The 5 Biggest Red Flags in Lesbian Dating

Have you ever seen a red flag when you were dating someone you wanted things to work out with?
It’s a huge bummer when that happens, because red flags are evidence that the relationship you’re currently pursuing is doomed.
And this means that the long-term emotional pain you will suffer from being with them is greater than any short term comfort and enjoyment you get out of the relationship.
And there are 5 red flags that are so major that they should be automatic dealbreakers when they come up.
I talk about all of them in this video.
If any one of these 5 red flags comes up with someone you’re dating, it means the best thing you can do is end the relationship and start over.
But if that happens, you really don’t have to worry.
Because this world is full of beautiful, open-hearted queer women who are longing for love just as much as you are, and there is a huge number of those women who you would be extremely attracted to, who would feel just as attracted to you, if you were to meet.
As long as you don’t self-sabotage or stay stuck in the wrong relationships, it’s only a matter of time before you cross paths with one of those women. And together you will be happy and build a life and get to experience all the things you want from love.
And I will be so excited for you when that finally happens.
Let me know what you think in the comments below!
P.S. If you want lesbian dating advice from me more often, follow me on Instagram @jordana.michelle and subscribe to my podcast Women Wanting Women (anywhere you listen to podcasts).
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Want to find out what qualities the woman of your dreams will find most attractive about her when you meet? Go to lesbianattractionquiz.com
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[@Laffingrl]

Being alone,is better than being with someone who is indifferent or a sneak and a liar.

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Definitely better! 💪💥💪

[@user-uo1xn7kv4r]

People don't change, so true. What you see is what you get.

[@P.willow]

I've had everything u said. Its horrible how 1 person can damage u in soo many ways.

[@jordanamichellegutman]

I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's truly horrible how one person can do so much damage, but also empowering to know that next time, if you see the red flags, you can protect yourself by drawing boundaries and not letting yourself get taken advantage of 💪🏻 🙏🏼 💪🏻

[@avaparkergray1983]

i feel like this advice is applicable for any kind of relationship :)

[@jordanamichellegutman]

I agree. I offer my advice from my own lesbian perspective, but if a broader group of people resonate with what I'm saying and find it useful, that's great. Not all dating videos offer advice that's fully applicable to lesbians, and that's why I try to speak from my own perspective and share what I've learned for others who are in a similar position. 🙏🏼🌈🙏🏼

[@lyne3783]

Yes but this Is a lesbian channel

[@elisegray6962]

Never believing in potentials ever again, I will now trust people when they show me who they are and what they have to offer right now, not in a week or a month time. I am not here to entertain anyone. If you cannot make the time and the effort to love me now, I will not stay because we're clearly not on the same page.

[@crytalcrytal]

This world is full of beautiful open-hearted queer women... Just not any in your city and/or state 💀 welcome to being a lesbian 💔

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Lol. I know how you feel, and I've felt that way too. But I promise they are there, walking the streets, circling the peripheries of your social network. Don't give up.

[@sparkleskystorm2855]

Women are horrible ​@@jordanamichellegutman

[@jenniferliman6670]

Great advice. Thanks Jordana

[@retireddeloach]

OUTSTANDING videos. Great advice Jordana.

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Thanks so much! I really appreciate it 🙏🏼💃🏻

[@simsim1293]

Thank you for sharing this video. It kick two bird with one stone for me. Appreciate it. It would have been hard to seen this video a few weeks ago.

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Thanks for your comment. I know what you mean, that sometimes certain truths are hard to look at. I'm glad this helped you clarify. Good luck!!!

[@MichelleLohde-uv2rx]

@@jordanamichellegutman my girlfriend of 12 years and we have a daughter together she jeslous and check my e mail and my phone what i do ?.

[@stephaniedodt2389]

This is all excellent advice!

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Thank you! 🌈💃🏻🌈

[@flawdanative3223]

"No truer words have been spoken"! Save yourself a lot of pain, Ladies...

[@grahamcrackerjay]

This is so true!!!

[@jordanamichellegutman]

🙌🏻 yes!!!

[@plworld5315]

These are great. I’d also add avoiding women who suffer from untreated addiction.

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Yes, that can be dangerous. 🙏🏼

[@plworld5315]

@@jordanamichellegutman just a little

[@emilytreu2312]

Please keep making videos!

[@jordanamichellegutman]

I will. Thank you so much for the support.

[@elissarios2195]

this was so good :)

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Thank you so much!! 🙌🏻

[@RiseofTaitoShirei]

I'm glad you're making videos. I like following you for the perspective.

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Thank you. 🙏🏼

[@brittneybrown4849]

I feel like my partner is just "settling" when it comes to me and the relationship, but then she tells me she loves me and im just being insecure. Its so comfusing and it has literally caused so much pain in my life.

[@jitkasuarez]

Thanks Jordana!

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Thanks to you, for the support! :)

[@folkeholtz6351]

Thanks vry much is so wise advice. Hope that many take hold of them.

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Thank you! 🙏🏼

[@sarahwalters7701]

You look fantastic! Thanks for the upload :)

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Thank you so much!

[@uscitizen3252]

Great advice!

[@jordanamichellegutman]

Thank you!!!! 🌈 🙏🏼 🌈

[@marshmallow13585]

Thank you!

[@jordanamichellegutman]

You're very welcome!! 🙏🏼💃🏻🌈

[@maxinethompson37]

3:30 That's an interesting take on affairs I've never heard of.

[@jordanamichellegutman]

thank you 🌈

[@Slx742]

Absolutely 100%

[@selenem3384]

covert narcs are probably the most abusive

[@alanaban1840]

This is a video that show u how to do the wrong and call it right/

[@Ariesstubbornbutt]

Stop using queer. When I was growing up it was an insult meaning also a molester etc. I suggest changing it.

[@elisegray6962]

Your comment is the direct reflection of your pseudo 😂😂 Please evolve with our present time, past is past. Just heal your trauma.

[@Ariesstubbornbutt]

@elisegray6962 what trauma. You're the nutcase

[@NAhuufeloo]

Thank you!

[@jordanamichellegutman]

🤗🌈🤗