Reasons She Tests You | Types of Tests She Uses on You | How to Test Her😉

[@YourWingmam]

Throwbacks will test you relentlessly, but good women evaluate you, just like you should be evaluating her by more than her looks! Here's how women evaluate you... Shit Tests (aka How Women Evaluate You to Feel Safe Because Chad Broke Her Heart): kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkFVeRMpvW3s3SC3Vgu7I1d

[@MichaelAlbrecht-d7z]

I was constantly being tested.I was not trying to impress her .I eventually just gave up and moved on I knew I was being tested but I didn't sign up for game playing.Life is too short.No matter how good looking she is.RESPECT YOURSELVES GUYS!.

[@MichaelAlbrecht-d7z]

I am sick of the guessing games!!!.

[@PalaNickers]

Mine couldn't stop testing because she's a Borderline/Narc. That's the real Pandemic right now.

[@gary467]

Long haul ?? Messed up, testing you, that's why man's best friend is a dog

[@stevemellin5806]

You're right

[@admorgz]

Isn't it just haha

[@David-lx4yb]

So why are you still with her?

[@PalaNickers]

@@David-lx4yb / I'm not. LOL! I went NC 2 weeks ago.

[@JephyrX]

No one should ever "provoke a fight to see how you're going to react." The first time it happens...RUN!

[@stratguitarman7831]

they don't its wired into their psyche they aren't sitting around thinking up tests

[@deandownsouth]

yes, there are enough "tests" thrown at couples by real life, no need to make things up.

[@theclown2393]

Operation ghost should be inorder

[@YourWingmam]

Agreed. Provoking a fight and testing a disagreement are two very different things. The first comes from emotional dysfunction the latter (if done with the right intentions) comes from discovering compatiblilities. :)

[@Cantbuyathrill]

Exactly!!!

[@ronque23]

If you open her car door to let her in and that broad doesn’t reach across to unlock your door, dump her. -Sonny, from the Bronx

[@BWater-yq3jx]

If you're driving a car old enough to not have central locking... and she's still dating you... be happy with that! 😄

[@ferney2936]

@@BWater-yq3jx I was thinking the same thing!......but Ron's instinct was correct

[@AlexanderMoises]

@@BWater-yq3jx If she doesn't like my horse and buggy...she can walk away.

[@josephmoore3656]

The thing is we all have unlock on our keys or key chain now. Lucky broad

[@gcraib]

The modern equivalent is to leave her in bed at your place, to our and she if she has tidied up. if you have not gotten that far yet, take her to the cinema, pay for movie tickets. If she doesn't pay for snacks and drinks dump her. Especially if it's been a few dates and you have paid.

[@mikewebb612]

One of the best sayings I've heard is, "On a first date you aren't meeting HER you're meeting her spokesperson."

[@annabanzon313]

And vice versa

[@johnhepbean4346]

The tests she gives you are many, the test you give her is one There's the door.

[@krislo4788]

😂😂😂

[@shamibrown2287]

Rotflmao

[@ArtofBrandonTruster]

It's funny how difficult it is for them to find that door, lol. They usually hit the wall a few times on their way out....

[@dusansinu1300]

With the door you're right

[@MrMisterChiliPepper88]

🤣🤣🤣

[@spudskie3907]

One time a woman I was dating changed her hair color from brunette to blonde. She asked me what I thought. I told her she looked great as a brunette, but not as attractive as a blonde. She was shocked. She threw a fit. I held my ground. She eventually changed back to brunette. - Always speak your mind - Never back down

[@YourWingmam]

Brilliant example! :)

[@Mariana-ud7dw]

Agreed. As long as it's not done with the intention to hurt, stick to your truth.

"eventually" LOL, 14 months later. Yea buddy why to stand your ground LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

[@BWater-yq3jx]

"I love it! Now I can fantasize you're someone else..."

[@YourNightmares333]

The fact that she went back to what you prefer shows she cares about what you like. I wouldn't really call what she did a test, though. she wanted to be blonde and she wanted you to like her as a blonde. That wasn't a test.

[@eutoob]

If she’s giving me a test, she’s failing mine.

[@apeshitcrazyman]

Spot on! i usually don't even bother with that drama. Irrational drama on a womans part = failing my long-term test. Test me in tiny innocent doses with minimal bs, if at all.

[@stephenpowstinger733]

You missed the whole point.

[@jameswalker5223]

Haha

[@MarkLightGroup]

#boom!

[@g-dev7336]

@@stephenpowstinger733 why?

[@MarkLightGroup]

At this point of my life, I no longer buy the "test" theory. It's actually the "men need sex" theory that explains it. I've seen the same pattern of emotional immaturity from girls/women repeat itself from when I was a late teen until now (in my mid 50s), including from my wife of 27 years. My theory is that women get away with a lot of crappy behavior because of mens' biological need for sex.Either we men put up with the crap or we don't.

[@freddiestranger9783]

GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST NOW

[@davidsmythe7645]

@@freddiestranger9783 AMEN!!!!!!

[@USMCCGAGNG]

And those that don't lose half their stuff.

[@USMCCGAGNG]

Freddie Stranger, sell your crazy somewhere else. I'm sure there's a lot of Christian crazy on the internet somewhere else.

[@MarkLightGroup]

@@USMCCGAGNG unless you don’t get married

[@mikehughes8023]

Sometimes the insecurities pop up after years of her being on her best behavior😞

[@clarancebradley6109]

They can’t go that long 3 months at the most.

[@Phaedrapaints]

And in this situation, if a man can't reassure her in a moment of insecurity what kind of partner are you really? We ALL have moments of insecurity and our most intimate relationships are where we should feel safest sharing them.

[@acharich]

@@Phaedrapaints true, but she should be honest with them, rather than manipulative.. 🙏🏾

[@_Solaris]

From my experience, the crazy comes out around the six-month mark.

[@mrcaji4401]

Dating shouldn't feel as if you need a PhD in conversational delivery and evaluation, but fair dues, Anna raises this spectre of dating linguistics. In effect, just chat and let your intuition guide you. If she asks about you, holds your attention, provides conversational flow, reciprocates and mirrors your mannerisms, does the usual but not necessarily all NVB, shows general interest, and reacts to the push-pull banter, you are all right. But, through all this, use your intuition and common sense. Never demand results, let them come to you. If they do, and a palpable correspondence develops, then a propitious result will come your way.

[@YourWingmam]

That comment sounds like you have a PhD lol ;) but yes, be you!

[@mrcaji4401]

Maybe...a Penchant for Hyperbole Discourse!!!! LoL! 🤪

[@Cantbuyathrill]

Thank You!!! Good stuff!!!

[@markedwards7721]

Every date seems like a job interview anymore.

[@YourWingmam]

They've always been job interviews. You can either master it, fumble along, or opt out. Plenty of options. :)

[@paulbarnes9490]

No wonder I failed when I had dates because I always failed at job interviews. It's a pain in the ass trying to prove my self worth to another person. It's like I have to impress the woman and she doesn't have to impress me.I have to do all the talking and carry the conversation and she just sits there and just listens and judges me. It seems like it's all one sided,like all the pressure is on me to impress and not on her.I had one woman tell me I wasn't a good enough conversationalist but I did all the talking and she only gave me one word answers.I absolute hate job interviews which is why I hated dating when I was young.But I also hate the thought of being alone for the rest of my life. It would be nice to be able to hold a woman in my arms that I find attractive and be intimate with her before my time is up on this earth. It saddens me to think back on my youth and not ever experiencing a relationship with the opposite sex.All my friends got girlfriends with ease and got to have sexual relationships and have their own family but not me. I'm 44 now and feel it's never going to ever happen for me,which I thought it really would in my twenties.I never thought I would get to the age I am now and still be alone. My mum's is dying as she had a heart attack and is very ill.When she's gone I'll have no family left that cares about me.

[@x-man5056]

it's always been a job interview. When it comes to relations between men and women, "there's nothing new under the sun", including shit tests. Here Adam, take a bite of this apple. What could go wrong? LoL

[@x-man5056]

@@paulbarnes9490 Try asking her questions about her. Her favorite music, her favorite movie and movie stars, her favorite place she's traveled to, her near and long term goals, etc. Don't ask questions that can be answered by yes or no, at least not many. The idea is you are showing interest in her, and, in the process, you are likely to find mutual interests. The conversation will likely take on a life of it's own after that. If it doesn't try someone else. Look at it as a process and an adventure, because IT IS. Don't give up. You'll have to go through many "also rans" to find "THE ONE".

[@paulbarnes9490]

@@x-man5056 Yes I asked questions and that definitely works.But still you have to have basic flirting skills otherwise you will always end up in the friend zone.Many times I had women ask me if I was gay but I'm not.They flirted with me but I couldn't flirt back so they obviously think I'm not interested in them.I couldn't flirt back because I don't have the knowledge to do so.

[@marecare77]

Quick summary: guys, dont try to fix damaged women...after 25-30 years of life, men are deffo the prize (realize your own value)

[@adamh2900]

Elaborate?

[@andromaxbse6459]

Second the above comment..

[@addireign7997]

how are men the prize?

[@nixtoshi]

@@addireign7997 How are men NOT the prize? Inside a traditional relationship we generally provide economically, support emotionally, bring reason and emotional stability to discussions, we are expected to perform at sex so *she* can come, we take the lead in decisions and the blame for failures, overall many times a family depends on the man. In broader society the difference is even more contrasting, we generally invent, create, destroy, lead, engineer and win almost all nobel and turing prizes... Some examples of men without a woman that come to my mind are Alan Turing the inventor of the Computer who was gay and just married to keep an employee working at his computer project that he later divorced, he died single but invented COMPUTERS, he was, in my opinion, the single person that contributed the most to ending WW2 and preventing the natzis from taking over the UK thanks to his decryption machine aka computer. Paul Allen, billionaire, engineer, inventor, philanthropist, co-founder of Microsoft, one of the most valuable companies in the world and one of the main 2 forces that brought personal computing to the masses. He never married nor had kids, but changed the world forever and died with 17 billion. What do women generally bring to the table?... Men are the prize.

[@addireign7997]

@@nixtoshi you genuinely sound delusional

[@sonshinecity]

I'm too old for tests and quizzes.

[@sjhdfbasndf986]

one of my female co-workers "tests" me every day it's fucking annoying - feels more like harrassment

[@rascal211]

Then stay alone

[@garcher2]

Preparing for the test, taking the test,, grading the test, being graded - no thank you. Too much work. I passed my exams long ago. I think I'd rather shoot pool. I pass.. adios.

[@Omni-Presi]

Pool's cool . Alas , I just applied for admissions , which means lots of studying . I'm only studying again to understand better though . Still , it is ridiculous like you mentioned the amount of work "required" about women . "Steak & Eggs" smh .

[@TSNorm]

If she does any childish "tests you" stuff....drop her.

[@zephaniahmcdaniels]

You'll forever be alone. Good luck

[@deandownsouth]

@@zephaniahmcdaniels no, not all women are manipulative like this. When I started dating in the early 80s, there were some who played this "game". It took a few years, married now and 39 years later, still going strong, a quality woman is worth the time and effort as is the flip side. Don't play their games, be a man.

[@mikebanks4935]

Twice women have cancelled on me. One had an incredibly lame excuse--"Oh, I thought it was Wednesday." I stopped calling her. Another cancelled plans three times no reason given--"I can't make it." Period. She had also come on to me very aggressively by phone and online. So, decided to test her. Did she have a temper in addition to cancelling repeatedly? The test was me mentioning two sexual experiences from my long-ago past. (One was in high school.) WHEW! She all but roared!

[@oscar87171]

EXACTLY!! It's a combination of emotional, physical and intellectual attraction. It must be a balance!!! Gosh, you are really a Fantastic lady. Why couldn't I find a lady like you?!?!

[@stephenquick3370]

Here’s a test for her: point out the door and suggest she use it!

[@tlalocaztecgod]

Hell yeah!!!!

[@drummerjeroensimons]

Yeah man!!!! hahahaha

[@Aldo7899]

You do not suggest 🤦🏻‍♂️. You tell.

[@Matlockization]

No that's overreacting. Be chill. And you have more time to plan.

[@Matlockization]

@Tom Rusch. Who hasn't ? Kicking up a song and dance about it makes me laugh. Just try to get over it rather than hanging on to the anger.

[@Froddofromtheshire]

Ladies, dont "test" us. Any man who is worth his salt will know what you are doing and for no good reason. Real men hate drama. Dont start.

[@ramonbuckland6263]

Precisely!

[@NateEll]

Exactly

[@Josecito777]

So true

[@andregeorges8649]

This comment deserves at least 1K like

[@kev4830]

Real man love drama you dragqueen

[@lensullivan7082]

I've been in a relationship where we grew apart. A lot of it was just that, we wanted different things moving forward but part of it was that she wasn't honest with some things in the beginning.

[@charliecoolwater97]

She’s sabotaging the relationship- coz shes totally damage.

[@rodrigo100kk]

They all do that, its just a matter of time. Oh, and they will blame it all on you as well.

[@inserter400]

@@rodrigo100kk spot on its what my wife did. Still love her even tho, more fall my heart.

[@YourNightmares333]

That's not you in the avatar

[@georgeaguirre8937]

Just discovered your channel. Feminist vs traditionalist is pure genius. Please make more videos on how marriage inequality (is so unfair for men)....we NEED to hear that...even if just to keep our sanity. God bless your voice of reason!

[@leonaldobrum]

I think that one of the hardest things about her "tests" is recognizing it, actually. It comes up so casually...

[@gmh101358]

My God! all this gives me a headache just trying to think about it....In going over all this it makes me wanting a relationship now about as much as finding a turd in my swimming pool.

[@YourWingmam]

Relationships are not for the faint of heart. They're also not mandatory. :)

[@rickhammar1636]

I'm right there with ya. I get up everyday & test myself. That's enough testing for me.

[@micwell2247]

time and space for a whining leach...I don't think so

[@Matlockization]

Train yourself not to work things into a lather.

[@roymckenzie3566]

And relationship is not for a woman to antagonize a man.......

[@NateEll]

You know what- “testing” is BS. just get to know the guy. Instigating a fight as a test is just plain manipulative.

[@YourWingmam]

Silly gander, she doesn't do it on purpose. At least, most of them don't. You sound a little testy yourself there lol ;)

[@louelmo7349]

@@YourWingmam So what we are saying is she has no self awareness that she is starting petty fights for no reason at all and we men should spend our time figuring out the myriad ways she will do this so that we can successfully counter them so that we can have the honor of her presence? I have a suggestion for women: GROW UP. Life is too short for this nonsense.

[@danielscuiry2847]

Oh, here we go again. You know, in an absolute sense you’re right. The thing is, none of us lives in a perfect world. If we try avoid all conflict in our lives we end up living in an emotional bubble where no one can reach us. Now there’s nothing wrong with that. We all make our own choices. But there’s a hint of bitterness in what you’re saying. Making a life choice out of anger or bitterness leaves you sorely unhappy and disappointed in the end. Be content and at peace with your life choices, not bitter with an axe to grind. Going around expressing how you hate women is not going to make you happy either.

[@danielscuiry2847]

Justin H When people troll date coaching sites ragging on how women behave doesn’t sound like it’s from a good place. Besides most women good or bad are like this. It’s never gonna change. Get over it.

[@NateEll]

Daniel Scuiry - hate women? Not at all. I have no time for people, men or women, who play games. And I firmly believe that the vast majority of those that engage in mind games know exactly what they are doing. Life is too precious to waste time on manipulative garbage.

[@johngonzalez4298]

I dated a damaged woman a long ago and I'm glad I dodged that bullet. Breaking up with her was tough to do at the time but it was the right thing to do. Sex was fun but I didn't want her burden to become mine 🏃🏻‍♂️

[@jarodorla6949]

@John Gonzalez Good choice hermano never let her choice to become yours as they have a way of Projecting their baggages & issues unto us. I also had to quit my Job becoz of a damaged good woman who was making the work environment unconducive. Bacheloorhood taking care of the man cave & self improvement/development is where its at now

[@johngonzalez4298]

@@jarodorla6949 Hola hermano feliz Martes. The woman I dated was clingy as hell and I had a full plate for me already at the time which were pursuing my Bachelor's degree and working 2 jobs. Having her as an additional time was too much for me but she was too much for me so I couldn't handle it. She went crazy about the breakup and didn't want to accept it. She started making up rumors where none of it were true and I knew right at that moment that it was a choice made for the right reason and a bullet dodged 🎯

[@jarodorla6949]

@@johngonzalez4298 Absolutely a bullet dodged, Yea whats up with that? Them making up false rumors??? Felicitations on your degree. Feliz Martes hermano another highlight of the week. Anna-Maria #DanishMexicanCanadianViking looking Elegant & Graceful in todays episode.

[@johngonzalez4298]

@@jarodorla6949 Unfortunately, she didn't handle the break up well. She had me stressed out after the whole break up and after making up rumors, I remember she came to my house uninvited and I never gave her my address and she wanted to work things out but I had already checked out and didn't want no more of her. Her and I had a mutual friend who I used to fuck around with and I felt that she (mutual friend) gave her (the ex) my address. At the end of the day, it's under the bridge ✌🏻. I do agree, another great episode from the one and only Anna, la spicy señorita 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@YourWingmam]

Good for you to walk away! :)

[@marcwareham9351]

“She may want to turn a one night stand into a long term thing!” What? That’s not gonna happen!

[@YourNightmares333]

Yeah I didn't get that one, either

[@Viper3048]

They try to do it all the time

[@narcvanquisher]

If she operates like this, know that she is cheap and not worth a thing.

[@MarkWhylie]

yeah that's not going to fly ..

[@RedPillTruth2023]

So funny to learn these things. When women try to test me like this, I literally think “what a stupid and childish insecure woman-so this is the crap I’m I for if I continue this relationship?” I’m out! And then I never call them again. They then wonder why. That’s the End of having to deal with them. The joke is on them.

[@YourWingmam]

That's fine if you want to be single forever :)

[@RedPillTruth2023]

WingmamTV I’m fine with it because I wouldn’t want to be with any woman who does these kinds of things. Better to be alone than always having to pass some sort of test. I just don’t know why women play these games. Why would you be so rude to someone you supposedly like? There is no reason for it. Why reward bad behavior? Any woman who plays these games is bad and not worth anything at all. Passing these tests Just encourages more of the same types of tests. No man should have to do tests.

[@RedPillTruth2023]

Max Wylde no. I just know I don’t want to be with someone Like this. If you’re stupid enough to be with someone who plays these games, feel free. I’m smarter.

[@michahartt298]

@@RedPillTruth2023 Bro - LISTEN AGAIN! EASY! Relax - let your Body speak on a shit test.. Smile, look her deep in her eyes - say *nothing* first and *then* answer like a RED PILLED ALPHA "MAX POWER" *MAN*.. would -- if she feels worth it for you. This other guy an TRUST this kind redhaired Lady revealing cool shit 😎😉😅 PS: If you still don't get it take time and effort in YOU, growing (INSIDE your Heart and Mind)

[@kidjupiter6977]

@@YourWingmam Being single forever sounds like a great idea, given the behavior of the majority of women today. I'd rather rent than buy...

[@kamranelyaspour3453]

Thank you Anna. Very illuminating. My experience as a man is: 1) We guys must love ourselves which creates self esteem and confidence. That makes sure that we become indifferent about the test results 2) As you mentioned, we should test as well. Traditionalist versus Feminist is a good one. But what do we find important in a woman? For me, it’s important that a woman has goals and ambitions. The lack of that kills the vibe.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@johngreen1776]

I agree with you, we men are all too interested in sex and looks. We need to be even more interested in character and compatibility, or we will end up in relationship hell.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you, exactly! :)

[@x-man5056]

No, not at all. If you are a man, your initial interest in a woman comes from your instinctual desire for sex and it is a woman's "looks" that makes men single out a particular woman. Women know this. That is why they wear make up, short dresses, tight pants, high heels, etc. Why deny the obvious? Embrace it. Those are the 2 main things that hold off extinction. Have you ever been sitting on a park bench with a Buddy when an attractive woman walks by and said to your friend, "wow, I'd like to have a deep intellectual conversation with her? She looks like she knows all about String Theory and Higgs Boson. And look at those hands, bet she can really handle a shovel." Of course not. Demonstrate me wrong.

[@bigjohn8407]

Its actually the women who care more about sex.

[@Mariana-ud7dw]

@J722 St. Marie Not all women are interested in money. Not all men treat a woman as a sex object.

[@David-lx4yb]

I look at beautiful women and know they are beautiful. However, if her she has no character or intelligence, I walk away in a heartbeat. Beauty isn't everything, and these weak and undisciplined simps who use their uncontrolled libido as a sign of manhood are pathetic excuses for men and the poster children for Betas who put women on a pedestal.

[@richard6120]

Thank you!!!!!!!!! Breakthrough. Just made sense of some bizarre behavior from my ex. Valuable information for any guy who has suffered this treatment and not understood what was going on in the first place. No more damaged goods for me!!!

[@marcwareham9351]

Only low quality woman test! High quality woman know a good man when they see one and will never mess about with him for fear of losing him.

[@David-lx4yb]

Absolutely right! Also, Women of High Value don't string men along. If a Woman of Value is not interested, she will let a man know right away, because her time is valuable and she does not want to waste it. Only Low Value Women s#it test and play games. Men, if you are allowing women to play this nonsense on you -- you are a Low Value Man.

[@jajajaja266]

Bro .. had girl kept saying testing me , her sister and girlfriend just moved in for the kill .

[@SonDeku-y5x]

There’s good testing and bad testing, a high quality women will test you (in a healthy way) to see if you are truly high value. A lot of fakes exist in our society. Just as a high value man vets, a high value women does as well. It only makes sense. The distinction here is how low quality women test vs high quality women. There’s a lot of nuance to this, let not fall into extremes by judging everyone

[@David-lx4yb]

@@SonDeku-y5x There is a difference between vetting and testing. I vet women pretty thoroughly and even run background checks in the case of a potential relationship (not dating). And I have no problem with women vetting me as well. In fact, I hope they do vet me, and have even encouraged it. Testing (S#it Testing) is just cheap and tactless gamesmanship used to cause pain and discomfort to someone so a reaction can be judged. I repeat -- only low value women run S#it Tests, and any man who allows a woman to test him is low value as well, regardless of how he views himself.

[@francismurage895]

@@David-lx4yb on point bro

[@ARSMITH36571]

Thank you! This video reminds me why I'm single and haven't dated in 20 years.

[@kellylough1569]

Definitely watch out for the Covert Narcissist type. The mask will eventually slip. The first few times if you're not educated about this will make you take a step back. I enjoy your advice tremendously ❤ Thank you ! Could you educate the viewers on Covert Narcissistic Behavior ?

[@YourWingmam]

Interesting topic, noted! And thanks for watching and commenting! :)

[@wayne3838]

Tell the Covert Narc "No", sit back and watch how they react.

[@aaronharrison9560]

Ok....this is like the 4th video I have watched and there's nothing I have seen that I haven't experienced which you have spoke of. I would advise others to tune in, because sometimes hearing facts of life from someone else that may pertain to you or your relations resignates differently than hearing it from the one your in relations with. I truly believe relationships thrive more when 2 know an overstand who they are, what they want, along with taking The time to learn the one your in relations with. Excellent viewpoints. U should write a book if you haven't already! Keep up the good work!

[@kylefng]

My girlfriend said she needed space, so I gave her the universe, then she got mad at me for giving her that much space. “I didn’t seem upset enough”. Now she’s not sure if we can carry on. My response: nothing. I can’t ride the roller coaster. We ride drama free or we don’t ride at all.

[@doncocad9077]

thank you again.. so I think I have found a pretty good catch by your standards.. the testing, the change in my life then I "fixed it". took her out on her birthday weekend trip and that went well... though she's a little selfish .. the flirty part I think was testing me... I passed

[@carlhorowitz5916]

Anna is my go-to gal. She "gets" women, and why certain ones are better than others. Men should heed.

[@Passenger-dr5pu]

Excellent; as usual. Anna bestows sage advise while being adorable. It's a great combination.

[@goodcitizen3999]

Kind, loyal, willing. Without these basics a women's looks don't matter. Without these "love" is just a word or at best a passing feeling.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@adriandunn1830]

This video is absolutely spot-on I completely understand it I sadly had a relationship with a lady who has got borderline personality disorder I'm sure you know what that is when we first met I had no idea when we got into relationship for the first three months it was fantastic but then the true person came to the forefront which was not good ! 🇬🇧

[@adriandunn1830]

I’m a really good guy strong mentally and physically yet I was broken I can’t believe I will let that happen to me reading up on Women with BPD I understand that she didn’t think she done anything wrong to her it was normal I feel really sorry for her she still tries to contact me but I can’t go back to where I was listening to Anne,s video really Is very accurate she gives great advice and is very accurate she gives great advice and she is very spot on what she says definitely is worth listening to and taking notice of I certainly have 🇬🇧

[@RH-ul2bc]

I think there are things that just naturally come up in life that shows a person's character on either side. No need to fabricate any.

[@therealfronzilla]

When the novelty of looks wears off, the personality is what you are left with.

[@cyrilstephen5646]

This video is actually quite informative. I usually don't comment on a lot of dating videos but this is actually kind of eye opening stuff. Great job!

[@musah3619]

The BS with 'testing' is that it interferes with my purpose and hinder my happiness. I've been smooth sailing and much happier since I've been single.

[@insignia2543]

Testing is a womens way of seeing if you are strong enough to hold back your emotions and act rationally in a hard situation, its pretty much wired into them in order to understand if your going to be a good provider/ procreator. I’m glad your happier but if you want a women understand it may happen and to me it seems natural. They are testing to see how we react to see if we are a good partner for them, and although it is uncomfortable it does serve a purpose. Constant shit tests are wrong though and should not be tolerated, if you have already proved your worth.

[@621u3]

Good advice thanks! Right or wrong, good or bad. This really needs to be applied to all relationships. It's not manipulative. It's a fact. Lots of fake people out there. Best to find out early before the $h!t hits the fan.

[@jasonuttleyaces8]

This is great!!! Thank you... In being told, in the definition of "traditional," and "feminist," I get to know and apply both, as appropriate to the situation, or circumstance. I bet, like me, I hold value and feel strongly about both views; she may as well. The power in knowledge, AND UNDERSTANDING human behavior, is that people can and will bend, flexing to their wants or needs. So applying both views to the person, and asking, "What's up? What do you want? What do you need? Can I supply, or do you need me to step aside? I'm good either way. In fact, in creating a means to a life of lifestyle and freedom, YOU are able to leave ANYTIME, having the cash to do so; I want that..... By having the power to leave, the same as me, WE BOTH HAVE CHOICE. I WANT AND NEED A WOMAN who chooses me; and I want and need a woman who feels the same. In a relationship where we CHOOSE EACH OTHER, we teach and care for each other, BECAUSE THE QUALITY OF OUR LIFE, depends on their ability to meet and exceed our wants and needs. A symbiotic lifestyle, as EVERY ASPECT HINGES on the others ability, to some degree. WE MAKE EACH OTHER BETTER. Who doesn't want that? "Many." I guess I'm looking for a specific woman then. Thank you.

[@wendellpiuswalters1984]

A wonderful straightforward description. You offer a spotlight on not just male assessments and improvements but also female improvements. Great to learn and listen.

[@kurt6410]

the best part about being a young man today is that they have channels like this and many others who will teach young men social skills and how to behave around women. This is something fathers should teach their sons and if you didn't have a father to teach you this stuff you had to figure it out on your own. My father was around and he took care of us physically, he worked hard and brought home the money but the teaching side was not there. He didn't teach me anything about life, nothing about how to stand up for myself, no job skills, no social skills, no economic skills, nothing about how sex, women, how to act around women, how to ask a woman on a date , how to handle rejection. Nothing about being a strong alpha male . I got spit out into the world and have had to figure this stuff out on my own and i turned into the king of incels, the super nice guy beta I've been super nice to people my whole life and have gone out of my way for everyone and all that's ever happened is that I get screwed and it's weird but the nicer I have been to people the more i've gotten screwed and it's boggled my mind forever why that is but now that I'm red pilled and i've been in the manosphere for a while now it all makes complete and total sense. Now that I understand the truth I'm trying to change but it's been hard because I'm almost 50 and I heard a speech warren buffet gave some college graduates and he said the importance of developing good habits early and that if you adopt bad habits it's extremely hard if not impossible to change later in life so to all you young men out there if you don't have a father who will learn you right take solace in knowing there are channels like this and hundreds of others that will teach you the proper life skills. Take it from me and learn how to be a strong man early in life, stand up for yourself and don't let people push you around cause if you don't you might end up like me. You get out of life what you tolerate and if you tolerate people using you then you will get used. Develop your alpha male skills early . I would have given anything to have had this knowledge 30 years ago.

[@YourWingmam]

Great advice! :)

[@kurt6410]

@@YourWingmam pass it on to every man in your life. had i had this knowledge 30 years my life would be very different today

[@MindTrip888]

was married for 22 years and my wife means sleeping with, she means out cold! So dare I say it, I still wasn't getting laid... less than 10x a year is called a sexless marriage... 50 times in 22 years might be a fatal disease... dying of breast cancer, diagnosed 8 years earlier... took all the attention to NEVER deal with our shit... not dealing with our shit I feel is what killed her. There is much emotional evidence of these things. So being a nice guy and still not dealing with it is toxic on so many levels. Practice makes perfect and if you practice lack of communication and unfilled physical, it seems NORMAL to keep it that way and expect it that way. I want to make a vagina sing a symphony, but not so easy if you never to be shown how to play AT LEAST ONE tune. We deserve to inherit a better set of skills than those who bumble along feeling guilt and embarrassment. Heck I have nude dreams sometimes, and I got over it, and walk proudly now. lol If we fixed it by dealing with in the first 12 months, we might still be improving every day, instead avoiding conflict and rejection. To be rejected every day of your marriage, imagined, or real, or expected due to patterns of habit... is to die a slow death...

[@cornstar1253]

You're assuming that sons will take their fathers advice. Didn't happen with mine. He had to learn for himself.

[@Darthbelal]

@@cornstar1253 Yup, the old "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink" bit of wisdom rears its ugly head. Perhaps, in the future, he'll figure out that you WERE trying to help. Just don't hold your breath on that one......

[@dylandietz7624]

I appreciate your insight. Dating is extremely tricky and you seem to have an inherent wisdom about it. To the point, your advice makes more sense than others I've endured. Thank you.

[@bottomlessinkwell]

Another excellent idea from Wingmam! I think most of this “testing” from women or men, comes in at a subconscious level, same with the resolutions. The key seems to be having enough consciousness about it to recognize if the persons good for you, versus having too much consciousness about “testing” where it comes across as contrived, calculating and/or creepy.

[@psoidonym2389]

Really good points to think about. Thx for the work. And for the charming way of presenting it.

[@SunRise-ul7ko]

I just don't put up with the crap anymore. It's my way or the highway.

[@manoo422]

Isnt that the same as 'she' is doing...?

[@m.r.5990]

Yeah, I have the same approach. I don't attack her, though, demanding her to choose. I just let her know calmly that when she tries to force the emotion on me(when she does this and that), I feel disappointed and I feel like I don't want to deal with her anymore. It's simply the truth and it works

[@tfkvng3187]

STRAIGHT FACTS 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Ain't got time to waste on nonsense 🤣🤣🤣

[@YourWingmam]

If you can spin it into a tease, bonus points! ;)

[@Bigwave2003]

Enjoy quality time with your hand.

[@marshallpeterson8325]

I’ve been married 46 years and I think your advice is right on!

[@mjfletch5737]

One test I use is called "The Cheapskate Test." If a woman doesn't, at a minimum, offer to pay for something by the third date, it isn't going any further. I'm dating after 50 and two personal observations that I've learned over the years is, always be yourself, and don't lie to try to impress. In other words, be truthful; you want someone to like you for you not some bs that you made up. I never have to pause and think what I told her before if she asks me the same question again. She can ask me 20 times and still get the same prompt answer.

[@YourWingmam]

Great observations! :)

[@bernardsaberon4634]

Very helpful video. I'm going through some of these scenarios in life. A lot of your advice confirms my thoughts on testing and the how to. Thanks

[@YourWingmam]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@celesterwalker7725]

Some good stuff here. Is she giving back?, has she let herself go? Does she offer to pay? Is the sex worth it? All good testing questions.

[@adamloveless3576]

Testing is the game we play,,, and it is also about learning and growing. Those who are thinking its drama,, are just afraid of what theyll learn or its ego.

[@onlyalifetime]

There's nothing wrong with testing your potential partner. You will invest a lot of time and energy into a relationship. I agree, you can never know the other person completely, but why won't you do your best to find out what you're getting yourself into? I test all the women I go out with and I'm sure they do it as well. Even if the relationship ends, you still have learned much more about yourself and about women and can take better choices in the future.

[@lawrencemcleod2228]

I am 64, and I never have a problem having a conversation with women. I think that is good that you have that is site. People want to have conversation.

[@ricgillis1280]

Great video! I achieve happiness and longevity with women, by walking past them, looking evily at them, whilst belching loudly like Archie Bunker!LOL! I've NEVER been happier!

[@YourWingmam]

If that works for you, do carry on! ;)

[@ricgillis1280]

@@YourWingmam Its not that it works per say, but, as you deal with folks and their stuff, you're not left with many choices!

[@ricgillis1280]

@M. de k. It's Latin? Well I'm Black so?LOL!

[@ross3818]

Re the bratty little sister scenario, more than once when tested like that I've had to pause and say this one word: Respect. It worked a charm.

[@celestialfix]

Test her by telling her to get a tattoo with your name on it.....if she does, run like hell. 😁

[@AuraTrimCoMeath]

It is such a pleasure to listen you. Watching as well. Also your knowledge is very impressing. Thank you for sharing it. I am happy, that you overcome your shiness and can do the videos.

[@Mike-xt2lh]

Sounds like one of my exes she wanted me to be jealous of other men . Anyways thanks Anna for your knowledge and wisdom 🙏!!!

[@benruffo1197]

Lately, the stress has gone off the charts. Ann, you have been great through all this.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@dcxdanny]

Yes, I found quite a few "takers" along with my dating adventures. Some that want you to pay for everything and then will make the declaration that in their previous marriage, they cooked, but never will they do that again for a man!

[@shawnmcewen6210]

Now THIS is perfect! Fascinating topic, good time length...more like this, please. On a related note, I have known several women over the years who have used damaged pasts as an excuse to be, shall we say...unpleasant in behavior and personality in a waaaayy overboard way.

[@gilbertsanchez2568]

Me and my ex have reconnected, and its a never ending psy war of mind games haha

[@glen3468]

I cant even pass my driving test nevermind a women testing me!!!!! I think the word you where looking for at begining of video was "stable"......i just got lost in this video,you are spot on!(your not a aries by any chance?) my ex openly admitted she was testing me but i already knew she was,she really was trying to light the fuse. im to long in tooth for games now,one time i travelled miles to take her out to lunch,to be left feeding the pigeons in the city centre,i called to hear her voice say,im in bed sorry ive slept in,so i just jumped back on the bus and headed home,thing was i wasnt even annoyed!!! but great vid,keep up the good work anna

[@YourWingmam]

I'm a Gemini. That would've been the last time she should've heard from you. Hope you're learning! p.s. Thanks for your opening line, gave me a chuckle! #drivingtest!

[@searlearnold2867]

I almost thought Anna was going to say, " If she says she's a feminist and you're going to date her, you're on your own and I can't help you..." 🤣

[@YourWingmam]

lol, 🙂 thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!

[@kihondolumbuambu9458]

This is some very powerful knowledge here. Keep up the good work my dear. Peace and Love.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you, I will ❤ 🙏

[@armyofshea7941]

Only my second video of yours I’ve watched, and I think I like your advice. Do not like the thought of the ‘test’. Ask me from a place of security and honesty, and I will answer you honestly, from my place of security. Any intentional test that is presented is a red flag, period. We are all human and mistakes happen, in my mind that is not a test. That is life. Once you have crossed the threshold of being a couple, you should absolutely have each other’s back, which means honest feedback. If you give honest feedback, and the other person gets mad... you are not compatible anymore.

[@dreambeliever3652]

I’ve been along time with my wife and she’s certainly LET HERSELF GROW

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@Darthbelal]

Like another said, wish I had this kind of advice back in the day. However, I'm still breathing and I'm not quite ready to throw in the towel yet....

[@markcampolo577]

Thank you so much for your informative video`s ! I wish I had these years ago but still in the market so very helpful ! LOL !!

[@YourWingmam]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@markcampolo577]

@@YourWingmam I just had to say and don`t mean to cause embarassment but I think you are the "berries" ! Too bad there isn`t more real women like you !! God Bless

[@tay138]

Another great one. Love your lip color. It same color as flower in background. 💄🌸 I soooo love you. Lol! 😊

[@YourWingmam]

Thanks for watching and good eye! ;)

[@tay138]

@@YourWingmam Your welcome. I've seen other channels, with woman giving advice, etc, but you are by far the Best! Be so cool to be your significant other. Having your opinion on problems. Knowing how men truly are, and knowing what men like, what communication methods work best. It would be wonderful. And kissing those amazing lips. Would be like heaven on earth.. 😇

[@pes6628]

You're a cure for love-based anxiety, Anna. Thanks for being here.

[@skip123davis]

great job at breaking down, and quantifying things for us xy models! unfortunately, at 57, i no longer give a shit. but this is really good info for the younger guys though! 🤠👍

[@evtyler]

Love your channel and content...thanks for sharing!

[@YourWingmam]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response and don't forget to click on the notification bell to be notified whenever I release a new video ❤ 🙏

[@Onmysheet]

You look gorgeous in this video. Long hair suits you better.

[@JohnGalt1960]

I prefer the shorter hair on this woman.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you, I like to switch it up! :)

[@evad7933]

Hair up and ears showing with nice earrings 4 me.

[@JohnGalt1960]

@@YourWingmam you're really cute with the short hair and it has you looking younger.

[@berndheiden7630]

John Smith Definitely! But I know that I fall for short hair any day. But she is beautifuy because of her personality, the hairdo is just icing on the cake, no pun intended! I still love the short hair!

[@lfabio.n]

Your thoughts are very enlightening, that's true, we can't blame women when we don't want to see signs and evidences

[@Ira06002]

“Good News! If she tests you, she might actually like you.” With all due respect (ya know something’s coming), you’ve got to be kidding us! We’ve been tested thru out our entire lives to include with our physician, in school, at work and even at the DMV! Instead of these passive/aggressive “tests” how about open, honest and constructive dialog. Life’s pretty damn short hence why I have zero tolerance for these emotional examinations.

[@buckleymordecai9605]

Bingo!

[@path1024]

"Are you a strong man?" "Yes, I am a strong man." "Excellent. I'm glad we used open communication. I completely trust that you have evaluated yourself objectively and have determined that you are, in fact, a strong man. Let's get married."

[@heyhey439]

Testing is mostly subconsciously done and is a great way of avoiding men that are unsuitable for siring children. You can't fight DNA and I'm afraid that attitude is the very thing tests are meant to weed out. Plus, words only mean so much; actions speak much louder.

[@charlesblair1900]

@@path1024 so true. let me INVEST in you completely 9 months and my date ability

[@deandownsouth]

Exactly. Say what you mean and mean what you say. There's a red flag if she doesn't like honest and open communication. Like the song says: "Life is too short so why waste precious time".

[@KasperKali]

Right on the money as usual! These are very interesting topics and you explain things in an easy manner. Thanks again and stay safe.

[@rogandbingofbingalahtravel3680]

I appreciate the wisdom expressed through your videos. I might see things a bit differently when it comes to changes through time. We all change throughout our lives, sometimes in a positive way, sometimes in a not so positive way. But commitment is the glue that holds a couple together "for better or for worse". People gain weight, lose weight, feel seasons of happiness and seasons of sadness. A committed partner in each of us helps us both weather the storms of life and makes us stronger in the end. That's my take on it, anyway! Great videos! Thanks for your insight!

[@YourWingmam]

Yes, it's often more complicated than a 15 min video can encompass :)

[@rogandbingofbingalahtravel3680]

@@YourWingmam That is true! I know that you know that! Again, thanks for your very wise insight to many natural tendencies of the male and female species! It's refreshing to hear a healthy dose of reality!

[@George-nw1io]

Thanks for your videos. Best, George

[@marvinbanjo]

A woman I dated said I wasn't sensitive enough and I said OK, find a guy who is but when you do, chances are he already has a boy friend

[@YourWingmam]

LOL! Love it! ;)

[@spartanman5231]

HAHAHAHA so true when she gets what she thought she wanted she will realize she really didn't want that typical

[@Mariana-ud7dw]

🤭🤭

[@RB09X]

I agree! We need to test them more!

[@mwloos1]

I just do 90 day relationships now. That’s about how long it takes for the bs to start. As long as we have technology I can sustain 3 month relationships until I can’t get it up no more than I’ll just hang with my bro’s at the ole shuffle board court and not care about women anymore. #purpose #plan

[@insignia2543]

Kinda ruin it for everyone else because your just gonna break a whole bunch of hearts and get women attached the you and then leave them. Your basically creating a trail of people with trust issues, and trust me women who have trust issues are hard to have relationships with. Think about your actions man. You may be ruining it for the next guy or relationship.

[@paulmorris6177]

THANK YOU!! (10:35) Just got divorced over HER sliding and changing! Was married for over 30 years and she just went on a new tangent that I couldn’t (and wouldn’t) put up with. I gave her YEARS to change and the more I pushed (and encouraged, too), the firmer she refused to get back to the “woman that I signed up for” until I finally said, “that’s it, I’m out!” Weird being single again after so long but you also have to be strong enough to let her go if that’s what it takes.

[@turnuptheheat7491]

This is why I decided to stay single women are just to complicated Let them be be at peace stay single Thank you!!

[@thegroove2000]

If shes messed up then she needs to un-mess up and sort her self out and not bring her emotional baggage to me.

[@Re-DeclarationOfIndependence]

Really good work, you are helping people. Keep it up.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@prayerblack]

Keeping It Real As Always 🚶🏾 "Is She Worth It"

[@janoahtindell8999]

As a woman, she is on point with a lot of what she's talking about. I have hopefully changed some of the qualities she is talking about, if not I am here to learn and grow

[@eddaimes2247]

"why" from a woman translates to "explain yourself boy" ... if your lips move, your emasculated

[@mvdk26]

Thank you for your videos and your help & guidance :)

[@YourWingmam]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@deangelotaylor7068]

i just ignore the bs and walk away. stay mgtow monk and stay safe.

[@pd8525]

Hate being tested but completely understand the reasons. BTW, I could never bring myself to split or her pay for dinner/date etc. My view, I asked her out I'm taking care of her. Even if it's a 1 and done date. Great advice Anna! Enjoyed the vid.

[@YourWingmam]

You don't have to actually follow through, but nonetheless, if you can't even do that then watch for reciprocation efforts in some other way. :)

[@pd8525]

@@YourWingmam Agreed! Thank you, be well...

[@funk7875]

Myself I like a traditional woman with some good vaj jay jay. lol Really it takes a lot more than that but it doesn't hurt. I have been exposed to some damaged women that tend to be a little batshit crazy. Plus some probably bi polar. Its definitely a challenge trying to find everything wrapped into one.

[@YourWingmam]

The crazy ones are interesting but way too dangerous long term! ;)

[@funk7875]

@@YourWingmam You are 100% correct. They might be ok for a spin around the block. Bad thing it doesn't always surface immediately. Then you've invested time that you hate to throw away. Hoping things will get better and probably never will. A guy can usually deal with a lot of stupid stuff unless the sex goes away then its questionable