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@Erinsythelovesthemountains4 ай бұрын
Jen, I just started wearing shorts after at least 10 years of not wearing them. I’m in my 50’s. I have PCOS and have struggled with my weight so much. I never wanted anyone to see my legs. I live in NC and would wear jeans all summer long. And I’m a sweaty gal so being in the south in 100 degree temps in jeans…..YIKES. I just don’t care anymore. People don’t like it, they can look away. We do the best we can. Weight loss, weight gain….. it doesn’t matter. Our bodies are just the shells that carry the important stuff. Sending 💜 your way!
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
Love this and needed to hear it, thank you friend!
@Erinsythelovesthemountains4 ай бұрын
@@jentherealfluencerWe all need to build each other up and stop this culture of focusing on other people’s appearances. It’s the least interesting thing about us. Love, love your videos and your humor. 😊
@itsrvlifenowornever68274 ай бұрын
I too have PCOS for over 40 years and the weight struggle for over 30…the struggle is real…stay happy and live life to the fullest regardless!
@Erinsythelovesthemountains4 ай бұрын
@@itsrvlifenowornever6827 Yes!! I finally have things under control with meds and rarely think about it anymore. Sending best wishes your way 🌞
@SoCalMonarch_4 ай бұрын
I totally relate. I like to wear my jeans the same way as you do, I wear them to hold me in. I don't understand why anyone would tell anyone what size to wear? You are gorgeous!
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
So glad you relate! And girl same, I’d never dream of saying some of the things that are said to people on the internet. It’s like news flash, we’re still “real people” with feelings.
@cherylkelly12214 ай бұрын
Don’t let the jealous people get under your skin! You wear what ever size clothing that makes you happy! Your beautiful!
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
Appreciate that!
@cheryl620224 ай бұрын
❤Jen, I’m 58 & just started wearing shorts so I can relate. But! F*@k it! You do you boo! Don’t worry! Others aren’t talking about our legs. It’s too hot not to wear them. #3 looked great on you. That was my favorite
@donnacostner15424 ай бұрын
You make me laugh SO MUCH!!!! your perspective is so therapeutic for me !! Please don't ever change!!! You are beautiful!! Such an inspiration for curvy ladies!!. I bet your figure turns more heads then a stick figure!! Love me some Jen!!! Sassy-to-Perfection!!
@racquelweaver42164 ай бұрын
Can totally relate on the shorts thing. Is taking me years to wear shorts. My weight has gone up as well over the years. But once I hit 40 I figured it was too damn hot and I just didn’t give a damn.
@Blondie-cu8rw4 ай бұрын
I don’t wear shorts in public, but around my house I wear old denim jeans that I cut off at just above the knee. Most of them were old skinny jeans, and so they look nice and tailored:) I’m a size 12, but with thick thick legs. Love your channel, and yeah, a lot of us can relate to a “real” influencer🙂
@Challin814 ай бұрын
Jen, I completely understand why you feel wearing jeans that are tighter feel and fit better. I don't have the same body shape as you, but I have a big butt and thighs. If I start with jeans that "fit" a few hours in they're completely saggy butt and I'm tugging then up all freaking day long. Then they look sloppy. Please just FUDGE the people that comment on how you wear your clothes. How would they feel if someone commented on everything they wore? I get it that you put yourself "out there", but do your thing and please don't pay any attention to them. You obviously love what you do. And you do a GREAT JOB doing what you do. You can tell so much love goes into your videos and content! Please don't let anyone do that to you and your confidence! We mess up our own confidence enough. You don't need it. Thank you for being beautiful, perfect you, Jen!
@staceysmith74974 ай бұрын
❤ wear the size you like. People are always going to talk. ❤
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
So true! Thanks for this reminder :)
@colleengallagher26364 ай бұрын
Struggling with you! We are shaped very similarly and I just wanted to tell you how much I love your channel. You are so gorgeous and wear everything well. We are always way less kind to ourselves than to other people. Seeing you cooking the looks reminds me that I might look good in some of these things too. Though my first instinct is to say that it looks good on everyone else (but not me lol) the truth is it’s just negative self talk. Keep cookin’ and keep looking’, you are awesome!
@juliestevens50464 ай бұрын
You're cooking looks and serving style 😎
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
Ahh love! Will try :)
@cfisher4 ай бұрын
❤️ Love love love the florals on you. I might need to try those, too. Your favorites were my favorites too! Lexapro helped me put on 60 pounds in the last 2 years. I knew it would happen when i started it but i figured that was more acceptable than struggling mentally after i lost my mom. I've just come off of it and going to struggle to get the weight off in menopause now. The battle never ends. Big hugs for you, and thank you for showing me i should be able to get dressed and leave the house without crying.
@nagrabagra49244 ай бұрын
I'm not a fan of Targets clothes...they don't fit me well, so I don't shop there. But I do like the style and color of #4 . Since I started this Carnivore diet, my PUFA is almost flat and I have less rolls and cellulite on my torso and legs, so less [opportunity for exit] , and I LURVE IT!! For the first time in many years I've started wearing shorts, because this Carnivore diet has improved my skin, I tan better without burning, my varicose veins have actually shrunk in size, I have way less fat on my legs and even my cellulite is melting away slowly. I have to pinch myself sometimes as I see so many health and body improvements and it doesn't seem real!!!! But the mirror says otherwise!. TY Jen, love the vid!!❤
@juliawiggs7464 ай бұрын
I feel like they don't understand curves!
@lillym3644 ай бұрын
Love your originality and your creativity with "cooking those looks"❤❤
@wendybrown35024 ай бұрын
❤❤ Loved this Jen! I love these styles of jeans for summer, because I personally don't wear shorts. You look amazing!❤😊
@susanpunako85904 ай бұрын
Yea. Say serving up dem looks. For sure. It’s a new thing mid year. lol. Thanks for the haul and as always your honesty with jeans.❤
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
Thanks Susan!
@robbiepajak14124 ай бұрын
💛 opportunity for exit - perfect description, and I'm sure many of us can relate to the sentiment 😅 - love the last look - the green and blue looks awesome on you
@petratuccino7174 ай бұрын
I am so sick of skinny jeans! I've been making all mine into shorts this summer. Much better lol thanks Jen ❤
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
Love that idea!
@gcat43994 ай бұрын
I love the yes ma’am picks!!!! Very flattering
@diamond_wild4 ай бұрын
💚 Opportunity for Exit 😂 I only this year started wearing shorts in public this year. I’m 60. I thought “Lordy how many more years do I have to live my life?” Wear the shorts! If I can handle the look in the mirror then I wear them. You are beautiful, wear the shorts! I just buy Torrid boyfriend esc bermuda shorts. Only because I don’t want my size 20 ars hanging out. Jen you are gorgeous at any size ❤
@joshalynnsegura88764 ай бұрын
❤ "The secret word/ phrase" had me dying!! Love you and your videos!! ❤️
@nancymazza7894 ай бұрын
Hello Jen....I also understand your feelings about your legs. I to, do not like to wear shorts. Different reasons....I have a lot of veins, and my right knee is bigger than the left, do to injury. I wear a lot of joggers, long skirts, casual pants and jeans. Lots of stretchy jeans for sure! I guess you just have to do what makes you comfortable. Keep cookin them looks lady! ❤
@linahill73414 ай бұрын
Opportunity for Exit-nice to see that you are still crazy! I haven't worn shorts in 20 years. 😢 For walking the dogs or working in the yard, I wear capris. For errands out, I wear loose pants (elastic waist), skirts and sometimes a dress. The last pair of denim were the cutest! I liked 7 and 10 on you. How well I knew the frustration of the waist gaping when the hips fit. But with age, the waist will catch up with the hips. I don't like that either! Oh well!! Thanks Jen! 💜
@karlamullen73874 ай бұрын
I love the last pair, ❤ opportunity for exit! 😊
@kristinahoflin44254 ай бұрын
🎉Love the last pair!! ❤
@petulamurray93884 ай бұрын
Yes I can relate to not wearing shorts I only wear when I’m away on vacation would love to wear them all the time but…
@Grlinadk4 ай бұрын
Thanks for doing a jeans video. You are correct, the 18 size is too big for you. Jeans always stretch after a bit of wear.
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
Yes! Thank you!
@chrystalschardt96204 ай бұрын
10 was my fav
@jenxu24 ай бұрын
I love the flower jeans! I wear shorts in summer. Opportunity for Exit 😂
@rebeccaw17724 ай бұрын
Loved all the looks on you, you are beautiful ❤my favorite was the grey jeans. We all have insecurities I don’t like my stomach but it’s hot in TX and I’m wearing them anyway! I love the gauze ones from Old Navy. My closet is full of elastic waisted items 😀it is what is, girl wear your shorts- you are beautiful shape ! I’m an apple with skinny legs/arms I would love to trade 🤣🩷
@aidastanco29454 ай бұрын
Jeans are tricky. I think the less stretch they have the better the corset effect. But some days when you wear jeans you WANT that little extra stretch, especially if you are wearing them ALL DAY!! I wear jeans, all year! I wear shorts, too and sometimes a skirt or dress. It just depends how I feel.❤ and this is my “ opportunity for exit!!” Have a great week!!
@juliawiggs7464 ай бұрын
I think your favorite looks should be served!!!
@heatherwinburn8194 ай бұрын
Been missing you Jen! I do wear mostly ankle/crop jeans in the summer. I try to find lighter ones but some aren't and they are ok. I wear some longer shorts but mostly only at home. We are having a scorcher of a year here in Oregon. I think my fat looks better tan! We do go boating and I have swim suits with the shorts and they look ok. I am over 60 now and feel like "who cares!" now more than I used to when I was younger.
@pookienose34 ай бұрын
I love the last jeans with the flowers!! Looked so cute. I agree with you on the slit band on the jeans definitely an “opportunity for exit” for me especially. ❤
@meganluecking85134 ай бұрын
Im over skinny jeans and like boyfriend or straight leg and more comfy jeans. Torrid has boyfriend vintage stretch jeans and they ate glorious.
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
Thanks for this tip! I will check them out. And totally agree - I’m on game with these.
@RahshellD4 ай бұрын
❤ opportunity for exit. Absolutely love the printed jeans, I wish my job would loosen the reins on dress code
@Ashe-19804 ай бұрын
❤ I haven't worn shorts in public in about 27 years. I've always hated my legs and have done my best to cover them. This summer I've been sticking to a few linen blend pants and cropped jeans. Loved your favorite outfit. So cute!
@MariaN0424 ай бұрын
Opportunity for Exit!! ❤️😂😜 Skinny jeans still my favorite, but I like other styles too. I wear shorts sometimes but I have to say that I like more regular length jeans. Love #11!!! The whole outfit!! Thanks for sharing!!!!❤
@22sjoseph4 ай бұрын
Opportunity for exit ❤❤❤❤❤ you are beautiful. Keep up the good work.
@catherinecarreiro39554 ай бұрын
Wearing shorts this year. Even in Italy on my trip. And happy. But jeans are hard. So glad you include the good bad and ugly.
@beauty11054 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ love the video Jen
@mbrazeaumodetrats4 ай бұрын
Hi, I am 55 and I don't wear jeans in the summer. Short or bermuda is my uniform or a dress. I love this video and the jeans that let the greasy stuff going out is awfull. This is just my opinion. I am size 20 and I love my jeans ( boyfriend cut) or very flowy... Thank you for this very informative video and I can't wait for the next one. I love jeans I have about 31 pairs but no slash on them nor distressing...
@b4evercre8ive124 ай бұрын
❤ just found you! thanks for trying on all these jeans !
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
Hi!! I appreciate you being here! 🤩
@sherriep23314 ай бұрын
Love your videos. You always make me smile. I bought the lime green blazer from Walmart you showed and have loved it. You encourage me to step out and have fun. I recently lost a lot of weight. Now my kegs look saggy, baggy. I wear lots of linen type pants with wide kegs or skirts. My favorite look is the last look. It is fantastic.
@Sharonlee3344 ай бұрын
Opportunity for exit! Wear them shorts girl! ❤
@yishyabyard68984 ай бұрын
That last outfit: the green top, the blue blazer, the jeans and pointed toe heels......girl .....❤️❤️!! Mad cute!! I've been interested in trying out a pair of high waisted button fly Wild Fable jeans! I'm waiting for the price to drop a bit or catch them on sale. I too haven't worn shorts very much as an adult. One reason was because of my skin's texture on my legs: the condition i now know is called "strawberry legs" I'm a lighter skinned black woman and because my legs don't get a lot of sunlight, they're even brighter and that coupled with the dark dots, i was insecure about wearing shorts. Now that I'm just over that insecurity, I'd like to wear shorts more often too. My beef with shorts is finding pairs that fit me correctly and aren't too short or too long! I feel you on the shorts issue!
@ashiidine4 ай бұрын
Opportunity for exit - love your realinfluence ❤
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
Appreciate you watching! 🥰
@clynntidwell4 ай бұрын
The last outfit is my favorite. I love the jeans. I love green and blue together like the top and blazer. And the purse. It was a wow outfit for me. You are so beautiful ❤. I do wear shorts. I just choose the mid length and it is what it is! I am 68 and have accepted my body as is ❤
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
Thanks Cheryl! I think it was one of my fave looks EVER!! I love this for you, you go sis!!
@Brandi624 ай бұрын
Love the last outfit! I think straight leg or small flare/ boot cut look best on me at least.
@heathercassady8614 ай бұрын
💜💜 opportunity for exit, I was cracking up when you said that, love your videos! I know it’s hard, but ignore those people & the sizes they say you should wear. You know your body & what’s comfortable & looks good on you. Love how you style clothes, keep it up please!
@rontucker14134 ай бұрын
I love love skinny jeans!! -Mary
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing, Mary!
@susanwatson86054 ай бұрын
Hi Jen. I always love watching you. Are a professional model? I was bragging on you the other day to my friend and told her that I thought you were. What ever, you still do a great job.
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
I appreciate that! Def not haha, I work in finance :)
@monicariley22564 ай бұрын
I have those first jeans , I love them. However I like how you embrace and style.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾#4 you can go down in size imo. #11 I agree nice look.
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
Thanks Monica! :)
@cassidyfromtexas43244 ай бұрын
I think skinny jeans are better for my body type. As a curvy petite, if I wear baggy or loose fitting jeans, I look like a clown so idk
@catherinecarreiro39554 ай бұрын
Sorry3 comments 😂 love #7 outfit - too cute and #11 outfit you’re looking amazing !
@KTen-cm6wx4 ай бұрын
Hi Jen, love your honesty and style. I feel if you sized up on your jeans they would compliment your figure more. Tightness on the bottom just draws attention. You’re a beautiful girl. The silver jeans are a NO!
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
@debiwillis9045 I dress for me. Period. I’d expect everyone else to do the same
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
@K-Ten Thanks for being kind with your comments. I appreciate more than you know.
@theresabergman70624 ай бұрын
The only pair of shorts I have is a skort. Otherwise it’s skirts and dresses for me in the summer
@wandakelly21734 ай бұрын
I like #8 jeans. Just wear the shorts! You are beautiful and you can carry anything you want. You just have to want it!
@Luluiamyouth244 ай бұрын
I love how you said "I've gained weight and some of you agreed". I did notice but would never comment on it. Thing is, you make EVERYTHING ROCK! Some of us struggle with weight too and although I consider myself trendy/black wearing/chunky shoe wearing/change my hair to scandalous colors weekly / huge earring wearing kinda girl, sometimes I hate the mirror! I wanna lose weight but I'm too lazy to. Ugh! I've changed my style since I started following you. "If she can I can too" kinda thing. I'm ALWAYS wearing super huge clothes because I'm self conscious. When I'm unsure I look for one of your videos and take the plunge! Lol The silver ish pants are AWESOME! KEEP EM! 🎉🎉🎉🎉 Wear 18 with pride, looks awesome on you! (Florida is way too hot for jeans 🥵 Love, love, love your content❤ (Id NEVER wear anything sleeveless so I relate to the issues)
@itsrvlifenowornever68274 ай бұрын
Opportunity for exit ❤ great video once again!
@melissaLrand3 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤ tfs!
@Luluiamyouth244 ай бұрын
"opportunity for exit" lol the fat (hilarious)❤️
@marthagiegling79694 ай бұрын
I wear skorts in the summer ❤ I love those last ones. I so trust your judgement thank you❤
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
Thanks Martha!
@jenifergorman12234 ай бұрын
❤️Opportunity for exit
@kaykerns22874 ай бұрын
❤ Opportunity for exit
@stephaniedobbs17724 ай бұрын
I just donated three out of four pair of skinny jeans
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉
@Devona_B4 ай бұрын
The jeans with the flowers are cute. ❤ Where did you get that blazer from?
@BarbaraMayhle4 ай бұрын
❤❤ Opportunity for Exit ❤❤
@merediththompson90214 ай бұрын
❤ opportunity for exit! I don’t wear shorts. I mostly wear joggers!
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
Joggers are my love language :) lol
@merediththompson90214 ай бұрын
@@jentherealfluencer mine too! 🥰
@MichelleRussell-pl3ur4 ай бұрын
❤ opportunity for next
@kellyguodace70184 ай бұрын
Opportunity for exit❤
@merlyndagarcia2094 ай бұрын
❤opportunity for exit..
@vickygonzalezvega93574 ай бұрын
Opportunity for exit ❤😊
@yishyabyard68984 ай бұрын
❤ opportunity for exit!!!
@gpiesofly4 ай бұрын
❤opportunity for exit ❤😂😂😂
@marnikelly47984 ай бұрын
❤ opportunity for exit I love the last 2 pairs. I wear a lot of skorts in the summer and occasionally shorts (but I hate that my thighs get hungry lol) and dresses.
@eviegirl614 ай бұрын
❤ Opportunity for exit 😅
@daniellecannon13904 ай бұрын
❤ opportunity for exit I don’t like to show my legs much either 🤷♀️🤷♀️ I like to wear maxi skirts in the summer with t shirts
@roxannebudd19784 ай бұрын
❤Opertunity for exit!❤
@MichelleRussell-pl3ur4 ай бұрын
Jen I am one of your viewers, Michelle, I had the same thing happened to me I took medicine and it took a long time to come off but it will, get to your soul girl Jen be good to your self I am 53, and had both of my children 36 and 38, please keep up with the videos I miss you WOW week ❤try some diet meds I did slim fast and it worked
@lauriehuber80484 ай бұрын
Opportunity for exit❤❤❤ Jen you are gorgeous beautiful, funny, and quirky and I love you at any size! You could wear a paper bag and still be stylish and beautiful❣️ I have not worn shorts for many years as I have been struggling with my weight all my life and even when I was down I still felt “fat” and had imposter syndrome.. I’m now 58, just under 200 lbs with skinny chicken legs…😂😂😂 I wear shorts at home and I don’t give a damn mam!😂😂😂
@elizabethb37694 ай бұрын
❤ Opportunity for exit lol
@amylafarge19334 ай бұрын
❤opportunity for exit❤
@reneklein60494 ай бұрын
Girl, I'm in the same boat. Dye to medication and aging, I've put on 12 lbs. Doesn't sound like much, but I'm only 5'. Ugh. Whatever. Thanks, a lot of the jeans have an elasticated waistband. I like #3. They look great on you. #4 are fabulous on you! #6 are so unique. Love #7. You can wear shorts. Life is too short. You are so adorable. #9 are fantastic. #10 look so comfy. #11 are adorable. Love the floral pattern. Are they high or mid rise? #11 is definitely my favorite. I wear the darn shorts. Opportunity for Exit. ❤❤😂
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
I’m sorry to hear that, you’re def not alone! Been wearing the shorts, it’s just hard sometimes but I’m pushing through! For #11, I’d say they’re a high mid rise.
@reneklein60494 ай бұрын
@jentherealfluencer thanks, sweet Jen. I'm glad that you are wearing the shorts. And my comment should read due to medication not dye! I hate autocorrect. 🤦♀️
@kacyhankins27444 ай бұрын
Opportunity for exit :)
@chrissytempin41854 ай бұрын
Idk if I can give up the skinny jeans. Ugh
@ReneeCooper-nf4yh4 ай бұрын
Opportunity for exit...😂❤
@ashleylynn19834 ай бұрын
Cooking up looks serving them with awesome sauce. Lol..too corny?😂😂
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
Hahahahaha ahhhh dyingggggg!!!
@geribriggs67134 ай бұрын
I don’t have a blue heart :) ❤🎉
@donnad59863 ай бұрын
❤OFE
@mitchrc34 ай бұрын
You are lovely and stylish.
@jratliff10264 ай бұрын
Where is the pink top from??
@jentherealfluencer4 ай бұрын
Walmart :)
@ellenrawls75574 ай бұрын
I will NEVER put on a pair of skinny jeans again, also over distressed jeans
@liberty09954 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@katherynjenifer27114 ай бұрын
❤ opportunity for exit
@karlystonkey83094 ай бұрын
❤
@juliawiggs7464 ай бұрын
🍃
@leahfridley33954 ай бұрын
❤
@debfarr55684 ай бұрын
I hate skinny jeans ..lol .what happened to just plain straight up jeans❤😊