The Benefits of The Pact Model in Couples' Therapy

In this video, Dr. Kate Balestrieri sits down with Dr. Hans Jorg Stahlschmidt to discuss the benefits of using The PACT model for couples therapy and relationships.
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Dr. Kate Balestrieri sits down with Dr. Hans Jorg Stahlschmidt to discuss the PACT model of couples therapy, developed by Dr. Stan Tatkin. Dr. Hans Jorg Stahlschmidt, Licensed Psychologist, discusses what he enjoys about the model and it’s positive impact on the lives of couples he’s had the opportunity to work with. The two also discuss the problems that can get in the way of our relationships and what goes on neurologically.
Almost every problem in a relationship has a neurological origin. So to comprehend this, Dr. Kate & Dr. Hans took the decision of getting under the hood of the brain and start sharing some secrets that the Pact Model has discovered.
The Pact Model has proved that our systems, hormones and brain are directly connected to our emotions, so we have to be conscious about our unconscious in order to have healthy relationships.
Relationships natural growing pains will give us all the information we need, are your ready to start listening and keep growing with your partner. Here is all the information that you need, so lets get started
Dr. Hans starts the discussion by telling his story of how he found himself working with couples and specifically utilizing the PACT model. Originally from Germany, Dr. Hans moved to the United States and began gaining experience working within family therapy and eventually couples therapy. Dr. Hans discovered Dr. Stan Tatkin, the founder of the PACT model and was hooked on the modality after seeing a speaking engagement in which Dr. Tatkin described the model.
The PACT model, which is based on evolutionary principles that are expressed in attachment theory. Dr. Hans describes is making sense as humans have a predominate urge to look for safety and security within our relationships. Dr. Kate and Dr. Hans describe how difficult it can be to find safety and security in romantic relationships when one has a history of abusive, neglectful, or generally poorly managed child-parent relationship dynamics. When this happens, those who experienced adverse childhood experiences often find themselves seeking out and repeating painful or maladaptive relationship patterns they experienced in childhood. This becomes a vicious cycle and can make a person feel they are damaged or aren’t capable of experiencing a healthy, functional relationship.
Dr. Kate and Dr. Hans describe how the PACT model can be really beneficial through a relationship’s natural growing pains. Humans are dynamic creatures and it’s inevitable that both parts of the coupleship will change and grow. This can be scary for one or both partners as they have to come to terms with the metamorphosis of their relationship, which may be different than what they are used to. The PACT model allows couples to mold and grow together in a way that is connective and invites partners to grow together, as opposed to apart.
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To learn more about the PACT model and how it can help relationships, you can visit The PACT Institute website at: www.thepactins...
To get to know Dr. Dr. Hans Jorg Stahlschmidt better, you can visit his website at: www.stahlschmid...
To schedule an appointment with one of Modern Intimacy’s clinicians, visit our website’s contact page: www.moderninti...
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