how starting a small business changed my life (& it can change yours too!) ✿ let's be vulnerable

[@tammydinh]

from one uncomfy person to another, i hope this video brings you comfort. thank you so, so much for being here

[@TripleAGaming576]

🤎🫶🏼

[@Rapheaengelo]

🫶

[@louissesam]

Oh btw when u have this hair u look like the queen of hearts actor in Alice in Bordeline!

[@TrangPham-pq6kr]

Thank you for your sharing! Wishing you much success and happiness

[@mylittlecreativespace]

Thank you!🖤 you already helped so many people to just follow their dreams, including me! You really do give comfort and the courage to just go for it!🥰 big hug to you!🖤

[@iamassyl]

i didn’t expect staring a small shop would be so hard until i did it myself. it took me 4+ months to even post one listing/product and now that its been 7 months I only did 1 sale. However that one sale is what keeps me going. Awesome video!

[@Ethereal359]

I wish you success. Keep going, never give up. ❤

[@carlijnverstappen757]

I'm literally at the start of starting my own business, I have dreamt about it so many times and after 9 years of already being self employed but not really doing what I love, this video helped me so so much to realise that choosing something you love can also trickle down to your core self, the ones you love and the best version of you in the future. "I don't have tobe the best" really clicked with me. Thank you so much and I wish you and all the people here who embark on their own little business adventure all the best ❤

[@iamassyl]

@@Ethereal359 same for you!

[@sweets3445]

where do you sell? what do you sell? website?

[@iamassyl]

@@sweets3445 I am selling engraved silver necklaces. Idea started with engraving fingerprint on a silver pendant and now I am also considering other engravings like coordinates, initials, etc. I have started selling on ETSY and am considering opening a website.

[@rachealgetscreative]

I almost cried when you talked abou helping your parents with their trip and their health (teeth). You are really wonderful, and I'm glad you found your way to success and happiness.

[@jaydela7909]

Me too

[@sytekd00d]

nah, I cried

[@quinta0822]

I definitely teared up

[@dessanguyen]

Definitely ugly cried over here

[@journeywithraga]

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[@maryamaliyeva9206]

"If you are nervous about something just find a way to be excited about it" - loved it

[@marrrie2490]

This is so true, I started making jewelry but I was so scared, literally cried when I got a first order and then I didn’t have orders but a complete stranger gave me the motivation to keep going and now it’s my income, i do what i love its amazing, some stress of course but support really helps

[@vandalized_byvanda]

Do you have an Instagram page??

[@justabby4528]

Wondering the same​@@vandalized_byvanda

[@MrEjblanco]

I'd want to check out your page

[@mushroom.mustang]

aw i’m curious what the story with the encouraging stranger is

[@_xl64_26]

Give us your instagram account we really want to see your work ❤❤❤

[@nicoldengenyakeye6905]

This video hit me hard. I'm a young father, broke with no parents so no support. Times looking bleak but I have to do right by my daughter and just start somewhere. EDIT : I THANK EVERYONE FOR THE KIND WORDS AND ENCOURAGEMENT. GOD BLESS Y'ALL

[@cholav3341]

Every thing will get better don’t stop believing bro , sending prayers and love to you and your daughter 💕🫶🏽

[@nicoldengenyakeye6905]

@@cholav3341 Thanks for that. At least you find good people once in a while online

[@hardwiredX]

Keep going, man! ☀️☀️ kzbin.info/www/bejne/f3vVlH2Li52XaJIsi=uL83rSRrCQ84cIt-

[@justabby4528]

You are going places with your attitude! Wish you the best🧡

[@izzifragner]

channeling you lots of love and energy. you'll be doing great

[@HazelSong]

Your voice is so calming and very supportive, I quit my job 8 months ago and I don't ever want to go back! I want to work for myself at my own pace :) Thanks for sharing your journey!

[@the_salty_melody]

I reallly resonate with the thought that you "don't see self-employment as a risk -- people go through life working hard 9-5, being unhappy, and in the end they're laid off anyway". When you have the knowing that you have the skills to sustain yourself, it's a superpower. You don't depend on some X employer, it's just one of many options. 💪

[@smonline631]

that is a story of my mom. and paradoxally she did not really profit from that income..

[@dollbaby4820]

I work for a corporate company currently and I hate it, I feel stuck to start my own craft business, I can make art and design art, still try to find my way to get there…that’s why I come here to see how you do it, you are doing great! Now I still think of what to make for sell and get it started. So happy for your achievement.

[@ephemeral_arts]

I am in a similar position, I'm feeling stuck with my art and something that has been unbelievably and ridiculously helpful has been reading the artists way, finding creators (like uncomfy co and gabriellarosie) who are trying to foster support for artistic practises. I hope you find what you want to sell 💜

[@Likelyfairy]

@@ephemeral_artsI’ve started reading it and I really like it ❤ I definitely recommend it as well

[@starsnoireart]

your point about "not having to be the best" really resonated with me because I recently came to this realization too! I see people on Instagram all the time who are just so much more naturally artistic, who have more training, who are seasoned professionals, etc. And it discouraged me for years because I wasn't at their level despite drawing pretty much all my life and sometimes being older than these talented people! One day I sat down and had this realization though: I'm good enough at art that I can draw pretty much anything that makes me happy. Anything I want. And for now, that's good enough. If the time comes that I can ever afford to go to art school then I'll take it, but for now, I study on my own schedule, improve at my own pace, and rest happy knowing that my childhood self would be really happy with what she can do now~

[@Caitanyadasa108]

I think having technical skill doesn't need to be a hindrance. Quirky stuff that is authentic can resonate with people while technical skill but lack of authenticity can be uninspiring at best.

[@xxXDEadFunny]

this !!!

[@OkieSketcher1949]

@starsnoir- I’ve known several artists who do great work and make a decent living selling their art. Funny thing about them is that not one of them have ever attend a formal art school. They do not have a ‘fine arts degree’. They have learned by doing. Occasionally, they will purchase a book that interests them and try to learn more about their art that way. Do your own work. Do what pleases you. Eventually, others will see what you do and many will like what they see. From there your business will grow.

[@peachesdetable0818]

As an introvert, a breadwinner supporting her family, a part-time artist drawing art commissions, and a full-time architect assistant, while also being a student, this video just randomly popped up in my feed. I'm crying right now because I resonate with it so much. I really enjoy creating art and wanted to explore the world of business. After watching this, I've gained confidence. ALSO, I THINK I'M DELUSIONAL TOO LOL- I JUST BELIEVE EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT FOR ME. I still believe that the Universe is always aligning the stars for me. To everyone who's fighting in life, we've got this!

[@jessicameisner8487]

I started my business in 2023 and have a year under my belt. 200+ sales with minimal advertising and no social media. Sometimes I get down on myself bc I can only work so much and also have to be available to help my kids in homeschool. I'm at the Sapling stage and I'm proud of it. I wonder what will happen this year when I create a Shopify and steer my sales funnel directly at it via Instagram and Pinterest. I struggle with balancing "me" time, "family" time and videogaming for relaxation and my burgeoning watercoloring hobby. Discipline, focus, balance, and Sleep. I'm adding in daily walks now for the endorphins. Loved your video. I heard "you", so thanks for sharing. It resonated w me. ❤❤

[@gingamingayo8273]

Good luck!

[@SweetLittleTouch]

I started in 2023 also, and I JUST got my first sale! Feeling ecstatic about it honestly 🤩 You’re doing GREAT with 200+ already, and I’m so happy for you! Tammy inspired me to finally start my journey and it’s wonderful seeing so many people tell their success stories in her comments! You totally got this ❤

[@sharene4362]

I'm a Capricorn too twin where have u been

[@light-water]

1. Stop playing video games. 2. Stop playing video games. Also your store sounds a lot like mine, I did around 220+ clients in my sneaker reselling store. What market are you in?

[@silvertown9324]

"I don't have to be the best. I'm still valuable". How healthy of a mindset. Thank you! I'll post it somewhere around the house to remember.

[@ExLibrisMara]

As someone who is also pretty anxious I loved the idea you mentioned of turning that anxious feeling into a feeling of excitement. Changing my mindset is the first step!

[@CoyApricot]

Your journey sounds exactly like mine, which is incredibly encouraging. I grew up in a financial struggle too, went to university for fashion design for the exact same reasons. I didn't think taking the fine arts route was a smart decision in terms of risk. But like you, I never had that passion for what I did. I got my degree and went straight to working low skill, dead end jobs just to survive without grinding at something mentally exhausting that I wasn't interested in. In May 2023 I started Coy Apricot. At 500 followers I also thought 'this could be something'. I'm still small, but I really relate to you. Following your journey gives me a sense of comfort within my own.

[@shatteredscry]

Your stuff is insanely cute! 😍

[@oksana_media]

thank you for showing that being vulnerable means being strong. and I also love names of the chapters, it's so poetic! ✿

[@_AbrahamMathews]

Thank you for sharing. This is truly inspirational. Things I am learning from this video: - Take calculated risks (develops courage) - I may not be the best in something, but I still can be valuable in that. (develops confidence) - Be excited about what makes you anxious. (develops mindset) - Set boundaries, improve yourself, forgive yourself, correct yourself. (develops discipline and self-love) - Starting a small business is like planting a tree, it requires patience, hard work, and persistence on a daily basis.

[@snaggiz]

I never thought I’d start my own business, but something has finally clicked within me during the last few weeks. People like you and many others (even my parents who are business owners themselves) have shown me that life can be different. I’ve realized that I will not have the stamina to work jobs I don’t like, with people I don’t like, for money that isn’t even that great just so that way I can potentially retire comfortably. I detest the whole idea and it feels like a trap into a miserable existence. Now I’m standing on the edge about to make a decision I never thought I’d make and I’m itching with excitement. I’m finally betting on myself instead of waiting for someone else to do that.

[@Safry-04]

10:12 I'm overwhelmed too when u said u wanna cry & ur eyes started to shed a tear 😭🙌🏻🫶🏻🧡

[@xmrxjoexx]

That part where you said “nobody values my time more than myself”. That is 1000% Which is why I believe some of us have huge drive and value our time due to past experiences.

[@boundbywordsblog]

Omg, the "I commend myself for realizing it so young" line made me unbelievably sad. Because I'm 38 now, newly let go from a 10-year corporate job (that I hated SO much and didn't realize it), and am now, FINALLY, starting down the small art business path. I'm terrified and worried that I'm starting too late, but I'm trying to ignore those demons *sigh. Thank you for this video ❤

[@veroniqueg4983]

Hi ! If you are worried that starting at 38 maybe is too late, I am starting my own art business and I am 60 ! It's never too late to do something that will make you happy. 😊❤😋 ❤

[@boundbywordsblog]

@veroniqueg4983 thank you so much for that vote of confidence!! The very best of luck to you, to both of us! ❤️❤️

[@megantanhweewen]

YOUR SKIN IS SO GLOWYYYY

[@malurus2]

you are a massive inspiration. i've been wanting to change something in my life for a few months now and i think i've narrowed it down to a creative small business and watching you inspires me so much

[@Blockwise2]

I also started a small business where I design custom Lego models and sometimes 3D models. It's been 8 months or so since I started and it really pushes you to explore life in general, it makes you understand how money works and how selling / buying works, it makes you understand the value of money and so many other things and all of those things can actually be fun to explore. I think that for me the most important lesson I got from all of this so far is that peace of mind and satisfaction can come to us at any moment, but we delay that moment or think that it is somewhere else to be found. When I combined my passion and business together, I also found the satisfaction I was craving and I am more relaxed since I know I may be able to fully support myself in the future. I should mention that it took me 3 years of trying and giving up all sorts of business ideas, first time I tried at 18

[@gummycat520]

Watching this video as an idealistic person really encourages me. I love how you said to tap into your inner child, where you have a lot of curiosity, and take calculated risks to achieve your dreams. Seeing someone with a similar mindset be so successful is truly inspiring! Thank you for sharing!🎉

[@localcraftery]

I cried with you... that line "If I mess up, who was gonna help my family" shook me for real. The pressure of being the eldest just hit hard. Even though there are 4 of us, I can't lean on anyone. Everyone has their problems, and it's tough for me to open up to any of them. But thank you, Tammy. I felt that I wasn't alone in my problems and was able to let out some steam. Much love

[@nikkolyn1122]

Totally. Eldest child pressures. Sending love and luck 💚❤️🍀

[@koikawaii]

I'm not the eldest, but I have the same experience.

[@kellseyvp]

Oldest of 4 as well. Very relatable 🤍

[@inob____9368]

Hi Tammy, as a Vietnamese I do understand every thing you were going through with finalcial struggle and family expectation. I used to taking interior design as my major in university and was going to have a full time job in front of the PC for endless hours. And at my internship time during 3rd year I also felt the need to pursuit other paths that would fulfill me more. And yeah, the pandemic hit and I got the chance to reflect so much and decided to go other way. Now I am teaching art for kids to fill up the bills while doing handicrafts and study astrology to pursuit my dreams. In Vietnam its kinda hard to sell handicrafts at its true price cuz people still not willing to pay higher price for "just a handmade stuff" :( but your vids give me so much strength and compassion for keep going on w this path. thank you so much & wish you peaceful love ❤

[@Msal19]

You are the perfect example of extreme ownership, gratitude and abundance mindset. Huge kudos!

[@ShadowplayToys]

Wonderful to get a better insight into Uncomfy's initial beginnings. Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring early small business owners like myself as we set out to forge our own paths.

[@cobotoast]

I’m all on board with starting my own business and have recently concluded for myself that having a small business where I sell handmade things and studio vlogging all of that would be my dream job. But my problem is I’m a little stumped on where to begin! Even to begin planning is looking vast. I’m trying to figure out the beginning of my business plan just so I can start where I’m happy and not start so haphazardly. It’ll be challenging but I would love to push through to the other side soon.

[@magicwendy210]

thank you so much for this video and being so open and venerable it has come at the perfect time for me as l am in a difficult place at the moment and lost my sense of my place in the world and my purpose, today l am starting a new chapter to literally start over again and get my business back up and running but first doing creative things just for me, for all those that are also struggling never ever give up just open your heart to reconnect to your creative spark and shine x

[@gainswithkathy]

I just started my business 4 months ago and resigned my full time job at 33. It’s scary, but I’m proud of you! You’ve got this.

[@Peter3Adventures]

“I would take human connection over technical skill ANY day”. I literally said F** yes!!! This rang hard in my heart. Growing up in a family where my Vietnamese parents struggled and being constantly pushed into the medical field was quite traumatic. I’m now pursuing my dream photography business and this is what i needed to hear. Thank you and subscribed!

[@sarah.ashley.]

Hi Tammy, I was also a graphic designer too. (The fact that I said "was"...) I actually yearn to be a fine artist and also produce my own merchandise. I really identify with the worry that no one would care about my art and that there are so many people out there who are already established and started way earlier than I had. I always wanted to be an artist and not a graphic designer. I went into graphic design because I was afraid I couldn't make a living from my art without someone else giving me a direction or purpose for my art. And yet while I was a graphic designer, I hated that I had very minimal creative freedom. In the end I was just afraid to stand alone and I severely lacked the confidence back then to pursue my dreams of starting my own creative business and expressing my creativity my own way. I felt like my creativity only had value if it was in the service of someone else's purpose because then I would get paid. It was such a unhealthy place to be in, now that I realise it. The transparency and honesty in your sharing here in this video is so encouraging and refreshing to me. It gives me so much hope for my dreams because up til then I only found myself around very judgemental, negative people who made me feel like my art and my ideas and my voice were worthless. Thank you so much for your video. It brought some healing and hope to me :)

[@MeghanHarker]

Hell yes, Sarah. All of this. I’m in the same boat struggling as a pharmacy tech when I want to make art. It’s terrifying to start and to keep going.

[@sarah.ashley.]

@@MeghanHarker Hi Meghan, thanks for your reply

[@kalinglee2477]

I am a four kids Mom, your videos can give me the motivation to start my own business, love you! I can feel you how happy and enjoy your life now. Such as good example for me. You do what I want to do. Good Jobs!!

[@naiadsouls]

as a introverted artist who is now trying to start their own small business, i found this video very inspiring. you're giving me hope i can do this too, thank you

[@EclecticcMind]

Thank you for always sharing and inspiring me and others! As a small business owner (4 months in ) it really helps to hear that my hard work will be appreciated by others one day and that I just have to be me 🌷thank you

[@minhanhtrinhdiep1663]

I'm planning to start my own business lately, quite struggling right now and THIS, this is actually what I needed to hear. Thanks for giving me the motivation to keep going on!

[@lovejones92]

Hello my fellow earth sign ❤ (Virgo here ♍️🙋🏾‍♀️) First off I want to thank you so much for your transparency in your videos and overall on your channel. I personally think that 100% of the things you touched on and spoke about in this video really resonated with me because here lately I’ve found myself deciding to go on my own path by starting my own small business after completing school for Software Engineering and realizing that while it’s a cool skillset its not what will ultimately make me happy in life for a career. I think that seeing your video come up on my KZbin feed is my sign to go for what I really want in life and I appreciate your encouragement. ❤ I love your art btw!

[@techguy6565]

Thank you so much. I am also the one who was overwhelmed by the job pressure and the peer pressure in office. I don't really feel interested in my colleagues everyday talk about buying cars, buying house, traveling, marriage, peers secret etc. I can only feel stressful in such environment because everyone just want to showoff themselves and show their superior by judging the others (luckily I am not being bullied, I am just a small, nice potato in office). I become exhausted after everyday work and feel like I am dying in such environment. Until recently, I decided to start my own small workshop and making lots of preparation for it. Although I still haven't quit my job, everything is getting better. I feel passionate everyday because I have something to strive for. Today I saw your video and really feel the same with you. This video encouraged me to do something I love. Thank you

[@aasthabariyar3308]

I literally love your content... Thank you for being yourself, Tammy! Love ya

[@rumin4te_art]

The confidence portion really resonated. I'm trying to start my own art business and advertising myself is the biggest mindset hurdle I'm trying to get over. I feel so awkward talking on camera, recording in public, or even sharing my art on my art page asking the audience for feedback knowing family and friends are seeing my stuff. It's this really weird notion of being perceived in general. I know what needs to get done to advertise my work and market myself, but I feel incredibly unconfident and scared of putting myself out there. I love watching your channel because most of the stuff you talk about is really valuable and familiar in both mindset, work, and social life. Thank you for existing and sharing your work!

[@probablyaman]

Nice perspective! Although as someone more pessimistic I must say luck is often involved in the success of many businesses, even when it doesn't seem that way. I think the fact that your social channel grew so quickly in the beginning probably gave you a nice boost to keep pursuing your dream. And of course, your hard work and dedication also pays off. However, I've seen many people who have struggled for years to gain tractions on the things they love to make. Artists who make great art and yet their work never get picked up by the algoritum. And while I love seeing the success of your small business. I have seen so many other similar arts & crafts stores having to close down due to falling sales because of the recession. And it can be more soul crushing than doing a boring job that pays the bills. I'm not suggesting that people shouldn't take risks in starting their own businesses. But I do suggest not entirely believing that hard work will lead to success. Luck is a very important factor. And it is often out of our control. We mostly hear from stories of sucessful businesses, but I think hearing the stories of how businesses went down can be beneficial too. And to build a more realistic picture of starting a business.

[@alisonodonnell5243]

Very pessimistic!

[@chr85168]

9:14 when you said you don’t have to be the best at what you do to be valuable, that really resonated with me. As someone who is graduating in the near future, I feel like I am at a crossroads with the many avenues I want my life to go in. That is exciting and scary but I do know that I’ve always been passionate about music, and I don’t have to be the best singer in the world to have my own version of success and happiness with my craft! Even though I will keep messing up and being imperfect into the future, I am also excited to see how I grow with my vocal skills. Thanks for reminding me that it’s ok to nurture a part of you just to see where it leads you. ❤

[@Drafthorsesaresoocute]

My sister wants to start a business but is so nervous! I will have to show her this to help!

[@Vyvuivex]

Thank you so much for making this video, I feel comforted after watching it. I'm a Vietnamese myself too, the only child in the house as well. I also have unhealthy obsession about finance. Growing up with the thought "Our family have no money" said by my mom thousand times, I become afraid of taking risk that may cost money for nothing, and I listened to everything my mom told me to do, from choosing major to choosing career. I have art talent, but my mom thought being an artist is a poor career, so she told me to study architecture. I did what she told me to and have been working as an Architect for 5 years now. But I'm not happy. I know full well that I only work to make money to support myself and family. I have no willing to develop my position in this career, and my family and my current boss are pushing me to go higher, even though I don't think I'm ready to take the responsibility. That leads to serious stress and anxiety, to the point that I started to think "I want to quit this job, and leave this career forever" But the thought of financial held me back. I'm the only child, I need to support my family. I can't just do what I want, I need money to survive. So I couldn't make the decision to leave the job just yet. But after watching your video, I have more faith in taking the risk of quitting the job I don't like, and start doing what I want. I really hate the feeling of not willing to give 100% ability into what I'm doing now, just because I don't like it. I know I'm more capable than that if I'm in the right job. So I will be more serious in taking steps in the new path, and hopefully will meet my kind of success like you did. Thank you once again for the courage and inspiration! (Sorry if my English is not quite right. I was born and raised in Vietnamese and this is the best I can do in English)

[@kevyslatt]

you're so sweet to your parents, you've got my respect

[@ThisGratefulLife]

Thank you for sharing some inspiration and motivation that spoke to me--not me as a mom, as a wife, as a corporate employee--just as me. Turning 33, I forgot how much spark I had as a kid. I love and am grateful for the many roles I've become over the years; the bittersweet part of that is I slowly lost that sense of adventure and excitement of challenging myself. I became lazy in taking care of myself because I've become so engulfed in taking care of others. I'm ready to own something for myself and to reap the benefits for MYSELF, not other people. Hearing how similar your upbringing was, I'm reminded how I want to break that cycle of financial worries.

[@TaniaT94]

From somebody at the beginning of my small business, in the midst of impostor syndrome and being lost on what to do next - thank you for this 🥰

[@OmgShesAnArtist]

thank you a million times over for this video! as a 35y/o, I wish I had this a decade ago. however, getting it now will change the trajectory of my journey for the better!

[@artsygirlmarilyn6296]

Childhood trauma is real. Self care would include going to a supportive therapist so you can really work through what happened to you. I worked at Yale Medical school where so many young adults were healed. You deserve it. Everyone does. You rock!!! ❤❤❤🐶🐶🐶👁️🧬🌗🌷🌺🌋🎨🎨

[@TaniaPomalesArt]

I want to thank you for this. I am struggling to take a leap of faith and focus on my ideas and dreams, and this proves that it’s possible to succeed.

[@gabe2777]

I literally got teary eyed listening to your story, we have very similar backstories so I hope eventually I can get to the place of abundance like you've found

[@darknessjewel134]

You are the best, thanks for share your process in your business you help to many people doing this ❤️❤️❤️

[@endless_dreamer_]

i want to quit my job and purse my art but im so lost in the dark on how to even start. Ur videos help me calm my anxiety and continue and push myself to try more

[@rachaeljoon]

i truly resonate with what you said about needing to be passionate about your work. one time in chem lecture my professor was talking about how at the end of the day it's just a job and it doesn't define how you are, and hearing that disappointed me because i WANT me work to define who i am

[@supasununkansak7347]

I'm a pharmacist, but I also have a passion for art. I recently decided to open a TikTok account to share my art because I don't want to neglect my passion. Thank you for the video.

[@MarigoldMeredith]

Thank you for this video. I am at a scary point in life where I can see my career is going nowhere and I’m not young enough to start all over with yet another thing that doesn’t fulfill my financial nor emotional needs- and it just feels right that I finally take care of my spirit by investing my time and care into my small business ideas, and make them real. Thanks for the added push and I wish you every success!

[@HangNguyen-ih8rf]

I grew up with my parents fighting and screaming about finance. My mom would pull me out in the middle of their fight and make me fight for her. I raised my 2 youngest siblings. Now at 40 my life (mentally, financially, &physically) is in a sewage. Thanks mom.

[@honeybee2644]

I feel sorry for u love, i hope and pray the rest of your life will full of happiness, blessings and trauma free peace with financial abundance ameen ❤

[@fairytale143]

I am so sorry you had to grow up so fast. I hope you can draw the line and put those past traumas behind you. A sense of family responsibility is a really good trait, but protecting your own peace is even more important. Live life for you. Wish you the best, friend.

[@Annie080875]

There comes a point when we have to stop blaming our parents for our dysfunctions. They were probably doing as good as they could, and after 40 years, you've had plenty of time to get therapy, get resilient, and begin to build the life you want. The good thing is you are still alive and have some time to pivot into the life you want.

[@HangNguyen-ih8rf]

@@Annie080875 At 40 im still taking care of my mom and my dad. They old and dying.

[@thesecretlifeofhuman]

At 40 you need to stand in your own two feet and be a responsible adult. I don’t doubt your story, but you don’t know your parents back stories - they were once children too. Let go of the past, draw from your inner strength, and move on.

[@luizamavi2163]

I feel so inspired and calm after watching this video, I'm graduating in the next few months and the anxiety of getting a job and becoming an entrepreneur simultaneously has been eating me alive, but now I realize that I've stopped believing that my dream future it's possible. Thank you so much for sharing your story, accepting that we will succeed is difficult when survival has always been difficult but now I see that it is NECESSARY to live a happy life.

[@cee8226]

I did this 3 months ago. I quit my corporate job and pursued full time artist and I failed. I am unemployed and looking for a job rn bec the funds are not looking good 😂

[@ArleighLauren]

I think in another video Tammy mentioned how you should should treat your first business as a really intense hobby. Work really hard in your free time, use that passion to start- while still having that ‘safe job’ income. Now that you are looking for a new job, this may be a great opportunity to find something that better fits your needs! Something with less stress, better hours, no OT or outside responsibilities (just generalizing a corporate job lol)- so that way you have more time to create your product, advertise, learning the in’s and out’s… I think I can speak for everyone in the comments and small businesses community when I say I wish you good luck and happiness in your new found path!

[@hustlemami8732]

Me too😢

[@ontune1715]

Even with top illustrators/artists they have to keep a day job to support themselves while leveling up their skill at the same time. Eventually they'll get to a point where they can make enough money with their art and quit their non art related job. Its pretty much the reality if one were to pursue art in our current time. While of course there are prodigies or they get really lucky, those are only the minorities. At the end of the day, if you really want it , really think about it and put in your best effort (this is the most difficult path because there will be pressure and lots of emotions). Also dont forget to have fun during the process of making art.

[@Carlos504-l4q]

10 months selling on Amazon 5000 sold in products 8000 in storage, advertising etc. 3500 in merchandise. I have learned a lot.

[@ameotaku]

I love making art and have always played with idea of selling it because I can’t think of anything I’d rather do for the rest of my life but I always end up getting scared/uncomfy (lol) with taxes and setting things up from a legal perspective 💔

[@Marentthu]

I can really relate to that, I´m the same! It´s so scary :(

[@ArtwithOlga]

Same here. That's why I am still working and starting now in social media seems really difficult. I see so many amazing artists so underrated. Good luck!💕

[@Marentthu]

@@ArtwithOlga Thank you!💕 Yes, it´s really difficult getting an audience on social media, but hopefully we will get there :) Good luck to you as well!!

[@serena2254]

You are inspirational. when you said "If I mess up, who is gonna help my family", It hit me hard 'cause I know what that means. Sometimes, being outside the comfort zone and taking risks is an extravagance for those who are not privileged enough to have the security to do so. Also, you are very wise in that you only took what it works for you from what you learned and employed it in transforming into your own business. I'm truly happy for you that you have CREATED the peace you are at now. A true inspo of the day.

[@bhuwnanaik3425]

Oh hello! fella Capricorn... Yes, we are delusional but we are hard-working.

[@fatmaalnajjar6222]

this video was so wholesome, so thanks for it. I also run a small business and i have easy days and other times like right now, i'm experiencing extreme overwhelm and i'm not sure how to move forward. Especially after experiencing a lot of set backs and having to re route so many times it gets exhausting. so thank you so much. much love

[@phat80]

Forgot to mention that it works only in rich countries like USA.

[@azizulislam3207]

Watching your video really inspired me. You have pointed out so many things that I didn't think how I should handle them. "not having to be the best" is the quote I will remember the most. Thank you, Uncomfy.

[@chanpreetkaur28]

Hey Gurl! Fellow Capricorn here! everything you said and went through in your life is so felt to me! Thank you so much for putting it out and sharing. Thank you for taking this courageous step. I am an astrologer by profession and soul, but stuck in my 9-5 because I have to support my family, live up to their expectations and pay my bills as well. More than this, i donot have the courage to go to my employer and tell them i want to quit my job because there is so much at stake for me. I'm so scared of being alone. The more i desire an independent life for me, the more the fear within me rises. watching you vide gave me some sense of hope in myself and time. also, just want to say one more thing! You helping your dad get a dental procedure is so Capricorn of you because Capricorn, ruled by Saturn, rules bones and teeth! Have an amazing day! And Thank you

[@TheSoulsomeLife]

I'm SO glad the algorithm put this video in my recommendations. Chapter 3 made me want to cry...I'm on my business owner journey right now. It's more like a side hustle, but my dream is for it to grow and become my full-time career. But there is so much I'm learning-which is super exciting and rewarding, don't get me wrong-but this makes me feel like I'm behind and late to the game. I don't have much traction yet, but when I get out of my head I truly feel like I'm on the verge of something wonderful. Thank you for the nudge to keep going and for telling me to be open to the *inevitable* opportunities that will come my way. I just subscribed and I'm so excited to watch more of your videos and check out your store!

[@BOLLERguy]

I know this might feel random, but for people who want to start a business but hesitate with the legal stuff, hiring Nexalic made setting up an LLC super easy. Just sharing in case it helps someone take the leap. Like if you're working on your dream, and wishing you all the best!

[@greengoddess6664]

Having not watched one of your videos for ages, I stumbled across this one and you blew me away.Your quiet confidence and love for yourself and the life your are building was inspirational. While I don't want to follow you into owning a small business, your kindness to yourself is something I'd like to emulate. Thank you for sharing and lighting up my day.

[@mikaylashannon8555]

i also have a hard time comparing myself to other artists/content creators because i have no idea what i am doing and others do. and i always compare my talent levels, but art is so subjective and everyone's style is so unique and has a place in the art world. this helped me a lot- thank you.

[@shxxbadaaa131]

I can feel how genuine of a person you are and I'm just so proud of you. You know what I would love to also have my own business and be my own boss like you someday. You're such an inspiration to us youth. Please continue on what you're doing and I hope your business will grow even more than what it is now.

[@anastasiasongs]

You inspired me! I sat down and began taking notes of the musical stories I've been meaning to write. Thank you!

[@mariarincon4624]

seeing your growth and hearing your story confirmed alot of the troubles i've been having when it comes to taking this kind of risk, much loves

[@wild_cub_times]

It really is the *continuing even though you don't get nothing in return.* I don't want to go to gym cuz the pressure is so much in the results, but instead I started rollerblading cuz why not? Thank you for the reminder too! > Anxiety physically feels the same as excitement. It's your thoughts that define which is it.

[@iamfrancotorres]

It’s amazing to see how small, consistent efforts can grow into something so significant over time. Thanks for sharing your journey and insights. it's super inspiring!

[@pnh165]

Your mind has processed the stages of starting a small business so beautifully. You're like my Chi Hai (older sister) that I needed to give me the positive self-talk to just 'Go for it!'. Thanks, Tammy

[@ebihearts]

I appreciate this video so much. It’s been a dream of mine to own my own small business, even as just a side job and your stories really help seem like it’s possible. My family and I need a lot of support right now and I’m hoping I find a way. Love your comfy uncomfy cozy channel.

[@giannathehuman]

I had a very similar childhood from what you are explaining and that fear of risk is real. I started my small business 10 years ago, but I dropped everything when the pandemic hit. I only recently decided to pursue art again, but it's terrifying to take this risk! It's nice to know I'm not alone in feeling this way. Thank you for posting this!❤

[@paigenorton2024]

This speaks to my SOUL. Thank you so much for sharing all this and opening up about your family. I am a creative who continuously struggles with everything you've mentioned, and despite being almost 10 years graduated from college I still feel these things deeply, much to my dismay. I adore your channel, and admire you as a courageous woman, thank you for being here 🙏

[@judaikawayt]

This was truly so inspiring, I related to your story so much (being an introvert, having had to financially support my family, being hard on myself and almost letting this stop me from pursuing my dreams). I usually don't do this but I took so many notes so I don't forget the valuable things you shared on this video! I aspire to achieve this too one day. Thank you so much

[@lillyk.4085]

I just decided to go down to a part time job, and quit my full time, that way I am able to focus on both my studies and also creating my own business in digital marketing. Seeing that there are people like you who are able to become healthier and happier, have both physical and mental peace, is something that gives me hope, because that is what I am trying to achieve with my life instead of being drained and tired helping a corporation make money and work me to the bone. Thank you for further motivating me. i know it will not be easy, but I am excited for the future.

[@TanyaLochridge]

You are def a very wise old soul…in a young form. Such wonderful advice. I am old enough to be your grandma (and would proudly take that honor) and see so much light in your face. Sharing your story is a gift to the universe. 🐾💕🐾

[@gayatridestyarini2792]

Hi, I'm so thankful because your video came to me in this hardest part of my life now. Cause I feel like, I don't know how to start again with myself and my life. I feel in the same boat as you in the beginning, maybe I can feel the happy ending like you too. I hope so. Thank you so much for giving me that spirit. I really really need it now. Honestly, I'm crying now watching your video, so beautiful messages.

[@NanafromNana66]

You are so real. What's great for a french like me is you speak slowly and softly.

[@nikkimunir]

Your analogy at the end of starting something something being like planting a tree. Thats how I feel about my KZbin channel. This isn’t a season of life where I can personally make time to upload weekly, but it’s something that does energize me, I enjoy getting better at, and feel like I’m adding something to the world. And who knows one day it could be fruitful financially. Thank you for sharing your experience!

[@candysemcdonald8261]

The fact of how you were able to bless your family is wonderful. I cherish the fact you were able to send your parents on a trip and take care of your Dad's teeth doing what you love to do.

[@RyeMiArt]

Being very and I mean very introverted and being a capricorn as well I am so so SO proud of you! You've come such a long way! I appreciate you, your hard work, the inspiration and comfort you bring to all of us!

[@MsShannaK]

What an amazing woman and daughter you are. I’m glad you found your light in the world and share with others. Thank you 🥹💖 so proud of you.

[@christinethecrafter9662]

You become one of my inspirations for more than 2 yrs now, I stopped with my craft due to anxiety but watching you overtime inspired me to get back to work..thank you for sharing!!ur new friend from the Philippines❤😊😊

[@shanedaniels6412]

as another person finding confidence in himself all.. i want to say thanks for sharing and i am proud of you.

[@arielzshell]

Omg our life path is so similar. I also started part time job at 15 and I’m 33 now. I felt the same about corporate life. I’m taking that leap of faith now, I just quit my job at US TikTok and gonna start my dream life. I will take my camper van to travel, to live free, live wild and do KZbin along the way. Your video gave me courage to start, and keep going, thank you ❤

[@nmdiasy]

It’s my first time watching you, and you know what? I currently preparing my self to launching my first business. I really don’t feel good about my self and have a doubt, right now I really need an encouragement and this youtube algorithm bring this video for me, i cry while watching it, i don’t know because how you describing the situation i really see my self, i comparing my self enough with other people and always feel my self its not good enough. This time I really want to be brave and step out of my shell as an introvert and an overthinking person. Thanks for this video giving the encouragement and some pieces of mind for my self. Hope my journey will be turn beautiful.

[@trishapham2073]

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story! Being a 1st gen Viet, your story really resonated with me about growing up and seeing our parents go through financial struggles. Growing up, I felt as though I had to push away my artistic passions to pursue something more stable or better income, so I majored in computer science. And it took me a lot of courage these past few years to completely change course and start to pursue art again.

[@scottmartinez7466]

Miss, you are a breath of fresh air and a dream come true. I try to teach much of what you've said here to others on a regular basis. Life is too short.

[@nansj2587]

Being self employed improved my health a lot. I used to go to hospital often bc I had a pain in the left side of my head and they never found anything. after I was fired from work and started being self empoyed the pain slowly disapeared. it was all from stress. Now years after Im thankful I was removed from that job.

[@1111sm..]

Here's a graphic design student and universe is giving me all the signs to embrace the discomfort now and do sth out of the normal...thank you❤

[@modalcreative]

Such a beautiful video! Hearing your whole journey and your bravery in taking steps towards being a business owner is very inspiring! I really respect the way you help your parents..I actually think a lot of people do this after I watched a video of secondary kids in NZ going to school then working 20 -30 hours pw as well to be able to help their parents pay for living costs. Love your content and hearing about your life journey, wishing you all the very best ☺️🫶🏼💚

[@thaisyumiko]

I wanted to write a long text for you, thanking you for sharing you story, and all of these insights with us, but I cannot put into words how much you inspired me. So, for now, just wanna leave a big thank you. Thank you for inspiring all of us, uncomfy little artists out there