The Ashley Madison Documentary Is AWFUL.

[@carolitoffana]

I just love how the woman cheater was like "I cheated on 2 boyfriends, so I am a serial cheater" meanwhile the guys are cheating daily and be like "it was a mistake, I'm not that kind of person"

[@spOOkytimes]

BoYs WiLl Be BoYs 🤪 welcome to the patriarchy

[@emaeco6602]

I love her honesty and bluntness she has balls to truly be okay with herself, it’s the acceptance of it all. Crazy.

[@biitchstix]

I was kinda confused why her and her husband were even on the show. Two cheaters found each other and are just chill with it? Like yea I still think it's gross but no ones getting hurt and they can't be 'exposed' bc they're already straight up with each other so??? why were they there lmao.

[@reenakemp9132]

​@biitchstix Yesh that made no sense. They seemed like a rather happy couple together also. I'm not going to judge what another does if it makes them happy. But it seemed as if they were open and honest about their relationship even before AM website. This website harmed so many because of the lies between the married parties. Those 2 didn't qualify lol.

[@carolitoffana]

@@biitchstix They are there to show how abnormal the other couples are 😂

[@fizziep0p696]

In hindsight them going viral for singing the “love is an open door” song which is literally a song sang between a naive woman in love and a backstabbing man is so fitting

[@ImaginaryAlchemist]

Oh dang I didn’t even think about that. The irony would be lost on them, I’m sure

[@RainWelsh]

MF thought Hans was a how-to manual rather than a cautionary tale

[@mpazinambao2938]

Oh snap!😂

[@Brogan_Balfour_Crescent]

Didn’t even sing it either 😂

[@alenaadamkova7617]

They probably ment that iuts normalised from very early age like 12, 13 etc As experts like Gail Dines and other experts explain that if young boy of age 11 sees such content his brain has trauma, and from scientific discoveries the trauma makes him/ her to seek more porn. She explains how little boys get groomed into it thanlks to smartphones so whe they grow up thye ahve problem to get married, because the industry is brainwashing them from young age. The word normalised means that people are exposed to it, because the brain gets addicted and starts to seek the addiction. Social media experts hire thousands of attention enginneers to make them hooked to teh websites. So maybe its about explaning it.

[@itsriverwren]

did Colleen Hoover produce this documentary? half these people wouldn't seem out of place as protagonists in one of her books 😂

[@zo.ilyouu]

When I watched it, I literally had this exact thought 😭

[@user-zq6sz2cr6g]

Don't give her ideas...

[@nont18411]

Especially the wives. Who would have thought that the doormats like that would exist in real life?

[@ImaginaryAlchemist]

I’m calling it here, Colleen Hoover is gonna write a novel about a woman who meets a married man on an Ashley Madison type website and destroys his current relationship. Of course he’ll be forgiven because he’s a manly man who can’t control his primal manly man urges and is so super sexy hot that women orgasm at the sight of him. It’ll of course feature her usual cast of cardboard cutout main characters and a conveyer belt of bland background characters.

[@chelscara]

@@nont18411 not cheating but I just read a comment under a Christmas gift for mom video where a woman admitted her husband basically made his gift to her a gift to himself and considers it the best gift hes gotten her. She hasn't told him otherwise, instead happily agrees, since she doesnt want to "burst his bubble". These doormat women justify it by treating their husbands the way they'd treat a toddler, it's really sad.

[@brighidmcmullen9577]

I think the hackers were good Samaritans, and i hope that their pillows are always cool and they only get green lights when running late.

[@spOOkytimes]

It boggles my mind at how many people signed up with their work or military emails. It has their full real name in it. Then they used all their actual details to fill out their profile. Bonkers.

[@pablogats4627]

​@@spOOkytimesdudes can't even cheat properly anymore 😂

[@samanthathony1793]

😂😂😂😂

[@spaghetto9836]

​@@spOOkytimes_Shhh,_ don't let them know how to cheat better...

[@spOOkytimes]

@@spaghetto9836 lol my bad.

[@frankensteinlives]

22:23 If the hackers "have blood on their hands" for exposing the cheaters, then don't journalists also have blood on their hands for writing exposes about stuff? That logic isn't really logic-ing imo

[@coffeebabe666]

They use that phrase in the show.

[@Ruby-zz2sr]

And by that same logic how does Ashley Madison not have blood on their hands?

[@James-cz5hf]

Metaphor

[@CEO0FMILFS]

Her staying with her cheating husband is fucking wild and now they're children will know about it later on, fucking WILD BEHAVIOR.

[@ImaginaryAlchemist]

The most depressing part is that, like Alizee said, this behavior will be normalized for these kids. The boys will grow up thinking women are disposable playthings and the girls will think they should be treated as such. They’re likely doomed to never have a healthy relationship in their lives

[@Yazzie1]

I would never be able to look at him the same way again, I would be absolutely repulsed! Whats even worse than the cheating is the harrasment, what a creep.

[@spOOkytimes]

She legit said she felt like she was "winning at this marriage thing" 😭😂 I would feel bad for her if she wasn't also a child exploiter

[@themedia1271]

As someone who grew up in a similar religious environment as Sam & Nia, I can honestly say it's because she didn't want to seem like a bad Christian. My mom stayed with my dad after he had an affair because she thought it was what a good Christian does.

[@Bee-uy2cn]

Also it wasn’t a one off he tried to get with multiple of her close friends. A woman stopped talking to her cause her husband was so creepy. This wasn’t a mistake it was a pattern.

[@citrinecasket]

"sir that is not the dark web that is reddit on dark mode" is so hilarious for no reason 😂 10/10

[@olympiaelda1121]

Loved it xDDD

[@TwoBs]

@@generallyspeaking850 I never understood this idea of asking people in the comments to explain stuff to them that they could easily search up online themselves. Just constant “feed me the information, tell me how this works, do everything for me” mentality that is never meant to be an actual discussion; it’s only meant to have others do the work for you. Are we so lazy that we expect everyone else to spoon feed us information despite said information being easily found by just using the tools that are freely available? Come on … If you don’t know and you are genuinely curious (as you say), then why waste time asking others to do the hard work for you? Go seek out information and learn. It’s how you grow as a human - by searching for this stuff _on your own_ ... the time you spent typing up a comment asking for others to teach you something, you could have easily opened a browser and typed in the search bar yourself. Countless articles dedicated to simplifying what the dark web is, how it’s accessed, what it is mostly used for, why people use it, how it was created, etc. that are out there in abundance, just waiting for _you_ to find them. Let’s stop this nonsense. Yes, I am 100% in a bitchy mood today as obvious as that is, but there still is no justification for this laziness that is becoming way too prevalent in online spaces anymore of people always, always, always wanting other people to take time out of their day to explain things they claim to be curious about ….

[@JasminMiettunen]

@@generallyspeaking850don’t know how to get there and don’t want to, there’s all sorts of illegal stuff there

[@coffeecatklein]

@@generallyspeaking850 Probably using a web torrent, wouldn't recommend it without a virtual machine though you'd probably get a lot of data stolen .. Idk what's on there

[@chuutheecomrade]

I had the same exact thought while I was watching the documentary 😭😭

[@lakegroce685]

I’m pretty sure the only reason the fundie couple is still together is because if they did get divorced, they would be ostracized by their community. And it’s probably the only group of people they know and talk to. So them separating would ultimately destroy all their relationships with other people. Which is sad, the wife should leave him and find a new community with compassion for her situation and tell her that her ex ain’t shit.

[@carolitoffana]

I think the reason they stayed together its the youtube channel, they are obviously still together because they were making $$ on the "christian family vlog" niche

[@xLiLlyx98]

​@@carolitoffanasometimes I wish that these people secretly don't love each other anyway and therefore, no one was actually hurt by the cheating. If they're gonna be miserable in their life it should be because of deliberate choices I guess...

[@rosyface_]

I saw the one that was on Disney+ as while ago and the fact the men were mostly talking to bots is honestly the best bit.

[@FruityHachi]

being scammed out of their money talking to bots and then have all your cheating info exposed to the world, the best way to get revenge on cheaters

[@othmaneelmansouri6314]

Makes me believe there's some semblance of justice in this crappy world.

[@frankensteinlives]

The existence of this documentary confirms for me that everyone involved with this project has cheated on a partner at one point or another.

[@coffeebabe666]

That ceo/main guy was the worst. What an asshole.

[@funky4495]

EXACTLY

[@Lauren-i8i]

It’s devastating that cheating has become so normalized when it CRUSHES another human being. A lot of people cheat - but SOME still honor their sacred vows. I’m married 28 years and never cheated on ANYONE. Before I was married I was cheated on by 4 different boyfriends. I dumped them as soon as I knew. Not ‘everyone’ cheats! 💕

[@ukchanak]

It's so creepy when a man says "my wife forgave me" while she's standing right there, not saying she forgave him, letting him speak for her

[@hubabaloop]

*head nod* I’ve asked gods forgiveness and hes forgiven me. *head nod*

[@SkyeSoleil]

She explained in the doc that she made him do most of the talking because it was his mess that he needed to clean up, not hers. That being said, I’m sure she wanted to continue the YT checks as much as possible so of course she’d forgive him

[@AmyAberrant]

Her staring dead eyed into the camera really creeped me out

[@mikedemirdjian9976]

@SkyeSoleil So you know the women?

[@wuschelfloke7690]

There is a joke in the concept of using reddit in dark mode and calling it "browsing the dark net" (cue thunder and dramatic organ music). It's like when children try to convince their friends that their temporary tattoos are real.

[@dawildbear]

And a bane reference, "I was born in it, molded by it. I didn't see the light until I was already a man."

[@spOOkytimes]

I only use dark mode for everything now lol I'm always surfing the dark web apparently.

[@TwoBs]

@@spOOkytimes I side-eye anyone that avoids dark mode and opts to never use it.

[@Zeldafan36]

Funny how that couple went viral lip syncing a Frozen song where the husband is lip syncing as the villain 💀

[@carmen5358]

I didn’t even think about that, that’s hilarious lol

[@LifeOfTheAngels]

The fact something like Ashley madison even existed is insane, now ppl treat infidelity like it’s just normal behavior 😭

[@Synthpoptroubadour]

It is

[@crypticcryptid4702]

Shouldn't be though. If you wanna sleep around while married you should tell your spouse and work something out. Not do whatever bs this was

[@rumyum]

​@Synthpoptroubadour then why get married?

[@ames-inthe-grass]

wasn’t it uncovered that ashley masdison was a scam and all the women on there were bots?

[@itsgonnaBmay]

​@@rumyum Marriage is typically about more than just sex. You can want to have sex with multiple partners and just be married to one person- people are complicated, but as long as everyone's consented, there's nothing inherently wrong with that kind of arrangement

[@MissMCwuffles]

I just can’t feel sympathetic to cheaters, regardless of the amount of money funneled into a documentary.

[@spacedino91]

This just feels like, stay in the marriage, no matter what propaganda.

[@Stephonne]

He probably hates that she stays as much as we do lol. His actions really sound like he doesn't care if he gets caught and probably wants to so she can be the one to leave him. When he got leaked by Ashley Madison he probably thought, finally something bad enough for her to finally leave me, AND SHE STAYED.

[@carolitoffana]

What??? he chased her, otherwise how would his "family vlog channel" work? He would be jobless without her (which is quite clear in the doc that he was only worried about the leak because they were doing so well on yt🤡)

[@TheDawnofVanlife]

@@carolitoffanaI think she only stays with him cause of youtube as well. She was like 15 when she met him (he was 18). So firstly, she has never actually existed as an adult without him (gross) and second now they have this co-dependent business relationship being a youtube “couple”. Pair that with all the religious dogma she’s been spoon fed and you have a great recipe for brainwashing. The fact their marraige counseling wasn’t an independant third party but there church, there are red flags all over the place. 😖

[@The_Leftysaurus]

'Those people ruined their own lives when they signed up to a cheating website' THANK YOU!!!! Gawd The whole concept is just LUDICROUS! Ohh poor cheaterss... wah wah And look, if you want to have a committed relationship AND more than one partner, have an open relationship or some type of poly and find someone who wants that too. Why do you have to go around the back of your partner and lie and cheat on them?

[@rhonab6698]

honestly the doc, if it was going to focus on actual users of the site, should have talked less with the youtuber going woe is me and more with the couple who both cheated on other partners in the past but then met through the site and started an open relationship with each other after. like yes, still gross that they cheated on past partners and found their way to polyamory via infidelity, but they were far more honest about admitting their own faults and that what they did to past partners was wrong, rather than making excuses of "i was unhappy with x and y in my life, i was going through this and that problem that made me cheat"

[@TheDawnofVanlife]

Sam is evil. The thing about the thrill of cheating is its about the thrill of doing the naughty thing and getting away with it and not about actual honest relationships with multiple partners. And Sam clearly likes his ego stroked. Like litterally WHY go after your wife’s friends!!! He claims, at least, getting “youtube fame” meant he was less bored and so stopped messaging women or whatever ( I don’t entirely believe him) but he doesn’t want an open honest multi-partner situation. He wants his ego stroked. That’s why he started dating a 15 year old when he was 18! She likely thought it was so cool to have an older boyfriend at the time.

[@vintagearisen]

When the Christian dude started off the documentary with "I had no idea when I signed up for Ashley Madison that it would be the worst decision of my life," I burst out laughing. Oh no, who knew my actions would have consequences! GTFOH. When you make the decision to cheat, you are making the decision to risk losing everything you care about. The man's single brain cell clearly threw a party and nobody came

[@EmyN]

Eh, he doesn’t regret it lol, he’s saying just for show

[@lovetwins89]

My biggest problem withe the documentary, and I'm just starting it, several people keep asking the question "should you have to be unhappy your entire life?" (or variations thereof). No, no one expects that, have they not heard of divorce?

[@mikedemirdjian9976]

@lovetwins89 Divorce fucks up the children.It’s baggage they carry onto their adult lives

[@StonedHunter]

The deeply cynical part of me wonders if he went after her friends with the intention of further isolating her...

[@meifennellysieu7510]

Whatever the reason, I genuinely hope she still has a support system in place. Edit: There have been updates to the story that make both of the fundie creators look bad. Nevertheless... I still really hope she has folks that care about her that can set her straight. Everybody deserves a support system.

[@kiryn5977]

​@@Ruby-zz2sr she did have friends tell her, but she refused to believe them :/

[@sarahgracemorton]

as a christian and if my husband ever cheats on me, i am OUT THE DOOR! literally god says it is grounds for divorce so following that, those would be my next steps. tbh it is sad these women have deluded themselves into thinking these guys wont do it again even though they most likely will

[@meifennellysieu7510]

Exactly. And Mr. Guy's explicit statement that "my wife has forgiven me, and God has forgiven me," like it's some sort of defense for his actions? Olympic clownery.

[@sarahgracemorton]

@@meifennellysieu7510 for real!! 😭 the delusion is crazy

[@xLiLlyx98]

​@@meifennellysieu7510with an implicit "... And they'll forgive me again for sure" 😍🤡

[@crazypyp5871]

Agreed. My mama stayed four years after my baba cheated on her more than once. Her last straw was when it started mentally affecting me and my sibling. Leave, they aren’t worth your time. They may love you, but they don’t respect you. And respect is more important here.

[@angelrebekah9153]

Thank you!!! Her comments are ignorant!!

[@isaacbenrubi9613]

I feel like Ashley Madison is what happens when Colleen Hoover manages to manifest her protagonists into physical form. It's like she's somehow playing The Sims in the real world. It's like the absolute worst summoning circle of all time.

[@pallas1279]

I remember dying when the vlogger couple was taking about their feelings. The guy says Nia wasn't sitting with me on the plane, I dont know why( after she literally just found out he cheated) and it cuts to her saying I couldn't stand to be next to him. So i feel like that little clip summed them up.

[@chelscara]

I was really confused by the couple in the open relationship that were used as like… this excuse for why it was ok the website existed? When really plenty of other websites exist. I couldn’t handle listening to anyone in the documentary honestly, it was just all so ridiculous.

[@ajcrowley5735]

The dark web being any site on dark mode is peak comedy

[@JasminMiettunen]

Watching this on the dark web rn

[@AshChiCupcak]

I feel like the producers of this "documentary" were also on that leaked list so of course theyd have to save face cuz they dont wanna make themselves look bad 😂

[@carmen5358]

lol yes

[@Lilith-ox7cm]

the hackers were definitely chaotic good 100%

[@CleverUsername69420]

My parents literally threw a hissy fit when I said that she shouldn’t have stayed. Finally I can listen to someone with some common sense

[@addie1080]

Me when my phone's brightness is turned down: _I am surfing on the Dark Web_

[@coltonsteck9154]

Best comment 😂

[@maybemablemaples2144]

A bear still wouldn't do this to me. Why are bears winning?

[@mitchellhouser1572]

I’m pretty sure if you married a bear and let it do whatever it wanted it would cheat on you…

[@Maevenclaw]

So basically this documentary is “they’re not sorry they did it, they’re sorry they got caught”

[@mikedemirdjian9976]

@Maevenclaw More “I’m batting .1000 on life decisions” talk… SMH

[@nont18411]

2:27 I mean, this is the same company that made the show to make us sympathize with Jeffrey Dahmer, instead of his victims so making us sympathize with just cheaters is an improvement for them.

[@Synthpoptroubadour]

Untrue. They made us empathize w the victims

[@W-I463]

"Netflix made me sympathize with Jeffrey Dahmer" is like saying "Lolita made me sympathize with a Humbert". I 100% understand the issues with the show, but just 'cause it's from the "villains" point of view doesn't mean the intention is to gain sympathy.

[@trejondunkley]

I really don’t think it was trying to get us to sympathize with dahmer at all. We spend whole episodes with his victims. A huge bulk of the show is following his neighbor trying to get anyone to listen. Dahmer isn’t really a character in the show, he’s an inciting incident.

[@Itory1337]

Anyone who cheats is deliberately playing high stakes and deserves all the risks that arise. Nothing is given away in life and those who take the easy way out must expect the consequences. If not through a hack, then because someone betrays or is betrayed. But then not having the courage to own up to it, even blaming the hackers, is funny to me. It's like being a tax evader and blaming the person who betrayed you for the fact that you were so bad yourself. If you were to write books about something like that, everyone would say: “Total bs, that's such a stupid plot, people can't be like that” - and then people would come up with: “Yo, wait, hold my beer for a second...”.

[@PriyaPans]

Is a risk not only for them. They can spread STDs to their spouses and worse case scenario lead to infertility or a pregnancy that has an infection complication too. And said spouse isn't likely to get checked because they assume their spouse is loyal.

[@lauryntonio]

im a simple woman. i see a british woman claim a movie is terrible, i click immediately.

[@Starving_Phoenix]

The poly couple being included is especially bizarre to me given the thesis of the documentary appears to be that cheaters deserve empathy. They take the time to point out that there is in fact a way to be non-monogamous that is completely ethical and won't ruin your life or marriage and then still expect me to feel bad for the people who chose to do the opposite. It's like pretending murder is fine because sometimes you need to kill someone in self defense. It's not the act, it's the context!

[@HOPEfullBoi01]

You look extra stunning tonight lordette 👑 💅

[@AlizeeYeezy]

Ur too kind!

[@HOPEfullBoi01]

@@AlizeeYeezy noo, really it's true. You're too humble~

[@MaddieMisanthrope]

Zero lies detected, Alizee always manages to look effortlessly beautiful. When I was recovering from covid I looked like a pale, sickly, Victorian child! 😂

[@JayDillDrums]

Yeah, when she was like, excuse me if I look rough.. I was like your glowing lol

[@LifeOfTheAngels]

OH BROTHER 🙄, it’s always some miserable Christian couple where the husband cheats bc he’s bored and the wife just takes it bc she’s a loser pick me with bad eyebrows and then they expect ppl to feel sorry for them bc their marriage is (obviously) in shambles like do something else, if y’all really want to surprise the masses cheat on him back 😭

[@erxa781]

LMAOOO

[@babsbunny_]

Hilarious 😂

[@lexa2310]

Honestly, cheating should give the victim a free pass to cheat on them back and either find a better partner or at least pay back the humiliation.

[@private755]

So brutal to the person being cheated on for absolutely no reason tf lol

[@oliviacrocker6379]

Why is everybody shaming the wife here?? So, she decides to stay with him, and that makes her deserving of endless insults and judgment? It’s a wild world.

[@zorgnax]

“That’s not the dark web, that is Reddit on dark mode” LMAOOOOOOOOOO 😭

[@fierybookworm]

As a Christian, this documentary feels like a weird attempt to normalize cheating AND make us look bad, which is not out of realm of possibility for Netflix. 🙄 I assure you that couple does NOT reperesent us.

[@private755]

I was married to someone who used Ashley Madison around the time the leak happened and he was so scared I would find out he admitted everything lol. As to the commentary on why she stayed sometimes there’s no practicability to being able to leave (especially in a really tight knit conservative Christian community) as their entire welfare depends on their husbands income and you basically have to leave everyone you know in your life and have no ability to support yourself. It’s not always as simple as just leave if you’re being cheated on. The men in those communities know that as well.

[@chelscara]

Which is why I'm for the decentralization and ultimately dispersion of religious groups. Have a personal belief sure, but these weekly meetings only lead to ruin for a section of the group

[@HobieInTheBox]

THANK YOU! I was hoping a creator would cover this. I clicked on episode one and was horrified, two didn't get any better 💀 i followed the AM case a few years back. Im just shook honestly.

[@CelticGuardian7]

Somewhere between chaotic good and chaotic neutral. I'm curious if they would have released the information anyway if Ashley Madison did as they asked. No surprise that such a scummy website didn't, though.

[@0bviouspoetry]

god only got chill with divorce when henry viii and cardinal wolsey reinterpreted the bibes

[@annabeinglazy5580]

I dunno, god "permitted" some wonderfully creates reasons for annulment If you were rich enough and could get away with "heres my White Board Presentation of how my wife and i are actually related. Now can i marry my richer Cousin?" 😅

[@LilyBean90]

But Henry case is about divorce itself not about divorce after adultery (he kinda killed those he decided were adulterers)

[@buckdraper303]

That's assuming you think god is Catholic! LOL ::eye roll::

[@The_Leftysaurus]

Also... the irony of these people being largely the same people, who then preach and scream and gloat about 'the sanctity of marriage'... Like hello? Clearly your love is SO much more pure and sanctified when you lie and cheat on your spouse and expose them to potential health risks, then when a woman wants to marry another woman or two husbands want to adopt a baby. Sod off. Seriously.

[@NoelleTakestheSky]

I did hear about how there were quite a few couples where outside hanky-panky was condoned for various reasons, like one partner being ace, or sexual dysfunction, or closeted couples, who weren’t in positions to be open about it, who, when their data was blasted to the world, had to answer for why they and/or their spouses were on there. If you’re married to an opposite sex partner as a ruse in a community where being gay could get you and your opposite sex partner beaten down (sadly, this happens even in the US), and now you have to choose between outing yourself or being made out to be a filthy cheater…. It’s sad how often this happens. I was definitely surprised how many people were on there with full knowledge and consent of their spouses. But if course Netflix wouldn’t go about covering this side since it’s sad, not salacious.

[@vivecogrady]

I live for your long form book reviews cause they often get me throughh the work day but I've very muchh been enjoying the content like this you've been putting out !

[@TwoCatsInLondon]

So I am learning that there are apparently two very different documentaries on Ashley Madison. The one I watched absolutely ripped the cheaters a new one, only pausing at the exit to say “maybe it wasn’t nice to expose them to the entire world because then their spouses would find out by seeing the names appear on the news or having random people come up to them to tell them their partners were cheating.”

[@starkman78]

Where can I watch that one?

[@buckwheaties6583]

What's the other documentary you mentioned?

[@FruityHachi]

what's the name of that documentary?

[@elizabethlesman3600]

I watched this last saturday and I was like ALIZEE NEEDS TO SAY SOMETHING

[@TheYasmineFlower]

Reddit on dark mode, I'm dyinggggg

[@die_Katze98]

"I went on the dark web" only to show Reddit on dark mode is SO fucking funny to me, oh my god. I just KNOW there are older people more naive to the Internet that fell for that entirely. What a hilarious editing decision

[@johnlocke4251]

WAKE UP BABE, Alizee just dropped a new video! Top of the morning and have a good day folks.

[@HarleysTwin44]

I’m so glad we have the same opinion on how this doc was made I was so confused with the framing 😂

[@megschmeedafamc]

Omg I'm so glad I watched this & not the documentary. Thank youu!

[@melinda9188]

@4:14 “even though the big man upstairs would be on your side if you chose to divorce.” 😂 I died 😭 I’m not fundie, but I am a Christian. So I can understand the idea of “sticking to your vows” and the value of forgiveness and whatnot. But, the cheater didn’t stick to his vows to begin with, and it was an ongoing problem…. and like you said, divorcing for adulatory is acceptable according to scripture lol Idk, I wouldn’t stay married to a cheater (particularly with a cheater that only “changed his ways” after some KZbin clout lol), but different strokes I guess.. 🤷🏻‍♀️😆

[@rhonab6698]

Also, if he did actually stop cheating/using Ashley Madison (which... I doubt) I feel like it was a lot less to do with him finally feeling fulfilled and appreciated with the youtube clout (which... gross, he was a nurse and had a loving wife prior to them getting popular enough to be full-time vloggers, and he somehow didn't find happiness or worth in either of those things?) and more to do with the fact he could have been recognised on the site and catfished for blackmail/outed as a cheater by someone else using the site.

[@Eziali]

This was so wild but they way they had the open marriage couple in the first part was crazy. That couple is not cheating or having an affair. They have rules and boundaries that they follow when meeting people. It's very different from the other couples that are actively just cheating on their partners in secret.

[@verybestandmilkyestcow4623]

THANK YOU for making this vid i just watched this recently. i had it playing in the background and i couldn't be more perplexed me that they make it seem like cheating was the best way to save their relationship instead of...idk communicating?..,going to couples therapy? asking your partner to spice up the sex life? or just again idk..... DIVORCING!!! as gracefully as possible and njust staying present for the children most of them have????

[@tdcamper7623]

I wonder if among all the people who got exposed, there were actually single people who lied about being married?

[@faith-brad]

Excited to watch you look at the Sam and Nia story! I knew of them when I was younger but had stopped watching that kind of content before this scandal came out, just saw it in passing and knowing how it all played out would scratch a morbid curiosity itch in my brain 🤣

[@CMitchell2849]

Why couldn’t they have focused on a Christian marriage destroyed by the website instead of of showing the doormat that was Nia and the sex addict that was Sam?

[@DynastyInferno]

Hi Alizee! Happy to see you! I loved your Greg videos. Seeing this pop up in my feed is a treat. Darknet Diaries podcast has an in-depth analysis of the hack along with the background of it which is absolutely fascinating. Highly recommend.

[@everlynevins]

Actual chatGPT written documentary. I couldn't watch it to the end. I was cringing too much.

[@colbyreader]

I switch on Reddit dark mode “I’m in” I say in my best computer hacker voice

[@Kittenofthesun]

Love watching you! From Colorado, USA

[@QManagerin]

I was so annoyed watching it. Especially that "Christian" couple. It's always those type of people- sorry, not sorry. Did she seriously think that guy changed? I'm not the type to never forgive or think "mistakes" can't happen. But that guy wasn't just lying about that one thing...he was overall a bad person. Hitting on your best female friend? (BTW why didn't that friend tell her?). That would be something I wouldn't be able to forgive. That's a new level of disrespect! Speaking of respect, I lost all sympathy for her when they revealed that she stayed with him. That's not something to brag about, girl. Have some self-respect for your God's sake. Just like you said, what kind of role model are they for their kids? Awful! BTW who do you think hacked, or leaked the data? I think it was an employee or former employee.

[@tardybloomer]

the documentary's like: noooo the poor cheating husbands 🥺 how will they ever recover from this and get their lives back 😫

[@Potbellypigg]

It did NOT need 3 episodes, the random lady who pegs men? What was the relevancy? They should’ve just named it after the KZbin couple, and why did the everyday staff care if the company got hacked or not lmao just ask if you still get payed and go home

[@sabrinagranger5468]

If someone wants to stay with a cheating partner that's whatever but I hate when they act superior over it, like just because they're pathetic and don't have a backbone they're somehow more "enlightened" or "forgiving" than people who leave.

[@erinlafleche]

Reddit on dark mode killed me. It decimated me. I can't believe that was put in there and no one thought that was stupid. I can't tell whether the filmmakers were just that dumb, or if it was a strange move of comedic genius.

[@user-fed-yum]

I downloaded the database and then wrote a program to compare all the email addresses I've ever sent or received from. Maybe 800 email addresses. It found a single match - my partner. I found that very amusing and decided to just keep the information to myself.

[@erikdaniels0n]

7:05 holy shit, she looks PISSED 😭 like she looks like “if you don’t say EXACTLY what we rehersed/wrote, I SWEAR TO GOD” I actually do remember when the Sam and Nia shit went down. They got exposed for a lot even before the Ashley Madison leak happened. There was the fake pregnancy thing (which they did a teary “we lost the baby” video before they finally admitted it was faked) and then there was some situation with them at like a convention or meetup or whatever for youtube family vloggers that they got kicked out of for causing a scene

[@HelenFire420]

Hey instead of cheating, why not just be in an open agreed-upon relationship or just not date at all. That’s a start.

[@gdaymates431]

Because it's much more fun for these people to disrespect their wives behind their backs. Also, if they opened the marriage - the wives would also be dating and these pathetic men don't want their manhood threatened by other men.

[@sailorersa2644]

That's probably too close too secular relationships for them

[@oli.4409]

i wanted to watch your videos the other day but i genuinely couldn’t remember your channels name lol i’m glad this popped up in my feed

[@misamisa7383]

I was originally intrested in a documentary about ashleymadison but the intro to this netflix "documentary" was soooo horrible that I didn't even watch it. What netflix has done is basically justifying cheating.

[@rebecky5ever]

why the actual fuck did this website even exist????

[@Eziali]

It still does exist and is apparently doing really from what they've recently said in an interview

[@chelscara]

People want money. Dumb, entitled people want easy ways to satisfy themselves with little to no effort or consequences (usually guys sorry dudes you look at the stats and tell me more than 1 real woman was on that site and not just a billion bots).

[@rebecky5ever]

​@@Eziali🤢

[@mitchellhouser1572]

The sophisticated technique of just googling how to contact a hacker haha. And he says he’s on the dark web while browsing Reddit 😂

[@KairiMorin]

Normalize being honest with your partner and not cheat. People should just break up and divorce if their cheated on.

[@sophielou2929]

it’s so logical yet millions have failed this lmao

[@TheDawnofVanlife]

Divorce isn’t as easy once your have kids or have dependent finances. A lot of the men who cheat know this.

[@lisamarie5341]

You’re smashing it! Thankyou because you’re looking at all the shit I want to know but not enough to actually watch it. Aka Martha on peirs etc. now this! Thankyou so much 👌🏻

[@honeybee347]

Clout is a heck of a drug. As for the better story from that website, I would listen to the podcast series exposed over on audible. Way better researched and sound like way more diverse voices from the victims of the site and site hack.

[@rhi_danceswithwolves]

‘A man who divorces his wife, except in the case of immorality, and marries another commits adultery.’

[@Lynsey17]

The Sam & Nia thing is really just a man who desperately needs therapy trying everything but that to feel better and avoiding personal responsibility. Like, dude, you're an adult, your problems are your job to fix.

[@TheDawnofVanlife]

Also most of his cheating, we find out, started pre-Ashley Madison. He only didn’t meet anyone on Ashley Madison because he was likely talking to bots.

[@globblin1734]

Covid is real and still out there friends. Just because the government doesn’t care, doesn’t mean y’all shouldn’t care. Stay safe out there

[@neilgallagher7923]

My thing is this is not a person forgetting to cancel a free account, they are billed each month and for messages sent.

[@elenabe4718]

"that's not the dark web, that's reddit on dark mode" is where I lost it

[@googleuser2480]

Its weird to me so many people think Covid just vanished into thin air. I wear a mask in 2024 because I have a newborn and we both have health problems. Be safe ❤

[@siriussslate6832]

thought you were going to say netflix is taking the piss bc what the hell, medium "how to contact a hacker" and "the dark web" no one should take them seriously at this point

[@leo8812]

I remember the Frozen video! My middle school choir teacher showed it to us 💀

[@ruthzofiaskrytek4744]

Sad that KZbin hasn’t been showing me your videos for ages. We’re back. Forgot how much you make me laugh gurl keep it up I missed my favourite parasocial relationship x

[@yesiamsharon]

As a Christian I can share adultery is not given any type of free pass in the Bible. Um, curse words don’t hurt my ears. I use them too. I’m sorry that some of the people who behave a certain way affect your view of all. That’s not how humans work though. That I can promise. There is nuance and difference throughout all religions.

[@Uttggyocufofidtdfuti]

I want to comment something too, cuz this video was posted a minute ago :3

[@nolanbaptiste358]

Cheaters deserve NO SYMPATHY.

[@JeddtheJedi]

11:58 Munecat recently made an excellent video essay about evolutionary psychology, which is what Alizee is alluding to when it comes to men justifying their behaviour by talking about supposed prehistoric behaviour patterns.

[@MrsScorpionette]

Thanks for suffering through this documentary - I left Netflix ages ago, so it really helps to get concise commentary on what that's about 😅

[@kajielin4354]

Netflix recommended that to me and I just thought "not gonna watch that but I'm looking forward to the videos!" ^^

[@pendragonianlaw]

"That's not the dark web, that's reddit on dark mode." That is HYSTERICAL 😂

[@MegaCelacanto]

Like, I KNEW the doc you be a at least a BIT sympathetic, but the whole thing is desperately WON'T SOMEBODY THINK ABOUT THE CHEATERS?!

[@babyJes444]

*"So Neflix" ...um this was originally on HULU*

[@VisiV]

I was the erotic dancer shown in shadow throughout the documentary whenever they were talking about the temptation of hookups at the local library. Thank you all for watching.

[@thornyrose1235]

The way Nia's head looked like it grew out of Sam's shoulder in that fake ass 'apology' video was hilarious. Those two need serious help. What are the chances he's not cheating on her now? I'm going to say, very low.

[@gothboithick]

why do youtubers say stuff about catching covid not making sense just because its 2024 now. we never did anything to get rid of it, so its definitely going to continue to go around.