Symbols of Asexuality | A Guide to Spotting Fellow Aces

[@cardboardcreationsart]

real story: im an allo queer person but i saw someone at a friends birthday party with a black ring and i mustered up the courage to ask them if that were an ace ring which they were very suprised happily that i had recognised it! especially since queer issues of any kind arent super well known in my country

[@ellamariesshtoyot7717]

I'm sorry queer issues aren't well known where you live. (unless it means they dont really exist, i guess lol)

[@gamingninja7455]

Dumb question, what's allo queer? Edit: after watching further, that's what I am too! Yay 😅

[@fictionalortrue541]

Oooh, so neat! Is garlic bread one too? I think I've heard people consider it the more savory option instead of cake.

[@Cheeto_Puffii]

Yes

[@ellamariesshtoyot7717]

Yes,garlic bread is definitely an ace symbol. I am not sure how they forgot it

[@starsplitterfox]

Garlic bread is one of the holy grails✌️

[@Weird_One_]

Garlic bread is very ace, and Im pretty sure it came from the “But have you had garlic bread” meme in reference to having sex.

[@plushlover7038]

I thought garlic bread was a aro symbol?

[@laylascarlett2010]

I’m pretty sure the dragon thing is because both asexuals and dragons are told that they aren’t real.

[@KateWilska]

This is what I came here to say too! I’ve always assumed that. Since people say dragons aren’t real, like people say aces don’t exist, but also, dragons are cool, and so are we 😎

[@Blåhaj12]

Fun fact: Charizard is aroace

[@alexdelaloire8739]

Yes, it's the same thing for the literal opposites of our sexuality, the bisexuals. They have the unicorns

[@greatemu6837]

The only thing about my asexuality that doesn’t exist is my sexual attraction

[@HeartOfArt7]

Another ace symbol that comes to my mind are axolotls, since they're literally "water monsters", seemingly out of this world ^^

[@SpaceyAces]

I haven't heard of axolotls specifically for aces before, but I am firmly in support!

[@pacificcoastpiper3949]

@@SpaceyAces a word on the ace of spades, be careful what emblem you use because that’s also used in several military symbols, for like different divisions/squadrons etc.

[@ellamariesshtoyot7717]

@SpaceyAces tbh, I completely agree. That might be why me and my aroace friend like axolotols so much, lol

[@popsquirt9370]

Asexualotls

[@ThomasWillett1]

All fair points. I think I should've realized I was asexual when I kept talking about how great the How to Train Your Dragon movies are. Toothless is currently my phone's background and I like to think it's a subtle giveaway.

[@AkumeKarma]

No way…! Httyd is so great and I have the biggest hyperfixation on it and its dragons! If you haven’t, I strongly recommend watching the shows! Have a nice day!

[@liyuan492]

Same! Been in the fandom for nearly a decade now

[@Lasanga95]

Yeah they are very good! Have you read the original books?

[@ThomasWillett1]

@@Lasanga95 I have not, but I do own the first book and may check it out.

[@darkenedstars2433]

Garlic bread and invading Denmark.

[@phiory_is_me]

Ay first denmark comment on this viedeo I believe?

[@buttercxre]

i approve as a dane

[@cloudpopfluff]

as an ace i don't get it, how did this originate? someone please tell me

[@buttercxre]

@@cloudpopfluff it's because the estimation of asexual people was a little more than denmarks population

[@cloudpopfluff]

@@buttercxre ohh okay!!

[@lesliemorganking3283]

“Asexuals are obsessed with purple” *laughs and looks at my room walls witch are purple*

[@pipeline789]

One of my oldest friends and me both realised our asexuality not to long ago and we both were already obsessed with purple to the point that we painted one of her walls purple when she last moved. Sadly not mine(yet).

[@lesliemorganking3283]

@@pipeline789 I’ve loved purple since I was a kid.

[@emikemi05]

I just realised I have a purple wall in my room. Foreshadowing?

[@JeannieMcCurry-tv3ci]

I've also heard that space themes are symbols for asexuality. They can be like a purple moon (which is my favorite), to an astronaut teetered to an asexual colored moon. All of these are pretty cool and on Pinterest. Thanks for doing these videos! 🏳️‍🌈🖤🤍💜

[@SpaceyAces]

Yeah!! I obviously agree with this one as someone who created a brand titled "Spacey Aces," haha.

[@cloudpopfluff]

I've been obsessed with space since way long ago, before discovering I'm ace haha.

[@KelciaMarie1]

DRAGONS IS AN ACE THING?! Omg I guess I've always been like this

[@juliusk.2307]

While I'm all for knowing the symbols and the sense of community using these can bring, I'd like to point out to my fellow aces that you don't need any of these to fit you and you don't need to use any of these symbol to be ACE. Your identity is valid and it doesn't make you any more or less ace if you use/don't use the common symbols. Do what you want, enjoy what you enjoy and don't let anyone tell you how you're "supposed" to be. Cheers, great video! 🖤🤍💜🤎

[@Jay-Loves-Cookies]

Exactly. That's the point of our community after all! 🖤🤍💜

[@starsplitterfox]

"Asexuals are obsessed with purple" Me, aro-ace, *ADORES* the colors purple , green, yellow and blue (aro-ace-flag): *WELL*

[@samcorro2636]

im greysexual and my hair is currently black with purple highlights so knowing about the colors made me feel happy

[@MorbidMoonflower]

a few years before I came out as ace my mom got me a scarf that kinda looks like the ace flag and that's so funny in hindsight. Foreshadowing lol

[@heidifox1294]

I think this really well covers symbols of the ace community. I didn’t know there were so many so thank you!

[@ben_beanbag9502]

Right off the bat calling me out. I am very obsessed with purple...

[@llamaslemonade9133]

Invading Denmark is one I’ve seen around, it’s definitely not the most important ace symbol but it does *exist*- I googled it and it seems to be because about 1% of people are ace (about 80 million in the world) and Denmark’s population is *only* 5 million-ish so we can just storm in and take over and make it the land of the aces if we all band together… yay I guess?? 😂

[@milamartial]

4:12 haha "space" is also a very famous ace symbol 😉

[@Cloven_Leaf]

Lord Huron, I love Vide Noir. BUT MOST OF THE TIME IT'S GREEN AND I AINT AROMANTIC 😭 it does have some purple but Vide Noir has green and black themes. So close...

[@bugorchard]

1 second in and my jaw dropped because I'm an ace with purple hair and for some odd reason I'd never put that together before

[@chibinyra]

Black ring wearer!

[@noutjeee17noutjepsychic]

When you relate/like all the symbols even before you knew you were Ace ✨✨✨

[@Ollie_Unlikely]

This explains why purple has been creeping into my wardrobe more and more lately, lol! And I’ve started collecting ace rings! (Like black rings, and silver rings with black stones when I want to be an incognito ace) Excessive? Maybe, but it makes me happy XD As an aside, thank you for the videos you guys make, they make me feel seen in a way I don’t really get irl, and having a safe space to connect with aro/ace topics is really spacial to me. So thank you, keep at it, and have a lovely day! :)💜

[@hea1655]

dunno where the black ring thing comes from but I do like me a cool ring!

[@SatanicPizza-fo2ei]

Let's fucking goooo, purple!!! I am only just looking into if I might be asexual, after having been questioning it for a while, but that's funny. I love the colour purple very much, I even got a limited edition t-shirt of one of my favourite characters in purple rather recently. That might just be coincidence, but it's funny nonetheless

[@icymoons]

[first second of the video] "asexuals are obsessed with purple" [looks at my purple hair, my purple water bottle, purple socks] "damn"

[@cossackgirl_ZP]

Im autistic asexual - yes, we do love, we fall in love, we feel romantic attraction. I love to cuddle and hold hands but intellectual and emotional stimulation is where its at for me. Can you imagine, we can enjoy life to the fullest, be fulfilled and happy, and have intense emotions. We even have sex, some of us, but we dont “need it” we dont seek it out. We dont have a “I want him/her” feeling or thought. 🤷‍♀️ we just dont care about it, so your obsession with it looks funny to us, weird, absurd, or even disgusting sometimes.

[@shylevielle]

Even before I knew I was asexual, lavender was always my favorite color, I have been obsessed with dragons my whole life, and I have a huge star/moon/space aesthetic. Man, someone probably could have put the pieces together way sooner than I did.

[@FISHSTIXX1203]

This is very refreshing to know, Some of these I had no clue about. I have also Always loved dragons and also being someone who has Epilepsy I have also highly adored purple as a color. And I for some reason don’t really like cake so that quote definitely fits me. But with that aside this was really good to know, thank you for taking the time to tell us this stuff, everyone greatly appreciates it :)

[@vespersalvia]

It's crazy how I've just figured out that I'm ace and I'm a walking stereotype lmao

[@-Glitched_Bricks-]

Garlic bread and the joke about invading denmark are iconic ones, too!

[@ShadowofArts]

I recently found out that I was Ace and I didn’t know about the black rings. Also my Chinese horoscope is a dragon :)

[@Swimmmy_21]

My sister think that I’m gay, which I’m not surprised considering I imagine she only notices that I don’t show interest in the opposite sex (even though I don’t show interest in either). I keep trying to show subtle signs that I’m ace without directly telling her. I had all my ace cards lined up in my room, had “ace” in my online names but idk if she’s picking up on it.

[@SpaceyAces]

Unfortunately Asexuality is still rather unknown at large… Good luck going forward ♠️💜♠️

[@phiory_is_me]

One of my classmates has an ace card on like his outer phone case (or whatever it's called) and at first I thought "oh he might also be ace!^^", but he has the card because he is "always the ace of the team" (his words)

[@phiory_is_me]

Which likely isn't an excuse since he is like VERY homophobic, transphobic =/

[@liecowolf7574]

I guess this would explain why black and purple are my favourite colors and why I LOVE dragons :D Tbh I'm just on my path to figure out am I asexual or not, I'm very confused atm, wish me luck🖤💜

[@alexandralugo1743]

I am obssed with How to Train Your Dragon series and it's tv show spin offs, I have a cute Toothless plushy that I made at Build A Bear, I have a dragon myth book, I kept my brother's dragon drawings that he let me have, and I have a cute necklace with with an ace of hearts charm. I had no idea about the dragons and the ace cards. Was it fate? Lol I also have always been drawn to the black and purple color asthetic. It's so mysterius, elegent, and "dangerous" looking.

[@DaSuTro]

I'll see those ace symbols and raise you two more: Garlic bread and Paddington Bear

[@mage_boiiii]

i definitely should've known i was ace sooner purple and black are my favorite colors and im obsessed with dragons

[@nancyjohnson7147]

I dont have an ace ring but I really want one. I do however wear a purity ring (left over from before I admitted I was ace, and was not just 'waiting till marriage')

[@SilverAceOfSpades]

3:26 Funny story: I used the Ace of Spades as an aroace before I found out that it was in fact used for aroaces because "haha aro sounds like arrow and spades look like arrows"

[@RichardGaudry-uz2bt]

Mostly here for the algorithm. Also thanks for this post. Good to know what to look for. Looks like I'll be adding some purple to my wardrobe and getting me a black ring.

[@mk-aka-morgan8386]

I think I actually heard about the black rings being an ace symbol before even fully knowing what Ace was 😅 Can’t wait to add all these symbols to all my asexual characters 👏👏👏

[@popsquirt9370]

Garlic bread YOU FORGOT GARLIC BREAD

[@cake-gi7kt]

Invading Denmark. Also I didn't know all the other asexuals were obsessed with dragons too! That's been a thing for me since I was really young!

[@beeeeeeeeeeeeeans]

You forgot the garlic bread 🥖 🥖🥖🥖🥖🥖🥖🥖🧄🧄🧄🧄🧄

[@xerzac]

Not obsessed with purple but I am more so of black

[@pianoman8795]

Same... Tho I'm also a MCR fan so that may just be my emo phase.

[@chey7691]

@@pianoman8795 One never outgrows the emo/goth phase. It lives in the back of your brain forever.

[@ayaaralemua7154]

I have already loved purple. Omg I had no clue that would be a dead giveaway. My sheets and bed comforter are purple 😅

[@simplymeowlogical]

Garlic bread. Very important.

[@a-garden-of-worlds]

"Asexuals are obsessed with purple" Oh

[@Mantras-and-Mystics]

OMG! I bought a dragon necklace on eBay and it just arrived today! I have it on right now. He's so cuuute!! 😍 Edit: I had no idea about dragons or any other symbols btw.

[@jackmellor5536]

His Dark Materials is way better than Harry Potter

[@SatanicPizza-fo2ei]

FUCK YES!!!!!! HIS DARK MATERIALS MENTIONED 🔥🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

[@inpuris13]

I bought a black fidget ring for this purpose and it fits on all my fingers Except the middle right one, it was the largest size they had.

[@tomholmes5055]

Oh damn, purple 💜 has always been my favorite color. But I didn't realize I was Ace until my late teen years. Maybe it was foreshadowing.

[@glutenfreebees]

I don't own any black rings but somehow I've always worn rings on my right middle finger without knowing it was an ace thing :)

[@zooom-rk2vy]

Commenting for the algorithm:D

[@SpaceyAces]

Thanks so much!!

[@Luuuna]

Isn't garlic bread an ace thing? Not sure where it came from tho haha

[@Cheeto_Puffii]

Yea it is idk were it came from too 😅

[@cryptidinthewoods7262]

i think it came from the fact that ace folk woul rather eat garlic bread then engage in sexual activities lol... garlic bread is fckn delicious

[@popsquirt9370]

It’s cake but better

[@wordforger]

My guess, someone saying no cake for them because they prefer savories.

[@jakehernandez6102]

Thanks for sharing! I didn't know the dragon fact but I can confirm I absolutely adore dragons, I have a dragon necklace that i haven't took off since I bought it three yeras ago.

[@_ductape_471]

Wow, im ace and i didn't even know some of these. I have been wearing a black ring for years, but i think it's funny that as a very young child, i was obsessed with dragons and purple before i even realized i was ace haha

[@SkylerC1993]

"Aces are obsessed with purple" As a Asexual person I can indeed confirm. Purple is my number one favorite color specifically bold shades. I just bought some sunglasses I'm going to wear every day that have a black frame and purple tinted lenses lol. Edit: turns out I needed new prescription eyeglasses. So of course I got the lenses purple tinted!

[@hopefitzwater1613]

I've never related to anything more than the cake one 😂couldn't be more true for me at least.

[@fumarc4501]

But for real though, who doesn’t like Dragons?

[@shani.moore_]

I loved this 💜

[@SirRias]

Never knew Demi was considered an asexual subset, always thought it fell under bi or pan Also, by now, I think the joke of invading Denmark is an ace symbol

[@annabeth968]

This was a lovely video. Thank you

[@SpaceyAces]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@mariarose7]

Good video, the ace right here from Morocco🖐 💜🖤

[@SpaceyAces]

Hello there!

[@alkirk-ws4co]

i'm aro-ace, love the color black(kinda meh about purple), ,love dragons , And have always responded when asked with I'd rather chocolate cake.guess that helps to actually fill in more of the pieces for the confusing, and confounding puzzle that has been my life.

[@tribork]

i think dragons are a symbol because A dragons are cool B both are often called not real and C there was a post (I want to say on tumblr) where in response to someone saying sex/romance is what makes people human showed the el dorado "gods? gods" image which evolved into calling ourselves dragons

[@karenschmocker8711]

Just got a beautiful black dragon ring for middle finger of right hand.

[@Holly-hr1cw]

Also garlic bread

[@discord_and_entropy]

Muscleman handshake meme: Christians - Harry Potter is Evil! - The Queer community

[@crispicoke]

I love purple…

[@Asterixi]

"asexuals love dragons" ...was the wall a give away? of course it was.. (I draw too much my wall can't take it help-)

[@Dark_Jaguar]

I know far too many people who like dragons but are very allo to try and identify someone based on an obsession with dragons. The black ring seems more my speed as a symbol I'd go with if I decide that's how I want to "out" myself.

[@ginnyweasley248]

garlic bread!!

[@TKZells16]

Im Ace/Demi. Im not a fan of purple, is that okay?

[@mirandarensberger6919]

Have you thought about a similar video for aros?

[@ScarletAlchemist888]

Thank you.

[@SpaceyAces]

You're welcome!

[@KaitheKaotic]

Idk if I'm ace (tho idk if I'm anything else either, I'm a confused) but I have been OBSESSED with dragons for years and I would only draw them for two years (not an exaggeration) I think the coincidence is funny

[@cadinzacadenza5458]

Cats

[@Knitting_in_seattle]

Axolotls, plants and garlic bread as well 🖤🤍💜

[@MLawrence1941]

As a mexican ace person, knowing that axolotls are an ace symbol just gave me an undue amount of national pride 😂

[@TheEclipseNecrozma]

I should have taken the dragons as a sign lol

[@verashirobokova9687]

What about opossum?

[@chey7691]

They are cute, but transgender men and trans masc people have adopted the garbage kitten.

[@KayLoo202]

correct for not promoting joanne, wonderful maybe i should get a black ring. right now i just have a pin, but a black ring would match how subtly i go about my day to day life

[@cassiecarpenter]

💜💜💜

[@itsallrhythm]

I mean... yes I am aspec and I also happen to wear black and purple almost constantly, but that's not *because* I'm aspec lmao

[@janh1720]

Dragons...???? I'm from Wales and our national flag is a Dragon - every third car you see has a Dragon sticker on it. We have more Dragons here than we have sheep - and we've got far more sheep than people... I'll have to thnk of something else, won't I...? By the way - did you know that the Ace of Spades has a VERY differnt meaning in Swinger's cicles? - or at least it does around here... Damn, I'm never going to find any friends to talk to....

[@OrderoftheBlackRing]

All hail garlic bread

[@willsmith5935]

i used to think i just liked dragons and was asexual. now i realize that dragons have made me asexual. beware the pipeline.

[@nguyenanh-ki9sr]

🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Huntracony]

I hope this video won't be seen as dangerous in a few years. Like, I'm sure you wouldn't even think of posting a guide to spotting trans people nowadays, but ace people are currently not the target of 'the culture war' so it's fine, for now.

[@chey7691]

They don't believe we exist, let alone are any sort of threat. And they think it's a "woman's issue", completely forgetting ace men exist.

[@SkyfullofStardust]

I don't like purple or anything else stereotypically ace and hate wearing jewellery, especially on my hands, help 💀 Should I make a shirt with "I AM ASEXUAL searching for fellow aces" on the front and back? Feels like my only hope at this point for any human connection. Relationships without sexual attraction/the change of sex seem to have become utterly unimportant to most people. I have literally no friends. I have 2 people in my life, because they are sexually attracted to me. Otherwise I would literally have no one. But I don't want a monogamous r+s relationship, never have, never will. I'm not very sex repulsed, but my ideal relationship would be queerplatonic with lots of cuddles, ideally poly. I guess I just want a really close friendship with 2 people. How do I find this 😭

[@Idkpleasejustletmechangeit]

You missed denmark.

[@thekarret2066]

Dragons come from the fact that both aces and dragons are considered imaginary/not real.

[@chey7691]

The absolute sass move. Could have chose unicorns, but those are taken already. Perhaps because they have only lust for their hoard? Or stupid peasants are scared of them? Probably both.

[@missnaomi613]

Just commenting for the algorithm. 🖤🤍💜

[@SpaceyAces]

It’s greatly appreciated. 🥰