The #1 secret women crave in men. Do You Have It?

[@januszdworak4780]

If you want women to be into you, do not care about what they want. They don't know what they want anyway.

[@SP-1414]

A lot of women would describe a consistent man as “boring”.

[@Greatnewhope]

And those are the ones you let go, because they will never be happy in life so why let them take you down with them.

[@djsargex7777]

That's not the "consistent" she talking about. lol

[@cryptojihadi265]

​@@djsargex7777The hell it isn't. ANY kind of consistency is eventually considered boring to most woman.

[@curdledmayonnaise]

it's not the consistency that's boring in terms of action. it's the monotonous emotional side to things

[@ClutchGene]

Bingo

[@grantmourning189]

I consistently drink beer every day and sit in my garage. I'm 100% consistent.

[@samyz9980]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@aaron4387]

don't change King....you already won the game.

[@patriceesela5000]

Cheers

[@millenialbroadcast]

LMAO

[@mrastroboy33]

🤗dude ! we are Twins ……!

[@mikeneal8651]

Men crave not getting mixed signals, which lead to being inconsistent.

[@mikeloki2064]

Can't rely on someone else giving you signals. Forge your path and follow it. Be consistent for yourself and your own goals.

[@perjrgensen8280]

in Denmark we have a word "to be trustworthy" If what you say, is not what you do. are you not trustworthy, I can't trust you. People who say one thing but do something other than what they said. Can't be trusted. 👍Greetings from Denmark.

[@cur244]

Unfortunately in the US most people value words over actions.

[@januszdworak4780]

Well. Only when I have turned 60 and after having a wife and two children, I would be somewhat able to give relationships advice. And here we have a young woman who didn't experience too much. I mean, she experienced a lot like most young people nowadays, but this was mostly an experience about of not to do.

[@gregalden1101]

The riddle of the sphinx "what do woman want"? They want a village. In a village the young "sexy" men guard the village. The qualities that make a man a good village guard are the one's woman keep telling us they want (confidence, attentiveness, consistency) when everyone starts screaming pointing at the forest, the one that walks towards the forest.

[@johnyeager8667]

Yeah, they want consistency, but they don't want to give it. That's the problem.

[@Doodlefisher]

Just don’t chase any woman who is drawing you into danger and doesn’t know what she wants: don’t chase women at all better yet!

[@ErikLeed]

Absolutely do not chase a woman. If she can't see the value in your level headed, leadership and she doesnt keep the conversation with you, then she's not bringing the value you need to match yours and its time to leave.

[@Doodlefisher]

@@ErikLeed there is a crisis with people today and they have little guidance from family or parents and they including myself have little direction in relationships

[@ErikLeed]

@@Doodlefisher I hear you!!! Its shocking how little guidance there is for this these day. I feel like its coming back tho...Thanks in huge part to channels like this and the communities of people learning and supporting eachother here...

[@Doodlefisher]

@@ErikLeed these are common human issues and there is so much ego and machismo that people don’t address these things and no wonder why people are so messed up these days right?!

[@orsonyancey4131]

Discipline and credibility.

[@smiles7631]

I am more consistent now that I am more self aware. Doing some meditation and inner thoughts helped me get grounded. Great video as always Maya!

[@christopherrobin361]

"Behind every 30s girl crying about men, there’s a mountain of broken hearts from guys she played with, rejected, and ignored."

[@Steve24527]

Consistency??? So why do they go for jobless bad boys, guys in an outta jail or homeless street musicians??

[@prxnceallen]

Out of all those women, do you find them attractive??

[@Heirrogance]

At least they’re consistently in and out of jail to be fair

[@VladislavBabbitt]

Because these guys stir their emotions.

[@samyz9980]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@97warlock]

I THINK BEING CONSISTANT & DOING WHAT YOU SAY YOURE GONNA DO ..........IS RESPECTED & APPEALING TO MOST PEOPLE EITHER SIDE.

[@genetworek1075]

And most guys are consistent by going to work everyday

[@boomerang379]

I don’t disagree with what you’re saying, however, it takes a woman that is emotionally healthy and mature. Woman that are both mentally healthy and emotionally mature are unicorns. The average woman today would find consistency boring and she’d cheat on you .

[@Doodlefisher]

Corrective consistency and refinement is the way forward. Happiest moments come from the emotions you create!

[@vladydaddy9116]

If you are worried a women is not going to like what you are all about, then you are all about the wrong things

[@jasonrocksvegas]

Been Boringly consistent for 20 years. Same business same home. Same good income. Same exercise routine 5 days a week. Still ugly and getting older. Nobody's perfect

[@sa3d667]

this modern world needs more women like you

[@TrealTalk187]

Negative. Women love to "Feel" everyday and thats what makes her attach herself towards you. Guess what, consistent men hardly get any women if ever because they are "boring" and are not her "type". Every man has seen this and know it. Maybe you appreciate consistency but most women now days certainly do not. Im just being honest. I have alot of success with women so i know exactly what im talking about

[@kentherapy7022]

Maya...I swear I watch all your videos consistently and consistently. From start to finish. No excuses.....😆

[@DLG24]

I'd like to consistently support your comment section. You make a lot of sense. Thank you, Maya.

[@johnmarshall7833]

You are very impressive, you look young, you speak really well and clearly. How did you become so smart at a young age ???

[@CyanInfinity000]

any man who is watching this video and got to the end of this video is capable of everything that she speaks about. and I mean everything. The Good and the bad. Introspection is one of the hardest things a man or woman can do. It means to take an honest and clear look at yourself. It means you can decide with realism what is healthy for you to do and not healthy for you to do. We are all responsable for making our own decisions eventually. Always.

[@marcsobbohi6157]

Very candid and very considered. Appreciate this ❤ 🙏

[@januszdworak4780]

Yes. I am consistent. I consistently drink too much alcohol.

[@krillansavillan]

The world is so much better after I kicked the stuff. It's within your power, if not, find a higher power

[@lachlaninglis9568]

I love your focus and depth Maya! You also do this thing when you concentrate, your eyes get really wide and in those moments it'a very obvious you are living your purpose which is amazing and true!! Great work!!! and yep consistency is everything in relationship, really helps to build trust and vulnerability!!

[@georgeindestructible]

Here's a TLDR version for every video like this you will ever see. Women need anything that provides them increases chances of survivability, however that manifests in a man. Their bodies have evolved to be less durable in environment on eras where things where more harsh and the testosterone in men man even more difference than it does today. Women always had to compromise to ensure their survivability with a man even back them because testosterone makes a man stronger, more durable, more resilient (literally makes skin harder), increases focus, increases confidence and taking risks (taking risks often provides access to chances to acquire resources that not doing so at ll, chance that never would otherwise exist), more resilient mindset in regards to "giving up". Men are born with the capacity to be virtually fearless warriors, current society brainwashes them to be and think that they incompetent useless weaklings. I am not saying being gentle, kind, thoughtful and understanding when you have to you makes you a weakling, no that has strength with its own merit under certain context, but what i am saying that it does so when you have to stand your ground even if you are wrong and always be ready to deal with the consequences of being wrong and also view them as learning opportunities instead of pondering for days months years as to why they happened. Take this metaphorically and consider yourself a king in your own family, inside your esoteric world (your mind, your "sacred temple") and your network or group of friends, "A wise king always license to his council, but also always listens his heart and mind (logic) and has the final word because of that." Embrace the warrior within.

[@krillansavillan]

Waiting at the finish line as always. I snark, but I actually appreciate this message - it is universal advice not gender specific. My biggest gripe with consistency as far as attracting women is that women change what they want. You can be consistent but still lose long term. Using your lighthouse in the storm scenario, she up and changes after 10 years and needs to find herself in the mountains 😂

[@ErenWins]

an ancient time ago, I wrote a letter what women wants then after few days I started seeing women start creating video what women wants. everything they said was different from reality because this I hold my head and cry so much when I knows nobody knows reality of women.

[@rrowFernando777]

Let the magic begin😎

[@christopherandino8743]

You are truly amazing and authentic i wish you the best on this journey of life ❤

[@bubafatty2707]

Thank You!

[@johnjennings9693]

And then she blocked and ghosted,

[@jamiecompeau4076]

When a woman asks what I do...is saying hopefully you a descent answer? 🤔 I joke, I kid...I don't date anyone ever. 🤣

[@JohnM...]

Her: so what do you do for a living? Him: I work in a supermarket. Her: Eww! Bye!….

[@x1_n_only_jtm_]

Great video

[@jeremycarpenter5550]

Build character that is attractive like hit the gym work hard learn how to communicate be a better man respect yourself be a better listener modern men need a purpose not the women build your qualities in yourself that you want in your partner be confident and content in your relationship with god and yourself that's what I'm learning . Be decisive be a man make decisive decisions thats sexy to women. Men lead good women follow.

[@dianaslade9595]

Love this!

[@henningbartels4445]

Now I have been around the block for some time. It´s a nice fantasy, but most women will not respect you for this. In the long run, their mind perceives this as a weakness and they will find a way to make you feel wrong for the great person you are. (In an ideal world they would respect you for it, be loyal and happy to have such a great man, but unfortunately, reality looks very different) If you want to be honorable, hardworking and a good person do it for yourself and God but not for a woman...... Just my two cents....... (Don´t destroy your life by trying to convince a woman of who you are - they almost always get it wrong......)

[@jeremycarpenter5550]

@@henningbartels4445 only toxic women will do that.

[@RobertCalifornia-yz6tg]

See today everyone is taught we're equal but as men we're the one's that set the pace in the relationship we have the bulk of the responsibilities we care for our woman and in turn she returns that same care even if she wavers we must stay consistent we must always be looking forward always looking for solutions good video👍

[@dianaslade9595]

Yes!

[@jamesworley9888]

I honestly don't care what it is or if I have it but I'll listen.

[@TrealTalk187]

Does she even read the comments? Seems like alot of men here disagree with what she says regarding women and disprove her position with real world experience, especially the older gentlemen. Doea she just ignore everyone in here, i hope not

[@shabeeressack7277]

Well said, I agree

[@jeromedevotta3406]

save time , money , life energy and avoid drama, trauma, losses❤

[@topdnbass]

Unfortunately most girls I come across aren't looking for the important things

[@GhostRider-uk3xv]

Lying to yourself is just as unjust as lying to others

[@marcsobbohi6157]

Fair play 👏 ❤ 🙏

[@USA_to_Asia_in_2024]

Good words.

[@persvrij]

And what and how is 'Magic Maya' contributing to society? Maya connotes a "magic show, an illusion where things appear to be present but are not what they seem. Māyā also connotes that which "is constantly changing and thus is spiritually unreal". Maya is a magical food that helps you look and feel amazing!

[@rmb9320]

It would be really cool if women would be consistent in occasionally saying the word, “YES.”

[@Heirrogance]

Idk about consistently hitting the gym. I’ve seen plenty of great women start with fantastic dudes that don’t go to the gym. They’re active, but not going to the gym ever. My best friend works at a day care and plays bar league volleyball and his wife is outstanding. You can just feel the love when they’re together. But of course they’re open and honest.

[@francodiciembre]

I have a remark on what you say: It's not "consistency" it is "congruence". good vid

[@j3ffn4v4rr0]

Consistency is congruence over time.

[@francodiciembre]

@@j3ffn4v4rr0 ur right

[@Rollacoastertycoon]

Woman never meets you yet claims consistency 🥱

[@BWater-yq3jx]

Yeah 'consistent' will eventually get labelled 'predictable'. It's basically over at that point.

[@brewman6218]

Okay try to add an element of consistent unpredictability. Do something different once a week and something very different once a month and you will level up your appeal big time.

[@MarcShelton-dn8uz]

Another perfect show but don't burn yourself out counting on you to be consistent but don't burn yourself out❤❤

[@retiredbiker59]

I have always been consistent with myself so it was easy with my current lady friend

[@EmilyAdams-q1h]

Be consistently 6'4". Never waver.

[@curdledmayonnaise]

that's bs . i know 5'6 guys that get hot chicks. can height, money, muscles help? sure but only that. it doesn't replace internal confidence, outcome independence, and game. and those are the things that matter most (apart from LMS)

[@CornelNorocea]

Smart 🙏

[@Victor-xv7jh]

I see... Although this is tragic, at least I found the end. 🖤🥀

[@ets2atstruckermartin527]

I am filtering with my consistents most women out of my live from the beginning

[@r.o.b.480]

Be consistent in not always doing what a woman wants. 😉

[@jeffreyrusselljr7713]

Women crave money

[@LewinDR]

Guys if you want to attract men into your tribe consistency & discipline is the way to go, but to attract women these things won’t because it’s boring

[@guyoliver3053]

I love the exhortations you give men. I'm married, so I don't consume your content to be attractive to other women. I consume your content to remind me how to show up effectively for my wife, and daughters, and sister, and female friends. Thank you, and keep up the great work.

[@rollzolo]

Consistent with alimony and child support

[@agent_exodus]

Why does this feel uniquely passive aggressive to me?

[@gregthompson9434]

It’s man shaming

[@krillansavillan]

​@@gregthompson9434 no it's character shaming. Men just don't get a pass

[@sargentd3125]

It's manipulating and condescending.

[@kena2829]

Do want you say. Follow through.

[@francodiciembre]

Another thing: You should try making longer videos. That's going to increase your watch time by A LOT and YT will recommend you much more.

[@BluEyeZ93]

Oh, I have it!

[@grays13371]

#1 crave in women is shuffle dance, no dance no go.

[@MeetHaoLi]

the word your looking for is congruence

[@_munkykok_]

Everyone has it

[@alexismatias4698]

Hi maya

[@EriPages]

What is your motivation, really, in publicly putting yourself out on KZbin?

[@texluh]

Is breaking up with you in temper, and canceling arrangements in temper, unacceptable? Is a man who takes her at her word and says 'don't do that or i will take you seriously if you don't stop that' lacking in consistency? Should he be supporting her extreme emotions? In general. I realise that it depends.... My question isn't what should a man do about extreme temper that isn't verbally insulting or abusive per se ; the question is how does the woman that you portray here perceive this? Would she perceive it that the man has failed to stick by her in her emotional waves, and has accepted the breakup or cancellation and taken them seriously, therefore doesn't provide that security? Or is that a case of 'no, he has boundaries' and 'no, he listens' ?

[@thegrimharvest]

Yessn't is the tldr answer. Your mileage may (and probably will) vary. But trying to nail down hypothetical principles from a person not directly involved and aware of every variable involved in the situation is asking for at best a generalization that may not apply, or most honestly that person's personal preference, which is even less helpful. You take a roll of the dice either way. Either she understands and appreciates it or she doesn't. No use on us randos speculating on a hypothetical scenario involving a hypothetical woman and what her hypothetical response would be. Women are already complicated enough without having to speculate on hypotheticals. Hot/crazy matrix risk/reward assessment. Either do it or don't. Whichever way works best for you and what you want out of it.

[@ptcosmos]

6:39 I love your channel and your audience, I'm gonna comment on ALL your videos for years until I reach your level of subscribers.

[@chas4x4]

Most women don't want a boring man and the wild ones they can't hang on to them

[@PoncePappas-zo1ot]

They just wanna steal my limelight

[@jarredv89]

What if she is consistently not interested?

[@davidclouse5894]

I just do what I want everyday. My Maserati does 185 mph... I love to Party...😂❤

[@christopherrobin361]

Born to protect huh? I train in BJJ and boxing as well as know a few things about weapons. Even in "protection" younger women in particular want a loser, a "bad boy" which is borderline scum, or an addict to feel sympathy for. When women are older many realize they drove away those good men that COULD actually protect them in the past. And now they are saddled with someone else's children, debt, addiction issues themselves, out of shape/bad health, and abusive themselves more often than not.

[@cyberla]

Great reminder! Now can she please give advice to women as well lol

[@samueledwards211]

so what you are saying is... if I am consistently a douche then would that make me craveable?

[@thegrimharvest]

It would probably help if your end goal was just pump and dump. Copy the successful behaviors of those you want to emulate, see if you can reproduce their results. Long term it's probably not conducive to a lasting meaningful relationship, but...if one can't get the foot in the door, they can't make a sale, can they?

[@MarkAg47]

What if he is consistently a jerk?

[@NB-yu4lj]

They love that

[@chrisfox9492]

short answer: no

[@EricMoore790]

Money?

[@PatrickDuffy-u3s]

Why are you still not married? You have all the knowledge to make a happy family, what are you waiting for?

[@doctors8966]

What's it gog to do with You

[@brewman6218]

She seems like her focus is elsewhere and she is enjoying the path she is taking. She is having fun red pilling us boys and making us into higher quality men.

[@thegrimharvest]

​@@doctors8966i think it's a good question to ask. Don't mean she is obligated to answer, but still. If she has all the answers, how is she (presumably) still single/unmarried? Don't make her advice necessarily bad, but it's a reasonable question/observation. Along the lines of practicing what one preaches.

[@doctors8966]

@@thegrimharvest and her personal life has jack to do with you Weirdooo

[@Mr.L007]

What women find attractive is Bernie Ecclestone. I rest my case.

[@oaiaferoce]

I'm a hetero man and I find consistent men boring as fuc. Consistent means safe and prudent. Being prudent and having a safe and predictable life is feminine.

[@jerryschmitt5119]

the other side of this coin is stay in shape, be good looking,be the right age and work on your problems while i go out with the girls or shopping lol this is the second video i saw of yours and you have men issues and all your efforts are centered about fixing men . women like to control routines ,dont try new things or work as hard as they should to keep a relationship going anyone can talk but go to gym together go places make your life great do it together as a couple not hey why this or that ? both set goals long and short term . etc.

[@firstgensps]

tyty!!!

[@fancycanuck]

🫡 bravo Maya

[@sanjusimon1912]

😊❤

[@MartinWebNatures]

We would see consistency with the woman. Is she playing the characterr for now, or is she really like that

[@stavrosharamis-p6o]

Yes it's called masculinity. Didn't even have to watch the video, hahaha

[@tyronechurch7626]

Love it and interesting keep it up beautiful

[@markusnoble5866]

Say consistency more.

[@johnyeager8667]

You could still do all that stuff and still get shit on

[@JoshTaylor-sx4yb]

Good information. 🌹

[@davesaenz3732]

Then you get boring because youre not spontaneous.

[@Leocifre]

Hahaha 😂😂😂😂 Consistency is beta. Women like it when they are done with alpha dark triad guys. But only AFTER. And as a guy what would you rather be? The exciting adventure or the reliable bedrock. Been both, will never risk being called boring (consistent) again, dark triad 4ever.

[@krillansavillan]

Live your life for yourself. If I'm not already prone to dark triad traits, I'm not going to pretend just to get some. We should all have a code, moral or otherwise. Mine happens to be moral.

[@Cryosmind]

I smell desperation