Talking Black & Coloured Unity With @TheGentleBrother

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[@drewsmusicdiary1356]

The amount of deflection, and beating around the bush when Darren asks a question is astounding.

[@AcidsInWonderland]

As a coloured person watching this, knowing so many people don't realise that the people struggling alongside them are not their enemy but instead the enemy is the people who impose the systems of oppression under which they suffer, hurts my soul. Divided we beg, united we bargain.

[@zeynjenkins2073]

Listening is really a skill.

[@user-vx8ww8ig3g]

Yo Darren your level of paitence shows that you have a high level of EQ 👏👏

[@fabiancarter7864]

The patiei, straight face means absolutely nothing. That was w For his sheep viewers. I don't fall for that

[@thabilesilamsi6684]

@@fabiancarter7864 LIKE YOUR COMMENT

[@motshewamakhafola9486]

This conversation was so pointless, the other guy just defended throughout without wanting to hear anything 🙄 kudos Darren for conducting yourself in such a calm manner

[@fabiancarter7864]

Defended on all Darren's silly questions

[@gabulamqoboli194]

Teach me to be as calm as you in the midst of arrogance. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@candacejulien5030]

Even the way he says the word "black" it's so inflected with rage and hatred 😢

[@ethekwinihappening3803]

Self hatred😢 once he gets to travel he will soon realize the world see him as a black person

[@bronwynnebayi9646]

But we gotta command Darren for his patience.

[@fabiancarter7864]

Nahhh that was his plan. That straight face didn't fool me

[@r213n]

Darren, well done for maintaining composure. There's alot of work still to be done, but you're doing it.

[@Sukuna18337]

I'm not even a fan of gentle brother, but I take my hat of to the way you expressed yourself... And believe me those who know knows...nice video guys

[@dirkesau902]

This guy likes the sound of his voice, he was told that he is clever.. Dom donner🤐😊

[@rimobenjamin1835]

Imagine who told him he was clever🤣

[@fabiancarter7864]

He wasn't wrong though

[@rimobenjamin1835]

@@fabiancarter7864 that's what "his people" are saying 🤣

[@fabiancarter7864]

@@rimobenjamin1835 Who cares what you say anyways, I fully agree with him and no one will change my mind you check

[@rimobenjamin1835]

@@fabiancarter7864 you are admitting to be a racist

[@Dawood_Mxmdoo16]

This was painful to watch😭😭

[@Siphesihlesigagayi]

I think the Black and Coloured communities need to talk to one another without the third party involved cause this is not the first time the third party used this tactic to divided people. They almost succeeded dividing the Xhosa and the Zulu people, the tension is this there as faint as it is.

[@jamiecubez3788]

I've been to many informal settlements around SA. Majority are struggling to survive and Majority don't take part in the destruction of property...

[@Lwazilwentuthuko]

And the majority get stranded like the rest of the people during these protest, because most don’t get payed when not at work

[@busaningcobo4711]

Never have I ever been so invested in a video. Great conversation indeed

[@tinolouw]

Great conversation guys. I enjoyed it. Let's do more of these. May these conversations start leading to more action towards racial justice, especially in the City of Cape Town.

[@grantfreese106]

Goodness Darren i Really admire your ability to sit and really listen to that guy 😂😂😂

[@CandyCreates]

Okay so not all white people are bad but all black people are💀 oof

[@legran25]

Both guys done well. Definitely a conversation that must be had.

[@shemanemasia]

Thank you gentlemen for having this conversation. It’s a difficult conversation to have. Honest and fruitful conversation. With all the nuances. It’s progress.

[@xaviarpoole9683]

I respect both of use 🙏🏽 I just feel like this should have been a conversation rather than constant attacking and defending. The knowledge and the experience both of u have can educate both parts of the community. I understand that we have our preset heuristics and our biases. However, having this type of conversation should be not to prove points or to box people in a corner or even point fingers. This is an amazing can of worms that was open between the communities and should be addressed not to gooi anyone under the bus but to let everyone understand that this is how it is in our communities and this is how we actually live and how we feel. I believe that the two of uce can educate us alot on this matter by using ur Platform to actually allow a conversation instead of starting a disliking between two communities. Help us unite and help us learn from each other. Yet again I really respect both of u ouens 🙏🏽 God bless

[@chanteljantjes7496]

Well done Gentle brother. For president.

[@sceloP6937]

the man first says he's not black but brown and proud, minutes later he say's "I am black". there's still a lot of work that needs to be done. well done Darren for maintaining composure and reason.

[@GuyMpofu]

Had to come back tonrhis again. Its a tragic comedy for real.

[@dvandavids3828]

Big up to you for keeping your cool Darren and having the patience for dealing with this guy just randomly blurting and diverting

[@kykhiehoorhie]

Yoh, the ignorance is REALLY REALLY REALLY sad😒 I personally know so MANY coloured people with the same view as this young man... Ek wil soema huil man😭

[@omarmy3495]

Respect to both my brothers.

[@dawnwaldegrave304]

Darren, why can't you start a political party man. I would vote for you. I love the way you focus, the way you retain knowledge and answer so calmly. Kuddos 🎉

[@philanirobertndaba9878]

First and foremost, gentlemen, let me thank you both for taking the initiative to discuss this crucial topic. In all of this, my societal point of view is that we are the majority, yet we are still dominated by a minority. If we can recognise that our power lies in unity, as black and coloured people, we can go all the way to the end of the globe.

[@legran25]

The conversation must be had.

[@winslopietersen5446]

One thing ive learned in life is that u dont need to have an opinion of everything

[@hlubimabelana6296]

Malawu is not reserved for coloured people. There are at least 3 xhosa clans that are amalawu. Abalawu are people with khoi ancestry. As for xhosa people calling people boys, Xhosa men do that not only to coulored people , but to all other tribes.

[@sudleyarmien8920]

Would be soooo intersting to do this NOW! The gentle brother can respond straight out of his cell in polsmoor .

[@bonganimchunu6811]

Can we not fight each other , fight for each other. Those that want to divide will enjoy watching this.

[@rimobenjamin1835]

Blackness is too deep for the other guy to understand🤣

[@lwazibangani]

The Gentle Brother is actually smart but just misinformed. Appreciate your stride in educating us Darren, you are doing a good job.

[@fabiancarter7864]

Obviously you'd say that. Gentlebrother speaks from experience, Darren does this to get get views. It's obvious

[@lwazibangani]

@@fabiancarter7864 okay chief.

[@fabiancarter7864]

@@lwazibangani I'm just saying my dude. He literally says it's the "white man" but he speaks to coloured ppl as the problem. I could be wrong.

[@lwazibangani]

@@fabiancarter7864 my brother, as a response to a question on joining the CCC. Darren advocated for unity between black and coloured Africans in Cape Town instead. Could he have made use of a better combination of words to relay his message? Maybe. However, equality between black and coloured Africans was and is the essence of his message. Nothing else. And I say this again, The Gentle Brother is smart but just misinformed. He is speaking from experience which does not necessarily reflect the lived reality of the Cape Black African. For example there is no free water or electricity in Gugulethu. The community pays for its tariffs like everybody else, but TGB fails to differentiate between informal settlements and the actual location.

[@rimobenjamin1835]

It's funny when the other guys refers to "my people""🤣

[@omarmy3495]

Gentle brother is a very honest person in this conversation.

[@MongeziRobertMbanjwa]

OMG, wow. This dude😮

[@obakengmogodiri6345]

🤔...in reality we all both know and probably at some point in our lifetime have experienced the racist behavior from either , And I do agree that at the end we overlooked the situation that today we find this hostility amongst ourselves, PERSONALLY I have experienced the racial profiling and disrespect , But fortunately i dealt with it immediately.....Only if we stand together and recognize and respect our differences then we can win.

[@ayeshaariefdien9116]

Darren is just so patient ,kudos to him for that ,alot of contradiction coming from the other guy.Our colored people can and will never stand together and for the simple reason is that they look down on each other and will never have equality amongst themselves

[@sudarshanrampersad6337]

"Tell me im wrong, majority of your clientele is black people''...Darren: youre wrong. 🤣44:00

[@fabiancarter7864]

I Don't believe him either

[@Nickster7]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rimobenjamin1835]

The guy did not even comprehend the term "stereotype🤣😂""

[@lindasambuyahoocom]

Hay hay hay Darren, you have patience. This guy is an empty vessel and I dont even get his actual issue

[@Mzwakhe434]

Very much so😭 he's very dumb my sister, he's on another level

[@fabiancarter7864]

Obviously you'd say this

[@Mzwakhe434]

@@fabiancarter7864 to assume we don't pay for electricity and water is stupid and the guy thinks all of us burn building and throw stones at scars😭🤣 all of us😂 ? Naah he's a dom nie

[@fabiancarter7864]

@@Mzwakhe434 and that's all you remember our of an 1hr 31min vid?

[@Mzwakhe434]

@@fabiancarter7864 it's more than enough proof that he knows nothing about what he's talking about.

[@kamvamzawuziwa8922]

Lol, this conversation is funny. Illogical, based on emotions.

[@Lwazilwentuthuko]

The gentleman is saying we’re all dealing with the same challenges but he doesn’t take into account that blacks before they can deal with those they have another challenge of changing location. That is why they invade land and fight for basic services in those plots and that is the unique problem experienced by black that coloureds in general don’t experience.

[@claymcgear7016]

KhoiSan, AKA the San people. Meaning people of the earth. When found as the first inhibitants in SA, they were named people of the land. Because they had the most knowledge of the lands that they lived on and were absolutely Self efficient and thriving from the lands.

[@rimobenjamin1835]

No empirical evidence, only a subjective opinion

[@thamsanqa6925]

This guy is talking nonsense, he is just blinded by hatred. Coloureds also protest in their communities and destroy things. We just living in a lawless country. . To be honest you just wasted an hour and a half of your life.

[@thembijohansen557]

Oh my God, this young man is either ignorant, incompetent or he is lacking knowledge. It is so sad. @Darren you are very patient

[@ruebaily69]

He is a whole 40+year old man who thinks having children validates his thought process/racism and makes him wise lol

[@fabiancarter7864]

This is exactly what he's talking about

[@emihle8423]

@@fabiancarter7864 awuxakeke yoh

[@fabiancarter7864]

@@emihle8423 whatever that means

[@bryn5142]

Gentle Brother is terrible at having a robust conversation. My word

[@HeiwaHashiru-wo1wq]

Bro said we must just suffer, weird fetish.🤣

[@cannonngwenya914]

This is the funniest and saddest interaction I have seen in a bit. The white man won.

[@legran25]

The State can’t build so they actually happy when the Land is taken then they will deliver. Coloured people should occupy the land too. Ennerdale Lakeview done it and people have homes.😊

[@legran25]

Before the 20’s it was the Hottentots and tribal clans.

[@gracefullyme4469]

Is die bra vani gatvol movement?

[@juicykindess3129]

Referring repeatedly as these people is so off putting 😢

[@rimobenjamin1835]

The other guy must educate himself on black consciousness,

[@75fiftyCo]

Jarre gentle brother praat heeltyd yasis

[@NAZARETHA]

Isende lendlela

[@obakengmogodiri6345]

🤔.... listening to this young man really explains the meaning of "a confused headless chicken" , but probably he's got lots of anger issue.

[@Dwight_Yorkie14]

When I saw this video, I knew Carl was stepping into unknown territory and was going to be slaughtered 😂 he is clearly out of his depth 😅

[@phela24]

He said the people in his area are not educated, and the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

[@rimobenjamin1835]

The importance of education

[@rimobenjamin1835]

At least we all can read a lot

[@insouthafricaourland]

All that he is saying is an example of how the divide and conquer concept has worked on generations of his people. And he has only been exposed to the community of Cape Town, his views are limited.

[@nolubabalorulumeni1506]

Imagine being angry at a person who is trying to make an awareness about the inequality in Cape town and anti blackness

[@cdsa6813]

His fighting to be right but domkop and hardekop typical I know this kind of Khalid 🤔

[@user-xi2he6ki1z]

Finaly coloureds can talk with each other.pls dont stop.although u dont agree.

[@legran25]

Those people are criminals who live in a shack and own homes in EC? Yes and there are true that some people do occupy land and have homes.

[@HarunMayman]

With regards to religion...my religion teaches us that a white person is not better than a black person, and a black person is not better than a white person. What makes a person better than the next...is his God consciousness. With regards to wealth...we should seek our sustenance, but sustenance is decreed by God, meaning we will only get what God puts out for us. The moment we attach our success to our efforts, it goes one of two ways...if we successful, we become arrogant. The flip side is if we don't succeed, we become depressed. But if we attach our sustenance to God, we will become humble in our wealth, as we realize that God can remove it as quick as it was given to us. The flip side is if we don't succeed, we become grateful for whatever we have, little or a lot

[@lee-yalliangarises617]

Darren was not on this guy's level. It's unfortunate he was more angry in this moment where two coloured men could have heard each other and articulate a way forward.

[@TheGeneralChannel89]

This bru has no real issue man...hys slim dom

[@fanataliwe5823]

No ways!😂 This gentle whatever oke is the most and uninformed and ignorant person I have ever come across. He just rambles and deflects. Nothing worse that someone who thinks they know it all when they know nothing. Every time he was asked for evidence he deflected.

[@user-cp9fe4po6h]

Gentle doos is so intimidated by Darren and it shows clearly at the very beggining of this video. Just talking kak and cant back up anything he says with facts.

[@MrSlama07]

I am not one for commenting on these, but gentle brother has no substantial basis when arguing, Darren state hypotheticals in context and gentle brother is not able to have the conversation in that way... This bra just raas...

[@juicykindess3129]

What is the D word ?

[@lwazibangani]

Dom Darkie

[@simey001]

My response is merely answering your question, don't take it out of context, D word is darkie.

[@simonne3172]

I'm sorry but the Gentle brother is not as smart and informed as he thinks he is........Well done Darren 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@claymcgear7016]

Darren, you are making a lot of noise, missing all the points. Dude, next time, listen to understand, not to respond.

[@claymcgear7016]

GB owned you for 1H31m. 😂

[@HeiwaHashiru-wo1wq]

He was deflecting from the beginning till end, are you slowl🤣

[@spykerhond7008]

hallo , niemand mag romeine wees nie !

[@Kinkybootz94]

I'm not a fan of gentle brother, but i agree with him 100% on this issue.