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@RobertBrown-x8z2 ай бұрын
How are you doing
@RobertBrown-x8z2 ай бұрын
How are you doing
@dianeatpeace3373 ай бұрын
You can't really know someone in under a year. Remember: for 4-6 months at least, most people are only showing you their best side. Sharing time together and dealing with daily struggles eventually lead people to reveal themselves. It takes getting completely comfortable in a relationship for most to 'drop the mask' and truly show who they are as a person underneath the social mask.
@footyfan101ful2 ай бұрын
Yes!! I follow a group from Italy and one of the guys got married a few weeks ago. He proposed a month and a half after meeting her!! All the fans don't like her because there is something off with her. Three months after the engagement he mentions that she is very demanding and is extremely rude to people when she talks to them. You can tell in videos from the wedding (even before the event) that she is the centre of the universe and she is the centre of attention and everyone has to be focussed on her. This she shows her true colours. I hope he bloody runs out of this marriage before it's too late.
@santokki.0072 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Matt : ) ❤ 1) Compatibility over Chemistry 2) Peace over Excitement 3) Growth over Happiness 4) Giving over Receiving
@buda20493 ай бұрын
Incompatibility kills chemistry ⚛️ for sure
@autumnakins76403 ай бұрын
It did for me and my fiancé (ex now)!
@tiffanycrenshaw54213 ай бұрын
Peace over excitement for me has definitely kept me out of my feelings and which lead to understand that if we not growing to become a couple from a friendship then this dating has to come to a stop because that guy isnt my person
@carolinareaper80893 ай бұрын
You can fall in love in someone who is not attractive. I always follow learning about someone then assessing their looks. I was always like this… checmistry to me is when someone is good person, ambitious, relatable, have moral spine. Believe me this people are rare !!! Very very rare
@sallyprestonloveanddreambu8903 ай бұрын
This was outstanding. It was like a mini class and I actually heard so many new concepts when I’ve heard I thought everything!!’ Instead of enrolling in a weekend class to learn all this you pulled out most important things and actually can retain and take action immediately!!! LOVE THIS!!!
@raeofsunshine1443 ай бұрын
This is great advice, but I disagree with one thing. the law of giving doesn’t necessarily activate the law of receiving. Being used and in one sided relationships definitely teaches you to focus on what you receive because some people will try to reap the benefits you give.
@lucinaburke13973 ай бұрын
I was the over giver in all my relationships expect the one I'm in now. Most of the men in my life were only takers. It took me many years to change my habit.
@autumnakins76403 ай бұрын
@@lucinaburke1397yes, me too! Just got out of one of those, and I'm surprised at myself! I thought I'd learned by now!😂
@SuperDflower3 ай бұрын
Been there too
@linnie143 ай бұрын
Thought the same thing :)
@naomioduse5025Ай бұрын
I agree with Mat. If it doesn't work is because you are in a toxic relationship. This advise if for healthy people, whom act in a natural human healthy way, an in fact he talks about an healthy cycle of giving/receiving, were the two equalize. If in the other hands, you constantly give more then what is necessary there might be chances that you don't have healthy boundaries, and you are fostering this unhealthy cycle by no stopping the giving even when is toxic for you.
@aanuyate13 ай бұрын
Peace over excitement. Phew! You have answered my question, which I've been searching for years. Thanks for sharing Matt.
@powerinjoy98982 ай бұрын
I’ve experienced and seen in my dating coaching clients that extremely high chemistry isn’t a relationship maker especially if it outweighs the compatibility factor by quite a bit. I’ve also experienced and witnessed with clients that compatibility does increase chemistry. Absolutely loved the giving over receiving especially with the dating profile. Listing what they’ll receive in regards to experiences. Lot’s of laughter, connection in nature, quality time together…Great vid Mat. Thank you.
@owusuaboateng-ama68663 ай бұрын
Mine was to listen, and that hit me hard. That was because I used to think I was the best listener and so I was expecting to be listened to, which I was desperately seeking 😂. Now I have learned to listen and it feels so great to be heard as well 😊
@mirandasullivan-selfempower3 ай бұрын
I just went through an experience where I attracted someone with the sparks and it was fun....but when I got to know him, it doesn't look like he's compatible with me, it was the first time that someone showed up and I chose me instead until the right one comes along. I used to give the spark ..way toooooo much priority.
@oluwasubomiadewusi39463 ай бұрын
I never regret watching your videos. Pure truth & exclusive learning
@oluwasubomiadewusi39462 ай бұрын
Thank You Matt Boggs for all of your videos. They're always filled with truthful & practical life principles. You're definitely my best relationship coach on this app. 😊❤
@GracialahaightАй бұрын
Great video! Sadly, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly.
@mhal23 ай бұрын
Love that you mentioned Alison Armstrong, Mat!
@rleahfisher2 ай бұрын
Incredibly practical and helpful. Thank you!
@christyrohrmayer53302 ай бұрын
This is outstanding and completely on par with the relationship I’m in right now. Very encouraged; thank you!
@katemiller59903 ай бұрын
So maybe another way to put it would be “happiness via growth”?
@lynnettemarino69722 ай бұрын
Great video! Really liked the fireplace example for giving and receiving.
@tavananda20583 ай бұрын
Thank you, Matt, for sharing great relationship knowledge! ❤
@kimfrederick77103 ай бұрын
This is an awesome video filled with great advice
@lucinaburke13973 ай бұрын
You are so spot on !!!!
@marymutero72122 ай бұрын
Great advice, thank you
@shellydavis76842 ай бұрын
Love your passion in what you do ❤❤❤❤❤
@profelis33123 ай бұрын
Happiness is a mode of travel, not a destination.
@celesserenity44233 ай бұрын
This is great Matt thank you!
@JoyleiaJo8 күн бұрын
2:51 nope
@camilleroseministries2 ай бұрын
I didn't feel that incredible chemistry towards my husband at first. Mainly bc we had been great friends for years. He asked me to give him a chance bc he would treat me really good. I said okay, then God worked. Now we have an incredible marriage with lots of passion and communicate better than i ever have with anyone. ❤❤❤
@dagmarhyacinthe69783 ай бұрын
I love your background 😍
@bella30963 ай бұрын
Thanks Mat.
@sabariahsamsudin60623 ай бұрын
There is jealousy unnecessarily that makes it a turn-off in the maturity personality or is it a sign of masculinity in either gender
@thewatcher63883 ай бұрын
Great video!!
@rattansaini54232 ай бұрын
Beautiful!!
@jkd95733 ай бұрын
I guess I’m right, that I’ll never have love.. cuz I’m totally done giving love trying to get love back. I’m done with pouring myself out to never get refilled. I need someone who is gonna pour into me first now, cuz I’m empty. 😢
@Random_thingspt22 ай бұрын
I understand you more than I wnt too but.... I still stand by my mantra since I was 16 and I'm 61 and single(widowed) again. My mantra... Tis far better to have loved and lost.. Than never to have loved at all. Hope this helps you.
@BubbleGumFae3 ай бұрын
Check out MBTI personality types
@snuggleb1003 ай бұрын
I think I need coaching lol I’m on the dating sites. I’m getting a lot of hits. Lots of people having conversation with me but they eventually stop talking to me. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong my friend thinks I say too much too soon. I’m not really sure if that’s the case I don’t know Matt do you coach I think I could use some.
@lovepeacejoyhappiness3 ай бұрын
how is your self worth or opinion of yourself? are u trying to sell how amazing you are (paradoxically this comes from an insecure or low self worth place), or are you trying to gauge if they're the right fit for YOU? Do you have self defeating beliefs you repeat often (out loud or in thoughts) such as, "good men are hard to find", "this always happens to me", "i can never get a good man", etc etc. I'd start there.
@nabilarahim59112 ай бұрын
I envy the people who are able to be in quiet relationships... I have this dopamin brain that loves excitement and growth, never wants things to stand still.
@EliteMediaCreatives2 ай бұрын
Can we edit your videos ❤
@adedenathana91602 ай бұрын
I have been single for 14 years and now in three years relationships but he is not single what advice will give about this relationship situation?
@TheJosiejumper2 ай бұрын
❤
@quixote19653 ай бұрын
I would wager your compatibility deepened because you became compliant to what she wanted you to be. You stopped making any independent decisions. You let her know where you were at all times. You no longer spent money without consulting her . Your choice of car had to meet her approval. Your choice of friends had to meet her approval
@dale116dot73 ай бұрын
The best advice I heard was: DON’T. Just don’t. Loneliness is better than the hurt of love gone wrong. No to relationships, no to marriage, no to children, no to divorce.
@kathysoriano81072 ай бұрын
You would think the more you pour into someone they would want to back. But not my guy.