I have this pattern and I have waited my whole life for someone other than myself to say it. For various reasons whenever I try to speak about it, I just get rejected. Prob cuz i’m still coming from that angry place. So on top of everything, no one hears me. And I just go in circles like that my whole life. It’s put me in total aggravating isolation for years. Thank you forever Teal, this means everything. I am trying my best to tend to my pain now and break that initially formed link. 😭🖤
@achtube8510 ай бұрын
Willing to actively go deeper into this and find healthy coping mechanisms is so brave. I wish you all the best in this journey. Loads of self-compassion and tenderness 🩵
@SoulScriptLibrary10 ай бұрын
Wow, takes courage to share that pattern openly. You're not alone in feeling unheard, but expressing it courageously is the first step to breaking the cycle. #VulnerabilityIsStrength
@chrismullin830410 ай бұрын
I recently found Teal, and she really speaks my language!
@ChiDante10 ай бұрын
I wish you appropriate levels of shadow enlightenment and that your environment becomes a truer more accurate and helpful reflection of your being
@R0CK0Nbaby10 ай бұрын
I hear you. I’ve felt the same way, so much anger my whole life at being unheard and not considered. Im sorry you’re going through this too. I truly hope it gets better for you. Thank you so much for sharing
@michaelpriv10 ай бұрын
I am usually amazed by Teal Swan. I honestly think that Teal is an ancient being from another galaxy somewhere who accidentally wondered in and we are happy to have her.
@jomansson574210 ай бұрын
Thanks Teal! 😅😊🌈❤🧡💚💙💜❣
@spiritfiyuh1110 ай бұрын
I absolutely agree ❤ simply the way she articulates herself is so completely different to anyone i have ever heard speaking.
@ABeautifulEarthForOurChildren10 ай бұрын
Look up "starseeds"
@morganlowe335310 ай бұрын
It was no accident. She is of the entire universe. She is the "tuning fork" we need to vibrate higher. She can also be human in the best and worst ways. And thank God for that. Bc this is how we can relate!! ❤
@mariyashcherbakova338810 ай бұрын
I agree. I think she’s an ancient being. I love how she models authenticity, not trying to fit in with the image of other spiritual teachers. I’m learning the authenticity part from her.
@constancewalsh36468 ай бұрын
This is the first time I've heard a respected teacher take the side of the anger person. (without condemnation of the trigger person of course) I can feel the immense relief for readers who have the tendency to explode -- I was one as well, destroyed many relationships. Teal took understanding to another level with self-loyalty. Feels true to me. She is an original, 1000% devoted to her work. Respect & gratitude for you, Teal Swan.
@EmilyMParronline10 ай бұрын
Yep I was a people pleaser and betrayed myself in the process giving my loyalty to the wrong people. This hits hard
@shannonfirtick588818 күн бұрын
Right?!? I’m not sure I enjoy it much when my eyes burn and start to weep.. And that’d be an understatement..
@tracytrace7410 ай бұрын
Teal knows things and can articulate the way things work and why better than any mental health professional that I've ever listened to. She's special, and I am so grateful that she chose to put herself where she is, working with the public and helping anyone that is looking for a way to heal. She is a gift to humanity, and we are blessed to have her in this lifetime.
@Ann-op5kj9 ай бұрын
Agreed ❤
@NumHeut8 ай бұрын
100% true!
@barbarabermingham93858 ай бұрын
She Is Amazing 💯🤍🩷
@Mark-bj4um2 ай бұрын
I feel JUST like you do about Teal- thanks for expressing it beautifully.
@billpetersen298Ай бұрын
The relentless legal opposition, by professional therapists. Was at least instrumental in her suicide.
@Devi_JK_1110 ай бұрын
I slowly realised that it is not their destruction that I want but my own self-preservation.
@erasetheyears10 ай бұрын
Yes! High five!
@soulincolor10 ай бұрын
Well said.
@alex-ander-136 ай бұрын
This is such a powerful realization. Thank you so much!
@snjavister9 ай бұрын
Learning how to agree to disagree was a huge turning point in my anger-issues. I do still self-preserve, I just don’t show it to people I feel like I can’t trust. Instead of yelling in their face I don’t trust them, I keep quiet and take all that energy to myself, and focus it on my own conscious decision that I DO NOT AGREE, even tho I’m still sitting in their presence. After being conditioned to be a people-pleaser my whole life, having the audacity to just disagree and stand there firmly is probably the highest form of resistance I’ve ever shown. At the end of the day, yelling at someone only gives my power away to someone who’s trying to run away and hide from that same power. It’s very futile.
@matw1x10 ай бұрын
For most of my life, I was a people-pleaser, not because I was a kind person, but because I was always fearful of looking like a bad one. However, beginning just several years ago, I was so sick of living this way that I experimented and practiced doing the opposite of people-pleasing by being unpleasantly confrontational with people whenever I was triggered. This also wasn't very effective (obviously). This video gave me some good ideas and tools I can perhaps implement going forward. Thank you, Teal!
@thebigsleepavalanche708410 ай бұрын
I'm right there with you!
@thedirtygir305910 ай бұрын
❤
@jacksonmcnuggets74889 ай бұрын
Umm where u failed buddy is when you said “not because I was a kind person…”
@sayusayme77299 ай бұрын
Thank you , I can relate.
@mclefur7 ай бұрын
@@jacksonmcnuggets7488 consider context here: this person isn’t confessing that they are unkind-they’re saying that their kindness was not the underlying reason for being a people pleaser. 19:54 19:54
@Typeproto310 ай бұрын
I am always shocked to the core because of how accurate Teal is.
@priyasebastian949110 ай бұрын
Yes!
@erasetheyears10 ай бұрын
Right??
@Scrappydoodah7 ай бұрын
She’s incredibly accurate
@heckusay570310 ай бұрын
They need to add this in a class in school so the kids understand this ! They are the next generation to make the world better ❤
@sheepmellow10 ай бұрын
That oil rig worker story really touched me unexpectedly. I have to be brave enough to see what's behind my next rush of anger.
@clairsentientrealm720310 ай бұрын
Its amazing shes posting this because i had a healing session yesterday where i asked my highest self what my anger was teaching me, this is how the convo went: Me: what is my anger teaching me? Higher self: connection. Me: im confused, what connection? Higher self: connection to self Me: okay... explain Higher self: your anger is the only way you connect to yourself, defend yourself, and love yourself. You don't know how to connect to yourself in other ways. You bond with yourself through self defense also known as anger Now today i open youtube to see this video. Crazy
@jennykelter95189 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying this. You helped me see this is my issue too
@chriswood451010 ай бұрын
That’s totally what I am battling with and it’s just started coming to the surface to get healed. Perfect timing. Thank you!
@Peace.Beyond.All.Understanding10 ай бұрын
Wow me too, it’s just hit me in the last couple of days 🩵
@sp394110 ай бұрын
I think that's brave of you 💪♥️
@opticalman641710 ай бұрын
she is a narcisist who very good with words and hooking her viewer in she using spirituality to get other people attention she gaslighting people she coming out with new age claptrap
@AnaIrimiabooks10 ай бұрын
Both seem to be guided here it seems. Same here. Anger is actually towards the Universe who actually guided me towards this video. As ridiculous as this sounds, it is a very old deep seeded hate towards a man made "God" who has watched me be traumatised in childhood. Learning to trust and understand that "God" is within me, not outside. It's in everything, and it is everything.
@dennisoverholts839610 ай бұрын
The connection of Anger to Self Loyalty just hit me like a ton of bricks. How do you continue to hit so close to home to so much of my life through your content? Thank you
@kristinayoung653510 ай бұрын
My parents was crappy and ignored me and that's why I have anger so bad. I do feel like nobody cares about me in this world and I have to fight and get angry. ❤
@FkcrGuf6j10 ай бұрын
Means your dangerous
@erasetheyears10 ай бұрын
Love how asking the question "What is the best and most effective way to be loyal to myself in this situation?" can be useful for both people who express anger too easily and those of us who don't express anger enough (like myself). Another great tool Teal has given us! Yay!!
@morganlowe335310 ай бұрын
19:04 the childlike look of excitement for Jadens promotion was too cute. ❤
@Mr_Penguins_Pet_Human6 ай бұрын
I never heard this explanation before but for the first time I actually understand why I get angry 90% of the time. Thankyou!
@emme_nt10 ай бұрын
Here it is...Me. In less than 20 mins my entire life, emotional tortures and personal, spiritual trip to come back to myself integrated, finished, complete...One day soon. I am deeply grateful Teal for your honesty, and yet for the respectful, soothing way you chose to speak about this... About us. We aren't damaged goods, we aren't vicious. But our broken hearts can speak of unspeakable pains and truths. 💗🙏That being said...On it!
@anupannu109910 ай бұрын
I am listening to this on repeat.. I am having multiple insights, one being, the people's aggravating behavior towards me is about their own internal discord, and less about me. I need to tend to my own crying internal child. Please pray I really 'get it ' this time and actually change my stubborn patterns, instead of only intellectually getting it. Thank you Teal., really.
@tender306610 ай бұрын
Wow, now comes the grief that I’ve wasted 42 years on this planet being like that. The things I’ve lost. Why must one injustice lead to another? When it rains it pours. Guess I’ll find the healing I need but I still have this unmet need to make it right, fix it, and get the understanding I crave from those that hurt me…they dont understand that it cost me my precious life and potential.
@BandClarinet310 ай бұрын
Remember you are enough. Even if you never get that validation. They could die tomorrow and you may still yearn for that validation. You are enough, no one needs to validate you. You decide your truth/worth.
@chaz760410 ай бұрын
Gosh do I feel like this… then when eventually blowing up in years of rages and poor choices because I didn’t know what else to do… just feels like the whole thing has been a waste and spiralled down. Time to try another way and keep going I guess ❤
@amusedgal10 ай бұрын
I can see how relevant this topic is atm. With the destruction lust theme for this year, it's crucial for us to learn how to manage these strong emotions...
@laurababjakova502810 ай бұрын
oh my god, definitely!! i can see the anger bubbling up… we are definitely in a pressure cooker.
@TealSwanOfficial10 ай бұрын
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@gamze671310 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@Irelandforever60910 ай бұрын
Hey did you reply to my comment or was that someone messing around
@critter_paws10 ай бұрын
@@Irelandforever609 did you see a notification about wanting to talk privately then clicked and there was nothing? That just happened to me
@charo29728 ай бұрын
This video is SO important. I was in tears listening to it. I'm just trying to be loyal to myself, but in inective way. (Well it can be effective sometimes, but other ways should be tried first ;-)
@martina668710 ай бұрын
I can't help but to admire the deep understanding you have of how human nature works, acts and reacts ... amazing! Thank you for the good work you do!
@feellyngs342910 ай бұрын
Two days ago I was (again) in an anger as self-loyalty situation, which in the end really caused me disappointment in myself, because I hurt people that I love. It did feel like I'm not in reality/in the moment, I was aware and was consciously talking to myself words to calm me down but none of it worked, I still lashed out. Literally last night I was reflecting and talking how in these situations I feel like if I don't express my anger, I'd be cheating on myself, because no one really took my emotions seriously when I was young/teenager and even mocked them. Today this video shows up that validates everything for me.. the struggle will be to find what exactly I'm feeling upset and vulnerable about. In my most recent case it was about a feeling of mistrust in my decisions and disregard for my needs. I appointed a meaning to the current situation that was not about the current situation at all. And no amount of rationalizations and self talk help. I guess I need to remind myself I can step out and take my time to take myself with compassion instead of gaslighting myself. Thank you Teal & divine timing ❤
@L6FT10 ай бұрын
When anger arises, slow down, but do acknowledge it, but find dignity in ones respons and behaviour. I wish you good introspection and coming to terms with your fears.
@stephanieg495010 ай бұрын
Best talk ever on anger. Great example of how to achieve self loyalty. Im speechless. What a revelation.🎉❤ wow
@R0CK0Nbaby10 ай бұрын
Goodness Teal, this is exactly what I’m feeling right now! It’s a very hard lesson I’m currently going through. I’ve always had so much anger within me my whole life and right now feel especially stressed living with very inconsiderate roommates, but find it so hard to confront them bc I grew up ignored and dismissed to the point that now I never speak up about anything anymore. Thank you so much for this Teal, you are the most amazing and helpful teacher. I feel terrified to apply your advice but I know I need to do this. Thank you, all my love 🙏💖✨
@hibamkab200810 ай бұрын
Same here :/
@cindy2086110 ай бұрын
Excellent excellent excellent!!Teal your suggestion are worth so much more than years of counseling. You get to the crux of the issues and then offer such practical strategies to overcome resolve them. I was discussions this issue just the other day with a friend and will now share these very practical strategies with this person after first putting them into practice in myself.
@BrentJohannes-h4r10 ай бұрын
If people always do what they always did they get what they always got❤❤❤❤
@stellabandante272710 ай бұрын
This is so well stated. I agree completely. Anger is often a rational response to life. It's hard to be on the receiving end of anger that is out of control, but we can learn to choose constructive ways to harness the appropriate anger at disrespect and betrayal. It takes work to develop this skill, but we never need to deny that our anger is the correct response to the situations that trigger it.
@thezendo674610 ай бұрын
The anger thing is sooo hard ..behavior is learned..seems to heal and leave and the comes back!!!
@GregoryMichaelKlein10 ай бұрын
I agree but, you know what, I think just seeing... not just the pattern (that's not enough), but the root cause, means the tide is turned. Anger, as a teacher for us, is now becoming less needed all the time. Of course, the price of peace is eternal vigilance.
@DashaandAlice10 ай бұрын
Wow, this is such a right time for this video ! Thought about that just last week, how I need my anger and I can’t just “let go” and let person off the hook and it does feel like betrayal to me !
@Clare-x7j10 ай бұрын
Thank you thank you thank you! 😭🙏 I couldn't figure it out. I tried accepting, embracing and acknowledging the anger as part of myself. I knew it couldn't be pushed away, but i could never figure out WHY. You described my childhood exactly. I have cut all the unsafe people out of my life so could not understand why i still felt such rage about minor stuff. Now I see it's the powerlessness that causes the rage. Even a traffic jam will do it. Realising I'm standing up for myself is amazing - and i have a choice to do it differently. Understanding that I'm only protecting unacknowledged vulnerability is a game changer. It was definitely not safe to be vulnerable when i was little - I couldn't even get sick as a child - i had to hide it. The relief i feel just now is just amazing. No words for the gratitude. ❤️❤️❤️
@MrHlcg196210 ай бұрын
Being loyal to who I am and to my anger. Game changer. Thank you, Teal
@laurynassadzevicius82869 ай бұрын
Super. I have anger issues and fef.. they are so counterproductive while people are so unconscious about, how they act as well. Just wrote a paper about, why some behavior of "temporary self" in my community often might lead to no community at all and why I explode on people because of it. Fingers crossed at least a few in my moderation group will get the message.
@LearningKaizen10 ай бұрын
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:27 🧠 *Anger often serves as a protector for vulnerable aspects of ourselves, developed when we feel unacknowledged or unsafe.* 02:00 💔 *Linking anger with self-loyalty can trap individuals in a cycle of anger, feeling betrayed if they don't express it.* 04:34 🔄 *Working on anger management may feel like self-betrayal to those who see anger as self-loyalty, reinforcing the cycle.* 06:22 🛡️ *To break the pattern, focus on attending to the vulnerability, fear, and pain underlying anger, rather than solely addressing anger itself.* 07:57 💡 *There are numerous ways to demonstrate self-loyalty beyond anger, such as setting boundaries, seeking support, or resolving internal conflicts.* 10:15 🤔 *Identifying the most effective way to be loyal to oneself in a given situation requires slowing down, understanding the root cause of anger, and choosing a constructive response.* 19:09 🔑 *Recognizing anger as a protector and exploring alternative, more effective ways to achieve loyalty goals can lead to healthier emotional responses and relationships.* Made with HARPA AI
@arias202610 ай бұрын
This is by far your best video. It enlightened me. I am totally in this situation. Thank you. Didn't appreciate your advocacy for the dalai lama gate at the time and my guard is set high towards your advices, which I don't always agree with as in fact I used to. But today I really say thank you. You, after all, as all of us, are human. I can accept you're not a guru, you're entitled to your opinion and those can also not correspond to mine. You're entitled to vehicule, sometimes, a message which doesn't feel right to me. Because it's your point of view. It is. You're entitled to express it. You're human. You can be mistaken after all, or I could. But this fact doesn't invalidate the gift you are providing us with, in terms of your energy you spend in these speeches. This time I find your speech to be really affectful for me. Sorry for my English, not a native speaker.
@caramiahunter-hope501910 ай бұрын
This! ❤! Wow... I'm seriously blown away. This got me right in the feels. I had the worst anger issues... but when my kids were little, I had to change. It was the hardest thing I've done. And it never felt complete, but with this lens... from the bottom of my heart, thank you Teal.
@kristinayoung653510 ай бұрын
Teal you are an alien with all that knowledge and wisdom. ❤
@robertcronin660310 ай бұрын
So many clips of children suffering was hard to look at...aside from that, this is absolutely amazing.
@Nina_Kowsari10 ай бұрын
Thank you for talking about Anger a lot lately. I think it is a topic that is not talked about nearly enough especially in the current climate we are in.
@sandraMck637710 ай бұрын
Dear lady, I want to thankyou for these videos. This one is the key to my path in this moment. I have been trying to figure out my internal rage. I get it now. Thankyou for your dedication.
@flying_like_a_heroine10 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤ this articulates my childhood and my life like no one ever has. My anger then was the perfect target for scapegoating gaslighting and more betrayal. I'm free now and I have found that facing my anger issues and what's underneath has helped me immensely. I have so much compassion now for anger. Its always pain underneath and fear of getting hurt. ❤❤❤
@AmandaZ-ft2ow9 ай бұрын
2:00 That exactly how it is. Thank you for the elucidation!!! With Gratitude! ! !❤⚜️❤ Blessed Be! ! !❤🙏❤
@holisticninja10 ай бұрын
One of the best videos I've seen on Teal's channel in a while, the explanation was so coherent and the example was well thought out with detail and explanation of how he transformed his situation that really felt real and actionable in my own life. I didn't get lost in too many examples like in some other videos, perhaps this was just because this specific example applied directly to me. Thank you so much for this gift.
@SOULFORESAKER10 ай бұрын
Thankyou for understanding.
@marki5768623 күн бұрын
She is the most brilliant person on earth. I swear.
@supersizegud10 ай бұрын
Teal, I cannot describe how helpful this is for me. Thank you so much
@nadiakristensen368710 ай бұрын
I have from this moment accepted that as well as sadnedd and happiness, anger are one of my groundfeelings , and that both my anger sadness and happiness are very much welcome
@o.karaca833510 ай бұрын
This is so good. I saw this video title and for some unknown reason I needed to watch it. Turns out I wasn"t even aware of how this anger self loyalty relationship Was such a big Problem in my life. Thank you.
@AnnetteChiniquy10 ай бұрын
Anger is such an ugly and volatile emotion, it can easily get out of control and make a person look crazy but if we don't deal with it, it deals with us. 😢😢❤
@toohonestDee_Dee889 ай бұрын
I have this pattern for sure but I didn't know what it was. I recently and presently am struggling with this. I just started looking for a counselor/therapist who can help me because it triggers the depression I struggle with so severely. This video reminded me that there are counselors that work with Teal and I think I will look there instead. As I have not found one yet near me. Thank you for this video and this information. I could not pinpoint what I have been going through and feeling.
@nad-ss7hs7 ай бұрын
I am so thankfull that someone as intelligent as you exist
@BrentJohannes-h4r10 ай бұрын
Your strength and courage are truly inspiring to all...ancestors are very proud!!!
@jodycasey693610 ай бұрын
Thank you! I will watch this several times today, to let it all sink in.
@dianeclayton493610 ай бұрын
Thank You Teal. Anger has been a companion I have had for some time. Your video is the rabbit hole I've needed to look closer at the relationship I've had with anger.
@biznahyeeh67449 ай бұрын
The way she articulates these matters allow a path to least resistance.....❤
@shannasimmonds3122Ай бұрын
Thanks teal for helping me not fear my emotions
@spacesandy34109 ай бұрын
Wow, this hit hard. Each word resonated more than the other...
@roselienchen988610 ай бұрын
Oh Teal, again. Spot on, perfect timing. Thank you so much for your world service. I like the new structure of the talk - giving a thorough example at the end rather than many shallow ones. Jadens story was moving!
@racenturi75179 ай бұрын
Girl you never miss. I had to pause the video at one point because I’d haven’t been seen so clearly. Thank you for the awareness and validation
@samcraneop10 ай бұрын
This explained something I knew but described it quickly and understandably
@reydia10 ай бұрын
She is very good at exactly this.
@Nina_Kowsari10 ай бұрын
This was very helpful and love that it comes with a workbook and more examples. Thanks Teal
@lorifarmer969210 ай бұрын
I love when teal gives me a twist and a surprise ending
@StewARTist510 ай бұрын
As always, thank you for sharing your knowledge with us!!
@marinaBSNRN10 ай бұрын
There is definitely link like that. Learned patterns r hard to eradicate without consistently attending to them to rewire neural networks associated with anger
@DialogueswithMasters10 ай бұрын
Thank you for all that you do and for what you choose to be. You are a beacon for many and have sacrificed more than most people could know or understand in order to be this. You are a combination of spiritual wisdom AND skill and I would absolutely love, be grateful for and be honored to have you on our new series, "Dialogues with Masters", I bow down to you...
@MadysanSky10 ай бұрын
I typed in anger and teal swan. I knew no one else could explain this. Thank you Teal!
@inspirandoevolucion91079 ай бұрын
Gracias infinitas teal! I woke up this morning holding the enraged girl I've always been. This is exactly what happened, this loyalty connection. Thanks thanks thanks🥺😔🌹
@roodhaabr694510 ай бұрын
i didn't ever tried the anger-management thing in my life or even thought about it. for me it was an invitation to people-pleasing and in my perception betrayal of myself.
@brittneygrisolia24329 ай бұрын
This came at a perfect time. I was literally just thinking, I need help with my anger
@ericashugart885914 күн бұрын
I was skeptical. But this was actually some great insight and offering. It brought me into self-compassion, especially with my inner child. Thanks.
@matimoi10 ай бұрын
I keep coming back to this video to absorb it completly, it has so many jewels
@delra342 ай бұрын
The strategies that the experts give don´t work for me. You helped me to get into my anger issues deeply. Just what I needed. Thank you so much.
@school2.09910 ай бұрын
omg I love the WORKBOOK! Thank you Teal!!!
@Slaywithkay3339 ай бұрын
Ok I’m scrolling thru the comments an want to just like them alll lol, so to all: thank u for loving and light❤❤❤ this community is great an I’m so grateful to have found you
@Piratebreadstick8 ай бұрын
You are the most awakened person I've ever encountered - not just compassionate, in the most un-sanctimonious way, but also very, very smart.
@brynnzundel10 ай бұрын
Well, this came at the perfect time. Thank you🙏
@Joedeee2310 ай бұрын
That slowing down part in the heat of the outburst after years of responding this way is tough. Thanks for some beginning steps!
@timkellymusic10 ай бұрын
This was the most accurate description of my upbringings dynamic. It’s so long to hear phrased by someone and feel seen for what it’s worth.
@leannerobinson15367 ай бұрын
I honestly dont know where your insight comes from but every new video i watch, i am amazed.
@lorikunkel2839 ай бұрын
Feeling deeply seen, releasing tons of grief and tears, thank you Teal
@robertbates38619 ай бұрын
I am glad I found this video or it found me, whichever way you decide to view it. My anger is my best friend and has always been there for me. After watching this video I am in need of deep self reflection after having to let out some tears. I hope one day I can meet this amazing person with the knowledge of the universe that she has. I am forever in her debt. Thank you Teal Swan. I honestly could use a hug. One day I may just get one.
@Ruxandra-mr3sp10 ай бұрын
Working on it myself as I realized pain is underneath …feel I’m losing it sometimes … and yes fear is there as well
@RhiannonClarkMusicofficial10 ай бұрын
I have this pattern and am working with it now. Thank you for sharing this knowledge publicly. The more people who understand this, the better .... My anger is often misunderstood. I felt seen and validated. Thank you, Teal.
@karelhoogendoorn10 ай бұрын
Thank you for introducing the dynamic of being loyal to my anger Teal. It set something in motion in a beautiful way. I never saw certain inner patterns as anger, but a lot has become conscious after hearing you explain this. ❤
@spacesandy34109 ай бұрын
That turtleneck looks so good on her!
@MacAlanBrown10 ай бұрын
You're an instrument of Love - Thank you for your time and TLC x
@cheyennekimbrell10 ай бұрын
Thanks Teal. I lost time with my daughter for almost 9 months because I didnt understand how to control those child wounds and wounds that were being inflicted again. God bless.
@_black_is_black_10 ай бұрын
I am 1:30 and it is already filled with really dense good material. Thank you
@geetikaloitongbam10 ай бұрын
I cried so much watching this video. Thank you so much for this video
@barbarabermingham93858 ай бұрын
Teal Is Brilliant And Self Aware Of Life She Is Amazing☑️🤍🩷🌷
@Madgardian10 ай бұрын
I don't always agree with you, but this teaching was exceptional. Anger as a shield. Still working on breaking this pattern. Stabbed in the back more times than I can count by those closest to me. I need a way to be allowed to be vulnerable. Defenses are so strong, this is very difficult. I self sabotage all the time. I feel as if I am fighting with my own mind at times. Writing letters to myself and others is something that does help me. INFJ type personality with ADHD. The Jayden sounds a bit like me and my parents, but my mom was also an alcoholic. Fear is strongly linked to my anger. That and being helpless. I have done everything in life to be strong and unbreakable on the exterior, but still need some inner work. Thank you.
@chaz760410 ай бұрын
INFJ with ADHD tendencies here too my friend ❤ Pendulum swing from over-empathising to mass aggression after thirty odd years and neither got me anywhere but ill!! Trying to work on better actioned self-loyalty now, considering my needs and those of others but with the willingness to walk away if needs aren’t being met or boundaries being crossed. So hard not to go from 0-100 at times though ❤
@Madgardian10 ай бұрын
@@chaz7604 I have yet to be in a relationship where boundaries are never crossed or needs are always met. (I think this might be what you mean) I have learned to accept certain imperfections in people, but if there is a major need being neglected or severe boundary overstep which is re-occurring. I have a problem with that person. I find always centring on my heart first in ALL interactions helps. It is the union of emotions and logical thinking. Without the lower chakras there is no fire. Without the upper there is no divine order.
@chaz760410 ай бұрын
@@Madgardian love this. Thank you 🙏
@savethedinosaurs10 ай бұрын
I watch this for 47 seconds and break down in tears. Why are you always doing this to me?? I think nothing bad and then you suddenly show up, every time I think I'm done healing. Only to grab my soul and shake it. 😢😅
@RR-xu4kp10 ай бұрын
We are never done with selfwork and realizing what is missing or not done yet. I m very thankful to feel i m not the only one suffering with this issue 😅
@yarlinman51978 ай бұрын
Why am I learning about this from her on youtube...? But very greatful that I have, so thank you Teal!
@recoveryrider61833 ай бұрын
Wow!! I've come to some of these conclusions myself recently, I am glad the work I'm doing on myself is paying off.
@fridafransson742110 ай бұрын
Thank you Teal. It is important to understand all emotions and emotional patterns. Thank you for bringing light to them.
@brunolima85062 ай бұрын
Thank god the feeling has changed, i really think its the better for both.
@marilyndean206610 ай бұрын
Knowing your work has made me a better person. Thank you