Why Parents should Listen to Kids | Anyue Sun | TEDxYouth@Xujiahui

Anyue Sun is a 10 years old Y5 primary school student. With a keen sense of the joy of life, she loves singing and got the third place of “Mainland-HongKong-Taiwan” English singing final contest. Had stayed in Malaysia for 2 years and been traveled to many countries which buildup an open mind, friendly but independent thinking girl. As school TV director, She loves work with people and making friends. In some ways, she is “a good girl in other people’s eyes”.
But after many times rejected by her best friend’s parents Not allow kids play together which almost killed the girls friendship. And as a teenager, she is also suffering on how to be herself and balance the parenting. She found that “NO” is a common things in kid-parenting. So she did research on different country parenting and kid psychology theory and proved that “Parents should listen to kids” and stop been as a “Snowplows parents” is good for kids. She want to share parents that 父母要孩子听话，请先听孩子说话.
2018港澳台儿童歌唱大赛总决赛英文独唱季军
校学生TV台导演
校合唱队主唱
the third place of “Mainland-HongKong-Taiwan” English singing final contest
school TV director
lead singer of the school choir This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

[@Sanriolover87]

Not just is this an amazing example on why parents should listen to their kids it’s very true cause if parents always say no it will teach kids to not think for themselves and will always think about how their opinions don’t matter and always follow others cause they don’t think that what they say is right and teaching them to only rely on others.

[@gracyjoshy9427]

An excellent talk ,hats off .All parents should listen to that❤

[@user-mq1uy3gt3f]

Out standing debate❤voice of every children

[@annabellesplaytalk]

You are amazing Thank you for the little. I agree with you Sometimes parent should listen to kids

[@AbdulazizAlAzmi-pu7ns]

Great video! Some key points were highlighted that I hadn't heard anyone else discuss. Thank you!

[@ChoChallChall_Game]

WOW she’s so good at english

[@cosmicfelinesas5191]

How old is she exactly, she speaks more truth than adults do

[@aymenhaq7775]

She's 10 in this video. But, she's about 12 years old now. Anyways I like seeing kids helping out in making the world a better place.

[@zaramehak2256]

あ

[@JoshuaBortnick]

Children only speak truths.

[@phlavee]

Thank you anuye, whish more people were like you

[@bumblebeegamerreal]

That confidence and her age makes me look like a joke

[@softlife4700]

😂😂😂😂 just couldn't help laughing

[@yayopriyowibowo]

I like how your speaking and telling i hope i can be just like you😄

[@Phantombecool69]

Awesome kid! I also agree that parents should listen to kids.

[@mercedesastorga1877]

I have to disagree. If you tell a kid that fire is dangerous and the kids don’t understand and still hurt themselves they do it. If parents are actually logic and let them play too then kids would trust the decisions and information parents say specially when it’s about fire

[@queenfintan5798]

The kid learn things from their activities not from parents say about something. It is makes kid do not understand what their parents means.

[@jamesmichaelwalker683]

The adults always believe that they more know more than the kids and they know what is best for them even when they don't. This is another reason why currently as well our kids are facing significant ATTENTION DISORDER OR WHY THEY ARE ADDICTED TO SCREEN. Learning by doing is good for kids... Giving to them oppportunity to play, connect with their relatives and friends is also good. One reason why I call for the increase of Urban Green Space per see is to send kids in smart and connected urban green space where they can play, enjoy and dreams.

[@sangphungdr]

She is realy great

[@nillythelich688]

im so confuse they have 24 mil subs yet they have so little views? 26 i meam

[@Fwootgummi]

Probably because adults don't want to listen to a kid's opinion on the way they're treated. Adults just assume they know best and can do no wrong toward a kid because they don't know any better. Kids are way smarter and observative than they're given credit for.

[@subhraa6932]

@@Fwootgummi just now My mom told that I need to learn from her It's wrong Even elders can learn from children And if l let her watch this vdo shebis gonna start giving lectures about arguing with her

[@ellieandryaninwonderland2352]

@@Fwootgummi it's true

[@egypt5845]

Bruh i am 13 i don't need to hear form a kid

[@jaehee0707]

That girl is right ❤

[@kiaravalentinaherediabernu4846]

This video is very interesting and thoughtful.

[@nguyenngocanhthu_ellie5151]

she so good 💖💞💓💟💕

[@HydraticJaz]

go girl you rule we love you😍😍😍

[@cy-taku3952]

That was great her points for for real great and she doesn't stuter that much presenting this

[@Ummusalmakm]

Outstanding 👏🏻👏🏻🤝🏻

[@Raji_makeover]

This child says truth

[@thuhuong5885]

i also agree that parents need to lisen

[@annguyenphuc2155]

she so good

[@randomshit3427]

My teacher but this on one of my assignment

[@HydraticJaz]

same this is the reason why I watched this my teacher gave me this assignment

[@ranjanmakwana880]

We are learning speeches in class and we used her as an example. Eva

[@oduwoleabimbola6126]

Her language at the end❤

[@zaramehak2256]

Her pro ❤❤ she is so good

[@Parthamitra2264]

i like this girl because she is not shy i am very shy

[@oduwoleabimbola6126]

I loveee this🎉💙

[@gabriellafabiyi7399]

I was told to watch ted talk and here I am watching this video

[@agatestringfam2740]

Outstanding job.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😎🔥🎆🔥🎆🔥👍

[@lightplaysyt9971]

when mom say no to go to the studio and speak to audience💀

[@ilysm.0_]

great video i hope my dad changes after watching this

[@gervaswiratama8428]

Wow

[@sentongopaul9038]

Good job

[@nbashir561]

An amazing kid

[@smitadeshmukh5252]

❤

[@ayoooyahforever5332]

So coool🎉😂😊

[@pigpig4961]

wish more parents see this video

[@sharinaross1865]

Awesome kid.

[@egypt5845]

Exacally but now i am 13

[@matothi1193]

Pretty good

[@Melissaonbesties]

I agree

[@Ally45949]

I AGREEEEEEEEEEEEÈ!!!!!!!

[@Melissaonbesties]

I'm showing this video to my mum😂😂😂

[@PhucLe-xc2nq]

cool

[@marlissonlopesdasilva6369]

good girl

[@user-vh4pe1ti1s]

❤ Why the police should listen to innocent victims

[@lightplaysyt9971]

3:14 = i thought it was an ad💀

[@ellieandryaninwonderland2352]

I'm a parent

[@RebeNeuf]

😂

[@SqeeG]

She definitely has Asian parents 😂 . And I bet they STILL say "no" to her and control her life to this day 🙁 .

[@thadicalyt]

kocak

[@Gigochadturbo]

Ой типа умная нашлась

[@LIMJIAXIN-iw8ss]

My mon dosent listen to me:(

[@blackdragone]

Anyone else felt called out? 👀

[@mel16156166]

Hold on Since when did barbed wire turn strong and lose spikes

[@GetALifeStudios123]

Who’s here for the performance task ? This sucks I failed lmao

[@glowinqshine]

Me

[@MrSAFE-gh9tu]

Me

[@JessicaRosei]

okay who also thinks her parents hired a writer to write her this script just for the glory and fame of the family

[@parveenpinjari3230]

Focus on the way she speaks and expresses her emotions rather than finding for the scrip writer

[@EmberLynn-ee2kn]

omg use ur brain and watch that again💀

[@HelpingtheFuture]

Ya she’s so good. Love her!❤

[@jackiecharlie8798]

Some kids are just demons 😈 I know a 5 year old that thinks like a teenager.

[@vsgayatri2k]

I

[@LUNA_CH_CB]

Hey be my lol

[@nikkychang8811]

growing up in an asian family I bet her parents wrote her script lol

[@labakanurzidil2464]

to taste their medicine?

[@wiliamhendershot5229]

stop kidding me

[@julietayip297]

批評中國式教育

[@Vio_the_7th]

That was beautiful❤‍🩹❤‍🩹

[@BawiliMwajuma]

HI LOVE

[@aydamkram8810]

Wow