Tactics Narcissists Use To Break You

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@witchywoman737
@witchywoman737 Жыл бұрын
They've tried to break me, but it has only made me stronger.They may get in a few good blows here & there, but I WILL NOT be broken by these walking demons
@TheBestOfLisaRenee
@TheBestOfLisaRenee Жыл бұрын
Witchcraft: Illusion, control, deception, entertainment, confusion, manipulation.
@christicotton6439
@christicotton6439 Жыл бұрын
They want everything you have Including your soul. And have No problem killing you Throwing ur body in the dumpster and starting a new fake relationship the same very Day. Yes. Narcs are soulless actors
@thereallisa1
@thereallisa1 Жыл бұрын
💯
@rlnstn9300
@rlnstn9300 Жыл бұрын
I could never figure it out...they spend so much energy and time trying to be mean!! When it would just be so much easier to just get along. But they can't do it. Their whole life is wasted on being hateful to EVERYONE.
@tonyconnor5691
@tonyconnor5691 Жыл бұрын
It's a mental illness, you can only walk away from that
@tonyg5132
@tonyg5132 Жыл бұрын
They don’t care and it just makes them feel better. They don’t want to work on themselves since it takes a lot for them to change.
@rosemaryjohnson6308
@rosemaryjohnson6308 Жыл бұрын
These people are truly satanic
@Js-wd6dr
@Js-wd6dr Жыл бұрын
Some people have a high tolerance for their shenanigans
@fingsandstuff
@fingsandstuff Жыл бұрын
Its them projecting there own self hatred on those around them.
@timetraveler-ci8nn
@timetraveler-ci8nn Жыл бұрын
They’re not capable of giving or receiving love. It’s tragic but it’s true.
@fingsandstuff
@fingsandstuff Жыл бұрын
Take back your energy! It will terrify them. When "you" control what does and doesn't effect you. Then others can't control what does and doesn't effect you. The ability to master your emotions and decide what does and doesn't deserve your "energy" is quite empowering. When you no longer care, and you give off that energy, they will fear you.
@charmee4045
@charmee4045 Жыл бұрын
This is key. When I told him "that girl" was gone, meaning the one he used to manipulate, he got it and I was discarded shortly thereafter. He thought I would chase him, I didn't, rear view mirror, he didn't destroy me, he is busy trying to destroy someone else now. Rear view mirror.
@fingsandstuff
@fingsandstuff Жыл бұрын
@@charmee4045 Indeed, this is also a lesson one needs to learn about all aspects of life. Save your energy for things that only serve you. Self love, inner confidence and learning to say no.
@chellebelle1970
@chellebelle1970 Жыл бұрын
I done a screen shot of this comment and I will read it until I get to that place! Thank you for this!
@glenncowan6669
@glenncowan6669 5 ай бұрын
The narcissist mind trick; " If I feel it, then it must be true about me". Emotional thinking.
@jayjay-wc9xx
@jayjay-wc9xx Жыл бұрын
So true! Never any compliments but want to parade you around like they own you!
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!
@susancrowther6617
@susancrowther6617 Жыл бұрын
Do their Bidding! Always about making them happy!
@celiamurray
@celiamurray Жыл бұрын
But they don't love you...they never did.
@JacK-qn4zh
@JacK-qn4zh Жыл бұрын
Their Ego is so high....They will Lie, Lie and Lie taking it to their grave Lie.
@CheezhOfficial
@CheezhOfficial 2 ай бұрын
Narcissists do not have an ego. But a false self.
@kayinatkidunya
@kayinatkidunya Жыл бұрын
They Make Us Angry On Purpose By Trigging Us And When We React There You Go They Got What They Wanted They Are Creeps I Hate How Much They Try To Get A Reaction Out Of Us And They Can Be Super Hyper When We Say Anything It's So Exhausting To Stay Silent And Take All Their Abuse
@shaniecegullison
@shaniecegullison Жыл бұрын
Hell yess
@CheezhOfficial
@CheezhOfficial 2 ай бұрын
They break you to the try and control you. It has nothing to do with love.
@yosecho
@yosecho Жыл бұрын
I recently walked away from her abuse and manipulation. Even though she dont hoover but i can see she watches me and creating issues for me to react to it. I give her no attention nor reactions. She is going nuts without my supply. She is trying though but Jesus got my back. I am stronger now than ever before. Thank you Anouska for your educational videos. It did help me a lot. Spread the words people!
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
They do this all the time to get attention, it’s a part of them that is so fixated on getting. You have done right thing by not reacting, I know it’s hard but you are doing great 🎉 Take care 😊
@Juicingwjade
@Juicingwjade Жыл бұрын
I know a classic ,text book narcissist…actually I know a few!!
@crob2636
@crob2636 Жыл бұрын
Same here, I can sense my office colleagues are giving me hard time with my work. She told me ones she as checking for friends boyfriend in the company. I knew it she is hoovering.
@tuchus8781
@tuchus8781 Жыл бұрын
Therapy every week. Still broken-hearted. Unbelievable pain
@tuchus8781
@tuchus8781 Жыл бұрын
@@ericjackson-nq4hp Spring is around the corner. High hopes. Day by day.....
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear this. Keep going to therapy it will help you to process what has happened. It will halo you make sense of everything. You will move forward from this. Look after yourself and know that your a wonderful person 😊
@sheilayagodzinski5747
@sheilayagodzinski5747 Жыл бұрын
They want you to be as miserable as they are.
@greghayes7933
@greghayes7933 Жыл бұрын
Great video anouska...especially the part where they don't want you at all !!! but they want you to stay ....it's the ultimate mind F
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
Yes it’s all about the control 😢
@greghayes7933
@greghayes7933 Жыл бұрын
@@anoushkamarcin yes it sure is and some brutal manipulation....crazy how I didn't see any of this before , but I knew something was desperately wrong ....ty again for your help Anoushka
@Miester7
@Miester7 Жыл бұрын
This happened to me too, I could tell she didn't want me around, even loathed me. but she wanted to be by my side all day. such weird behaviour.
@linleycooper470
@linleycooper470 Жыл бұрын
Always rings true what you say. 25 years of abuse, chronic lack of empathy to me was the lightning strike that set the cracks into motion towards the tower crumbling. I left the burning house to save myself. Little did I realise then how horrendous my life would become. I chose in that moment to give up, nothing seems to be enough. The challenge was to break out of the coffin narc nailed me into with full entrapment to destroy me. Thats on a whole new level I wish apon no one. It drives ypu to insanity, depression, sleep for days on end, suicide and a destroyed soul. Almost killed me. I try to let it all go, forgive myself first then the child trauma that made narc what they are is hardest. I still try or working on to forgive that toxic hurt in them that tried to phycologically murder me. It does ya head in, like you keep saying its so hard you get it! Bless you and your great work in educating the future ones.
@augustlioness22
@augustlioness22 Жыл бұрын
Bless you for sharing your experience with us 🫶
@christinagipperich2780
@christinagipperich2780 Жыл бұрын
You are describing the journey out of the pit very well. Initially, when you realize what you’re dealing with and accept the reality of it, you will feel wrecked and betrayed. It’s like an earthquake that destroyed your house. You have to assess the damage, do the clean up, and rebuild your life bit by bit. It is devastating but worth doing.
@javireyes7333
@javireyes7333 Жыл бұрын
I just achieved thé cleaning of thé damages I got from this relationship. Thank you Anoushka to describe so accurately what he did to me. And I also know a few. But now I can see their game and move on time.
@gemini2loveme
@gemini2loveme Жыл бұрын
Replace the word love with use... I use you so much! No one will use you like I do...that’s how they see us
@tallgrrl1
@tallgrrl1 Жыл бұрын
My narc parents used this tactic on me as a toddler. Predictably, so did many future people I had the misfortune of crossing my path. This conditioning is evil.
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢
@norahmutale4391
@norahmutale4391 Жыл бұрын
I just got chills!!! This person has tried to break me since 2017. He has used every trick in the book. And I have been preoccupied trying to figure out what was wrong with him. 2 kids later I am beyond exhausted. 2020 I had a panic attack. He is evil
@augustlioness22
@augustlioness22 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to read your comment as it sounds like you have been going through hell. If you need any additional help please do reach out 🤍
@christicotton6439
@christicotton6439 Жыл бұрын
Fool even stole gold cross off my Mother's Urn No Shame. Gave to new supply. Stole from a dead Woman. They have No Limits . No Shame in that game.
@sylviakotseva7221
@sylviakotseva7221 Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, it reminds me of the fool I had in my life, he offered me a watch, it was pretty and feminine and a ring. I asked him where are they from because they weren't in nice boxes or anything, he said oh it's from my ex, they are yours now. I said no thank you. He looked at me so bewildered, he thought it was completely normal to do that and felt "hurt and disrespected". These people are empty.
@nicholecornes1915
@nicholecornes1915 8 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh f these people 😂
@rachgrigg2447
@rachgrigg2447 Жыл бұрын
Thats what I said to my ex. "I feel sorry for you cause you have to have an excuse to hate, you can't not hate, I hope you heal ❤" it's so weird
@augustlioness22
@augustlioness22 Жыл бұрын
I admire your strength and wisdom to be able to say those words to your ex. So powerful!
@gemini2loveme
@gemini2loveme Жыл бұрын
Yes! Initially it’s empathy but then it’s downright evil & cruel behaviors...after no contact they still check on you every so often to see if you’re still stupid 😮😅 power through 🙌🏼
@MarkErikEE
@MarkErikEE Жыл бұрын
You are very correct - keeping others in constant fear is their modus operandi. The oubliette of the mind - walled in by fear. Thank you.
@chrystalearly5216
@chrystalearly5216 Жыл бұрын
He’s not gonna change he doesn’t have anything to give not even love ❤️ move forward quickly
@Jamie-lb7eh
@Jamie-lb7eh Жыл бұрын
Narcissists are Devil broken and soulless inside, so they want to break you. Soulless means they can't love, they are lacking a soul to truly love and have real empathy
@katjay3125
@katjay3125 Жыл бұрын
Demons
@rhododendrons_509
@rhododendrons_509 Жыл бұрын
You're videos are getting so much more refined and addressing the cynicism deep inside which i think is important to healing and also understanding that solace can be found there. It's not you- it's them!
@traceywilliams5427
@traceywilliams5427 Жыл бұрын
Everything you say is the truth and it's so scary that I have a wonderful heart and I don't know why 😢
@gloriadonahue7241
@gloriadonahue7241 Жыл бұрын
We think they can love. We think they love us. We are transferring our thoughts and feelings onto them. They don't love and they don't love us. That's how they are able to treat people the way they do. Even though I know this, I'm still baffled by it!
@leannefardone
@leannefardone 7 ай бұрын
You are so right. It's a total manipulation. Thank you for your great content
@donna-colorado8443
@donna-colorado8443 Жыл бұрын
I came to the point that I didn't like who I was around him.
@stpepxress
@stpepxress Жыл бұрын
this is huge! Simplicity at its best… I have been involved in a narcissistic relationship for 21 years and have been studying it for two years in depth just to wrap my mind around it. I’m no Stranger, to the fight, flight, freeze, and fond of effect. Assuming, that I can totally knew what it meant when people were talking about it. However, this video really struck a chord with me… I am in anxiety, thinking mode, just wanting everything to be OK, no matter what… It just needs to be OK now then after that, I’ll be able to think clearly… But as long as I can make it OK right now! I didn’t realize I was actually experiencing one of these thought processes, as they always seemed so analytical in retrospect.
@angelahart1479
@angelahart1479 Жыл бұрын
I have given enough. She left me so I'm moving on. She is silent so that's fine. It's hard but thanks Anoushka. Her life is lifeless
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
Your welcome. Yes you did everything you could and her life is lifeless
@bordobereli6690
@bordobereli6690 Жыл бұрын
It’s possible that she shows up again. Don’t fall in that ambush.
@angelawilliams3361
@angelawilliams3361 Жыл бұрын
Took me 19 years to figure him out... I'm gone and never going back
@keithbarbaro7590
@keithbarbaro7590 Жыл бұрын
If it took you that long, maybe you have autism like me.
@percubit10
@percubit10 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. I have been there and been gaslighted, I am just finding this out now.
@SupremeAtheist
@SupremeAtheist Жыл бұрын
They must know that I am not taking any narcissist back. None of them! They think I don’t see who they are.
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
@sheterrajenkins2474
@sheterrajenkins2474 Жыл бұрын
This was so profound. Thank you.
@growingonthegriddle4945
@growingonthegriddle4945 Жыл бұрын
I gave 32 years. I finally woke up, saw his behavior. I now know that the reality I thought wasn't real. It's just about killed me. He's not violent physically, but mentally is a different story. I'm scared to be around him because of the mental crap.
@janebraun4482
@janebraun4482 Жыл бұрын
It is unexpected or insidious, we need reminding, how we are constantly getting de-valued, yes, then spending time and energy as to the whys etc. You won't be able relax, feel good, but now and then. Women leave them, they get more (abandonment) damaged, the cycled repeats worse. A good quality person they can't even 'see', as he spends time, to make me feel wrong, de-valued, rather than just communicate properly, recognize mistakes. They just 'lose out' and are their own worse enemy.
@augustlioness22
@augustlioness22 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this insight, really helpful.
@flyingkikidesigns
@flyingkikidesigns Жыл бұрын
I will never understand why they come back and ask for forgiveness and tell u everything u want to hear … and then poof they are gone … how can someone break u like that ?
@chrisevans386
@chrisevans386 Жыл бұрын
Really, really, really good video! Thank you :) :)
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
You're very welcome! 😊
@scottmc4014
@scottmc4014 Жыл бұрын
I’m going through this exact scenario right now, I just cut her off today. Why this push me pull you mentality if they truly wanted you to stick around? I thought I was being discarded, certainly tormented. I think her new supply is a narc too, It’s just too bizarre! I’m done after 5-1/2 years. Very sad but coming back to vids like this helps tremendously. Always knew something was off, never ignore your intuition, NEVER! Just started to understand the consequences of my decisions a few months ago when I discovered the Narcissist.
@augustlioness22
@augustlioness22 Жыл бұрын
Huge well done on cutting her off! Try journaling so that you can keep a record of how you are feeling to refer back to if she tries to get you back.
@fainitesbarley2245
@fainitesbarley2245 Жыл бұрын
Yes they want you there all the time whilst driving you away.
@susancrowther6617
@susancrowther6617 Жыл бұрын
I believe they are so broken inside that they will do anything to try to heal something that can’t be healed in adult life. I was 50 years in a relationship but only questioned what was happening when he found another supply for giving him the attention he craved. So I slowly got my head together over a two-year period - I needed this time to question my life and not just throw those years together away before I felt I had tried everything to keep the relationship going. In this time I learned about narcissism/borderline personality disorder and sadly that’s when I realised my whole life had been a lie with this person. I am now divorcing this person and getting what life I have left back on track and learning the real me. Not there yet and I may need some help/therapy but I’ll get there. I’ll just leave this with you .... When I left him he was telling our friends that “he NEEDS me”. I replied - exactly, NEEDS not WANTS. Stay strong!
@larryc5361
@larryc5361 Жыл бұрын
Ever thought you weren't showing him attention so he looked for it from someone else? Need? Want? Whatever. Maybe it's both.
@ChristinaCobey-vp9mu
@ChristinaCobey-vp9mu Жыл бұрын
43yrs of chronic abuse, and just figured out what was going on. I'm currently grieving the loss of the years of my life I've wasted. I love who I thought he was but the hate and contempt I feel is over powering the love. I was using gray rock until his BS, attacks ,passive aggressive comments and telling me that the family thinks I'm the one with the problem and I should make a Dr's appointment. Let me tell you, I ripped him a new one! Sure felt good! I just don't care anymore. I'm going to go back to gray rock and see if he's going to poke that bear again.
@Adam-vp1cl
@Adam-vp1cl Жыл бұрын
Tried to drown me while I was trying to save them from themself
@ClassicOpinion
@ClassicOpinion Жыл бұрын
It’s my opinion: agreed ~ the Narcissistic spirit is already broken and incapable of receiving unconditional love though they seek people that provide it… That evil spirit would rather break their victim cause them to stumble rather than receive love and reciprocate it……. their main attributes are lack of self control, pride and fear….
@augustlioness22
@augustlioness22 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your opinion, I think others will identify with what you have said.
@fainitesbarley2245
@fainitesbarley2245 Жыл бұрын
It’s sad. They are unhappy, bitter, resentful people who end up alone. You can’t save them!! Run away.
@thehrspirit
@thehrspirit Жыл бұрын
Thank you for another good video. I've just found your channel and enjoying the library. Do you have a series for narcissistic bosses?
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching. I have done some videos on work place narcissism but I am hoping to do some more. I will be doing a live stream on workplace narcissism very soon
@snookerb6777
@snookerb6777 6 ай бұрын
I so needed this today-Thank you❣
@fightswithspirits915
@fightswithspirits915 Жыл бұрын
We did it to ourselves by allowing it.
@melisentiapheiffer3034
@melisentiapheiffer3034 Жыл бұрын
No, we didn't. That is what narcissists want us to believe.
@Dazz3881
@Dazz3881 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Anoushka.. I may have posted this b4 some where.. But this is So Powerful..!.. Peter Acrat 2 weeks ago (edited) 👉2:00 - Dark Silence Vs Light Silence: 🚩Silence from the 'Darkness' is Intended to project 'pain and punishment' Outwardly toward another to fuel greater Division, Separation and Conflict. Destruction of others. ☮Silence from the 'Light' is Intended to restore 'Love and Peace' Inwardly to oneself to fuel greater Integrity, Unity and Harmony. Restoration of Self.
@J87513
@J87513 Жыл бұрын
Great video Anushka….thank you! Now I know why I was with her for eleven years. Looking back I felt like a zombie caught up with her.
@tammymiles4369
@tammymiles4369 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this very powerful video. I was wondering how they kept me small. I am going to rewatch this a few times to make sure I get all the info and it sticks.
@chrystalearly5216
@chrystalearly5216 Жыл бұрын
This has helped so much. They never give anything nada zip
@Poppyrich77
@Poppyrich77 Жыл бұрын
Another good view… Thank you ☮️❤️
@ManishVerma-nr2xl
@ManishVerma-nr2xl Жыл бұрын
So perfect you are Anoushka. Can't thank you enough . Cheers!
@leticiamilo4387
@leticiamilo4387 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Anoushka!❤⚘
@thepurestbashir-xr5ex
@thepurestbashir-xr5ex Жыл бұрын
Yes it so painful it’s killing me …. I’m so not copying with the pain … the lie so much my narc meant everything to me I loved him .., but he didn’t marry me but he married another women and cheated
@augustlioness22
@augustlioness22 Жыл бұрын
Sorry to read that you aren’t coping right now. It’s true that the pain can be so intense. Please do reach out to someone if it gets too much. Remember Anoushka offers 1-2-1 consultations if you need it. Stay strong - you’ve got this!
@fainitesbarley2245
@fainitesbarley2245 Жыл бұрын
Try Sam Vaknin videos and get some therapy.
@mrc3226
@mrc3226 Жыл бұрын
This is happening to me thanks for sharing
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear this 😢 but you will get through this and you will recover
@wtcmedic911
@wtcmedic911 Жыл бұрын
As a desperately trying to get over my narcissist without empathy ex fiancé who I still am so so crazy about that I was pretty shocked at almost 2.5 months of not contacting her she left 3 voice messages reaming me out for her returned things getting stuck in her countries customs. I got a long way to go. I was pleased to hear her voice. I miss her…. Thought I was making progress.
@katjay3125
@katjay3125 Жыл бұрын
Find Jesus resist this devil
@wtcmedic911
@wtcmedic911 Жыл бұрын
@@katjay3125 I have and we talk more then daily. It’s a huge part of my life. This is also why I have compassion for her instead of bitterness. Kinda would love a dose of bitterness to be honest.
@yankeehillraymie1296
@yankeehillraymie1296 11 ай бұрын
I watched You Pause and swallow trying to figure out what you were thinking. ❤U please Take Care of Yourself
@nicholasguama7200
@nicholasguama7200 Жыл бұрын
Very well said and heard
@NYCKING333
@NYCKING333 Жыл бұрын
Glad to see your subscriber count is moving up keep up the good work I got eyes on you.
@USALiveStream
@USALiveStream Жыл бұрын
Amazing
@DaShamsonSM
@DaShamsonSM Жыл бұрын
Thank you ma'am.. this is what going on me
@lenaleong4894
@lenaleong4894 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
You're welcome ☺️
@AdrianoGiovanni-ic5rk
@AdrianoGiovanni-ic5rk Жыл бұрын
💚🙏the nooshkeeeee
@yvettejulye4230
@yvettejulye4230 Жыл бұрын
He didn’t know how to love me . He didn’t know how to love himself . I grew up in a very loving home and he was jealous because his upbringing was torn . He Never helped around the house . Wanted to eat and put dirty dishes in the sink and tried to treat me like his mother . I was dying inside . I didn’t know who I was . I walked on egg shells all the time . I could feel his negative energy ( I didn’t know then that I was an empath ) Narcissistic people prey on empaths . I woke up ! I filed for divorce . The Best thing I ever did ! I’ve been free from that demon for 5 years ! So grateful to God and my children , that I took back my Power !
@donna-colorado8443
@donna-colorado8443 Жыл бұрын
I can't say the man I was seeing was a narcissist but he would tell me everything I felt was wrong. He once told me to take my feelings and stuff them in the trash. It was all very confusing to me and I am still replaying it over and over.
@wigologywithvalerie1450
@wigologywithvalerie1450 Жыл бұрын
..Then that's a narc honey,seeing and hearing ...is believing💯🙏❤️wishing you love n light..RUN.xo
@fainitesbarley2245
@fainitesbarley2245 Жыл бұрын
You need to learn how to stop ruminating. They open up core wounds from your childhood. Try Sam Vaknin videos and get some therapy.
@phyllistouchstone7136
@phyllistouchstone7136 Жыл бұрын
She does not like me at all. I will not take her crap. She is one horrible person. She had the nerve to call the Christmas presents I bought junk. I’m the only one that would say anything. She has blocked me. I don’t care.
@Spitfireseven
@Spitfireseven Жыл бұрын
I was surrounded with passive narccists. They were an insidious presence. It sounds like you were surrounded by aggressive types that left you out in the cold. My situation was pretty odd because my family was just pretty damaged . You sound like you had some real hideous people around you and you were never even able to come up for air. Glad to see you could get out of that situation. It is true. Bloodsuckers can kill you. As soon as you shake them loose you still have to learn how to be whole again. That's tough when you have to learn it from being a kid! I still think your hot!
@crob2636
@crob2636 Жыл бұрын
She judge so many people as narcissist including me and I can’t even tell her that normal people don’t Judge bad things to others.
@emmamonroe3311
@emmamonroe3311 Жыл бұрын
Becuz they don’t have anything to give.
@sheiladay-od2me
@sheiladay-od2me Жыл бұрын
I do have family not far away and talk to several people a week who do not live near me, so I know if I need anything or they do, we can help each other out. My sister wants me to live with her there or somewhere other than here.
@augustlioness22
@augustlioness22 Жыл бұрын
That’s great that you have good people nearby who you can rely on for support 🫶
@larrywhittemore9362
@larrywhittemore9362 Жыл бұрын
Excellent Anouska! A brilliant explanation of the love experience, that a Narcissist uses for control. I've experienced it myself more than once, from very beautiful women. Beautiful women learn early that they have the Force, which is exactly what it is over men. If they are of evil intent they will have a history, multiple marriages, relationships etc. Ala Elizabeth Taylor..the Gabor sisters etc. It has become apparent to me that unless, a man, absolutely does not want to Fuuk a woman...he will not be effective in dealing with her! I see it in every level of life, even my own. Men need to take care of themselves, mentally, spiritually,and physically.
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Yes women do use their femininity against men if they have negative intent. This is the darker side of femininity 😮 always use your discernment
@melisentiapheiffer3034
@melisentiapheiffer3034 Жыл бұрын
There are beautiful women who are not narcissistic, but I do get what you're saying. I feel women who enter beauty pageants or become models or actresses are the ones you speak of. Those are the kinds of people one should stay away from.
@TataShiku
@TataShiku Жыл бұрын
The KZbin world is what really get what I was going through. He tried to kill me , destroy me by teaming up with the merciless new supply who they would insult, demean me . H knew by driving me to the edge of a cliff I would kill myself and he would be left to enjoy his life .I didn't die..I amback up helaung say by day
@augustlioness22
@augustlioness22 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience. It’s so wonderful to read that you are healing after going through that pain.
@jeanfrantz2788
@jeanfrantz2788 Жыл бұрын
I'm dealing with one right
@nutterbutter5255
@nutterbutter5255 Жыл бұрын
As I’m watching this..he texted me after no contact for 2 weeks. Don’t read it I tell myself.
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
OMG really 😮 he could feel your energy. Don’t reply whatever you do
@fainitesbarley2245
@fainitesbarley2245 Жыл бұрын
Block him
@sheiladay-od2me
@sheiladay-od2me Жыл бұрын
It is really a matter of fact that they are not just dishonest and manipulative with you, they have been this way with every person they have ever met in their lives. Why would they be different with you? They are master manipulators and will die deceiving the last person they talk to. They cannot and will not look at themselves and the pain they cause.
@Trpmanne
@Trpmanne Жыл бұрын
Confusing especially when they push your hand away when initiating intimacy & sex
@shaniecegullison
@shaniecegullison Жыл бұрын
He could of killed me on Friday!!!!!
@Jamie-lb7eh
@Jamie-lb7eh Жыл бұрын
The Nazis- Hitler was actually a Narcissists! No joke.
@shaniecegullison
@shaniecegullison Жыл бұрын
Watching twice
@shaniecegullison
@shaniecegullison Жыл бұрын
I have bruises everywhere Please leave them for you my dear They wont change i came back and i regret every second of it Im scsred to leave and start over but this hurts waay too much to stay Im still here and trying ti
@dosmatrix4470
@dosmatrix4470 Жыл бұрын
I never really knew my ex Cover Narcs real age she was atleast 10 years older than me and used to show me off like a piece of jewellery. I found out later ,after the discard,she was older than she first said.
@rosemaryugwuegbulam6229
@rosemaryugwuegbulam6229 Жыл бұрын
I am still in this right now for 17 years of my life it was hard to work away because of my children but now he is using the same children agent me and using the French police and lawyers oh god of justice come help me and my kids this is hard 💔😭🤲🏾
@targetedtyranny4661
@targetedtyranny4661 Жыл бұрын
There needs to be more videos on the people that help,we understand the narcissist, or psychopath, it's about ego,power control,but the people that will help them destroy a person, even the community, I'm going through this, it's a living nightmare, and they make sure and yell me it won't end until I comply with the narrative, these people participate in ridicule,stalking,harassment ,even act entitled and justified,but they also know they must hide it enough not to get caught,or have proof against them,to me this is evil,but they see it some other way obviously,can you make a video maybe to explain this?
@d0nnashineon485
@d0nnashineon485 Жыл бұрын
Im still obsessing, cant stop thinking , cheated on, abused and truma bonded, after many yrs then was discarded .,.. i was hoping for a hoover , Thank you I needed to hear this , I have been so manipulated for so long its all i knew...Im a work in progress...
@fainitesbarley2245
@fainitesbarley2245 Жыл бұрын
Only hope for a hoover so you can completely blank them. Be honest with yourself.
@targetedtyranny4661
@targetedtyranny4661 Жыл бұрын
I'm going through a massive smear campaign, I believe this organization even notified police what there doing,so I'm being stalked and harassed, threatening to keep me in fear,I believe the goal is to try and keep it going to take away my career, they already smeared me to many companies, they keep using the same accusations as a stall method to try and keep me in anxiety, really they want to keep me from my truck driving, my success is the injury to this person, they couldn't stand it,they use the accusations as an excuse for everything they do,and my family, they community know this is happening, know what I go through, but no one does anything, there are truly some very evil hearted people in this world, people that don't care,won't risk anything, nothing is changed with people since the holocaust, it just takes some influence, and people will do just about anything, especially if they can justify, there isn't justification for taking someone's life,and livelihood, stalking and harassment, the injustice builds up sometimes, really it's very heartbreaking knowing this is how people truly are,many partipate and help this happen,they make it all possible.
@brunopannemans5729
@brunopannemans5729 Жыл бұрын
Sitting in your lifeboat waiting for a titanic to pass.... Punching a hole with every boat she sees... Dump and never look back... Enjoy Paris anouch ✌️🤟
@rosemaryugwuegbulam6229
@rosemaryugwuegbulam6229 Жыл бұрын
Question,, why same countries hate to speak about this kind of people ? They keep hurting mothers like me right now why ?💔🤦🏾‍♀️
@sheiladay-od2me
@sheiladay-od2me Жыл бұрын
Do not talk to people when you are out, and do not invite anyone into your home. The best way to live life is to be totally self-sufficient and not need anyone. You can hire services, etc., but set yourself up so that you enjoy your life.
@seankay8137
@seankay8137 Жыл бұрын
If you want to become a hermit. that's up to you. However, life is better with good people around you. You just have to trust your instints to find them.
@emmamonroe3311
@emmamonroe3311 Жыл бұрын
Their narcissism is an illusion, that’s why they love that movie. If they had you watch it once or twice this is them telling you who they actually are. You just don’t know this. Becux you are normal and they are not and never will be. Look at it as a figment of your imagination; becuz that is what they actually are.😣 THERE IS NOTHING OKAY WITH THEM.😢
@rambultruesdell3412
@rambultruesdell3412 Жыл бұрын
Anna .... everyone else 😢 ...... people who suffer from NPD and or BPD do not know who can be trusted 😮😢 ...... bottom line .... yes, like said fear / survival 🤮
@jeanfrantz2788
@jeanfrantz2788 Жыл бұрын
It's a matter of time I will leave Her
@davidparker5439
@davidparker5439 Жыл бұрын
👍👍
@KwadwoLarbi-vg7tl
@KwadwoLarbi-vg7tl Жыл бұрын
I’m in this situation and I’m in Ghana hmmm!i don’t know how to reach you
@shaniecegullison
@shaniecegullison Жыл бұрын
They will fucking break you Im Heartbroken 💔
@shaniecegullison
@shaniecegullison Жыл бұрын
There words and promises mean nothing I repeat they mean nothing Ye promised me he would never EVER out his hands on me again and just beat me Friday Threw my whole 130 pounds of me right into the kitchen ground right on my head
@westcoasttreepro
@westcoasttreepro Жыл бұрын
How does one schedule to speak with you?
@augustlioness22
@augustlioness22 Жыл бұрын
If you go to the description box below the video, it shows how you can get in contact for 1-2-1 consultation ☺️
@florind93
@florind93 Жыл бұрын
She unfriended me on snapchat after one week in no contact
@NH-zu9cl
@NH-zu9cl Жыл бұрын
🙏👏🌺💋
@trinity2860
@trinity2860 5 ай бұрын
I’m not responding. It doesn’t make sense.
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