6 psychology SECRETS to be irresistably attractive

[@VickitaTrivedi]

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[@farbeyondfading8697]

Better eye contact is a great tip to really making people feel special and has worked greatly for me. I would add learning to maintain a 'soft gaze' at their eyes instead of intense eye-to-eye contact is how I do it without making people uncomfortable

[@Literallyherrr]

Timestamps 1:01-Care Less. Get More 2:47 - Mirroring 7:23 - Eye Contact 12:27 - Equal Exchange of Vulnerability 17:19 - Law of Scarcity 21:30 - Selectivity and Confidence

[@Sahalielove]

There’s so much advice out there saying to just communicate more, and I’m so thankful to have found out about feminine energy and to learn how I actually get my point across better by talking less much of the time.

[@SimplyNikki79]

The skill of conversation is intricate but a lot of times I just let people do all the talking while I sit back and listen to see what kind of person they are. I’m more of a listener, I’m trying to get out of that though. Thanks for this advice 😊

[@tiffanyy_n3214]

That’s so funny you say that because lately I’ve been thinking I need to work on being more of a listener & just let ppl vent. I find myself talking way too much & sometimes even cutting ppl off. Yeah… I’m trying to work that.

[@ayumisae6864]

I think that is the best skill, actually. I am also a natural listener and with most people nowadays wanting to talk about themselves all the time, it makes it easier for me to just tune in and go with their flow of conversation. The only issue is that eventually even the listeners want to feel listened to and acknowledged so I believe it’s just about finding that right balance.

[@sareemather18080]

Hey vickita! i really love your videos and i have a certain suggestion-i have noticed that most creators tend to make videos on how to be attractive irresistible and magnetic so on like you know while dating. i request you to make a video on long term relationships, like where people are in relationships for over a year and are commited but the issues that woman face and how to tackle them. There is a lot of change that happens in a woman's life in a relationship even if she wasn't interested and deattched for the first few months but as we grow into the relationship we get comfy and get attached, things hurt and we wanna be heard and all especially past that honeymoon stage after which there are so many arguments. Could you please create a video on this and talk about this topic. I'd really appreciate that 🥰

[@Athenapaints]

I’m deeply interested as well. I’ve been with my guy 5.5 years and he’s INFJ (super private and quiet)/ I’m INFP so we luckily match but had tremendous ups and downs. For example, suffering from Narc. abuse or having a lack of family--so we heavily rely on each other. I teach him as much as I can about psychology. Plus we have a 10 year gap but it really compliments because we’re both Wild-Free Spirit Artist/Skater Types. So when the relationship is rough.. we focus on our hobbies (sk8) that brought us together 😅 I am blessed but, learned best from actually experiencing disputes and talking it out/asking for space and time. It is deeply normal. We may argue but more so as best friends who get overwhelmed. Shared interests keep the spark alive but.. also, creates oversharing 👀

[@PeachyKins]

I'd definitely watch that video-- been there, studied it, listened to many various insights: ultimately men are not wired for this. They are feral animals. They will disrespect anyone who treats them otherwise. Lol, I don't enjoy men liking me anymore, respect me or get lost. Good luck. Sprinkle Sprinkle ❤❤❤

[@StellaChilinharova]

Loveliest suggestion!

[@StellaChilinharova]

@@PeachyKinsseriously. We need to start making men less important

[@melaniepedrick8148]

This is Golden. I'm deeply in love with an avoidant man and I have watched a billion advice videos. This one is exceptional.🏆

[@sonyavincent7450]

Me too.

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[@sopiuzzi]

There is great advice on this video, as always. I think the main reason to not give all the info about yourself at once is a matter of self protection until you know the other person better.

[@vesteenblackman208]

It’s also because it allows them to create a fantasy version of you in their mind. Almost like reading a book is better than seeing the movie because your own imagination is involved.

[@joopyjazz1]

A hack I’ve taught myself about how to relate to people in conversation is to compare your situation to theirs without taking too much time or detail, and then circling back to their experiences. Ex: “I really struggle with math” “Oh same, school was rough but especially math, especially (fill in blanks)… but I can imagine how tough it was for you too, and I’m sure you’ve got other major skills or passions!”

[@Ttt-q3q]

Would you mind explaining this?

[@OneMountainNine]

Unless you’re good at math et al. Don’t hide intelligence. Real people fare better in the long run. It’s not spy vs spy to be transacted

[@shaundraandress430]

I love that you're making these videos.I feel like you're speaking to me in every single one of them. My goal is to be non emotional female. Meaning, i still care but I don't react to people's emotions and walk on eggshells to cater to them. And I also don't make them feel dismissed or unimportant, which I unfortunately do sometimes when I get hurt over and over. I feel like I tend to get defensive. And then I go to the extreme of walking on eggshells and being too nice.I wish I could just find a happy medium.

[@danicaharley6273]

If people keep on disrespecting you, you should ignore them. That's emotional control

[@JaneeLeeSanders]

I love the eye contact tip. I naturally do it and it bothers me when people don’t do it back. It instantly makes me feel like your not paying attention lol

[@JenniferKristin888]

This color on you!!! 😍 Yesss!!! 👏🏽

[@madjlove]

Your hair looks so cute like this!! 😊

[@enthusiast1]

Great video, words of wisdom. Your well calibrated nonchalant matter-of-fact way of delivering info on what *not* to do not only boosts its power to inform, but is refreshingly humorous. One of the best, and most beautiful ways to convey info is through or with a judicious use of humor. Thank you! 💯

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Haha yes, a little bit of humor goes a long way 😉

[@montsergirl]

You have such great videos, I feel like you have mastered everything you teach us so well. Have an amazing time in Africa!

[@mansoor3159]

Vickita you are so so sweet and Kind hearted and your videos are genuinely genuinely helpful to me and I will always support you so so much🤗💗💗

[@VickitaTrivedi]

Thank you so much! 💕

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Why is no one talking about book called “The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden”

[@CJMilli]

Because it sucks

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[@leilarivera9721]

Girl ...that's your color

[@MessiMathematician]

Well thought out and very well articulated video!! Words to live by! Quick question: does humor play a part in magnetism?

[@paanyovaanya3248]

Hope youre feeling better now! Great video ❤

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[@JewlsLittleMonster]

I feel like a lot of people who multitask do that, we're so used to listening to things while we get ready or watch tv while eating or in the car whatever

[@maxie-q4r]

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[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

It isn't always about great looks

[@milomazli]

Love this video ❤❤❤

[@laurelandrea7278]

I really like and appreciate that you make it clear this isnt about manipulation but really just being more confident and comfortable in day to day interactions with people. Thank you gorgeous girl🩷🩷

[@miglenaspiridonova]

Mam? Number 2 is absolutely what narcissists do.

[@Lady_effie]

Well said

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

Some people don't trust me they must think am dumb or something

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

Change is very very hard

[@StellaChilinharova]

I couldnt watch, cause im at work but I liked 🤣

[@Swarnaly-p7g]

Can u plz make a video on fomo!

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I'm not trying to get someone to like me

[@Volpe2025]

Timestamps please! Pin them to the comments and add them to the description box

[@crybabyli13]

They don’t care what anyone thinks anymore 😇

[@anjdjeo]

Onion will always remind me of Shrek🤣🩷🩷🩷 that generation

[@annetteheath6152]

What if you’ve already made the mistake of giving someone too much of you. Can you reverse that and start being mysterious.

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It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!

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[@TB-zc7uz]

Witchcraft?

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Can’t find it

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[@Maya-m9h]

Nice❤

[@glorious6779]

Such a good video. Helpful for my inner growth. 😊

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I would like a genuine confidence

[@Jooniper56]

Bro chill

[@wendybooi5025]

Thanks Vickita🫶🏽

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You could put a picture of ariel or the human Ursula on the Thumbnail heheh I think that would be good

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[@nickeyivy721]

My left eye or your left eye lol 😂

[@Cinnamon.grl.]

It's hard to practice the skill of conversation when everyone just wants to text. 🙄

[@OneMountainNine]

Better to blend in. Use your intuition. If you stand out too much people get jealous. Too many judgements. If you’re humble and no one shares then people are entitled. There aren’t endless opportunities

[@scarlettbradburn9555]

Have they ever had a conversation with anyone before? 😂😂😂

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I have been going crazy living alone l have been going wackos

[@anjdjeo]

Genuine question here can people actually hold eye contact for 17 seconds I've never counted but it sounds a lot and awkward

[@kristinalebardin7908]

❤

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I do have flaw's

[@bhimahantal]

It's crazy how no one is talking about Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest. This book has secrets that could change everything, but people seem blind to it. Wake up and see for yourself!

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

❤❤

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I would like someone to gravitate towards me

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I'm little bit ego driven

[@victoriagoeringer]

🖤

[@fruitlover99xx]

that was only 5

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I seem to be little bit off

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I play dum dum

[@Butterfly828-x8e]

Real empathic people are like that what was said in the beginning of the video, by nature. They don't have to do it on purpose. But narcistic driven people or people that want (to use) others, will do it on purpose. That's nothing nice nor cool, it's ugly to pretend to be especially interested and a good listener, when you are not. Because this is NOT authentic. Ugh

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I feel like a fony

[@youtubeblockedme5864]

Sounds like imposter syndrome.... Learn the root cause... And remember at some point we are all phonies .. think about being a teacher for the very first day... Or a lawyer and meeting with a client for the first time and you know you can't remember anything you learned... It's ok. Stop judging yourself.

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I complain alot

[@PurushottamDahikr]

asd

[@BrentHolmes-f6r]

Please come talk 😂

[@BrentHolmes-f6r]

Scared

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I feel so way two lonely way to lonely it's hard to live alone

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I talked to much

[@tedwilson1477]

In my experience more women are the overthinkers and manipulators, not so much the men.

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