The 3 lies that keep you stuck in betrayal trauma

There were 3 lies I believed about trust that kept me stuck in betrayal trauma. Here's the first one.
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[@CaToRi-]

Love without trust is possible. For example, I love my cat but I don’t trust him alone in the kitchen… Same with people.

[@jesvans]

[@rmcgraw7943]

Maybe for women, but a man can not love someone he doesnt trust, and by extension some who isnt inconsistent or devoid of credibility.

[@JeremyHopkins-gy7ji]

😂😂😅😅😂

[@williejames516]

😂ha ha ha

[@humanistology]

Yeah, but your cat won’t take 1/2 your shit when you divorce….FACT!

[@paigewhite1251]

Just ALWAYS BE READY TO BE BETRAYED. #ALLWAYS

[@lindajoyrainbowneal5609]

... I think the biggest lie is believing that u need to be in a relationship ... ❤❤❤

[@rachelross5829]

Im commited to stayjng single and just having friends. People are to broken to extend themselves.

[@nubia4728]

Needed this today. Thanks.

[@BillyG869]

If you don’t truly feel comfortable and trust someone you need to follow your feelings…

[@curtmowry43]

What about trusting HER?

[@ginaberrie2608]

I thought there were 3?

[@kathryndemarco7040]

I needed this. Thank you.

[@dennistate5953]

Strong medicine. Thanks.

[@ginaberrie2608]

I can see she doesn't reply to comments....Ugggghhhh

[@donnasimmons2241]

I only heard one, I thought there were 3?

[@paulmoore7064]

If she won't trust him, then he might as well stop trying to earn her trust. (P.S. How does a man with such an attractive wife become addicted to porn in the first place?)

[@rachelross5829]

I opened up after 6 years of celabacy with a nerd church mouse having really good sex and caught him doing exactly what he said he overcame many many years ago. Has nothing to do with her

[@CaToRi-]

Because addictions are more related to faulty relationships during childhood. She could be Miss Universe and the problem will be the same.

[@jameswerner9650]

Just because she’s attractive, doesn’t mean she puts out.

[@nubia4728]

Because pornography started before he met her and pornography is everywhere and is a coping/addiction mechanism for many.

[@tomreeves175]

Truly a self centered idiot

[@jera9654]

Good job, have a comment for the algo!

[@everitadave]

why don`t you just divorce him? why? this (porn) can`t possibly be excused. cheating. besides, it`s kinda impossible to want to look at all that porn ugly bodies...

[@Johnnyroten]

Your beautiful

[@andrejensen7837]

Oh and your husband should trust you after you have told the world about his problem. This is covert narcissist behavior.

[@rachelross5829]

Yeah ok meanwhile more than %90 if men are addicts 😂😂😂😂😂

[@SSSoziro]

Sorry 2 hear everyone caught on 2 ur lies

[@Fegga1955]

❤❤

[@TrueWalker88]

Yikes.

[@alecachambers4603]

What if he isn't trying

[@jesvans]

if you were my girl, there would be no time for corn, if you know what i am saying.

[@garycrandall8649]

She's too young to be giving advice, what is she denying him that leads him to have to resort to porn. We need legalized prostitution in this country, so men won't have to do this,

[@sol_di_14]

How do you know she's denying him sex? Porn addiction is real, there are men that are not satisfied with normal sex in their relationships and need something new, a dopamine hit. Not all men are like you.

[@garycrandall8649]

@@sol_di_14 The American woman is the least desired woman in the world because she is generally concidered a selfish, spoiled rotten narcessist bitch. You don't see any men from around the world wanting to marry an ameican woman. American men on the other hand, are the most desired men around the world and it's not just by impoverished women either. Wealthy women want american men too. That's what men in the know and have the means go outside the US to find a wifable woman do. Get over it! The american woman desirves to be kicked to the curb. Don't worry, the LESBIANS will want you. And you know what that's for............wink

[@kapppeela5328]

@@sol_di_14because she had to make a video about ‘his problem’ not whats causing it. Women are known for withholding or using sex as a control tactic to get what she wants.

[@sol_di_14]

@@kapppeela5328 it's a real issue people should talk about

[@hayleysterling3598]

I swear men want to put all the blame on women as to why they’re not getting enough sex. What if it’s not all her? What if you give her absolutely nothing to look forward to in the bedroom because you’re only worried about yourself and your need for sex? It’s a two way street. Many men expect so much from women when it comes to sex, but underdeliver when it comes to reciprocating. But hey, I guess it’s easier to just pay for meaningless sex than to connect with your partner and discover what their real turnons are to make them want you all the time 🤷‍♀️