How to deal with rejection

Dig into the psychology of why rejection causes us pain, and explore strategies to cope with this common experience.
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Rejection hurts. It’s incredibly painful to feel like you’re not wanted - and we do mean painful. Researchers found that we relate rejection to being “hurt,” using terms like “crushed” or “broken-hearted.” So, why does rejection trigger such a strong response, and is there any way to cope with this unique kind of pain? Explore common strategies to help you process this emotional experience.
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[@yellowstarproductions6743]

Cool

[@MB-tj4wr]

Hello ted can you transfer to tagalog?many young filipino also watching you especially me.

[@ahlee2]

Well done 👍

[@azkaazeylia]

can i help to translate？

[@whitewalker9862]

The worst kind of rejection is when someone gets close to you, gives you hope to be together and then reject you. This kind of behavior is beyond cruel.

[@EchelonPandora]

It happened to me earlier this year and I even go to a psychologist because of this

[@darkprinceofdorne]

My heart is so broken

[@DemonSlayerAnime]

Self love mate.... that's how we beat this pain

[@elzaocean]

Indeed

[@Naan795]

It’t difficult to know when to trust and put more emotions into these acts that seem to be from an honest interest but you don’t really know

[@Ruby_Key]

I'm glad that they didn't only consider romantic rejections but also platonic rejection as well. Belonging within a group is as important as belonging with someone (if not more).

[@Ruby_Key]

@Mark McEwen i feel u bro

[@ireneqq2300]

i have had a few romantic breakups and yeah they hurt but nothing has ever hurt like being rejected by the one friend i actually talked everything with. When he said he didnt wish to talk to me anymore i was broken for weeks and a few times a say i would forget why i was sad and think "hm if im sad i should talk to him" only to remember. He is better off now we are apart and im not massively worse off (neutral effect at best) but damn it hurts.

[@Ruby_Key]

@@ireneqq2300 im so sorry, youre prob a wonderful person, he prob just wanted something different. I remember breaking off with my bestfriend at the time cuz of a cold war between us and I wonder if she misses me too, cuz she was a very important part of my life. He may have moved on but you both have impacted each other more than you realized.

[@LittleDogTobi]

When I saw the title, I assumed they primarily meant rejection from interviews/school applications, etc. That's what I'm deeply scared of. 💀

[@Ruby_Key]

@@LittleDogTobi me too bro

[@cho-tio5950]

The most painful rejection was when they didn't tell you but made you feel it.

[@esperanza7948]

Me Right now 💔💔

[@shadowfox2631]

I feel this hard😢

[@heisenberg4939]

Even worse when they make you feel like they like you by calling you cute names and sending you cute pic's, but when you wanna make sure you ask them if they really like you and you are like they will definitely say yes, but bamm! "No, not really." Feels like a gunshot to my heart

[@laurens9561]

@@heisenberg4939 They might have a dysfunctional attachment style. Actions speak louder than words. They might not want you to get too close emotionally, so they lie about their true feelings. I am such a person, and I pretty much lost a relationship of 17 years because I was too afraid of opening up and telling her how much I love her. It's only part of the problems in my relationship, but perhaps it can help you understand such a person. You yourself are probably attracted to these kind of people for a reason as well.

[@Gstifsyhbbds]

You said it 🥲

[@AceAlbatros]

Anyone feeling rejection right now, know you’re loved and keep pushing on

[@IRosamelia]

Well said, if anyone here thinks life is cruel, remember you're not alone. God is with you!

[@PFGFrankly]

I know. It still hurts but Im able to move forward. Just a big life change

[@thehahvokexperience]

I'm not loved, that why I was rejected

[@AceAlbatros]

@@thehahvokexperience you are my brother! I’m here to talk if you want

[@lozannevanniekerk5489]

Thank you

[@waifuchann5173]

This hits hard when your classmates that you knew well suddenly ignores you after semester break.

[@lolacat4122]

Yes

[@nolsjawline]

😔

[@IRosamelia]

Dude, that person does that because they themselves are dealing with emotional baggage. Don't worry, just leave them alone.

[@ayyappanchithambaram4575]

@@IRosamelia 100%

[@eee_eee]

@calileooo omg finally its here omit guyshsj mini ths here ITS HERE 🤬🤬💀🗿🗿🤯😤🤯🗿🤬

[@chimi1924]

Ask yourself: 1. Relationship type. Acquantaince or long term? 2. Low opinion of themselves 3. Do the other person value the relationship as you do? Solution: Reconnect with those who value you.

[@fromfareast3070]

nobody values me :(

[@yellowstarproductions6743]

@@becky5146 agreed

[@ShimmeringPilgrim]

Do you learn English yesterday?

[@MappingRobloxAnimations]

@@ShimmeringPilgrim Irony 💀

[@Zurvanox]

@@fromfareast3070 maybe you don’t value yourself, by writing this and expect someone else to value you as a replacement for your lacking self-value you display here. If not, it is up to you and only you to connect to others.

[@LEFT4BASS]

I love that this doesn’t downplay how much rejection can hurt. Remember, accepting rejection gracefully doesn’t mean you have to pretend it doesn’t hurt. If you’re rejected romantically, it’s okay to take time away from the person who rejected you, or to even end the friendship permanently if you know you’ll never be satisfied being just friends with them. Relationships should be based on mutual consent and benefit, and if you can’t find a solution that you’ll both be happy in, there’s nothing wrong with ending it.

[@SearchOfSelf]

I can relate to this so much. Rejection hurts and it's okay to find ways to heal. If mutual consent and respect can't be found, it's best to end a friendship.

[@artsbybware4790]

EXACTLY

[@soneforever09]

This comment struck a cord in me. Maybe this is the sign I've been waiting for for 2 years. Maybe it's time to end things.

[@wilragsdale7344]

Thank you. I watch an inspirational video at the end of my every day and I found this one at the end of the day to help with what I went through tonight and I read your comment I thank you much

[@asmrcrafts9279]

I'm working on the first half of your comment right now. Needing space because I'm just so upset...

[@slavic9437]

not gonna lie, the comments helped more than the video

[@robertsvf]

To me, the worst rejection comes when you truly love someone, some group, or some job. They hold a piece of your consciousness that you cannot fully forget. When you are rejected on this level, it is more painful than simply not being recognized or accepted. I still carry pain from rejections more than 30 years ago (marriage) and 10 years ago (fired from job due to office politics).

[@hhanie-ng5619]

how did you overcome these rejection?

[@robertsvf]

@@hhanie-ng5619 wow. Thanks for asking. I successfully dealt with infidelity via divorce as she wanted to continue the affair. I successfully dealt with the job loss by finding other positions in life where I was accepted and appreciated. My consciousness can never forget the heartbreak, but I can live mostly in the present and be grateful by recognizing the love that exists around me. I love my wife, dog, extended family, clean air, clean water, and all of nature's beauty to name a few.

[@suvrojitroy1093]

Really! It hurt that bad? I was deeply in love with a girl but she only considered me as a friend although the best friend nonetheless, still when she rejected me eventually, there were misunderstanding, fights and I was deeply hurt. What compounded the problem was that I had to go to office everyday and see her face as we were in the same team. A short term relationship with another girl, a job transfer and a change of city later, I was finally able to shake her off. I realised I was giving her too much importance, there is just one life and change is the only constant, people come and go etc. Also, out of sight out of mind seemed to have always worked for me.

[@architchoudhary4782]

​@@suvrojitroy1093 I've also been going through that. I was profoundly in love with a girl in my class, but she also considered me a mere friend --- albeit a very close one. It made me extremely self-concscious, not so much about my personality and behaviour (because I have been doing everything I can to be the best man I can be) but about my appearance... of which I cannot change much. This is because (a) she is gorgeous, and (b) she was attracted to another guy who was white and "good-looking" according to what you would see in Hollywood, for the most part. While I was Indian with an unusually big nose and a somewhat misaligned jaw (and a half-broken tooth). I felt like I didn't belong there, in the West with all these perfect people many of whom can essentially choose who they want to be with. The realisation that I can be the most virtuous, charismatic and successful man and still be rejected by someone I held so dear was jarring, and ever since I realised it was love I felt for her, I often feel a shiver of loneliness whenever I am very tired or am trying to go to sleep, thinking the moment would be so much more fulfilling if she were there next to me... Of course, it would not be particularly virtuous of me to continue to feel resentful about this rejection. She is a very kind and conscientious person. Even when she does not show it, she means good for everyone around her. It is just that at this point in her life, she might value appearance more than other aspects in a partner... and who knows, it might work out for her. Maybe she finds someone who is handsome _and_ a good man, in which case all the more power to her. Or maybe I'm completely wrong about her prioritising appearance and it's really some other reason for which she rejected me: it could be that I am inadvertently clinging on to whatever moral support I can get to degrade her personality, which is the last thing I should be doing if I really love her because it could just be WRONG. In any case, we have graduated and she is moving abroad for university. I wish nothing but the best for her, for me, and for everyone else in this world. r = a(1 - sin\theta)

[@everythingaboutbcs1060]

​@@architchoudhary4782Bkl

[@WeheartPEACE_helene]

Rejection is protection. 🙏 been rejected by crushes, jobs, scholarships. But now I can’t ask for better things with a loving partner, a flexible job and about to do my master’s with a full scholarship. Rejections really serve as a sign that some things or people aren’t meant for me and save me headaches. I’ll embrace more rejections in the rest of my life 😊

[@dhamotharan1734]

Well said !

[@evindrews]

I don't think that is comforting for many. It feels like you can embrace rejection - because you already have what you want. (good partner, good job, etc) but if you didn't still have those things, or lose those things again, the pain returns. Rejection is rejection: usually it's not out of ill will, but it's also not out of protection.

[@HaPhan-sw7sz]

Thank you for your sharing, that’s so deep❤❤❤

[@BithikaKundu-gq1yq]

I'm so happy for you. I know it hurts 💔

[@cerarobert1989]

I always get discriminated at college. First, I cried a lot. After that, I started caring less. It was so horrible that I isolated myself too much. Last week, when other class girl said my drawings are really good. It was the genuine compliment I got after a long time. I started crying. There are still good people out there, who would always enjoy your company. 🥰😊

[@hansrajjat7171]

Good story 😂

[@IRosamelia]

Wow, you're very sensitive. Take good care of yourself! You don't need other people's approval, remember all the good stuff you have in your life.

[@yabxx2317]

Bro there isn't trust me or am unlucky asf

[@berdwatcher5125]

@@yabxx2317 good old pessimism

[@IRosamelia]

@@yabxx2317 Yab, there isn't what, good people out there? Or people who enjoy your company? It's not the same thing 🤔

[@T-T....]

The worst rejection is the one that comes from the one you trusted the most.

[@hassanahmed2441]

Yes 😥

[@esscate]

Damn anime rots the brain

[@T-T....]

@@esscate Depends on which anime you watch

[@dangerfly]

Easy solution: Trust no one. [cue X-files theme]

[@n0nenone]

@@T-T.... nah it just does universally lmao

[@katakanta1941]

I've been rejected many times. Yet it's so human that I don't feel sad anymore

[@djawhrkads5763]

But how did you reach that

[@Churlz]

​@djawhrkads5763 By literally being desensitized to rejection.

[@alyshasmith4257]

Confident people can just brush rejection off but when you’re not confident you can’t... when you try so hard and want something so much to then get rejected is devastating, soul destroying. Constant rejection erodes any self esteem, everything . At its worst makes you want to just give up and make you suicidal 😢

[@esperanza7948]

Me right now 💔💔 I can’t breath it’s so painful

[@remochii]

Me too 💔💔

[@snaald8552]

Yeah.......tell me about it...😢

[@aubriellemorgan]

I don’t care how confident you are, rejection hurts when someone you care about or claims to care about you rejects you.

[@sarafatani9084]

@@esperanza7948its been months how are you feeling now? Does it get better Going through it rn

[@GothCookie]

This is a lesson many men need to learn these days. Rejection doesn't mean you're bad or worthless or unwanted.

[@keyshawnscott12]

It does

[@crazyfox9oh]

It's a lesson for women too

[@GothCookie]

@@crazyfox9oh it's a lesson for everyone.

[@esperanza7948]

Women too 💔

[@Marlin0013]

It does nobody cares about me why would anyone want me I am ugly

[@nawjoghschool2714]

Love you mom, for always being there at the toughest and the most painful of times, to help me heal.

[@achaides]

I really love the realization that there is a difference between actual rejection, and you simply not getting the response you hoped for that may have been unreasonable to begin with

[@hipnhappenin]

I've been flooded with breakup videos this week (because...algorithm) and this is the only one by far that I find being able to help me cope. Some key points I found helpful: -Just because someone couldn't show up in the way you wanted them to in the relationship doesn't mean they didn't care about it. -When we have low self-value it's easy to misconstrue neutral reactions as negative ones. -It's helpful to self-reflect and determine whether you were expecting more acceptance than was reasonable from your partner. -Your partner wants something different from the relationship, and sometimes what they want might be unreasonable or unfair.

[@L0velyEla]

It’s okay, your life does not depend on that person. If they reject you, it doesn’t mean that you have to go to your room, lock the doors, and cry for 2 hours into a pillow. You’re worth as much as that person. You are special and I’m sure you will find someone better in the future instead. You meet new people in your lifetime, you won’t always be stuck with those people or that person that rejected you. You should think about yourself first and then others, but don’t be too selfish. If you don’t think about your well-being and your mental health, you’re gonna be miserable and sad. Remember that there is over 1 million people that got rejected.

[@afraislam9147]

You’re worth as much as that person

[@atlas2296]

For me, rejection or abandonment always makes me consider if there is something wrong with me. I often have times where I think "Am I rude? Am I argumentative? Am I annoying?" and I can never find anything I didn't already know. I think some people, especially in high school wherw I am at, are just too invested in "popularity" or being cool to make new friends with people that aren't popular

[@yohohohoheyy]

4:04 "The pain you're feeling is just part of your system, nudging you to think about your Interpersonal relationship" Gotta note this!

[@liannecarbone6856]

It is so painful. As I get older and am single, it gets harder because indeed it is a survival instinct. I feel it! Glad someone is talking about it

[@Simouno]

Being rejected is a blessing in disguise, because once somebody makes it clear it doesn't want you, then you can move on and search for people out there who are craving to have you bust just didn't have the chance to tell you because you were wasting your time chasing an illusion. Move on from rejection and move towards what you deserve

[@sammyy1105]

when someone who has a high influence in your life rejects you, it really hurts. compared to a stranger with no to little interaction, it doesnt even sting and is viewed like a joke.

[@123shortvideos9]

Being rejected by my female best friend was the worst rejection ever. It hurts more than bleeding from a cut 😢

[@Nestera-ys2nk]

How did you deal with it

[@user-tv4lo9ch5v]

Needed this. There's someone I'm interested in but the fear of getting rejected is holding me back from even trying my luck

[@genie9845]

Go ahead, nobody really knows what they're doing so there's always a chance

[@zainab_hashmiii]

any updates..?

[@DicerX]

Finally, so many young male and female teens are straight-up going incel due to the unrealistic portrayal of love and ways of expressing it as seen on TV shows, movies and celebrity life. People, young and old, need to understand that love and acceptance are not something to unlock or achieve. It can be one-sided, or it can be mutual and spontaneous. In a world where we rationalise everything, this irrational connection confuses some, and the pain can change a person for the worst. Early education in this matter is key rather than avoiding this time bomb.

[@jrtumale3662]

Yes just what I needed before valentine's day.

[@Gg-ij7li]

Jesus loves you! Believe in His death and resurrection and repent of your sins and be saved! Remember that He died and rose up again for you to be in heaven with Him! Have an amazing day ❤️❤❤❤

[@kimjongun6746]

@@Gg-ij7li So far I haven't committed any "sins", so could you explain me for what exactly should I repent for.....

[@eee_eee]

@@kimjongun6746 - Kim jong eun

[@kiarona.]

Definitely relate to the sentiments this video. Sometimes people reject you for reasons you can't understand. Those are harder to work through, because you genuinely can't figure out what went wrong so it's more difficult to reflect on what happened

[@Blue2x2x]

I just recently started going into the dating/hookup market. I had cases that I get a message to meet, I get excited and ready. And then they block me shortly before the meetup. It stings hard, but it's temporary. What helps is reminding yourself that it's their loss, not yours. To accept that getting rejected is part of life, and move on. Also have a support network does help a lot, even if it's only 1 or 2 people. Though if you don't have such network to help you out. I would start getting one before jumping in dating.

[@sitisyuhadaabdulhalim8508]

The first rejection hurts the most, I bawl and begged the other party. And then I learnt about it. So let's embrace it guys!

[@memento5113]

Its better to face it and accept the truth. We cant hide our feelings nor supress them. I got rejected today but thats life. I been working on myself latly and that doesnt change. Stay strong my friends and let the light shine upon your loving heart ❤️

[@mmrzw]

It's a good feeling when you realize these thoughts that you had was natural and the thoughts you had afterwards that rejection was actually healthy not denial. It was a good subject. I got kinda mocked by a stranger in my first days in a new city and a new environment few days ago. I was worried that I even cared about it. I feel more reliefed now thanks to you.

[@lozannevanniekerk5489]

I never had anyone tell me that they are proud of me or wants to support me or being kind to me reaching out trying to help me I have no one like that . That is what I actually need yet I have to keep supporting myself and God supports me as well

[@phonguin]

I got rejected. After 2 years of knowing her. It definitely hurts… There’s nothing more than I want to do then cry my heart out, but even more than that I just want her to be happy, even if it couldn’t be me. Why am i typing this out on the internet? maybe i just wish to be heard honestly.

[@kelseymathias3881]

I hear you!

[@razakebwoy1848]

I hear you

[@anisa2273]

rejection is even worse for those of us who are ADHDers as we deal with rejection sensitivity dysphoria...

[@sentiny]

A new day and a new video that doesn't say anything new about rejection. I think this topic requires a much more honest and heartfelt approach. To understand it, there is a need of confessions and confrontations. No one (including me) understands it until they experience one.

[@stachesheriff9200]

I just got rejected but it’s all in the name of the game. Don’t let it get you down, lads.

[@freespiritpearl89]

The thumb nail makes me want to cry.

[@betcotime3276]

we love ourselves more than anyone but for some reason we value their opinion more than ours

[@guillermocubillas4168]

Lately I had been struggling with looking for a job (a lot) even if this is not very descent. This video made me break in tears as I thought that nobody really would believe me how not getting the job you wanted over and over started to feel something just as close as being rejected and at some point I was falling in deep depression and with paranoia believing that there’s seriously something wrong with me and I don’t know what is it… It’s not that I’m happy or relieved that I’m not the only dealing with this, I wish nobody would deal with it actually. Somehow it does makes me feel not as bad as I was just moments ago, and also that I’m not the only one and if people did not give up then I will not

[@cajaschmidt]

this video is so good! im overwhelmed by these animations and how good they bring the message.

[@SheilaTheGrate]

This should be mandatory viewing. So much hurt could be preventable once someone has coping methods and the realization that they are not entitled to other peoples time and energy.

[@gabiwainaina396]

Rejection from one of your parent's, worst pain ever. They absolutely want nothing to do with you😭

[@Dr-zd9eu]

I love this channel. You guys really care about your viewers and it shows 💚

[@joelkirkpatrick5688]

To the person out there that may feel like you are being rejected, you're not being rejected. It's just that he/she cares for you immensely especially if they care to walk/talk to you and considered going out with/having plans with you. That person is just as afraid as you are and might not be telling you everything about themselves in fear that you might reject them due to their circumstances or other aspects of themselves. I was in this situation a little while back and I didn't say much because I was afraid she would push me away and I didn't want her to know that I still living with my parents, which is embarrassing to say. I really did care about her and wanted to go out, as I did ask, and she said yes. It's just that I couldn't say anything else or make things move forward more due to her finding out that I was still with my parents. It hit me like a bullet when I felt pushed away, but I knew this might happen. I just wanted to stay with her for as long as I could cause it made me incredibly happy to be near her. I'm still dealing with the pain and sting that the feeling of not being near her and feeling like she thinks I didn't care at all, today. I just want her to know that I cared more than I could say, and she meant so much to me. I haven't talked to her for 7 months or so and she said she was getting a new job, so it might be too late to see her again. Now I have to deal with all this pain and sting because I still feel attached to her and care for her.

[@SearchOfSelf]

It's hard to admit it but being refused isn't the end of the world. Even if it passes through cutting the ties, it's alright if that brings you the best option. Respect and benefit should be basis of any relationship and if it's not possible then there's no harm to move on.

[@evindrews]

I think this is a good video on an endless topic that can have various implications. It shows just how earth shattering it probably is to have those close to you reject you, and why it's a good idea to not lean 100% on any one person, in the case you're rejected. (family, friend, or otherwise) It also shows just how destabilizing it is for people who poor family dynamics, causing attachment issues.

[@theresabalick8963]

Literally needed this this week thank you

[@geri472]

I like this! "There's nothing wrong with you"

[@karengomez3143]

I was exactly needing this ❤ I don’t have a good relationship with my father and that prevents me from having a relationship with any of my relatives, each time I kinda accept to join the expect from me to say that I’m wrong and if not then they try to hit my self esteem, I guess I should try to build a stronger relationship with the ones already accept me, TY TED-Ed ❤

[@amantodescienco693]

This is actually a good video to talk about. Well, in my personal experience, I do feel those but I am learning to easily quench them and just claim that this is my world. I can do whatever I want.

[@JimCincinnati]

The animation on this is masterful. It improved the message. Well done!

[@centralrnrockets3500]

I like how it's TED-ED essentially giving you social advice.

[@dianebaker518]

I just appreciate how you are real with people you are so right. Live it people need to accept themselves. Love it keep letting ppl. Their flaws Noone else does. I love your videos. Keep being real l. Your different and you talk wisdom. Ppl need to hear your wisdom. Keep it real. Alot of people love you.

[@josephvaz5238]

Love the Tara Brach feature in the quote. She's amazing

[@mirroredchaos]

I never thought there would be a day were someone makes a video of my whole life, tnx ted ed.

[@normanryan9145]

I needed to hear this. Thank you TedEd

[@craigmerkey8518]

Great video, amazing animations. This illustrates the harm of validation seeking!

[@blarghgaefbleeeergargflgar5249]

This video is what I needed in my life. Thank you so much.

[@mann1368]

One Of The Best Explanation And Depiction Of One of most important Aspect of a human's social life is shown By TEDEd in this video , Thank You very Much to the entire team for the work, research and hard work you guys put to the videos.

[@lolacat4122]

these videos save my day

[@hodat_]

I absolutely love this new self-help ish series from TED-Ed!!! Hope to see some more along with the scientific educational videos!

[@nadimasmar3174]

The animations are next level!

[@user-ph5pd3nh4w]

Incredibly thankful for this one. Have such a blessed week :)

[@hoangharley4940]

I can deal with the rejection, but the pain... The pain is what I'm still struggling to deal with.

[@esperanza7948]

Me right now 💔 the pain OMG i can’t I’m depressed now

[@mdaaaa1211]

People have different sensitivity leaves to rejection due to childhood trauma. Second, you can tell someone who has been rejected their whole life to deal with it.

[@w0nderw0man106]

This was so helpful. Thank you

[@MuhammadAli-bn9nu]

That's why I'm always prefer loneliness to thinking about rejection anymore, contacting with people is just causing an endless problems along the lines maybe there is a natural needing to live in society but keeping a little contact with a lot of caution and with clear distance between you and them is helping, finally loneliness is not cool but it's way better than dealing with people

[@princessstewart8196]

The animation for this video is so cute :) and a helpful guide to navigating personal relationships

[@fanny6889]

It’s somehow helpful advice for giving the steps to consider the relationship to others who rejected me. Thank you !

[@ayeshajaved4583]

Thank you Team Ted-Ed ♥ for adding so much value to my life♥

[@sagnikghosh25]

Amazing analysis

[@mohamedmasroorkp7278]

Thanks for the Arabic subtitles... Appreciate those behind this work

[@TheDJboi2011]

I just got rejected from a job. Made me go to this video, to cope.

[@kiiyooo4337]

This video relieved me so much i could have confidence

[@devanshkaushik8555]

the line 3:20 is so true..we sometimes misinterpret the neutral reactions of others as rejection..and this really gave the way to me..that what possibly i have to ask myself the very next time..thank u, u r my one of fav channel..

[@esperanza7948]

I don’t get it could you please explain?

[@robert17282]

This actually helped a lot and made me realize if I do the rejecting I can't be hurt

[@justapersonscrollingby753]

do remember that when rejecting someone, not only you feel pain, but it can be quite hard for the other party to reject you too

[@skybluskyblueify]

Parents or caregivers need to teach how to handle it early in a child's life. Sadly some parents reject their own child and attempt to hurt them one way or another while also not teaching them to handle it. In some societies certain populations need this skill more than others but everyone could do to learn this for the good of society in general.

[@aliclairosy]

The animation is amazing!

[@sushilskolia]

Videos are always relatable to daily life

[@strange_and_magnificent]

I've been rejected so many times that I no longer feel the pain of it.

[@TamalPlays]

what is pain?

[@Luffy_wastaken]

@Golas Pain isn't real

[@Spy_boys]

Hahahaha! You deserved it for being a mistake that no one will ever love.🤣😭😴👎👎😂

[@plasmyth5501]

This was more helpful! Thank you!

[@erfan_zar]

Thank you! That was awesome :)

[@fmor2779]

Rejection is just part of life, knowing how to deal with it is a mark of maturity. Pain is a teacher, make sure to learn from it and make a positive outcome in your life.

[@juchidaf]

This video was made for me. Thank you.

[@badhabit_snapoutofit]

Gosh, I love Ted-Ed. My fav videos to watch for sure.

[@kimjongun6746]

This is every important at this point of time

[@atrvd960]

Well, the best advice I can give regarding this it to stay strong and think positively, of all the times you were not rejected. Rejection is inevitable and happens to everyone throughout life. It's not worth dwelling on the negatives all the time. You'll never live that way.

[@tanishadabadghav1553]

can we talk about how amazing the animation is??

[@CarlosRSantana55]

This was fire.

[@80svampire36]

love this color scheme its so cute!!!

[@sc2047]

Oh my god this is so eye opening

[@MrDilshadx7]

I can't express in words how to help me this video 🙏

[@kevin080592]

Thank you.. this is so timely and i am spoilt with quality content!.. i got rejected from a dance group that i joined this week and im still coping.. 😶

[@ilaybit10]

This video has been uploaded just in time for me

[@quarkrgb3369]

But what if it is constant rejection from a career perspective and it affects your confidence to pursue even the things you love - especially from an academia perspective? :(

[@user-uz3ei9jg2e]

Thanks you bro! It means a lot