The Awakened Family with Dr. Shefali Tsabary

We can’t be perfect parents. There is always going to be some form of miscommunication, some misunderstanding, something that causes pain. The key to successful parenting is to make the time to address these challenges, and to listen with an open heart and mind.
My guest on this week’s episode of The Doctor’s Farmacy, Dr. Shefali Tsabary, is a clinical psychologist, an international speaker and wisdom teacher, and she’s written two bestselling books, The Conscious Parent and The Awakened Family. In this episode, we dive into parenting and family dynamics. I personally have seen a lot of trauma from family dynamics manifest into physical illness, especially the relationship between child and parent. Dr. Shefali challenges traditional family roles, and encourages us to rethink the way we raise our kids. How can we let go of the toxic expectations that stand in the way of real, authentic, and loving relationships?
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Dr. Hyman is an 11-time New York Times bestselling author, family physician and international leader in the field of Functional Medicine. His podcast, The Doctor's Farmacy, is a place for deep conversations about the critical issues of our time in the space of health, wellness, food and politics. New episodes are released every Wednesday here on KZbin, and wherever you listen to podcasts.
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[@angelikasurmaczewska5830]

I lover her Teaching. What the Brilliant lady🥰

[@ivfchic3316]

I love Dr. Shefali and have read all of her material. I have a 2.5 year old girl and work everyday to be more conscious of myself and of her needs. It's is definitely an 'endeavour' but that is life. Thank you for this wonderful talk and interview Dr. Hyman.

[@monglang4815]

Her insight has helped me to seek myself. And it has changed my life completely! I am now on my journey in life consciously!! And now I get to guide my daughters in life in a way to support my children to be who they want to be.

[@manjuprashanth9068]

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[@craftymystic4868]

Great podcast, again. We are consciously grandparenting at this point, and it does make a difference, just one conscious adult in ones life. My granddaughter, happy to say, is following her inner calling to be a teacher, despite opposition from significant others in her life (parents, etc).

[@gailsherman8467]

Am just starting to learn from Dr. shafali. My children are 19 and 24. In ways I feel I've let them become their own being bit cans we ways and times I was trying to control. Now I'm watching my sister raise her boys and want her to learn from Drm Shafali. It seems difficult to be able to let a child do something that is not the rules we set out for them. I wish she could talk with Drm Shafali and get that question answered .... Great stuff!

[@lauraabalyan4979]

As always, Dr. Hyman have a great conversation and so much wisdom and yet simplicity in what Dr. Shefali shares and teaches. Always go within, start with awakening yourself....

[@jimbattaglia8317]

WOW. What a interesting dialogue and thank you for opening up your life to help us understand this better. You have some of the best interviews. Thank you for your work

[@gomathisenthilkumar7215]

Right questions brings the right answers....in that perspective, the interviewer has done the job phenomenally good...first hats off to you Mr.Mark. Thanks. Then Dr. Shefali.....your self awakening is taking you this great, I believe....much glad to know you. Thanks for all the spiritual guidances. I could see the influence of Bhagavad Gita, the Indian Scripture in your talk .....as Indian born, hope the privilege is yours. All the best.

[@naziahabib5455]

Great work Dr Hyman and Dr Shefali. I'm a very positive person but also a human too who has emotions. Your talk shows are very encouraging to develop a positive attitude as a parent. I've always believed if a parent want their own child to be tough in mind and be positive through out life it begins what we deliver to them as a parent. Only if any one could make a difference in Bradford. It takes courage to admit as a parent that we don't own these kids by enforcing our desires on them. Please do pay a visit in England to make a difference. We can go on for ever on this topic. But it is an issue in reality. Parents need to change as harsh this sounds otherwise the consequences are going to be drastic long term. Let them be who they are. ❤

[@nellyAQ]

Wow thanks for sharing her with us!

[@ophidiaparaclete]

LIBERTY is a test of honor (honesty) one with another. FREEDOM is a trial of respect one 4 another. Both a continuous audit reconciled to your soul language of sound reason.

[@MilosPN035]

Thanks Dr Hyman, always great talk, as usual. Come to Australia and visit us!

[@lkot675]

Thanks Dr Hyman. Another great show.

[@Chilbuli_Baby]

I don't how old she is but she looks great!! I hope this conversation doesn't end without him asking her self care routine

[@anthonammal7998]

I have noticed that in people who are always present in the moment. There is something. I have been lucky to have known some wonderful people who live in the 'NOW' . There is an aura in them.

[@karinja100]

Eye opening, and just confirms what I have felt all along. 💗 Love, love this message.

[@danielladada9419]

so amazing! so inspiring! thank you! thank you! thank you!🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@babsharris6724]

This made me think of how I felt when Dr told me he didn't think I would make it & I called 2 of my children & they didn't come. My thoughts were that they were hoping I didn't so they did nothing to help me. Then they would inherit.

[@sayusayme7729]

Thank you so much, right on time too. Whoa 😳. So grateful for this. Elastic band to deconstruct . Pain 🦋

[@UjSjRjVj]

lovely talk...very helpful

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Your soul language of sound reason is the practical expression of Principle, liberty.

[@ShaheerahStephens]

Wow I adore my sister, Dr. Shefali she is awesome 🌹

[@johnvajcner20]

Amazing conversation!

[@saramelodasilveira9351]

Amazing woman!

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Your life is your meditation ❤

[@ophidiaparaclete]

We are all students of science disciplined in the scientific approach to learning through experience where everything is the table until proven fact or fiction.

[@manoelcarlosmartinsesilva2875]

Great talk. Thank you both guys. (I´m seeing it 2 years later but really good. Meditation really makes a great difference. First time I got meditative I was travelling by bike alone in australia.... 6 to 8 hours a day just me and my bike from sidney to melbourne and listenning to the sounds of the tires on the floor and the chain in the bike gears...... after 3 or 4 days I realized something really different was happenning on how I saw all around.... Now after 20 years of this unintended experience (meditating with the bike) I started a practice of twice a day for 15 to 20 min..... powered by #ZivaMeditation.... meditating to be good at life.

[@naziahabib5455]

In my life if I'm going to make a change there is no room for a "but." By introducing the word "but" you already have put a stop to your decisions. Anyone agree? Would like some feed back.

[@MsSylvana63]

Outstanding High Vibrational content With much appreciation ✨🙏🏽✨ I’m inspired to share it on💞

[@ishetechellaiah6992]

That's a lovely shirt Mark !

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Unity is ONE, each ONE sovereign self rule Self governing responsible for oneself in honor and respect one with another.

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Explain rather than blame. Ask questions rather than shame. Self-examine rather than guilt.

[@sweetfamilyhome]

Your hair is looking so fine and shiny!

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Without communication between the feminine heart and masculine mind to mutual consent free from all influence of obligation, liabilities, debt The soul dies. Your soul language of sound reason is yours only, developed in mind and refined through the heart by your unique experience. It's how you translate everything around you.

[@eyesonjesus7014]

I don't have trust in myself to think the right thoughts. There are many voices in the world, in whom can I trust. I have to put my faith and trust in one. One that will supply me with the right mind. How does this happen? Well firstly we have to believe that this does exist. One to trust that manages our thoughts for good. The more trust we have, the more we can give of our heart, mind and spirits to this one. We need someone to deliver us and save us from our very self. True consciousness of self, to understand that we will fail if we think that we can depend on our self. If all there exists is the law of man to control chaos and to instill law and order, then what we do have is lawlessness and chaos. There must be a higher law giver and conscious then man/women. The creator himself, who created everything and everyone. And his Divine Holy Book. The Word, the Daily Bread, the Spirit that produces Life. The perfect life. The perfect sacrifice. The greatest love. In him we will trust. Jesus Christ

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Pure science is humanity and LAW. Conscience is programming codes of equal condemnation under the law that are against CON pure SCIENCE.

[@tinkerhelll]

This is fine, but as parents we must also expose our children to all that we can so that they can make these choices. My sister raised her kids in the country. Their opportunities differed greatly from that of my children; raised in a more urban environment. I pretty much raised my kids this way and got called a "hippy mom", but they turned out just fine.

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Pure science is humanity and LAW. LAW(LandAirWater) is encoded into the mind soul and heart of humanity as freedom sound reason and liberty through participation. Freedom and Liberty are expansion, continuously audited. Sound reason is reconciliation, creation. Space and time. Freedom is a trial of respect one 4 another. Liberty a test of honor one with another. Honor is honesty, in honoring others you honor oneself.

[@sulaymanchillout1955]

I would like to know more about how to deal with all these children who seem to be attracted to me?

[@ophidiaparaclete]

The power of self-government is mutual consent. THE authority of sovereign Self rule is self-correction.

[@sweetfamilyhome]

My son has allot of anger in him all the time I try to stay calm and be there for him but the anger dosent stop

[@thefivefrogs]

🙏🙂

[@myfunnymads]

Children don't come with a manual because nature wants every kid to go through their parent's instincts, love and experience and not be "raised" from pile of gathered and borrowed information.

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Perfection is not you? It's in all those around you and their perfect timing. True charity is without detriment to oneself and without knowing you gave to someone.

[@ophidiaparaclete]

The 3 temptations in the wilderness are: 1- Titles 2- Names 3- Status (Quo)

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Holy (language) One's (soul) Principle (Liberty) Expression(Freedom)

[@tinsleyfamily498]

The more I listen to Dr Shefali, the more I recognize how Biblical teachings promote mindful living. If your understanding of scriptures is superficial, you will miss it. In addition, I recognize that her scripts for awakened families are basically rules or laws that no one can keep perfectly. And her retort about the Bible suggests the duality of her beliefs - She’s right...Bible wrong.

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Conditioned? Have you tried the word programming?

[@clarisamompremier1110]

It is really funny how many times Dr. Hyman asks for "practical" advice. LOL A prescribed way of doing things, is anti conscious parenting. There is no one way. This "path" was life changing for me.

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Transcend requires a thorough knowledge of where you are.

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Conscience programs to blame, shame, guilt where correction is punishment.

[@karinja100]

About the mechanic world 😓

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Principle based rather than AGEN(T)DA driven.

[@ophidiaparaclete]

H onor E xcellence I ntegrity R estored Auditors oath of assurance made to oneself.

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Manflu is real XD

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Too many ads, could not watch.

[@ehilinuceta-tineo7026]

Who knows that her system works? Because she said it does not mean anything. About Jesus millions has changed following his teachings!. Meditate=Prayers Communion=Holy Mass Divine=GOD Fear=Bible Hope=Jesus Eternity =Eternity

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Is the path of social justice the sociopath?

[@ophidiaparaclete]

Keys to HELL and DEATH is keys to THE BAR and CHURCH(Conscience)

[@whiteangel7777777]

Omg too much time spent on electronics

[@ophidiaparaclete]

CORPORATE CHURCH and STATE, JUDICIAL branch and THE BAR. Conscience. Programming human behavior wounds the human heart, kills the human soul, destroys the human mind.

[@giuseppeborzacchiello6931]

Buona sera atutti del Mondo io sono Giuseppe Borzacchiello yur matemete ni fa piacere sapere che sono famosi e gentile da parte vostra disponibilità e ni sento c'ho si emozioni che palate di me Giuseppe Borzacchiello yur io un giorno Giuseppe Borzacchiello yur matemete Cecco da a trovare però capisco poco Ichelese sono una persona molto seria e gentile e disponibile I bio passato o soffitto tanto e sono Giuseppe Borzacchiello yur matemete divorziato ouna fjia 16anni viva Al Mod e Adesso che l'amia vitae bella ni setto ubo e mozione Giuseppe Borzacchiello yur matemete Buona sera atutti così

[@TheodorouC72]

She is a little unclear at times 🤔

[@giuseppeborzacchiello6931]

Buona serata nipece molto interessante come stai stasera e gentile risposta cordiali a Giuseppe Borzacchiello yur bella sono stati bene comune diverso tempo si può fare una prova delle impostazioni di seguito le invio in allegato trovi il mio passato e non ho ricevuto la disponibilità per il mittente al più presto possibile un Giorno Giuseppe Borzacchiello yur viene atrovare yurBona sera e

[@mamalives6938]

The awakened know MaMa's spirit created them. And to call MaMa MOTHer/woMAN is calling MaMa the vvitch.

[@HA-kw7vq]

I have listened to a few of her talks and to be honest find her talks over bearing - sometimes less is more. I think she gets confused herself. She states we as parents have our kids for ego, then went onto state we don’t love our kids on an earlier talk. Glad as a divorced, single mum, through good values, love, resilient, learning to say no, I have two wonderful kids. None of this hooey stuff that can be so overwhelming and confusing at times.

[@gomathisenthilkumar7215]

I think even Dr. Sheffali as mom is still learning and evolving....may be her ideals are changing to the demands and needs of her own children. Just registered the view from third eye. Thanks.

[@lewisalmeida3495]

Dr. Shefali has given us much advice of becoming conscious; however, Spinoza a 17th philosopher came to the reality that man/woman live by the law of necessity and that freewill is an illusion. We cannot will ourselves to change. We must learn how to see the truth of our confused nature. How? WayofSpinoza.com

[@caroldavison9622]

What!!!! Let them fail? How do you show a positive path that is not pushing them to your will? Explain please. Sounds like removing the responsibility of parenthood.

[@sandyk8594]

That is exactly what it is. Transgenderism under the guise of childrens rights. Dr. Shefali is one of many hidden Transgenders.

[@anthonammal7998]

Parenting with encouragement and motivation will surely enhance children's potential. Just don't make them a replica of us. In that way, any child will flourish into a wonderful being and a disciplined life is an inspiration rather than a burden or frustration to them.

[@JinanMC]

@@sandyk8594 huh?

[@awakenedsoul3695]

She has an amazing concept but she needs to be more "aware" that she keeps interrupting him while he is talking. You can almost sense the frustration in his voice. You would think being a psychologist she would be more apt to hear people out and listen intently.