@nellokiko6755 tell us why he's lying then genius
@ducesuave82718 ай бұрын
Crazy how it was silent af in there but play sum sexy red I bet they speak up then 😅
@cedricjean-felix12528 ай бұрын
You know when you make Tripp stand and shake your hand you said some disgustingly accurate shit
@jasonstevens30718 ай бұрын
FACTS. Because Tripp is the deepest thinker on the panel.
@StopSelfDoubting8 ай бұрын
@@jasonstevens3071Tripp and that pretty dark skinned lady. I don’t know her name.
@Shemzinho8 ай бұрын
@@StopSelfDoubting yeah she’s super dope
@injuryadvocates76028 ай бұрын
@@jasonstevens3071👎🏾 nahhhh.... This King right here is the humblest, coldest, smoothest, calmest, most intellectual and FINEEEEE AF one that be SPITN facts.
@godgeoussolflower8 ай бұрын
@@StopSelfDoubtingKittie J Rose
@nervalouis73078 ай бұрын
This is a human condition. We treat people based on our level of respect for them. There’s people who respect their Boss and friends more than the ones they sleeping with every night!
@DaQueenPope8 ай бұрын
Ain’t that the trutg
@G-Rated8 ай бұрын
Exactly. You only know so much about your boss for a reason, and if you learn too much you could end up losing respect for them in the same way. This is human and no humans are exempt.
@josephmak49997 ай бұрын
When the job is your relationship - "I know you're capable of being feminine, pleasant & cooperative bc you don't with your boss everyday"
@BLACKONCODE20247 ай бұрын
Define "respect"🤔 People can't assume anything. I have my EXPECTATIONS up-front for everyone. Detailed out is the ONLY way🫶🏽🖤1
@a.s52025 ай бұрын
Preach!!!! 👍🏾👍🏾
@beverlymoore72808 ай бұрын
So true. Stop giving a pass on behavior you wouldn't accept from others just because you LIKE THEM like them. You will always be hurt in the end.
@cool_cat007smoove38 ай бұрын
Indeed
@shipjumper60688 ай бұрын
This man hit the nail on the head. People will say what they won’t tolerate, but if the person looks good enough or the sex is great, they allow those certain people to not follow the boundaries they set for others they don’t like as much.
@JustMalcolm9148 ай бұрын
Well, this is where you have a decision to make to be an adult or keep dealing with bs
@M692568 ай бұрын
Wow that's straight facts. I did this and it ruined my life. I dropped my boundaries and my ex wife ran all over me. She killed my life and our 2 kids lives. Thankfully she is long gone out of our lives and we can rebuild and move forward
@t33mc8 ай бұрын
She was fine though... right? What do you want ? a lollipop? GTFOH
@StopSelfDoubting8 ай бұрын
At what point did you decide to leave?
@deedaye8 ай бұрын
She's long gone??? Meaning?🤔 When you say she's out of yall two kids lives, did she pass away? Incarcerated? Because if it's a situation where this woman was just so bad she doesn't even have dealings with her kids currently because of XYZ, ... and that's extreme brother, I hate that you and your kids have to go....... ....... But if she indeed isn't dead or incarcerated , I have to imagine you must have been blinded by someone that had to face of Rihanna and the body of Fantasia and the sexgame of a pornstar to overlook behavior that could and would eventually "Kill the lives of you and yall kids"...
@ericbush61248 ай бұрын
It's sad you ad to have boundaries a Wife or Husband should if they are emotionally available spiritually healthy respect Spouses spaces I went thru thr same thing they have no respect. Tried working g out our differences didn't work got worst had to get up
@maa73328 ай бұрын
Pray that I get my kids back.
@Rieka.Chanel8 ай бұрын
That’s why people need to stop entertaining someone they don’t really like.
@Jayisinvisible8 ай бұрын
I had a guy like this when I was younger. He settled on me because his beautiful girlfriend broke up with him. She got away w/murder; he treated me like I got on his nerves. I broke up w/him and told him he’s not mad at me, he’s mad at her so he needs to go and fix things with her. Them separate rules are a real thing!
@taitraveler57518 ай бұрын
The biggest lesson I learned about myself and once I stayed consistent no matter who you are and how much I may like you it has saved me much headache and heartache
@t33mc8 ай бұрын
I bet you won't still date a short dude, lol.
@taitraveler57518 ай бұрын
@t33mc jokes on you...all I date are short men lol.
@t33mc8 ай бұрын
@@taitraveler5751 correction, all you can get are short men, big difference, the percentage of 6 footers out there means that, y'all either have to share or suck it up and date short men
@roxnmo66248 ай бұрын
Not all women care about men being short..
@Shemzinho8 ай бұрын
He’s right. When a woman likes you you can get away with anything because she’s not solid enough. But if she doesn’t like you? Suddenly she’s 🔒
@tinyking118 ай бұрын
💯💯🔥🤧 This is true, coming from a woman.
@atlsongbyrd60848 ай бұрын
True and we gotta stop accepting things from men just because we like them and treat everyone equally
@Gmamelly6538 ай бұрын
Damn that's true!! Thank you ! I didn't realize I was doing that. I will work on myself! Not ashamed to say this.
@faithful31us8 ай бұрын
@Gmamelly653 I can respect that. I'm doing the same thing. But 2024 will be different even if I have to lose some things I like
@TheChosenTribesman8 ай бұрын
People selling their souls for validation, attention, and material gain.
@tahomalewis23008 ай бұрын
As a teacher, you are speaking my language. That rubric is essential ...it contains standards and boundaries 👸🏽
@maa73328 ай бұрын
What do you teach? Moreover, can one's rubric be wrong and need to change? And how would you know that it needs to change? Help me... 😅
@tahomalewis23008 ай бұрын
@@maa7332 A teach a course called Individuals and Societies. This is an International Baccalaureate course which means that the course and rubric is applicable worldwide. The only time a rubric should ever have to change is for clarification of the expectations.
@RaffineDebauche8 ай бұрын
😮 As a college lecturer, I HATE rubrics. You’re the reason my students can’t function without one 😂
@tahomalewis23008 ай бұрын
@@RaffineDebauche I disagree it allows for qualitative and quantitative measurements
@RaffineDebauche8 ай бұрын
@@tahomalewis2300 What do you mean you disagree? You’ve never met my students. I wasn’t asking if you agreed, I was TELLING YOU that they can’t function without them. When I give assignments without a super detailed rubric, they unravel and start pleading for one, saying they need to know how ***I*** want it done because every teacher is different. That’s even when I say things like format your paper according to APA style 🤨 Rubric they don’t facilitate critical thinking. I need college students thinking beyond whatever “recipe” is in the rubric.
@R.Yvette.X.8 ай бұрын
Most people do this. They lower the bar for who they like. That's why I never feel sorry for people who got what they chose.
@Prince-lo3nz8 ай бұрын
No-one needs your pity.
@komealongwithkymm8 ай бұрын
Lord he ain’t lying I have females in my family that get into relationships/situationships & whatever he into they all of a sudden into to. 🤢🤮 they legit make me sick!
@Singletary258 ай бұрын
He's Right.....Once I realized I had issues with separating into 2 groups...I opted to stop dating. I'm going to live Single and if He is out there, I'll be able to see him clearly
@erniet8 ай бұрын
Absolutely right 💯! This also happens with a lot men when they meet a woman they really like. For example a man will never tolerate disrespect but some will just because they like a woman so much. If you don’t like someone it’s easy to stand on your values and principles but should do more so when you do like them a lot. If you bend your own rules it comes back to bite you in the ass.
@SpiritualLifeCoach438 ай бұрын
This is very true. And we havs to stick to our boundaries even when you love somebody.
@MyDarlingRocsi8 ай бұрын
This was gold
@stephanie35068 ай бұрын
Facts, and if more people moved with the rubric, there will be a lot more single people in the world than there already is!!!
@KB-qk1ic8 ай бұрын
Truthfully all of the panelists have said the same thing before. He just said it in the most unbiased eloquent way where none of them could argue
@kikit5358 ай бұрын
I love how he said people and the caption said woman as if there aren't men who do the same thing 😂
@t33mc8 ай бұрын
Men don't do this in mass.
@lobmob32358 ай бұрын
Yeah lol but tbf women do this a lot more
@Rieka.Chanel8 ай бұрын
You know it’s primarily women paying their bills 😂
@deedaye8 ай бұрын
We can't help but to have a back and forth... ... Lol . Even when speaking gender neutral, we still have to make it "what men do vs what a woman does".......🤦🏿♂️😂
@user-di5yj1cf2o8 ай бұрын
Women do it a lot more. Think about it that why you all to such a small group of men who like you have no Rubic.
@JoshM188 ай бұрын
My girlfriend constantly tells me that I should treat her differently then I treat other people (as far as things that a relationship contains like being patient, consistency, reliability, or whatever else may come about). This just explained what I haven’t been able to put into words. I hold everyone to the same standards, idc what our label may be. I expect certain things & they will not be altered, doesn’t matter who it is.
@RevealedFilms7 ай бұрын
Might be time consider getting a new girlfriend.
@CharlesJToe-gr5jg8 ай бұрын
The message resonates well. I like the respect my guy pays.
@shaundramiller64488 ай бұрын
It's really apart of preference and no one should feel guilty about what they prefer.
@niquamagby5028 ай бұрын
Agreed....Its that out the window stuff....For certain people your rules go out the window
@wellnesscoach59798 ай бұрын
One of the few that gets it right. He is so mellow, clear and hits the point every time 👏
@rm52828 ай бұрын
I can't believe that Kita did not interrupt him.
@StopSelfDoubting8 ай бұрын
She knew he was right. lol
@waltersmith71568 ай бұрын
How many times can I like this ?
@rm52828 ай бұрын
@@StopSelfDoubting yep
@mwalker818walker88 ай бұрын
She just sat there and listened 😂😂😂
@rm52828 ай бұрын
@@mwalker818walker8 it was amazing.
@hereforit23478 ай бұрын
He ain’t lyin’ (this time 😂). 💯
@sano4028 ай бұрын
this panel have all the answers when it come to relationships😂😂😂
@2C2G8 ай бұрын
This who F&F thought they was😂😂😂😂 . This channel so 🔥
@clarencewashington78818 ай бұрын
Unfortunately true.
@DrArthurCGarp8 ай бұрын
True: It’s the “A” kid and “C” kid situation. When the A kid comes home with an A it’s treated as nice but when the C kid comes home with an A you take him out to dinner. Even though the C kid needs the encouragement to get on a better track it low key invalidates the good deeds of the A kid. Had a coworker who complained about being single and said she was tired of treating men well to get nothing in return and I can understand that but I told her you gotta be careful with the “vacation” mentality. Don’t slack off with a good man you find just because you can, don’t punish good people for being good. You don’t gotta put in 110% but don’t drop to 50% and expect things to work out.
@natashaboggs43328 ай бұрын
Yes Sir!!!! Don't punish good people for being good. Right!!
@lovelykiyah74158 ай бұрын
I love how everybody was on mute and shut the fuck up because he's not playing with none of them😂😂🎉🎉🙃🙃🙃🙏🙏
@TravelingGoddessesUnited8 ай бұрын
Facts! The greatest strength o found on my spiritual journey was creating and standing firm on my rubric
@wandawwmedina20128 ай бұрын
Can I say how much appreciation is this show not only for me but for all generations. Your team has all in one 💪🙏. Continue your success ❤
@bellapaz977 ай бұрын
Agreed with this gentleman 💯
@thobekilencube67237 ай бұрын
My first time coming across this channel and I'm here for it... I love listening to every brother and every sisters opinions ❤❤❤
@atlsongbyrd60848 ай бұрын
He is not lying!
@G-Rated8 ай бұрын
He is the brightest male on the panel to me, he always speaks with humility and respect. Dropping gems that can help both women and men. It never feels like he’s attacking women or men either, always giving great insight on what we ALL could be doing wrong. I like this guy way more than any other guys on the panel for sure! 👑
@marianasanchez85758 ай бұрын
❤ this is so true!! I thought I was the only one who had 2 sets of rules. Know who you are people.
@FavDogBisquit8 ай бұрын
That PART! YOUR Biases is YOUR KARMA!
@angelawalkerrealtor42297 ай бұрын
It's called authentically exposing yourself while courting a potential spouse.
@chevoniasmith35417 ай бұрын
Facts I had to rebuild my foundation. It's strong. I'm not changing it for nobody. Period 💯
@ms.foster85328 ай бұрын
Truth 🗣️🗣️🔥
@fitlife12057 ай бұрын
Fam always speaking straight facts
@prettybrowneyez298 ай бұрын
This is the main issue with dating...he is absolutely right
@greatnesspros56898 ай бұрын
1500 single women in that room. They are not tryna hear they are wrong about shit lol
@Gmamelly6538 ай бұрын
They have no choice but to listen even if they don't want to hear it. They all got a bit of food for knowledge that was FREE!!!
@faithful31us8 ай бұрын
The truth can hurt. Myself I've allowed fear and low self esteem make decisions for me
@DeeDe7308 ай бұрын
I need to shake his hand myself 🤝🏾🤝🏾🤝🏾
@happilydivorced32358 ай бұрын
He’s speaking facts. Women in particular would be in win-win relationships if they moved as he said.
@VeryUnrealistic458 ай бұрын
I definitely need to digest this more and think on it because what he said just made me feel some type of way 😮
@JackieS8128 ай бұрын
Alright brother!
@maureenprescott57788 ай бұрын
I'm aware of this. But now that I've heard this brought up again, I'm about to think about this and consider if I'm doing this now.
@nessak40818 ай бұрын
So true... ❤❤❤❤
@LovingSocialDistance8 ай бұрын
ALL people are more forgiving and lenient with the people they love. This isn’t a female thing…
@user-sz1or3or1o3 ай бұрын
This is so True💯
@deeonfranklin94558 ай бұрын
YUUUUP NO LIES TOLD HERE MY BROTHER 👏 👏 👏 👏
@roslynblackmon99347 ай бұрын
Speak the truth. Thanks 👍 ❤ set the standards. For yourself ❤️
@user-ox9ks5fu1t8 ай бұрын
Undisputable solid facts.
@christopherhurley81608 ай бұрын
He’s 💯💯 correct
@NikkiPresents20248 ай бұрын
He is telling the truth.
@George-pi1kf7 ай бұрын
Snapple fact's WOW the truth 😂
@user-ip3jb3ue1z8 ай бұрын
Ive been wanting to help the minds and educate females for a long time! But I am a woman’s and share the same views as these men so I know they never wanted to hear me 😂 I’m glad Men are expressing this. Females gots to do better.
@shaundramiller64488 ай бұрын
There are guys that I am sure will move heaven and earth for the woman they prefer BUT,THEY ARE NOT DOING THAT FOR EVERY SINGLE WOMAN THEY MEET.👀
@RevealedFilms7 ай бұрын
Why should they…
@trenastewart25998 ай бұрын
He is telling the truth. You have to set boundaries if you treated everybody the same, then it would be chaos. Learn to set rules for everyone, esp if they are just a friend. Bc I don't sleep with male friends, that's a boundary and rule I will not cross.
@ruthcook85997 ай бұрын
RIGHT ON 💯 ✅️
@maldhoibrahim73117 ай бұрын
Thank you My G 💯 true🤝🤝🍾🍷
@usenbolt32778 ай бұрын
You can sense the silence in the room....all my fine ladies are quite. Everyone is guilty !
@crystal25368 ай бұрын
@@EC-yl7xkThank you🥶i think everyone’s silent
@aktob3168 ай бұрын
Certain rules for Chads and Tyrone... While having another set of rules for normal dudes.
@laquamartin46028 ай бұрын
Preach Sir Amen.
@johnmoore47143 ай бұрын
Preach 🙌 brother
@sunnilightfoot71568 ай бұрын
I almost choked on my juice…I’m guilty 🤦♀️
@ChrisWilliams-ht5ml8 ай бұрын
Truth!
@shaundramiller64488 ай бұрын
We as humans do the same thing when selecting what we want to consume. The consistency is to repeatedly choose what you prefer. Call it two sets of standards if you want, I believe in respectful no matter the preference but not everyone will get special treatment in my life because I am selective. I have a preference and it's my right. There's no shame on my end.😊
@shy82747 ай бұрын
Well said king ❤❤
@aaronbrooks40918 ай бұрын
Yep. The famous quote says:”Know Thyself”. This means, you’ve taken the time to know your boundaries and belief system and stand on it. Then you can manage your relationships by that belief system.
@stevendavis16918 ай бұрын
He got the room and the stage thinking 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@ishmailirizarry69127 ай бұрын
Chaos ensues smh these people got me thinking they read dictionary to try to sound right and smart giving this opinion based advice
@elid25327 ай бұрын
Nah this is facts. I know for a fact that in the past when I was bummy and on my bs/childish shit, I got away with a lot of shit I definitely shouldn't have with because the girl liked me. Not on that anymore tho. Bossed up and took accountability.
@afiamanuwats8 ай бұрын
Rubric = standards. He's saying the lot of yall don't have standards. I say y'all cause I just came into mines and life has been pretty peaceful... this has also put me out of the dating market 😅
@natashaboggs43328 ай бұрын
Lol!!!😂😂😂
@TheWholeWorld18 ай бұрын
..and Thus.. the FRIENDZONE is created.
@ChaseExcellence-gx2bv7 ай бұрын
He's the best one on here. Tripp just panders to feminism. This dude don't bs around.
@angelabishop62418 ай бұрын
Just an intelligent young man💜💜
@hakimkatumbagajuule90398 ай бұрын
Awesome message
@ineedhoez8 ай бұрын
He aint lying. Get some standards and hold them. You don't change the standard, you change the person. In the words of Jale Hurts, "the standard is the standard"
@FambamBizzo808izzo7 ай бұрын
yOooooooo Keep GROWING ‼️💯‼️💯‼️💯‼️💯‼️
@WilliamMack-gv1rc8 ай бұрын
I appreciate this word
@kimberlymaxwell9695 ай бұрын
I agree with you 💯
@ssupreme628 ай бұрын
Big facts 💯
@panchopablo68877 ай бұрын
Rubric cube for Christmas! Holla atcha boy!
@mariekyle23498 ай бұрын
Facts, facts, facts!
@kimbaptiste3818 ай бұрын
Big FACTS🎉
@Workin_on_me8 ай бұрын
Chaos did ensue sir I know exactly where I went wrong
@JulindaLeDee8 ай бұрын
At my age of 52 I have zero tolerance
@Gmamelly6538 ай бұрын
Yasssss!!!!! I'm proud of myself for sticking to my rules in life now!!
@roxnmo66248 ай бұрын
Same here ...51 no time for shenanigans
@injuryadvocates76028 ай бұрын
50, Virgo/Libra, Fine/Fit/Firey and no time for BS. I'm so humble now, I just look at em. My dude just clowned on me twice in 1 month and I just stayed silent to keep the peace I'm basting in but OH BABAEEE lil do my King know he got 1 mo time and his AZZ gone feel the wrath and might get cut the F loose.
@crystal25368 ай бұрын
@@injuryadvocates7602🫢
@courtnmoopsmama8 ай бұрын
@@injuryadvocates7602why are you allowing him one more time?? It just seems like you’re waiting for a catastrophe to happen, when he’s already made you feel like he’s capable of it.
@vandeandunbar27887 ай бұрын
Perfect said
@t.r.87943 ай бұрын
My Lawd! Facts
@ladavionjohnson7 ай бұрын
Love these guys man !
@banditman19867 ай бұрын
Facts. Women break rules for men they like, make rules men they don’t like. I’ve had women combat me when I’ve said that as if I haven’t been BOTH those dudes😂
@laphiammocooks19177 ай бұрын
Somebody other than Trip that spoke common sense. I'll be dammed 😂