The 10 laws of being a soft woman

[@Sahalielove]

I like to think of “stop arguing” as a decentering men version of rejecting that “communication” is what’s good for a relationship. I used to think using a lot of words is how I would get what I want, but now I know that being in my receiving energy works much better than arguing a whole bunch. The more you argue, the more you are in your chasing energy, which causes a man to retreat, and to chase, protect, and provide for you less, which is likely the opposite of what you tried to accomplish with arguing.

[@meghanavenkatesh6165]

Well said sis. Perfect solution to my current situation. Thanks a ton😌

[@joeydoesntsharefoood]

This is perfect🎉

[@chelseafabbri8705]

I love the stop arguing part. Hit me hard especially not for other people. i am always two steps from going full joan of arc for my friends at any given moment but its never reciprocated. Thank you for these pearls of wisdom very enlightening

[@mjey1]

Same. My argument and debating nature and proving points for the sake of truth is so real. It's my main hyper masculine flaw I need to let go of. It doesn't do any good 99 percent of the time.

[@cinthaa1]

This is just pure medicine for (almost) burnt-out Type-A women like me, my entire perspective changes ❤

[@kautharnoor2844]

Hi Vickita, I’m usually a ghost watcher but I just want to say your videos have helped my perspective so much on how to do things and let control go! I am generally more feminine than masculine but even with this, watching your videos serve as helpful reminders. Keep it up, you’re doing amazing work

[@drleo6409]

I am a man and have always had a physical job, but as someone once said sleep is the best vitamin.

[@Kim-z6i3l]

For all the women out there, I would strongly recommend to read "The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden".

[@halosunnah5446]

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[@blue-flower13]

LOVE that shade of green on you, Vickita 💚 xx

[@nadiams239]

Your makeup is flawless! Love it

[@theunfilterededit]

At this point she's gonna have to drop a tutorial 😍

[@sarahbegum2192]

I wish I had found you in my 20s. Now, at 40, applying these principles feels so much harder. Generational habits and family patterns are deeply ingrained, and trying to change or let go while balancing the weight of added responsibilities makes the process even more challenging

[@ViragoRiver]

I'm forty four and just getting started on softness... we can do it... let's do it together, Sister. ♡

[@ArianBostonian]

This video came at the perfect time! My prayer group is doing the 30-Day Complain-free Challenge. We started the night before you posted. As of now, this video supports the group and is a reminder that we need to meet and beat the challenge, thank you @VickitaTrivedi! #iconic

[@hobsyllwin2562]

I had to laugh so hard 😂 “who knows what you might catch in your net…could have no legs… it could have no eyes…” 😂😂😂 thank you 🙏 love you so much… keep reminding us of the truth time and time again ❤

[@figglybuff]

the timing of this video is so divine with my life experiences right now especially on this self-introspection sunday

[@Mahroo-so5vd]

I fell in love with everything you said it was such a guiding light in my path rn❤

[@patriciamccartney9779]

Oh my gosh! So many GEMS here. Just brilliant. I am implementing stat! Thank you so much for figuring this out and distilling it down. I also wear myself out defending the weak. Im worn out fighting for justice. It's made me hard and masculine. I also need to implement a few others. What a valuable video!

[@fieryaries911]

I was just thinking "When is Vickita gonna have another video?" and a minute later you posted! ☺

[@iamerind]

That green looks AMAZING on you!!! Enjoyed this video so much, being a woman is actually life on easy mode. In summary, I learned that less is more. 💜

[@celestiakock7207]

My girl uploaded🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@ProsperousBhavna]

Very good video to start a day

[@livingproof1111]

This came at the perfect timing

[@BelAge]

Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU! I need to stop arguing with people!

[@missrd395]

Great video, and great place to be in (the fem energy) and everything that comes with it. The help, the free extra's, the kindness✨💅

[@SadiaMahi-fz1xs]

Thank you for making my day

[@amandacheng6453]

Care less get more!

[@joannad.]

Yay for another video!

[@TiyaYoga]

Love this. Thank you! 🤍

[@Daisy-Maisey]

You look amazing in this video ❤

[@snehapathak4386]

Was waiting eagerly for your new video....glad you posted

[@KatharinaKnows]

That top is stunning on you! Where did you find it? 💚

[@thetonishow]

Awesome video!

[@loukiaioannou4477]

Girl where is your shirt from 😍

[@catherinephilipps2569]

I am just going to kick back relax and feel sexy and calm!! Love that!! Thanks Vickita 💖💖💖

[@marshaphonda7057]

A very good video as always. BUT caffeine-free coffee is very harmful to your health, even more than just coffee. They use so many different chemicals to decaffeinate coffee. Just want to let you know. ;-)

[@ViragoRiver]

You're right. There are some brands that don't use chemicals- Ruta Maya is one. ♡

[@NN-ku1mj]

Hii, can you please update your playlist so that it will be easy for newbies like me? Thank you❤

[@spiritualqueen2745]

what are you wearing? I Love your sweater!!!

[@TheMercilina]

I could have sworn you were the lady in Tyler Perry's Beauty in Black

[@snapyfairy]

You are from india? Just curious by watching title trivedi.

[@121sh1213]

Thank you babe

[@Mitalisoni369]

Hare Krishna 🙏 jai ma kali 💞 thnku universe thnku dear ❤

[@caseyhill636]

Those earrings are gorgeous ❤

[@MarilynLewis-fk7uw]

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[@KiiKiiKiis]

❤🎉

[@bloom7204]

Firrrrrst ☝🏽

[@mortiiciia]

Toda artificial 😂

[@JacquelynF-zt6wc]

The women you are talking about aren’t you. They aren’t working or talking like this making you tube videos for money. They don’t worry because the are provided everything shelter and food and high luxury of both by a man or family. Hustling and talking making KZbin videos you aren’t this and no one can’t manipulate to become it if those foundations aren’t in place. You can be softerrrr but not that woman you’re saying she’s how I was often …. The energy you are doing now isn’t it just tell you they are at lunch or Chanel and not trying to become soft

[@katierosealexander8132]

Bitter much

[@JacquelynF-zt6wc]

@@katierosealexander8132 hehe no but women are trying to become soft energy girl she’s not unless is married into wealth or a man who carries all the bills etc or a family !! You can be delusional or play soft but trust me it’s not the same but it’s still good. But this women is far from what actually soft energy is. She’s in a try to be soft while working hard which is nice. Just those girls she’s mentioned are spoiled by others and are different than here :/

[@lesleymay6757]

​@@JacquelynF-zt6wcshe's giving excellent advice to thousands of women weekly! I think she has much knowledge and wisdom to share, and she's blessed to be able to do it from her home. At her convenience. She is not out there flying city to city to make speeches. She is a feminine woman and I'm glad she's here in KZbin land sharing her point of view. Not everyone can marry a millionaire 🙄. But we CAN make our lives a little better as we grow.