10 Tasks We DON'T ALLOW Our Househelp To Do!!

[@suzyshomestead]

🔴GET FREE SAMPLE MEAL PLAN: rebrand.ly/p7bcu6f 🔴Subscribe here kzbin.info/door/VQPfgeFVWjQs59W9DHFkEw 🔴Video to watch next kzbin.info/www/bejne/sJaaqHV6Ysh9j7M ➡Check out Suzy's channel www.youtube.com/@suzyshomestead/videos ✳ AMAZON SHOP www.amazon.com/shop/suzyshomestead ✳ JUMIA SHOP LINKS FREEZER BAGS, 30pcs rebrand.ly/31cl7m9 FREEZER BAGS,40pcs rebrand.ly/o3bxiuw RAW NATURAL AFRICAN BLACK SOAP: rebrand.ly/hvomsos RAW SHEA BUTTER: rb.gy/q5va8s QUEEN ELISABETH COCOA BUTTER rb.gy/p5zqbj KID'S MULTIVITAMIN GUMMIES rebrand.ly/z5x5l3w FURNITURE AND DECOR: rb.gy/sqid8j www.teakfurniture.co.ke/ WASHING MACHINE LAUNDRY PODS: rb.gy/5cuckr rb.gy/fjudc4 rebrand.ly/fsguanu WASHING MACHINE CLOTHS STAIN REMOVER(OXYCLEAN): rebrand.ly/bqw5dgt JEWELLERY (EARRINGS) rebrand.ly/tuwn02q rebrand.ly/tjjy37k rebrand.ly/40clzma rebrand.ly/sbkvtgx JEWELLERY (NECKLACE SETS) rebrand.ly/j9te8rh rebrand.ly/dndgjtk rebrand.ly/dqltd1j rebrand.ly/0m7gnr3 SOFA AND CARPET CLEANER rb.gy/l1ypat SCENT BOOSTERS rb.gy/fy3kpa rebrand.ly/uc29esa HAND TOWELS: rb.gy/t0txyh rb.gy/y2nbss rb.gy/uoxrgb rb.gy/eljtpr rb.gy/s5j0ex AFRICAN SHIRTS AND FABRIC Fabrics rb.gy/cjaltm rebrand.ly/tqcv2ml rb.gy/uaht4f rb.gy/9dyiqz rb.gy/bz1lpq rebrand.ly/1t4siiq rebrand.ly/3d3etzq rebrand.ly/adsa8id

[@odhiambo2419]

I don't see why you need a househelp since you do everything but your points are good

[@jbtravellingtraveller6735]

Thank you my sister... even though the world is full of... good...bad and the indifferent... you, us...we can still find time to be kind. Love and blessings always

[@maggiemuhanji80]

They've never made my bed and yes I don't allow total strangers to sleep with my Precious, Priceless Jewels from Heaven!

[@celineotieno4370]

Hahahahahah don't wonder

[@albertinachikonde2802]

Well well I can see myself in you .. thank you girlfriend you're so on point .. as you know this word is not for everyone but for that one person .. I tell my daughter's that learning doesn't end until 6fit under . God bless you and your family ❤️💯

[@marytee3740]

Normalise luxury,hakuna trophy 🏆kwa being gd housewife. Enjoy life and do your best for family. Bt don't kill yourself ladies 💘

[@hellenonyango4239]

Thank you....

[@ruthiewaceke450]

Absolutely!

[@bethwanjiku2465]

Ooh yes

[@gloshwins4454]

This has been my first video i have watched from you. You're sooo interesting. I can't skip watching the meal planning and batch cooking. You win a subscribe already😘

[@suzyshomestead]

Thank you!😊 Welcome to the family!💐

[@margiembugua9369]

I agree totally with you suzzy. Very helpful indeed

[@dianachiridza5590]

I tried to be a super mom and almost died from backache and creating a habit of being taken for granted where certain chores were concerned. Just what you can and allow help for your health.

[@cygwanfogbe246]

This lady!!!! Woooo....How do you work full time, cook huge meals, shower your kids, clean your room and its props, do YT....and still homeschool your kids?

[@jenniferkimpiobi8905]

Dear, you can still do it, only if you really want to, I have children, work full time, and still clean the whole house.

[@winnieactress7641]

I love it when you emphasize on kids doing whatever they can on their own You're just the best #Motherhood goals

[@mkarkim]

Really not sure about this kind of advice. It only seems to contemplate a situation like yours- working from home (I assume) and homeschooling children. There are women who are doctors on call, cabin crew, women working early morning shifts, international jobs etc. So does the bed remain unmade? Or the bedroom unwashed? I also do not believe that the sanctity of marriage resides in the bedroom. There are whole families that share one bedroom and still make it work. Where does this kind of thing come from because it’s not biblical??

[@mkarkim]

I am happily married with kids, btw. And I have two domestic employees and a washing machine 😅 I just keep hearing this kind of thing and really wonder where it comes from and what motivates it. Is it fear or insecurity around housekeepers? Is it mistrust of Husbands? If those are the bigger issues then they should be addressed rather than it becoming about who picks up a mop?

[@victoriakananakimone7482]

I agree with you Karimi K.

[@natashakimani3425]

@@mkarkim I agree with you fully. I would be curious to know the root of these decisions.

[@ruthiewaceke450]

Yes. Fear mostly is what drives this and the need to be the perfect wife and mother. Good advice for sure but it cannot be a one size fits all kind of a situation but to each their own...

[@dorothynyaduwa3853]

Some people who are just creating content to show off should learn from you. You're educating, enlightening and entertaining.

[@rachelanyango9720]

The learning and the laughing I get from this channel, wacha tu

[@valourempress1901]

What about some of these women reel out of their draws and leaving them on the floor and don't even care how soiled they are, and on top of that the husband's draws also in the wash.

[@MamaChanie]

How do they show off….

[@hafsarakki9966]

@@MamaChanie love your videos

[@MamaChanie]

@@hafsarakki9966 wooow serious,thank you so much,really appreciate it,im still a newbie though 🙏

[@marillynekathambi5654]

Finally a channel that makes sense 💝

[@graceiswangah4631]

Best advice ever. Now, how do you help a couple who doesn't change bedsheets for a whole month.. Yes! a whole month. I just felt uncomfortable and changed them... Am a house girl and some of these clean and classy women you see in the streets...... If it were not for househelps 🤔🤔🤔🤔God nifundishe kunyamaza

[@user-ho3iz3ig3v]

But it’s not your place to “ feel uncomfortable” for the couple.. it’s their bed. Their house..their filth.. you don’t sleep on that bed. Shouldn’t be your problem

[@judahwillgofirst7964]

I'm glad you have stated it's some of them,, but there is a way you can introduce them to cleanliness, without undermining or competing with the wife, though I understand some are criminos

[@judithatieno4147]

N ukweli niliona maajabu in a house

[@diamond4270]

Why are you taking as if it's not normal to feel disgusted? Everyone has the right to feel, is this something that you need to be told?@@user-ho3iz3ig3v

[@BerylWalubengoAnyitiNanyama]

This is nice for you. If I myself can get washed I will get washed. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Cecilia_Njoroge]

Very Insightful 🎉,

[@suzyshomestead]

Thank you Cecilia!☺️

[@GloriaNdegwa]

When I cook for my family and wash the kids and know where their clothes are na kuprepare clad for husband I feel I am the queen of that household. I don't want to ask hse help stuff concerning my house. I guess am a control freak🤷🏽‍♀️ but it works for me. Kazi ya help ni usafi tu. Clean house, clean dishes, clean clad. I'll pick the clad from her room and nizipange vizuri kwa room yetu.

[@marytee3740]

Normalise luxurious, hakuna 🏆for being a better woman. Jst enjoy life and do your best

[@raw-soul]

You don’t need a helper then 😂😂😂 I get what you’re saying tho, I wouldn’t allow them in my bedroom, wash the undergarments, shower the kids. I don’t have an issue with them cooking once I get to know them, making the kid’s bed, cleaning/folding the clothes,ironing, your house helpers must have very light days😅

[@lornalewis7262]

She is not a slave

[@Meandpeoplearoundme]

Seriously if am to do all this then there is no need hiring a househelper

[@suzyshomestead]

Hi! Here is a video I did on what my househelp does... kzbin.info/www/bejne/mIq8hHiilsejqZosi=WDOeAOSLz4bR2XHU

[@charlottebiamah7210]

You cannot compromise these points Do not allow a househelp to 1. Wash your (husband and wife) clothes 2. Bath your kids 3. Sleep in your matrimonial home 4. Clean your room 5. Cook your meals 6. Sleep in the same room with your kids 7. Clean your bathroom 8. Lay your bed 9. Clean your kids room 10. Check up on your kids at night Very key..... Prov 31 spells this out perfectly well. Kudos for this insightful reminder

[@marymurithii4897]

You don't have to mind... This is the real thing

[@suzyshomestead]

Thank you Mary!💐

[@moisline2667]

My mum has always told her daughters and daughter in laws never let your house help enter your bedroom, clean it, clean under wears or cook for your husband. Major 🔑 👌🏾

[@quelquun2018]

Don’t wash the panties🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@marieadnai6297]

How do you even give someone to wash your private things 🤔🤔🤔

[@moisline2667]

Believe me I’ve witness this myself… she let the maid wash her husband’s boxers

[@christinemirembe6263]

This is how we're tought from a young age. But some people Change to the easy life They think is helping But destroying their lives...

[@christinemirembe6263]

Thank you so much for Creating this video.

[@deniseshallow7128]

Now come across your video and I love every thing about it .that's very good about you some Mrs is too lazy.

[@deborahgreen8408]

You guys are blessed . I worked as a nurse went to school after work , raised 4 kids, took them to baseball and soccer practice, cleaned the whole house cooked meals everyday and was in the Air Force Reserves with tour of duty one weekend a month and was on call at night for dialysis patients . Sometimes working 24 hours when needed to dialyze a patient emergently. I am 68 and I am finally worn out and was thinking of getting someone to mop my floors and dust since I have a bad back . I really do not feel comfortable with it but I have trouble walking after doing the floors. I hope to get the courage to get help. It is hard letting people in your house . I understand you being careful too.

[@chizynweze4165]

Reading through comments made me subscribe even before watching the video. First time watching ur video.

[@suzyshomestead]

Welcome to the family!💐🤗

[@hadijahkyenze2021]

I think you have spoken about me these are my home rules since I started having househelps since 2014...am a mom of three kids and am a full time working mom and my small baby is almost four months

[@suzyshomestead]

Well done Hadijah! 💐💐

[@hadijahkyenze2021]

Asante suzzy I love your content u inspire me alot and am learning alot from your channel

[@faithmaina1617]

Am really learning alot, am taking notes. This channel should have being there years ago.

[@luyandosichula3265]

Wow! A woman who speaks what I totally believe in! I am definitely going to subscribe and continue watching this channel! Great content and great values!

[@1432amer]

Thanks for emphasising body safety Suzy. No-one should easily touch our baby's bodies. From infancy to teenage hood. They need to know they are respected and valued. You just don't know other people's intentions.

[@margaretnslfstylemotivational]

I just love you....That part of inner wear was lit😂😂😂 but it's not good...Nice one.

[@penninahthegrace3036]

Tell them I'm a house maid and all you are saying I have been doing and you know what girl I always say God is my strength one day it will be a testimony keep speaking you never know who might change much 💕

[@joykenya4805]

Team gulf 💪

[@gladysmamatwins1019]

Mmmmmm, na vile huku they don't care thinking that it's your responsibility to do everything...... imebaki kuwaogesha aki. God is our strength.

[@penninahthegrace3036]

@@gladysmamatwins1019 🤣🤣🤣

[@penninahthegrace3036]

Hahaha don't be scared some of maids are Angeles 🤣🤣 I had been sleeping with a less than 5 months baby infact the baby knows I'm her mom🤣🤣 and I love her so much I can't harm even a fly that's me I'm not speaking for every house maid

[@christineno2887]

Be blessed @Penninah The grace. Yes I agree some are angels.

[@penninahthegrace3036]

@@christineno2887 thanks too🙏

[@marieadnai6297]

I just came across this and I love your content already ❤️❤️❤️

[@loisejibreel1328]

thanks for welcoming me 😁😁😍

[@TIKTOK_TRENDING_NEWS]

Am new here and no leaving.The topic is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@JUSTWANGUI]

Ur house help is lucky,huku Saudi Arabia we do everything,na vile the families are huuuge poooh

[@dedricksdainna1346]

I was a house help for one year i pray never again

[@Nasjen]

I need to know what’s left for the help to do?

[@suzyshomestead]

Hi! Here is a video I did on what my help does... kzbin.info/www/bejne/mIq8hHiilsejqZosi=sWN0lk4GSwpQHP5E

[@Cecilia_Njoroge]

Very Insightful 🎉

[@bernicempey]

We don't allow our help 1) Cook our food 2)make our bed nor clean our bedroom or bathroom(doesn't enter the master bedroom) 3) Doesn't dry our(my husband and I) underwears nor remove them from the washing machine when they dry.

[@refreshingthesoul6256]

Hehehe you don't let your househelp wash your clothes, you put them in the washing machine. You don't let your househelp cook, you cook a months food and put it in the freezer.

[@christineno2887]

🤣🤣

[@itsjuliam]

🤭

[@suzyshomestead]

Yes, that's true. 😁 Here is a video I did on what my househelp does... kzbin.info/www/bejne/mIq8hHiilsejqZosi=1EiJRdwjmg8iNUkt

[@aminajumaswaleh3002]

I 100 percent agree with you Suzzie

[@suzyshomestead]

Thanks Amina! 🎉🎉

[@graceodhiambo7574]

Mummy,I concur with you 101% times, we have to start letting our children learn at tender ages!...my 8yrs and 5yrs old twins,also do their own bed, brush shoes, wash their inner wears n fold their own pajamas,... among other things it's good as they learn and grow up more independent in future...

[@elsykage3942]

On bed issue, i make my own bed or leave it that way. But I also don't think it is such a big issue, we sleep in well made hotel room ,plus the beddings r washed by the housekeeping staff with no much grudges

[@digitallocations1423]

Hotel staff don't know you personally.

[@chrisnkundizana7029]

Suzy, all I can say is I love you. I rarely comment on videos but we'll done

[@johannalalite8908]

Don't you just love this lady? Gosh! Her teeth is like wow! So well packed and sparkling. Thanks for the tips my dear.

[@qwookienjoroge4224]

Suzzy you've found a lifetime follower here. Yaaani as I'm watching this I'm seeing my complete exact self in you.

[@sherrygrace8519]

Great video. Some family things are sacred and should not be exposed to others. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@thembakhumalo3113]

Suzy... You have excellent points but your explanations as to why house helps should have " no go areas". ..yes these are so so flawed...Go deeper and be more real...Besides..making up a bed surely does take way more than 20 seconds...and of course...its never a helpers job...Make it more real...keep trying...

[@halipoa6828]

I think the video is OK but the judgement she has on others who do things differently - is a little bit much. I don't care what you do but don't start shaming other peoples ways of living. I was a housekeeper once and I washed the couples underwear. I didn't care and the owners clearly didn't. It paid for my university!

[@ruthmburu2643]

How do you wash people's innerwares surely?

[@itsvee5151]

An adult washing under wear for another adult ....mtu akiwa kwa periods zinaweza pita sometimes kwa pads .alafu nishike yuck ...I can wash your under wears only if you are sick and bedridden.

[@halipoa6828]

Throw it in the washer, set it to delicate and press start. Easy! It happens everyday. The point is not whether to wash someone’s undies or not… but the judgement or the disapproval. It’s not right and quite frankly it’s no ones business how others live or why they do what they do.

[@JM-gh1oz]

Its just taking precautions,coz prevention is better than cure. There are good househelps and bad ones who can take advantage of your laid backness.

[@PriscillahMwangi]

You sound bitter , note she said a zillion times no condemnation.. that’s how she does her things . If you feel judged because you chose to wash peoples undies then go get healed . It’s you who has not come to terms with you washing undies .

[@vivianmurigi6389]

If you hire help, where is the problem in training and delegating? When you go for vacation! Surely, do you make the hotel bed? And do all the laundry on behalf of hotel staff? So why hire help in the first place? Do it yourself!

[@angelaking2300]

Enjoy every bit of it.

[@janetogolla7094]

Great stuff. I like that you are giving a disclaimer.. Because for people who live in small houses two bedrooms where should the helps sleep? Kitchen??????? Many people cannot afford the luxury of Day bug either because of the nature of their jobs. I advise that beds should not be shared even in small houses. If possible get extra mattresses but let each child sleep alone. When I used to live in a small house I ensured I had a small bed, decker and extra mattress. At some point we( My hubby and I moved to the smaller room so that all the others can be comfortable in the bigger room. I think this is more practical especially when the house is not ensuite and even if it is what is the harm to let your children and people in your house be comfortable.

[@asiakaye5055]

Well said dear

[@IjeomaEke-id2jx]

❤❤❤❤

[@BeUWithEsther]

Good one. I love your system. But I believe everyone should do what works for. Them

[@suzyshomestead]

As always Esther 👍🏾👍🏾

[@serahpondera2575]

You seem to have a morbid and negative attitude about house helps. Evil lurks even during the day and from experience there are very good house helps who are faithful and God fearing. Most of the cases of child molestation is by close relatives including their biological fathers. The Almighty God is our Keeper and Protector. You cannot watch over your children 24 7. Entrust them to the Almighty God.

[@suzyshomestead]

Yes Serah. And amen! 👍🏾👍🏾

[@kathybitsinze4661]

I agree 100%. An abusive help can do it whether it’s during the day or night. sharing a room has nothing to do with it.

[@eugenesibanda1345]

I agree with you Serah

[@lilianlubanga5393]

It depends where one is working there are some families who pay someone to housekeep and pay another to do only laundry so why should they do their beds

[@sallywanjiku9348]

I agree with you 💯 👍🏼

[@888KingsDaughter]

I agree. I teach my kids privacy. I bath my toddlers. Until a certain age age 7. I agee clean your bedroom. Do your own laundry. Wash tour own underwear. Clean your own bathroom. Cook on food. Househelp can have their own room.

[@suzyshomestead]

Brilliant!

[@jodeemapoe9032]

I grew up with my mom having these same rules for our help. I never had any body even the help make my bed. And I 100% agree about the master bedroom/bathroom.

[@suzyshomestead]

Awesome Jodee! 🌻🌻

[@mariawanjiru1275]

That is true wama ma wangine mpaka towels there husband's underwear hand achieve that is the work of the mother of the house

[@angiemorris1345]

I love you! you are human with a heart wish I had the opportunity to work for you you are the best.

[@esthernjau4166]

I no longer hire house helps,let me do my mummy duties,it can get tiresome but most definitely worth it

[@suzyshomestead]

Oh yes Esther! It is so worth it! ☺️☺️

[@papajohns2300]

An assumption is being made here that some house helps can abuse children. While some do, there is also evidence that children are abused by family members more than they are by strangers. There is also employers who over use/abuse and overwork their house help and dont pay enough. A job description useful from the outset. I grew up with a wonderful house help and when she got married my mother gave the house help her wedding dress which she loved so much. She was like a big sister we never had. I'm in my 50s now & my mum worked fulltime. We were also allowed to do laundry & took turns to wash dishes with my siblings. While my Mum used to wash their underwear. I remember washing this too, but was never a big deal. I learnt a lot from doing chores as a teenager & has shaped the person I am today. Mutual understanding, respect is key and vetting/references. Unfortunately there will always be bad apples both sides.

[@heathermbambeni529]

Also what I hate is people treating helpers like things,like some employers would say,"if you get pregnant then you be fired" like really now...and they are not supposed to have friends especially if they are staying in

[@metrinelusabe]

I am a house help and I do make their bed and clean up my dear.,but I always ask my self why because I know it is not my responsibility

[@annem963]

That comment about separate bedrooms for kids and househelp, guest room, study room is so bourgeoisie!. Few households in Nairobi can afford that.

[@queenb660]

You are under a good rock, everything you said makes perfect sense 🧡💚

[@karuragirljustus5555]

So what does your house help do? Since it seems you do almost everything your self?

[@valentinekwach5951]

Was wondering the same

[@suzyshomestead]

She does so much still! She cleans the living room, the front yard, the back yard, hangs and unhangs clothes from the washer, prepares lunch for the kids (reheating and serving), cleaning the common bathroom, stays with the kids while they are not in class, prepares their snacks...etc. I don't have to overwork her for me to feel like she's doing her job. She doesn't have to work from dawn to dusk and beyond, right? At the end of the day, both she and I are equally tired and equally rested. ☺️☺️☺️

[@karuragirljustus5555]

@@suzyshomestead thank you for your reply I have watched most of your videos and I can say you are nice person and a good boss❤️ Happy subscriber here 👌

[@virginapennant9125]

What does she do?? ARE YOU FROM THE WESTERN WORLD MY SISTER....

[@marywairimu7581]

In agreement with everything you have said,especially inner wear,bedding

[@suzyshomestead]

Thanks Mary! 🌺🌺

[@truqqy]

Interesting... Would be good to hear how you divide housework with your husband given that you are both breadwinners😊

[@suzyshomestead]

Great question! We both do what needs to be done, with teamwork and cooperation. ☺️☺️

[@doshycooksKe]

Wait!! How does your Househelp make your bed? Clean my bedroom???? Let alone enter my bedroom?? How now? Not me. Its my sacred place with my husband

[@Sharonbless876]

You're so sweet, selfless.

[@tracyodeye]

valid points ..totally loved your content..Interesting

[@suzyshomestead]

Thanks Tracy! 🌺🌺

[@nesadcruz7840]

It is liberating to no longer need a House Help once kids are grown

[@lizznjeri9231]

Totally,

[@suzyshomestead]

Oh yes Nesa!! ☺️☺️

[@nesadcruz7840]

@@suzyshomestead most of all I enjoy the privacy. Your day will come.

[@elizabethmurage5761]

Oh yes can't wait for my babies to be big.

[@sherrygrace8519]

Amen!!!

[@gracekatana4252]

Thanks alot ,av rily loved watchin this video,i totally agree with wat u hav said,do you also give your help rest/off on sundays?

[@suzyshomestead]

Hi Grace! Yes, I do😊

[@lizznjeri9231]

When I get a house help it is for cleaning and washing ,which I hate to do with all my heart.i will cook ,wash my kids,wash my underwear,but the rest ah ah ah!!!i

[@suzyshomestead]

😂😂😂😂 we get you mama!

[@GloriaNdegwa]

You and me both.

[@tingalonails97]

I'm not married neither do I have children but I enjoyed this video. You speak with so much passion when you speak of your children. New Subbie from South Africa

[@suzyshomestead]

Thank you! 😊 Welcome to the family! 💐

[@kimmididwhat]

I thought this was a Homestead channel? I’ve never seen a homestead channel that has house help. VERY MISLEADING… I see Nothing about Homesteading on this channel.

[@suzyshomestead]

Hi! In our local setup househelps are very much a part of our lives. So as part of our homestead we learn how to work together with them.

[@kimmididwhat]

@@suzyshomestead , But “Homesteading” is about self sufficiency. How is having house help being Self Sufficient?

[@myram6771]

great tips I also just have an issue with relatives sleeping in my childs room

[@jossiek.nmutia7256]

Me too this one for me is a no

[@shanieTemima]

I know one who would rather let the house help sleep in kid's bedroom than relatives.

[@NollywoodBestMovies]

I have 4 kids and I raised them up without any house help, and I am very proud of that, just make sure you have a cloth watching electric machine or a manual one if you are living in African, and with that you need to watch all the dirty clothes once a week only.

[@hanankingam3184]

Totally agree with all these, as much as one can its best to apply this :)

[@kathyohara6658]

You have clearly had a good upbringing. All of these rules applied in my home and I was blessed to have the same housekeeper for 25 years. Loved this video.

[@wanjirunjeha6055]

25 years? Woi, what's the secret Kathy.

[@maxines4889]

True house help shouldn't come into one's bedroom it's personal and private

[@joycegichuki5726]

Am 40 wks pregnant n we share the same rules. I even thot am not ok.thenx God you have encourage me more

[@GloriaNdegwa]

Niko 28 weeks and you should see me nikipiga duster on my knees na kamimba kamehang NAMI nahema kama mbwa. Hubby anacatch coz anafeel naoverwork Hadi akirudi home from work mapema anamop hiyo room ili nisiifanye. Hse help hutushangaa Sana. But that's the one place in the house where I can have total privacy.

[@namwatikhopeace8886]

Thanks dear but for Somalians they allow house help to do each n everything apart from sleeping with their spouses but that's not good I do scend ur tips

[@specijuma9291]

I love the content and you absolutely got a new follower. I agree with everything there apart from food for the whole month. I am just not so sure how Safe that is. Everything else is just 👌💯

[@shikohmuriithi5216]

Same here,food staying in the freezer for that long is a no...

[@annemisere5894]

The lesson is I need a washing machine and a freezer 😂

[@refreshingthesoul6256]

Yes 🤣🤣🤣

[@Cathykimjoj]

Did this 5yrs ago...no more hustles

[@elizabethmurage5761]

And a vacuum cleaner........goals

[@rofimukami4508]

@@refreshingthesoul6256 u r not alone my sister

[@beatricekirigo4147]

I like these so important household rules.Though I don't have a family I quite agree with all.Thanks for sharing this.

[@suzyshomestead]

You are welcome Beatrice!🤗💐

[@deliamurphy382]

You are such a clever lady and your children are so lucky. Blessings and light to you all.

[@suzyshomestead]

Thank you Delia!🌺

[@beckymorlifestyle]

My current househelp is a pain in the Ass🤦‍♀️she keep forgetting and if I talk to her she behave like she don't care and that's how she forget what I told her.

[@stephkirathe]

Sometimes I wish this content existed in the 1990s and 1980s. This definitely fuels my vision to add nurseries, daycare & preschool at the workplace.

[@dionhawkins4450]

Wow this is so human because people if they get the chance they would killed their house help with if they get the chance they would even ask their househelp to wipe their but too an everything you say his true God please help the house help to get someone like you to work with bless you

[@giftedsuzisuu681]

Awesome , i totally agree on master bedroom being a secret place

[@suzyshomestead]

Very true girl. 🌻🌻

[@jedaliatati2770]

Hi I'm from Angola i'm loving you channel são educativos e estou aprendendo muita coisa bjs😘😍😍

[@suzyshomestead]

Thanks Jedalia! 🌼🌼

[@sarahshahenza4865]

Good teaching

[@jw8856]

Different strokes for different folks . Mine have been with me for years . We even go on holiday together . They are part of my family .

[@sandramutheu9732]

Yes different strokes for different folks

[@wacukamwangi]

Agreed

[@kellenmuiru2859]

Now that's how you treat people...like human being, God bless you..

[@suzyshomestead]

Beautiful!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@kamwele]

Agreed!!! My mum raised us differently in dealing with househelps and in 3 decades, we only had 3 househelps .. all of whom we are still in touch with .... Out of the points Suzy has said, I only agree with one or two ... the rest I will say ... Do you ... Run and manage your household with respect, love and for those who are christians, with the love and fear of God ... Househelps are human beings whose destiny has crossed paths with ours .... they are a member of the family .... if you can, invest in their children's education, teach (and pay for them to learn) a skill, empower them as individuals and trust me , it will also trickle down in how they are with your children ... its not rocket science ... Strive to be the best human being for your household and the seeds will repay decades to come .... children will learn how to treat helps and even the helps will learn how to work with you, your rules and your children (even if at times they dont get it) ... So yes, different strokes for different folks.

[@livinginwaves]

The point of a househelp is to help out, not become a slave to every little thing you can do yourself.

[@ABM147]

I love this video. So this people have been sitting on me?? But anyway I'm learning for my own future. I'm an house help.

[@catherinewainaina3120]

My 4 year old introduced me to this channel,I love you Suzy.I agree with you on this video,it's important not to lose control of your home

[@feli_sta]

Your 4 year old?💀

[@lauraarcher1730]

@@feli_sta😂

[@vallaryimali6593]

I agree with some of your rules but I take it your really sceptical about these helps but if you can't trust them to bathe your kids or maybe sleep in the same room for those of us who have 2bedroom houses how do you leave them with your 2yr old since your a working mum or when your travelling for work since you mentioned that.

[@olives7596]

Maybe her husband handles that when she is away.

[@suzyshomestead]

Great question Vallary! Olive is right...my husband and I work together in this. ☺️☺️

[@LK-pl4fj]

I totally agree with you Vallary! after all, most of these horror stories happen during the day! All your points are valid Suzy, but I think it's just God who keeps our children safe.

[@beak3958]

But if you are away travelling....and your Husband is at work or Biashara? WHO IS LEFT WITH THE KIDS? And if you don't trust the help to wash the babies ans you're home...what happens that you trust them tonstay alone with he kids when you're working

[@thandiwejambawa7827]

The help also needs privacy. If you have space give your help her own room.

[@lynettenene9218]

You are telling the truth girl about the rules for house helps😅

[@everlyneajayo8889]

My dear this is done in those that respect themselves and know what they are doing.also it's done in Africa alone in Arabs country its he'll and opposite.watu wako gulf watakuambia hio yote umesema ni wewe tuu unajua.huku yunapewa hadi chupi zao za mnyesho life is had oooh 😭😭😭😭its just by the grace of God.....everyone has a story

[@Jeremiah996]

Hi Suzy, your rules are what I have been administering with the exception of cooking. Some of those house helps are surrounded by horrific backgrounds and personalities which in a snap of a finger can ruin an entire family. Also remember to always cover your kids, husband, relatives with the blood of Jesus on a daily basis because only God knows the inner feelings of those people outside some of their pretence.

[@suzyshomestead]

Amen Alice! 🌟🌟

[@asnathwangari2254]

Amen Amen... Great one there...

[@ruizarumanzi9458]

@@suzyshomestead Thank you dear

[@ruizarumanzi9458]

@@asnathwangari2254 Thank you dear

[@annamukami301]

@@suzyshomestead hi I'm a house help and I do everything in the house

[@hildaug7177]

I once worked in a family but a madam made me to do everything for her plus washing her knickers, husband's panties plus laying their bed yet she was a housewife, I cried nonstop until I left because I felt hurt 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 that happened when I was still back in country Uganda 🇺🇬😢💔😔, I won't say What God payed her back but she faced God's punishment and forgave her