THAT'S CRINGE: Girl Defined (Part 2)

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THAT'S CRINGE: Girl Defined (Part 2)
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[@TheAelishify]

How to successfully marry a homosexual man as a heterosexual woman

[@bearpuns5910]

Is it possible to learn this power?

[@gabrielduque6827]

lmao

[@TheAelishify]

@@bearpuns5910 with enough dedication to our lord and savior, ANYTHING is possible

[@itz_me_2085]

Nuann aarpoq Underrated comment

[@najadamu2724]

@@bearpuns5910 Not from an Atheist.

[@annajacobson555]

These girls definitely listen to the clean version of Megan trainor

[@kingayy9267]

Kids Bop version of Top 40 songs

[@alexis9086]

these girls ARE the clean version of meghan trainor

[@sial8r125]

Don't disrespect Megan Trainor like that

[@abbywolffe4114]

Nah Meghan Trainor probably promotes "ungodly things" As a former cheesy Christian music listener they listen to Britt Nicole

[@ReiAnikaAyanami]

Bethany _looks_ like Meghan Trainor

[@Camila1010]

now that Cody is married he can finally kiss

[@thedastone1939]

Yes 🙌

[@Emcostanza]

Oh for sure he and Kelsey are doing sooo much kissing omg

[@devidocs]

Kelsey got pregnant purely from kissing!

[@Jstlou]

And he's not ashamed of that!!

[@Hesuklista]

​@@devidocsprobably held hands without gloves...

[@aguywithalotofopinions412]

The fact that she says “We’re gonna be doing so much kissing and I’m not ashamed of that!” like it’s an act of rebellion to be kissing your husband

[@ColetteCherry]

no she is just sharing that she is super excited about it?!

[@chatman4998]

@@ColetteCherry boohoo 😢

[@davidkonevky7372]

Yeah, it was not the #girlboss moment she thought it was

[@ronaldreaganhater6982]

I mean it's kinda sad cause I bet she has viewers that do see that as rebellious to say

[@frickfrack7075]

@@ColetteCherry no because why should she be ashamed of it? That's the weird part.

[@waring1]

Ugh, premarital eye contact. Ugh, I’m gagging at the thought of it.

[@its-remiiii]

I cant believe you even said that word

[@kevcho8309]

Heathen

[@kendallmorrell1058]

HOW DARE YOU

[@teasdalewj]

Mr struggles can’t stop gagging

[@morganjohn5677]

Some people make me sick🤢

[@gracelytle1164]

these girls were social distancing from their husbands before it was cool smh

[@gabbycouch8594]

Grace Lytle yooo 💀💀😂

[@marijamaric6548]

they are fucking trendsetters😌🧚🏻‍♀️✨

[@OGGerz8]

Most underrated comment by far.

[@mags2856]

this comment is living proof i'm not the only one rewatching these every month 😌

[@rosaliepb]

they invented the meaning of social distancing

[@chelseastauffer8582]

Bethany’s husband went to conversion camp twice so that’s a pretty solid explanation as to why he was down to not kiss her

[@Random-sk6hm]

Kinda sounds like he has struggles OH FUCK

[@tkat111]

@@Random-sk6hmLMAO

[@senatorarmstrong2100]

Oh no.... That brother is gayyyyyyy

[@runnyeggsricky]

Wait is this true…

[@Brianna-sh1yp]

@@Random-sk6hmmr struggle…..

[@RoseGirlGlitter]

This video is even sadder (and funnier, in a way) after Girl Defined’s more recent video of them both admitting they weren’t even attracted to their husbands as they were walking down the aisle ON THEIR WEDDING DAYS. Purity culture has such a stronghold on them it’s really quite sad.

[@PocoMuses]

O O F

[@slartybartfast]

What's the video called?

[@alyssa01825]

video?

[@elise9189]

Wait so like did they never see their husbands before or?

[@eh7322]

@@elise9189 If I remember correctly, they both said walking down the aisle they were questioning if they were even attracted to the person at the other end. It was really sad honestly.

[@martinstre2758]

The girl on the right went: 👁👁👀👁👁👀👁👁👀👁👁👀👁👁 “MHM, Yeah, MHM, Yeah”

[@mallory6599]

Lil Fish “MHMM” and “Yeah” ever 10 seconds

[@anthony.j1124]

Yup, mmhh mmh

[@TacticalChild]

Vladimir Putin right when I saw this comment she said yeah

[@Cypixal]

HAHAHHAHA

[@mileswillis9020]

LMAOOOOOO

[@marcproductions7716]

They make me feel like I’m not a virgin.

[@elliecat6006]

MarcProductions ikr. it’s like they kiss their parents on the cheek and they’re like We LoSt our kissing VirGinTy

[@gun2424]

I can’t believe I’m saying this, but I lost my K-Card... I know I know, it’s a crazy concept to grasp, I’m not even married yet.

[@strawbubbz1778]

me too lmaooo

[@nightingale_es]

@@gun2424 Sameee and I lost it with my friend. Guess I'm the biggest sinner in their books now. 🤷🏻‍♀

[@gun2424]

Deborah N it do be like that sometimes 😔

[@walkingthroughthewaves]

7:38 Just found out that Bethany didn't find out the actual "mechanics" of sex until she was 20 YEARS OLD. She found out while babysitting and flipping through a children's educational book. It honestly makes me really sad for her.

[@puch9830]

@walkingthroughthewaves yeah weird how you western people find innocence and purity sad, how twisted is that? what is wrong with person not having body count?what is wrong with having a husband/wife and saving themselves for the true love? average american woman goes through 5 men until she finds the one she wants to be with, imagine being smart and saving yourself the pain and suffering of going through that bs and focusing on education/hobbies until you're mature enough to handle a relationship and know exactly what you want. For you people at the age of 13 its ok to have bf and change them since then, look at std rate in your country and compare to conutries that hold their religious values high.how you liberals can be blind

[@kelseyjenna9248]

She's pretending to be a sex expert now! She's been married and sexually active for four years.

[@fart63]

It’s easy to hate these women, and I definitely do, but when you think about why they are the way that they are it can only make you feel bad for them. They have never had a thought of their own one time in their lives, everything they do is because of their religion. All they do is parrot what their cult told them. They likely know nothing about the real world and have mounds of self hatred.

[@sawyernorthrop4078]

NEED a source on that lol

[@walkingthroughthewaves]

@@sawyernorthrop4078 She talks about it in a podcast ep! Rachel Oates includes the clip in one of her videos on Girl Defined :)

[@Eleanoraaaaa]

The way Kristen said “Thirtyyyyy…. Yearss” with so much snark and condescension😂 I always get the feeling that they both lowkey can’t stand each other

[@abbsterlicious]

Oh they fucking hate each other 😂

[@royythaboi7163]

Their literally biological sisters so I don't think that's the case

[@j_grimmie]

​@@royythaboi7163 clearly you've never had siblings

[@birdie7910]

Aren’t their husbands sleeping with each other lol

[@bichen-up-ur]

Bethany also rubs her children and fertility in Kristen's face who is struggling to conceive.

[@MegaBuster777]

"Why I waited until marriage to get divorced"

[@deonargiratos6835]

Why I wait until divorce to get married

[@Bad-dl2ks]

Why I waited until I woke up to go to sleep.

[@blazer_nation7718]

Why I waited until I breathed out to breathe in

[@lukaramavideos1801]

Why I waited to go to school to pull out my glock

[@GoOgleAccount-rq7cs]

“Why I waited until my resurrection to commit suicide”

[@holiday9591]

these are the girls that think every gay girl has a crush on them

[@sonavirain571]

Lesbian: **exists** Girl Defined: Look, I’m sorry but I’m waiting for my first kiss with my husband-

[@battlechick]

This is so accurate

[@pickleioi9058]

No they’re actually extremely anti-LGBTQ. They wrote an entire document called “LGBTQ Community and their Sneaky Agenda” and I think it speaks for itself.

[@ilumie9779]

@@pickleioi9058 Those things don't exclude each other. What I think the commenter meant is that these are the type of girls that immediately get suspicious of the intentions of every lesbian or bi girl they come across. The type of person that believes someone being attracted to the same gender automatically equates them feeling attracted or them having inappropriate thoughts towards every available person of said gender.

[@fuckoff2066]

For real they think like "boys is obsessed with me", "I'm so pretty", "people like me/what I'm doing"

[@cheerfulsatanist]

The fact that the author of the book has since apologized and said he was very wrong is the icing on this very old wedding cake

[@superbanananinja]

Wow thats interesting. Do you have an article for that or the name of the book, I would love to read what he said

[@cheerfulsatanist]

@@superbanananinja sure the author's name is Joshua Harris he published a book called "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" in 1997 a few years ago he came out and said that he did not feel that he was a Christian any longer and that he was very sorry because he felt that his book which kick-started Purity culture as we know it today ultimately more than likely harmed quite a few young male and female Christians by causing them to completely surprised you very natural feelings urges Etc but by also forcing them to put so much stock on the idea of Purity and their status is a virgin directly relating to their overall worth as a human being both personally and to others. I do not believe he was doing and started the entire metaphor of comparing a young woman's Virginity to that of a toothbrush ( no one wants to use a used toothbrush essentially, it's truly a lovely sentiment leveled at young girls starting from around the age of 10, to make sure the message really sticks about just how easily they can go from being pure and clean and good to disgusting and gross and covered in icky bacteria ). anyway I'll give you a link for an article to NPR covered about an interview he did with an excellent journalist I believe it it's only a portion of the interview. a documentary was made a few years ago called "I Survived I Kissed Dating Goodbye" is that he was a part of the with the tagline about "how would you feel if at the age of 21 you published a book that changed the way millions of people felt about their sexuality, in a very damaging way". the KZbinr fundie Fridays focuses on aspects of fundamentalist Christianity and while she does talk about purity culture sporadically because it's just weird crops up in that Community, she talks about the lot in one of the videos about gay conversion, if you're interested about learning about a lot of the more obscure aspects of fundamentalist Christianity that you really don't see in mainstream media ( mostly because they don't want to freak people out if there's any chance of potentially converting them later, they also know full well that every year more and more of their practices are considered to be completely out of line by the majority) anyway that's the link to the interview the documentary is available on Amazon I think for a 1.99, the first book is still available although I don't know if it was ever put on e-readers. enjoy, it's a fascinating... if somewhat troubling rabbit hole ! www.npr.org/2019/07/21/743926857/evangelical-writer-who-influenced-purity-culture-announces-separation-from-wife

[@Kevin-cy2dr]

You need to comment this in their video.

[@juanmoon4643]

Oh hell yeah w commenter, you based as fuck

[@massivel]

@@cheerfulsatanist i just want to say thank you so much for sharing this!!

[@jessieblackburn4045]

the fact that the men were "excited" to wait until marriage to kiss makes sense when you find out that both of their husbands have been to conversion therapy several times

[@briarshine]

WAIT WHAT

[@jessieblackburn4045]

YEAH!!@@briarshine

[@clairewillow6475]

I’m confused about whether this is true or not? I see ppl commenting it’s not true or it is true.. never seen a link to any proof

[@fossilfightersfanforever7243]

@@clairewillow6475 putting a link in a youtube comment is notoriously difficult bc yt flags them as malicious usually, or like they don't want links in their comment section idk. so youtube as a platform will jst kinda take down most comments with links and it's normal for people to just not even try to post a link (bc it will be deleted anyway by a youtube bot). also you do realize you can just google things yourself, right? you don't need someone to find you a fucking link to an article lmao. sometimes i feel like some people are GENUINELY unaware that they can google things on their own and it's not anyone else's job LOL

[@clairewillow6475]

@@fossilfightersfanforever7243 well obviously there are contradictory statements out there because tons of ppl have different opinions on this and some of them think Google is a top notch peer reviewed source lmaooo

[@jacksonbritt9624]

their homosexual husbands: I'm all for not kissing until marriage!!!! :)))))))))

[@ayelet5652]

their husbands probably grew up in a christian family and they marry them to show their family they’re straight 💀

[@duckie4655]

ayelet Which is so sad, I’m a Christian and we have gay family members. I can’t imagine them having to marry the opposite gender just to not get dis-owned or hurt by their family.

[@caesarspeaks]

“Why even kiss when we’re married? You know? Like let’s just keep waiting for a while?”

[@vi9486]

I feel bad for them honestly, being forced to suppress their sexuality out of fear to come to me.. me and god dosen’t give a fuck about love...

[@karateteacherpouredacidonmycar]

Satan thank you, Satan

[@racheleve7334]

No one has mentioned this so I’m gonna say it: do you realize they’re definitely going to pressure their kids into doing this too

[@thegoof7966]

I hope one of there kids are an atheist just so they can teach their moms that there not all that

[@Jo0chueE]

Damn the reply’s are so dark 😂 I just hope their kids just wake them up from the trance they are in.

[@marshinata9535]

Let's just hope they don't have children.....

[@racheleve7334]

Alicia Long too late Bethany is pregnant

[@faithwilliams4488]

W i n n i e Yep. If not they’re probably gonna tell them that they’re going to hell for it

[@stupid4parx_]

I was raised this type of Christan and what usually ends up happening is people get married WAY to early, and end up hating their husband/wife

[@aguywithalotofopinions412]

And they can’t divorce them

[@justafractionoftime1984]

Yeah, they’d be so desperate to jump each other’s bones that they’d get married at, like, 18, have sex, then realize, oh, I was just horny. I’m now stuck with this person who I don’t even know and hate having sex with forever, unless one of us dies or cheats first (which always happens). This belief system ruins lives, dude.

[@lydie.]

exactly. they dont give themselves time to actually get to know the person. people's true colors dont really come out until at least a year of being in a relationship.

[@NativeAsElizabethWarren]

Yep and then you get divorced 2 years later like I did.

[@vestavind]

@@NativeAsElizabethWarren Sorry to hear that :(

[@HarleyGrestin]

Fun fact! My husband and I were watching his sister’s basketball game at a Christian school. I gave him a hug and a quick kiss. Newlywed bliss and all that. We had some lady scream at us how inappropriate we were being and how we were being disrespectful to god. Like ??? I kissed my husband? From the way she reacted, you would think I was giving him a blowy right then and there.

[@pannnella]

that was funny I liked that thank you for sharing

[@foobrazy]

@@pannnella I agree it was funny thank you for sharing as well

[@damnfreakingsien]

she thinks a light peck is as sinful as a full-blown makeout in public and making everybody uncomfortable

[@tatacraft791]

​@@foobrazyI agree it was pretty damn funny, thanks for sharing.

[@emmaconder7854]

I got a chuckle out of that, I appreciate you sharing

[@luffypirateking1068]

Why does that girl look like a Walmart version of Meghan trainor

[@puggles-bb2ps]

I can't unsee it now

[@missmelodies52]

They almost cast her for high School musical but she wouldn't say she likes hip hop 😂

[@Maialeen]

That's the only version of Meghan Trainor there is.

[@kaam..]

Shes all about that bible

[@stevie35]

Luffy PirateKing more like dollar store

[@DAlexa-lv6wq]

when she says "im gonna be doing lots of kissing!!!" she sounds like a middle schooler talking about her 3 day boyfriend

[@Kurosaka]

Fr she acting like guy who got a 11/10 in a tbh rating

[@Haililibunnie]

@@KurosakaLMAOOOO

[@heysaucemikehere1804]

Reverend Niggalus Holy shit 😂

[@kragger2382]

Oof I wanted to have a girlfriend in middle school didn't work out well

[@lovelyaudios3038]

this aint even middle schoolers lmao, this is like eleemntry school kids

[@HoneyTheFracking]

"This isn't even in the Bible", like these girls are trying for extra credit from Jesus

[@panicathogwarts]

I'm glad Cody and Kelsey got engaged so they can start kissing soon 🥰

[@mayaz9640]

No one: Girl defined: 👁️👄👁️ 👁️💋👁️

[@Ahmed69k]

m a y aツ oh my god

[@Cherry-hu4xm]

I AM DEAD 😂

[@cloventine9660]

no they don’t have lips it’s more like: 👁-👁

[@kaylam9928]

clementine 👁___👁 👁.👁

[@infamouszephon]

m a y a 😂😂😂😂😂

[@hayden5893]

"dave was for waiting to kiss after marriage!" yeah and dave was also put through gay conversion therapy my love

[@chrisj403]

That's priceless and sad, that means that the guy will probably be in the closet forever

[@thin_white_duke1]

Chris J ah who are we kidding their husbands are cheating on them with each others

[@chloebz8797]

Wait did he really that’s sad. How do you know?

[@calci2679]

That’s really depressing

[@KexyTime]

it's not therapy it's " making you do manual labor and beat you with a bible until you tell me you aren't gay anymore", it's literally abuse camps

[@Emcostanza]

The fact that they think you can’t make out with someone and have mutual REAL respect for each other if so fucking sad honestly

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

🙌🏽 standards are in the toilet for them clearly

[@Eirud]

"Reserving intimacy until marriage." Great, so you're marrying a guy who is literally only your friend. Neither of them did anything beyond just being a homie with someone. No touching, no physical exploration, no deeper connection, just hanging out and talking like friends and they're proud as shit of that lol. Hell, even homies are more intimate than these two with their friends.

[@Random-sk6hm]

Fr I'm a straight guy and kiss my homies on the lips sometimes (this is not sarcasm)

[@slerkij]

@@Random-sk6hm Honestly this seems pretty sweet to me.

[@Random-sk6hm]

@@slerkij Thanks we just being free and not taking anything too seriously

[@user-jr6cw3un9n]

plot twist: the husbands are cheating and theyre dating eachother

[@carot2592]

thats beautiful

[@thevagabond1314]

Natalie Emerson that’s an actual rumour

[@ronikasassy1376]

Oh shit!

[@user-ih7wi6kj8n]

yo the husbands together would be way better lol

[@BigBallJerry]

That's what I was thinking! I'm gay and know

[@kimbytricia]

those men wouldn’t kiss them until marriage bc they were too busy kissing each other

[@Ludwig_Perpenhente]

No because both their husbands were gays

[@Ludwig_Perpenhente]

@Genocide is fun I know I just deepened the plothole

[@Ludwig_Perpenhente]

@Genocide is fun use Depth Strider boots

[@Ludwig_Perpenhente]

@Genocide is fun np

[@minsasa1786]

Omg 😂😂

[@lorianabanana6066]

I was just rewatching this and realized the book the read must be 'I Kissed Dating Goodbye' by Joshua Harris. Fun fact: He deconverted and is no longer Christain. Or married. I think his ex deconverted too. Joshua also apologized to all the people he w his book. Including tons of LGBT+ people, women & girls who had purity culture forced onto them, all the people who lost family/community when they couldn't live up to these crazy standards, and many couples who didn't know they had zero chemistry until after they married. The whole purity culture thing is incredibly disgusting & has hurt so many people. Wonder if Girl Defined will ever apologize for the people they hurt. Doubt it. Not only are they nowhere near as honest as Joshua Harris, but all their money is tied up in their Xtian Woman* bullsh^t.

[@Damsel_in_This_Dress]

It definitely is that book. His ex-wife Shannon is on Instagram and has written a book that's being released next year. From what she has said, it sounds like she has been through an experience that resulted in depression, and is currently going through therapy. Purity culture was so damaging and unhealthy. Even if you didn't support the extreme views, it was so far-reaching in Christian circles it was almost impossible to avoid it, with people publishing books about it right, left and centre; Rebecca St James singing 'Wait For Me', Christian rock band BarlowGirl comparing themselves to Sleeping Beauty who is waiting for her prince charming in the song 'Average Girl' ('No more dating/I'm just waiting'), and purity contracts included at the end of Melody Carlson's 'Diary of A Teenage Girl' book series. Fun fact: the BarlowGirl sisters were also big fans of Joshua Harris' book, and they too had a strict no-dating/no kissing philosophy very similar to GD, which shows that actually, GD are not the first to speak out about it. But only one of the 3 BarlowGirl sisters have married, the other 2 are apparently still single, so the no dating thing obviously didn't work out very well for them.

[@dharmallars]

@@Damsel_in_This_DressI’m so confused by that lol. How do you get married without dating? Did they just tell their parents to find a nice guy and arrange a marriage?

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

He wasn’t the only one to blame for purity culture though.. he was brainwashed by it he didn’t create it. There’s A LOT more people to blame other than poor Josh Harris… I consider him a victim as well too. Still spouting this nonsense past the age of 20 is the really diabolical part of all this. And I’m all for chastity and imitating the stoics IF you want that. I’m just not down for people shaming a couple for like, touching eachother sometimes 😳 also dating is the best way to get to know someone and see how’d they’d be in an intimate relationship.. yeah maybe you don’t need to have sex but you should at least see how they are romantically as opposed to like, one of your bros

[@sydsymptoms]

"that's me unfolding my Bible" will never not make me die laughing

[@autumnrashleigh8392]

At my Christian cousin’s wedding, when the pastor said “You may now kiss the bride”, there was an awkward pause and then they hugged... 😫

[@JaneDoe-kx3yz]

W H A T

[@penguin3456]

Autumn Rashleigh just imagining that made me cringe into the next life

[@Ollearonsson]

you cant be serious!? 😟

[@lololauren55]

Bullshit.

[@JudyTheAlien]

I just had to like this for the even 200

[@sereinity6684]

*Why I waited 9 years to acknowledge my children*

[@drhaxx7425]

*Laughs in Dynastic politics*

[@doctorjungla599]

Savage

[@brookswilson8493]

“I had to wait to feed my newborn for 3 days and you know it just brought us closer. I had to know if my baby only wanted me or my fifth juice” 😂😂😂

[@zero_s]

I had to make sure that the kid want Me and not just gonna drink milk from other mom or cows

[@sawyercrowe2563]

*Dad?*

[@phantomsearcher2.92]

"Both of our boyfriends were perfectly fine with not kissing or having sex at all until we're married. In fact they were ecstatic about it!" Wow! congrats on having asexual boyfriends I'm sure the wedding night will be amazing

[@Mypenisissmallbut]

Ikr what’s the flex in saying your BOYFRIEND/HUSBAND isn’t sexually attracted to you?

[@Travigameis]

Actually they have gay boyfriends, they both went through 'conversion therapy'

[@icu3869]

I never understood how closeted gay men ended up married- now I finally see.

[@spirre2780]

@@Travigameis To be fair this breaks my heart

[@noone-gf5op]

Noel: "you hear that?" *paper crumpling* "that's me unfolding my bible" girl defines just had some god honoring tinglings

[@WilliamStroker]

Plot twist: Noel and Cody are the husbands

[@archiesanders6156]

😂😂

[@rayjay7666]

Plot twist

[@giannakelly2011]

Is that even a plot twist

[@sosa6382]

Wtf I swear imagine

[@boywhatdahellboy764]

ah ah ah... Mr. Unsaved

[@ringrust8308]

Y’know what’s romantic? Not displaying affection for the person you love.

[@malpractice3542]

Their exact philosophy 👀

[@dontmindme5207]

No, not even acknowledging the person you love unless they do some sort of extremely complicated mating dance for at least fifteen minutes. Then, they only get 33.34 seconds to tell you what they need to.

[@michaelwatkins7809]

Lmao

[@arke4936]

👁️👄👁️

[@evelynhentschel1248]

@@dontmindme5207 i'm sorry i'm very stupid but i don't understand what this comment is trying to say

[@SolidSapphire1018]

It is so funny rewatching this after finding out that they weren't even attracted to their husbands when they married them. PROBABLY MADE WAITING A WHOLE LOT EASIER HUH? LMAO

[@MaxxSuri76]

WHAT

[@darkiepoo8949]

a girl kissed me in 9th grade. we didnt know shit about each other even after talking for a week on AIM. we agreed to meet up. she just went at me with full tongue diving and robotic jaw movement for like 2 mins and i'm not sure either of us were attracted to each other. i imagine that's what bethany experienced on her honeymoon, except with full on existentrial dread that maybe her future together with this other purity cultist will be a sham and they'll be forced to make it work for the rest of their lives.

[@runfunmc64]

Who else is waiting until marriage for their first hug

[@mandarinablue8438]

😏 that's naughty tho

[@angeleyecelestial1897]

I refuse to have sex until after I have my first child.

[@Professor-8]

But they still fuck

[@sammyloehnis3373]

😎😎😎

[@wyattthelen4856]

I’m waiting ‘till marriage to hold hands for the first time

[@maireadhudson6523]

Next from girl defined: why I waited until we had kids to have sex

[@nickegofficial]

This was fucking hilarious. And I want you to know I bust out laughing reading it.

[@shannonranalli8688]

omfg ahaaa

[@maireadhudson6523]

nickegofficial you’re welcome lmao

[@EngineeredTruth]

Mairead Hudson this is gold

[@carbearr6093]

nickegofficial has

[@irawoayoolagbaiye9217]

Personally, I think there's nothing wrong with waiting until marriage for kissing, if its what they want to do then so be it, but their approach abt it is so off. They are so focused on the "purity" aspect of Christianity, when its so impossible for us to all be as pure as they want us to be. We saw this same mindset with the types of guy girls shouldn't date, they wanted the perfect man who is so godly and perfect they aren't even allowed to struggle with sin. It's just bothersome to me abt their approach to Christianity, it's rlly should be all about accepting the lord as their savior and putting the best effort to show so, not if they are perfect in doing so.

[@aguywithalotofopinions412]

Pretty hypocritical too since Jesus was all about forgiving sinners and not expecting people to be perfect

[@FatimaCastro-mk1qg]

You’re very right, focusing on purity so much is being religious. Trying to “be so pure” is like tricking yourself into thinking im pure enough to be a good Christian. When no christian will ever be good enough God’s grace is the only thing that will ever be enough to purify us. Just because you’re not intimate with a prospective spouse doesn’t mean you haven’t sinned sexually. Jesus literally says if you lust for someone in your heart you have already sinned. My point is I agree with you!

[@alexsw2967]

Who besides me is currently doing the rewatch of thats cringe?

[@anacom4238]

Me

[@rachellvideos]

Me

[@ashleyhall6098]

I want them to do another video on Girl Defined now that Bethany's husband is deconstructing

[@eva-ru6nj]

so they’re basically like a middle school couple who only holds hands and awkwardly hugs...

[@oogle6314]

I’m in middle school and this extremely accurate

[@daffyphack]

except in most middle school couples, the boy actually likes the girl

[@serendipitygate9223]

daffyphack there are a number of gay boys dating girls in middle school tho

[@coochiemonster2537]

I didn't like those people

[@tristanchaplin392]

@@oogle6314 don't worry, those relationships only last like 2 minutes

[@Troyman1108]

Girl defined is gonna tell their kids that they have to wait until marriage to have a boyfriend

[@FRSTBYTESyearsago]

Wait-

[@r0ttinggutz]

IM DEAD

[@AJ-kk9xi]

That is if they ever have kids, who knows how long they'll wait to have sex with their husbands

[@karisjoy5348]

I-

[@karisjoy5348]

@That One hahahahah

[@potatoskin5168]

Waiting to do everything until marriage seems to be overwhelming... I remember my first time doing physical stuff, it was so overwhelming and having to do all at once seems so stressful. Also you don't know what's good or shit so you're setting yourself up to failure

[@_letstartariot]

Agreed. When you do it as you naturally feel you want it, it’s usually staggered out. You do all the bases. I’m married now (for 4 years), but I’ve been with my husband since we were 14. It’s so much less intimidating taking things slowly. I can imagine their wedding nights would be full of fear, instead of celebration and relaxation with your new husband. They make physical activity, it’s escalation and sex the sole focus of that night/holiday too, cos they’ve waited so long that they’re desperate. So if it ain’t The Best™️, their entire view of sex becomes warped. Waiting to kiss? That’s just..

[@dharmallars]

Exactly. Like, the whole idea is waiting until you’re ready. Then on the day of your wedding you’re supposed to be magically prepared and ready for all of it at once?

[@loreleiblakemore3801]

Has anyone gone and watched their first kiss since this video? It was so horribly awkward, and exactly as Noel and Cody described it… too funny 😂

[@lakshitadidwania2251]

OMG LINK SEND ill die lauging lmao

[@rabbitsfoot33]

My favorite thing is Cody not knowing where Noel is going with a joke but then busting out laughing when he realizes

[@Skipper1170]

No comments yet so i want u to see ur likes

[@nazaine1764]

Here lemme comment something

[@aafloofy]

I noticed that too that’s so hilarious 😂🤣🤣

[@stsalty1788]

Dad sad mad lad tad had pad rad bad

[@janetheteach]

You guys are hilarious! The editing is good too. 😂😘😘

[@goodness3961]

girl defined: why i waited until marriage to take off my clothes in the shower.

[@theguywhoasked2016]

“Why I was isolated from society in a commune of Christian women to avoid finding out men exist until I got married”

[@is.a.bell.a8700]

@@theguywhoasked2016 Yours sounds like the title of one of those youtube animated stories lmao

[@acissej821]

I literally had a super catholic friend that would take off her clothes when she was in already in shower because seeing her own naked body gave her “impure” thoughts....like girl GIRL

[@pewdieyay5579]

@@acissej821 the fuck 😂 thats sexual frustration on a whole different level

[@imanidavis8976]

@@acissej821 that's hilarious 😂

[@emmagracecarter8771]

in an exact opposite experience, i had my first kiss topless, with a girl, in the backseat of a jetta

[@luisahomura8527]

This is literally the coolest thing ive ever read

[@kyon-kyon-]

do you want people to clap or something cuz it was a lesbian thing? talk about seeking attention.

[@tonygluk1]

@@kyon-kyon- It's relevant to the "exact opposite experience" part, and honestly is pretty sweet and funny when put side by side with dont-kiss-before-marriage folks.

[@peeman_jenkins]

@@kyon-kyon-☝️🤓 womp womp

[@alaskawashington]

shockingly, i do know one couple who waited to kiss until their wedding day (and idk about the husband but that was actually the wife’s first kiss ever) and they are still super happy and have like 4 kids who aren’t little anymore but the parents have been married for decades and still killin it haha. I definitely don’t think it’s for everyone but ig if that works for you and your spouse more power to ya right!?

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

If it works… great, nbd. But the preachiness is what gets to people

[@accooper1994]

“You hear that? That’s me unfoldin my bible. 😩💦🤙🏻📖”

[@Kerrviii]

abbey christine girl.

[@Chi-bj2ob]

Got me wet

[@sjespiritu5421]

"Baby, I wanna have a three-way: The Father, The Son, and The Holy Spirit"

[@ulmerpark5079]

Hahahahaha

[@merciful9114]

Abbey Christine 👀

[@blaireprince3709]

her: my husband was COMPLETELY on board ....well considering he’s gay

[@emma-di5ly]

That's a rumor

[@sydneyprather8668]

Emma he went to gay conversion therapy. They spoke about it in a video.

[@emma-di5ly]

Sydney Prather Right, the video that was “deleted due to backlash.” Why isn’t there a single clip online? SOMEBODY would have recorded it, you could find it in a quick Google search. The other video that people cite has no mention of it whatsoever, only one person speculating in the comment section of the livestream. Not a single reliable source has said it. I looked everywhere. The only people I’ve seen talk about it are in KZbin comments, Reddit, or Tumblr. The Holy Trinity of reliable sources, no? If you can link me to a reliable source with evidence that it’s true, I’ll believe you, but until then, I’m certain that it’s a rumor. I’m not trying to be rude, I’m just trying to slow the spread of harmful rumors.

[@mc-eg6kj]

@@emma-di5ly kzbin.info/www/bejne/d3XNo5V-d9WYr5Y the reason why their isn't that many clips is probably cuz no one wants to watch the hour long vid but here u go

[@mc-eg6kj]

@@emma-di5ly the first 40 seconds you'll see him crack a gay joke lol

[@ashleyhall6098]

Now that Dav is deconstructing, you could do another video

[@fpengelbrecht9314]

It's so sad to see someone trying SO hard to convince themselves that they are ok with what they're doing. 😒😒😒 Wait till she wants kids and realizes what she's gonna have to give her husband in order to get pregnant 😂😂😂😂😂

[@aunicorn3812]

*"I haven't even met my husband yet. He's a penpal"* 💀💀💀💀

[@angelah6671]

I read that as he said that, omg this keeps happening

[@kina176]

lolol

[@Jezcassar]

got.nothing.toulouse shit like that keeps happening to me to it’s weird

[@Ryan-rd5lq]

got.nothing.toulouse wtf all the time

[@Firegirl483]

Omg I have a friend who literally did this except she met him once 😷

[@sparksflylove]

This isn’t even Christianity, they’ve created an entire new religion

[@MsBhappy]

tbf all christian sects/branches could be considered entirely new religions from the previous ones. History and human evolution are wack. Religion is man-made stupidity created to control the masses.

[@hawyee1162]

@@MsBhappy exactly

[@pickleioi9058]

They literally have a cult. Like if two of their followers that were dating kissed before marriage they’d be sacrificed to Jesus and God in front of everybody.

[@or9422]

Turbo-Christianity

[@Spoon80085]

@@MsBhappy Calm down there, pardner you went full commie on us for a second

[@49perfectss]

Fun fact: her new husband Dave is not just struggling with the fact that he is gay (according to him and her) but also deconstructing his religion and doesn't believe in her cult anymore..... 😂😂😂😂😂

[@pariscriticos8290]

beards marrying beards. a relationship with no intimacy for 3 years might as well be a friendship

[@itskayla9735]

She did a LITERAL U TURN

[@libramerc]

It's Kayla *LITERALLY* A U-TURN

[@emilye7710]

It's Kayla *LIKE LITERALLY AN aCtUaL U TURN!!*

[@Gman1998]

a *LITERAL* u-turn she is so wild and crazy!

[@schlubenno3827]

“I’ve never even met my husband, he’s a pen pal.” I love Cody.

[@gavinosullivan2268]

1000th like hah

[@cashen7384]

cody is a goat

[@elizabethdesruisseau7826]

That part was so funny lol

[@dreadrington2449]

Take four years to know her personality?! I looked at a cross wall in a beige house for three seconds and I know her entire soul.

[@bwang4005]

The way Cody and Noel build off of each other's jokes/comedy is top fuckin tier

[@zangor3005]

So, these two just married some deep closeted gay men, right?

[@thenewborker8695]

Unironically, yes

[@thatonedog819]

At least one is...

[@yoda5436]

bel pet yeah the other one is just psychotic

[@Zimzamzoom95]

Jackson Schrickel yeah, one was a gay conversion "success"

[@GauravGRocks]

@@Zimzamzoom95 They actually sent him twice and now he's a "success"

[@talic-os5899]

Imagine your whooole family witnessing your very first kiss.

[@elizabethholden1810]

I was cringing at that idea too.

[@Laiese1]

Omg didn't think about that

[@notethanstone2465]

In my religion, literally happens all the time

[@katc2040]

Not Ethan Stone weird asf

[@notethanstone2465]

Kit Kat . Idk, it’s not weird to me anymore

[@katjosephperez8772]

Imagine what it must have felt like to be 7 years behind your sister in marriage and KISSING, and then sit there and have your sister brag about the past 7 years for another 7 years

[@Lizzie-ve7kt]

Can we PLEASE get a part 3?

[@vi5129]

damn i didnt know that meghan trainor was this conservative....

[@daniellat2151]

stop

[@squirreldemon3506]

Don't stop

[@selinmelin]

LMFAAOOOO

[@thomasvail5018]

@@Super-wx6br That was.. so fuckin stupid.

[@DiabolicalButler]

she looks like meghan trainor in 'hocus pocus' kathy najimi makeup

[@bashergoals5045]

“Why I waited until I had my first child to have sex”

[@mancool391]

What type of logic is that?

[@guysunderthecity6126]

😂

[@Dextursmage]

man cool 3 watch Jane the virgin

[@hadleygregg4369]

man cool 3 Christian logic

[@benblanc2483]

Gold

[@cozycasasmr4510]

Still watching this on a regular basis in 2023 this video never gets old to me

[@angiadcock8196]

All jokes aside, this kind of purity programming is actually very damaging to young people, especially women. You grow up very uneducated about and ashamed of your own body. I honestly feel bad for these women. Yes this video is funny and goofy but I genuinely hope that their marriages are not negatively impacted by this purity garbage.

[@Unknown-om3hh]

I can relate to that

[@dharmallars]

Genuinely, I wonder how many girls entrenched in purity culture grew up with yeast infections, improper feminine hygiene, or even symptoms of ovarian cancer and had no idea because they think even washing your vagina in the shower is ungodly, let alone looking at it.

[@myguy2714]

I’m actually waiting until marriage to date

[@audreyblythe3616]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@laraibaziz1978]

*islam has entered the chat* (from a muslim by the way😂)

[@isabellaarnold4025]

ItzNotMyGuy as you should

[@mau6068]

ItzNotMyGuy 😂😂

[@rubykgarrett]

I'VE BEEN LAUGHING AT YOUR COMMENT FOR WAY TOO LONG

[@Kayy1aXo]

You need to do another video on them SHES LITERALLY PREGNANT

[@Alienpromqueen]

She had her baby

[@millsrome]

I checked on them just now, they have all these videos on being single like "Feeling worthless without a boyfriend", "How to resist sexual temptation" and "When your sex-drive feels like a burden" What this stupid girls made themselves go trough... that's their choice but trying to get other young impressionable girls to do the same makes them despicable in my book

[@josuepena8284]

@@millsrome totally

[@rohitiyer926]

Kayla Keigan sounds like a Mr Struggle to me

[@momoz1]

I need quarantine videos

[@BentaclesK]

as someone who works at lush i can confirmed she is dressed up like an off broadway rose gold bathbomb

[@EloiseGraham-ku6gq]

This is my comfort video

[@daniela4695]

1:20 “welcome back this is moses and ezekiel” TOOK ME TF OUT

[@gabrielvilla6274]

daniela s 😂

[@gracelynjones7017]

You hit that 666 likes 💀💀💀

[@Rubboat]

What about Abraham and issac?

[@NightPear]

rat madame

[@Rheper.]

sameeee

[@ErikBarthoMedia]

Who else is waiting until marriage for their first handshake

[@schmerpyderp]

Erik Bartho i’m waiting until marriage for my first words to the other person

[@justinjohnson3615]

Alex E STOPPP PLEASEEEE😭😭😂😂

[@floop1538]

I am still waiting to meet them until marriage

[@RandomSwiftie13]

I'm waiting till my first marriage to actually meet the guy! Edit: and I'm a lesbian

[@floop1538]

@@RandomSwiftie13 holy shit brings a tear to my eye not saying I am mister struggle or anything tho cause then I will go to hell

[@naina4288]

almost forgot to watch this today

[@chatman4998]

Me too

[@Allyjoe321]

I was having a super shitty day and needed a laugh so I came back to watch these years later and I’m crying laughing. Thank you for turning my mood around 😂

[@emiliaglover210]

Next girl defined: Why I waited to HUG my own children.

[@chelseabourdo4768]

Emilia Glover damn I’m literally laughin

[@kayleewilliams5574]

@@chelseabourdo4768 *dang* we are people of GOD no cursing lol

[@arianebrochu2223]

Men she's gonna die virgin she won't have kids

[@chelseabourdo4768]

Kaylee Williams yes. But every child of God has said damn. It’s in the Bible😂

[@thatpotato7166]

Emilia Glover cHiLdReN??

[@ausername5410]

I've never even seen myself naked--I'm waiting until marriage 😌✌️

[@samahissimplistic]

Showering with a blindfold must be fun lol

[@jaanasyme4957]

There are dozens of us! Dozens!

[@dylanrodrigues]

Did Tobias Funke from Arrested Development write this comment

[@tieacherrycl]

why it smell like old tacos in here doe

[@hj665]

😂😂😂😂

[@crazyahhhoe]

i rewatch this video when i’m sad. it’s cheered me up everytime for 2 years now 😭

[@eggmon420]

Idk about you guys but my first kiss wasn’t great. It was probably so underwhelming after waiting 30 years for it.

[@ash-fc2fw]

“why i waited until marriage to make eye contact”

[@brittnismith5997]

This works so well with your profile pic haha

[@roqu0794]

Why I waited to marriage to meet my husband

[@Chiara-fm1ty]

"why I waited untill marriage to encounter a human of the opposite sex"

[@chealsea6975]

Chiara LMFAOO

[@bluedog4754]

why i waited until marriage ask what my husband's name is

[@howmanysubscriberscanigetw1600]

Why I waited for my first kiss until I was pregnant

[@angelofscorpio]

💀💀💀

[@elizabethtomlinson867]

hold up

[@katy4468]

Wait a second-

[@scvlogs6556]

How many subscribers can I get with no videos!? and I oop-

[@crazyrooster3274]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sushi4626]

9:30 bro i love how noel smacked cody's hand

[@lotusmaar1236]

I’m having a shitty day, rewatching this master piece is making everything better. Thanks ♥️

[@Jjeeenskuu]

We don't want a part 3, we NEED it.

[@elizabethdesruisseau7826]

Lol about their husbands bc they def aren't straight but they're forced into a marriage with these girls :/

[@frosty_teacup]

Elizabeth DesRuisseau i feel sorry for all 4 of them tbh

[@elizabethdesruisseau7826]

@@frosty_teacup same here :/

[@abbym2513]

What I wanna see the girldefined people react. I really REALLY need to see this. No we all MUST see it.

[@therustedknight1382]

Please

[@lucastube5594]

I’ve decided to not look my gf in the eyes until we’re married hope y’all accept and respect my choices

[@Eli-of5ey]

What will you be looking at

[@mretlan8528]

Oh you're going easy mode I'm not going meet my wife until we get married

[@ronikasassy1376]

Mr Etlan sooo arranged marriage?

[@peepeemonster27]

ive decided to not date til im married.

[@user-pr6pb2hf4i]

Fuckin poor bleach on the woman's pupals

[@JennaBomb]

Just stumbled across this channel and subscribed within the first 5 minutes and I'm LMMFAOOOOOO thank you both! I needed to laugh this hard bad!!!

[@imSkrap]

Cody and Noels videos never get boring no matter how much you watch them, the girls look like they actually dislike each other too

[@cartermacewen3086]

Imagine waiting 7 years just to find out your husband is a bad kisser

[@bararobberbaron859]

To be fair, how would you know? Statistically the first time is the best time because there's no comparing.

[@aggressivelyamicable5987]

@@bararobberbaron859 What kind of stupid ass argument is that? If my first proctologist comes in the room and stabs me in the asshole with a shank I'd damn well know he's doing it wrong. The implication that you can only determine things from direct experience is asinine.

[@yunki_]

@@aggressivelyamicable5987 I can't stop laughing at the first part help-

[@lar.8168]

@@bararobberbaron859 The first guy I kissed was an awful kisser and I knew that immediately because I knew he wasn't supposed to eat my chin

[@bararobberbaron859]

@@aggressivelyamicable5987 While I appreciate the picture you paint there, it's nice and vivid, thank you. I do however think there's a difference between a kiss being too slow/wet or with too much tongue and like a comment below you said, eating the chin. That is more comparable to a proctologist that maybe uses too little lube or a larger dimension tube than required or pushing it in too fast. You have some expectations, and yes, shanking is a dead giveaway it's not going as intended. Knowing what a kiss is =/= knowing what a good kiss is, that's something you have to experience. Seems like a decent argument to me.

[@clairewuito9917]

Imagine her fiance just trying to kiss her and she just pulls A LITERAL U-TURN to escape

[@godacir2212]

notsonormal girl I think it would be the other way around, since her husband is, how I like to call him, mr.secretlygay

[@elizabethdesruisseau7826]

😂 😂

[@risasunshine4078]

🤣

[@SapphireRaichu]

In the middle of the road.

[@clairewuito9917]

@@SapphireRaichu like Jason statham

[@broccolionswag]

those videos never get old oh my god

[@nicolenotizieeamici]

I stumbled upon these two before and I am obsessed already with them!! God I never laughed so much with cringe videos!

[@jaysahunter256]

Bethany: Hey before we start dating I just wanted to let you know that I’m waiting until marriage to kiss Her gay ass husband: Bummer 😢😢😢😭😭😭😩😩😩

[@OFFICIALLYTRIGGERED]

*lmfao "gay ass husband" that's true tho*

[@musics4me]

Her husband looks like a theater gay too! No further questions

[@dsauce93]

im fucking dead dude

[@shayjegaruban7879]

@@jenniesis he went TWICE

[@gp2671]

Bethany's husband did kiss people before he met her; it just happened to be dudes.

[@Sarah-mi9mm]

being quarantined has brought me back to this iconic video

[@arandomuser9459]

Sarah Yeah pretty much same.

[@kaym1040]

Same

[@nataliyanabakova7419]

lmao me too. i'm coping by binge-watching that's cringe

[@peytonkennedy3038]

ayo same

[@shaylahuynh9586]

Sarah same

[@polak97]

I think this is my favorite video on the internet, I keep coming back to it. I must have watched it at least 20 times

[@ashleighbaugh9839]

I saw this when it first came out, coming back around binge watching Cody and Noel.. I miss them doing reaction videos together like this.. anyway.. can you imagine pretty much just edging for like 9 years? Damn, them dudes are tough.

[@dystoniacdiaries]

That was my thought!!!