how starting a small business changed my life (& it can change yours too!) ✿ let's be vulnerable

[@tammydinh]

from one uncomfy person to another, i hope this video brings you comfort. thank you so, so much for being here

[@TripleAGaming576]

🤎🫶🏼

[@Rapheaengelo]

🫶

[@louissesam]

Oh btw when u have this hair u look like the queen of hearts actor in Alice in Bordeline!

[@TrangPham-pq6kr]

Thank you for your sharing! Wishing you much success and happiness

[@mylittlecreativespace]

Thank you!🖤 you already helped so many people to just follow their dreams, including me! You really do give comfort and the courage to just go for it!🥰 big hug to you!🖤

[@YaropolkZhirov]

The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book The Mystic Labyrinth on Vexoner speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance

[@iamassyl]

i didn’t expect staring a small shop would be so hard until i did it myself. it took me 4+ months to even post one listing/product and now that its been 7 months I only did 1 sale. However that one sale is what keeps me going. Awesome video!

[@Ethereal359]

I wish you success. Keep going, never give up. ❤

[@carlijnverstappen757]

I'm literally at the start of starting my own business, I have dreamt about it so many times and after 9 years of already being self employed but not really doing what I love, this video helped me so so much to realise that choosing something you love can also trickle down to your core self, the ones you love and the best version of you in the future. "I don't have tobe the best" really clicked with me. Thank you so much and I wish you and all the people here who embark on their own little business adventure all the best ❤

[@iamassyl]

@@Ethereal359 same for you!

[@sweets3445]

where do you sell? what do you sell? website?

[@iamassyl]

@@sweets3445 I am selling engraved silver necklaces. Idea started with engraving fingerprint on a silver pendant and now I am also considering other engravings like coordinates, initials, etc. I have started selling on ETSY and am considering opening a website.

[@maryamaliyeva9206]

"If you are nervous about something just find a way to be excited about it" - loved it

[@rachealgetscreative]

I almost cried when you talked abou helping your parents with their trip and their health (teeth). You are really wonderful, and I'm glad you found your way to success and happiness.

[@jaydela7909]

Me too

[@sytekd00d]

nah, I cried

[@quinta0822]

I definitely teared up

[@dessanguyen]

Definitely ugly cried over here

[@journeywithraga]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/ipnZlGR9q6yHqsksi=H6aeQOmV_a4fP0MZ

[@marrrie2490]

This is so true, I started making jewelry but I was so scared, literally cried when I got a first order and then I didn’t have orders but a complete stranger gave me the motivation to keep going and now it’s my income, i do what i love its amazing, some stress of course but support really helps

[@vandasousa4272]

Do you have an Instagram page??

[@justabby4528]

Wondering the same​@@vandasousa4272

[@MrEjblanco]

I'd want to check out your page

[@mushroom.mustang]

aw i’m curious what the story with the encouraging stranger is

[@_xl64_26]

Give us your instagram account we really want to see your work ❤❤❤

[@HazelSong]

Your voice is so calming and very supportive, I quit my job 8 months ago and I don't ever want to go back! I want to work for myself at my own pace :) Thanks for sharing your journey!

[@jessicameisner8487]

I started my business in 2023 and have a year under my belt. 200+ sales with minimal advertising and no social media. Sometimes I get down on myself bc I can only work so much and also have to be available to help my kids in homeschool. I'm at the Sapling stage and I'm proud of it. I wonder what will happen this year when I create a Shopify and steer my sales funnel directly at it via Instagram and Pinterest. I struggle with balancing "me" time, "family" time and videogaming for relaxation and my burgeoning watercoloring hobby. Discipline, focus, balance, and Sleep. I'm adding in daily walks now for the endorphins. Loved your video. I heard "you", so thanks for sharing. It resonated w me. ❤❤

[@gingamingayo8273]

Good luck!

[@SweetLittleTouch]

I started in 2023 also, and I JUST got my first sale! Feeling ecstatic about it honestly 🤩 You’re doing GREAT with 200+ already, and I’m so happy for you! Tammy inspired me to finally start my journey and it’s wonderful seeing so many people tell their success stories in her comments! You totally got this ❤

[@sharene4362]

I'm a Capricorn too twin where have u been

[@light-water]

1. Stop playing video games. 2. Stop playing video games. Also your store sounds a lot like mine, I did around 220+ clients in my sneaker reselling store. What market are you in?

[@nicoldengenyakeye6905]

This video hit me hard. I'm a young father, broke with no parents so no support. Times looking bleak but I have to do right by my daughter and just start somewhere. EDIT : I THANK EVERYONE FOR THE KIND WORDS AND ENCOURAGEMENT. GOD BLESS Y'ALL

[@cholav3341]

Every thing will get better don’t stop believing bro , sending prayers and love to you and your daughter 💕🫶🏽

[@nicoldengenyakeye6905]

@@cholav3341 Thanks for that. At least you find good people once in a while online

[@hardwiredX]

Keep going, man! ☀️☀️ kzbin.info/www/bejne/f3vVlH2Li52XaJIsi=uL83rSRrCQ84cIt-

[@justabby4528]

You are going places with your attitude! Wish you the best🧡

[@izzifragner]

channeling you lots of love and energy. you'll be doing great

[@starsnoireart]

your point about "not having to be the best" really resonated with me because I recently came to this realization too! I see people on Instagram all the time who are just so much more naturally artistic, who have more training, who are seasoned professionals, etc. And it discouraged me for years because I wasn't at their level despite drawing pretty much all my life and sometimes being older than these talented people! One day I sat down and had this realization though: I'm good enough at art that I can draw pretty much anything that makes me happy. Anything I want. And for now, that's good enough. If the time comes that I can ever afford to go to art school then I'll take it, but for now, I study on my own schedule, improve at my own pace, and rest happy knowing that my childhood self would be really happy with what she can do now~

[@Caitanyadasa108]

I think having technical skill doesn't need to be a hindrance. Quirky stuff that is authentic can resonate with people while technical skill but lack of authenticity can be uninspiring at best.

[@xxXDEadFunny]

this !!!

[@OkieSketcher1949]

@starsnoir- I’ve known several artists who do great work and make a decent living selling their art. Funny thing about them is that not one of them have ever attend a formal art school. They do not have a ‘fine arts degree’. They have learned by doing. Occasionally, they will purchase a book that interests them and try to learn more about their art that way. Do your own work. Do what pleases you. Eventually, others will see what you do and many will like what they see. From there your business will grow.

[@the_salty_melody]

I reallly resonate with the thought that you "don't see self-employment as a risk -- people go through life working hard 9-5, being unhappy, and in the end they're laid off anyway". When you have the knowing that you have the skills to sustain yourself, it's a superpower. You don't depend on some X employer, it's just one of many options. 💪

[@smonline631]

that is a story of my mom. and paradoxally she did not really profit from that income..

[@ExLibrisMara]

As someone who is also pretty anxious I loved the idea you mentioned of turning that anxious feeling into a feeling of excitement. Changing my mindset is the first step!

[@gummycat520]

Watching this video as an idealistic person really encourages me. I love how you said to tap into your inner child, where you have a lot of curiosity, and take calculated risks to achieve your dreams. Seeing someone with a similar mindset be so successful is truly inspiring! Thank you for sharing!🎉

[@dollbaby4820]

I work for a corporate company currently and I hate it, I feel stuck to start my own craft business, I can make art and design art, still try to find my way to get there…that’s why I come here to see how you do it, you are doing great! Now I still think of what to make for sell and get it started. So happy for your achievement.

[@ephemeral_arts]

I am in a similar position, I'm feeling stuck with my art and something that has been unbelievably and ridiculously helpful has been reading the artists way, finding creators (like uncomfy co and gabriellarosie) who are trying to foster support for artistic practises. I hope you find what you want to sell 💜

[@Likelyfairy]

@@ephemeral_artsI’ve started reading it and I really like it ❤ I definitely recommend it as well

[@silvertown9324]

"I don't have to be the best. I'm still valuable". How healthy of a mindset. Thank you! I'll post it somewhere around the house to remember.

[@oksana_media]

thank you for showing that being vulnerable means being strong. and I also love names of the chapters, it's so poetic! ✿

[@boundbywordsblog]

Omg, the "I commend myself for realizing it so young" line made me unbelievably sad. Because I'm 38 now, newly let go from a 10-year corporate job (that I hated SO much and didn't realize it), and am now, FINALLY, starting down the small art business path. I'm terrified and worried that I'm starting too late, but I'm trying to ignore those demons *sigh. Thank you for this video ❤

[@CoyApricot]

Your journey sounds exactly like mine, which is incredibly encouraging. I grew up in a financial struggle too, went to university for fashion design for the exact same reasons. I didn't think taking the fine arts route was a smart decision in terms of risk. But like you, I never had that passion for what I did. I got my degree and went straight to working low skill, dead end jobs just to survive without grinding at something mentally exhausting that I wasn't interested in. In May 2023 I started Coy Apricot. At 500 followers I also thought 'this could be something'. I'm still small, but I really relate to you. Following your journey gives me a sense of comfort within my own.

[@shatteredscry]

Your stuff is insanely cute! 😍

[@Safry-04]

10:12 I'm overwhelmed too when u said u wanna cry & ur eyes started to shed a tear 😭🙌🏻🫶🏻🧡

[@snaggiz]

I never thought I’d start my own business, but something has finally clicked within me during the last few weeks. People like you and many others (even my parents who are business owners themselves) have shown me that life can be different. I’ve realized that I will not have the stamina to work jobs I don’t like, with people I don’t like, for money that isn’t even that great just so that way I can potentially retire comfortably. I detest the whole idea and it feels like a trap into a miserable existence. Now I’m standing on the edge about to make a decision I never thought I’d make and I’m itching with excitement. I’m finally betting on myself instead of waiting for someone else to do that.

[@peachesdetable0818]

As an introvert, a breadwinner supporting her family, a part-time artist drawing art commissions, and a full-time architect assistant, while also being a student, this video just randomly popped up in my feed. I'm crying right now because I resonate with it so much. I really enjoy creating art and wanted to explore the world of business. After watching this, I've gained confidence. ALSO, I THINK I'M DELUSIONAL TOO LOL- I JUST BELIEVE EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT FOR ME. I still believe that the Universe is always aligning the stars for me. To everyone who's fighting in life, we've got this!

[@xmrxjoexx]

That part where you said “nobody values my time more than myself”. That is 1000% Which is why I believe some of us have huge drive and value our time due to past experiences.

[@_AbrahamMathews]

Thank you for sharing. This is truly inspirational. Things I am learning from this video: - Take calculated risks (develops courage) - I may not be the best in something, but I still can be valuable in that. (develops confidence) - Be excited about what makes you anxious. (develops mindset) - Set boundaries, improve yourself, forgive yourself, correct yourself. (develops discipline and self-love) - Starting a small business is like planting a tree, it requires patience, hard work, and persistence on a daily basis.

[@malurus2]

you are a massive inspiration. i've been wanting to change something in my life for a few months now and i think i've narrowed it down to a creative small business and watching you inspires me so much

[@cobotoast]

I’m all on board with starting my own business and have recently concluded for myself that having a small business where I sell handmade things and studio vlogging all of that would be my dream job. But my problem is I’m a little stumped on where to begin! Even to begin planning is looking vast. I’m trying to figure out the beginning of my business plan just so I can start where I’m happy and not start so haphazardly. It’ll be challenging but I would love to push through to the other side soon.

[@inob____9368]

Hi Tammy, as a Vietnamese I do understand every thing you were going through with finalcial struggle and family expectation. I used to taking interior design as my major in university and was going to have a full time job in front of the PC for endless hours. And at my internship time during 3rd year I also felt the need to pursuit other paths that would fulfill me more. And yeah, the pandemic hit and I got the chance to reflect so much and decided to go other way. Now I am teaching art for kids to fill up the bills while doing handicrafts and study astrology to pursuit my dreams. In Vietnam its kinda hard to sell handicrafts at its true price cuz people still not willing to pay higher price for "just a handmade stuff" :( but your vids give me so much strength and compassion for keep going on w this path. thank you so much & wish you peaceful love ❤

[@artsygirlmarilyn6296]

Childhood trauma is real. Self care would include going to a supportive therapist so you can really work through what happened to you. I worked at Yale Medical school where so many young adults were healed. You deserve it. Everyone does. You rock!!! ❤❤❤🐶🐶🐶👁️🧬🌗🌷🌺🌋🎨🎨

[@ShadowplayToys]

Wonderful to get a better insight into Uncomfy's initial beginnings. Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring early small business owners like myself as we set out to forge our own paths.

[@megantanart]

YOUR SKIN IS SO GLOWYYYY

[@magicwendy210]

thank you so much for this video and being so open and venerable it has come at the perfect time for me as l am in a difficult place at the moment and lost my sense of my place in the world and my purpose, today l am starting a new chapter to literally start over again and get my business back up and running but first doing creative things just for me, for all those that are also struggling never ever give up just open your heart to reconnect to your creative spark and shine x

[@gainswithkathy]

I just started my business 4 months ago and resigned my full time job at 33. It’s scary, but I’m proud of you! You’ve got this.

[@localcraftery]

I cried with you... that line "If I mess up, who was gonna help my family" shook me for real. The pressure of being the eldest just hit hard. Even though there are 4 of us, I can't lean on anyone. Everyone has their problems, and it's tough for me to open up to any of them. But thank you, Tammy. I felt that I wasn't alone in my problems and was able to let out some steam. Much love

[@nikkolyn1122]

Totally. Eldest child pressures. Sending love and luck 💚❤️🍀

[@koikawaii]

I'm not the eldest, but I have the same experience.

[@kellseyvp]

Oldest of 4 as well. Very relatable 🤍

[@Carlos504-l4q]

10 months selling on Amazon 5000 sold in products 8000 in storage, advertising etc. 3500 in merchandise. I have learned a lot.

[@Msal19]

You are the perfect example of extreme ownership, gratitude and abundance mindset. Huge kudos!

[@Blockwise2]

I also started a small business where I design custom Lego models and sometimes 3D models. It's been 8 months or so since I started and it really pushes you to explore life in general, it makes you understand how money works and how selling / buying works, it makes you understand the value of money and so many other things and all of those things can actually be fun to explore. I think that for me the most important lesson I got from all of this so far is that peace of mind and satisfaction can come to us at any moment, but we delay that moment or think that it is somewhere else to be found. When I combined my passion and business together, I also found the satisfaction I was craving and I am more relaxed since I know I may be able to fully support myself in the future. I should mention that it took me 3 years of trying and giving up all sorts of business ideas, first time I tried at 18

[@m.g.4830]

I needed this video run. I was giving up on working on my own business full time because it will take so long to make a living off of it, but watching this video, and even family telling me to do what I love, has helped me so much mentally to keep going❤ thank you so much Tammi

[@Peter3Adventures]

“I would take human connection over technical skill ANY day”. I literally said F** yes!!! This rang hard in my heart. Growing up in a family where my Vietnamese parents struggled and being constantly pushed into the medical field was quite traumatic. I’m now pursuing my dream photography business and this is what i needed to hear. Thank you and subscribed!

[@sarah.ashley.]

Hi Tammy, I was also a graphic designer too. (The fact that I said "was"...) I actually yearn to be a fine artist and also produce my own merchandise. I really identify with the worry that no one would care about my art and that there are so many people out there who are already established and started way earlier than I had. I always wanted to be an artist and not a graphic designer. I went into graphic design because I was afraid I couldn't make a living from my art without someone else giving me a direction or purpose for my art. And yet while I was a graphic designer, I hated that I had very minimal creative freedom. In the end I was just afraid to stand alone and I severely lacked the confidence back then to pursue my dreams of starting my own creative business and expressing my creativity my own way. I felt like my creativity only had value if it was in the service of someone else's purpose because then I would get paid. It was such a unhealthy place to be in, now that I realise it. The transparency and honesty in your sharing here in this video is so encouraging and refreshing to me. It gives me so much hope for my dreams because up til then I only found myself around very judgemental, negative people who made me feel like my art and my ideas and my voice were worthless. Thank you so much for your video. It brought some healing and hope to me :)

[@MeghanHarker]

Hell yes, Sarah. All of this. I’m in the same boat struggling as a pharmacy tech when I want to make art. It’s terrifying to start and to keep going.

[@sarah.ashley.]

@@MeghanHarker Hi Meghan, thanks for your reply

[@naiadsouls]

as a introverted artist who is now trying to start their own small business, i found this video very inspiring. you're giving me hope i can do this too, thank you

[@lovejones92]

Hello my fellow earth sign ❤ (Virgo here ♍️🙋🏾‍♀️) First off I want to thank you so much for your transparency in your videos and overall on your channel. I personally think that 100% of the things you touched on and spoke about in this video really resonated with me because here lately I’ve found myself deciding to go on my own path by starting my own small business after completing school for Software Engineering and realizing that while it’s a cool skillset its not what will ultimately make me happy in life for a career. I think that seeing your video come up on my KZbin feed is my sign to go for what I really want in life and I appreciate your encouragement. ❤ I love your art btw!

[@lindahardman6258]

Tammy your video touched me so deeply, especially when you talked about how you helped your Dad with his dental work. As someone who has experienced dental issues too, your helping really got to me. I literally said out loud, “Oh Tammy!” I love your videos. I’m uncomfy too.

[@EclecticcMind]

Thank you for always sharing and inspiring me and others! As a small business owner (4 months in ) it really helps to hear that my hard work will be appreciated by others one day and that I just have to be me 🌷thank you

[@minhanhtrinhdiep1663]

I'm planning to start my own business lately, quite struggling right now and THIS, this is actually what I needed to hear. Thanks for giving me the motivation to keep going on!

[@supasununkansak7347]

I'm a pharmacist, but I also have a passion for art. I recently decided to open a TikTok account to share my art because I don't want to neglect my passion. Thank you for the video.

[@christinethecrafter9662]

You become one of my inspirations for more than 2 yrs now, I stopped with my craft due to anxiety but watching you overtime inspired me to get back to work..thank you for sharing!!ur new friend from the Philippines❤😊😊

[@TaniaT94]

From somebody at the beginning of my small business, in the midst of impostor syndrome and being lost on what to do next - thank you for this 🥰

[@1111sm..]

Here's a graphic design student and universe is giving me all the signs to embrace the discomfort now and do sth out of the normal...thank you❤

[@aasthabariyar3308]

I literally love your content... Thank you for being yourself, Tammy! Love ya

[@kalinglee2477]

I am a four kids Mom, your videos can give me the motivation to start my own business, love you! I can feel you how happy and enjoy your life now. Such as good example for me. You do what I want to do. Good Jobs!!

[@kevyslatt]

you're so sweet to your parents, you've got my respect

[@OmgShesAnArtist]

thank you a million times over for this video! as a 35y/o, I wish I had this a decade ago. however, getting it now will change the trajectory of my journey for the better!

[@Shireloverr]

My sister wants to start a business but is so nervous! I will have to show her this to help!

[@TaniaPomalesArt]

I want to thank you for this. I am struggling to take a leap of faith and focus on my ideas and dreams, and this proves that it’s possible to succeed.

[@gabe2777]

I literally got teary eyed listening to your story, we have very similar backstories so I hope eventually I can get to the place of abundance like you've found

[@probablyaman]

Nice perspective! Although as someone more pessimistic I must say luck is often involved in the success of many businesses, even when it doesn't seem that way. I think the fact that your social channel grew so quickly in the beginning probably gave you a nice boost to keep pursuing your dream. And of course, your hard work and dedication also pays off. However, I've seen many people who have struggled for years to gain tractions on the things they love to make. Artists who make great art and yet their work never get picked up by the algoritum. And while I love seeing the success of your small business. I have seen so many other similar arts & crafts stores having to close down due to falling sales because of the recession. And it can be more soul crushing than doing a boring job that pays the bills. I'm not suggesting that people shouldn't take risks in starting their own businesses. But I do suggest not entirely believing that hard work will lead to success. Luck is a very important factor. And it is often out of our control. We mostly hear from stories of sucessful businesses, but I think hearing the stories of how businesses went down can be beneficial too. And to build a more realistic picture of starting a business.

[@alisonodonnell5243]

Very pessimistic!

[@NanafromNana66]

You are so real. What's great for a french like me is you speak slowly and softly.

[@endless_dreamer_]

i want to quit my job and purse my art but im so lost in the dark on how to even start. Ur videos help me calm my anxiety and continue and push myself to try more

[@venusdawson903]

As an extrovert, I love that this resonates to all my introvert friends to know that they not alone but loved! ✨Progress is gradual and I’m also learning to take risks for things that I’m interested in. Your videos really grow on me!!! ☀️

[@cee8226]

I did this 3 months ago. I quit my corporate job and pursued full time artist and I failed. I am unemployed and looking for a job rn bec the funds are not looking good 😂

[@ArleighLauren]

I think in another video Tammy mentioned how you should should treat your first business as a really intense hobby. Work really hard in your free time, use that passion to start- while still having that ‘safe job’ income. Now that you are looking for a new job, this may be a great opportunity to find something that better fits your needs! Something with less stress, better hours, no OT or outside responsibilities (just generalizing a corporate job lol)- so that way you have more time to create your product, advertise, learning the in’s and out’s… I think I can speak for everyone in the comments and small businesses community when I say I wish you good luck and happiness in your new found path!

[@hustlemami8732]

Me too😢

[@ontune1715]

Even with top illustrators/artists they have to keep a day job to support themselves while leveling up their skill at the same time. Eventually they'll get to a point where they can make enough money with their art and quit their non art related job. Its pretty much the reality if one were to pursue art in our current time. While of course there are prodigies or they get really lucky, those are only the minorities. At the end of the day, if you really want it , really think about it and put in your best effort (this is the most difficult path because there will be pressure and lots of emotions). Also dont forget to have fun during the process of making art.

[@TanyaLochridge]

You are def a very wise old soul…in a young form. Such wonderful advice. I am old enough to be your grandma (and would proudly take that honor) and see so much light in your face. Sharing your story is a gift to the universe. 🐾💕🐾

[@HangNguyen-ih8rf]

I grew up with my parents fighting and screaming about finance. My mom would pull me out in the middle of their fight and make me fight for her. I raised my 2 youngest siblings. Now at 40 my life (mentally, financially, &physically) is in a sewage. Thanks mom.

[@honeybee2644]

I feel sorry for u love, i hope and pray the rest of your life will full of happiness, blessings and trauma free peace with financial abundance ameen ❤

[@fairytale143]

I am so sorry you had to grow up so fast. I hope you can draw the line and put those past traumas behind you. A sense of family responsibility is a really good trait, but protecting your own peace is even more important. Live life for you. Wish you the best, friend.

[@Annie080875]

There comes a point when we have to stop blaming our parents for our dysfunctions. They were probably doing as good as they could, and after 40 years, you've had plenty of time to get therapy, get resilient, and begin to build the life you want. The good thing is you are still alive and have some time to pivot into the life you want.

[@HangNguyen-ih8rf]

@@Annie080875 At 40 im still taking care of my mom and my dad. They old and dying.

[@thesecretlifeofhuman]

At 40 you need to stand in your own two feet and be a responsible adult. I don’t doubt your story, but you don’t know your parents back stories - they were once children too. Let go of the past, draw from your inner strength, and move on.

[@fatmaalnajjar6222]

this video was so wholesome, so thanks for it. I also run a small business and i have easy days and other times like right now, i'm experiencing extreme overwhelm and i'm not sure how to move forward. Especially after experiencing a lot of set backs and having to re route so many times it gets exhausting. so thank you so much. much love

[@ameotaku]

I love making art and have always played with idea of selling it because I can’t think of anything I’d rather do for the rest of my life but I always end up getting scared/uncomfy (lol) with taxes and setting things up from a legal perspective 💔

[@Marentthu]

I can really relate to that, I´m the same! It´s so scary :(

[@ArtwithOlga]

Same here. That's why I am still working and starting now in social media seems really difficult. I see so many amazing artists so underrated. Good luck!💕

[@Marentthu]

@@ArtwithOlga Thank you!💕 Yes, it´s really difficult getting an audience on social media, but hopefully we will get there :) Good luck to you as well!!

[@TravelingWithDeene]

I resonated with everything you said! I started my small business as a Travel advisor & content creator focusing on sharing travel as a form of self love & empowerment ❤. Being an introvert has been so hard at first 😂 because I don’t know how to market my business, but it has helped me to grow as a person. That’s one thing I love most about being self employed, the growth I’ve been having this year has been exponential and I just love it

[@SophiaBrittany-jn8xt]

this people don't say step by step on how to make it big I highly recommend you to her I suggest you seek a financial guidance someone who can help you carry out your trades perfectly to avoid loss I remember couple summers back, after my lengthy divorce, I needed a good boost to help my business stay afloat, hence I researched for license advisors and came across someone of due diligence she helped a lot to grow my reserve notwithstanding inflation, from $275k to approx. $1.2m you can communicate with advisor on the internet

[@bhuwnanaik3425]

Oh hello! fella Capricorn... Yes, we are delusional but we are hard-working.

[@chanpreetkaur28]

Hey Gurl! Fellow Capricorn here! everything you said and went through in your life is so felt to me! Thank you so much for putting it out and sharing. Thank you for taking this courageous step. I am an astrologer by profession and soul, but stuck in my 9-5 because I have to support my family, live up to their expectations and pay my bills as well. More than this, i donot have the courage to go to my employer and tell them i want to quit my job because there is so much at stake for me. I'm so scared of being alone. The more i desire an independent life for me, the more the fear within me rises. watching you vide gave me some sense of hope in myself and time. also, just want to say one more thing! You helping your dad get a dental procedure is so Capricorn of you because Capricorn, ruled by Saturn, rules bones and teeth! Have an amazing day! And Thank you

[@phat80]

Forgot to mention that it works only in rich countries like USA.

[@rumin4te_art]

The confidence portion really resonated. I'm trying to start my own art business and advertising myself is the biggest mindset hurdle I'm trying to get over. I feel so awkward talking on camera, recording in public, or even sharing my art on my art page asking the audience for feedback knowing family and friends are seeing my stuff. It's this really weird notion of being perceived in general. I know what needs to get done to advertise my work and market myself, but I feel incredibly unconfident and scared of putting myself out there. I love watching your channel because most of the stuff you talk about is really valuable and familiar in both mindset, work, and social life. Thank you for existing and sharing your work!

[@shanedaniels6412]

as another person finding confidence in himself all.. i want to say thanks for sharing and i am proud of you.

[@eman_st]

I think that this video came at the right time and that it is a sign for me to continue what I am doing. As a person who loves filming videos, I thought about opening a channel, but I had to study English as well. I combined them both together and it became very difficult to learn while making videos, but this is my passion and I will not give it up. ❤❤❤

[@ThisGratefulLife]

Thank you for sharing some inspiration and motivation that spoke to me--not me as a mom, as a wife, as a corporate employee--just as me. Turning 33, I forgot how much spark I had as a kid. I love and am grateful for the many roles I've become over the years; the bittersweet part of that is I slowly lost that sense of adventure and excitement of challenging myself. I became lazy in taking care of myself because I've become so engulfed in taking care of others. I'm ready to own something for myself and to reap the benefits for MYSELF, not other people. Hearing how similar your upbringing was, I'm reminded how I want to break that cycle of financial worries.

[@techguy6565]

Thank you so much. I am also the one who was overwhelmed by the job pressure and the peer pressure in office. I don't really feel interested in my colleagues everyday talk about buying cars, buying house, traveling, marriage, peers secret etc. I can only feel stressful in such environment because everyone just want to showoff themselves and show their superior by judging the others (luckily I am not being bullied, I am just a small, nice potato in office). I become exhausted after everyday work and feel like I am dying in such environment. Until recently, I decided to start my own small workshop and making lots of preparation for it. Although I still haven't quit my job, everything is getting better. I feel passionate everyday because I have something to strive for. Today I saw your video and really feel the same with you. This video encouraged me to do something I love. Thank you

[@giannathehuman]

I had a very similar childhood from what you are explaining and that fear of risk is real. I started my small business 10 years ago, but I dropped everything when the pandemic hit. I only recently decided to pursue art again, but it's terrifying to take this risk! It's nice to know I'm not alone in feeling this way. Thank you for posting this!❤

[@iamfrancotorres]

It’s amazing to see how small, consistent efforts can grow into something so significant over time. Thanks for sharing your journey and insights. it's super inspiring!

[@modalcreative]

Such a beautiful video! Hearing your whole journey and your bravery in taking steps towards being a business owner is very inspiring! I really respect the way you help your parents..I actually think a lot of people do this after I watched a video of secondary kids in NZ going to school then working 20 -30 hours pw as well to be able to help their parents pay for living costs. Love your content and hearing about your life journey, wishing you all the very best ☺️🫶🏼💚

[@LaurenBoisvert]

Listening to you talk about what you've been able to give back to your family made me BAWL! Congratulations on your hardwork paying off

[@rachaeljoon]

i truly resonate with what you said about needing to be passionate about your work. one time in chem lecture my professor was talking about how at the end of the day it's just a job and it doesn't define how you are, and hearing that disappointed me because i WANT me work to define who i am

[@wild_cub_times]

It really is the *continuing even though you don't get nothing in return.* I don't want to go to gym cuz the pressure is so much in the results, but instead I started rollerblading cuz why not? Thank you for the reminder too! > Anxiety physically feels the same as excitement. It's your thoughts that define which is it.

[@thaisyumiko]

I wanted to write a long text for you, thanking you for sharing you story, and all of these insights with us, but I cannot put into words how much you inspired me. So, for now, just wanna leave a big thank you. Thank you for inspiring all of us, uncomfy little artists out there

[@ebihearts]

I appreciate this video so much. It’s been a dream of mine to own my own small business, even as just a side job and your stories really help seem like it’s possible. My family and I need a lot of support right now and I’m hoping I find a way. Love your comfy uncomfy cozy channel.

[@OhPolishedNails]

I am going through the same stage right now. I am also asian and I totally relate to the culture aspect of the struggle. I love the point you shared about the mindset. I know these things but I felt like I needed to hear it now and I am very comforted and it boost my energy to keep on going for the day. Thanks so much

[@MsShannaK]

What an amazing woman and daughter you are. I’m glad you found your light in the world and share with others. Thank you 🥹💖 so proud of you.

[@sotiabella2766]

This video is exactly what I needed to hear. I am a self published writer and translator I am disappointed that my books don't sell as I expected to make a living as a full time author. I thought to give up but I dread the idea to give my precious health sanity freedom and time to a boss and just on time I open KZbin and see this! My biggest challenge now is consistency and confidence that I can make it. I promise to myself to do the best I can to build my financial freedom. Whoever reads this I say You are not alone! We all have the same worries about the future and money and benefits and all this things. Just Don't give up! Things always change! Wherever I gave up I lost many opportunities that I now regret . Keep going people! I'll do the same!❤

[@cutechiangels]

Thanks for sharing. You're an inspiration. ❤ 🙂 I teared up with you when you talked about how your dad can eat again properly, and how most take that for granted. So happy for him, and glad you could help him. I wish I can earn money doing what I love, very soon. And big money, too!! 🙏🌟👌 I've been going through 3 decades of teeth problems, and still have to find funds to fix the rest. So expensive. And, before, I had wasted thousands on crowns and such, only to have my teeth pulled a few years later!! Ugh! Always had very strict dental hygiene, and no sweets or so. It's in my genes, and that sucks. I also want to run my own business, at the rate I need to, due to my health. So, thanks for the encouragement. 😊

[@pnh165]

Your mind has processed the stages of starting a small business so beautifully. You're like my Chi Hai (older sister) that I needed to give me the positive self-talk to just 'Go for it!'. Thanks, Tammy

[@luizamavi2163]

I feel so inspired and calm after watching this video, I'm graduating in the next few months and the anxiety of getting a job and becoming an entrepreneur simultaneously has been eating me alive, but now I realize that I've stopped believing that my dream future it's possible. Thank you so much for sharing your story, accepting that we will succeed is difficult when survival has always been difficult but now I see that it is NECESSARY to live a happy life.

[@ellascottagecompany2044]

I am grateful for you and your channel. Finding you a year or so ago was one of the biggest blessings. Keep up the wonderful work ❤

[@mikaylashannon8555]

i also have a hard time comparing myself to other artists/content creators because i have no idea what i am doing and others do. and i always compare my talent levels, but art is so subjective and everyone's style is so unique and has a place in the art world. this helped me a lot- thank you.

[@infinitebeing211]

I love this girl. She gives off great vibes

[@serena2254]

You are inspirational. when you said "If I mess up, who is gonna help my family", It hit me hard 'cause I know what that means. Sometimes, being outside the comfort zone and taking risks is an extravagance for those who are not privileged enough to have the security to do so. Also, you are very wise in that you only took what it works for you from what you learned and employed it in transforming into your own business. I'm truly happy for you that you have CREATED the peace you are at now. A true inspo of the day.

[@Freya778]

That first sale is so relatable! With my first sale I added so many extra goodies for free I also didn't make anything off the sale and actually had a loss on that sale. But I was just so happy to make that first sale. And my customer also gave me my first Etsy review so that was pretty cool as well. After that sale my health problems got worse so I haven't been able to craft much and even closed my shop. Now many years later I am trying to get back into crafting and I am hoping to open my shop back up again soon. Your videos really have helped me in many ways. I did a lot of work on my mental and physical health and just this week have been feeling ready to dip my toe in again. To start crafting again, even if it is just a little here and there, and allowing myself to dream again. And now I found you and your videos and this is just exactly what I need right now. Your information, help and ideas is spot on. But so is the rest. You are like a motivational speaker, example and therapist but specifically for artists. And even more for artists who are wanting ti get into selling you art. You are so open and honest and relatable. And you somehow manage to talk about all the things we are thinking about and need to hear about. So thank you 💜!!!

[@EcomCarl]

Truly inspiring to hear how your art shop has transformed your life! 🎨 Your journey underscores the power of perseverance and embracing change, especially during uncertain times like the pandemic. It's a great reminder that sometimes, stepping out of the corporate world and into something more personal and creative can lead to profound personal and professional growth.

[@LpsAlightpaws]

"So many people are better than me. But then I realized - I don't have to be the best." "Instead of just thinking of ideas and letting them die on the back burner, I want to act on them as quickly as I can." Thank you so much for making this video, Tammy! 💖 God bless and keep shining! 😄✨

[@chr85168]

9:14 when you said you don’t have to be the best at what you do to be valuable, that really resonated with me. As someone who is graduating in the near future, I feel like I am at a crossroads with the many avenues I want my life to go in. That is exciting and scary but I do know that I’ve always been passionate about music, and I don’t have to be the best singer in the world to have my own version of success and happiness with my craft! Even though I will keep messing up and being imperfect into the future, I am also excited to see how I grow with my vocal skills. Thanks for reminding me that it’s ok to nurture a part of you just to see where it leads you. ❤

[@TalesOfTrillions]

Your story about turning setbacks into opportunities is so relatable. It's a reminder that even when life throws curveballs, we have the power to rewrite our own narrative and create something beautiful. 😀

[@himangee_]

I loved it how you are soft-spoken and tell that you actually have to put in the work and it just won't work overnight.

[@peachymomentos]

I am seriously going to cry, thank you so much for being so genuine about your journey. You have such a beautiful heart!! Ever since I was 12 I’ve been doing polymer clay creations and now I’m 21, and my inner child has always wanted to sell my creations but my sensitivity, anxiety, and family trauma has held me back. But I am ready to take the step to take my inner child seriously. I was wondering why I relate to you and your life path so much until I realized you’re a Capricorn. I am one too

[@nmdiasy]

It’s my first time watching you, and you know what? I currently preparing my self to launching my first business. I really don’t feel good about my self and have a doubt, right now I really need an encouragement and this youtube algorithm bring this video for me, i cry while watching it, i don’t know because how you describing the situation i really see my self, i comparing my self enough with other people and always feel my self its not good enough. This time I really want to be brave and step out of my shell as an introvert and an overthinking person. Thanks for this video giving the encouragement and some pieces of mind for my self. Hope my journey will be turn beautiful.

[@mariarincon4624]

seeing your growth and hearing your story confirmed alot of the troubles i've been having when it comes to taking this kind of risk, much loves

[@judaikawayt]

This was truly so inspiring, I related to your story so much (being an introvert, having had to financially support my family, being hard on myself and almost letting this stop me from pursuing my dreams). I usually don't do this but I took so many notes so I don't forget the valuable things you shared on this video! I aspire to achieve this too one day. Thank you so much

[@gayatridestyarini2792]

Hi, I'm so thankful because your video came to me in this hardest part of my life now. Cause I feel like, I don't know how to start again with myself and my life. I feel in the same boat as you in the beginning, maybe I can feel the happy ending like you too. I hope so. Thank you so much for giving me that spirit. I really really need it now. Honestly, I'm crying now watching your video, so beautiful messages.