The "Acknowledge Your privilege!" Talking Point

[@CocoCove0]

They want us to acknowledge our privilege rather than them admitting their jealousy. It’s a scapegoat for the truth that lurks within. Even if we do, which I won’t because idc, but they’ll never be satisfied because the green eyed monster lives in them rent freeee!

[@HappyGoLucky874]

If we admit it they will see us as an easy target they just want to see who they can bully and who they can’t.

[@Pizzashakes]

Tell me, would you not feel jealous if you were in their place though? Come on bfr

[@LightSkinnedAndProudOfIT]

Girl I get pretty privilege EVERYDAY… 🤷🏽‍♀️ hey it’s not my fault but I’m gonna embrace it!!!!

[@serenitysun]

Right hun use that privilege to elevate yourself and your image!!!

[@zaneconner-g3r]

same!

[@giseleb7807]

PERIODT! We’re all trying to survive. Use that privilege

[@ExoticalSauce]

Yessss❤

[@fairylauu]

yup!!

[@Chocolatechocolate7224]

People don’t have to apologize for their white privilege, light skin privilege, class privilege, male privilege etc in my opinion. People didn’t ask to be born white, mixed, light skin etc. It’s not their fault and we should not hate them for it. Good video!

[@zaneconner-g3r]

Why aren’t we allowed to say MLS women are beautiful based on our genetic makeup when other races do it all the time? I listen to subliminals to manifest money & enhance my own beauty, but I came across a white female sub maker who made a community post saying “Norwegian women are so pretty” and all the white girls in the comments agreed saying she should make one to get Scandinavian or Italian beauty. Non bw and even BW hype their phenotype up all the time but as soon as an exotical does the same everyone gets mad and offended.

[@CocoCove0]

Because dark skin women are insecure and feel threatened.

[@impinkbone]

Did you see the sub outrage about how there’s more subs for light skin and type 3 hair, and not the opposite? It’s ridiculous

[@zaneconner-g3r]

@@impinkbone I literally changed my hair type from type 4 hair to type 3 hair by reprogramming my mind to believe I was born with natural 3b/3c hair in a matter of a few weeks. I gave my success story and the UABW in the comments attacked me, every other group of women congratulated me and said that I was an inspiration. But the UABW were the only haters💀

[@zaneconner-g3r]

@@CocoCove0 I would be too if I were them. Most of them are not naturally attractive, that’s why we’re their beauty standard

[@zaneconner-g3r]

@@flygyal3000 girl I’m mixed! I’m just deciding to look more like my non black ancestors. Cope!

[@serenitysun]

What does acknowledging our privilege will do for the black community? Yeah nothing, they’ll still be worse to mls people who do acknowledge their privilege. So what do they REALLY mean when they want us to say we’re mls and have privilege?🤔

[@ExoticalsUnited]

yup. were damned if we do damned if we dont.

[@Ohsnapitzann]

I don't play these childish games

[@ExoticalSauce]

Exactly!!! It won't change anything

[@AngelicaEstherxo]

RIGHTTTT

[@Mstorrance]

​@@flygyal3000 okay but alot of mixed women have spoken up about their so called privilege and they were mocked by black women so what now? 😒

[@AFocusedLiving]

If they could trade I am sure they would☕️🐸

[@Pizzashakes]

Ofcourse they would. What would you do if you were them be for real?

[@serenitysun]

I love the term ABW

[@Ohsnapitzann]

No one is responsible for the actions of their relatives/ancestors. Due to the fact that I have irish in my ancestry and I was born in the 90s that's like someone telling me that I have to pay off a fine that my uncle owed in the early 70s. I'm only responsible for myself.

[@nikicarrie4071]

Agree

[@Juspeachy13]

They want LS women to “acknowledge privilege” as a way of discrediting how we get our blessings. You didn’t get your blessings because you’re smart, beautiful or ambitious, it’s simply because you’re light. Miss me with that BS. I have other qualities I can finesse.

[@dejahp-xz1sb]

i agree with you wholeheartedly! my friend, who is light skin like me, told me about the ‘discrimination’ her dark skin friend experiences when they are together and when i asked her to expand upon it, she told me people are more likely to be nicer to her compared to her friend and i laid her down straight, i told her people do not treat her friend ‘poorly’ because she is darker and to not allow her friend to tell her otherwise either, my LS friend is respectfully more attractive than her friend, and it is NOT because she’s light skin, it is because she is more conventionally attractive: she has clear skin, a beautiful doe-like face, an hourglass body, straight teeth, a bubbly personality etcetera. her friend is overweight, has acne, un-straight teeth, facial features hidden behind glasses, and an attitude that is not attractive. with all of this combined, i told my friend that she is not treated better because of her skin colour, she is treated better due to her pretty privilege and the attitude to fit the beauty of her face, which her friend does not have yet she is being force fed that she has an ‘advantage’ compared to her friend due to colour alone 🤦‍♂ foolishness. additionally, the same girls who told my friend her ‘privileged’ tried to humble me by saying i am lightskin and foreign compared to them, so people treat me nicer 🤦‍♂ foolishness. i told these girls people treat me better due to my looks and my personality, at the end of the day, foreigners will see me as black the same way they would see a dark skin girl as black, yet certain aspect’s different us that goes beyond our colour but they don’t want to hear this, they would rather belittle me because i have what they can’t so that they can maintain a victim mentality.

[@Tropical-Rising-Dawn]

Yes, and very often they will ignore the other negatives about their looks. It's not just because you're dark skinned, sis that you're not treated with privilege. It's a combination of things!! You're dark skinned, morbidly obese (with a horrible attitude) and let's not forget...that grill is f*cked up. 😂

[@ashash2886]

Yes, yes, yes. ❤ I'm currently readjusting certain aspects of my life so gain the full benefits of my full potential. I can't thank you enough. It's so comforting to know I'm no longer alone. I wish nothing but the best for everyone here. Love you exotical, continue the wonderful work.❤

[@ButterflyBaby888]

Sounds like low key hating to me. Your doing your own thing minding your business and people still finding something to hate about 🙄. Your doing Great your content is really helping me/ your subscribers! It's pretty to be a blessing and a curse either way we still pretty....❤🌹

[@SloppyJoeLee]

Exactly. This is basically what they dare us not to do and everyone is so mad when it’s done done. The Cat is out the bag now. This is what life is like when you bad & “look like Michael Jackson” in my Kanye Voice… lol I feel like I been waiting for a safe place to say that for years!!!! You are starting “ this party off right” in my Jamie Foxx Voice… 😂😂😂😂🎉❤💅🏽

[@thegiftofgabby5581]

It’s always okay to lie to ugly people and call them beautiful. Never okay to tell the truth about a pretty woman being pretty. 😂

[@pammy_land]

YOU GO DEEP!!!

[@AllMixedUpMGM]

A livestream collab sounds so fun! I’m all for it! 💛💛

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Ok! I will probably do a test stream tonight, I need to renew my streamyard subscription so that you guys can call in

[@cynthiapickett7403]

NOBODY has EVER told me any such yet; I wish they would tell me such BS!

[@latajaneev]

Even if you acknowledge it they will use the fact that your mls and abw to say you’re not going through anything all the time.

[@Dee_101]

I absolutely love your channel and a lot of talking points have been my experience and my children's experience because they are biracial. Growing up I was very insecure (even now) like most girls. But I often got backhanded insults from my own mother. Calling me pretty pretty princess whenever she was upset with me for whatever reason and in large friend groups. Of BW and BM They would label me as "pretty girl" again did not understand why cause I thought a lot of them in the room were beautiful. People tend to see things in you that you don't see and hate you for it. Hearing how others had similar experiences helps a lot.

[@LightSkinnedAndProudOfIT]

Your mother should be ashamed of herself calling you that in front of her friends or crowds. And your her child? Many UABw are very immature and have no business creating mixed kids.

[@jessn5677]

You are doing a wonderful job with this channel. I can relate to so much of what you talk about and it’s nice not to feel alone. Thank you 💕💕

[@ExoticalsUnited]

thank you so much!

[@HappyGoLucky874]

Should we acknowledge our pretty privilege maybe even ask them to acknowledge it too?

[@ExoticalsUnited]

I just acknowledged that mixed women have certain privileges in the beauty sector on another video and someone said that I was being racist . Lmao one minute it’s “only mixed women get the opportunities over unambiguous women” then when I admit that society is messed up and we DO receive certain privileges it’s racist . I’m damned if I do damned if I don’t 😂

[@Iambellarayne]

YOOOO the AHA moments...like i would NEVER say the stuff they say about themselves EVER. That is always the vibe, just dogging out their whole existence. Seems like its a complete sin to think something good. I've spent a lot of my life trying to compliment women and tell them they don't need men. THEY DO NOT LIKE ME 😭 I never asked to be on any pedestal, its weird 🤷🏾‍♀️. However, ive decided that im jist going to worry about myself and my pretty business. I LOVE IT HERE✨️🥹🎀

[@nikicarrie4071]

Same. You cant be kind ro them. I always say theyre pretty they hate me and try to physically attack me

[@Jessica-og4iq]

Yes! I have been WAITING for this topic to be covered!! 😅😊😊

[@dinahmokwana4884]

Thank you.glad someone said it.chioma likes to complain about pretty privalage like she's not pretty herself.🙄🤦