The 6 Steps to Becoming a High Value Woman

[@lean-angelygazzingan5893]

6. Grouch (Nagger) 5.Ms Convinient (the why should i?) 4.Pick me (i do what they/he want) 3.Hot girl (transactional, in own her timeline, know what she wants ) 2. Ride or Die/Team mate (respects partner , smart, she is there in the unit) 1.Her- the Queen (free, knows how to n make herself happy, taking all the juice of this world 😅 you are enegmatic, incredible, black cat, not desperate, gives energetic value, boundaries, joy etc.

[@jamjam0409]

I'm a pick me girl. And I atreact guys when I start doing my own thing but once I get the attention I go back to a pick me girl and lose their interest.

[@ikechukwumarvelous8768]

I have seen old money being grouchy

[@keystrength270]

Thanks because this was a very disorganized presentation. Lol

[@lean-angelygazzingan5893]

@@keystrength270lol i made it for my own sake it is up to you to read of not 😂

[@lean-angelygazzingan5893]

@@jamjam0409keep doing inner work minimum 1hr a day like listening to Margarita or reading her book

[@hajnalkakuszak6090]

I swear you are changing my whole outlook on life. I used to be very lonely even in my relationship and feeling like I’m not enough for him for years. But it all changed after weeks of listening to your videos. Now I find joy in being alone. Seeing myself as a powerful feminine woman is such a special and comforting place to be in, I’m anxiety free for the first time in my life. Thank you for being the mother I never had, as a 21 year old with anxious avoidant attachment style, I totally needed this. I finally feel like I’m in my essence and others can feel it too, you literally changed my life. I started as a people pleaser and now that I don’t need that validation, I’m finally free.❤

[@KiEDG]

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[@empresslove2120]

I’m resonating with number 1, At age 46 (level 46) My children are grown up, one left home, Im divorced and single, Running a successful business, I work the hours/days I choose, I have a wonderful social life and also have strong boundaries in relation to my solitude. I avoid drama and can’t accept elephants in the room, I don’t have high expectations however I have requirements in my professional and personal life and if those needs can’t be met then I seek higher guidance and often solutions revel themselves. I’m a fiery passionate person, I need to feel things, I can’t repress my emotions and we shouldn’t have to, Being grounded, responding instead of reacting is a super power it’s a beautiful way to express ourselves. Some might find it confusing or it may make them feel uncomfortable, That is because when we embody our natural state of feminine energy we become a mirror shining a light on what is hidden, We disarm negativity. Embracing who we are and allowing our light to shine is such a luxurious feeling 🥰✨🙏

[@KiEDG]

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[@kingadatoma]

I don t think is feminine energy when you arrange your life so you do not receive love from a romantic partner.

[@IreneDoll]

Virgo mother has posted♥️♥️ You deserve a million subscribers I swear you transform the way I think and act in a span of couple videos

[@KiEDG]

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[@friedgreentomatoes5054]

I should have known she was a Virgo lol no wonder I relate so well. Virgo gang ✨

[@rubygem908]

absolutely love all your content. The way I LAUGHED when you mentioned the dog barking and the working two jobs to support the bf with the garage band LOL. you are simply the best. Love you Margarita!!

[@KittyTempleton]

Margarita, can you plz do a post/podcast about how to raise kids so that they will have normal attachments to their future partner. ❤ Thank you 🌹

[@kelly.nicole]

YES I ALSO THINK SHE SHOULD DO SOME PARENTING MATERIAL

[@shiwangee]

I wanted to request for the same! Even though I'm not a mother yet nor am I in a relationship w any man 🤓

[@la4894]

@@shiwangeeme too! look at us doing the work to help society.

[@HannahMcBean]

@@shiwangeenever too early to learn/self improve for the future :)

[@shelbycrobinson]

This!

[@caulfieldlover]

Really enjoyed your video !! For me I realized that being ''her'' is easier when I am in a safe space, aka at home with no one seeing me/her. One of the biggest challenge for me is to stay true to myself even in public !

[@Sustainablewealth777]

Margarita honey, you don’t know how much I love you . The way you talk , the words you use , above all your knowledge, wisdom and perceptive . Don’t change , there can only be ONE YOU

[@jibarabicha4853]

Currently am caught in between the I don’t need it, Hot girl, grouch and Queen. It just might depend on my hormones and cycle honestly 😅

[@JillBergene]

Because she’s full of shit.

[@reflection011]

Seriously!!

[@theresiakroschel3377]

Omg I am the Same😂😂😂😂

[@natinha14]

Awwwwww so many videos these days. So grateful ❤

[@nicolecarrillo6755]

So IMMENSELY grateful 🙏🏼

[@ashlee7831]

I see the “I don’t care” woman in myself, simply because you cannot force anyone into a relationship with you. To some extent, having a relationship with someone is not only up to me, so I can’t hinge any huge feelings on something I genuinely can’t fully control. I think it’s important to admit that. It might be insanely important for me to have a partner, and I also might never get one. To keep my sanity, the importance must lower in some way.

[@aprildawnmusic_]

I really appreciate the way you categorize these. I had to mull it over for a bit, but it makes a lot of sense.

[@KendraHernandez-j5u]

So cool! I was Ms Convenient throughout most of my twenties and then a Pick Me throughout my long term relationship which in my head i thought i was a ride or die. That relationship ended. I am now in my hot girl era and have been for months. It is very fun here but I can def see myself getting stuck here which I do not want--and I can feel myself getting sad and longing. I am 34 and ultimately I want to get married so I am trying to work on that at the moment. Thank you so much for this!

[@KevinoTsiikrii-ch9mr]

Hello Margarita I bumped into one of your videos and since then I'm not able to get over it.... I'm listening to alll of it on repeat can't sstap it thank you keep going

[@cassavates]

Thank you. I see my growth in retrospect now, thank God. I am Her, definitely, sometimes. 😊🙃😊❤️🌹☀️ I used to be the whyshould-I.. due the childhood stuff.. still working on boundaries. But many are "victims" like me, so You Ladies are All Her in the making.😊❤

[@Nikkidani92]

I love you so much Margarita! You're my soul sister ❤ I'm stuck between 2 and 3 and once in a blue moon I feel like ME! A.k.a. HER! So I'm right there with you beautiful! And I'm along for the ride to truly find that No. 1 rank in the essence of my true amazing feminine energy flowwwwww girl

[@peacepantherproductions]

I feel like I’m the ride or die but without a partner.. guys can feel that I am almost everything they ever wanted and then they get scared.. basically I function as “the hot girl” but when im alone, which is 95% of the time, I’m her. When I’m with anyone I like I feel like they don’t see the real me.

[@stefanytellez223]

I can relate

[@gulsevk119]

omg sounds like me! Did you check your birth chart, do you have venus in your first house?

[@heyitsBb]

Is this related to astrology as well? I have ven in my 1st house 😅 ​@@gulsevk119

[@Nirvana.Flowers]

🎯 you nailed it! I know a “grouch” and it’s sad. You describe her accurately. Watching her fall bitter only made me want to become more free! Everyday I’m working on “Her 👑”!! I really love your messages! Thank you 🩷

[@meredithhillard5449]

I love listening to podcasts that push me to be my best self and to live to my highest level! Can't wait to read your book! Thanks Margarita!

[@TuffTgr]

Her book is amazing ! I have listened to most of it in a few days 😊

[@shawtyg713]

Can I just say how much I freakin love you lol. I’ve been silently watching your videos, I purchased your book through Audible (and yes I still plan on buying the hard copy so I can make notes inside). BUT SIS!!! You always come with the tea, the RIGHT tea and I love it💕

[@A.nameless.monster]

I'm constantly switching between 2 and 1, on bad days I fall into 3. But I'm working on becoming her, slowly but surely 😌

[@renukamane2117]

Omg ...❤❤❤thanks my queen..I am in "HER" category 💗 ❤❤❤❤ love u 💋 thank you for your video ❤❤❤

[@rachellevinson4747]

I’m not a psychologist but I would be so bold to say that women will jump either to 3 (hot girl) or 4 (pick-me) depending on their attachment style (avoidant and anxious, respectively). As a recovering anxiously attached person, I feel I have graduated from a 4 to a 2 as I get more secure, and am working to integrate fully into my ultra magnetic 1. I almost feel like 2s could be split into 2 categories - one for the avoidant and one for the anxious, and represent a partially integrated version of self. The 2 you described sounds like a former anxious attachment, and perhaps there’s another fragment for the previous hot girl.

[@boykaangelov9384]

Thanks

[@alikemalkuru5095]

Lisanını bilemedig halde İzlemekten yorulmadım ..Margarita Muhteşem Annesiniz

[@urskaizremo]

Dear Margarita, I love your content ❤ Im reading your book and it gives me so much peace and wisdom- THANK YOU for following your souls calling and sharing it with the world ❤

[@vanessaprincesssa]

This was so very well explained and easy to understand, thank you Margarita ❤❤

[@betania6001]

I first thought i was number 4, but im between 4 and 3, and wanting to get to 2. 🙏 thank you ☀️❤️

[@meant_for_bigger_things]

Thank you 🫶🏽This video really validated the light towards I'm gravitating to, I hope all of us get to " become her" 🙌🏽 for context I'm a ride or die teammate I recently broke up with ex who was a grouch. I was mesmerised by her confidence because I had just come out of an abusive relationship with a man. I really acted like a pick me for her for 2 years (I'm a bi woman).

[@Shreyashi_512]

The intro though 😭✨🎀

[@boykaangelov9384]

Margarita, great video! Authentic, very structured, with a clear vision what you want to convey

[@andycristiana1043]

I'm 1 & 2. I do for the family unit, but squeeze every bit of joy in life 😊❤

[@faizaa9930]

I am a 2 and know that for sure if I want to be a 1 I need to ignore the societal pressures of what a women should be ! Defo working on this

[@Natalia-gf6uk]

Im 18 and being type 2/1 and im so excited for further journey!!

[@sujata_155]

I am stuck between 2 and 1, thanks for this wonderful video, its really so insightful and deep and thanks for the tips on gow to become "Her" ❤

[@cella3081]

Love this! I’d love to hear your practical tips on how to be a calm and joyful mom? And how to raise securely Attatched children. Doing my best but it’s challenging and I often feel I fall short. Thankyou for everything you share, it’s so helpful and supportive in my growth journey ♥️

[@AnastasiiaHrebenichenko]

Margarita, you are absolutely wise woman in the most feminine way! The way you put it all into structure, into words is amazing! Thank you for sharing your mindwork ❤

[@vionaxi3571]

Several last months, i became this number 5 girl. I know i want a relationship, but the fear and trauma keep me from my authenticity. And now i'm her.

[@esvedra2419]

I find there is a little bit of every type in me. Started as a good girl and people pleaser, and after few disappointments fell into the grudger situation. Never been into transactional relationships due to all or nothing mentality. You made me think about the implications of 'I don't care girl' as that's where I am at now, and quite frankly, looks like I made peace with idea of remaining forever alone. In the back of my mind the idea of meeting the right person one day is somewhat unrealistic in this day and age.

[@cinderling5472]

I LOVE your energy and your style! New sub ❤

[@iaf4454]

Love you Margarita!! If some day I have a daughter she will have your name!! ❤❤❤ thanks for your wisdom!!

[@leexinping]

Interesting video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[@leexinping]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

[@leexinping]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@kaoshi_kutie]

@@leexinpingif she walked away and doesn’t want to come back. LET HER GO. Manipulation getting her back will be temporary. Heal and in time you will see it was meant to happen ❤. A month is NO time!!

[@kaffeine69]

It takes MONTHS to let go and feel ok…it was FIVE YEARS! Be gentle on yourself dear one…get busy…take time to mourn. In time you will feel better and want to go out and make new memories. Do things with your friends. Exercise and build testosterone levels. Watch a thousand KZbin videos on how detach. YOU GOT THIS❤ BEST OF LIFE TO YOU 🪷😘

[@niewieder99]

@@kaoshi_kutiebless you, but you replied to a bot. But your words are true, regardless of the stupid bot spamming this page.

[@madalina088]

I,at 35, found out how much I act like my mother that I used to looove sooo much and deeply,but has done me sooo wrong and has hurt me very much in my childhood up until 19,when I moved out. After loving her sooo much,and needing her deeply but didn't find that love and care in her,I started to resent her in my teens and I started to feel sorry for my dad,and she saw me as her enemy. I ended up marrying at 20 w a man that is HER in all the ways and I started to see that I was acting like her, because even though I judged her, she still is my feminine role model in life, without realising. I now realised that even if I cut down one of my arms,no one would care or feel sorry for me. I used to shout and cry, because that's what she would have done if she felt unseen,but I now know that no one cares and bother to be better just so I won't be feeling hurt. I have to know who I am all the time and do things because I want to and how I want,not because the other person would think different about me if I do things in order for them to feel comfortable. Sorry for my english, is not my native language.

[@jlina]

❤

[@helenaolekali8779]

Look up Tim Fletcher on complex trauma topic and Lisa Romano who talks about toxic parents as well and how to heal your relationship with yourself.

[@donnaokrongly]

This is the most awesome of all your videos. Thank you for all the time and love you put into your work.

[@sharonsapia8909]

I always feel uncomfortable when a man does something for me and I see "intentions" behind it. I've taken notes and I'll start rn. TY

[@clareeeeee1]

I love this sm, you articulated ideas I’ve discussed with friends so nice to hear someone else saying it ❤️❤️

[@yolandavargas3942]

I'm so happy! Not knowing exactly where you were going I for sure thought I was pick me girl, but I am definitely more of a 2! Definitely team mate, loyal, but know my worth! Shooting for that #1 spot! 😎

[@SKINxChina]

I think it’s interesting how you rank the hot girl under the ride or die. The ride or die aligns with a pick me in my opinions - or the cow as you call it! Great video as always!!!!

[@silverplug]

It's the other way around. Hot girl is 3, ride or die is 2.

[@belavera994]

I still love watching your videos, not that I'm in a relationship now or sth like that😅 but I want to become "her" as well, life has too much to offer to be in a desperate state of wishing and hoping all the time.

[@caricreate2208]

I took the past two years of active self development and setting boundaries to develop from 4. The pick me to 3. The hot girl. I was so pick me back then I physically cringe. But that’s good, I recognise my change in attitude and behaviour. I ditched Male approval and exchanged it for my own, inner self approval. It’s very freeing to be detached and independent on what men think of you or weather it works out with someone or not. ALSO an amazing side effect is that my female friendships and bonding with girls in general improved dramatically. Instead of comparing myself to them, feeling envy and competitive, now I enjoy the girlhood, the mutual understanding and all of the positive sides in female relationships. I finally got it.

[@helenroy9327]

Love your work, Margarita.

[@faymunfaredi4928]

I just went and picked up your book from kmart and can’t wait to read it 😍

[@nycs9738]

Incredible video with high value knowledge thank you Queen ❤

[@KellyCranston-h6i]

One of my favourite videos!!! Something I am going to be working towards.. Thank you, you Queen ❤

[@rebekaprodanovic9010]

Perfection, dear Margarita!!!!! 🥇🎀🌟

[@NA-sd5cf]

So much clarity in this! Thank you

[@Draw-y6d]

I love your voice, the way to talk and especially im getting familiar with some amazing words (im not native)

[@aleksaola0619]

Loving content about high value women and feminine energy 😊❤️

[@kendallkylie345]

Also I highly recommend you to read the book “Feminine Energy: becoming the ultimate dream woman”, it changed my life on that topic 💞💓

[@ceceb9082]

Plants and animals dont pay to live here, maybe we should start there❤Thank you M❤

[@wassabilove1111]

"But I"m not going to let it derail me, okay? Dog." got me😆😂🤣😅😆

[@ashleighastrologyasmr219]

Thank you ❤️ you’re a God send

[@IreneDoll]

6. The Grouch/the Nag Woman -Ask yourself how can you humanely be always right? 5. Why Should I? Indifferent Woman -Work on authenticity : your own wants and needs 4. The Pick Me -Do not think what they want, think what do I want? Especially in love -Learn to say no 3. The Hot girl/Mistress/ FWB girl -Think about are you happy pass surface level -Because you’ll end up not getting what you truly want 2. Ride or Die /Teammate She doesn’t always do 50/50 but sometimes does. Knows her boundaries but sometimes fall short. Smart & Secure -She still believes “doing” has results 1. Her💎 -She’s free, she’s full of feminine energy. She knows how to make herself happy ♥️ You don’t “do”, you be

[@Lizzy-wg2sk]

Thanks 😊

[@tnpeach]

Margarita, I simply love you and your book ❤ warmest greetings and a big Thank you for your work from germany ✨🌺

[@suletu1]

I like watching your videos and listening your point of view,😊. Thank you & greetings from Istanbul 🎉🧡

[@SamaNajafinobar]

Thank You🌱

[@lorenabatista3109]

I have recently transitioned from pick me to hot girl ❤️‍🔥.. and I’m enjoying every single moment of my journey! I am not here to judge myself.. I am greatful to be growing 💕

[@maritamaltezaki8588]

I loved your analysis! I resonate with the characteristics of each category!❤

[@MT-vz3jg]

I am her but I still have little anxious that put me back sometimes. But I am happily working in it 😊 SHE lives in the moment and has inner peace that none can destroy bc she knows how the universe and human beings work. That’s why she can let be. And that’s why she can absorb everything. She decides what/who she puts in her life and what or who not. She can read energy’s even from things not even people. For example she knows intuitively what’s right. For example I am an engineer and sometimes I just know the solution even if I can’t explain why. I go with flow. It’s like being connected with everything.. even with machines. It’s about seeing life as something holy because you understand the importance of life. And also how fragile life is. So you need from a man protection and safety. You understand the differences between all beings. Difference between energy, existing, being, doing, the reason why, you just know the answers. For sure not always but then you take your time to figure it out. And not in a harsh way. You take it serious but easy at the same time. It’s like being a philosopher in 15 century 😂❤ a full vibe. And you see people are jealous or mad and don’t understand you. But it’s okay because you understand them. It’s like you are the mother of everything. You are not mad me cause you understand. But you also have your boundaries that no one can cross. Or else she is gone. And it doesn’t matter who you are she is gone. She will feel the loss but know how to handle herself and the situation. If not she will get help. She asks the universe and waits for an answer. ❤

[@iaf4454]

That is bc we are very connected with intuition... femininity is connected with intuition

[@deborahjandebeur1457]

Margarita!! Love this video, probably my favorite. Thank you ❤

[@michelearce9443]

I absolutely love this! Thank you!!

[@LittlecatJ]

Amazing as always, thank you 🙏

[@helenlockwood1354]

If anyone follows Jonna Jinton, Adriene Mishler (Yoga with Adriene), and also Marie Kondo, I think they are all perfect examples of 'Her'. I believe their essence, values and goddess energy are what we should aspire for ✨️

[@katepopovic6054]

Thank you Margarita ❤

[@oyungerelchuluunbaatar2756]

Love you so much ❤❤❤❤ Can you please a make video on how to motivate yourself🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@grogers8448]

Can you please elaborate on something you said in level 2 about her not picking a billionaire or someone bombastic to invest in?

[@sandysan177]

My mom is no. 1 (grouch) , hence my father died of cancer and us as children were all sickvdespite our medical tests all being normal. Now iam 39 and am on my own journey at no 4

[@paolacarrere5740]

You are fascinating I love so much your content

[@jmkass]

Liked this one very much. Thank you, señorita Nazarenko :)

[@Cathenz]

Good info!

[@Brittany777Wolf]

I literally cringed at this at first thinking like " oh crap I have to hold myself accountable "this might hurt! Than I cried at the full realisation that I am a 2 . Ya know, I never give myself credit, as alot of us struggke with, I am sure, for all the work I have done through out the years and I could hear an intuitive voice say "SEE" why not be confident MOST of the time? I do struggle though with the team comming before me and really knowing my lot and higher purpose in life but no judgment to any of these I have alot of family who is 6's and 5's and maybe apart of my purpose is healing that feminine for generations to come it is a subject my soul wont leave alone.

[@Ameera-c3n]

I'm 16 trying to become a high value women luckily I was raised with boundaries I just don't feel like I'm worthy of good things like love I'm trying to better that

[@yurii.blueberrii]

The difference between 1. HER and 2. Ride or Die is the overworked and energetic value right? But isn’t being a team mate, hearing and understanding the husband is good?

[@anastasiasvyrediuk]

Margo❤ it just 22nd extand the course!!🙏🏻

[@susannahwalsh4286]

Definitely in the hot girl category! Proud of me ❤🎉

[@HighHeels95]

I have a combination of Pick Me, Hot Girl & Ride or Die/Team Mate. I still have a hard time saying no but then I start putting my foot down but I’m always find ways to show respect for my partner & making sure we are okay will I do my best to allow him to take the lead.

[@dominiquecordaro76]

Love your sweater😅 where is it from?

[@Partofmylife24]

I just love you sooooo much You are my faaaaaaavooooriiiiite KZbinr

[@elizabethrabel3448]

Love you lots jelly tots!!! OMG!! Hysterical!! I love being a jelly tot!!!! ❤❤❤❤

[@malikbarry7542]

Margarita where is your journal from? I could do with one that looks like that

[@popoli6572]

How can I understand what I want and then do that, instead of trying to please my boyfriend? It seems like I don't even know what I want for example in terms of what I want to do today? I really don't mind, so I don't mind if he chooses, or if he asks me what kind of yoga I want to do, I feel like I don't mind and I let him choose, or what to eat. But inside it really feels like I don't have a preference. So I am wondering, is it true that I don't have a preference?

[@moderngoblin]

Looks looks looks looks calmness kindness.

[@elizabethrabel3448]

Love you so much!!!! Woohoo!!!🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

[@nonomi1]

thank you so much

[@anemona1184]

heii , can you make a video about how to not break no contact and why do we have to go in no contact after a break up

[@cammyt9030]

Oh dear I think I may be the grouch, I have a tendency to be self righteous and morally upstanding and want everyone to have morals and consideration for others like I do 😱 Ok I'm a mixture of 2, & 6!!

[@IsabelHernandez-kp7xg]

Golden ✨✨✨✨ I understand completely

[@Ali-Ali584]

Can anyone recommend any books to change mindset. To be more in the feminine energy or a good read fiction or non fiction. Want to be more inspired

[@ontherox007]

18:00 Her

[@gabriellaholosi]

I think I’m #4 the pick me😅 I can’t wait to level up🥰