Talk to Women! What to Say to a Girl at a Party (Dating Advice for Men)

[@x-man5056]

Missed that last question 1st time through. One thing I watch at a party is what men, that women I find attractive, are attracted to. It is uber turn off to see what I perceive to be a possible high value women get googoo eyed over a dude that I consider way below her. Either some "Bad Boy-ish" character or other weird thing like short women that just practically jump into some tall dude's lap. The men who fit the tall Chad stereo type usually have little to no panache because they hardly ever need it. Women will throw out their standards list to be with them. They will suffer the same angst as men who lose their sh*t over some hot looking party girl that has been with several guys at the party. Disappointment for being attracted to some wrong things, finding no "attraction" to keep them there.

[@YourWingmam]

I hear you on that!

[@eddy2561]

This works every time: HUBBA - HUBBA!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@alexjamesdf]

I always cringe at the thought of trying to do the flirty touch and it just being awkward instead of natural... I just don’t think you can do these things whilst thinking about it, it’s too unnatural. I met my last girlfriend at a party and noticed how she would touch me on my inside arm a lot whilst talking it to me and I noticed how much I loved it, as I was very attracted to her too. I also noticed that night how she did that with other people and became scared that it was just her way and not flirting with me. But I knew we had a connection and thankfully I followed up on it. But I remember taking David DeAngello’s advice to just keep leaning back so she keeps leaning in, and on that occasion, it worked. We’re still together now 3 years later but all is not so well recently and I completely lost my vibe, looks and confidence need to sort it out.

[@YourWingmam]

Anything we're not practiced at doing will feel awkward at first. I recommend single guys practice on girls they're not actually attracted to. It still makes the girl feel good (unless she hates being touched), and as long as the guy isn't leading her on, then it doesn't matter if he bombs. I met Tom Skerritt (an actor) years ago and he told me that he got into acting because he was almost clinically shy. I'll bet he felt more than a little awkward the first few times he was on a stage or in front of a camera. Also, good point on "touching everyone"... if you want the person you're interested in to feel special, treat them special. Don't touch everyone when she's the one you really want. (or vice versa!) A tip to get your vibe back: star learning something new. You'l feel proud of yourself and she should be at least a little bit impressed. Just make sure it's something you're actually interested in or you'll ditch and lack of commitment is a turn-off. What have you always wanted to learn? Guitar? French? Whatever, pick something. (I think I have a video coming up on this topic.) p.s. Good tip from DD! #leanback

[@x-man5056]

The only time I ever did any good at a party was when I already knew the girl/woman. Something about the atmosphere makes me feel like I'm being scrutinized. I think maybe sometimes women feel that way too. Or it just never worked out, not really sure. Never felt that way in a club for some reason. I was always a bit of the class clown in school, even college. I would think I'd be a natural at parties but no. It's a conundrum.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@joshuabrande2417]

I have a slight suspicion that my cane might put women off thinking I could be a pool hustler.

[@markedwards7721]

Brad Pitt got dumped, guys. Angelina Jolie is crazy. OK, now that we know what's going on........... :)

[@YourWingmam]

So there you go: looks, money, fame didn't make it work for Brad. (Though, she does seem a bit coo-coo in general lol)

[@markedwards7721]

@@YourWingmam Maybe so, but my bet is Angelina is the crazy one in that pair. Angelina even disowned her own father. Her father is just plain heartbroken.

[@YourWingmam]

@@markedwards7721 can't argue with you! Still we do see that even in La La Land money, fame and looks are no guarantee

[@cityman2312]

Angelina even cut off her own breasts, didn't she? That's a lot crazier.

[@jarodorla6949]

Aj the tourquoise blue your wearing hear suits you. Sometimes women dont read the flirting signs when a guy is flirting with her. Yes instant turn offs for me are arrogance and a woman with a loud mouth.

[@YourWingmam]

Yes, arrogance is a turnoff all around!