Why Do Thai Men Rank #1 in the World For Cheating In Relationships?

[@keshiki27]

Ayo, I am the guy with the bucket cap from 1:25 Sorry for going a little off-topic at the beginning and my answer may or may not represent the majority of Thai people. However, I want to assure you that even though I'm a part-time KZbinr, this is TOTALLY unscripted. I just met Mr.Paddy by chance at that market and that's it😅!

[@ThaiTalkwithPaddy]

You’re a legend Fack! Thanks for coming on and being such a great interviewee 👌

[@olivia6485]

Your opinion is definitely a hot take and not one i agree with😭 but I respect it!

[@asia-focus]

As a Western man in a 10 year relationship with a Thai lady, it took me a few years to convince her I am committed and do not cheat. She just assumed that all men continually chase women; because that was her experience.

[@williamhartz8707]

I now live in rural Thailand. It seems to be accepted by society that “ men will be men” and leave their wife / partner for a new woman. The sad part is seeing the kids neglected by the Thai father. No shame.

[@เดียร์-ค5ฅ]

ไม่ใช่จะเป็นแบบนั้นทุกคนนะครับ

[@Nordic_Sky]

As a westerner, it took me a while to understand how it is basically impossible for a Thai woman to get any money out of the father of her child if he doesn't want to pay. So unlike the west where the whole legal system will make sure she gets money.

[@testicool013]

@@เดียร์-ค5ฅbut there is a lot of isaan men that completely desert their children and give no financial assistance in raising them

[@kanister21]

I'm westerner, not living in Thailand but living in rural Cambodia and I can confirm this, it's the same here.

[@muajin]

Are 304s common among women?

[@andrewdunbar828]

The guy who doesn't look 29 seems to have a really good personality for this kind of video. You might consider some way of doing a video with him.

[@keshiki27]

My channel's content has NOTHING in common with Paddy's so a collab might be weird, but I would love to appear in another interview if I could provide good insights or opinions

[@mythai05]

Keep in mind that Thailand was ranked #1 in people that ADMITTED they had an extramarital affair. That doesn't prove anything other than Thais are honest about their dishonesty. I've seen other lists where Thailand is ranked #4, and #13. It depends on how the question is asked and how data is collected. Thailand does not rate the highest on paternity fraud. Thailand does not rate highest on acceptance of extramarital affairs. The video proves nothing. You've asked people their opinion of a statistic that is impossible to prove. If someone agrees with an unprovable fact, that is not evidence that the fact is true, it simply shows their opinion.

[@liamburns8554]

This is all true. But I have travelled extensively, Thailand has the most accepting mindset on infidelity in my experience.

[@Aaron-bu3mo]

I don't care about the statistics. Listen to their responses!

[@muajin]

Is the number of cheating wives/gfs high in Thailand?

[@keanusolan2844]

The lengths some men will travel, heights some men will climb and quagmires some men will navigate *to justify cheating* will never cease to amaze me.

[@Offgridgremlin]

should say some People not some Men. They arent the only one cheating

[@DiscoDrew]

@@OffgridgremlinEspecially in Thailand

[@nellekx]

​@@Offgridgremlinit's thai men especially tho

[@ma3stro681]

Men? In the West it’s the woemyn who are the biggest cheats … 😵

[@eli_manguala]

they just explained in the video that it often is accepted and done on both sides. i know most western man couldn't handle it if their wife fucked around tho😂

[@nellekx]

This is SOOOO true. I lived in thailand for a year and tried dating thai guys. The first guy casually admitted he was married after seeing me for a month. I thought that was just a one off but then the second guy said the same thing. After that I made a point of asking guys if they were married immediately after meeting them and many admitted they were looking for a sidepiece. Cheating is rampant there and its the one thing that turned me off this otherwise beautiful culture

[@eltedelarosa]

Same here. It's depressing.

[@BillBKK]

Great video Paddy. Its really cool how you can speak Thai so well, conversing with locals like this is very impressive.

[@financierechris9566]

i'm half thai but for me it's important to tell the truth and of course cheating is bad and not recommended in Buddhism

[@villagefarang]

Clearly not everyone holds the same definition for cheating.

[@codrin1862]

Maybe you could interview some women as well.

[@imdear459]

Well, as a Thai person, I have never heard of such survey. It really depends on how and where the data are collected.

[@ThaiTalkwithPaddy]

Only 100 subs away from 200K! Would love if you subscribed (if you haven't already) if you liked this video! 🎉

[@bamboo6044]

ALMOST!

[@_Alfa.Bravo_]

... CONGRATULATIONS !!!!! 2,5 years ago I had the impression you gonna make it that far

[@skaggaboom]

8:38 The passers-by were like "Is he spea.. is that Thai .. whaa..?" Good on ya😄

[@_Alfa.Bravo_]

A relation bases on 4 major coloms: Honesty, loyalty, faithfulness and reliability May be they are the basic ingredients for a good character as well. Nver treat others in a way you self don't wonna be treated. What goes arround comes arround. ☯

[@bobgoodi-jd4dx]

It's not cheating It's just a simple massage

[@gavreynolds2689]

Just like a local council auditor/inspector once told the Thai massage shop near me 'It's not illegal what you're doing after all you are only doing a massage and it's part of a mans body, so I can't by law close you down." 🤣🤣

[@_Alfa.Bravo_]

... indoor sport ?

[@bobgoodi-jd4dx]

@@gavreynolds2689 Exactly

[@muajin]

It all starts with a simple massage. lol

[@live-to-ride]

My Thai wife actively encourages me to go for massage, even sensual tantric massage. She knows it's relaxing and has health benefits.

[@heavymellow333]

I used to hear my older brother and his friends always throw the word เจ้าชู้ Jao Chuuu (I think it means unfaithful or playboy) around when i was a kid. It was like something you said with pride, I always thought it was weird haha.

[@TheSwross]

if someone is a Jao Chuuu it means they are a playboy, but women can be jao chuu as well

[@gabe.ch5555]

I wouldn't judge the Thai men, especially as a male tourist!!!! Nowhere else in the world do you have these opportunities for "adventures for adults". Thais and foreigners are the same in this matter. There is a saying in the West, "Opportunity makes thieves" and in Thailand it is like this "Opportunity make you want adventure"

[@anthonyanderson9326]

100%

[@andrewdunbar828]

Paddy mate, "libito" isn't a word. Try "libido" (-: I rarely see mistakes in your subtitles though, compared to many other channels.

[@glenloader639]

There are a few factors that play a role, kids see and hear about their grandfather, uncles and father doing it. So grow up thinking this is what men do. In Thailand men fool around then leave and don't have to pay any support, so don't think twice about it. Also in Thai society many women are looking to improve their status, so some single women will try and hook up with a man in a relationship already , to increase her status. So many thing in Thai culture are based on your status!

[@CaptainKremmen]

Surveys mean they admit to it more than others and that is because there isn't the religiously-inspired guilt about sex in general that's present in many countries.

[@harrypotcha0283]

I was blown away when I came first time to Thailand and realised that it's the most hedonistic nation in the world

[@jalillbarnes4023]

Very common and imo it’s weirdly accepted from what I’ve seen. For instance, the wife knows the husband has a “bangkok wife” but the main wife takes pride in being the main wife actually having kids with the man.

[@Nordic_Sky]

In my experience, she is not proud or happy about it, but she may tolerate it as long as he continues to be a good provider. Also, the younger generation is much less likely to put up with this behavior.

[@ccrider8483]

The old Mia Noy (minor wife) concept is or used to be relatively common in Thai culture, I have been told. As previously mentioned, now I would assume, not so much. (Maybe)

[@Nordic_Sky]

@@ccrider8483 Not common now.

[@jalillbarnes4023]

@@ccrider8483 I guess the relevance of Mia noi would depend on the type of environment you’re in because as me being in the muay thai environment, I hear about it very frequently. Sometimes jokingly but I’ve also seen it literally😅

[@mixalis6168]

She maybe older, and as long as he pays her monthly, thats all she worries about !

[@jayalp197]

Consider the fact that Thai "friend/partner" culture is playful and non dualistic ... Thai language discribes: Puean (normal friend) , Faen (girl/boy partner friend) , Gig (friend with a bebefit) ... Moral is relativisme ; moral is naturaly given to everyone. Psychologicaly : a person cheating is quiet often dealing with issues about themselves... (Self esteem) What a life ! Beauty Thailand and its wonderful people keep it on.

[@onetwo3411]

Surely its Brazil??

[@tylerdurden7288]

4:50 that guy has definitely cheated on his wife lol. Look at the grin on his face

[@Juliendiesdegelendies]

Not only Thai men but also Thai woman, I have girlfriend 2 times when I was in Thailand. Both are Thais (one from Bangkok and one from Isaan Province Roi Et).... The one that I met in Bangkok is really nice to me and she is cheating with other men behind me, so I decided to leave her (yes she is kind of Money Extorted from me).. And the second one I met the new girlfriend from Roi Et Province and we have nice relationship but after 5-6 month She is not really responded, so after a long period I knew she is cheating with other man behind me looks like she has new Thai Boyfriend, and I decided again to leave her...

[@bobgoodi-jd4dx]

Isnt it easier "You pay them to leave" 🤔

[@mixalis6168]

Easily sorted, dont pay, ask, and or wait for her to pay for stuff, does she gift you things.. If all they want is a meal ticket, they will never spend a dime on you

[@beau_de_jour]

they were both long distance relationships?

[@Aaron-bu3mo]

Holy Cow this is really surprising. I had no idea Thai people were so ..... permissive. Just wow. I was not expecting this.

[@visitstomyneighbours]

I'm way too young for this video 🙉🤣😂

[@Catera-v8j]

Form my perspective, it's correct.

[@Truthseeker371]

Very skeptical with this ranking. Why do Farangs come to Thailand and go to other countries for the same motive, not to speak of cheating at home? What about the modern day women?

[@Bridie1935]

lovely young man

[@bryanjenkins6246]

That’s very interesting but very disappointing

[@thomaspatrizio7587]

I haven't watched the video, but it's definitely a cultural thing. Having a "gig" is more than cheating. It's deeply engraved in SOME Thai culture. Especially nonwesternized

[@chiron6699]

Funny young isan guy disputing data with a big massage parlour sign behind him😂

[@schrodingerscat3912]

its tough out here !

[@anthonyanderson9326]

It might be due to the availability of bar girls. If prostitution was as available in the west, it would be far easier for people to have sex outside their relationships. The survey might have been done in cities compared to the countryside though. Hard to cheat out in Isaan where everyone knows everybody.

[@chandraprakashchourase8959]

I think men everywhere are same and they continually desire other women even after marriage or long term relationship so cannot label a particular country men being more unfaithful. Yes some societies can be more open to accept that.

[@mickmckpng3153]

It seems to be the top end of town and the bottom .....the middle classes I know who are more self sufficient are just busy getting on with life....

[@lokeschan]

Hi. Can you please make a video about how Thais feel about the legalisation of marijuana, specifically the older generation? What do they think about it and do they smoke it themselves?

[@caragon2]

I totally believe that survey, because Thailand has so many beautiful girls that infidelity is a temptation, especially in Bangkok. Also, I believe the ratio of women to men is high in Thailand. Of my 17 trips to Thailand, I definitely see more women than men.

[@eli_manguala]

for this topic you should've went to nightlife area to interview some fancy people that are more in the game of promiscuity 06:05 this is the interesting part where basically everyone said that cheating is accepted even having words like gig/mia noi shows that 😂

[@FastestPodcastClips]

If they truly is ranked #1 ask them about their pickup line plzzzzz :P

[@verapetrova6109]

i won't understand this, but also cannot judge

[@JustinAnywhere]

Absolutely wild that they all consider prozzies to not be cheating.

[@leekokwei5098]

well... look at their king!! it not hard to find out.

[@dennisg.9785]

Both do! 😅😅😅 How many tines have you heard, oh, her/oh, him.. That's just my brother, that just my sisters 😅😅😅 then you find the pre-wedding photos in the kitchen cubby 😂🎉

[@stewmac7809]

It’s not known as Lieland for no reason 😉

[@iiii-319]

i mean its nit like men r cheating, they cheating with women who also cheating

[@McJohn428]

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[@mototouro]

200k subscribers.. You will be right up there with skibidi toilet and his mates

[@王艺瑾-g6m]

ข้อมูลไม่น่าจะใช่

[@_Alfa.Bravo_]

... then why are there so many single caring moms in Thailand ?

[@eltedelarosa]

​@@_Alfa.Bravo_Exactly.

[@chuthadhavaj]

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[@FgYu-lu4lp]

ตลก

[@eltedelarosa]

นอกกาย = สำส่อน = เชื้อโรค

[@villagefarang]

Come on it is their game, their rules. So they are not filled with Christian notions of guilt or morality, what's the big deal. You can't expect them to follow the rule of some country they have never been to. It is not a total free-for-all, there are rules of engagement and they have to be careful not to push it too far. Sex is one thing but making your wife lose face is a completely different matter.

[@jalillbarnes4023]

relax. he just interviewed people😂

[@beau_de_jour]

that’s a good point @villagefarang , but i don’t get what’s your point. they accept cheating cause the aren’t christian’s or you mean they don’t tolerate cheating as well due to the “engagement rules” you mentioned?

[@villagefarang]

@@beau_de_jour They simply have a different sense of morality. The guys all said they didn't see casual sex as cheating. Western guys tend to think sex of any kind is cheating, maybe because that is what women tell them. When you are married, going out with clients or a guys night out might be accepted but if you embarrass your wife there could be consequences depending on whether she has options. Often women are financially dependent upon men, and men knowing they have a social and financial advantage may be tempted to take advantage of that. It is a complicated subject and difficult to cover here. Just try to understand that our judgmental attitude about their behavior is more due to our own hangups than anything else.🙏

[@beau_de_jour]

@@villagefarang i totally agree on your take, that’s a very sharp thinking you have, and i really resonate with it. it’s indeed a complex topic to cover in few comments here! but just wondering if you know better: the outcome is that thai really do cheat more due to the absence of shame on cheating? (my question) i really think that sometimes foreigners and thai relationships don’t work for cultural differences, and goes both ways. foreigner not understanding thai and thai not understanding whatever foreigner country customs. to be honest i see more thai women/ foreigner man relationship, and i see a big sense of entitlement on the women about their own culture which is fair to a certain point and the expecting others to comply with their own culture too. I mean, I don’t see much a “meeting right in the middle” but more a “we do like this cause it’s my culture”. i’ve seen this mostly on women, but that’s just based on my experience, doesn’t mean is the whole truth of the story.

[@villagefarang]

@@beau_de_jour Trying to understand cultural differences based on Thai/Farang relationships one sees is problematic. Damaged people, chasing damaged people, and entering into transactional relationships with poor communication skills and no cultural understanding is a recipe for disaster. It is so easy have misunderstandings when people can't speak in complete sentences. Both sides are always guessing or projecting but not understanding. Sorry there is just too much here to deal with.

[@mixalis6168]

Thai women #1 as well ?

[@beau_de_jour]

the research says just thai, I don’t know why Paddy said just men..

[@user-zm9gc1kt8b]

Come on mate! Men are men and are the same in UK, Australia, America or even Antarctica if they had towns and cities 😂😂😂 And woman do it far more than men, they are just better at hiding it

[@Darkangel-A-c8z]

The guy who was 29 was hot 😉😉

[@testicool013]

Because Thai women give it out easy

[@boobookitten9999]

In Islam the punishment of cheating in marriage is : ⚰️. ( for both women and men equally, so Islam doesn’t give men an excuse to do so under those excuses that cheating men really use ) . u think 🤔 cheating will stop ✋🏻 if this rule is used in your country ?.

[@bobgoodi-jd4dx]

Most men are not married thus leaving those woke stats not to be true. Its not cheating if I'm single 😊

[@destinationsroadslesstraveled]

And what about Thai women? How many work in the bars and massage shops that have multiple foreign boyfriends and Thai men?

[@mixalis6168]

They are not typical Thai women, its were foreigners forget, its just a transaction ~~

[@eltedelarosa]

Why do people care much about bar girls? There are plenty decent ones with good jobs out there.

[@nightravenonline]

Yup correct cheating and lying

[@lyndenmanning]

How's the head on him, no wonder he's chasing bar girls

[@sugarcane9425]

จริง อาจจะแย่กว่าที่ว่านั้นอีกค่ะ

[@Shaz-Daz]

By the way...Thailand really isnt the land of smiles anymore. I would actually say that Australia is a more friendly and smiling country than Thailand. Thai's only smile when they want your 🤑🤑 fr fr

[@beau_de_jour]

totally agree mate. i’m from italy and move to perth a year ago, and i found aussie quite friendly and bright people. it’s just formal politeness but for sure there is not a 2nd goal on that friendlyness. instead in thailand or bali for instance as well, the smile and kindness MAY BE cause of an ulterior motive (usually money). ps italians are grumpy at all, but i found aussie more chill and smiley, especially women

[@redwind47]

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