Things That Happen Again & Again For a Reason - Shi Heng Yi

Overcome Challenges,
Test Yourself - Getting Angry or Jealous ?
Elevate, Grow, Overcome Challenges,
90% of Thoughts are Useless
Things That Happen Again & Again For a Reason
Master Shi Heng Yi
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[@shihengyifans]

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[@steveeelove]

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[@knitwit014]

I dont understand how anyone can be in a relationship, its hard enough to work on yourself let alone a joint project.

[@ChristinaLane-pe2hc]

Because when you find the right person, you both elevate each other and help each other grow. There is so much power in great relationships.

[@laughingwolf330]

I would like to echo Christina’s response. You’re not working on anyone else, just yourself - and in reality, the “work” is not to change, but understand and accept yourself fully. If something in you changes, great, and if it does not, great - that is not the point. The point is acceptance, which is true love - unconditional love. The more you love yourself, the more you are able to love others, which is actually the greatest gift, because loving feels so good! It’s not for their benefit, it’s for you, for the pleasure of it. When you are devoted to loving yourself, you will attract another who is devoted the same way - one who reflects you in your love of self. Loving that person is easy, obvious, and will push you into loving yourself more and more deeply. You journey together - they are a playmate, your playmate, your mate in all things. Not you, and yet they are you, and the more you know yourself the more you will know them - the more you know, the more you love - the more you love, the more you love yourself - the more you love yourself, the more of yourself you want to know. The cycle repeats forever. This is love. This is what drives our very existence, and all life. ❤

[@Daddybernardo]

For the same reason that we have any relationship… to share the experience of being alive with another in an intimate way, heightening the experience overall. It is a great mirror for identifying the cycles referred to in this video. Most of my greatest growth has come out of my marriage, precisely because it is challenging.

[@dmc1806]

I came to answer the very question 😂 you said it for me, and so perfectly worded. GOD BLESS every second on all our paths AMEN ✝️🕊 ​@ChristinaLane-pe2hc ❤

[@EricK-nm2gg]

This is somewhat like the dunning-Kruger effect. People like you who work on themselves are the ones most suitable for relationships, yet many self-serving people are the ones in relationships, because they don’t see it as something special.

[@johnbishop9000]

This is the real real martial art, for without mastery of the mind, one remains a slave asleep, dreaming that they are awake.

[@BelovedRadicalAcceptance]

The lesson repeats until the lesson is learnt or mastered. We are all here to master ourselves not others❤❤❤

[@Englishroserebecca]

This was so well explained. I’m going to watch this over and over again to get it burnt into my brain. Thank you 🙏

[@magicpowerofhealing444]

Or watch it once with 100 percent focus and you’ll get it

[@BlueandBats]

Don't worry, the subconscious absorbs right away

[@lashondasamuels6671]

All I can say is WOW! Thank you for everything!

[@lyranstarseed1508]

There's no testing. God knows you in the past, present and future. The repetition is a practice to apply what you know as a spirit to life on Earth. It's like learning to dive.

[@dianemoril7612]

That is true too. I feel it as a test, then a confirmation, and then a demonstration of your best abilities. then it becomes one day like another. It’s like driving, when you start every time you cross another car you are afraid, is there enough room to pass? Am I in the middle? Why I come across so many cars, it’s annoying! (like OMG I came across 20 cars today, I am cursed!) After 2 years of driving experience, you don’t even notice the other cars if they just go their way. That’s become normal.

[@EduDaoUniversity]

one of the best teachers on the planet. God bless you Shi Heng Yi!

[@nyc631]

Reinventing oneself is necessary when trauma left scars that can’t be erased

[@anitam7547]

I prefer uninventing myself. It eases my expectations/judgement of how I assume I should be.

[@JUPITER11119]

Only things that live in darkness have power over me, so I'll share my number one trigger: being invalidated. After that, it's not being seen/heard/understood/my value recognized. These triggers result in big volcanic anger that lasts for days and even weeks. Often, one person comes along and triggers them all at once, sending me into a debilitating state of anger for long periods at a time. I swear this happens every couple of months now. All I can do is meditate and reflect...I hope I find the solution soon. 🙏

[@johnbishop9000]

We invalidate our self when we do not listen or pay attention to our intuition. Ask yourself why you are angry when another does not validate you or does not listen to you, or does not pay attention to you, when you do not even pay attention to your self, do not listen to your self, do not validate your self? No need to reply here. Anger is a frustrated desire to acquire something we want, yet the real need is to Know Thy Self.

[@U-inverse369]

Your Ego is asking for Attention. Recognize it, Accept it, integrate it but you dont have to embody it! Its a part of you and you should not try ignore or resist. The true Power is in the observing and the choice of how you embody your aspects.

[@JUPITER11119]

I think these commenters think that I'm talking about "validation seeking." I am not. Have you ever been invalidated before? For example, have you ever expressed to someone that they hurt you, and they told you that your feelings were invalid? Has someone you love ever refused to hear you? Have you ever been so unseen that you feel invisible to others? Did you grow up feeling chronically misunderstood? Do the people you enter into relationships with ever see the value you bring to the world? If the answer is no, please refrain from giving advice--and suggesting that I have a bloated ego. Being invalidated is one of the most emotionally abusive experiences a person can have.

[@eclaire81]

​@@JUPITER11119I hear you and I sympathize with the pain of that deeply isolating feeling

[@Rajmaata8829]

You have to learn how to value “me” more than “you” or “I” because “I” and “you “ will never prioritize “me” once you can love “me” more than anything you will stand up for and protect it and then you won’t have these problems. ❤

[@BNJA5M1N3]

My temporary license plaques were torn off my new car. I had no emotions. I found myself calmly making police report then replacing them where I bought the car. No problem.

[@RiggedVedist]

Kindergarten trauma episode..now go out and take some risk for once.. holy

[@knappieboy]

Embracing the "bad" and realizing they arent so bad, its like a test. Keep on growing

[@john1120]

You control your mind, you control your thoughts. Live in the moment while being focused on what your doing not your thoughts. This is very deep thank you for the lesson 🙏

[@MeeraRaju1111]

Out of all the people on KZbin, I adore him the most ❤. He's so insightful. He helps bring me back to myself over and over again. I could never thank him enough.

[@user-xr2dp9sw3z]

you are in love with him

[@tvdylan]

you got it baby !! : ) i am so high i can not be brought down by others ; ) or at least, i am high enough, that i am never fully brought down by others. this is the good practice ! i have awareness of it and if i see myself allowing others to affect me i have to practice ! over and over until nothing bothers me. and in a way, just having the awareness of it all, keeps me in touch with my genuine self. thank you

[@eddyer3393]

Yup, learn never to say "what next" this just invites more issues. What Shi says 'anger & jealousy' is always a challenge. If it is not us or me it is the other or others. It is a very human thing. Recognize the feeling and consider, why? Yup there are so many flavors of nonsense. True, good thoughts can be cultivated. This is fun - part of life - ah yes - but if the instance is important and valid - and we know it then chase it. Absolutely, learning to recognize the valid and accurate messages is part of self mastery. Very true. If you would rather I don't make or take notes, I can unplug - I learned that from Shi Heng Yi. Well, lets be gentle, have a little less rigor, Okay, When we learn our kata, our routines it comes like dance or flow - We don't fight with it, we embrace - the/this moment. For me it comes and goes. Dedication - quiet contemplation - there we go! Isolation and calm. True this. Been there - I try to fix it so I have next to nothing - hard to take from me or tax. I try to sleep but it is elusive, the world is a whacky place - potential for malfunction remains high. Each day is a gift, this is why they all it the present. Thanks Doc - I needed a bit of encouragement. I have the feeling the ups and downs are part of the road of life. It is if nothing else, a good workout. I have not forgotten you my friend, friends - I work for a broad spectrum of clients. The first passes are simple, low hanging fruit. Each step, to the stars, mastering each new technology is if nothing else time consuming. Better for me to teach to share to show how it is done and let the teams pick up the slack. I got a vision, odd dream the message was keep moving. This leaves a lot of room for interpretation. Sfat. Between you and me - I am okay - I see you. I'm sitting outside what used to be the Francis Scott Key bridge, as you recall, toes in the sand. That was a mess - The Army Core of Engineers are working cleanup, almost done with the worst of it. You saw the planted video - there are forces at work that 1) Don't play fair 2) Do not work or play with others & 3) Are hell bent on bringing down democracy. No lie. This is not the place to go into collateral damage, the innocent in war being unable to identify treachery. It has been this way throughout time. It takes strong men and women, disciplined and God fearing _ at a minimum spiritual - intelligent & properly trained to stand, to become or be part of the light. This why I alike Shi Heng Yi and the work you do. My martial art is weak - body, mind and spirit. I am old and the medication sucks - these are simple facts, time is short - The day before my Dad died. I left the house before I did I asked "How are you doing?" he said "I am on the last chapter of my book." Oh, "I hope it is a good book, Love you. Good night." See you never know so say the words to those close to you, or far away - over the internet - no Anger or Jealous - Shi Heng Yi - I love you. In this there is no shame. You have taught me many things, more over allowed me to grow in my own way, as a good gardener, a friend, should. Thank you. Good night.

[@sands0111]

Jealousy is something i struggle mastering. Every relationship cheated on me. Hmm starting to see things differently. Thank you

[@susannahnibelung]

Your explanation inspirieren me...I'm illegal and yesterday I trapped in my own self-pity.. Thanks ❤

Yes, everybody comes for a reason in life! Like we that or no. For a lesson. Thank you for great explanation! ☀️🙏

[@SwiftEpiphany]

I see what you are saying. People are jealous of me. Because I love ALL. I give ALL a chance. I feed others, and they don't know how to feed themselves. I have had to let go........ more often than I have found one to trust, I have had to let go.

[@SwiftEpiphany]

Exactly, my brother. Exactly!

[@SwiftEpiphany]

I HEAR you. I FEEL what you say. I am aiming for a meeting with you. I would like to say, "Thank you." Our meeting is not coincidence. Do you understand? Do YOU understand? I need the isolation and there is something for YOU to understand. Help me get there?

[@MarianaYamanaka]

One of the best YT video I saw recently, such wise words should be heard by everyone, but like he said nothing is a coincidence. It everyone understand this (and I still don't, but I'm trying) and not identify themselves so much with the ego, the emotions, we could have a world with less anger, feminicides, and other kinds of violence

[@A.new.begining1224]

Sometimes I feel like my trauma has ruined me. Like I can't have any type of relationship without feelings of suspicion or like the other is betraying me in some way. Rather than show me I have nothing to fear, simply having a speculation would cause them to be upset. I isolate and have very few people i speak to. I recently felt betrayed by my support worker. And because I literally don't know how to not be open, i just prevent intersecting with her or well everyone. But I really really need connection with people. I speak to God, and the angels all day long, and my higher self. I even speak to my ex, who has ghosted me. But it isn't the same. I'm just feeling the effects of dissonance really badly.

[@shihengyifans]

I Understand

[@woodspriteful]

You can focus on opening to nature and service to innocents. If you can't open to any form of connection, healing will never come. I understand though. I have been alone for a decade. When I open, I am betrayed. But small doses of positive interactions are helping me rewire.

[@A.new.begining1224]

@@woodspriteful since posting this I have managed to get in touch with equestrian learning which is a casual form of therapy using horses, and her other amazing entourage of animals.

[@woodspriteful]

@@A.new.begining1224 Wow! Thanks for sharing. That sounds beautiful

[@amrutak3359]

Even I have faced so much jealousy from people that some of them left me traumatised...my anger n ego is hurt like anything as I trusted them as my true companion but they turned out to be foe, they r blessed wid everything in their life....hereafter I m never going trust people easily....working on myself 👍🏻🌼🌸

[@Christine-nj3kl]

Thank u many thanks.. 💓 wonderful days ahead..

[@chaneljazz]

I have chosen to listen to you to take part in your teachings and thankfully know why I simply needed the spark the fire to get myself back on track in all aspects of my body I am truly grateful Shi Heng Yi I do not have no more time to waist life his short And I happen to love life. Namaste 😊

[@Naz_LVII]

Thank you for sharing your lessons with us 🙏

[@pbx911records]

Real G.o.a.t shi heng yi ❤ Love respect light

[@danielblanchard6487]

Thank you!

[@rjsawdon-taylor7879]

Thanks for wording that and explaining it so well we aren't our thoughts but we can construct them into tools for us to use.

[@yeelam4212]

Thank you for sharing Master Shi

[@sophiavantil007]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@EsyV4you]

Thank you both 💐🌞 💐

[@karenp2rma]

Thank you! 🤩😇💫

[@Mediationandpeace444]

I’m so happy I found you during this time in my life. Thank you for your words and knowledge. 🙏🏽

[@sylviaperez6719]

Thank You 🙏

[@Yet-sett]

thanks master shifu 🙏💯

[@Rebecca-ds4vk]

Beautiful explanation, namaste

[@MissM-mj5im]

Stay Awesome Master Shi, I love listening to you, much love

[@Heal-the-world369]

Thankyou

[@GroundedInspiration0000]

Beautiful interpretation of the intricate process of becoming self-aware. Presence in a world full of distractions is more challenging today, than ever before

[@pennyrobertson6118]

Thank you 😊💜🙏

[@starsoul_7]

Wow...this was needed. Thank you ever so much. Love and light.

[@johnlennonworldtelevision8665]

Thank you Master Shi Heng Yi. I appreciate you.

[@tiffanybrave1698]

I’m honored to hear your words of wisdom . Thank you thousand times .

[@SajeevaniKumarathilKe]

I listen to your guidance often . Thank you very much.

[@zodiac909]

I could listen to this man forever.

[@maryorr3257]

Thank you

[@marthacochrane484]

What a man!!!!.........I love him...........glad he is in my life!

[@starwaters4287]

Listening to you is a great gift. 🙏

[@Aphrodite77798]

His words flow with such precision and elegance. Judging by the way he uses his hands, I'm not surprised he's a martial artist!

[@klyda78]

i been in this cycle of abandonment like tide up to the past then become dependent and i always escape to see maybe its more greener on the other side yet it feels like its just same again and again until i realize that im done running and just stay where i am there i realize like you said its always a test in our character, now im in relationship even though its not perfect but i believe this hold the key for me to mold and evolve thats why i stay and just wait for the right moment till the solution comes while im in this relationship ill just love myself as who i am while loving my partner for who his is and be kind just accept and allow and forcing to change the situation, this is the recipe for detachment. now im more observant in my action and my words not like before always get frustrated cause i want my other half to change but nope im with him to learn and grow myself.

[@puddifoots41]

Thanks ❤

[@ginny2998]

Thanks for the wisdom.

[@milliondollartrooper]

You appear in my life when I was thinking have I elevated😊 I am less triggered by things people say and do to me. It's still there, I have a lot to learn but I'm glad I have taken responsibility and accountability for my own actions, thoughts and words. Thank you for your light❤🙏🏻✨️

[@patriciablack1725]

All I can say is Wow!!!!

[@savannah7714]

Thank you!!

[@ma8848]

Thank u teacher🙏

[@Jahncorazon972]

Indeed, some people come into our lives for one reason: to test us, again, again and again. Unfortunately, before understanding the real reason, we go through all the emotions! The solution of a retirement far from all this tumult is the ideal choice for me. Put into practice from July on my island, Martinique in the countryside with the bare minimum... becoming one with nature and getting back to basics. Thank you for this video 🌺

[@shihengyifans]

True. And that's amaxing ! We all need more nature time.

[@marijadejanovic7560]

❤ love you 🙌

[@user-yz8jx1li6x]

I've been using these techniques my whole life I'm glad your teaching other people how to do it good job brother 👋

[@FzaraCool]

I NEEDED this 🙏🙏🙏

[@technical157]

i have exactly one thing that keeps coming up over and over again that keeps me from being successful in a certain area. my 6th sense keeps telling me it's a test but i thought i was just imagining it. thank you so much for the info! i'll tackle it today. that was the motivation i needed that was suggested to me on yt today by pure chance. hmm! :D 💚

[@daraabbot7120]

Thank you, love this teaching❤

[@lanhlenh5113]

Thank you ✨💪🙏

[@AshlingMcgovern-ir9bu]

I could listen to his voice all day long so soothing❤❤

[@user-kf8ur6cx5h]

Thank you for sharing your knowledge 😊 I appreciate it 😊

[@user-wu9jg7ox5b]

Thank you,✨🐉✨

[@just-anillusion5893]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom and experience with us!

[@senemkilic2371]

Resonates a lot. Thank you so much ❤

[@EcomCarl]

Your insights on emotional maturity are truly transformative. Practicing mindfulness in daily interactions, can significantly deepen our self-awareness and emotional resilience. 🌱

[@groundupmovement27]

Thank you 💕

[@distantsunrising]

Thank You Shifu🙏 I am so grateful for you. You have brought so much joy, happiness and inspiration to my life. Your voice.. Your words are the light switch of consciousness and the spark that creates tangible changes. No words, work of Art or song could express how grateful I am for you. Grand Blessings to You Shifu 🩵 Love is All from Texas ⭐️

[@francinevos4607]

Thank you 🥰😀🙏😇

[@the_infinity_channel]

This man is meditation for a mind. Thank you for sharing this. What a wonderfull way of perceptio on thoughts.

[@dianemoril7612]

thanks I needed to hear this today.

[@dishanjayamanne9196]

Great master. Good advice.

[@KimFsharpHarp]

A beautiful teaching. Thank you so much God bless.

[@maitreyafirebird2765]

One can not generalize that. Controlled anger is another level.

[@scottchilds5726]

Amazing master shi. My defense of negative thoughts is above all. I capture thoughts of helping others and keeping me just above so I can help others. Embracing you have nothing saves room for helping others. Have now doubt ever again, be the most positive one ever again in every thought. Level up my friends. ❤️ 💙 💜

[@LouiseGraham-wx8tg]

THANK YOU FOR THE INFORMATION 🙏😊

[@elizebrown9110]

I love your teachings so much, I can sit and have a conversation face to face with you and hang on your lips. Thank you

[@savannah7714]

I love this video

[@ZenMindUniverse]

Wise words! It resonates with the idea of mastering your thoughts, not being controlled by them. Observing the passing clouds of the mind is a powerful practice.

[@Fawe21]

Anger creates an Anchor which will weigh you down from its low and slow vibration and JeaLOUSY will leave you feeling LOUSY from its rouse. In the end they are just a part of you but have on power over you unless you give them permission.

[@zackvanheerden]

Thoughts, words and deeds alligned.

[@sarahhutchison7658]

Thankyou for your Advice

[@chansowping1811]

Thank you for clear guidance on how not to be reactive to external provocations,to detach and stay in the moment.its mind over matter and your explanation clarifys Buddhist teaching.thank you

[@Lithoscrystals]

That was incredible❤

[@malunachow]

Beautiful ❤and useful

[@user-uu9yb9wb5b]

My phone must’ve overheard me going off on someone for taking something of mine when I open you tube and this the first video in my feed lol I need to elevate

[@b52tj05fn7]

If you get angry, your mind is controlled by who made you angry. Jealousy disstorys the two main foundations in love. Trust and loyalty of your heart.

[@Iamconjurequeen]

Very wise soul! Kindred minds. Great video! 🙏🏾

[@mamanova2657]

Beautiful truth I felt your words and energy ⛮ ❤I'm greatful for your time for sharing this important information,,thank you truly timing is always amazing ❤❤❤❤❤🙏🕊

[@SlavaSol44]

Great explanation, thank you so much!! ❤️🙏☀️

[@msnosdoow4776]

Thank you..This is very helpful. My light 💡 came on..

[@tiffanybrave1698]

Thanks

[@shihengyifans]

Thank you too !

[@Drumsnelson93]

I have always wondered about this, my jealousy in relationships has always been the most reoccurring thing in my life. I rarely get into relationships but when I do.. oh boy. Something will undoubtedly come up to test my jealousy.

[@simhaogunanibesa9759]

👌🏾great words of wisdom

[@Mysteries-revealed]

The heart applies you in one of three fashions, you directly hold back the problems, you disassociate from problems by making friends not enemies, and third you apply your time ahead of time to learn how to avoid problems in the future or with the resources at hand

[@starwaters4287]

Great man. 🙏 many blessings to you. 🌟

[@naticongored]

תודה ❤❤❤

[@MeeraRaju1111]

Thanks!

[@shihengyifans]

Thank you ! :)

[@MeeraRaju1111]

@@shihengyifans Thank you as well 🙏🏻.

[@DFCE82]

We are for the total recall! 😎