You have been through so much. It hurts to listen. Amazing turn around to being you. Thanks for sharing your story Misty!
@coreysmardz21203 жыл бұрын
This is such a powerful talk and it hit me really deeply. I am currently struggling to find authenticity after a lifetime of abuse and living in fear. Thank you for being so vulnerable, courageous and real with the world. I hope I can do the same.
@jane-nessa242 жыл бұрын
It’s exhausting having to ‘pretend’ everyday. Thank you for sharing!!
@Michael-gr6fv3 жыл бұрын
Misty you deserve a life of happiness and meaning. Your resilience is inspiring.
@livedopeclothing46815 жыл бұрын
Authenticity and Vulnerability is not common these days unfortunately. Too many people want to be accepted not knowing that vulnerability and authenticity is two of the most powerful qualities to have.
@spacebar97332 жыл бұрын
its almost like people are judging them for their mistakes... kind of like your comment here !
@sovannpen5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for what you've been through Misty! I am so glad for what you've overcome and admire your courage and strength. I hope this talk and the process of preparing for it will be healing to you and that it will encourage you and others as this hear it. Thanks for being so brave and authentic and sharing yourself.
@andresmadriz16025 жыл бұрын
Amazing, thank you for your words, I'm so thrilled for the fact that you let go of such a heavy mask.. congratulations! You are a fighter that already won
@conrodwallace43953 жыл бұрын
That's a powerful woman🙏 God bless
@mandyriccobena32253 жыл бұрын
Blessings to you No one should put up with what you’ve had to I hope the rest of your life is as happy as it can be
@jackiecook2085 жыл бұрын
Fantastic TED talk, very effective. No one will ever, ever make me be perfect...I am not PERFECT and neither is anyone else who are alive and breathing.
@nadimahmed77825 жыл бұрын
Authenticity makes you so strong. Great presentation.
@mistywgilbert5 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU for being in my life Nadim! I appreciate you.
@KadenaTate5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your transparency and vulnerability abut a very delicate matter. Your story is a reminder that our life's purpose is to free ourselves from the limitations that keep us from growing and expanding. I love and appreciate you.
@mistywgilbert5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your continued encouragement, support and part in my life! We are in this journey together to help free each other from the limitations that keep us in a box and hiding. Bunches of Love backatcha!!!
@refrigeratorraider35792 жыл бұрын
The first 4 mins. Wow. Makes my heart break but I look up to you for being able to conquer!! I would call you Atlas or Sampson with your strength!
@brianjones33335 жыл бұрын
Great talk, Misty. So proud to know you and you are so freaking strong!!
@mistywgilbert5 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU for your friendship and support Brian! Grateful to have met you too.
@jcholly72373 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭 Thank you for sharing and being so strong.
@NFTeve2 жыл бұрын
One of the best Ted Talks ever!! I did relate to not relating to having parents who loved you. I really liked the delivery as well, so strong and focused.
@hebahmuhammad86073 жыл бұрын
This should be watched more
@lifeisbutavapor93962 жыл бұрын
Uniqueness is obvious and the most natural thing. The reason people need to listen to videos like this is because they gave away their personal power (or someone took it and they are dealing with that trauma) and now have to work at the opposite extreme. Experiencing our 'uniqueness' is a wonderful thing, but it is not the whole story; experiencing how we are constrained is just as wonderful. The beauty of a lion and clam are equal although one proclaims loudly, "I AM A LION" while the other conceals a treasure of great value. You don't have to "come out" to be authentic. Just be aware. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- My point: People confuse having a weak will with being inauthentic. Authentic people are reflective people who continue the hard work of seeking wisdom in a time when pop-psychology rules.
@charlieangkor86493 жыл бұрын
I feel strong disgust and strong anger towards your parents.
@emilyacoxpsychic3 жыл бұрын
Wow! You were SCAPEGOATED LIKE ME!!!!!! My Narcissistic Sociopathic mother did this to me!!!!! And then My Next Partner!!!!!!!! 100% IDENTICAL
@mistywgilbert2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry! My heart hurts for you. Sending much love and compassion to you as you continue your journey to heal!!!
@RogerGrosser5 жыл бұрын
Awesome, Misty! Thank you for sharing!
@paulkaranja92644 жыл бұрын
thanj you very much for sharing your incredible story. comparing my battles with what you have gone through am very much encouraged.
@spiritandspark5 жыл бұрын
Great job with your speech and being open to sharing your story!
@mistywgilbert5 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU for watching and your support Friend! Cheers to living life from your heart!!! I appreciate you.
@nancykidd-weyenberg46085 жыл бұрын
Great talk, Misty! Thank you for sharing yourself.
@mistywgilbert5 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU for your friendship!
@TTTTTTTTT8532 жыл бұрын
Overall we are improving as humanity, patching mistakes and fixing up the things we messed up, and experimenting along the way, some may lead to benefits and other leads to failures which ( hopefully ) will get patched up later
@angieeissa86792 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate.
@lalasuncokretic10463 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Love you.
@viviannancy14764 жыл бұрын
Powerful talk ever
@michaelherring68625 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much for sharing your amazing story!
@mistywgilbert5 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU Michael for watching and commenting!
@keltait3 жыл бұрын
wtf. Im horrified by the treatment of others on a daily basis.
@bunnycat41532 жыл бұрын
So powerful & utterly riveting... I’m still listening right now, but oooooh, her quite literally GOD AWFUL “parents” better be in jail!!!!
@akhilsharma98425 жыл бұрын
you are awesome...keep going!
@alexandraalmanzar5703 жыл бұрын
yeah, this is true.
@LotteryBillz3 жыл бұрын
You the great.
@quixoticindiscipline95243 жыл бұрын
DAMN!
@deryasefer2 жыл бұрын
"If you seek authenticity for authenticity's sake you are no longer authentic." Jean-Paul Sartre
@nabeelshah23065 жыл бұрын
great misty
@onlykitty57422 жыл бұрын
Period
@glenberger2573 жыл бұрын
Damn.
@juanhubertino3842 жыл бұрын
There is nothing like christian love...
@1LankyLady2 жыл бұрын
That is flat out abuse in an extreme way on the part of your parent. How despicable. Child abuse.
@zetoghetto2 жыл бұрын
12:05skip past her experiences story
@charlieangkor86493 жыл бұрын
Another TED talk: "The Importance of Being Inauthentic". If we pour these two TED talks, are they going to fizzle react and neutralize like acid and hydroxide?
@Us-A42 жыл бұрын
Gi
@FrancLusaite3 жыл бұрын
Religion is so great -.-
@Manal-g6l3 жыл бұрын
Too sad for tedx to bring weirdo people telling stories from their illusions just to get more viewers I don't trust you anymore Did you do your investigation about this story before you brought her in the stage
@KathyBochonko3 жыл бұрын
Wtf? Why are you even asking this? What a horrible reaction.
@mistywgilbert2 жыл бұрын
My story us 100% true. And this TEDx Talk isn't all of it.