Thanksgiving Dinner Debacle

[@lbarr53lb]

It is so sad to see such unkind comments about two young ladies that didn’t have much of a chance in life from the day that they were born. At least one of them born probably with drugs in her system and both living as children in an abusive home. They lived their lives in survival mode and all people can think about is how they mispronounced words. Come on, we have to be better people 😢

[@vangiz26]

Thanks for this...

[@yann7643]

Thank you!

[@Katrina-yt1hp]

❤

[@marleonetti7]

we all live our lives in survival mode .

[@urluvizmyluv1999]

It seems that they spent their whole lives with their adopted family. They were fortunate enough not to have lived in conditions that their birth parents would have provided. I say all that to say this, knowing they were adopted probably was always in the back of their mind but they were not subjected to living in abhorrent conditions. It seems their adopted mom was loving and it also seems that as they reached adolescence they may have had a turbulent relationship with their adopted dad.

[@neisci]

They worked so hard to stay in each other's lives despite being so young. They did good, their mother would have been proud.

[@YACKYSNACKY]

Her mispronunciation of words was a lot more respectable than some of the slang and profanity that is constantly splashed in here. ❤ ❤ ❤

[@4CQueen]

TRUTH 💯

[@karendorsey4780]

I really hope they reconcile! They both need counseling! They had a tough childhood!

[@retinagaskins6714]

I was very pleased with the way Judge Mathis handled their case. His tone was comforting, he kept it light but still direct to get through the case. Hopefully all siblings can continue to work together and love one another ❤

[@tiffanyadams2956]

Smh. This case was just so sad. You can tell they’re both just struggling in life.And that younger sis, ugh. I can’t even imagine the life she lived in that house by herself.

[@3eauty_akshiathe3addest79]

😂😂😂😂 yeah I'm struggling in this big house my son is about to graduate and go to college 😢 for engineering😊 I own my business that's been doing great going on 3 years since I invested in my self sus so yes life has been struggle 😅 because I just know your life is messy stressful 😢

[@kayn8252]

🚨🚨I just want to take the time out to say how often abuse happens in foster homes. Physical, sexual, AND mental abuse - at the hands of foster mothers, foster father, biological children of foster parents, and by other foster kids living in the same house. Ppl think giving their child up is the best option, but often times it just introduces them to a new kind of trauma. Prayers to these women and other ppl who have made it through and are healing and trying to find balance and normalcy in life. 💜

[@lifewithangelina92]

This is so true even if they’re not abused in their foster home, being away or taken from their family can be a traumatic experience in itself.

[@kayn8252]

@@lifewithangelina92 true.💜

[@jasonallen3678]

They are all they have, so I really hope they have reconciled their differences and are family again..

[@Nurse_Nash]

“Approxamarylee” took me out! 😩😂😂😂😂

[@marcusbryant777]

Me too😂

[@jays.5978]

I was like what?! 😅

[@shamikacallis242]

Ma’am spell that 😂

[@bribri881000]

😂😂😂😂

[@laurena5335]

Abrusive 🤣🤣

[@i_ambeautyinthedark8009]

Big sis heart so pure. I wish them the best.

[@filmtressmu8552]

I hope these ladies got the counseling. Family is mostly all we have that is lasting. Post-pandemic, I stick by that statement.

[@sheilae.9670]

You are absolutely right

[@isaidwhatisaid2750]

And hooked on phonics...

[@generationalcursebreaker5397]

Not true some people don't have family

[@3eauty_akshiathe3addest79]

@isaidwhatisaid did you have more to say because I'm confused on the end dots😂😂😂😂 it's the smart stupid people for me😂😂

[@sheilae.9670]

@@3eauty_akshiathe3addest79 I have no end dots in my comment. Maybe you should re-read my comment. You replied to the wrong comment

[@toyatime7973]

it's alot of unkind comments here God bless them both I hope and pray they reconcile🙏🏾

[@knightclassic1]

They're black from Chicago, they are not going to get better

[@sherryannist]

This case made me cry , i really hope they worked things out..

[@MikeMikejr-ne8uy]

Lmfao 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tjneverdefeated4394]

She was just trying to say approximately and primarily at the same time, couldn’t decide which one. That’s all. Y’all leave her alone lol😂😂😂😂😂

[@bellladonna2071]

❤

[@marleonetti7]

she refused to call it a pitbull !

[@cinderella31010]

Lol she said it twice lol😅😂

[@msjackson2516]

😂😂😂 that’s what I gathered 💀

[@tjneverdefeated4394]

@@marleonetti7yeah she had some misses, but she still managed to speak in a way that we all understood. We knew what she meant. That counts. 😊. Give her a break.

[@AnnnnnaQ]

That was a tear jerker. I'm praying they work things out..they are not vicious towards each other and the defendant admitted fault. Whew..tears in my eyes like that's my family! Smh😢

[@BREEZYM6015]

They didn't have an umbrella? Judge making a big deal about walking in the rain. 😂

[@dawniipoo322]

Rightl😂

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

I Agree

[@MikeMikejr-ne8uy]

It is a big deal 1D1OT

[@deja14]

Plaintiff was struggling w those big words 😂 .. I’ll say it was just nerves.

[@ChiinaDior_]

“Approxamarilly” 🥴🫠

[@jasonallen3678]

O.k teachers grammar Pet and or child..

[@lulusgm1]

I was like just stop... She got all the words out a weber's dictionary instead of websters

[@ShaqleeToine10.02]

@@lulusgm1 😂😂😂

[@Cali4life818]

@@lulusgm1😅😅

[@dre23404]

Sometimes judge Mathis needs to chill and listen

[@tingztakstym9269]

I feel sorry for the defendant, life is just awful sometimes😓. God will help you through your struggles🙏. The plaintiff...... knows the situation of her sis but she still put her through hell, God is watching you, I pray.💔💔

[@goodgyrl8133]

What?

[@3eauty_akshiathe3addest79]

Sir you sound slow and lost Her own bd put her and they son out I drove to get them when she was in the need I drove 4 hours to help her..gave her and my nephew a safe place to stay while she got back on her feet ..while I'm supporting her and her son she sending her bd money the same bd who put them out! On top of me and my son helping her she not paying anything back knowing the agreement not to mention I was giving her grace period because I didn't feel comfortable taking money when she barely had enough for her and the baby because she was sending the money to her bd..yeah you right the lord know my ♥ and that's why I'm forever greatful and thank him faithfully because he stay blessing me and has cover me🥰

[@melissasllew2527]

​@@3eauty_akshiathe3addest79❤

[@tinkdaghee7694]

I really appreciate that y’all don’t even kno the half😭

[@fashionmoney]

😢

[@NKAB4]

Approximarily &nd Pitbully...who am I to judge...

[@ljackson24]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Kema4Real]

And artistic!

[@ljackson24]

Fiscally abrused…..🤔🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@michellec2899]

Please Please Please ,don’t give up on each other!!!!! Sometimes it takes time to mature, grow and love,each other. 🙏🌺🌹🧘‍♀

[@neshamojanay9423]

Praying for them to have a healthy relationship 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@flamez9669]

Next time i cant sleep ima watch this case....cuz this lady can talk lorttt🤦🏾‍♀️

[@highlander666]

"Abrusive", "approximarily"?! Holy fck😂 she must've missed out on alot of school during all the turmoil. I cant believe she "wished def upon her"😅

[@LadyRenada]

Shut up😂😂😂😂😂

[@kiaellis7613]

Well obviously they had a poor upbringing including being in a poor neighborhood with failed school systems. This leads to common language within their lifestyle that may appear to mispronounced words and ways of thinking. Have some heart ♥️ please and thank you!!

[@MikeMikejr-ne8uy]

Nah. That ain't no excuse. She's a grown azz woman. She was pronouncing other quotes right though that was just as hard

[@cici864_4]

If anybody can count how many times ole girl said “Um” .. you get a prize! That shit blew me 😂

[@BestLifeBagLady]

😂😂😂😂 shooo I be doing the same maybe she’s nervous

[@carmenricks158]

Naw fr, I could barely keep watching 🫣😩🥲

[@cici864_4]

@@BestLifeBagLady lol nooo I swear I get it but that was so annoying 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

[@JayKeller-j5m]

😂😂 I do the same I am trying so hard to not say um all the time 😂😩

[@cici864_4]

@@JayKeller-j5m awwww I’m sorry 😂😩

[@kiaramo8987]

Those bigger words tearing her up!!! Lol

[@generationalcursebreaker5397]

They have sad stories..i hope they have better lives..

[@tanisadaniels5965]

This case would never made it with Judge Judy!

[@sereneamani1713]

And the significance of that is?

[@4CQueen]

Judy is a bigot.

[@marshallelliott8894]

The actual case starts @ 8:30 You're welcome

[@KPbouj]

Omg thank you just the darn intro was too murch 🥴

[@marshallelliott8894]

@@KPbouj 👍

[@flamez9669]

Cuz she dragged her story for bout 4days🤦🏾‍♀️🤣

[@amberhi874]

Thank you

[@jasonallen3678]

A insensitive nobody would post this comment..

[@autumnjanee]

Abrusive had me screaming 🤣🤣😂🤣

[@Prettythompkins242]

😂 and verhicile

[@Breakfastwithmo]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@isaidwhatisaid2750]

Don't forget ah-proxy-ah-merry-lee...😂😂😂😂 I CAN NOOOOT 😂😂😂

[@ShaqleeToine10.02]

And she "Lilly" instead of Literally...

[@autumnjanee]

Y’all this was hilarious!!!!

[@sherrillbutler6095]

Talking about dragging a case out😮

[@poetryforever4438]

I want to hug them both. Omg.

[@adrianknight1406]

The defendant had no chance of winning this case. The damaged car of the plaintiff and unpaid rent. Easy case..

[@tonilee2868]

Damn y’all so mean wow Everyone is not good at public speaking with cameras on you judge Mathis can be very imitating I feel sorry for them Clearly the foster care system failed them like they failed a lot of us

[@amour9027]

I went to school with them....the Defendant was my sisters bff growing up. I wish them well.

[@chefteddibo1093]

6:16 dude look like did this lady just say approximerrrily 😂😂😂

[@michaelallen4766]

Had to rewind it and you ain't lying lol. He made the same face I did when I first heard her say it 🤣🤣

[@ud558]

😂😂😂😂

[@wordplay6665]

I really have well wishes for the plantiff. Heart of gold 🙏🏾

[@PCross38115]

Im glad JM shut down the Defendant's " sob story".

[@jaycutie1909]

The plaintiff's usage of English is astonishingly poor. I understand her past experiences and possibly inadequate inner school systems were a recipe for this but self education is so powerful. Other than this, I can definitely tell she's a great person with an amazing heart. I hope they both can reconcile and learn from this situation.

[@wearenottogetheranymore2658]

Who cares about these words if she was from Asia she would mispronounce words too she has a accent Tf she has a amazing heart

[@BlackMayne]

But she’s American screwing up the language she has spoken all of her life. We make too many excuses for our shortcomings. We all need to do better as a whole.

[@jefferlytoussaint853]

This is a very privileged statement to make. Self-education is a privilege. There are places in the US that don’t have access to books for school or books for libraries, so it’s not that easy or accessible. Just because you might live somewhere where books are readily available, that doesn’t take a way from the fact that it’s still a privilege. That, on top of a lack of community resources and engagement and no opportunities to even know what better is, makes that statement tone-deaf.

[@BlackMayne]

@@jefferlytoussaint853 you sound ridiculous. You have people in prison that self educate everyday. Don’t be silly. Libraries do exist.

[@ez2u1]

You don’t understand complex trauma dysfunction… it damages the frontal brain cortex@@BlackMayne

[@etiquetteplaya]

I’m wondering how easy it is to get housing in indiana😂😂😂😂

[@Shay443]

Very...🤞🏼

[@3eauty_akshiathe3addest79]

The rent is affordable..if you're willing to work..instead of living off the government🥴😂😂

[@BeautyisSelfMade]

She put a R in words that don’t need it 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

[@lailanimessina1473]

THEYRE ALL EACH OTHER HAS !!! I hope they have gotten over the SMALL SH!T THAT DOESNT MATTER AT THE END OF THE DAY !

[@zehrifasc4164]

I literally look forward to JM episodes ❤️

[@mmmfun77]

I’ve been a fan since he started❤❤❤

[@NomadNotMad]

You know it’s a sad case when Doyle don’t speak 😂 i would love to read their Facebook post 😒🤦🏾‍♂️

[@3eauty_akshiathe3addest79]

Keep looking love because you not gone find it 🥴

[@Hotwingzlover84]

These cases are old to us I know. I couldnt help but wonder. Where the heavy set blonde lady, that's usually in the audience is at this time. Her facial expressions crack me up. I already know that she's apart of the Staff. Whew I watch JM too much lol. I hope that the Sisters, won't let this case come in between them.

[@tjbooker9948]

She has her own show. Just sitting in the audience of various shows.

[@Hotwingzlover84]

@@tjbooker9948 😂😂😂

[@rashidareeves78]

The American public school system has failed my people 🤦🏾‍♀️ Bless her heart.

[@ljackson24]

I feel you but the truth is, it’s our responsibility to educate ourselves. So, the adults in their lives failed them as children, and they failed themselves as adults by not educating themselves.

[@ctavares3414]

Before the System failed, we are failed ourselves. We need to assume accountability before we accuse someone else, who is stepping in for us.

[@3eauty_akshiathe3addest79]

But yet I finished school😂 so because of my accents the school system fail me because of how I talk🤦🏾‍♀️

[@3eauty_akshiathe3addest79]

@@ljackson24 do you know me personally so how do you know we fail as an adult..you must be speaking about yourself because you sound slow asf Just because you see me on here doesn't mean you know me nor my family but rather a family problem that everyone has the difference is we came from nothing and we all stand on our own with no assistance help we all graduated and raising kids thats in college and now my son😂 on his way to college i think your opinion is off about us foh Never judge a book by it's cover ms perfect 👌🏾

[@ljackson24]

@@3eauty_akshiathe3addest79 Ummmm, idk who you think you’re talking to but I didn’t say a thing to you. Lol but go off 🤦🏽‍♀️😂😂😂😂 But since you brought yourself into it, everything you just said validates my point. We are responsible for our own education. Maybe you should go back and read what I wrote bc you just went all off for no reason. So, that’s what makes you look slow right now frfr 😂😂😂 Chill.

[@urluvizmyluv1999]

JM needs to let them tell their story and stop interrupting

[@Ri.87]

Lmao the way the dude in the audience turned and looked when she said approximarately

[@ud558]

😅

[@CanMac8870]

I had to rewind it to hear her say that again, then I saw that guy and I watched it about 5 times 😂😂

[@4CQueen]

I'm impressed with all of the journalism and English degrees earned in these comments.

[@lavidaloca2344]

They should've called the police because just because she was in the road, doesn't give someone the right to hit you? So if I were the Plaintiff, I wouldn't gave the other person any cash. They must not have any insurance 🙄

[@babygroot81]

She keeps adding the letter R to words that don't have them😂😂😂

[@nunitneferu96]

I am not great at public speaking, but the only way to get better, is to keep practicing. I also don't mind being corrected, but its how you say it to people.

[@JasmineTiya]

Baby if you can’t pronounce the words don’t use them and find a new filler word. “Um” every few seconds drove me insane. Whewwwww!

[@ZareetheB]

JM was extra cold for no reason

[@tgrant414]

He was very short. These women were adopted, thrown away and then mistreated. He was cold to them. Wow. It’s always interesting how sometimes he’s so nice and other times he’s just cold.

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

@@tgrant414exactly because there was no reason to be the he was. I feel like he’s an ass off the screen 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@milly_lily1395]

I can't even anymore. Thus girl just keeps making up words 😒

[@mrshappilymarried1]

🤔 how is .5 cents or a penny a showing of good faith? The defendant cant even articulate her thoughts in a coherent way. This case is so sad...

[@inukoko2012]

I think her point was just showing atleast try to pay something. I’m sure she didn’t really mean to pay the least amount lol.

[@leondra]

it’s the black guy in the audience holding it together every time she messes up a word 😂😂

[@cynthiapolk8560]

See what happens when you help.. 😢

[@Sigma2HisAlpha]

I think they both went through things that they didn’t want to say a loud… however it does seem that the younger sister is SUPER immature… in the sense that she didn’t learn the necessary things she needed to even though the sister tried to help. She’s not in a mental place to accept full responsibility and and mature. It’s really sad when this happens to children and then they grow into adults who don’t know what’s expected out of them in life.

[@ez2u1]

When children suffer complex trauma it stop the clock for them….

[@shaydaslays]

​@@ez2u1yeah I agree. I had a traumatic childhood myself. I can barely remember anything from that time period 😔 idk if I should be happy or upset about that part

[@4CQueen]

Their fake daddy should go to jail. We all know what he was doing to those girls, the defendant looks like she's been through hell.

[@Pehpehsoup]

It’s the guy in the back trying to process”approximarily “😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@theguyshepassedupfortyrone]

Understand that some people didn't have the luxury to concentrate on a proper education, when survival was their top priority.

[@amour9027]

🗣

[@CaramelGundrop]

This is the one!

[@jjjj-ty5sb]

i feel so bad for them...your past can definitely corrupt your future (childhood trauma)

[@reneaford6138]

Look at Marlo Hampton using those big words that she can't even pronounce 😂😂

[@SxCense]

Omg… it took her forever to get to the point! 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@sososidittyy]

I hate when people can not just answer a simple question

[@kayezsha]

I hate to sound ignorant but I love the was she said “abusive “ abrusiv 🤣

[@ElderSlimm]

These women love storytelling.

[@ebonyadams8384]

Approximarly, vehircle 😂and abrusive got me weak 😅it was a few others in there too

[@cnatchrals]

SMH

[@StingyDaNatichild]

“It was lillly drizzling,” made me turn this embarrassment off.😢

[@ReeseAbubakari]

Bless her heart! I couldn't take anymore after "approximarilly". The lack of enunciation in the first seven minutes was disturbing my peace. ✌🏾

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

I overlooked the first time she said it as possibly a brain fumble. It was when she said it a SECOND time that made me smh like, we gotta do better as a society.

[@wearenottogetheranymore2658]

@@OSMRDucksLIBseriously that bother you? She has a accent!! Y’all disgusting

[@4CQueen]

Mispronunciations aren't the worst of her problems, These ladies were abused in foster care and have been through the unthinkable, I'll think it's okay to overlook their mispronunciations of words.

[@Rysofly]

That child is artistic..... oh ok lmao

[@heeeytheresid7420]

I pray they get counseling 😢and help them get through this so they can be closer together.

[@hockeygirl8401]

Beyond sad. Here are two people that created a family when there was noNe and lost it all over some money. It’s not worth it y’all.

[@joym8872]

Sis sure was adding r's to her words. Had me rewinding a few times thinking I was hearing things🤔

[@cherishamoura9233]

A lot of older "country people" use a R's and d's to try to sound proper.My aunt use to call my grandmother "mommer"in front of educated people.

[@leannbuggs888]

Dang! I didn't think the plaintiff would never get to the story

[@MarvinetteAndroid83]

The majority of these comments are terrible. It’s obvious they experienced some extreme disparities at a pivotal time in their development in many ways related to upbringing, schooling, etc. Instead of ridiculing why not take a step back and put yourself in check and consider yourselves blessed to have had better opportunities and education than others? Put that hateful energy towards doing your small part to fix the system.

[@4CQueen]

They both seemed so traumatized, God only knows what they've been through.

[@fwb1012]

I skipped to the end I couldn’t take the droning on! This took way too long to end. You ladies need to get some counseling to try and heal from the past traumas.

[@halosane4170]

They way the man in the back kept looking to the left everytime the plantiff mispronounced something 😭😭

[@MISSDAJAVU22]

This was painful

[@shayj7609]

Everytime she mispronounced a word.. the guy in the back would look over like "Yall hearing this?" 😂

[@nelumbonucifera8389]

I seen that… 😂😂🤣😑

[@Asia107]

That “approximarily” caught dude in the audience so far off guard that it shook him awake. 😂😂 I do hope they can make amends. They aren’t blood but they’re still sisters. I get the feeling that they really love and miss each other.

[@prpapi2nv85]

6:16 the dude reaction in the background when she tried to say approximately 😂😂😂

[@rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324]

All this story telling is so unnecessary omg 😳😳😳😳

[@mrcwatimean2]

She put a letter R in everything lollll

[@ud558]

😂😂😂

[@kevinharris3963]

AND YALL WONDER WHY ITS OVER 85% OF BLACK MEN SINGLE..AINT NOWAY I WOULD WANNA DEAL WITH WOMEN LIKE THIS..YALL BROTHERS BETTER WAKE UP

[@pikachu3763]

Yall aren’t prizes either, BLACK WOMEN BEEN WOKE UP!

[@4CQueen]

Ditto, nobody wants y'all either.

[@nayagirl00]

Approximerilly is nuts🤦🏽‍♀️

[@cherrianemcgraw7774]

😂😂

[@georgemason4921]

I pray for them.

[@SatinDoll0000]

So she leaves the foster dads house, then he list her as a runaway so she can come back, but as soon as she graduates he puts her out? 🤦🏾‍♀️ I bet the reason he put her out was because he could no longer get monetary assistance for her.

[@4CQueen]

Or she fought back when he tried to 🍇 her & he kicked her out, happens a lot with foster parents.

[@SatinDoll0000]

Yep that’s a possibility too.

[@cfrygirl]

Hope they are talking today ❤

[@Nia_Mack16]

I wanna go to heaven so I'm not gone comment on this one, y'all got it 😂😂

[@professionalgrade5999]

She is hurt by that I truly heard it in her voice

[@Rroyal_plushh]

What is Approxamarlee and Verchicle....huhhhh what?😅😅

[@idanilee3]

Lord! Can we please just get to the point?! Dang!

[@tpzemrld]

A shot for each time she said, um. Drunk as hell!

[@packshow126]

Education is key.

[@mrsbrittanyboyd9882]

Y’all grown folks should be ashamed of yourselves for picking on her. & no one is talking about how the defendant was extremely mad at the end. She was fuming 😡

[@billiekaratz]

If she say Lafayette Indiana one more time

[@tamekamccrayhayes6904]

That's about the only 2 words she can pronounce

[@kalunastewart1970]

All these Grammer majors in these comments with their perfect lives

[@4CQueen]

Right?! It may not have been pronounced perfectly but i understood every word that they both said.

[@royal_rootz]

Oooh Lawd the slowness of it all 🥴

[@drelex9845]

When she said approximarly (approximately)and verical (vehicle) I BOL 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@MikeMikejr-ne8uy]

"Approxamerrily" had me rewinding like i know i ain't that high. She thinks it's cute 😂 🤣 💀