Unpacking Addiction, Finding Yourself and Our Strict Girlfriend rules with

[@Thatohatsiiiiiiiiiii]

One thing about Caiah, she is always comfortable and cozy here. What a healthy work environment. Big ups to the big boss Thato🎀

[@CaiahM]

Thato is the best boss ever ! I’ve got my feet on his couch and everything 😂😂😂

[@MoetK21]

We want Lebo with the girls too please🥲🥲🥲

[@JachinDitle]

I agree with Caiah's second strict rule. I don't want anyone to know about our relationship😂I don't want to meet your mom or cousins unless we are engaged. That's valid

[@lindiwegama412]

Well first ( correct me if I'm wrong pls) it is against the bible to have a partner who's not christian when you are Christian.( 2 Corinthians 6:14) It is just not good for your spiritual life and will eventually bleed into all aspects of your life but I'm glad you recognize that Caiah. Also thank you for being a Christian girly who's so real and relatable, it's so refreshing. I agree with Mpho about the example of a Christian who is addicted to pornography correcting other christians on lust because for the fact that you would be aware of their addiction it means they are seeking help and like Paul they are dying to their flesh everyday as long as they are correcting you and not judging you, you can both help each and hold each other accountable. Great episode as always guys. Very knowledgeable and eye opening ❤

[@esethumthembu8935]

Wonderful❤

[@Botse_Maaboi]

Editor please THE PINK SPARKLES 😭

[@nkosazanatshabalala2711]

Broo😭😭

[@elli-t]

liked how Mpho was so appreciative of her healthy relationship and how she is proud to have a partner 👌

[@liisaimmanuel]

Caiah Is such a smart girl, she really knows how to speak, her body language, posture, everytime she speaks I immediately want to listen.

[@liisaimmanuel]

I'm so glad that Caiah is being honest and transparent about being a Christian and dating a Muslim. I'm not for it but coming from someone who asked the question last week, thank you for answering and addressing the topic and being so transparent about it.

[@tananow499]

Is the guy knownnn?

[@seipati_]

​@@tananow499 Isn't King Omar?

[@rosemah]

Caiah is in the coziest outfit. 🥰😂

[@CaiahM]

Well I tell you I was COMFORTABLE 😭😭😂

[@kattsomething]

Caiah is just like me. As my partner, I don't want to meet/know your friends or family until we're going to be engaged to marry.

[@CaiahM]

Yebboooo💃🏾💃🏾

[@dineovalencia]

I also agree but I had a situation with my bf where he introduced me to his family, I told him that let it be us for now before anybody else because i don't want pressure for either of us but he said he felt the need to in order for me to see that he is serious about me and his parents told him that he should only come with a girl only when he sees a future with them...

[@pilisapiliso9647]

I love Caiah so much, she debunks so many religion norms ! She is ssooo open about how ones real walk with God truly is

[@CaiahM]

Ugh man, this walk is so difficult. And I want nothing more than to be an example that God carries us through it ALL. No matter how difficult, confusing or destabilising a season is. I’m so glad you received this❤️

[@mballynkosi6518]

This channel has beautiful conversations! Thought digest and Seated are beautiful shows. I always learn and reflect almost every episode! Love, love the content Thato!❤️❤️

[@newangotsopeng3926]

i high high high key miss the pink shining stars when a new topic is introduced😪

[@CaiahM]

We’re gonna confront the editor fr fr 😭😭

[@naomimwikali6329]

I love how you've represented Christ without fear or shame, I enjoy listening to your update and progression on your relationship with God. On Caiahs' relationship with a Muslim, I think the bible is clear on being equally yoked and the reason you're finding it difficult to post as usual could be a conviction from the Holy Spirit. Being with a Muslim is difficult since the basis of Christianity is Jesus being the saviour and that's what they don't agree so their faith discredit everything about your faith. Talk to God about it though, He will guide you as always😊

[@itsjustmpho5978]

Caiah, your bravery and openness to talk about real issues and relate them to yours is so inspiring❤.........you go in girl

[@sibusisiwemabusela7330]

Smart young group of people, my heart is full ❤

[@liisaimmanuel]

I love the way Mpho reasons and the way she's such an open minded person, I love it🤍

[@ethichadebe]

This is a tough pod to listen to, this is a very uncomfortable but extremely necessary conversation, thank you guys for this

[@lebontshweng7472]

Mpho is so smart, I agree with her on the genetics part about substance addiction and one being susceptible to it if let's say a fam member was or is addicted

[@Prince_Haremgard]

I so want a seated with lebo and thato rampedi please thatoooo!!!

[@thotoaneramakhula9140]

I hear the friends chat. But truth be told, seeing your man with his friend reveals a lot about him, I am 50-50 with that one😅

[@CaiahM]

Actually🤔🤔

[@mphorakodi7347]

Caiah's Second strict rule used to be my number 1 strict rule. 😭😭 very reasonable though!!!

[@liisaimmanuel]

Thank you for joining us this week Thato, thank you for being so open and transparent.

[@RizzMedalion]

As a gent that pour a bit too much when I'm with a partner I can relate to where Thato is rn and I'm also on that journey of loving and appreciating myself lately. It's always tough at the beginning because of limerence but it gets easier as you go. Big s/o to you bro and s/o to the ladies dope pod, keep em coming.

[@kekeletsolicela5961]

This was such a good episode !!!! Thato must come back

[@karabolepheana7657]

If someone is going to cheat on you they will, it doesn't matter if you have rules, have access to their devices, curfews, etc. Unfortunately a relationship is a risk, can't runaway from that🤷‍♂️ some risks pay off and some don't 😊

[@nnonhle341]

Thoroughly enjoyed this episode. Also learned a few things. Thanks guys!

[@lerevofficial4683]

Caiah dont switch..i know its easier said than done..praying for you❤

[@Lerato_Makgati]

Your outfits are jelling together guys🔥🔥❤

[@CaiahM]

Unplanned too😂😂

[@lethabolekalakala6652]

this was such a wholesome episode . thank you ladies 💕💕

[@KwaneleSikhosana....]

My addiction is that I am always on my phone form the time I open my eyes till I close them.The reason for that is like I am always on my thoughts which result in getting sleepless nights so I am on my phone till I get tired and also my phone is my bestie cause that's where you will find me laughing and happy cause I can't stay with people for too long

[@loideuuzigo697]

Same 😢 and for me it's because I stay alone most of the time. I'm unemployed and depressed and I treat my phone as as escape goat from reality . It's not good but that's just my life 🥺

[@KwaneleSikhosana....]

@loideuuzigo697 I hope you find a job that you will be excited about and also find some podcast or show in KZbin space that can keep you laughing and help you in a way❤️love and light

[@loideuuzigo697]

@@KwaneleSikhosana.... thank you so much ☺️

[@LethoMbonane]

I thought I was crazy for not wanting to meet family and friends while I’m still a girlfriend 😭😭, there is NO need

[@CaiahM]

No need whatsoeverrrrr😭 Then I get super attached unnecessarily

[@rock_y-y5w]

I do think the equally yoked chat wasn’t mentioned when Thato asked the question of dating outside of Christian faith

[@lethuvinindwa2597]

First-time watcher here. I'm definitely coming for more, very informed and informative convo👌👌

[@NeoTshoagang-yq1wh]

I love you Caiah and Mpho❤

[@CaiahM]

We love you too !!

[@shammahshirinda4280]

Mr editor sir, please give us our sparkles hle😢

[@lwazee3]

What an interesting conversation. And I feel you Caiah on struggling to encourage people in the faith while you are struggling, fighting for your life 😂😂. I can relate. And we will only be perfect in the next life so by that thinking we will never be fit enough to spread the gospel. The honesty and taking what you're struggling with to Christ are key (in my opninion). However, it is in fact in the bible that we should not be unequally yoked with non believers (and believing being believing Jesus Christ is Lord). It sucks. It's hard. It's hurt dying to myself and picking up that cross more than once because I have to choose between love and Jesus, it has to be Jesus every time. And they were great guys.

[@SibsM93]

Thee best Thought Digest episode ever!!! By far!

[@nokhwezikhumalo3970]

Neeeee❤

[@kumkanikazi.27]

Word

[@natasha.kafumbe]

Every week I am here. This podcast is everything and more

[@Thatohatsiiiiiiiiiii]

Caiah with the friends and family chat? She cooked. I don't want to love your family too much, then when it ends I'm attached to your family because I come from a toxic and now you've introduced me to your healthy family. Now I find reason to stay in a toxic relationship. No thank you

[@mokhantsoletsela]

I'd love to hear the three of you talk about attachment styles

[@ofentsemorobe]

Very informative and delightful episode❤ got to learn a few things about myself and also I took away quite a lot of things.you guys are an inspiration

[@Mr_Munene]

First time I’ve sat through an entire episode cause I mostly watch seated.. equally an amazing time🤞🏿

[@pitutie_girl]

Finally, yall uploaded on time. I was soo excited when i saw the drop ❤

[@Yandie425]

I love the bond 🥺❤️

[@neonation6801]

very informative on addiction❣i will definetly FORGIVE myself💓💓💓💓💓💓

[@HeatherChifamba]

This is my favourite episode so far ❤❤keep blessing us guys

[@wakunyambomwalusi6484]

On the live location part, Caiah and I are literally the same please 😭🤣

[@CaiahM]

😭😭we know ourselves. We’ll drive ourselves crazy

[@pilisapiliso9647]

the way i was so excited and expectant to see the pink sparkles

[@WetsoMogorosi]

and is like "iyoo"😂😂😂❤i love Thato so much!!

[@walterwhite7976]

Nah that's enough seated with. I'm a Though Digest broer now 😭 I'm healed.

[@msrorisang]

When Mpho said “Thank God”😭❤️

[@delleuniverse2735]

First of all I loooove this podcast and this is constructive criticism coz I love y’all. Mami, I think you interrupt people when they try to get their point across, it used to happen to me a lot when I was talking to my friends and it’s a habit that I’m working on letting go and I think you should too. I get it , sometimes we’re so passionate within a conversation that we wanna add something immediately but I still think it’s good to learn the habit of controlling that❤️❤️

[@Geegee-r1n]

Thato is right, sometimes the opposite company is great even if you not dating.. Guys stop being too hard on yourselves! Sometimes as ladies when we go to clubs then guys just come chill with us we have a good time,part away after ,no messing around!thats how life is!

[@kut-words]

This is a great show! 😆I enjoyed this, especially the part when Mammi dearest looked at the camera on the "God and singleness" question part. 😄

[@siyethembamahaye9144]

That addiction topic got me like “Hi, I’m Kevin. I’m an addict.” 😅

[@rosemah]

Still no sparkles 😭

[@WetsoMogorosi]

Mpho's phone addiction is me😫👍🏽

[@loideuuzigo697]

I learn so much from this channel 🥺, i love and appreciate you guys soo much❤

[@dat_jiggy_kid]

please bring back the pink sparkles for the topic intro🥲

[@lekaka_le_brown]

Thank you guys for putting me on. Now I know to keep my data off for find my iPhone hun let it slip that she tracks me "sometimes"

[@vuyokazimjomle1323]

Thato is very diplomatic, the way he answers

[@user-ct3jq2ks3h]

This was really dope i really enjoyed it ,mostly the part about addiction And its sad that as gents we dont talking about how detrimental porn addiction can be to our mental health

[@dinelagomutota9240]

Caiah, can we please talk about how you couldn't hold it in about " I always date people who are nonchalant "😭😂

[@CaiahM]

😂😂I was instantly concerned

[@Imvubu.dablack]

Yoh I also love kissing hle I've dumped a lot of people because of that issue

[@Moeti2915]

When are the gents gonna get Seated with Lebo and Thato though❤🤲?

[@Shuzz_Production02]

Damn this is powerful. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@_Montlenyana22]

Beautiful episode guys! 🙏🏻❤️

[@NolwaziSibiya_]

FIRST THINGS FIRST, YOU GUYS LOOK GOOD AND THE COLOURS ARE COODINATING😍

[@user-cj2vc3fc8w]

I have not watched this in long time and it's like I was in therapy thato must come back more for bros please and bring Lebo also

[@ananihopes4364]

27:55 Thato: ‘A lot of people say, in different places, that I have a lot of female friends’. SPREADING HUMOURS come on here and catch your subbbbb😭

[@Botse_Maaboi]

I was like Chile spreading humors is now 'a lot of places'😂

[@Koko_Malema]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Anomthajaco]

"that's a real thing because our alcohol problem is deep" 🤣🤣 Mammi nhe

[@nokhwezikhumalo3970]

This is one of the best episodes touched down 😭♥️

[@thecelebriteagossip]

Can we have Lebo next😊

[@katlegophiri79]

Finally made the time to come watch 😊❤

[@kewaronaleseyane4384]

16:49 Corinthians6:14- DO NOT be yoked together with unbelievers…

[@vukonaanita9879]

“your saying bye to your husband?”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@snikiwezamazwide7566]

It's my first time here and I'm loving this❤❤❤

[@lindiweQueenFoko]

Enjoyed this,thank you guys!❤

[@Thabii_]

This episode was incredible! I loved it and found it so educational and relatable. Thank you much!

[@nzamafamily7nzama766]

Editor was like, “I ain’t doing that”😭😭😭

[@everybodyknowswhitey]

This was such an amazing episode man i loved it ♥🥰

[@dephneyramphisa6724]

Lovely episode

[@den.ii_se]

Does this mean we are getting an episode of seated with ?😭😭😭 it's been a month Thato

[@nkosazanatshabalala2711]

This was super informative as always ofcourse ❤

[@phographyandlife9932]

I truly relate to Mpho's addiction, Nd it's something that I need to work on because I'm always on my phone

[@Koko_Malema]

Caiah is so charming oh my😅

[@kabodithabe]

This was beautiful!!!

[@kabodithabe]

Thato must visit more often

[@masegomatiko636]

As a pedi man😂😂😂"your wife or your mum"

[@demberamel7197]

No because watching this came up with some life lessons ❤

[@thulzzz583]

I'm not a podcast person but I'm enjoying this❤

[@jessicakleinbooi7750]

Its always Mphos giggle for me 🤣🤣

[@rock_y-y5w]

Ngl and not that my opinion has value because I’m literally a stranger but when I saw Caiah date a Muslim…I found that a bit questionable.

[@SomeoneFirst-ef5op]

So vele thato is no longer with kamo , because he didn't mention her 😭

[@rosemah]

He said he’s rebranding though

[@faraichombela2966]

I know ryt and I kept hoping for him to confirm they are still together 😢..mara he kept using the past tense 😭

[@SibsM93]

That don't mean anything though

[@Geegee-r1n]

I think they broke up & im heart broken😢😢😢

[@ApheleleButhelezi-n5c]

they must read life of pie 🤣

[@vincentmacamo6301]

13:00 I believe before religion we are Humans and a Principle or base of Human intention should be placed as FIRST to create a family. you can't say I won't leave religion and deprive yourself of creating a family. and this is the mistake alot of people make, its something everyone should learn from our elders when a woman is married by a Man she leaves her church and joins the Mans, you can choose what to submit on and what not to submit on. relationship is not that hence alot fail because people create double standards.

[@user-zg8xz5jy9g]

@mammi dearest please try to give others an opportunity to fully express their points before interjecting them. Otherwise this was an amazing episode, I learnt a lot❤️

[@GRACEMADUMO]

I love seated with to be honest ...

[@JoyLutangu]

Seated is the top on the list❤❤

[@shashat.w.o7497]

I can relate with Thato a good kiss feels like heaven