The 14 Red Flags of Dating | The Art of Manliness

This week we discuss the 14 Red Flags to look for in a relationship. Read the original article below:
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[@radamelfalcao2415]

"I just ate a grape...."

[@megamastah]

+Radamel Falcao Mind your language, children might be reading the comments! Duh.

[@hamedhosseini4938]

+pantagruel Lol did you miss kindergarten with Internet? DUH

[@megamastah]

Hamed Hosseini Did you miss sarcasm?

[@hamedhosseini4938]

pantagruel ohh lol soz

[@IBlabomba]

+Radamel Falcao People love grapes

[@lRedBaronl]

Huge red flag is when she brings up her ex boyfriend on the first date and talk about him for a long time.

[@youwantsomeofme]

Tarek Al-Droubi she shouldn't bring it up lol. That happens later.

[@patriarchmike]

If they talk bad about all their exes that is definitely worse. Because you can make her forget about the last guy but you cant fix crazy

[@takashi1488]

My last ex had 9 of 14. At the near end of our relationship, I developed an occasional dizziness and nausea. As soon as we broke up it went away. Toxic relationship is not a joke. It really can hurt you mentally.

[@cheytec9089]

Bro same, we weren't quite dating and I'm glad we never got that far. She did at least 10/14 and I was wondering why life sucked so much. Very controlling and her sorrys ment nothing.. Its been a year now and I'm finally starting to realize it wasn't all my fault

[@rathernotsay8185]

She was stealing your soul man lmao

[@RealBelisariusCawl]

… bro she might’ve been poisoning you, for real

[@ivanchelo]

This video could be called: "What to expect when dating in modern day USA"

[@Goldzwiebel]

I am from Germany and a woman. For us, all these bad characteristics from the videos describe the stupid American woman. in our society people laugh at all of this and when a woman (or a man) has a dramaqueen moment in front of us she is laughed at. of course we also have women who fulfill some of the points, but they are not supported in them. a jealous person is not only jealous of his partner, but also of his coworkers, friends and family etc. - nobody likes that.

[@jesussaldana4558]

Thankfully I'm close to mexico, my chances are better over there anyway

[@tylerdinis958]

I was actually missing an ex until I realized she did 10/14 things on this list. I feel so much better now.

[@SKBottom]

Get out of the house, work up a sweat, and accomplish something.

[@fxstdribbler6427]

Same but im on my purpose so it makes it 10x better

[@fxstdribbler6427]

Oh another one is when they suck at relationships in general even friendships

[@sulsimsn0579]

Mine did all 14

[@ksekhose8933]

Dude!!! Sorry to laugh😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@christianldove]

6 years of absolute relational abstinence, 6 years of peace.

[@buildinpsylence]

totally feel you bro

[@rostharan]

5th year for me, NO FUSS NO MUST.

[@vriskaserket3086]

careful before you get yourself locked out of the gene pool

[@ryansmith3448]

25 years and counting : D

[@verfed]

That's cool and all but nothing beats having a little you running around. He will idolize you and want to be just like you. You'll never have someone love you more than he does.

[@WouldYouKindlyGWAR]

When your girl friend is no where on this list. I am blessed truly.

[@cesarbernal4765]

Wait for it....

[@tvbuu]

@@cesarbernal4765 lol

[@beadsman13]

@@cesarbernal4765 and it's John Cena!

[@davidjaxonmusic]

Are you 100% sure she’s a she?

[@WouldYouKindlyGWAR]

@@davidjaxonmusic She's got a vagina so she must be right?

[@LoneHeckler]

I love how he closed the door after she complained about him opening the door 😂

[@shondmichael1363]

Hopefully, he locked it.

[@douglasmartinez817]

"I'm a grown man, I don't snapchat..." best line in the video

[@rushud1]

Agreed!!!!!!!!

[@julioacceus253]

Douglas Martinez He listens to AOM Religiously.

[@The_Kentuckian]

"I work at Chick-fil-a" gave me a laugh.

[@tasheenasmith2130]

me too lol

[@t.n.jtinja4641]

i dont do Snapchat Bs eather to its a waist of time.

[@CatAtomic99]

If a woman makes a show of taking offense at your opening her car door for her, you should apologize, and close it. Lock it first though, or she might get in before you can drive away.

[@TerranMetal]

Haha! That is awesome, I'll be sure to remember this!

[@girisaman]

True.

[@cannonrange9977]

Good advice. Any person who rebuffs an act of kindness is not worth your time (as a thoughtful person). Pride rarely benefits us in our dealings with each other.

[@TheBrokenLife]

Also of note, on your first few dates you should manually unlock the passenger door with your key and see if she gets in and unlocks your door as you walk around. If not, move along...

[@pcwarduke2055]

good call

[@bbgphoto]

This applies to BOTH sexes, and nobody is going to meet all of these 100 percent. I see at least 3 of these that have been problematic for me in the past. Relationships need 100 percent from BOTH or ALL partners involved. Do it right or don't do it at all! Violence and Jealousy (keeping people away from friends) should be dealbreakers for EVERYONE! Period! It gets worse the longer you're in it 😬 That's a fact!

[@rushfan9thcmd]

For gods sake, just go your own way and leave the chaos and crap behind you and enjoy life.

[@mgtowarena9636]

"im not like other girls" -said every girl ever.

[@BrayoFitnessTrainer]

✊ nawalt. Smh

[@markas101]

soooo true.... ive heard this as well and then they act the way they say they don't

[@cvlts222]

“Not all men”...

[@lucindakloman6654]

I agree, but in all fairness, I wish I had a nickel for every time a man told me, "I'm not like other men".

[@JayVal90]

@@lucindakloman6654 "I'm not like other men I actually care about you more than your body"

[@fullanalysis93]

"I'm a grown man, I don't use snapchat." FINALLY

[@anthonyhenderson3189]

Ah, a fellow stoic.

[@williamlevy6964]

Stoicism's stupid. Just follow Jesus.

[@cristianitsirc6830]

@@williamlevy6964 How can you follow someone you can't even see?

[@culio544]

I deleted my snap account

[@NoName-sp5dp]

Lmao. U might need just one social media. Ppl are too crazy to hand phone numbers to

[@andrewdean3560]

its ultra satisfying to hear someone else who isnt greying confirm "I'm grown, I don't use snap chat". I've been pursuing a degree for so long hearing that app get talked about endlessly with such fascination really made me lose respect to obsessed seekers of lowly attention.

[@somebodyawesome7296]

This video was sad to me because I eventually realized this depicted my mother.

[@andersonboy620]

Well, thats quite a thing...

[@matthawkins123]

i think the problem is this dudes dating three chicks at once

[@lunacorn.my.unicorn58]

😂😂😂😂

[@minhngoc5788]

Matt Hawkins 😃😁😂

[@nogoods3511]

Hehe...Nice (-:

[@emeralddaughters]

Matt Hawkins Lol!!

[@alexiaturner399]

not a problem if everybody knows, and is ok.

[@kerryb.6419]

I think it's so dumb when some women get upset if a guy opens a door for them. Of course they know you're capable of doing it yourself, it's just a nice gesture. Why give them an attitude? So unnecessary lol smh

[@TdrSld]

If I can't open the door for the ladies, how else would I be able to look at their butts? JK in truth my mother beat it into me, in a good way its called manners and more people need them in this day and age.

[@kerryb.6419]

+TdrSld Exactly lol

[@andrewflores5332]

I completely agree with you, and of course this is no reflection on yourself, but I think it is very funny that you look just like the woman who got upset from the door.

[@kerryb.6419]

+Andrew Flores I know right; isn't it ironic lol 😂

[@the_catstronaut7037]

Yea why wouldn't a girl appreciate chivalry

[@ready4sea301]

Female reporter: "How do you write women so well?" Jack Nicholson's character: "I think of a man, and I take away reason, and accountability." Scene from "As Good As It Gets"

[@thatguyman6044]

Wow

[@SirJabalot]

Makes me want to watch this!

[@jonsmith8083]

TheBigCoffinHunter great movie

[@teresawilliams3570]

i suspected my man was cheating on me so I used @hackcrone an ethical hacker on Instagram to spy on his account.

[@tommcd8471]

@@teresawilliams3570 he should dump your ass.

[@donaldwyatt7617]

Unfortunately, the Red flags didn't show up until after the "I do's."

[@monathbachelor8424]

Same here buddy

[@stevec3526]

No, you did not notice the Red Flags until then. Then it was too late.

[@donaldwyatt7617]

@@stevec3526 not always. I've seen the Red Flags some of my previous relationships and removed myself from the mayhem. Some are able hide it, or hold it together for quite some time before slipping. Some change their behavior as they settle into the relationship or worse change after the "I do's" since they now have you hook, line and sinker. So, become more toxic in the marriage as time goes on. Another thing is Red Flags are more apparent these days with cellphones and social media. They bring out more of the female toxicity.

[@dieselforge4181]

Bro I swear my ex fiance didn't show red flags until after I put thar ring on her finger. It's like the ring set off some kind of chemical imbalance in her brain and she started acting crazy! So glad I didn't gk through with it. She was trying to rush me down the isle to say I do.

[@donaldwyatt7617]

@@dieselforge4181 I'm happy to hear you dodged that bullet.

[@tannerw.1609]

6/10 guys watching this thinking "Oh, Shit"

[@uabir8338]

Tanner W. Oh, shit!

[@Sanderson890]

Oh shit... Good thing I didn't call her after last night... ;D

[@harbingersev-oh-wohne]

Tanner W. LML more like 8/10

[@julzR23]

Tanner W. dude you have No idea

[@nathantyler-doyle4275]

this guy knows the truth.

[@mrpopsful]

"I'm a grown man, I don't snapchat."

[@spaghettiioassassin8151]

Jonny Ringo spoken like a true incel

[@oscarparedes4033]

I don’t snapchat, instagram and recently got banned from Twitter a second time. I just use Facebook to shit post liberals.

[@commmentz522]

@@spaghettiioassassin8151 no, he is a red pilled man

[@hectorsoy]

@@oscarparedes4033 I do the same! Hahaha! I even got Facebook jail for calling leftards out on their bs a few months ago! Waahahaha! I don't even really like using facebook much either. I tried Twitter for a few months years ago and that was retarded so i closed that account.

[@mikewalsh2915]

@@oscarparedes4033 I just use Facebook to shit post neo cons that apparently can't get their peckers wet

[@Anthrolithos]

5:52 "I'm a grown man... I don't Snapchat" Is now my go-to catchphrase when dealing with shallow women.

[@crissaegrim7419]

5 years later, this is still relevant.

[@IbrahimHassanDayTrade]

Yes king 👑 u never miss

[@breathingviolatestermsofse9915]

Write this on stone in hieroglyphics and bury it in the sand for 1000 years, it will still be relevant

[@mikenoga7222]

" I'm a grown man I don't Snapchat." lol

[@jimboslicesgv]

"Snapchat me that cookie" (said no guy ever) lol

[@keithlukeswanson9345]

I couldn’t agree more with him. I’m 23 and I have a Snapchat of 2,500 and that’s the first thing women question me about. “Why is your score so low” probably because I don’t snap people

[@revengeofthevillain]

I was looking for this comment hahahah

[@marlom7882]

Mike Noga preach it my brother

[@Yung_ammo]

Best line in the whole video.

[@waldlaufer3333]

Women in the comment section have a hard time understanding that this is a video FOR MEN and not for women, thus showing us red flag No.15 😅

[@Eezbeats]

They dont fuckin listen 😂

[@t4705mb6]

It's the attention AND the drama thing. It's in their DNA. It HAS to be about them or they go insanely jealous and depressed. If it's not about them then they will damn well MAKE it about them! Ever know a 2 year old brat? Well, there you go! My 93 year old great Gran used to call it "Stirring the pot!!'. Actually, a MGTOW man doesn't give a flying fuck what they think, feel, want or do! Period. kzbin.info/www/bejne/ooGpnauEaq6hgZI

[@waldlaufer3333]

@Amelia Weir Red Flag No. 16 - "she makes vulgar, s*xist and insulting jokes" 😅

[@jayrandomprojects]

@@waldlaufer3333 I love this thread 😂😂

[@hitkid2456]

Amelia Weir A man would be better

[@kendov288]

That feeling when your mother is 14/14...

[@garrettwoolverton2549]

Thank you for this. I’ve been in three different relationships and nobody tells you red flags are and which ones to look out for. Now I know what to look out for.

[@joygernautm6641]

Unfortunately, if she’s pretty most men will tolerate these women. That’s the problem

[@jlewsd]

Why should I care? She can be his headache, not mine. When a new man comes along with better looks and more money, he will learn.

[@armadillotoe]

Some of the wisest words I have ever read were above a urinal in a strip club. "Is the fucking you're getting worth the fucking you're getting?"

[@EminoMeneko]

Not me. Being pretty is a red flag to me. I mean in my own experience even not so pretty women can be full of herselves and the prettier the most I'll be suspicious. It is also what Georges Sand, who was not so pretty told for her defence I don't remember in what text but basically she told pretty women are meany and ugly one not attractive. She's none of these so she's both pretty enough and easy to live with. I have developed a genuine suspicion toward pretty women. Yes they are attractive but what's the point if she makes your life a nightmare? The same goes for a salary. Do you want a job that pays you 100K but is highly stressful and gives you no rest or 30K but let you breath? I'd rather not suffocate. Money can be attractive and a motivation but to some extent only. As soon as you can cover your needs and reasonable wishes you're OK. One do not need millions a year. The more you age the least pretty is important and the more the former pretty look like scary witches... Thank you but no thank you. There must be a ton of guys waiting in line to fuck you for a short-term but if you're hard to live with it won't go further. If you think that because you're pretty you have a license to misbehave with others go fuck yourself.

[@jonlucchargo8867]

Society has made entitled baby makers, no wonder Muslims feel threatened by western women

[@jac0736]

Damn straight. I tolerated a girl who ticked off 11 of the 14 marks for 2-3 months because she was hot and the sex was good. Never again though.

[@NotQuiteFirst]

Red flag: when she doesn't know what "alphabetical order" means

[@MrChris4251]

Good eye my friend, Good Eye.

[@fatetestarossa2774]

indeed

[@SpitshineSneakers]

I feel like there's a story there.

[@neefje94tokiohotel]

omg 😂😂😂😂

[@walterpalmer2749]

Marriage : living up to the expectations of someone else . (It'll never be enough) Good luck.

[@brianstephenson4713]

This is a great video. Awesome truths. I appreciate the way it was done. The acting is perfect. Great production.

[@xraceboyex]

Is this a "what to avoid" video? Feels more like a documentary of what dating modern women is like

[@lefty206]

Sadly true

[@dre4505]

Best comment here

[@commandericeman8588]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😄😄😄😄😄

[@mikekean8344]

These days, does it make a difference?

[@redlinkisfire]

😂

[@iceguy9723]

- They aren't curious about you - They rush the relationship - They don't ever disagree with you

[@heedmywarning2792]

they never RECIPROCATE they always ask for things/ favors only show affection when they need something spend more time with their friends than you constantly asking why you wear their underwear

[@jayking8182]

Dating is nothing more than filling out a job app

[@heedmywarning2792]

@@jayking8182 but unlike a job, you must pay every time you submit an application. And only AFTER you pay will you be told "i'm sorry, that position has been filled".

[@heedmywarning2792]

@Rafaela Mora between "spot on" and "wearing other people's underwear" there is a FANTASTIC joke to be made.

[@BRBallin1]

Biggest things I hate: - Acting passive and making you take all the initiatives - Never letting the other person know what they think or feel bc they're scared of confrontation - Perceiving things incorrectly based on limited knowledge on the topic

[@learninghebrew1929]

i would always read the blog but I HAD NO IDEA THERE WERE VIDEO VERSIONS OF THIS AWESOME BLOG!!

[@patriarchmike]

I have experienced almost all of these and I can say this guy does a perfect job at displaying how I felt through all of that

[@taylor8578]

I just ate a grape

[@TheAJmoviemaker]

WAS IT GLUTEN FREE?!

[@taylor8578]

+AJmoviemaker You'll never take my gluten >:[

[@TheAJmoviemaker]

+AnotherWeirdo WAS IT SOURCED LOCALLY FROM AN ORGANIC FARMER?!

[@Guagliozz]

and I jizzed in my pants

[@TheAJmoviemaker]

I'M AN OMNIVORE AND YOU'RE TRIGGERING ME YOU KALE EATING FEMINAZI

[@dridontcare]

My last relationship was my fault -- not one girl ever said..

[@Walking-MY-Path]

NEVER. You'll never hear them say "I'm so sorry" or "I truly apologize" never ever in your entire lifetime. And even if you do, there will be no sincerity and meaningfulness in their words EVER.

[@benflava_redpillaware3814]

Damn right.. Never ever.

[@amberslahlize7961]

Okay well, I will break the ice there..not my "last" relationship, but I did fail in one relationship...I should not have started it to begin with and I hurt him awfully in the end, I still regret that.

[@CoachDarren]

Johnny durko... lol you are so right its always the guy fault. Women think they are perfection...lol

[@PuristicRaver]

Heard it several times. So this is obviously wrong. Maybe you should try to...hmm go for a more decent relationship and work on yourself instead of blaming the other side?

[@reidbronson6358]

This is hilarious. The actors are fantastic. All are great comedians. Congrats to everyone involved: actors, scriptwriters, director, producers, film crew. You all did a wonderful job. Thank you for some great humor.

[@Aberrantly]

That was actually a very insightful and very well-made video. However, there's no such thing as a perfect relationship. We all have our pros and cons, and so even though that he/she is giving you "red flags" at times, try to remember as to whether or not you've actually been doing the same thing, instead of just jumping straight to "conclusion."

[@enriquesinghjr]

This guy is such a playerrr... dating like 5 girls at a time.

[@beckymesky]

Haha

[@pattymarquez1063]

And they are all psychotic.

[@AndDiracisHisProphet]

well, they are all women, so....

[@pattymarquez1063]

Not all women are psychotic lol

[@AndDiracisHisProphet]

but are all women without humor?

[@beatle1956]

Love is a 3 ring circus. Engagement ring, wedding ring, suffering.

[@timmotion6494]

Definition of marriage (old style): Aisle. Altar. Hymn. Geddit?

[@akilmcdaniel5633]

🙏🙏🙏

[@moonshine9964]

🤣🤣🤣😂😂

[@chosenwyse9822]

Right!! 😂😂😂😂😂... well said

[@theguy7480]

Fifth

[@soldatdaniels8738]

First video from this channel...and I LOVE IT!

[@dermotosullivan3065]

One of the first and simplest steps men can take to help themselves is to boycott companies who engage in male-bashing advertising such as Gillette and Nissan USA.

[@MrsBlack88]

Fellas, if a girl hits you, LEAVE. No ifs ands or buts. You deserve better.

[@Emmanuel-fc4uk]

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[@etinarcadiaego7424]

Irene Jacobs I agree. No tolerance at all for domestic abuse. If a gf hits me, its over right then and there, no exception.

[@MrsBlack88]

ChaoticEvilCanary So glad you know your worth!! Never forget you deserve nothing less than someone who treats you perfectly.

[@goldjustgold6210]

Ex tried that a few years back... I left her an hour later. Had that happen to me. I'll never do it again.

[@biffii5568]

Irene Jacobs I've always found that the hitters are amazing in bed 🤔

[@ant7936]

He only made one mistake......... He didn't stand up and walk every time.

[@rurirotaru516]

might be one mistake but he made it 14 times. Is he a masochist?

[@ytcensorship8180]

@@rurirotaru516 and I bet they done some retakes of the issues .

[@patrickbuckley7259]

"You do realize I work at chick-fil-a" was such a mood. Man deserves an Oscar for that delivery.

[@jgall8405]

Such a great vid. Ty!

[@SniperKingz]

This is really sad because most women generally have at least half of these traits......

[@nighttrain31975]

At a bare minimum...

[@krismitchell5496]

No just the girls/women you date, not a personal attack but take a look at yourself and your behaviors and what you're attracting.

[@krismitchell5496]

@NINJAGUAR Really, how so?

[@malcolmxraw1342]

@@krismitchell5496 its easy to say that but we have to consider the amount of dirt we throw on eachother.. its like an endless game of ping pong

[@Wavesfromthenorth]

I agree. I feel sad for men. You guys should read Ester Vilard's "The manipulated man". As a Christian I think the biblical way for a woman to be is a good way. Good men need to be respected.

[@ryanvigil2941]

I was 24 years old the first time I heard a woman apologize with any sincerity. 6 years later I still have the voicemail saved lmao.

[@ernestsysbm1175]

Damn! 😂😂😂😂

[@digitalleighton]

Wait, females apologize??

[@dankartes]

She was probably lying. Women are masters at 'faking' sincerity.

[@07citychamp]

I wish I was that proud of anything in my life tbh

[@Minervastouch]

She must of really fucked up

[@ericscott1701]

Awesome vid. Love it.

[@benjaminslife9424]

I have experienced each and every one of these. I had to learn the hard way one too many times. This video plays like their joking but the logic is spot on.

[@bananian]

Dating is too hard. I think I will just stay single and do whatever I want.

[@lionslipper]

agree!

[@staceykersting461]

Oh, well, that's good for now. Some day you may meet someone you enjoy being with. If I meet a guy who's equally interested, I just go to coffee or go running a few times. See if they turn out to be just friends or something more. Slow and casual rules the day. If they can't sit down by the river with me and lose track of time ,they're not my cup of tea.

[@staceykersting461]

So you can generalize about half the human race? We all attract pp lwho function at our level. I know that's pretty scary, but it's true. Over time,if we're learning anything, we we all attract more mature ppl into our lives. Since you are watching this video, maybe there's a spark of hope still within you? Anyway, you're in the right place. Here's your chance to seize an opportunity! I was just trying to be encouraging and optimistic. No need to be rude, As for saying one thing and meaning another, Yeah, I want a ferrari, but I'm saving up for a used Chevy! Oh, well.

[@1stwastheword893]

yoga2man yoga1man … the name says it all ~ lol Let’s put it this way … when you find the perfect woman … be sure she’s too good for you.

[@1stwastheword893]

okay then ~ enjoy being celibate, ***** вℓєѕѕιηgѕ 💕

[@naligrace]

“I saw you checking out that girl!” *”I just ate a grape..”*

[@12bymax]

did you know they did surgery on that same grape.

[@tfkvng3187]

Must've checked out a lot of girls because I just ate a bowl full of grapes

[@lucianodeleon6586]

Her: “I saw you checking out that girl “ Him: “ I was looking for your replacement “

[@strawhatmucci7086]

And I jizzed in my pants

[@sayidrayhan5442]

Let me save your time gentlemen 14 RED FLAGS OF DATING 1. Beware of self proclaimed drama queen 2. She is a liar 3. She treats waiter like a trash 4. She has a bad relationship with her family 5. She expects to be treated like a princess 6. She says all her exes are jerks 7. She is not flexible 8. She guilts you for spending time with your friends, she should be encourage you to do it 9. You always arguing with her 10. You can't stand with her friends 11. She is violent 12. You don't share your life goals or value of live 13. She is stingy of appreciation 14. She never apologizes

[@czypauly07]

Let me add that this is a quality video gentlemen, and well worth your time

[@DrealShadow]

I LOVE THIS VIDEO! ran into all of these with different girls you nailed it!

[@fatpizza7810]

“Grown men don’t use Snapchat” Amen to that!

[@qiff6667]

What is a snapchat tho?

[@bomcaa]

Dude, I'm still in high school and I dont even use snapchat

[@triplemoyagames4195]

@@bomcaa I used it once at 13 cause of peer-pressure. Haven't touched it since

[@fidelcordero8421]

I know dudes that use it. 😂 & they dont like me. 😂😂😂

[@joshbishop]

I technically use it but only 'cause it's the primary method of communication used by my roommates...sigh. It sucks, but I don't want to be the one person in the group that sticks out.

[@TheChadWork2001]

Man: "What do you have to offer this relationship?" Female: "You mean, just my promise of sparse sex that WILL be cut off after commitment isn't enough?"

[@xuchilbara21392]

And people still wonder why prostitution is far more common in marriage, elite societies (just look at Hollywood and cannes film festivals), and amongst even handsome intelligent men. It's simply less stress, it's provided RIGHT NOW and there is no being lead on. Yes it's expensive but becoming the perfect boyfriend is too (having a nice car, nice career, nice hair, nice face, nice house etc.)

[@chaz_noize]

@@xuchilbara21392 very interesting analysis. Btw nice S. Hill reference in ur username 🤘

[@ThomasSDavis-mc9of]

This should be instilled in the psyche of every young, Western male at the age of...five.

[@mattstorey7256]

@@xuchilbara21392 Don't forget the: It's not that you are paying her for sex, it's that you are paying her to *go away after sex and not bother you unless you want more* with no stings attached aspect.

[@vinportobg]

Yup and they wonder why they become divorced single moms

[@moores4415]

This is very helpful , thankyou man

[@theotherway1639]

"The Dating App Confessions" is a short book that explains the craziness of modern dating.

[@chadmight]

Soon as someone disrespects your job just say goodbye . Save yourself a lotta trouble.

[@jamess6961]

chadmight Job, parentage etc don’t matter. All people are individuals, but red flags are red flags.

[@mohamedalkrem1871]

Your channel is beautiful

[@mohamedalkrem1871]

We're are you from?

[@gottasayit9044]

Soo true!

[@Mickyboi1]

Man that guys had more girlfriends in the past 8 minutes than ive had in 8 years😂

[@kimle6886]

More than my entire life lol

[@ahmadfarhan4433]

Use coma

[@Dalonghair]

Ahmad Farhan Comma*

[@omarquirino1725]

So basically that means that you are happier. Dating is overrated af, just get what you want and go away before these women get crazy (they always do)

[@Emmanuel-fc4uk]

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[@Law19157]

Why haven't I seen this dude in any movies? his acting is spot on. The girls gave pretty good performances too.

[@Havoc62]

I love Love LOVE the way this was presented...

[@janusmagus]

"I'm a grown man...I don't Snapchat." I relate to this.

[@Emmanuel-fc4uk]

I know of a very good hacker that can help you with any type of hacking, either phones or computers. My husband was so smooth at hiding his infidelity so I had no proof for months I was referred to some hacker and decided to give him a try the result was incredible because all my cheating husbands text massages, emails, Facebook,WhatsApp, Snapchat, Instagram and viber conversations was wired directly to my cellphone. He helped me put a round-the-clock monitoring on him and I got concrete evidence of his escapades if you think your partner is an expert at hiding in his cheat adventure you can contact him too at cybercrack_hack3757 on insta tell him duke Anderson referred you bless !!

[@brandothefish]

duke anderson Oh yeah? Well I know a very good robot who can throw your ass to the moon if you don't shut up with this spam message bullshit.

[@Ayveh]

I loved that line!

[@General_Eisenhower1945]

janusmagus I didn't know Snapchat was a thing until about a month ago

[@rustinstardust2094]

Grown men *do* Snapchat. But they probably shouldn't.

[@thomasprice9256]

#15 She has no friends and/or hobbies and expects your company to fill all her free time. You should each live your own (complimentary and joined, sure) lives, and not be totally dependent on the other!

[@raelindashoates975]

Thomas Price hmm I possess those traits however I still let my bf do his own thing. I'm not clingy at all and always find things to keep me occupied. Possessing those traits doesnt automatically mean that a girl will be clingy.

[@thomasprice9256]

Raelinda Shoates then you don’t expect your partner to fill all your free time, so aren’t what I described. You aren’t selfishly using them as your sole entertainment source without regard to how they might want to spend their leisure time, so... you don’t fit the description. Even if you did, this is a list of red flags - ie, watch out for these as they may be indicative of problems down the line - not instant damning unforgivable traits that definitely identify an irredeemably evil partner.

[@chloepresley2000]

Yes! You were your own person before the relationship, and you have to be when you enter into a relationship too!

[@user-eo5bh2zg2]

I wish I could like this twice

[@bobbobby475]

I had no friends before my girlfriend so now I'm trying to make friends.

[@coachbluepill]

This is better than most of the new content I've seen.

[@jeanlanz2344]

Meaningful and hilarious. Thank you and God bless you!

[@terranceaskew3165]

Actually dated a woman who fit 13 of the 14 presented here. Only thing she never did, was get physical with me. But i was smitten. The sex was too damn good. Never going to let that happen again.

[@aluisious]

If you humped her and dumped her, it's not a big problem.

[@aluisious]

Sex is easy, having a loving companion is better. You can buy sex, you can't really buy love.

[@misterguy2329]

Also when you get older and actually want to reproduce, which most people do, you want someone else who is equally invested in your child, and the only way that happens is if your child is also their child. Women are generally good for that.

[@texjames2000]

I feel your pain Jimmy.. yet I really screwed up & had kids with mine.. So now I cant even get rid of her even though we no longer have sex.. Ain't that a bitch & she gets $900 a month for child support from me as well! WooHoo!

[@4demon9]

I think he meant physical as in physically violent.

[@cesarbernal4765]

Very good video!!!

[@wilfridjoseph5222]

Man just was reccommended on my phone and this was too funny. Subscribed one shot.

[@Mark9150]

1. She’s a self-proclaimed “Drama Queen. 2. She’s a flake. 3. She treats waiters like crap. 4. She has a bad relationship with her family. 5. She expects to be treated like a princess. 6. She says ALL her exes are jerks. 7. She’s not flexible. 8. She gets angry or guilts you when you want to spend time with your friends. 9. You argue all. the. time. 10. You can’t stand any of her friends. 11. She’s violent. 12. You don’t share any core values or life goals. 13. She’s stingy with the appreciation. 14. She never apologizes or takes responsibility for bad behavior. § ~ You´re Welcome ~ §

[@Hypercube1729]

Doing cthulhus' work, homie!

[@jernellelouis3432]

Mark Bartels omg you're a life saver

[@britishman2665]

Holy smokes, sounds like my ex. Glad I dumped her..

[@commonsense6257]

14. lol. How many guys have met self reflecting women who have taken responsibilty for their actions and poor behaviour? Unicorn springs to mind.

[@aleleonidepark3149]

I think im only 5 and 8, tho I’m trying to change for the better

[@lovatojonasfan1]

"Have you had any successful relationships?" If she had, she wouldn't be dating you.

[@duyplaystation]

Matthew Brunette lol i know right

[@fabec93]

For a guy on the first ever date in his life, with no prior (not at all successful, since he's single and on a date) relationships... really aught to have better things to talk about than specifically 'her-past dick sampling.' -but... if he does have his own history of train wrecks... I doubt he'll ever know that the next guy will know him as '-so and so-, the hypocrite' alternatively... 'so-and-so, already had a girlfriend/wife' xD

[@da4127]

I think he means a relationship with someone she doesn’t see as an asshole but they have to end it for having different values or life goals.

[@suckmyfatbish]

I do 5 of these but my ex boyfriend did a bunch of these too I don’t think men or women should act like this

[@TCt83067695]

Matthew Brunette daaaaaaaaamn lol

[@MURPHSOUND]

Great content!

[@Area51beatz]

This was great! Everybody played this perfect.

[@foday529]

He said, "you know I work at Chick-fil-a right?" haha. Those girls are just quick lays, it is as simple as that. This is how a guy figures out if a girl is a quick lay or relationship material.

[@Frexican54]

+foday S I like how later he's complaining about his job and the chick replys that its "not a grownup job" lol.

[@foday529]

Walter Johnson right...haha.

[@TheSublimePlaymate]

And your comment is exactly how a woman figures out you're a quick lay and not relationship material. Congrats!

[@foday529]

Vanesa Alicia No....my comment is not from female's point of view.

[@SeverdSeouL]

+Vanesa Alicia Why are you even here? Go back to Tumblr.

[@alexanderbutler2989]

Deletes text messages Shady sexual past Insults/critisizes all the time When your gut just says no

[@shadowwright3232]

You would probably not be happy if someone you just met went through all the old text messages on your phone. How would you know they had a shady sexual past? What does your sexual past look like and would you consider it their business? How many men insult and criticize one another all the time? What counts as freedom of speech and what doesn't? Why would a guy be entitled to be as insulting or critical to someone else as he wanted to be with Freedom of Speech as the justification but at the same time it not be true for a woman to do the same? When your gut just says no? Now, as I understand there is some research that has been done that seems to suggest that there are a certain number of neurons in the gut to qualify it almost as a secondary brain but the brain between your ears is still your primary brain. What does your Primary brain tell you about them? Between what the brain between your ears and your gut have to say about them, what do you think about this person and how much of it is based on biased cultural information you have been taught about their gender? If you find all this a little too personal then you do not have to use your freedom of speech to swear at me, you can just consider all of this rhetorical.

[@WitheringZealot]

@@shadowwright3232 its not the same for men. men biologically can have multiple partners while as for women its actually DEADLY and what starts the hoe syndrome in which she loses all sense of humanity and becomes a sperm toilet

[@sgtmuffinbadger6147]

😂😂😂

[@metalapologetics9285]

You are doing the Lord's work thank you you've taught me more about woman than any male figure or Society keep speaking the truth

[@Electross098]

I thoroughly enjoyed this

[@UrsoRuben]

"Im grown man I dont snapchat"

[@lotusdedart]

I actually made a snapchat because a list of girls really like it

[@11bravo26]

lol

[@monicawarren3678]

+Sex God so you did it to please some girls ah ha (:

[@Saffrone221]

You sound like a dude who wear tight shirt and skinny jeans at 35. No biggy

[@ArmstrongandTumbler]

I cannot get into it. I need to communicate with people, not play games.

[@robbhays8077]

This totally confirms how great my wife is. She is none of these things and she's awesome and I love her.

[@ABeardedDad]

+Robb Hays Was thinking the same as I was watching it. *Winning*

[@123eland]

+Robb Hays You're Lucky

[@robbhays8077]

+Eliot Cloud Excellent question! I love Art of Manliness and try to watch most of their videos. Also, I was curious how the girls I dated/interacted with when I was single (including my wife) stacked up to this list.

[@92Pyromaniac]

+Eliot Cloud I don't know that researching is going to actually help you much, but the fact you care enough to do that probably means you'll care enough to make the relationship work. As long as he/she is equally committed, you're golden :)

[@jimb8695]

+Robb Hays Lucky man you are.

[@interhistoria5632]

"I'm a grown man, I don't use Snapchat." Same here.

[@aaronknight1009]

ALL great points!

[@DogMechanic]

These are good guidelines for getting toxic people out of your life, just in general. Good video.

[@melpomeneouranos4973]

DogMechanic absolutely. These red flags work even for platonic relationships

[@yuechearry2196]

When you work at Chick-fil-A and see this video... 😭

[@mr.cifuentes1779]

Yue Chearry lol

[@bigfootrobot2115]

On point, thanks for the video.

[@OlympiaSophie]

Finally a concise list. Love the fact you said that women revel in being a drama queen. As if she took on a full time job position!

[@11THEW0RD11]

why am i watching this im single af

[@user-ym2kq4is3i]

JACK THESTALLION haha me too. are u (6mo later) still single?

[@BruceJC75]

JACK THESTALLION aren't most of us??

[@AHunDread]

A glass of something fine to all those who still lack that warmth in their life atm.

[@zebarizvi9393]

so are those 300 who liked your comment. cheers.

[@justrandom7752]

JACK THESTALLION me too man I can’t even get a reply

[@teamcanadaicepolice]

" you will never find another girl like me!" - 99.9% women

[@pucksberger]

I'll hope so, can't get worse.

[@The4Tifier]

“That’s the whole point...”

[@timmotion6494]

Translate: "There's none worse than me!"

[@auroraborealisknives4019]

Answer: No I can only find better

[@veesutube]

an abusive ex said that to me when I was breaking up with him. I proved him wrong.

[@jahigains9201]

Holy hell, this video's important. Thanks AoM!

[@thegizmolife9084]

I like this video, the actors where great and you can tell they where having a good time.

[@LunchtimeHoopers]

I'm 39 years old an I've honestly never heard a woman apologize for anything...

[@MrBiglog66]

Im 54 and ive NEVER heard it either....

[@MrBiglog66]

@First Last how the hell do women think like that? BLOWS my mind!

[@davute9546]

@First Last you are older than my grandfather and you know how to use the internet better than him. Maybe he is just dumb idk

[@drbluebarry]

I have although there is always a but after I'm sorry but you were being an ass

[@The_Based_Batman]

I hear it quite often actually. The problem is they don't change.

[@philmehrart]

This is giving me vietnam flashbacks to a past relationship with a feminist ex - so many of these red flags were present. Really dodged a bullet there.

[@jessicahainesmusic]

Perhaps you shouldn't date women who are into social justice. I know a mute female robot in Stepford Conn. if you want her number. Apparently she gives good head and cooks a mean steak au poivre.

[@brotherfrancis2625]

I have to watch this every couple of months!

[@bambaam7186]

great acting! thanks!

[@Broke_but_dope_]

I just want to point this out even though it really goes without saying. Men should hold others to these standards if they want a healthy relationship but what I feel is even more important is holding ourselves to these standards as well. Men have the capacity to be like the women shown in all of the examples in the video. If we want a successful relationship we should look at the red flags in ourselves as well as the red flags in the people we choose to be with.

[@michaela4404]

Pyrosaurus_Rexx women already have videos like this giving them red flags this video is for men only.

[@arthurmcvey8231]

Pyrosaurus_Rexx very well said.

[@username3766]

*Boys only* in crayon on a piece of cardboard posted on the treehouse.

[@samvise7404]

Obviously, men have red flags for dating, not all of these. Both genders have their own types of red flags.

[@Emmanuel-fc4uk]

I know of a very good hacker that can help you with any type of hacking, either phones or computers. My husband was so smooth at hiding his infidelity so I had no proof for months I was referred to some hacker and decided to give him a try the result was incredible because all my cheating husbands text massages, emails, Facebook,WhatsApp, Snapchat, Instagram and viber conversations was wired directly to my cellphone. He helped me put a round-the-clock monitoring on him and I got concrete evidence of his escapades if you think your partner is an expert at hiding in his cheat adventure you can contact him too at cybercrack_hack3757 on insta tell him duke Anderson referred you bless !!

[@secondmanup]

Rarely have I heard an apology from any woman I’ve ever dated when offending. No accountability.

[@cecilialang4110]

@Millinial Picasso My, My, you really are bitter and twisted, what happened?

[@andyman8630]

@@cecilialang4110 women happened

[@cecilialang4110]

@@andyman8630 Your mother is a woman, without whom YOU wouldn't be here!

[@andyman8630]

@@cecilialang4110 yep and she's no different to other women - can never accept a man for who he is, even her own sons - has to try her utmost to change the men in her life to what she thinks he should be! same as all other women

[@russianraccoon7401]

@@cecilialang4110 uh oh, big boomers

[@anainesrodrigues]

This is very true. But it goes both ways!

[@janedeane3656]

Moving on beyond my ex has been a great experience. There are so many better guys out here!

[@dtraversodt]

-doesnt ever want to take pictures with you -quickly changes subject when you talk of your interests -she tells you about her ex(exes) on dates especially when she highlights the money he spent on her. " Never apologizing" is one of a women's default settings

[@Walking-MY-Path]

Yep. Those are all the red flags.

[@Thynqikan]

-if she stays friends with all of her exes and going out for an evening involves hanging out with those guys. My ex always wanted to go out with all of her friends in a large group and very frequently there was always an ex-boyfriend there. Hence why she is my ex.

[@VlOREL]

ON POINTTTTTT

[@TheRixtah1]

Just the fact she has exes (plural) speaks to a promiscuous lifestyle: the biggest red flag there is if you're looking for long term relationship. It renders long term commitment from her all but impossible.

[@KING_LIRI1]

@@Thynqikan My ex was basically all of these flags listed with DLCs. Sadly I was nothing but a boy who didn't know any better.