Tammy Peterson On How She & Jordan Peterson Keep The Spark Alive

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Freedom Pact

Freedom Pact

4 ай бұрын

Tammy Peterson discusses how to keep the romance alive in your relationship, and what changes she has made in her relationship with Jordan Peterson to make them stronger.
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@FreedomPact
@FreedomPact 4 ай бұрын
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@anneturner2759
@anneturner2759 4 ай бұрын
I was so beyond blessed. My husband and I never had to keep the spark alive , it was a love affair of intense chemistry and respect for each other. Thirty six of bliss til he left for heaven. Our marriage was heaven sent . I love him body and soul.
@Sandromeda.
@Sandromeda. 4 ай бұрын
This is amazing. ❤ do you believe it's a mixture of 1)blessing/ grace but also 2)a wisdom and maturity in both of you? Or would you say you were both pretty screwed up but the love between you made you make good choices naturally?😅
@shellylinnn
@shellylinnn 4 ай бұрын
How precious!! We are given the people in our lives for a limited time on this earth. I love to hear when people had a genuinely beautiful time together. That respect goes a long way and makes it easier to be willing to open the heart up. I can imagine even if you miss him, you are still happy when reminiscing your wonderful times together. 💖
@anneturner2759
@anneturner2759 4 ай бұрын
@@Sandromeda. absolute grace … I was on one road that morning, met him at noon ,and God placed me in the opposite direction with a feeling that I couldn’t describe. It was so much bigger than me. Imagine that at nineteen years old and he was twenty nine. We were simply meant to be. ♥️
@Aubergine1941
@Aubergine1941 3 ай бұрын
So blessed. ❤
@heathergrahame9647
@heathergrahame9647 4 ай бұрын
There's something very romantic about a woman opening up to her partner about how she doesn't feel good enough, and, with passion, he gives to her his adoration and affection.
@mellyo7262
@mellyo7262 4 ай бұрын
Although Tammy has a completely different tone to her husband, they actually speak the exact same way…
@jodyjackson5475
@jodyjackson5475 4 ай бұрын
Yes!! I noticed that too!❤
@marilynnewland2838
@marilynnewland2838 4 ай бұрын
My husband and I have had separate rooms for the past 15 years at least. It began because he has a horrible snoring problem and I simply could not sleep. I have autoimmune diseases so it's crucial I am able to sleep. As people get older, sleep becomes more and more difficult- often up during the night multiple times , tossing and turning so I am grateful we decided on separate rooms and there is no resentment. He loves being able to stay up late reading and not worrying about disturbing me and vice versa. Even when we go on vacation, we have separate rooms - more expensive but worth it. Just because something is different from the norm doesn't make it wrong.
@jarvis9283
@jarvis9283 4 ай бұрын
My husband and i have slept in separate bedrooms for 12 of our 45 years of marriage firstly because of his snoring but we both enjoy the ‘freedom’ .When people visit i can see the wheels in their tiny brains turning i just say yes we have separate rooms but the rug in the hall is well worn.
@LilyOfTheTower
@LilyOfTheTower 4 ай бұрын
My husband and I have been married for 15 years and we have 2 children. We have separate rooms (right next to each other) and I've felt insecure and afraid to admit it to anyone. I felt like I would be judged or lectured about it. We have an amazing marriage and I give some of that credit to our separate rooms. Like Tammy said, you have to initiate contact and interactions instead of roboticly inhibiting your actions to make sure to not bother the other with little idiosyncrasies. My husband is my best friend and we still stop and dance in the livingroom and laugh together about life. I love my children dearly, more than I love myself at times, but my husband is where I attentively put my focus and love. They will grow up and have their own relationships. And it's a great gift for me to love their father and show them what a healthy happy relationship looks like. ❤❤❤❤
@hannakurimoto-fischer7600
@hannakurimoto-fischer7600 4 ай бұрын
This is beautiful to read, I’m really happy for you and your rich relationships ❤️
@Carnivoreforthesoul
@Carnivoreforthesoul 4 ай бұрын
Girl! Separate rooms is LIFE! My partner and I are completely opposite sleepers and neither of us sleep well with someone else in the bed. We tried to for a year and it was miserable. Moving to my own room a few years ago was a Godsend! Something highly underrated by folks that think the greatest intimacy is waking up next to your person. But we “visit” often and only part to sleep, and sleep well! And morning grogginess/grumpiness is now non-existent! It’s great. Highly recommend!
@user-sc9ug1ld2u
@user-sc9ug1ld2u 3 ай бұрын
My ex and I had to slept in separate rooms because so I wouldnt hear him play video games. I wake up one day walk into the room to show him something his sister sent me and to my amazement he was jerking off to porn on two different iPads. I had to let him go.
@nieve11520
@nieve11520 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Mrs. Peterson for opening your heart to the world through this video. I imagine it can’t be easy to be so vulnerable; but what a wealth of knowledge and insight! My husband and I will be celebrating our 30th anniversary this year, and these suggestions are just great! May God bless you and may you two continue to be blessed tremendously! May the protecting hand of God be on you, your marriage and your family, in Jesus’s name.
@gillsimpson4976
@gillsimpson4976 4 ай бұрын
Love this video Tammy. My husband and I have been married for 41 years. We are in our 60’s and have had separate rooms for approx 5 years. We are closer than we have ever been. We have our own space but we ‘visit’ each other often and this has definitely enriched our relationship. Thank you for normalising this. X
@jesss7075
@jesss7075 4 ай бұрын
omg teach us more! This is such a freeing way to be in a partnership. You two are so lucky to have each other ♡
@sarahrobertson634
@sarahrobertson634 4 ай бұрын
Jordy Peterson married a cave troll to ensure that she would never have any other option but him.
@charmainemiles4089
@charmainemiles4089 4 ай бұрын
Tammy your wisdom is beautiful, as your husband is loved world wide, and to keep this in order the way you just expressed how you both stay humble with each other is very grounding God bless the rest of your marriage
@suehamblin9652
@suehamblin9652 4 ай бұрын
I am noticing how much Tammy sounds and reasons through her explanations just like Jordan. If I was reading through the words instead of watching her speak, I would think I was reading what Jordan said. Even her pronunciation, voice inflection and mannerisms are like his. I find it so interesting.
@marynlyn
@marynlyn 4 ай бұрын
This does not sound like "how to keep the spark alive." This sounds like a survival guide for recovery from spiritual exhaustion.
@catiedobbs3254
@catiedobbs3254 4 ай бұрын
Spiritual exhaustion?? What do you mean?
@margaretcantlon9960
@margaretcantlon9960 4 ай бұрын
😂 Believe me, it is not ! It is Excitment, Anticipation, Romance , Fun. true love and respect for each others individual needs.
@helenhirst3019
@helenhirst3019 4 ай бұрын
I appreciate your transparency about your relationship. I have been married for nearly 49 years and each decade has been filled with learning the lived experiences of remaining in a relationship. Thank you for sharing your wisdom from your journey, it is just what I needed to hear right now.
@ginahamlyn2569
@ginahamlyn2569 4 ай бұрын
Tammy has one of the most grounded energies I've come across. There is only one other person I know who I've encountered who is so grounded. I know there must be many more, however, this is my experience. A very balanced and calm individual. The perfect mate for Jordan who has a very high energy.
@emilypaisley9440
@emilypaisley9440 4 ай бұрын
You both have something special, never let it go. It's a tremendous blessing.
@josephinemurphy6443
@josephinemurphy6443 4 ай бұрын
What a wonderful healthy relationship... built on respect and trust. How mature!
@elisabettafumagalli6239
@elisabettafumagalli6239 4 ай бұрын
I would beg my partner to give me space so I could go to him. But he wouldn't. He was suffocating me and our relationship. Needless to say it all fell apart. so good to hear that I am not selfish
@mariadegan1029
@mariadegan1029 4 ай бұрын
This makes so much sense😊 l was married to a Narcissist for 30 years and was truly unhappy in the last decade. After the divorce l met the Love of my life and soulmate at the age of 54, we never lived together in the same house, but had the perfect relationship of Love and friendship that was humanly possible ❤️ until his death 17 years later! Living apart really keeps the spark alive, so separate rooms is very logical if you are in the same house!!
@melissaminder5534
@melissaminder5534 4 ай бұрын
Not sure if you know, but you have a gentle, soft light around you. God's Spirit surrounds you. It's quite beautiful.
@margaretcantlon9960
@margaretcantlon9960 4 ай бұрын
❤ Thank you for sharing that. Yes, Tammy is surrounded by a loving, gentle and wise glow. I wonder if she had a NDExperience.
@tinkerbell7877
@tinkerbell7877 4 ай бұрын
she is funny😂 ...and truthful -love it
@LB-id6wf
@LB-id6wf 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your open and lovely words, few admit to having different spaces yet is life saving to many relationships, I believe space and privacy is vital in order to allow growth in relationships and it helps us to treasure the quality time together!
@tinacraven2782
@tinacraven2782 4 ай бұрын
Oh thank you for this talk. I realized that I didn't want to ever be married again because I didn't want to share a bed with someone. The thought of it being okay to not share a bed and that it not that uncommon of a thing is wonderful to know. I feel so relieved.... it's crazy! ☺️
@theresabrooks7901
@theresabrooks7901 3 ай бұрын
Remember leave it to Beaver?. They had twin beds!
@Nina-md1vo
@Nina-md1vo 4 ай бұрын
So beautifully said. Love your voice and your wisdom. And your courage and genuine manner 🥰🕯️
@personofinterest8731
@personofinterest8731 4 ай бұрын
I enjoy listening to you Tammy, thank you for your open heart and sweet demeanor. I learn something every time I hear you. Love from South Africa.
@carismacatalyst1289
@carismacatalyst1289 4 ай бұрын
This is beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing with us. Stay a blessed couple. It's rare these days.
@leighbeauchampday5425
@leighbeauchampday5425 4 ай бұрын
What a delightful chat. Loved this.
@jennakarpe2783
@jennakarpe2783 4 ай бұрын
I love this so much. Thanks for sharing Mrs’s Peterson
@TheWhitehiker
@TheWhitehiker 4 ай бұрын
Cogent and descriptive, thanks much, Tammy.
@krystynanawara9408
@krystynanawara9408 4 ай бұрын
I'm in a similar mood. Being extremely sick, frightened of euthanasia and uncertain about the results of future treatments. I want to decide when and where I want to go, do I want to eat now or later? I wanted to have time for myself to accept the situation and allow my family, particularly my husband, to think over how they could help me. I should thank Tammy for telling her story and giving me hope that my marriage will be saved as well.
@marie4585
@marie4585 4 ай бұрын
VERY WISE AND PRACTICAL ADVICE
@chockie2360
@chockie2360 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing how to be a better couple… it’s great to get your thoughts… and the epiphany ❤
@carmenbrown4051
@carmenbrown4051 4 ай бұрын
Great wisdom. Very well said.
@rcz2023
@rcz2023 4 ай бұрын
Interesting perspective, thanks for sharing.
@beatricebliss9379
@beatricebliss9379 4 ай бұрын
Cuddling before and after sleep is so beautiful and sleeping separately in the good and the bad times are key to great long lasting relationships. I have done this my whole life. So healthy! Just think of the fact that when we sleep, we are not aware. Is this what we want to feed our couple relationship with? Quality time and being aware around each other are so much more beneficial!
@blakebunch4485
@blakebunch4485 4 ай бұрын
So what exactly do you mean cuddling before and after sleep then suggesting we sleep separately? I'm not understanding just how that can be played out.
@beatricebliss9379
@beatricebliss9379 4 ай бұрын
@@blakebunch4485 by sleeping in separate rooms. Some couples sleep in separate houses (even if married and happy) , in order to nourish and keep attraction.
@beatricebliss9379
@beatricebliss9379 4 ай бұрын
@@blakebunch4485 first you cuddle, then you go sleep separately. Then in the morning you can cuddle again.
@jimj2683
@jimj2683 4 ай бұрын
I agree. Sleep quality is so important to happiness.
@blakebunch4485
@blakebunch4485 4 ай бұрын
​​@@beatricebliss9379I'm not sure the time spent apart while sleeping would be sufficient enough for "absence makes the heart grow fonder" kick in but at least everyone could sleep without interrupted snoring. That in itself could help both get out of bed on the right foot.
@rolazarife3201
@rolazarife3201 4 ай бұрын
This is the most beautiful informative video that I am taking as a blessing. Thank you God for Tammy and Jordan Peterson. 🙏
@cristinaobrien3051
@cristinaobrien3051 3 ай бұрын
Tammy- You are such a delight ! 😊♥️🙏🏼 thank you for sharing your heart !
@joyorr9430
@joyorr9430 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for having the courage to speak. Like the practical solutions to remove irritations two bedroom solution has worked and our 32 year marriage thank you
@blakebunch4485
@blakebunch4485 4 ай бұрын
I like the way Tammy looks at things. I'm sure she and Jordan have influenced each other's life views greatly.
@JanetteReeve
@JanetteReeve 7 күн бұрын
Absolutely astounding insight into boundaries and the necessity to pursue each other with humility and vulnerability. Something I wish I learnt a long time ago. Thank you Tammy for sharing these truth’s❤
@DivineLogos
@DivineLogos 4 ай бұрын
Love is not a feeling. Its effort.
@marksargent2440
@marksargent2440 4 ай бұрын
HE who finds a good wife finds a good thing . Jordan b Peterson is a bless man with tammy and his family. both have gone through tough times even with bringing up there own children .no families perfect marriage its bloody hard work but worth it.and loss is painful Make the best of your relationship life to short to not get along with each other we need to keep our romance alive and make the best of it
@Chippy88
@Chippy88 4 ай бұрын
Wow! Very well said! So true, and I find that most men don’t want to talk about stuff and just brush it underneath the rug. Then it just builds up and builds up. You’re a very good speaker and you’re a beautiful woman inside and out! I enjoyed watching this very much learned some good tips
@user-lc6bs4pq3c
@user-lc6bs4pq3c 4 ай бұрын
You two are so inspirational and just too cute❣️
@karatekai6384
@karatekai6384 3 ай бұрын
You are such a lovely open honest person really enjoyed your video no pomp and ceremony just refreshing and reflective 🌹
@Coach.Kallista
@Coach.Kallista 4 ай бұрын
Self awareness is hugely important, as it leads to honest and open communication. On a foundation of; respect, openness, and receptivity as we trust the others commitment to the relationship, even if looks different than we might expect.
@margretgray5408
@margretgray5408 4 ай бұрын
Very honest, practical and down to earth. Behind every great man there’s a great woman!
@stilllearning1160
@stilllearning1160 4 ай бұрын
And such a great man knows it very well and appreciates it, even if he doesn't always say it.
@abutterfly7975
@abutterfly7975 4 ай бұрын
I loved listening to you and your ideas. You’re so down to earth so relatable so common sense thank you Tammy. I was surprised that you were that outgoing to speak like this. I thought you were more shy and quiet and like to stay back and watch. It did make me smile, in someways how you present yourself you comes across like how Jordan does might be a word or phrase or something but I kind of got a kick out of that. That’s cute.
@charlottebonin2000
@charlottebonin2000 4 ай бұрын
I think this is truly wonderful and therapeutic for marrieds ❤❤❤
@lynnofarrell7673
@lynnofarrell7673 4 ай бұрын
We have to let go of romantic jumbo jumbo! I have been married to my husband for 18 years (second marriage for both of us) and what matters is true love, respect, loyalty, commitment and grit! Marriage isn’t easy but it you love and respect each other you work through your issues! My husband and I don’t have date nights perse, but we give of ourselves and we create welcoming spaces … it’s not that hard! If you love each other you will make the effort!
@stellaborromeo1340
@stellaborromeo1340 4 ай бұрын
Wow thank you tammy...I'm struggling cuz ya thought that's the best thing to do..till death do us part.now it's freeing to have a space apart from each other.❤
@jackieanderson4108
@jackieanderson4108 4 ай бұрын
Be kind to each other....this usually works and is all you need....and make a effort
@nettles5714
@nettles5714 4 ай бұрын
We totally agree, we do the same and after 27 years we are more in-love every day.
@ElleTee-tw7fq
@ElleTee-tw7fq 4 ай бұрын
Tammy is just so lovely 💞
@Labradorite1
@Labradorite1 4 ай бұрын
One of the best content I listened to. I think you need two individuals who share and are committed to the value of integrity/honesty to begin, like being genuine with each other no matter what, to live such a positively evolving relationship.
@readoryx373
@readoryx373 4 ай бұрын
This, to me, is a candid expression of a very similar soul to your husband, at least through placement of tempo in language
@constance875
@constance875 4 ай бұрын
Awesome!!
@nicholeblume2191
@nicholeblume2191 4 ай бұрын
God bless and help you and yours
@TheBereangirl
@TheBereangirl 4 ай бұрын
🙄 hmmm...very interesting. I can see how separate rooms can work for some couples, but not all.🤷🏻‍♀️ My husband and I love being roomies.😂 My husband and I do have a date night, something he insisted upon. I remember when Saving Private Ryan came out and he wanted to go to dinner and a movie. Well he learned pretty quick not to take me to a war movie if he wanted romance.😏 After that movie all I wanted to do was get my boys from his mom's house.😭 Truth be told, I don't always feel up to the effort of having a date, but I'm glad we do make the effort.♥️
@singingstars5006
@singingstars5006 4 ай бұрын
Yes, separate rooms wouldn't work for us either. But sometimes I wish for space and I don't get it. It's just part of learning to live together.
@sheenastenico8276
@sheenastenico8276 4 ай бұрын
P
@victoriaani250
@victoriaani250 4 ай бұрын
Beautiful ❤
@simonahrendt9069
@simonahrendt9069 4 ай бұрын
Marvelous
@grantaugustyniak6667
@grantaugustyniak6667 3 ай бұрын
I always say - if possible- take a vacation together once a year and go out on dates with your spouse every so often. I used to work with women that only went on girl trips & guys went on guy trips . Well needless to say - none of their marriages lasted . I think they were not fully committed in the first place. You need to make that time to connect with each other - it’s important - it shows your children that their parents are doing ok. And yes - we all need our space in some way . Like different hobbies, interests & then when together- share those experiences with each other. That’s how we keep our spark.
@claudiamanta1943
@claudiamanta1943 3 ай бұрын
The rustling shadows of the branches outside the window started to dance and entered through the window like a timid thief. The scent of sweet pine stirred the flames of the two candles that flickered in the dark. ‘Are you cold?’, she asked and her voice reminded him, as it always did, of his mother’s favourite dress. The memory of the black velvet started to dance with the pine scent. ‘No, I’m okay’. ‘Are you? Are you okay?’ The brave smile on his face lingered a second too long as he took another bite. ‘This is a really nice meal. Thank you. I missed it’. ‘Did you miss me?’ She could have sworn he was still sat next to her at the low table, so she was surprised to catch a glimpse of him in the kitchen’s lit doorframe. From the brutal neon white light his voice sounded miles away ‘Would you like some dessert?’ ‘Yes, please’. She listened. The kitchen door closing. The switch of the light being turned off. The slight weariness in his steps. ‘There’, he said, putting the small cake on the table. ‘Your favourite’. He sat there watching her smiling. He sat there watching her and feeling the memory of chocolate on the roof of his mouth. They sat there in silence watching the two candles dripping at the same time, crying translucent tears of wax. ‘Yes, I missed you’. Half-regret, half- reproach chocking him from inside. ‘Dance with me’. There they were, the shadows of two leaves getting inebriated with the sap of the same branch, rustling, dancing on the whispers on the night. Whilst the candles were melting and crying and melting. Melting like the taste of chocolate shared in a kiss.
@margaretcantlon9960
@margaretcantlon9960 4 ай бұрын
💜✝️ How lovely and sane you are. Intelligent too. I understand why Jordan decided to marry you when he was so young 😊...My husband and I had separate bedrooms due to his snoring and need 2 set an alarm at 4am to test as a type 1 diabetic. I love to read late , he had to be up early to see patients. We scheduled Early Date Nights. Candles flowers, champagne and music. Sexy lingerie..we had the Best marriage possible. I was so Blessed. It was so Practical. To be rested, excited to get ready for a Date, especially in our 60's. I highly recommend it for Every Couple who wants a great marriage. It makes marriage Fun rather than boring. It should be the 11th Commandment ❤😊
@corporatefeline
@corporatefeline 4 ай бұрын
I hope you are cultivating your art & friendship with yourself & with women too. Nurture the soul, a charitable endeavor perhaps. Feed your heart ❤ You can enjoy a lot & offer a lot. Fill up your soul with play, exploration and the deep love God has for you & all - you will do well. Still small voice leads us to lasting good eternal life. God is real & loves each child individually- you are always cherished .
@avagrego3195
@avagrego3195 4 ай бұрын
Nice.
@Chrisgraww
@Chrisgraww 4 ай бұрын
Hello 👋Beautiful Lady🌹.How are you and the weather condition like ?
@richardanderson-ze3sk
@richardanderson-ze3sk 4 ай бұрын
So, you are you, and I am I. Sounds good.
@keepmyexpectationsongodnot4039
@keepmyexpectationsongodnot4039 4 ай бұрын
How to keep to spark alive???? Interesting very interesting Well, A great relationship doesn't happen because of the love you had in the beginning, but how well you continue building love until the end.” Hard times and good times make up strong, solid relationships and marriages.=. Always you + Me + God = Falah (success) garanteed . Love from a beautiful timeless bellicima lady full of class and elegance and grace and finesse ❤ Many thanks ❤️⭐️✨🌟❤️.
@bennyjensen1230
@bennyjensen1230 3 ай бұрын
I have been wondering how Jordan P. deals w. the anxiety that comes along for really ANYone who draws information and power from …ehem...a Higher Source while speaking. THAT, added to his incredible brain-intelligence, training, experience and well-organized earth-brain usually feels as if you are running fire through your veins, which feels exactly like anxiety to your poor nervous-system. And then my husband sent me this video about Tammy Peterson’s challenge, plus I read about his daughter’s immune-challenge, and became even MORE understanding. Russia was a very good choice for the kind of thing he needed, and while it appears - and feels - brutal to people of Western countries in that kind of well-informed but “un-empathic-seeming” care, it helps permanently, which cannot be said about our Western countries’ palliative or symptom-peddling medical systems. As we say: My hat off to both of you.
@jackedup8135
@jackedup8135 4 ай бұрын
she speaks like Jordan
@user-zb5io8rg8w
@user-zb5io8rg8w 4 ай бұрын
Aren’t you the cutest? I have to go to work, but I just wanted to say that I’ll watch the rest of you later.❤❤❤
@claudiamanta1943
@claudiamanta1943 3 ай бұрын
Tammy. I prefer not to share what I think because it’s none of my business. And I firmly believe that it’s nobody else’s business but yours and Jordan’s, and it should have stayed like that.
@TruthGatherer2013
@TruthGatherer2013 4 ай бұрын
there is no life, only death if you dont know you are life
@wonderfulpeoplesavingtheearth
@wonderfulpeoplesavingtheearth 4 ай бұрын
How SHE & Jordan Peterson....
@kknight90tube
@kknight90tube 4 ай бұрын
As if the internet didn’t make people dumb enough 🤣
@blakebunch4485
@blakebunch4485 4 ай бұрын
I'm not understanding
@land_banes2639
@land_banes2639 3 ай бұрын
My mom & dad have separate rooms I think when my dad was 50 my mom was 47. & they decided to sleep together in 1 room when my dad was 65 my dad snors like a sound of a ship lol. But if I will get married soneday I dont like this setup I wanna stay in 1 room with my wife til we get old. I dont snor btw
@ThrdWrldGrl
@ThrdWrldGrl 3 ай бұрын
If you have to work that hard at setting up a date, it’s not worth it. 😅
@Natelch7682
@Natelch7682 4 ай бұрын
In Judaism we have cycles of approx 2 weeks the beds are together and the 2 other weeks we are separated (no sex no touch). For me as a wife, it gives me my space i need and for my husband I'm always a fresh wife and he is fresh to me, for the 2 together weeks.
@readoryx373
@readoryx373 4 ай бұрын
Why not admit her vulnerability? Why test the waters, or allow authentic vulnerability, only from time to time? It seems women in general believe that it is morally acceptable to deny authentic vulnerability except once on Sunday, waking up and thinking "Oh I s-h-o-u-l-d see J.". As a dutiful cat. No harm intended, just saying. Thank you for posting.
@karasmusic123
@karasmusic123 4 ай бұрын
Because too much vulnerability and closeness scares a lot of men away due to a lot of them either having avoidant attachment wounds or alexicithemia. Vulnerability gives men a chance to hurt a woman where she is most vulnerable and requires a high level of trust. Trust has to be earned, and most women operate from fear from the time they are born. Fear of being judged about what they're wearing, their bodies, who they talk to, who they are friends with, what others think of them, failure, personal safety, being injured, the future, the list continues... Much easier to put an emotional wall up, but let it down when they feel they can be properly received.
@readoryx373
@readoryx373 4 ай бұрын
@@karasmusic123 I am treasuring this response, so powerfully/authentically coined. Thank you/YOU. I felt I had a real question and you delivered more than I can sup in a sitting. The warm gust felt after communing with a heart-mind, hair standing on end.
@franziskani
@franziskani 4 ай бұрын
@@karasmusic123 This is an interesting statement, thanks
@Querencia7779
@Querencia7779 4 ай бұрын
Stuttering over that’s been a journey 5-times doesn’t give me a lot of confidence that she’s happy.
@singingstars5006
@singingstars5006 4 ай бұрын
Happiness is not her greatest aim and it isn't for Jordan either. Happiness is transitory but living for higher values is fulfilling. She faced death and survived. Then her husband faced death but she wasn't there for that process because of her health. Their daughter was Jordan's caretaker. When Jordan came home, he was still quite ill. In a sense, he came home a different man. A stranger. We all saw the changes and he admitted them. Emotional control struggles. Mental processing slow down (when he first came home he talked about this). Pain. Fatigue. He returned disabled. And he's recovered over time back to a reasonable level, but we don't really know what he's still dealing with. Emotional control struggles means not just easy cry but easily frustrated and angry. I can imagine their early months after he came home were very challenging for them both. Chronic illness destroys weak marriages. My husband married me with what he thought were eyes wide open and I know his commitment level has been tested and I am healthy compared. So absolutely they went through some difficult days. And add on top of this all the stress of public controversy that always surrounds Jordan. These two are super heroes. ❤ They love each other and they stick by each other. I have high respect for the devotion they have for each other and the maturity they've reached through that journey.
@gailfagan7579
@gailfagan7579 4 ай бұрын
That’s quite a shallow observation. You do understand that SOME people, mostly seniors these days do actually stay married for 30,40 or 50 years don’t you? That’s not easy and it takes effort, thoughtful actions and humility like she said. I do not see much of those qualities in younger people these days. And don’t whine about money. The ‘dates’ are often at home. It’s the specific time, get yourself cleaned up and attractive and the commitment to do what you may not be what you feel like doing especially if you’re a woman and feeling taken for granted, irritated, not heard. Try those on for size and see if you can pull it off.
@gailfagan7579
@gailfagan7579 4 ай бұрын
Like the commenter said above….it’s not about being “happy”. It’s about staying in a loving, stable relationship for the benefit of BOTH. what a concept, eh?!
@marynewsham9896
@marynewsham9896 4 ай бұрын
Weird
@catcat9582
@catcat9582 4 ай бұрын
Do they have real love? Not the lust kind?
@joanthomson1852
@joanthomson1852 3 ай бұрын
Basically she just said that a woman has to clean the house and gussie herself up so that her man will want her. He can still be a mess but she has to fix herself up for him.
@antiochiaadtaurum3786
@antiochiaadtaurum3786 4 ай бұрын
What a joke
@sashatulips4631
@sashatulips4631 4 ай бұрын
After Peterson cheering on Netanyahu's genocide with the 'Give them hell' tweet, there is no going back. He revealed himself.
@Robert-ul6tm
@Robert-ul6tm 4 ай бұрын
If you can take someone opinion then dry up
@wakkablockablaw6025
@wakkablockablaw6025 4 ай бұрын
What does any of that have to do with relationships?
@ficklefialka309
@ficklefialka309 4 ай бұрын
dkw, i don't like her demeanor and her relationship advice. she says rather obvious things but packages them as something revelatory. honestly, the whole family-except JP-give off grifter vibes. it's strange JP doesn't see how problematic this whole thing looks, with the wife and the daughter latching onto his fame. Neither comes off as very talented, and the whole thing is just unseemly, if not unethical
@agatadusko9646
@agatadusko9646 4 ай бұрын
yup. utter drivel. then there's the goldilocks in tank tops... out of respect for JP various people have to put up with these two. feeling sorry for Bishop Barron, just for starters
@thadeagle
@thadeagle 4 ай бұрын
You're jealous !!! And your comment about the Peterson family is not fair. His daughter cured herself of an incurable chronic disease, focusing mainly on her diet. She helped many people recover by her example. Jordan's wife survived cancer, which is 100% incurable. She focuses more on the spiritual side. She inspired me to pray to God regularly. The Peterson family has had a positive impact on hundreds of thousands of people, perhaps even millions. They stand by the Truth.
@ficklefialka309
@ficklefialka309 4 ай бұрын
​@@thadeagle good bye
@blakebunch4485
@blakebunch4485 4 ай бұрын
Just because you're a family member of JP in no way exempts you from being a full time student I'd imagine.
@sherbear8286
@sherbear8286 4 ай бұрын
You had a thought , so you expressed it. Was it worth it?
@jeepsishumate2021
@jeepsishumate2021 3 ай бұрын
sadley catholicism is sending people to hell by idol worshiping . God the father of abraham issiac and jacob warns against worshipping other gods . the rosary the saint statues and the mantras.bowing to the pope
@davidcardona2974
@davidcardona2974 4 ай бұрын
How phony. Both of them are influencers. It’s their Babylonian lifestyle 😢
@agatadusko9646
@agatadusko9646 4 ай бұрын
reinventing hot water... what's next? how to fold your laundry and make tea?
@singingstars5006
@singingstars5006 4 ай бұрын
​@@ThrdWrldGrlFunny. I think everyone looks up when they are searching for words that match what one is feeling and trying to convey. That is, unless one says every nonsense that comes into one's head.
@imhim94ivan
@imhim94ivan 4 ай бұрын
Another hater
@lucia7546
@lucia7546 4 ай бұрын
😂.... really?
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