Tefi Pessoa - Not Living In Absolutes

[@schases]

tefi is the goat. best interview ever, the most vulnerable, unapologetic, and relatable. please have her back

[@catessanicole24]

Tefi needs a podcast.

[@lexval174]

She has one with Molly! They stopped in February but you can listen to the previous episodes

[@ilovemusic9753]

I feel like he was overwhelmed by her energy lol.. she’s hilarious though

[@VerenaHe]

I hate to be this person but the actual interview starts at 15.59 minutes. You’re welcome.

[@jamiegabriel2674]

Nick doesnt understand sarcasm or humor. Tefi was super funny on this podcast and he was soooooooooo dry.

[@user-df4wr7qp2d]

He understands but hes the kind of person that when hes around someone who needs constant reassurance he will give nothing lol.

[@MirandaH96]

Lol when she asked Nick if they talked about the Jake & Taylor swift age gap when Nick and his gf are like 20 years apart

[@xrico6124]

what really lol

[@sadierascon3117]

She is speaking straight facts about dating for women. Loved this!!

[@sherridenning9736]

Choosing yourself feels bad and selfish when you are around the wrong people…so true!!!

[@aubreydeangelo]

I got off tiktok so I'm excited to have Tefi on my screen! Eta: such chaotic energy in this one! Tefi talks a mile a minute.

[@brimueller8438]

This is my fav interview of yours! I love Tefi!! She’s hilarious.

[@kristiekane3735]

I just recently found Tefi on tik tok and I absolutely love her! She is the realist 💕

[@amberlynn1619]

Never heard of her but I a,m now obsessed . And she’s stunnnnnnnning!

[@OhitsT]

I was just about thinking how cool would it be to have tefi on your podcasts and this… this was amazing!! Love her! 😍

[@StuddedGold]

This is my favorite interview you’ve ever done!

[@christinamason3297]

Great Podcast episode! Tefi was wonderful! I Totally agree with Tefi! It is a Man and Woman thing.. Saying both Men and Women do it and are the same is not only false but it can be detrimental to both genders becoming better.. I totally get how Tefi would feel in a relationship with Nick… I would feel the same.. Women and Men do Love differently. The power dynamic comment 🙄 Its not about having more power.. it’s about Women wanting to feel, Cherished, Valued, Loved and Pursued by a Man, because when we love we Love Hard.

[@thisgirlnamedalyssa8637]

I. Am. OBSESSED!!!!!!!! With Tefi.

[@susiem5668]

This was brilliant, connected with you both! 👏

[@sophiespinosa]

Best interview I’ve seen!!

[@niaakyaa1880]

i love how Tefi keeps calling him Nikolas lol

[@avashzz]

Her brain goes so fast omg

[@Carlyastorbass]

Tefi is so funny, I loved this interview!

[@sommerbailey1592]

This is top 5 interviews for this show, she's a fucking RIOT. Love the back and forth!

[@NaturallyMeganxo]

i absolutely adore tefi

[@mariapv94]

Favorite interview by farrr

[@nicoletrombley7463]

Tefi is everything

[@futureflora5247]

LOVE the new set up for the ladies! 💖 But it feels like a missed opportunity not having your Merch or Natural Habits displayed on those shelves! 🧐

[@Mavis-Tanya]

Tefi is awesome. I love this fellow latina sister

[@GoFlipBurgerK]

TEFI 😩❤️😩❤️

[@maggie10]

I love tefi omg

[@marisolvargas7843]

Tefi! Queen!

[@dancingreesa1]

LOVE TEFI

[@katriciacolon8935]

I LOVE U TEFI PLS BRING BACK QUE PENA

[@stephaniemorin2774]

love tefi!!!!!!

[@ro79uj]

tefi ur the funniest person on this planet

[@Takatukata]

"I really want a man that" Goddamn of all she said, why you had to interrupt right there?! She was about to tell us what kind a man she needs!! 😩

[@jennad1747]

love!!!

[@irinabozzone]

Oooooh! I loved this 💜

[@yazziridis]

If they were animals, he'd be a cat and she'd be a dog. But good, nice ones, and they'd get along. I think they both have the good traits of each animal.

[@Nanoha5]

omg it's tefi :O so excited!

[@autumnfisher4282]

Pleaseee have Tefi back for a bachelor recap

[@paigeedwards6457]

Nick is a man made by women that’s why he relates so much to Tefiiii

[@bchery4048]

Love this

[@skyebrooklyn]

i love this interview and I LOVE tefi and you seem great nick but the interrupting her every time she speaks bro. lol ik it’s probably not on purpose but u gotta let her get her thoughts out

[@pamelaaranzazu]

did we watch the same interview ? lol he could barely get a breath out she had so much nervous chihuahua energy lol

[@skyebrooklyn]

@@pamelaaranzazu are we watching the same video??? becauseeeee he literally interrupted her like 20 times her energy is great I just wish he would’ve let her finish her sentences

[@stellarusso6226]

@@pamelaaranzazu ​ I was apparently watching the same interview you were watching, because I also thought he couldn’t get a word in. She likes to hear herself talk. The nervous energy, and her viewpoints at times, came across a bit like a way to mask some insecurities. But then again, as a sidenote, I have no idea who she is, and to be fair, I think from listening to her, I am also not in her target age group, so that also may be why she comes off like that to me.

[@creamsaroyan6666]

I really hope you get it, you’ve helped me a lot . the house your Grandfather built you want to give to your parents. I know you will. I can see your a great manand can do anything you set your mind too

[@emmar4892]

Blackout is the best Britt album

[@elizabeth3007]

Mormon here - I just heard about the soaking concept on tiktok a few months ago, and I don't know anyone who actually believes this is not sex, let alone heard any real stories about this happening. I'm not a fan of mocking beliefs, especially when you haven't taken the time to understand those beliefs!! Other than that, really great interview and Tefi's hilarious.

[@claudiamillan8037]

She’s so fucking funny I love Tefi!!!!

[@shaunachavous9662]

Pessoa forever

[@icymaya217]

This is random but I remember hearing nick say he’s an enneagram 3 at some point, but based on everything he says I’m like 99% sure he’s a 5. I know you can’t type other people… but damn he seems like a 5. Anyone else??!

[@user-df4wr7qp2d]

i havent seen him have this good of a female match since rachel linds

[@TheBetterAdultProject]

I think it would be great to not use the same photo of Nick in the thumbnail. I know it's not always the same one of him, but often. This puts me off clicking on the video, even though I like the content.

[@blackpearlyoga]

Emma Robert’s DOES have mean eyes.

[@dianeandbrad529]

I feel like it would be exhausting with this point of view of men and the world. I can’t relate to a lot of this based on my experience in life but I also wonder if you find confirmation for what you believe/look for. I’m around Nick’s age - but maybe I’m too old to follow this conversation? Lol Some of this seems a bit more like a hard shell or defense mechanism than genuine confidence? I give Nick credit for playing along for an hour.

[@fungabs]

Having Boundaries? O.o

[@stellarusso6226]

@Marie S I think you’re right, I think it is because we are in an older age group that this wasn’t as relatable. I am a little older than Nick, also in my forties, and to me it also seemed like a defense mechanism and a viewpoint to mask certain insecurities.

[@ro79uj]

STOP INTERRUPTING HER JESUS CHRISTT

[@djrn1621]

My biggest pet peeve are ex Catholics who talk about “catholic guilt” lol it’s not a real thing…. Yes religious trauma is a very real thing but most of the time those people did not experience religious trauma at all… you guys just understand absolutely nothing about Catholicism (which to a big extent is not your fault and it’s the fault of terrible CCD programs and parent’s lack of knowledge on the faith) and you just left. Period. Nothing deeper than that. If you want to really deconstruct the false version of the faith you were taught growing up- ask questions, research, go directly to the source. Thank you

[@saintneptune9]

no thank you. imagine being loud and wrong lol

[@sarak4010]

I was DEEPLY dedicated to my Catholicism, constantly practicing and studying, surrounded myself with other devoted catholics. Trust me, I have trauma. I would say it’s mostly purity culture though.

[@mememeome]

I don’t agree with her viewpoints on love and dating. It’s negative and an immature approach to love. My husband and I have a mutual love and respect for each other and is not like these men she describes. Be more careful of your picker than anything. Also, keep in mind we’re mid 20s. Never accept less than what you deserve and communicate confidently. That’s what will get you the furthest, and you’ll attract your equal when you think and act this way. Don’t give anyone that doesn’t treat you right the time of day.

[@saintneptune9]

this “ you’ll attract your equal” is some BS. lmao. congrats on your happy marriage tho.