in alignment with reality Depression is just a notification
@unnamed15411 ай бұрын
@@autisticsuicidal I like what you said, "depression is just a notification." I feel that when Im in a low point. Like oops ok what happened, let's change it, then I'm back to being the person I like.
@AnnUnicornStarАй бұрын
you can tell at the end he started to become more present for a moment. I hope he continues. Everyone has more potential to grow into.
@divinelovebath8 ай бұрын
He's terrified of vulnerability, but doesn't realize he'll only be fully free once he embraces vulnerability.
@LittleGreyWolfForge8 ай бұрын
no, i think that's what makes him "free". its that he is not.
@michael23058 ай бұрын
I think he has accepted the fact that you can be vulnerable, he's just put himself in a position where he's not. And I guess he's terrified of losing that position.
@avgpiece8 ай бұрын
A caveman showing his "vulnerability" would be advertising his own downfall. He'd get eaten by a tiger the same day.
@wuffymcwuff8 ай бұрын
@@avgpiece No, the caveman understanding his vulnerability is what would drive him to avoid the tiger
@nimtoonatty8 ай бұрын
@@avgpiece are we just cavemen?
@elizaneja Жыл бұрын
The last 3 or so minutes were the most important. That's when he truly let his guard down just for a small bit. The whole 2 hours he has been going on and on. It's so incredibly hard for him to let this defense down, props on both of you on letting the light shine through, even just for a tiny moment.
@amorphous0000 Жыл бұрын
For anyone who does not understand, Tate suggests that experiencing "depressive feelings" is different from "depression." He believes that while one might encounter depressive feelings, succumbing to depression implies a passive acceptance of these feelings. This perspective emphasizes that individuals can choose to confront and challenge depressive feelings instead of feeling powerless to them.
@KaseyAngel222 Жыл бұрын
You don’t choose to succumb to depression. I have diagnosed PTSD and MDD. I do agree that I would have no motivation to be where I’m at if I didn’t have these mental struggles. Because of my mental Illness I’m 23, have a house, became a single mom for a year due to both of us not working on our mental health, have my degree, in school for nursing and working as an office manager as a medical assistant, own my car, no debt, 750 credit, 13k I’m savings, now recently married to my sons dad and I did all of what I mentioned in one year on my own. I had sexual abuse as a child..father not in my life and step dad is an alcoholic. Without my struggles I wouldn’t be where I’m at but I ALSO have had to FIGHT burnout when it was all done and my body just gave up. I lost 45 pounds in that year, had a bleeding ulcer, and it resulted in anemia. Depression isn’t only mental it affects the physical well being over time. I think I’m successful for my age now but with all the money my husband and I made…it would’ve meant nothing If I didn’t have my son and partner in my life. Andrew Tate having multiple kids in broken homes and multiple failed relationships honestly kinda shows the side effect of not healing your mental health. Yes he’s rich, but he still has a void.
@onouphrios Жыл бұрын
talking out your ass fr
@Themlpg73 Жыл бұрын
That’s true. Just choose to not be depressed.
@Goodlife-x9h Жыл бұрын
TRUE no such thing called as depression or feeling depressed exist in any third world country bc people don't have time to complain or bs about life. These things only happens in developed countries where people worry too much about little things.
@Luciphear Жыл бұрын
@@Goodlife-x9h That isn't remotely close to what was said at all. Depression very much is a real thing, and even Andrew said that he indeed has a very intimate relationship with exactly that, and that is exactly why he's disciplined and convinced himself that it's not real *for him*. He knows how to fight it, he knows how to subdue it and assume control over it and not let it take over, not let it get in the way or manifest itself outside of the containment in his own mind. People do feel depression, and people can absolutely be diagnosed with depression. The brain is a very complex structure and will be shaped and formed by many exterior factors that may be beyond your control. Or, if you're a believer in God, you may simply have been put on a path of endless tormenting trials of the mind. People in third world countries do experience this, you may just not perceive it the same or be subject to it the same. This isn't to say that you should give in to it, but ignoring it is nothing but idiocy. Taking control of it and manipulating it to strengthen yourself is positive, ignoring it and pretending it's not a thing is foolishness. Acknowledge it and reject it. Or just gaslight the ever-living fuck out of yourself I guess, whatever floats your boat.
@madison.w86153 ай бұрын
19:14 "I think the only thing better than having everything you want is not wanting anything." Andrew hits hard. Not just physically, but philosophically too.
@milanolasz13865 күн бұрын
That sentence struck me as well, like he’s literally doing the complete opposite???
@DevonD.B4 күн бұрын
Yeah, which is okay. He says he currently can't achieve that so he's got the other route.
@RudG10 Жыл бұрын
David summarized 1 pattern occuring over and over again in the interview at the end. there are moments where andrew is really talking genuinely, with thoughts emerging from the presence, but then he starts talking about his pre-conceived ideas and goes on a rant about a topic he knows very well, fore-going the present moment. this happens again and again, and the few brief moments where andrew's voice slows down, and we can tell he is thinking and answering with new thought, those were the only moments i genuinely enjoyed watching.
@LifeWithIbrahim1 Жыл бұрын
Incredibly good podcast, it's genuinely rare we see interviewers try to humanise Andrew or anyone else in this circle without having some deeper agenda. I truly enjoyed seeing you pick his brain and make him think a little harder. Tate is human at the end of the day, and the listening skills you showed in your responses helped bring that humanity to life. I haven't seen part one yet, but I'll definitely do it now. God bless you
@johanbtheman Жыл бұрын
It was monologue.
@1ron0xide Жыл бұрын
Andrew dehumanized himself. Nobody has a hidden agenda against this boy
@StayClear4321 Жыл бұрын
This was one of the best podcast interviews I've ever watched. Excellent questions were being asked by David and we saw a side of Andrew we never saw before. It really kept me engaged the whole way.
@bigman9314 Жыл бұрын
I neve thought I would watch a video over two hours besides a movie lol but it was good
@raidermaxx2324 Жыл бұрын
You love rapists? thats cool man. Just stay out of my country, and everything will be cool
@ummmmmm174 ай бұрын
The thing I've noticed the most is how happy and relieved tate seemed speaking to someone who is aiming to understand who he is from a deeper perspective, rather than interviewers asking questions that are designed to provoke and put him into defense mode. It's funny how different his persona is when speaking to this guy. I just think tate keeps himself busy to avoid his real fears, feelings and problems. He's hit the nail on the head.
@mattkriese7170 Жыл бұрын
That was quite an adventure. You could really see that Andrew was enjoying the questioning, as he is a man who enjoys challenges. By the end, David left him in a space that seemed to feel unfamiliar for Tate. His willingness to participate in the questioning ceased when Sutcliffe redirected his rationalizing to being into a state of presence with him. With the reaching out of Andrew's hand it felt as if he had recognized that David had taught him something as perhaps a more "veteran" opponent would in a ring. The "Round 3" request feels almost poetic given the context of Tate's professional career and relentlessness. I'm really looking forward to the next one!
@itssomechick7 ай бұрын
I cried at the end of this as he was opening him up. And then Tate terminated, as soon as he got close, Tate terminated it. If he could have just stayed silent, for a few more minutes... he might have felt presence. Truly, he has never experienced it and has built his whole persona and life around earning his "father's love".
@MotivationAllAccess6 ай бұрын
Seems like it worked for him. To be a soldier must contain composure at ease though life is complicated it’s only what you make it to be. - Tupac Shakur The strong survive and strive through life as warriors
@StewpidGames6 ай бұрын
@@MotivationAllAccess - Has it? It certainly doesn't appear like it has.
@kend75976 ай бұрын
He lives in a perpetual state of delusion. Fighting self made wars in his head that need not be fought. He has no sense of life or wonder. Just a false bravado to conceal his vulnerability, which he’s been conditioned to believe is something to be ashamed of. He was definitely hurt growing up
@yangeugenendikam17406 ай бұрын
@@kend7597 He is a multi-millionaire (perhaps a billionaire) with lots of followers, offspring and a confident man, we are all his fans. Perhaps he doesn't even know your name and might never know, how dare you call him delusional? You equally say he was hurt growing up, what have you to show for your perfect life without hurt. I see a honest man with great potential, the fact that you don't understand this only shows where you are.
@yangeugenendikam17406 ай бұрын
Like him, i don't like anybody to open me up to depression and if i can navigate all the negative emotions and be that successful and reject depression then it is worth a try
@WhitePillMan Жыл бұрын
Absolute masterclass in challenging a polarizing personality. Only an amazing therapist could pull this off. Bravo
@onetwo3411 Жыл бұрын
He didn't challenge him whatsoever.
@bobf1290 Жыл бұрын
@@onetwo3411elaborate
@stayinthepursuit8427 Жыл бұрын
exactly. He sucked him off more or less., ONE KEY thing to ask him was why he thinks life is a chess game. This zero sum i must win and you must lose thinking paradigm is instilled from his dad obviously. do we need more of these kind of cockroaches?
@stayinthepursuit8427 Жыл бұрын
no wonder he tops it off with brainwashing binary thinking pedophile religion islam.
@WhitePillMan Жыл бұрын
@@onetwo3411 then you’re weren’t paying close enough attention. I understand how it was confusing though bc his challenges were extremely subtle and always sandwiched between compliments. When you’re dealing with a narcissist the only way you can ever get them to open up is a sort of Trojan horse - you have to hide your challenges among praise.
@storiesandpoems5 ай бұрын
Tate is a courageous person. He's the perfect warrior. He's the guy you'd want on the battle field with you. However, the criticism that he's insensitive is evident not just in problem solving, but in understanding others and their weaknesses. He has trouble with forgiveness and compassion. He is fighting everyone to win. If you come to him with a weakness, he wouldn't value your worth beyond what advantageous he can exploit from you. The worth of an individual is measured by his courage and strength. I think he has a lot to offer people today because he absolutely obliterates the victim mentality. He embraces loyalty and fulfilling promises. But he fails to recognise the value of the virtue and strength of forgiveness.
@cyb3rf411ry8 ай бұрын
4 grams of shrooms would destroy this man
@willd62158 ай бұрын
Most men no doubt
@lxbleed64378 ай бұрын
It sure destroyed you there, Crystal.
@meanyomama8 ай бұрын
Psychedelic entities are demons
@florentyna48 ай бұрын
LMAOOO
@willd62158 ай бұрын
Shrooms have a tendency to bypass our protector parts and take us straight to our exiles. This guy would have the ego death to end all ego deaths and come out the other side having witnessed his scared little wounded inner child sitting in the abyss waiting for him. Probably do him a world of good.
@theone51700 Жыл бұрын
Within the past two years I have legitimately listened to 100 plus hours of Andrew Tate speak through podcasts, vlogs etc. This was the first time I have ever wanted Andrew to talk less and listen more, specifically towards the end of the video when they started discussing Andrew's childhood, father, and the concept of being present. David analyzed and dissected him like I have never seen anyone do before, this was beyond amazing to watch and listen. Truly great work from both parties here, thank you so much for sharing this! I hope the two of you remain in contact and decide to make more content later on down the road. Also thank you David for a new mantra! Yes, thank you.
@yeatdagoat173 Жыл бұрын
Same here bro. He's the best person Andrew has ever talked to. Him and Tom Segura lol. The first one he did with David was incredibly insightful and introspective. The one with Tom Segura was ridiculously hilarious. This podcast was as good as I thought it was going to be. Truly wise people are rare in this world and David is clearly one of them
@christanRBLX Жыл бұрын
I’ve literally heard 3 to 5 hours almost a day for the last year of hundreds of Andrews interviews and podcasts. You should look up his stuff before he got famous. Those are the true gems 💎
@MFDOOM4635 Жыл бұрын
I agree. I think though Andrew is very careful with his word’s especially on camera. I think he’ll go away and internalise this conversation and then we’ll see it’s true impact. I hope he even continued the conversation with David off screen
@zoli11 Жыл бұрын
Don't forget about Tom's wife, Christina. She played amazingly into the his persona and the jokes. Probably the funniest female podcaster/standup on KZbin right now.
@thebigten90 Жыл бұрын
That’s fucked up 100 hours. I’m sure you could’ve used that time more productively. Use your mind man
@DeifyDan Жыл бұрын
Man, I think obi wan kenobi was great at listening Andrew without trying to argue even he know's about the harsh ideas that keep him protected from facing deep emotions from childhood. He is wise enough to understand how the conversation is being controlled but capable of generating reflection without engaging in a fight.
@PreodolenieZavisimostiАй бұрын
Imagine putting so much effort into staying out of touch with your true self and building defence walls around you. This reminded me of my years of drug addiction... I've got nothing against this guy. He's free to cope with his traumas the way he chooses to, but the fact that he is a role model is rather disturbing.
@MikeJohnMentzer22 күн бұрын
Whatever he did, seems to work for him. I'd listen to him over a random therapist.
@alexfitch59608 ай бұрын
If you just examine the energies of these two individuals you can notice that Andrew is hyper vigilant, lead by fear, on edge, while David is calm, collected and relaxed. I feel for people like Andrew stuck in the fear cycle.....
@piscesvennus8 ай бұрын
exactly this
@NoName-bb2pu7 ай бұрын
This is the reason why I HATE what these 2 brothers have unleashed unto this earth, they have created a stereotype of what a man is what he should be, a cycle of fear, paranoia and vigilance 24/7. I'm almost 40, male, have done everything exactly the opposite of what Tate preaches, never married, vegetarian, dont like kids, an unbounded soul that loves dogs, cats, music, paintings, nature, friends (very few) and a clam peaceful life. Education wise I come from a scholastic family and did very well myself with a masters business degree summa cum laude from a great school. I also retired early, never had the urge to ''conquor" and am living off of what I have in my almost minimalist lifestyle, driving a beat up Hyundai. By every definition of the man above, I'm a loser, not a man and a waste of life because I have no progeny. Guess what, it doesnt matter, my legacy is in my own mind, my gender is specified on my birth sheet and my achievement at the end is that I'm trying to see beauty in nature, animals and the calmness of being. Death is brutal, quick and painful for all, it's the moments between that counts, fear and paranoia arent even in my dictionary.
@airbolt64967 ай бұрын
@@NoName-bb2puthe same way it is your choice to live your life as you see fit, it is the choice of Andrew and Tristan to live theirs and express their opinion. Nobody is forcing any narrative here. You’re contradicting yourself by arguing that by pursuing your own goals and desires you’re complete, yet you “hate” what they’ve done. All they’ve done is live life as THEY see fit the same way you have.
@NoName-bb2pu7 ай бұрын
@@airbolt6496 big difference toxic fanboy, I never created stereotypes, I never told people they are less for what they havent done, and I never committed crimes, federal or otherwise. I have an IQ of 146, MENSA associate, MIT Sloan School of Business graduate class of 2008, had a career in finance, earned well and honestly. Dont compare me and illiterate garbage like them.
@earlyplays88107 ай бұрын
@@airbolt6496 All the while being 10,000 times more successful on literally every measurable metric than the overwhelming majority of all their naysayers lol.. They always tend to leave that part out. "I feel so bad for this fearful guy, who has models licking caviar off his balls everyday" -Guy driving a civic to his 9-5.
@DiceDecides Жыл бұрын
I loved how different his energy became at the last part of the therapy, they were just present with each other, in the moment, wholesome to see a softer side of him which is incredibly hard to bring out.
@Andrevak Жыл бұрын
“Every man must make a choice either go to war and come back with stories or sit home and be second mom”. Loved it ❤
@thomasrobinson4634Ай бұрын
Watching the debate between people with sometimes opposite world views, it's refreshing to see them stay calm and open. They're just two professionals having a real conversation.
@DamaniJones Жыл бұрын
I honestly think Andrew has 90+% of the mental tools that would absolutely save any man if they were to equip the same mental tools. There are definitely some blind spots, but it’s amazing to hear a lot about his mental landscape. David truly is the best of the best at getting the right information out of someone.
@JCB576 Жыл бұрын
I think he made two very problematic distinctions: 1) I think he fundamentaly does not understand how depression works. On one hand regarding the way it is caused (it is not in every case just a mindset thing), and on the other hand you can"t neglect depression and make it go away by simply not believing in it. If you don"t treat the depression and the underlying issues it is going to hit you even harder. And we see it thousands of men killing themselfs because they fail to acknowledge that and don"t go to therapy. 2) If you neglect truth for the sace of efficiency you will sooner or later miss one important thing that can cause your downfall. Think of big banks who always want to run as efficient as possible and make as much money as possible completely negleting potential problems or simply not seeing them.
@aknightwing9077 Жыл бұрын
@@JCB576it kind of is a mindset thing. I think he has a deeper understanding than you and what you believe. At the end of the day you’re the only one who can get yourself out of that funk
@g3mint446 Жыл бұрын
He remind me of myself :D
@joshuat123 Жыл бұрын
@@JCB576 get a grip
@rishavupadhayay5685 Жыл бұрын
@@aknightwing9077how exactly would love to hear about that
@ab-nr6bq8 ай бұрын
I remember reading about Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and one of the hardest things for people with this disorder is to do therapy. Its always a power struggle for control. I don't want to be an armchair psychiatrist, but i feel like he has every single quality of an NPD. They need to be the best in everything as validation for their low self worth. Its his defense mechanism to show this grandiose persona.
@Frankthegb8 ай бұрын
He doesn’t have NPD. That’s way too blanket of a diagnosis. There’s something much, much deeper there
@DannyJames-z7m8 ай бұрын
@@Frankthegbor… he’s just playing a multi million dollar character like literally every other influencer online does 🤦♂️ crazy how everyone in the real world says he the nicest guy but everyone on the internet says he’s a narcissist. Wake tf up. ITS A PERSONA RED PILL CHARACTER
@brody_gains8 ай бұрын
or maybe hes trying to help people with people looking for a problem when there isnt one
@milagrosgalvan95827 ай бұрын
or maybe he has a different personality and point of view on life. Just because some people are more logical and rational than emotional doesnt mean you have a personality disorder.
@LacyValentine-v6i7 ай бұрын
I agree with this to a degree, in that he absolutely has some characteristics of NPD. I think the difference may be that (at least from what I understand from this interview) Andrew has developed these characteristics as a result of trauma, and not as a result of a mental affect that is present at the earliest detectable age. I think it could be something else that shares many similar characteristics.
@eagle00311 ай бұрын
Those last 2 minutes are IT. He's masking all the pain he feels by words & semantics. If he allows himself to feel the presence of other people, instead of talking through it, he'll be a different person.
@eliot71899 ай бұрын
I came here to comment that Andrew masks himself well (I see right through him) -- he's built himself up around avoiding anything emotional and defaults to his left brain.
@milkxv9 ай бұрын
well in the last two minutes hes literally in a position that I think a good majority might find themselves uncomfortable with. Im not taking sides but the fact that we have casual viewers try to psychoanalyze his body language is wild to me. I might be in the most comfortable position on the couch with my buddies and shake my leg everyonce in a while where I find myself in the present and have to fiddle with something to distract myself. A lot of these actions can be seen literally everywhere, you don't have to be exposed, vulnerable for these actions to show. Honestly I think a wide study would bring intriguing results especially with therapist involvement but overall when you find you have nothing to do, other than during meditating times/mindfulness sessions you would find yourself fiddling or trying to fill that empty space.
@damienholland81038 ай бұрын
He likes to convey himself as totally analytical person unmoved by the emotions of others or his own emotions. But he's still human. He talks like someone on the spectrum a higher functioning autistic person. I'm not sure what he has but I believe he has some type of personality disorder. Not that I have anything against people with such a disorder. The way he avoids emotion and describes weakness is not normal or healthy.
@austinarnold17708 ай бұрын
@milk8699 I think it's pretty clear. He felt neglected as a kid. Uses hyper rationalizations as a coping mechanism. Kinda sad he passes that same mentality to his kids.
@damienholland81038 ай бұрын
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@guymurray53453 ай бұрын
This was great for me to see myself in, in an extreme way, how I rationalise and think to avoid the feeling of being present. My partner and I have to pencil in this time to our day to drop into this space - what Martin Buber calls an I-thou relationship. I think when two men can hold that awareness, as Tate does for a brief second or two, and I feel all the feelings myself watching, they enter the timelessness of relationship, it’s actually the highest form of love as it transcends any label. It can be terrifying for a man to approach with another man, because of all the pain and grief, and fear about what receiving love from another means. That therapist was brave to take him there and I respect both men for going there so publicly. Here’s to men doing ‘the work!’
@aslee330 Жыл бұрын
Andrew definitely has a lot of blind spots. He LITERALLY said it himself "the only thing better then having everything you want is not wanting anything" yet Andrew's entire mindset has been built around allowing him to achieve everything he wants from the external world and does not allow him to become the truest version of his most powerful self, which would be to be able to truly want nothing in this world.
@LK-tp2le Жыл бұрын
THIS!!! His definition of success requires constantly chasing external validation and material things. Inner peace and contentment comes from connecting with our authentic inner self and feeling worthy and loveable in the absence of external validation. Also, if he was able to truly connect with his emotions without deflecting and intellectualising them, it would enable him to form deep meaningful relationships with emotional intimacy rather than being stuck in the role of only the financial provider in all his relationships.
@aslee330 Жыл бұрын
very well said.@@LK-tp2le
@lorellaldos5263 Жыл бұрын
Although he talks alot (because it is difficult for him to be present), he shows openess to learn about his blind spots. He really wants to learn. And for that I have ALOT of respect.
@AswinHaridas-d1d Жыл бұрын
I think ,if he had nothing in this world , no cars no girls no money , how would he convince the men that he is successful and rich . most people want that success (having everything in the world) . i think he can be the better one but he chose the level below it just to prove and become a Positively Inspirational Motivating Person
@chayalapid1598 Жыл бұрын
Also, Idk if he ever talked about it or not, but he is a narcissist by definition. On one hand he says that truth doesn't matter when it comes to depression, on the other hand he says that his main goal is to show the real truth about the world to young men, he's playing with the truth when its most beneficial for him. And that thought is problematic, it doesn't allow you to understand who you really are and therefore you'll feel that you constantly have to wear this mask, live up to those expectations that you built on your own... its exhausting and basically you aren't living your life for yourself, you living it for others. Of course narcissism can make you achieve greater things in life than average person, but at the end, with that narrative you'll die loved really by no one and why do we live for? Just to satisfy ourselves all the time? Always thinking that we are the center of the world and everybody depends on us? Nobody will remember Andrew tate 10,000 years from now and if will so what? He's dead he can't care. That's my problem with him, his narcissism prevents him or anyone else he teaches those things to feel love. And from my perspective, love is the point of life.
@Darrell1977 Жыл бұрын
Dude interviews himself. So much self-defence without an aggressor just to not show any weakness.
@sauloros486111 ай бұрын
And is tha supposed to be bad
@Hattiesburgpatriot10 ай бұрын
@sauloros4861 ,it's just very revealing. Let's not forget that "TOP G" was running chats with men for his girls. So, in effect Tate was talking dirty to men. Let that sink in. That's hardly masculine. He's definitely overcompensating with his false ego. He was abandoned as a child. So, his narcissistic defenses are not surprising.
@MikaylaJinks9 ай бұрын
his biggest weakness is his fear to fail or feel defeated.
@billynamer9 ай бұрын
@@MikaylaJinkshit the nail on the coffin. His deep fear which is to lose control of a situation and not have control of his environment created such inner conflict, that he has nightmares and inducing fear.
@VallerionPVP9 ай бұрын
@@Hattiesburgpatriotwe found the customer
@sf356 Жыл бұрын
Just discover and subscribed to David Sutcliffe. Great questions with an amicable energy. How has this channel NOT blown up? Thanks man!
@londonassassin9894 Жыл бұрын
his short videos are powerful and truthful. this channel needs to blow up asap.
@MindfulZetta Жыл бұрын
Let’s go ! Overnight channel explosion.
@CP-fj5ub Жыл бұрын
Same here…. Dave knew what he was doing 😊…..
@pholosomoalusi8702 Жыл бұрын
how is it even possible...
@brock5946 Жыл бұрын
Because he barely uploads. He needs to invite more interesting guests. Tristan next would be perfect
@yousihard8569Ай бұрын
This table looks so good. Does anybody know about tables and which wood this is?
@martensaluste386716 күн бұрын
Asking the real questions
@lachlanm211515 күн бұрын
Take a screenshot of it and upload it to chatgpt
@yousihard856912 күн бұрын
@@martensaluste3867 😂
@AfrahHamdyAR Жыл бұрын
I agree with this man, especially when it comes to refusing to be a victim, and grateful to our parents instead of looking for what was missing.. from experience those choices make u keep going if not you will never be able to go forward ( trust me have been there) ❤
@garydomaz1849 Жыл бұрын
This is not a realistic mindset to have. He’s still human and prone to error. This was a full on display of narcissism.
@sshysterr9075 Жыл бұрын
imagine being so sulky@@garydomaz1849
@Gigaguy Жыл бұрын
@@garydomaz1849 I disagree, error is okay but being a victim wont get you were you want to be. Sure he might sound narcisisstic but theres a little narcissim thats required to achieve what you to. I hope you can see the good in his points. i wish you the best in life
@G6Mr- Жыл бұрын
@@garydomaz1849 not to have, more like try to have because yes this is too perfect and trying to be perfect will make you the closest to it
@tomolo2619 Жыл бұрын
Son of God does not mean that God has a child in Christianity! *what a mistake in the Qur'an!* Son of God are 2 titles one referring to the Word of God and one referring to creation (humans, angels, demons)
@lherz13 Жыл бұрын
@58:57 as a Licensed Therapist, this part of the interview was excellent therapeutic work and honestly made me endeared to Tate in a way I never thought possible😊“The sword is right there, you just don’t have to use it all the time.”👏♥️ Powerful.
@kalilavalezina7 ай бұрын
The last few minutes are so interesting. Asking Andrew to soften, be present, not think or feel it necessary to talk, was very fascinating to witness. I noticed he decided to end the meeting there. Maybe that was too much for now. When we have deep fears of intimacy and vulnerability, it can be very hard to stay truly present with the person encouraging you to feel that. I hope Andrew continues speaking with you, David. If this at all encouraged Andrew's self-reflection, or helped him to notice how useful therapy may be (and he actually goes), that'd be phenomenal.
@joshuakennedy908729 күн бұрын
Ngl this guy David is an absolute master. Waiting for the perfect times to ask questions he already knows the answer to. But showing patience in a way that Andrew could also see he’s not trying to catch him or paint him in a bad light. Slowly disarming his defenses was top notch work and respect. Andrew has amazing potential and could use a little healthy friendly direction. Let him be him but just question him to think about what his subconscious mind does. I’ve paid more and more attention to myself in similar way over the years and the growth that comes as a reaction to that is incredible. Not to mention a correct view of one’s self is the necessity in relationship to God and others. All in all David you’re doing awesome and so far great interview
@41viralmedia Жыл бұрын
This was definitely the best podcast with Andrew ever, bringing his true feelings and source of personality out for everyone to see. We need a part 3!
@ivantheterrible8124 Жыл бұрын
Why would you want a part 3 of an arrogant manchild rambling about his superiority complex for 2 hours
@luisfernandoenrique Жыл бұрын
The first podcast you guys made was one of the most impactful things I've ever listened to in my life. Ready for round 2
@maddirectortv6421 Жыл бұрын
What do you think about this one compared to the first?
@em4703 Жыл бұрын
@@maddirectortv6421 He talks too much to avoid being asked about all the scams he was talking about willingly in 2020 and 2021 about stealing money with his chicks from incels. Love them or hate them, that's illegal. He needs to grow a spine, do the time, and act on the $hit he preaches about. Until then, he's not different than the manb!tch he cries about.
@lucifermorningstar651 Жыл бұрын
@@vkshortssWe're i can whatch the first one
@yumyumjuice1890 Жыл бұрын
Can't find the first one. I'll pay 5 bucks to whoever posts it or directs me to where I can watch it
@ImperialMindMusic Жыл бұрын
Its in the description
@khaledali67847 ай бұрын
Seeing Andrew realizing that his father may didn’t care enough about him but kept defending and talking positive about his father at the same time almost made me cry 💔
@van91226 ай бұрын
I don't think this is true at all, and it's a huge projection from you and this therapist. Did Andrew wish he had a forever stay-at-home father that never instilled in him principles and hard work and gave him hugs and dessert for dinner? No. Would that have made him "happier" as a boy? Maybe a common, fleeting temporary happiness. Nothing like the understanding and happiness and proudness that he has today. His dad gave him the perfect amount of love and support to make him exactly who he is today and he would never trade that for an inferior common stay-at-home dad type of love. Why this therapist is trying to frame his relationship to his dad as unloving? Probably just to prove his own intellect and worldview. Asinine - he didn't truly listen to Tate and attempt to understand his worldview. Lost so much respect for therapy here.
@memesandbasketball10416 ай бұрын
@@van9122A. You are projecting and assuming more than you know. B. Nothing in this world is certain, drop it, you aren’t close to being wise.
@jessicasinmas6 ай бұрын
Awwww, let me shed a tear😢 ok done, do me a favour this guy is a lunatic
@khaledali67846 ай бұрын
@@van9122 his father was discharged from Air force after being diagnosed with narcissist disorder! I guess I don't need to explain how Narcissist father treats his kids
@SantiagoRodriguez-zi3gv6 ай бұрын
@@van9122 The blind glorification of his dad by Tate is the most clear defense mechanism he has. If he could some day truly accept his dad maybe was not the ideal dad he would definitely reach a new mental level
@chiaakАй бұрын
@David: You did a great job reflecting his perspective throughout, while asking thoughtful questions that allowed him to be vulnerable. Speaking of depth and connection in human relationships - he will certainly deliver results, and you possess a depth that Andrew seems to lack - though this is merely an observation from afar. Perhaps this longing for depth is woven into the very fabric of human consciousness - some have learned to navigate these waters with grace, while others remain trapped in an endless struggle, unable to surrender their need for control.
@sutcliffedavidАй бұрын
Thank you!
@InfiniteCuriousity Жыл бұрын
Incredible conversation and interaction, love that you're able to ask questions that go into unchartered territory. My favourite moment, in this interview and the first one, is when you raise your voice and take over the conversation, it produces a visceral reaction that I think Andrew rarely ever feels, of someone of equal wit and conversational ability and authority in the moment, and it produces a fantastic reflective moment as a result. Kudos to you!
@SuperChristLover Жыл бұрын
What's teh timestamp?
@InfiniteCuriousity Жыл бұрын
@@SuperChristLover 44:57 for the specific moment, but go back a couple of mins to get the context of the question
@Mark-150 Жыл бұрын
I watched the whole thing. Incredible work. You got him to see how his definition of “love” did not include the actual emotion of it. I can totally see how he would get to that conclusion given the kind of childhood he had and his relationship with his father. Language can be very limited. Two people can utter the same word, but have different definitions of it. This level of thoroughness is necessary to catch the discrepancies in communication. As Andrew said, his presence kicked on when he needed to survive. His only reference to presence was in moments of fear/anger/anxiety. Therefore his association with presence, which is the state one would need to get in to feel love, is now connected to moments of survival rather than intimacy or vulnerability.
@fitprotunes Жыл бұрын
Great comment. There's a clip i watched of Tate where he says he only feels alive when there is danger present. That would be consistent with your insightful analysis.
@hugemongoose Жыл бұрын
@@fitprotunesthere's no bravery without fear, no stepping up to the occasion etc
@danielwalley6554 Жыл бұрын
I was a good friends with a man, he mentored me for a few years, who was basically a sociopath and a bit of a hustler. He had the same trait - when we talked about love, he defined it as "accepting someone". I couldn't get him to budge when I talked about it also involving emotional attachment - for instance, you accept a chair, that's not the same as loving it. The idea seemed foreign to him - like it didn't compute. The man had his good qualities, but he was also like a reptile. And unfortunately I started to realize how much he used and sometimes abused the people around him for his own benefit. It was a lot like the story of the frog and the scorpion - no matter how good what the man said sounded, it was in his nature to sting. He himself would probably have agreed. I believe Andrew is the same. Similar kind of character. Question then is - why do so many want to be the frog in that equation.
@annamayssa8614 Жыл бұрын
Do you know about his childhood ? I’ve always wondered what kind of childhood he had and he never really seems to want to open up about it. I suspect he might have grown up with a narcissist parent.
@danielwalley6554 Жыл бұрын
@@annamayssa8614I suspect the same. The stories he's told about his father paint a picture of a man who was often absent, harsh and demanding. He told one story about seeing his father in a fist fight at a store. Most fathers are not going to be getting into a physical fight when their small son is there, unless it's to defend him (which it wasn't).
@Soroush.73 Жыл бұрын
one of the most impactful podcasts i've every watched. EVERY man needs to watch this 10 times over.
@Wisdom-Vision-Mind7 күн бұрын
“You don’t need therapy, you need to get in shape and make money.” - Andrew tate
@jeremyayers53539 ай бұрын
Anxiety is the warning sign that you disagree with your current situation. Anxiety explored turns into anger. Anger is the energy that allows action. Action causes satisfaction, satisfaction over time causes happiness. Inaction turns anger and anxiety into depression.
@Jamie-ur6xy8 ай бұрын
love this
@matthewtoll78588 ай бұрын
“Anger is the energy that allows action” is dumb as hell
@Benucci_music8 ай бұрын
Anger can be an outpouring of energy but that doesn't mean it's positive because it creates action. Action could be good or bad quite obviously
@Cleanyourroom-yv1te8 ай бұрын
@@matthewtoll7858you can act out of love as well
@Frankthegb8 ай бұрын
@@matthewtoll7858 that’s a weird way to spell “I’m dumb as hell”
@ginorvdw Жыл бұрын
This was far more interesting than I initially expected! the therapist is VERY good at his job. 3/4th's of an hour in, and he´s finally got andrew to realise and admit he has been actively attempting to control the conversation. most ''interviewers'' are leagues away from an actual, open and honest talk with Tate, yet this guy is breezing through it. great content!
@Marketing-lion. Жыл бұрын
This saved my life and the lives of the people who are in my life. Past 2 weeks i was distracted and that made me feel depressed. I could not find a reason to stay alive anymore. This interview reminded me that i don't have time to be depressed or suicidal. Because it is not about me. It is about the people who rely on me. I need to make sure that they are taken care of. I learned so much from this! Thank you so much for this and fixing my brain. Wrote every point down, wil read it to remind myself of it every night.
@asoryu3867 Жыл бұрын
You have now a model so don't waste it bro
@almomedvedec896 Жыл бұрын
Congrats bro you're on the right path
@maulenkalau Жыл бұрын
When you feel negative, tell yourself that you just feel sad, feel in a bad mood, feel alone, feel hopeless or feel stuck, but don’t call it depression. When you call it by it’s real name - those words I described above, you get to understand that those are just emotions, feelings and not a permanent state of mind. Then write down 20 amazing beautiful magical things which can lift your mood up! Then do them one by one you will see that there are so many amazing things left in this world which you yet need to experience and feel! Omg!
@ericwettstein621526 күн бұрын
Tate's logical value system is merely utilitarian and about "winning", it doesn't matter about facing his own demons or facing the truth. "As long as I win who cares about the truth. The only truth that matters is that I won." Circular reasoning. It's a very shallow value system and an avoidance strategy based on an external locus of control.
@DevonD.B4 күн бұрын
Avoiding what exactly? He simply doesn't care that he's delusional or scared. Is that so bad? Why do you want him to give up? I've hated people before, but never to the degree of wanting them to give up. How's your life going? Do you need to talk?
@whengrapespop5728 Жыл бұрын
“Any person capable of angering you becomes your master (…)” - Epictetus
@nyahhbinghi10 ай бұрын
"We all serve someone"
@Antiteshmis9 ай бұрын
Over intellectualization and abstraction as cope. Anger is an evolutionary trait developed to facilitate survival. It speeds up thought processing, shuts down pain receptors, reduces lateral vision to focus all attention on a single target. This idea that being able to trigger an emotional reaction in someone is being their master only works when you are able to avoid the consequences of what you unleashed, which is exceedingly common in modern society, unfortunately. Go to a place with no police, anger a gang member, rationalize that you are the master when they do what they will do.
@whengrapespop57289 ай бұрын
@@Antiteshmis Anger also has a high potential and tendency to fog rationality, cause impulsive actions, override often necessary thought processing and more. Calmness gives the same benefits you listed, but you’re able to control them. Determination, goal orientation and seriousness also focuses your attention without having to bridle an emotional reaction like anger. Your reasoning equates to claiming that alcohol helps your social life, yet simultaneously overlooking the fact that you’re ingesting a poison that your body is eagerly trying to reject, not to mention the possibility of addiction rather than a solution. Anger being an “evolutionary trait developed to facilitate survival” is an interesting theory, but that’s all it is. Everything is not a evolutionary benefit; there has to be something in the absence of something else; for example, hate or apathy is not an evolutionary trait for not having to deal with the complexity and potential hurt of love or empathy, even if you technically don’t have to deal with it by carrying those traits. Another example; idleness/laziness and/or lack of motivation is not an evolutionary trait to shield you from the potential harm of using your body and/or doing tasks that might drastically outweigh the benefits of laying in bed. You already put it nicely into words; “Go to a place with no police, *_anger_* a gang member, rationalize that you are the master when they do what they will do”. I find it quite fitting that anger is the choice of emotion for the potential danger in this example, not to mention the emotion that represents the culture in the scenario.
@Antiteshmis9 ай бұрын
@@whengrapespop5728 "Calmness will give you those same benefits" No it doesn't, that's why the values are given as differential from the baseline. Yes alcohol can help your social life by removing inhibitions. But are you seriously equating alcohol to an inbuilt survival mechanism ? This is effn ridiculous. My god you are really arguing out of your a$$.
@dhruvbakshi9491 Жыл бұрын
I love how it was not just two men debating but actual conversation. It felt as though you could relate not only to their words but also their emotions.
@Sswervyy Жыл бұрын
this has honestly been the most realist, interesting, and motivating conversation ive heard in such a long time.
@CrowForLife Жыл бұрын
yikes
@barakaobama4017 Жыл бұрын
@@CrowForLifeShare your opinion instead of unnecessarily condemning others, friend.
@terrelly12092 ай бұрын
I was in the middle college, always tired, numb, and just not feeling myself. Finally i decided to talk to a counselor and I told him what I was thinking I was feeling. I normalized those feelings. He asked me if i think i might be depressed. I just sat there silent, it was a big 'Oh' moment. Then i had to think if I was depressed or not. Took a while to realize that I was(denial). Then I came up with ways of dealing with it, been much better.
@livvy20257 ай бұрын
Man Tate loves to talk. Therapist asked excellent questions and clearly understands how energy works.
@jlive1975 Жыл бұрын
They need to make a series out of this. Seriously. This is so good on so many levels for so many men (women too but more for men) they need to consider doing this regularly.
@MinhVõMuriel5 ай бұрын
Secret Pathway To Triumph blew my mind. I’ve shared them with friends, and they’re all amazed at the shifts in their mindset.
@roiiitruster5 ай бұрын
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@JC-gj7zjАй бұрын
Sounds like he has a "hero" mindset, but heroes don't know what to do after saving the princess. There's more to life than just saving the princess and that's what he's anxious about. He doesn't want his journey to ever end.
@mkhan5123Ай бұрын
Super deep.
@JasonLeal50918 күн бұрын
The heroes mindset isn’t just about saving a princess. Clearly you know nothing about the archetypes.
@JC-gj7zj18 күн бұрын
@@JasonLeal509 Do you mind enlightening me with your wisdom instead of defending your king?
@JasonLeal50918 күн бұрын
@@JC-gj7zj unless your calling Tate a good guy, his archetype can’t be a hero.