So @BritisherPaz you wanna talk about Alex Belfield….

[@Renegade1127]

Yep, it's a private matter. So why make it public ? Pot, Kettle, Black.

[@iamthat]

You calling me black?

[@localreviewking134]

Perhaps it stops Alex doing the same in the future. I AM THAT is allowed free speech as are you.

[@iamthat]

@@adammarshall9077 you are missing the point, Belfield should not have looked for my parents phone number, or called them, or recorded the conversation to then blackmail and threaten me with. Those were the crimes. You need to stop trying to defend Belfield, he was found guilty and is in prison for the that he committed.

[@tanyaandelvis2698]

EX Paz is awful, he has become more and more extreme, awful man.

[@iamthat]

I completely agree, I used to have some respect for him, but now I don’t have any.

[@TEMPLAR969]

Ok keep your hair on ducky

[@BraveNewUs]

Hes entitled to his opinion but alex wasnt 🤔 karen trying to take away peoples freedom

[@brelshar4968]

Bit of an obsession fella. You sure you're not the one stalking?

[@iamthat]

Pretty sure I’m not the one in prison.

[@alicenutter8185]

@@iamthat Why not ? You was, once !! Yeah, you are the one stalking

[@iamthat]

@@alicenutter8185 Alice hon, you’re the one still messaging about this video seven months after you first commented on it, get over it x

[@TEMPLAR969]

This is a popular Bolshavic middle-class channel .NOT 😅😅😅😅😅

[@Toxic-Ology]

1:10 If only the same people gave the same scrutiny to Alex Belfield when he was stalking people that they are to you for suing him, there’d be no reason to sue him in the first place. Yet alas the hypocrisy is ever present and it’s the same old faces. The only sense this guy talked was near the end when he finally saw Alex for what he was (or given the amount of provable lies he pumps out on his channel, it could well have just been a face saving case of a rat abandoning ship). Sorry but this guy is even worse than “History” Debunked. And he’s not as bright as he thinks he is. Just he’s a bit smarter than the likes of Belfield, a bit more savvy let’s say. Don’t be fooled by it.

[@iamthat]

Thank you. Perhaps I have given Paz to much credit. Having watched some of his recent videos, I think some of his remarks are becoming worryingly questionable.

[@Toxic-Ology]

@@iamthat Just realised i think it was your blog that (although I could pick up on it from his behaviour and what he said on video) was the absolute 100% convincer about what he was doing. Saw it way before I even knew he’d been arrested for stalking as he sold it to his subs that he was doing the taking people to court. The comparisons Pez made about fundraising he kind of contradicted himself by saying he understands whilst also saying he’s been punished enough. Also comparing the fundraising to AB is disingenuous at best. But that’s my problem with him. He says things to appear balanced but if he’s as clever as he appears or thinks he is, he will know what he is saying is wrong (like how weak using fundraising was). I can live with people who’s views I fundamentally disagree with, but it is that disingenuous part that I think is really concerning. And you have every right to reply, and that’s what it is, which again he twisted to make it look like you were simply attacking people who support AB. It is subtle but to people who don’t have a careful grasp of the English language in an almost forensic way, he knows it looks that way to his subscribers. He could have said there’s no need to waste your time responding to what they say. He’s articulate enough. But those weren’t the words he chose. And this is a very common theme in most videos he does.

[@iamthat]

@@Toxic-Ology you’re very astute. And yep it was my article that was the first and only person at the time to call Belfield out back in November 2019, before the pandemic, when Belfield’s channel only had 20,000 subs (compared to 400,000 that it grew to.) Before any of these people published videos about him, or were even discussing him. And the truth is, I doubt any of these people would be making these videos if Belfield were here to “defend” himself. They would know he would possibly begin to target and harass them, the way he did to me. I risked a lot by speaking out about Belfield, and lost a lot, but it was one of those sliding doors moments in my life, that I look back on with no regrets. It has brought me to where I am, and who I am, and I would do it all again.

[@Toxic-Ology]

@@iamthat You’re a great example to everyone on how to deal with people like him. Because as you will have experienced, it means you end up suffering much more that you might have done if you did what most other people do in the situation which is back down and do what they say. I know it’s a cliche but at heart people who are like him are cowards, but they also have no empathy so only care about getting their own way at all costs. The problem is, most people enable them by giving in, because it’s simply too much like hard work, and there’s those that actually (which I’m sure you will have done but fought past the fear), believe their threats and claims (e.g. there’s usually loads of lies like “I’ve got a team of solicitors on this” but when it comes to it, it’s just him emailing pretending to be a solicitor etc, but at face value it’s scary). And I know the feeling in the pit of the stomach it gives you. Most people comply and even apologise because they think that’s what has to be done. I recall reading your blog with all he wrote, and I was tempted to reach out, but I think you may have taken it down, or I just couldn’t find it again. But like it is now, it’s very hard to explain certain phrases like “his threats are empty” and how to in a way reprogram the way you feel when you read them, whilst coldly treating it all as just evidence to give to the police. It is just way too complex to have been able to get over in a way that wouldn’t simply add to your frustration at the time. Like I’ve said before I have a zero tolerance approach to dealing with these types of people, and it works because people like this are more than just predictable, they will like night follows day react and say and do things that are exactly the same. But you were in the thick of it, so it wouldn’t have been helpful it might have made things worse. It has taken me years and years to develop my eye for these kind of things, and often (which I’m sure you’ll have faced) people try to rationalise these things, and YOU end up feeling like you’re the one that is in the wrong or being unreasonable or even paranoid, because other people try to think from a reasonable rational viewpoint when your dealing with an unreasonable irrational person. The zero tolerance helps protect against gas lighting and that fear of “wtf he going to do next”. And this is before even thinking he’s got a whole audience to broadcast his lies to and how they might react. Anyway, I honestly could go on and on. But the takeaway is that what all of you who were part of the case have done is more important that I think any of you will even realise, and you all have a very personal experience and as a result a great understanding of it. But the reality is it’s the first step in a much wider issue about what I call toxic behaviour and is filed under “personality disorders”, which I think is something society needs a better understand of, and in the world of psychology is a bone of contention because there are some who treat it as an illness, and others, like me who to put it bluntly say it SHOULDN’T be included among mental health illnesses (there are calls for things like antisocial personality disorder to be removed from the next DSM). Unfortunately in the meantime there is too much focus on the well-being of the people who are toxic, than the their victims. And when you deal with some professionals they think you should change your behaviour to accommodate their personality disorder, which makes life even more difficult especially for people in your situation. Again that’s another thing I could write a book on and takes much more than a comment to explain as it is so complex. Fortunately there is hope as schools seem to educate children about what is toxic and what isn’t but it is still a long way from being effective. I don’t know whether they do now or not, but like we have lessons like RE and PE schools need to have Emotional Education as a staple lesson as it will go a long way to preventing there being as many Alex Belfield’s, and also help children recognise signs where behaviour isn’t just normal behaviour in their household.

[@adammarshall9077]

​@@iamthat leave Alex belfield alone

[@eddriscoll4562]

In my view, if you have had good cause to be dissatisfied with anything Alex Bellfield may have said or done towards you, crying to the courts like a baby, is not the right way to seek redress. The right way to seek redress is, by what you are actually doing right now, isn't it ? Simply by setting out your own account of whatever may be at issue through your own broadcast, so as to set the record straight. There was no need for anybody to have gone to prison over it, was there ? This whole thing is complete and utter madness !

[@iamthat]

That is a warped view. Belfield was find guilty of multiple crimes and sentenced accordingly. He is still under investigation for ongoing crimes, proving that he hasn’t learnt from his mistakes.

[@alicenutter8185]

@@iamthat and Barry George served 8 years for a crime he didnt commit on Jill Dando, he was set up. He was found guilty, by a jury, as AB was. Looks like your enjoying wallowing in your self-pity !!

[@iamthat]

@@alicenutter8185 Belfield admitted what he did. He wasn’t set up. Change the record. amp.theguardian.com/media/2023/jul/20/jeremy-vine-stalker-alex-belfield-apologises-in-court-after-being-sued-over-abuse-campaign

[@vanmantalks]

Honestly Paz will piss and moan about anything. What could possibly be wrong with you crowd funding legal action. He is a bigger snowflake than the ones he criticises.

[@iamthat]

Exactly! I’m not ashamed to ask for help, and I have said I will give all the donations on to HIV charities if I win. The difference is, unlike Belfield I actually have an ongoing civil case, I’m not just pretending to sue someone. And as for Paz, (like Belfield) I’m not making these videos just to make money.

[@BritishPaz49]

He’s enjoying a skiing holiday in Poland along with another holiday in Egypt. Not a good look when crowdfunding to sue someone is it.

[@iamthat]

@@BritishPaz49 How dare you! Unless you contributed towards my crowd funder you have no jurisdiction or right to challenge what or how I spend my own money and time. I have been locked in this legal fight for over a year now, and have had to defend criticism. I am not the one on trial here. I am one of the victims. I have faced down criticism and people’s advice that I should “move on” and “get on with my life” and yet when I tried to enjoy my life I now get criticism for taking holidays. Who are you anyway? and what has any of this got to do with you? You are just someone capitalising on Belfield’s notoriety to make yourself money and to grow your channel. Have you ever paid any of your profits to charities or good causes? Or does it all go in your own pocket? All you care about are clicks and your own fame and wealth. Just to clarify, as I’ve been VERY clear about this. I spent £4000 of my OWN money on my legal fees before launching the crowd funder. The £1860 raised through Crowd Justice (minus fees that Crowd Justice deducted for themselves) has gone DIRECTLY to my solicitor. I have not seen a penny of it. I have then put £9000 on to MY credit card to pay for the remaining costs. It total I have spent £13000 of MY money. And pledged that the £1860 donated to crowd funder will be passed on to HIV charities, once the case is settled and I am awarded damages. This is on top of the charity and volunteer work that I do. This morning, I gave up my time to speak on behalf of the Terrence Higgins Trust to a group of 200 young people. This evening I am volunteering at the Food Chain. What have you done today? Don’t you dare assume you know me, or tell me how any of this looks. As always you are just seeing it from one side, your own.

[@Tom_murray89]

Please could you send me a link to your fundraising page?

[@iamthat]

www.crowdjustice.com/case/help-stop-ex-bbc-presenter-alex-belfield/ Thank you! X

[@Tom_murray89]

@@iamthatthankyou for the link

[@Tom_murray89]

Surely as one of his conditions of release is that he can’t go on social media again or be able to write to more people

[@iamthat]

@@Tom_murray89 he can’t publish anything about the eleven of us who hand restraining orders. But he can still use social media, all his accounts are still active.

[@Tom_murray89]

That’s not good as in he can still have access to social media

[@lolawilson8144]

I hope you get well. And don’t feed the trolls. It’s not worth it.

[@iamthat]

Thank you. It’s difficult not to respond when people are making unfair accusations, against me. Eventually I’ll be able to put this all behind me.

[@iamthat]

@@rogerdodger1790 mate, I couldn’t give a shit about how many views my videos make. My videos are honest, I’m not going to jump on bandwagons and stir up conspiracy theories and spread mis information just for extra clicks. There are enough content makers out there doing that. I’m here to present my side of the story, if you’re not interested, don’t watch my videos, and scroll through all my messages commenting on them. Clearly you have nothing better to do with your life.

[@saltnessmonster]

Adrian Allen is a good guy. It’s very sad Alex who was gifted with talent for music and radio hated himself so much he went down this pointless path of destructing. It’s strange how Alex would go to entertain old people for free and do goods deeds yet have this horrible side.

[@iamthat]

Well yes. But then Jimmy Saville did a lot of good deeds.

[@gertyrood]

he is a classic narcissist imo

[@alicenutter8185]

@@iamthat Why bring up Saville ? Just like your mate JV ! Saville did no good deeds, and glad he was found out. You and JV are the ones should be in prison, for your comparisons of AB and JS !!

[@adammarshall9077]

Alex belfield did nothing wrong get over it

[@iamthat]

Erm! He’s literally in jail for what he did.

[@KW-ro5ow]

Do you work with lead based paint?

[@adammarshall9077]

@@KW-ro5ow leave Alex belfield alone move on

[@KW-ro5ow]

@@adammarshall9077 it was more of a rhetorical question.

[@adammarshall9077]

@@KW-ro5ow I like Alex belfield

[@amurleopard51]

Paz is a bit of a two-faced person. He has given red flags in his past videos about his own behaviour towards people.

[@Tom_murray89]

I totally agree Alex took people like myself for granted. I’ll donate money if I can and I totally get why you’re donating to the Terrance Higgins trust also Alex at the start didn’t want to ask for money then he wanted for people to donate to him to give him holiday money and not sue the BBC

[@tizermax11]

When Alex made video's about you, he was monetized, in other words making money out of you. Since than he has been convicted of stalking you. Meaning what he did to you was wrong. Getting that money he made out of you, along with legal costs. Whats wrong with that. Does that mean it's ok for the protagonist to make money, and the victim does not. Hold your head up, as there is too much victim blaming.

[@iamthat]

Thank you for seeing it from my side. I appreciate it

[@adammarshall9077]

​@@iamthat I am getting sick of you now leave Alex belfield alone

[@iamthat]

@@adammarshall9077 aw, Adam, why are you getting sick of me? I thought we were becoming friends.

[@richardgallagher4880]

Russell bellfield 😆😆

[@Tom_murray89]

As bad as each other