Notes: 1.Dont talk about the past Instead talk about what you have learned from the breakup 2. “What can prove me that u will never do these mistakes anymore” How can u prove to ur ex that u will change? Tell him/her what actions u have done to show u understood what happened with the breakup and how u will fix them to be ur best self. Actions can show if u really changed 3. Listen first Do not talk out of emotions! Dont answer for awhile. Let them vent how they r feeling. They will value ur response after u havent responded for a few minutes then do both notes 1 and 2
@chessysugarcandy1183 жыл бұрын
We need more people like you who summarises uwu
@sbj972 жыл бұрын
You should never tell an ex how you're gonna change because they need to see through your actions and not your words but I understand what you saying though
@monicabyrd47384 жыл бұрын
I should’ve watched this video before he decided to talk to me last night.. 🙄
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk2 жыл бұрын
Well now you know.
@anzz5822 жыл бұрын
Same here
@MistSGM2 жыл бұрын
Dude same
@buyisiwepreciousxaba5902 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 sorry
@FreeRunful Жыл бұрын
I don’t think we’ll get back together, but this was helpful. At the very least it’s helping me focus on what I did realize about the breakup
@stanleymatias9743 жыл бұрын
Am listening to this now for the 4th time
@vandaman85 Жыл бұрын
I’ve got talks with my ex next week, this video helped me a lot thank you 🙏🏻
@heather40895 жыл бұрын
My ex dumped me three weeks ago. Said the sun wasn’t shining anymore for us. I said that it was ok and thank you for his honesty and his time with me. Next day, texted me to please remain as friends (didn’t reply, stayed silent) again next day he texted me saying that I was a wonderful woman and that he was hoping to have a solid friendly relationship with me and that he wanted to see me growing (didn’t replied to him) two days after I replied to him that I was not interested in being his friend. That why if the sun was not shining for both it was shining to have a friendship ? 👎🏻👎🏻he replied message received and never heard from him again. Better like that. He wanted me out of his life so I’m not interested of being in the friend zone either.
@DTradesFX25 жыл бұрын
carmen arocho Good Job!!!
@nbagametime32952 жыл бұрын
Any update
@Pablo-tc8go5 жыл бұрын
Hey coach, I just hang out with my ex to catch up and see how is she. She changed so much and I find her so much less attractive, she talked about how she was partying,doing drugs and sleeping with other people. She asked me if she could hangout with a friend of mine, I told her that she can do whatever she wants. Now, I just feel insecure, in one hand I feel that I want to move on and seeing her like that made it so much easier. On the other hand I feel jealous, and mad , the fact that she maybe sleeping with my friend makes me sad. I really think this is a great opportunity to grow and meet new people, but it’s inevitable to feel insecure. Hope you can read this. Love your channel
@SanderJanssenBSc5 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed can't wait till I get my opportunity to talk to her :) giving her some space now and I hope I get the chance to talk to her :)
@Pia-Noise4 жыл бұрын
You can man just like me , we can ❤🤘🏻
@user-vr5zu5oj1k3 жыл бұрын
That makes me happy reading that. I hoped all worked out for you and continues to work out! Glad you’re respecting her space
@sanketzungare6553 Жыл бұрын
What is the situation now?
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk2 жыл бұрын
Be polite. Other than that don’t waste any time with them.
@InsaaniatDost5 жыл бұрын
Its impossible...💔 Humans are not robot.. Suppresing emotions leads to further anxity and crushinggg💔. Just expel out every thing... forgive him.. and move on... No need to get back a cheater....
@ivy38393 жыл бұрын
Never gave closure to my ex as he did broke up with me very suddenly after what I thought we had loving and honest relationship. …. So weird …
@javierdomenech89053 жыл бұрын
My biggest wish is to be able to afford you... you are soo powerful! Love your perspective the most! You are amazing! 🙏 congratulations! God bless!
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for reaching out, Javier. ⭐ Want To Tell Us More About What You Are Going Through? Call Our Hotline Now 👇:786.635.8373 Coach Natalie
@jamesolson20393 жыл бұрын
You’re a freaking genius.
@d3fnot.l1v9 ай бұрын
Update?
@atejbtv57123 жыл бұрын
Everytime we talked He always says that I will do it again.. I told him, I won't do it again But he keeps saying that he knows I'll do it again Again...we started to fight
@bbbodo70753 жыл бұрын
Best advice ever on establishing healthy communication with an ex.
@charmingsnow27633 жыл бұрын
My ex got married and ghosted me ,not replying my message before,but he still not blocking me,he still spying and looking at my Snapchat story.
@joshichauhan0403 жыл бұрын
Short and to the point.. by the way love your accent Coach!
@liyuntan Жыл бұрын
Ex keeps on talking about the past. It is not possible not to talk about the past and keeps on bringing up the past mistakes and fights. We end up with a repeated break up. It is not so easy. Now, I am in no contact to regain my emotion. :(
@shibbydbz50465 жыл бұрын
I can can understand your accent lot better. Nice work coach
@kansafoster3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the videos! Should I wait for my ex to be the one to bring up a “what I understand went wrong” conversation? Or is it ever ok to bring it up yourself?
@sbj972 жыл бұрын
If they bring it up, acknowledge their feelings and engage in the conversation
@hooyahhooray32565 жыл бұрын
Hi coach Alex, thank you so much for the video. It exactly happened to me! I did the 3 steps but my exe still don’t come back and she is in rebound relationship now. Can you help please
@patrickclarke36455 жыл бұрын
Same thing with me. Please advice.
@harrymccarthy9363 жыл бұрын
I find it so hard I ask so many questions I worry and I feel insecure I wish I could Find strength and belive
@jazmir81382 жыл бұрын
update? i’m feeling the same way right now
@spacecatmeoww5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Alex
@reneebohm79854 жыл бұрын
Wow thank you. You are a godsend I've just been reconnecting with him trying to get a heart to heart or one-on-one talk with him and the way I would have what about it there's a little different than what I have learned from you and I am so appreciative you make it very simple to understand more of the male brain. I would love to hook up and just talk some time with you for the one on on time possibly thank you so much you're an amazing man thank you and God bless
@theophiluscastle46105 жыл бұрын
I really love this coaching segment but how can I get to you on one on one conversation to improve my love life.
@TECHNOFREAK10235 жыл бұрын
Great advice.
@mychaelebeal64125 жыл бұрын
He hurt me and my child. He never apologized. The only conversation that I want to hear is an apology.
@CHEFVERA11 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing ❤
@williamcherubin22193 жыл бұрын
Bro u the real deal I've done everything u said no contact she move on with some dude now she want to talk but thing is I'm not sure if I want her back so will see .
@sarikad93833 жыл бұрын
your videos help me a lot.
@sumeetm1104 жыл бұрын
Hi My ex broke up saying we need to build a friendship, as friendship was missing in our relationship. So will this really work? Or am I gonna lose love in this process.
@immaculatefernandes43864 жыл бұрын
It was really great video 😊
@rinelstuward95972 жыл бұрын
Hi thank you for this video I have a meeting with my ex this saterday .we broake up becouse hè det that hè is not ready for a relationship .but we bever fight we whas in love and i dont undrstand the breake up. Hè sed that he is not happy in the relationship and now hè is going to tell me but i really live him
@deepukankaria69733 жыл бұрын
Coach alex Thanks its informative
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity3 жыл бұрын
Your'e welcome! Coach Alex
@saniayousaf68585 жыл бұрын
Nice info thnx Alex pls do some vedios about narcissts
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity5 жыл бұрын
Hi Sania Yousaf, thank you for watching! - Alex
@ioanninadimitra99743 жыл бұрын
What If your ex say that he sees you as his friend??? 😢 Thank You!
@njabulo96184 жыл бұрын
I love your accent
@hensonjayvaliente74004 жыл бұрын
,thanks coach GOD bless
@deryag.4 жыл бұрын
These are really good advices and absulatly true.👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@surekhasonparote54214 жыл бұрын
Can I talk about funny things about past
@amafriends91523 жыл бұрын
But alex what if we're really not compatible but i make him think that we are ? Won't we break up again after we get married and live together under the same rooftop?
@gbessayk.varney4434 Жыл бұрын
My problem like that, please help me out
@lunamoon015 жыл бұрын
Do you think that I can get back with my ex bf even after 2 years of separation? Have anyone ever gotten back after a long gap of separation?
@gemmahoang11623 жыл бұрын
Same situation x
@veil26123 жыл бұрын
Welp did no contact for a month then she reached out. She started chasing but then i screwed up by opening up and now she feels “closure” and stopped talking to me (i got emotional on phone call)
@user-vr5zu5oj1k3 жыл бұрын
I do this a lot. He broke up with me yesterday . I need to learn how to control my emotions but it’s hard. I hope I can change and we work out
@sanityisrare4 жыл бұрын
What if your ex is a narc ..what will he ask and what should we say pls answer alex🙏
@mariegraceannagustin25164 жыл бұрын
Good day Coach! Just wanna ask, when is the right time to answer his call? He's been calling and messaging but I keep on ignoring him. Please help me. What should I gonna do? He wants to talk to me. 😞
@limitlessqueen3 жыл бұрын
I need some help. My ex and I talk on the phone every day. He calls me more than I call him. He's on a dating app right now and told me that if he can see change in me then he'll consider talking about relationship stuff and maybe getting back together. I feel like he's kind of stubborn and don't know what to do in this situation. I need help!
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity3 жыл бұрын
Hey Nicole, There is a video on this channel that talks about how to show your ex that you've changed the right way. kzbin.info/www/bejne/qpacpISaraiab68 Also, we provide one on one coaching where you can talk to me or one of my fellow coaches more about your relationship so we can guide you on what to do next. We would love to help you out! www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
@Yamifan15 жыл бұрын
I will be seeing mine this weekend and i will be seeing her in an activity we are both in. I don't know how to handle if she talks to me or if she ignores me
@funnypfff4894 жыл бұрын
Hey coach, my girlfriend broke up with me 2 days ago due to not talking,doubting and not seeing because of the quarantine. I was telling her give ma a chance im sorry i ignored you, i will do anything i beg and plead. But then she said just let me go I don’t have feelings anymore the vibe is off so i told her okay i respect your decision let’s break up and be mature and stay friends she said yes sure I want to end things in good terms after that til now i didn’t send any message but i will go to her house tomorrow and talk things out give me advice what to say because i prolly gonna hug her and cry
@JustAnotherJP5 жыл бұрын
She apologized and then she said she needed/misses me.... What should I reply?
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity5 жыл бұрын
Hey Jose pablo, take it slow and just say, "Well that's nice to hear and flattering. It'd be nice to hang out. What's your schedule looking like?" If she misses you and needs you, then let's do something about it! - Coach Adrian www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
@VictoriaHannah-xx1qe3 ай бұрын
I break up ex boyfriend because he cheated on me he in relationship he happy
@stanleymatias9743 жыл бұрын
You are just perfect 👍
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching, Stanley! Coach Alex
@Esparza55 Жыл бұрын
It’s been 7 months and I’m scared to reach out to my ex fiancé what should I do help please
@Ruthtalk2 жыл бұрын
Cubit thank you but how can I get your contacts to talk to you in privately
@celenathetrinigirl5 жыл бұрын
Coming to France today. How can I book a session with you?
@Iniocs3 жыл бұрын
Hi coach I going back to my previous work place and my ex is working there. I don't know how to act or what to do because I still love her.
@b.javurkova4495 жыл бұрын
I would like to ask if after 7 months my ex is still cold and avoiding, though there were some happy moments, I still should wait for him to reach out? We still did not estAblish the contact and i am getting tired...i feel like it's eternity. I want to build the bridge however how to do IT with someone so inside his head and crust?
@brocksmith6568 Жыл бұрын
How you doing sir iv been watching your videos for a while. The love of my life has split up with me because of mistakes i shouldn't have made even though she talking to someone else we where still communicating she still smiles at me when she drops our son off but can be distant sometimes she just told me she can not keeping talking to me like we have because its hard for her to work on herself please respect it. Which i do never seak help before but please tell me what i need to do
@SusmitaSarkar-hl1ll Жыл бұрын
He ignore me always should I move on
@nitinnimgaonkar530611 ай бұрын
why do so many of these videos assume that you want to get back with your ex? what if I was the one who ended the relationship? of course there may be love between you two- but you broke up for a reason. quite often people meet with their exes to speak their truth, find some type of closure or face the past… relationships are very complicated and people are impacted profoundly by them, and often it takes years just to face that person again- if there are things you want to say for your OWN personal growth and healing. but again, that does not mean you want to get back with that person
@ricardoalmeida47199 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@jeffcliford44413 жыл бұрын
Hi Alex... I found out that my girlfriend is cheating with a three months pregnancy.... few days she had a miscarriage.....she asked me for money to do cleaning and the other guy. She has went thru the cleaning process but I did not have her any money Am really confused what to do??
@elizabethdickson32043 жыл бұрын
Please mine is a question , what if your ex is already married , well I have no plan getting back with him anyway just need an advice on what to do . he's made it clear he loves me , but I don't I can't be a products of sin cos of him . please what do I do
@sheetalkumari4694 жыл бұрын
If is showing soo much of concern is it good to ask him a reason that why he is soo concern about me bcuz what he did last time with me was not worth it
@trimacianbeauty32872 жыл бұрын
So he said he wanted to talk but he hasnt been able to because of technical issues with his phone an u know ive been refocusing my thoughts so im not focused on waiting for him to come back to me once he’s able fix the phone issue. But now im wondering if it was a mistake from the time he said we need to talk to my response of when i said ok he saw it an then i got mad an i said are u just gonna read it an he didn’t u know come back with a bad response he just told the data issues he had but then i felt bad for responding that way i did an it made me think that cud work against me. what do u think coach?
@deepikasathiri38013 жыл бұрын
Hi coach , This is Deepika , one month ago my boyfriend has done break up with me with , in Instagram he has texted me that , when you are in front of me IAM getting feelings , otherwise nothing ,so IAM doing break up with you . Like that he told to me . But he has used me physically 😭😔. So now how I should react please say me coach . IAM mentally damaged 😩. IAM not able to concentrate on my studies . Please say any solution coach.
@monzerrathgaytan18825 жыл бұрын
I am in a very frustrating situation. My ex came back when I was doing the best. We started seeing each other but then he said he wasn’t sure if he wanted to try it one more time. I said that’s fine but he keeps wants me to act like we are in a relationship but calls me a friend in front with people. So I asked him what he wanted out of this and he said I don’t know. So I decided to just walk away and go do me. But before I left I told him that there won’t be communication between us. But he keeps texting me everyday. I don’t know what to do now.
@DTradesFX25 жыл бұрын
Monzerrath Gaytan Move On!!! He says you’re friends in front of others is a sign of disrespect!!! He’s toying with you!!!
@ciarasutton75304 жыл бұрын
Monzerrath Gaytan what happened?? What did you do? I’m in the same boat... ♥️
@ashleyrae15835 жыл бұрын
Im meeting my ex tomorrow, he says its for closure and that he wants to explain why he broke up with me and why he cheated. Im confused. What am i supposed to respond when im not supposed to talk about the past?
@GDWcarcrew5 жыл бұрын
What should I do when my ex involves our kids on dates with the new boyfriend and does this mean this is serious
@DTradesFX25 жыл бұрын
GDWxAphillyated Yes!!! Leave it alone!!! It’s a sign of disrespect as well!!!
@gokulyash73293 жыл бұрын
Hello coach My ex girlfriend is talking to me rarely . First n all I use to call her she use to talk to me but sometimes she use to talk nicely but sometimes she will not talk properly . She's saying that if we talk spending more time in call she get cry itseems and sometimes she use to send our old pictures n all and I should meet her but she's not interest to meet me what should I do brother?
@ianhoke1425 жыл бұрын
what about if you have just started talking to your ex and she is very slow at texting back and is being very not that talkative . like she Is scared or unsure
@TheStarsandglitters3 жыл бұрын
I followed all the advices, with nc , taking my distance, after 2 months he came back asking me if I was single and telling me he was still in love with me.🤸♀️.. the mistake i have made was to tell him too quick that I was too still in love. I now have back up to re install the passion and chasing but what else can I do to make him more eager to chasse me? I also communicated on how much I changed but now I'm scared he will just assume I am just there if he needs to.. what can I do? Jai l"impression d'avoir merdé 😊 sos
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help you more on a personal level. Coach Alex
@Chrissybell12105 жыл бұрын
Coach my ex keeps calling me but I am not picking up because he is not saying he wants to see me. All he says is hey, what's up. Just calling to see what u been up to. And hey what's up 🤔 that's a turn off for me why not use another form of communication like hi, hello baby, for example but hey what's up I don't know what to think
@DTradesFX25 жыл бұрын
Christine Negron He’s just keeping the door open and testing the temperature.
@gangusmitabhuyan12743 жыл бұрын
Sir, if fully become no contact I mean block then what to do
@francoisgarrigue47864 жыл бұрын
What if you dont care about getting back together and have a son to manage between both whatever ? What if you're just pissed of being stuck in dumb representation ? What if you are just looking for peaceful, egoless educational cooperation ?
@quarryclendening93045 жыл бұрын
My ex told me I'm most likely invited to her bday plans is this a good sign, should I go?
@MultiMelord5 жыл бұрын
Ex says she is missing me after a recent meetup...but she still saying she is committed to her new boyfriend for mreiage already... She still interested to meet me in further...coz she afraid of losing me from her life completely...btw we are in longdistance breakup
@Itss.Reyynnaa4 жыл бұрын
Will I still have another chance even if one of his reasons of leaving me is to focus on himself?
@user-vr5zu5oj1k3 жыл бұрын
I’m having the same issue. He came back every time. I believe it works. Try manifesting. It works girl. Good luck lovey
@FredricJensen7775 ай бұрын
Please help me
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity5 ай бұрын
Tell me about your story.
@ProjectAchieva5 жыл бұрын
My ex called me after a year of no communication. She called to tell me she is now married! :(
@DTradesFX25 жыл бұрын
ProjectAchieva She’s Sad!
@ProjectAchieva5 жыл бұрын
@@DTradesFX2 She sounded happy to tell me this. *shrug* I was left with the question "why". Why bother to tell me if she is (in her words) indifferent to me. Why does she still have my number, if I'm blocked everywhere. I didn't want or need to know this.
@ivy38393 жыл бұрын
So when is good to talk about past ?!
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Ivy, It takes time to bring up the past, it should not occur during the first meeting. You slowly have to engage with the individual and bring up emotions and issues that might have caused conflict and pain, but it is never a good idea to bring them all up at once especially on the first meeting after no contact. You want to allow it to smoothly transition into the topic versus listing all of them in person to them right away. Does this make sense? Thanks Coach Alex
@ivy38393 жыл бұрын
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity thanks a lot to your time and reply , it does make sense . Thank you 😊
@Miss_Susanita5 жыл бұрын
I connot focus on the content because his accent is so sexy😍😂🙈
@malisajosiah64462 жыл бұрын
What to do when he decided to move on with someone else but still kiss and try to have sex with me
@simounlouicealejaga26045 жыл бұрын
Is it a good idea to reach out to my ex after no-contact by saying it's been a while and that I think we should catch up?
@DTradesFX25 жыл бұрын
simoun louice Alejaga no! Don’t do it!
@annalieperez6825 жыл бұрын
❤️
@indiamyreligion82035 жыл бұрын
She has negative thoughts on me what should to do
@lifewithasina10345 жыл бұрын
I feel like my ex boyfriend thinks that I am the most crazy person he has ever meet and it's been 7 months since we seen one another and I have a Son who is 6 not by him but my son is always asking for him so I called him and texted him like 3 times and wan my son called him yesterday they talked for about 1 minutes and then he asked for me and I said hi and he said that why am I using my son to get to him wan he said that I just cut the phone off. Do you think at this point I should naver contact him ever again????
@mychaelebeal64125 жыл бұрын
My Son asks for my ex too. The fact that he could just abandon him is one of the main reasons I have tried to move on.