The Benefits of Waiting for Marriage

[@kellarenna]

I tell people I'm celibate and one of the most common things I hear from people is "if he doesnt get it from you, hell go looking elsewhere" well perfect because that's literally exactly the type of guy I DONT want! Just makes my search easier lol

[@dea7623]

Kelsey Renee YESSS I AGREE

[@nontobekomncwabe4976]

Yaaassss. Having standards is so good because it cuts out all the rubbish.

[@simpsbelongtothegulags3702]

Thats nice hahaha

[@TheMoodamoody]

Ikr!

[@bq-9238]

funny thing is, you can give it to him and he’ll still get it elsewhere.

[@nehasamson6151]

Praise God men like these EXIST!!!!

[@mariopatroni4351]

Neha Samson am one of them .sm single

[@TheQShow53]

This is how a real man should behave !

[@jackanthony976]

They're gay!!

[@nodishesnobishes8253]

JACK ANTHONY they’re not I know the guy on the left has a wife

[@jackanthony976]

@@nodishesnobishes8253 Big Deal. Do you know how many gay men have wives and even children with them?

[@Stew91]

It's good to see men standing up to for righteousness and purity. We need more of them in society.

[@sycamore0765]

True

[@user-or4ut2qi3q]

Let's start with ourselves, set a better standard of masculinity for our household and friends. God wants us to be fruitful and make a lot of children, so they can help to spread that standard for the next generation too.

[@calvinmartinii3798]

I’m a 22 year old males and still a virgin waiting until marriage it’s hard but I am still holding on. And doing God’s will.

[@stopusingmyaccountpls]

this might sound bad but not very many males wait until marriage (mostly women) so im glad to see that you are and that there are some good men out there still

[@avm392]

Keep up my dear Calvin. Always put God first in all you do. Sex should be for the greater glory of God during marriage, not for personal pleasure. Preserve it for your spouse. At 30, I'm still preserving mine. The right man has come along and we've been COURTING (no sex involved) for 15momths. Marriage proceedings have started. God bless your path.

[@joshuamoore2341]

@@stopusingmyaccountpls Lol. It did sound bad because I'm here like damn lady I'm here waiting to what's that suppose to mean? Yes it may be true but there are a lot of guys wait but don't speak about of course. I'm 24 still waiting.

[@stopusingmyaccountpls]

@@joshuamoore2341 im sorry! i didn't mean to offend you. but good on you anyway :)

[@joshuamoore2341]

@@stopusingmyaccountpls No need to be sorry. Its all good. Not even close to offended. I'd be a hypocrite if I said i didn't think as you did. What you said is most likely and is of course presumed to be so as well so it's nothing we all don't think. Thanks for responding so quickly though your comment was a year old. 😊😊

[@YASHIKA8SY]

Currently waiting and I’m now noticing that some guys don’t even tryyyyy. They do the bare minimum and expect to enter our souls. ABSOLUTELY NOT. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Kaykay-jh1zu]

🤣🤣

[@MsLondy96]

I love this, so true!

[@laradara7175]

That just means your not equally yoked like your not on the same wavelengths.

[@YASHIKA8SY]

@@laradara7175 I wasn’t at all. I am now 💛

[@micolespicer9711]

A Good Guy is one who doesn't live according to a "Society defined manhood!" That's good stuff!

[@elinorchishimba]

Really Good stuff...❤👏👌

[@gossipgirlnaija]

am not a virgin..now m in my early 20s and I HV decided to abstain from sex till marriage. its really not easy but I'm determined.

[@Goodguyswag]

You will grow so much through this experience. Your future husband will be incredibly grateful, too! I hope you find someone who's chosen to live like you.

[@killamatrix1]

It's hard just gotta find a church man.

[@lailamossemann8316]

Same

[@bernardhenderson1939]

I respect that

[@bernardhenderson1939]

There is a such thing reborn virgin

[@rachelnkembo3437]

Thankful my fiance and I decided to wait till marriage and we are proud of it..we are expecting to get married April 2019, We have seen a lot of benefits of waiting and our love keep on increasing, I highly incourage unmarried youth to wait

[@joshuagregoire9504]

You guys still together?

[@AmberDennis001]

I am a virgin at age 22 and everyone my age is getting pregnant. It is kind of weird.

[@slug237711]

Amber Dennis Same, only my friends that are getting prego are married Christians. Just fills me up with jealousy cause I'm gonna be 23 in like 2 weeks, still a virgin dude with strong urges And they're getting married as soon as they leave freaking high school :P

[@AmberDennis001]

slug237711 I am turning 23 in a week and everyone my age is getting engaged, married, or pregnant.

[@peacheslovesjesus]

Wait. It's not worth it unless it's with someone whom GOD has for you.

[@Goodguyswag]

I didn't end up getting married until 37. I wish I had waited. I promise you'll look back and be thankful you did.

[@Crambull]

Lol same here. I'm in no rush. I still need to figure out my own life before I want to share it with someone else.

[@blacksharkswimmer3729]

I tell ppl work on themselves while waiting. Work on cooking if u can't cook. Work on cleaning if u can't clean. Work on your attitude. Work on lovin yourself so u your heart be open to give love

[@skyejacques]

Heal childhood and adult traumas and clear karma and programming

[@gabrielamartinyuk6438]

I’m Waiting for marriage! I’m trusting in The Lord to bring me my spouse . I read the book!

[@thanamesny7807]

You can do it!

[@princejoseph6874]

U r an awesome red pilled woman

[@jsan5878]

I didn’t waited and I accepted Jesus Christ in my life and got baptized. I began my journey with my faith and healing. I’ve been single for 5 years and I’m 24. I always felt guilty for not waiting, but I definitely will stand true to waiting for marriage when the right one for me comes and even then I feel it’s a new opportunity to do things right 🙏

[@JamesPrime1]

Great video. Glad I found this channel. As someone who is waiting for marriage, I found this video to be very uplifting from the constant struggle that you experience when you decide to wait.

[@Goodguyswag]

We've got to encourage each other. Here's another great article from the website: goodguyswag.com/waiting-for-sex-an-honest-look-at-the-price-of-patience/

[@JamesPrime1]

Just checked out the website. It's loaded with some awesome information. Thanks for sharing and I hope you guys continue making more content!

[@veronicaphiri7432]

Refreshing to see folks who actually still believe in such virtues. Just checked out you channel - was pleasantly surprised to see your interest in my future homeland South Korea!

[@JamesPrime1]

It's good to hear that people still appreciate that virtue. My experience with it has left me feeling like a loner most times, but the older I get, the more I've come to just accept it and stand for what I believe in. Also, Korea is a beautiful place that has some amazing little spots. I think you will like it here!

[@veronicaphiri7432]

James that's beautiful. I literally just spent a good five minutes retyping and erasing - Im thinking how does one even respond to such a reply... For sure ,sexual purity/ celibacy is less popular than should be, especially for us folks their twenties (shucks, you are in your twenties yeah?) And I can defos relate to the social perception of being the strange one - but nothing more intriguing than being a little bitty of an oddity right?! And I rate your thoughts are pretty accurate,I feel I would love it there. You should for sure go live on cam.

[@Jillian1stJohn3-9-10]

I'm 50 and still never been married. I've gone 16 years without dating anyone, because I've met way too many happily married couples that all said that they instantly knew the moment they met...that that person was to be their spouse. I'm waiting for God to show me and to show him that we are to marry. I won't just "date" anyone to find out if they are The One.

[@SheillaOlga]

Jillian Mac Knight God is faithful

[@tanyastevens9553]

We should also, go to places "positive" places to be seen. Think of it this way... There may be areas in your life needing more guidance, a more intimate relationship with God before God sets you up. There are women that are suppose to be single to live out God's plan alone... ❤❤❤

[@skittlesteelers]

Jillian Mac Knight By the time you get married your sex drive wont exist anymore 💀💀💀

[@everythingheals3255]

But don't overlook people who want to date you just because you didn't get that instant spark or confirmation that he's the one. That approach can make you miss out on a great partner. God can still confirm to you whether or not someone is the one later on and feelings can grow as well

[@jonathanmoss503]

There is no the one or perfect sign you can keep looking but you won’t necessarily find it especially when your looking for a miracle.

[@lashawnxfaith]

Being celibate is one of the hardest things in the world today but I'm doing it and I pray that I'll continue to be able to wait for my prince.

[@yogadre]

Best thing we ever did!!!! My husband and I truly believe it was the best thing 14 years later. Very similar story as Devon and his wife. Fantastic stuff!!! So full of truth!!!!

[@moroccanluv8810]

I’m a 30 year young virgin .God best is best !! I love seeing beautiful-hearts and faces obeying God . Because His way is Best . I was boring in a Muslim home . But I converted to Christianity ,so as most people know growing up in a Muslim home dating was not an option or allowed specially for girls ,.. And now that I don’t live with my family do to getting kicked out for my Faith in Christ I don’t know how to date lol it’s hard for me . I have guy friends.. And guys do ask me out but I freak out and turn them down .,,And I do pray God will send me an awesome Godly man and give me confidence in a man He has for me to say yes and get eventually get married !! Help me ! Pray for me . Thank you .

[@paulineodoje4376]

Moroccanluv8 Praying for you 🙏🏾

[@eugengolubic2186]

Moroccanluv88 it was nice to hear your story. I admire you. I will pray for you and all of people who wait. God bless you!

[@cherllmaglinte2658]

Moroccanluv88 ....will pray for u sweety.good to hear u are a christian now.Jesus love u and hears our prayer...😇😇😇🤗🤗🤗

[@moroccanluv8810]

Pauline Odoje thank you 😊

[@moroccanluv8810]

cherll maglinte thank you 😊

[@victoriousjoy9338]

So good! It's scary to see our culture lose masculinity!! I am a woman and a bold but kind masculinity is the most attractive thing in the world to me!! Keep saying this truth and giving men permission to be who God made them to be!!! 😃

[@MegaLadylove2012]

The wait is very beautiful. It's also very, very hard! I'd done this a few years. Let me tell you how many times I feel temptations coming. Sometimes, I gotta stop to ask God to help me. Other days, am angry like why do this? I feel a sense of despair lately like how long? It's really hard. Thou, I think magic happens during those challenges. You start to look at things differently. Conversations carry more meaning than before. You start to crave a hug; even a hand shake feels more intimate in a pure, loving way. You become more present in thoughts or feelings. I realized all of my past relationships were quite superficial. I never felt deeply connect with those ppl. I'd always mask the real me. Moreover, I feel as if I never experience pleasure like I want to think I had because, again, I tend to masked my true self by being in places or with ppl with whom I never felt safe. I'm becoming freely open to express who I am where I can say, yep. I will do that. Nop.I can't do that rather than feel pressure to do everythin to seem cool. It is truly beautiful to wait because a lot of magic happens during delay gratification.

[@Goodguyswag]

Have you seen Yvonne Orji's Ted Talk video? You might find some encouragement with her story.

[@olivak]

wow! thank you for this post, i'm going to share this with friends.

[@mea923]

Sets the precedence for "Sacrifice to be the DNA of your relationship" 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

[@Goodguyswag]

An incredibly important part of relationship DNA too!

[@olacole5315]

I feel motivated by you Devon. We now live in a society of bad influences and negative messages, but to hear a message like this is extremely inspiring!!

[@charmingcharlie011]

Videos like these are very encouraging! I think I can go on now :)

[@Goodguyswag]

Thank you, Victoria. This is why we do what we do!

[@lovelymel1585]

Why waiting is worth it ❤️❤️❤️ encouraging for me to continue waiting God bless you both.

[@ahimbisibweboberic7720]

Fantastic........!!!!

[@chocolatethunder457]

Mita Love hi pulchritinous

[@karenmarie5653]

I don’t know if marriage is a part of my future I know what’s in my heart and my desires but I truly believe I want to live the rest of my days in Gods will so I believe also God will reveal that to me . So I find true Joy in a pure celibacy lifestyle . It has been a little more than three years and prior to that six years . I can have true Joy in this part of my life .

[@MarkBH70]

If you want to live as you want, and won't become a Christian...I say do what you want! I think there's suffering, but do what you want! I'm waiting, I don't expect others to. I'm male, and don't care if I'm laughed at.

[@jhenniferbillionz5125]

Great

[@jackanthony976]

You think Christians are happy people? Think again. They seem to suffer just as much as everyone else. Only difference though is that Christians think they will go to some kind of eternal reward in heaven for all the suffering they are going through. Boy, will they be disappointed when they find out there is no eternal reward in heaven.

[@dir-gk]

@@User2345astdidbud OOF

[@TonTon-ph2zm]

So glad to hear that there are men who practice celibacy as well. Excellent interview* 💯👄❤

[@Mystic_UniDragon]

I’ve vowed and been raised to save myself till marriage since I was 12. That’s what I’ve lived with, ever since I learned what “birds & the bees” was. (I was told the birds and bees when I was 12) I’m 20 now, and I’m still a proud prude 😅(despite how silly that sounds to some people). At least I don’t gotta worry, about someone leaving me used and in heartbreak, right after sharing my body for the first time ever. Once your v-card is gone, that’s it. It’s a one time use. Save it. It’s worth it. Waiting till marriage to lose your v-card, has its benefits. Waiting till marriage, means you have shared your body with the one man/woman that you TRULY LOVE, and will live with in holy matrimony through life and death.

[@Bedeborah]

As a result of his waiting and then met Meghan and they wrote the book 'Waiting' it set something off in the atmosphere that triggered among a host of people to go against the norm and choose God's way. And lead the way to discussions people were not having. I believe this and I see this after God through them opened the door.

[@King.Afriyie]

While videos like these are encouraging, it's also a bit sad to know that we have lowered the bar so much that "waiting", instead of total abstinence until marriage, is seen as the standard that people aspire to. We now have "born again" virgins. Does God give grace in such instances? Of course He does, but before "we remove a fence, we must always pause long enough to ask why it was put there in the first place"(paraphrased G.K. Chesterton)

[@adriekathomas9838]

Wow, great point.

[@skyejacques]

Everyone has a different life journey so it's up to them how they define their lives. Some of us are unwillingly celibate because I haven't found the right person at all. Living in a metropolis and not gonna find someone like minded perhaps

[@trevordaniel8097]

This is powerful gents, thank you for sharing. I'm a 27 year old male Christian virgin waiting for marriage.

[@leahk.chanda4946]

Am 28 and still a virgin🤗🤗🤗 waiting for one who's worth it👌 #weddingnight

[@w_ease8780]

Fuck yeah GRATS 🤙🏽 20 yo one here, and man have I been tempted. It’s gotta be worth the wait 🙏🏽

[@skyejacques]

Praying for you and all of us that God opens the doors to good marriage for us

[@lindalewis8001]

​@@w_ease8780hey it's worth the wait.most men just want sex after ready to leave move on to next woman loving single life no drama thanks for sharing blessings ❤️

[@fruitsofspirit6903]

I am in total agreement! My mother always said sex before marriage created soul ties that could have spiritual, emotional, phyically deadly consequence!!! When practiced,you will weed out who is into who you are as a person, not just how you can only satisfy one in the sheets!

[@elinorchishimba]

This is so Good, i have always waited... I started feeling as though am not normal, but this interview has taught me a lot and has encouraged me.... I will keep on saving the Lord...😄😁🙌

[@valerie4912]

🙋🏻‍♀️ I’m a waiter! Been celibate for 5 years now 😊

[@eugengolubic2186]

I'm a teenager and I decided to wait. Before I started reading the Gospel more, I flirted a lot with women. I mean, it's not like I wanted to have sex with them...just did it. I have had trust issues and it never came to my mind to get married. Now, even if I don't marry, I want to dedicate my life to the Lord and show gratitude for my salvation. For all of you who wait until marriage: "You can do it! Of course it's hard. That's why it's meaningful. If you have troubles, read Paul's epistles." May peace and blessings be with you!

[@jessicaborgogni9595]

I love this message!!! This interview is perfect, both of you!! 💕well done and thank you!!!👍🏻👍🏻

[@simplylindy2987]

Even more of a reason to continue waiting on God. 💖

[@reatilempogeng9515]

Thank you for uploading this video, i follow Meagan and DeVon all the time

[@Goodguyswag]

I haven't met Meagan, but DeVon is an incredible man!

[@jeanettevictoriasweet819]

I just found this video, great job men and thank you for being authentic and excellent role models for other men! I need to read the book now!

[@angala470]

This is an awesome message! :)

[@Goodguyswag]

Thank you!

[@dea7623]

My heart feels warm watching this video and reading the comments of it. So inspiring. And so happy knowing that I'm not alone.

[@nkengeraspberry1559]

That’s a powerful testimony. One worthy of falling. To God be the glory. God is able to make us stand. Real men wait! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️🔥

[@stefanysanchez2]

He is very elegant and confident.

[@suzys8558]

I'm waiting for this book to be available at my local library or until I can find myself a job. LOL cause God knows that times are tough for me right now...

[@smileyperlishia]

Suzy S I have it and done reading it. I can mail it to u at no charge. Just email me your address or wherever u would have me mail it.

[@smileyperlishia]

Suzy S Devon and Megan were put together by God.

[@suzys8558]

can you DM me on twitter at @cocoa_struggles or on instagram at queen_of_now

[@smileyperlishia]

Suzy S I'm only on Periscope. Pearl891. I not on any other social media.

[@Goodguyswag]

I read the ebook on my phone, but I love how Pearl jumped in to help!

[@AlphaJacksCereal]

I'm WAITING! It's the best route. I put value on myself and the act of sex. I'm not knocking any of you but I know what's special. Sex can wait. There's so much more to learn about someone.

[@kme321]

Very interesting interview, he speaks words of wisdom. The way I see it is that when someone gets you a present, first thing you do is ask them "what did you get me," then they say "it's a surprise," so when you wait longer you become more excited. When you open the present, then you appreciate it more rather than knowing what you already had to begin with. That is why I think waiting for sex is better, the intimacy is more appreciate and valued more.

[@TheHill12]

I m virgin and I m 24 years old. I hope I ll wait till marriage.

[@ceeece]

I commend him for “waiting.” Try going until you are 43 never having sex. Your bodies aren’t in their prime and the experience isn’t near as explosive. In Biblical times people married in their teens. So it wasn’t that hard to wait back then.

[@jackanthony976]

Had marriage even been invented during Biblical times?

[@ceeece]

JACK ANTHONY Yes. Mary and Joseph were betrothed. Which basically means engaged to be married.

[@crackhead4540]

@@ceeece Mary was a virgin till death

[@laradara7175]

This is so true aswell, once you wait you really calm down and re evaluate what you do, where you go, what you wear, what you even say, this is a lifestyle change for me but I’m really happy with it rn tbh

[@saintamerican6105]

“we lose pieces of ourselves” YYEESS i’m proud of waiting too

[@optimumprime00]

I'm a virgin (M)20. Bout to wait until marriage. Best decision I've ever made.

[@shardanorman]

Just saw this and love what you're about. God bless you both and your family. This is needed.

[@user-nj5cl6xs4n]

Closer to 40 now than 30 and still waiting for my bride. I will give myself to no one else.

[@mihretkifle9473]

he spoke all that was in my heart about this issues, thankful to know that there are men who believe this way

[@chloethemessenger]

Wow. I really needed this video. When he compared a good guy to who Jesus was I nearly fell off my chair 🪑😱 because I mentioned him being self-less this week. Thanks for video.

[@rforsyth64]

So good to have this perspective!! Well done respectful Godly men 💕

[@roslynw7]

Meagan Good is a lucky woman 😍

[@lindalewis8001]

Hey i agree with you most men don't try makes no sense loving single life no drama praise God thanks for sharing blessings 🙏

[@kimlee05]

this is so refreshing

[@liiilliees]

New subbie , just came across your channel, am truly inspired coz your video has has given me hope that there are some of men who will love u unconditionally and willing for wait. Indeed there is a lot to do in a relationship rather than sex. Thank you so much for the great video..looking forward to watch more🤗

[@BlueEyesBrittany]

the benefits of waithing for marriage ... does not mean anythign unless both are faithful and treat each other well till the end .. is there any insurance or guarantee of all of it ..

[@violet7752]

Exactly waiting for marriage doesn't always mean the marriage will last.

[@leah38521]

Negative nancy

[@jjbb84x]

More like pragmatic patty.

[@justhere7947]

BlueEyes Brittany no ... #ihateithere

[@elinorchishimba]

I love this interview.... It's great. Good Channel ❤

[@coccoplus6778]

Wow, great video. DeVon is inspirational & uplifting! He speaks the truth & is authentic. Lucky lady that got him, but he's lucky too! Great stuff, thank you.

[@eboniking4860]

A good guy is a authentic guy.

[@RealTalkRelationshipTherapy]

amazing. I love it this I feel like waiting or being celibate is truly about taking control of your body and doing what you want when you are ready not society or anyone else.

[@thembicosta4394]

Beautiful message; but I've only seen beautiful men like this on screen; I've been abstinent for over 2 years now and the only man I've gotten to know is God... Am I alone? Do these men exist in real life??

[@dubstepperjay6883]

alot of them

[@chikaegbuna7184]

You are not alone .

[@ll9212]

Thembi Costa Hi I agree 100% & Ive bn abstinent for 3 yrs now(It is our mind set) GOD IS AMAZING!!! Pray 4 Strength & Guidance! Pls ck out Allison Rowe You Tube series 4 Inspiration❤👌

[@ngreat4390]

If you are on God's database you'll get one. Please don't go looking in the world!

[@liiilliees]

Helen Enang I absolutely agree 😘

[@ZoTheZavage]

I'm a secular celibate. I made the decision for all the practical reasons. However, I know this is a decision for life, not until marriage since I'm very unlikely to ever get married. But still, people will always be ridiculing you if you made such a decision while not being religious.

[@sarah-sandres]

love this! I'm waiting too! Loved their book read it a couple years ago!

[@Sona77.]

I'm 27 and every guy I come across don't even care I'm a virgin. Maybe I haven't met the right guy...im so tired of being questioned...I don't wanna just lose it to anyone

[@smc1774]

This is a very inspirational video.👍👍👍👍

[@yakopro49]

both of you men were great in this clip. #RESPECT

[@johnolorunfemiabe4669]

Another great video. Thanks for this!

[@lucyakomiah9306]

So amazing, waiting for God to bring me this gud type of guy into my life

[@prettyinar7608]

Definitely practicing this! ❤️

[@Branaymolly]

Waiting on God not marriage thank you

[@rheamaygodenez4479]

Im still believe that i can find a good guy that who can accept me who i am. Everytime to see each other their a butterflies inside our hearts

[@xsuzannex]

Were you were a virgin? Devon- noooooooo 😅

[@terry-annfrancis1252]

Suzanne Maxwell lmao 😂😂😂

[@laradara7175]

Loool 🤣

[@JF-ne9ky]

"God bless you, Peter said to them, Repent, and let every one of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ, for the remission of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Ghost." (Acts 2:38) There is no salvation in any other, for there is no other name under heaven given among men, by which we must be saved: God by His great goodness manifested himself in the person of Jesus Christ while we were still sinners, that whoever believes in Him should be saved from the condemnation of sin Jesus Christ the Messiah overcame death, so that none should perish (Romans, chapter 5: 8), Car the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord Romans chapter 6:23 "

[@hkdiva2015]

I don't mind waiting until marriage, but myself as a 38 year old male, still intact. Even in non-Muslim majority nations, many Yellow people such as Chinese (in which I belong in), Koreans and Japanese, there are many male virgins in their 40s and even 50s. Because of this many have become hermits themselves. I don't consider myself as a full fledged hermit, I do feel kind of depressed when talking about my desires to connect with women and my heart constantly breaks. How do I end it permanently even though it could take months if not years?

[@skyejacques]

It might be worthwhile getting ruqyah done if there's blockages to your marriage. I am doing the same for myself. I met someone, we aren't compatible but that's an improvement from before.

[@justhere7947]

If you do this ...surround yourself with older doing the same thing. You are the sum of the people you surround yourself with.

[@gapgame4953]

I discovered your video on Secret Fixer Blueprint - there are lots awesome videos there that may help out

[@ivanaramandei6305]

Amazing. This is the coolest story of all love story. 👏👏👏👏

[@Princessaa111]

Awee he’s the perfect husband 💗✨✨.

[@StaceysYouTube]

This book was a beautiful read, loved it.

[@Commentator3]

30% under 25 are still virgins, you're not alone and you Can wait.

[@Nessurrz]

Good One Devon! Thanks Kris :)

[@eboniking4860]

Devon you are resembling everything you named about Christ to your wife. This defines God’s finest

[@milanmarie1384]

Thank you for this 🙏🏼

[@ashley_brown6106]

My boyfriend dumped me last night because I told him I want to wait until marriage. I thought he loved me but I guess the love was just a way to get sex lol

[@leahrenee0525]

He’s married to Meghan Good, and Eric Bellinger is married to her sister, La’Muia Good............. and I’m not even engaged.... OR HAVE A BOYFRIEND. 😂✌🏻 BYE. Laughing out loud? But crying in the inside.

[@davidmushagalusa9715]

Such a blessing video.

[@kkj361]

i'm in my prime in my late 20's and this is soo hard man but my gf is willing to wait as well but tust me i'm like a raging animal as soon as i get a few things concrete in my life i'll be happy to make her my wife but awww man imma go crazy kmllll

[@szililolabu]

You gotta CHANNEL that sex energy. Transmutation is what it is called. Look it up. Basically: work out till you are exhausted, eat well and regularly, sleep well, meditate daily. No sugar, no alcohol. These increase urges greatly! That sex energy is huge and will either be harnessed and help you immensely or destroy you! Also do No Fap. No porn.

[@szililolabu]

Every time you feel horny do something productive. Work , exercise, call a friend.

[@ahimbisibweboberic7720]

Kdouble0 RELAX........read ISAIAH 40:31 over and over again...........!!!!

[@ink2047]

Interesting, but it would also be interesting to know the other side of the medal. The downsides of waiting for marriage.

[@marreusora4002]

God is Good. Psalm 37:4 waiting for in God's perfect time

[@killamatrix1]

I can hear Meagan laughing in the background

[@jenniferrsn]

Has anyone read the book?? I want to purchase it but I want to see what others think about it :)

[@saraheayo4014]

Great lesson

[@ch37twrc80]

Thank you for this.

[@marymwinga1255]

I bought this book. Its about time I have to start reading it.. 🤗

[@VickyJ31520]

Nice!!👍🏾✝️🙏🏾

[@ex_orpheus1166]

The whole argumentation for waiting to marriage is flawed because it is premised on the following faulty assumptions: 1) sex and emotional feelings are mutually exclusive with each other, therefore ultimately everyone becomes attached to every sex partner. 2) promiscuity makes you a bad prospect for a monogamous 'romantic' partner. 3) monogamy is the proper way to romantically and sexually relate to people. All of these people fail to account that: 1) promiscuity does not necessarily equate with rampant casual sex and can be applicable to polyamorous individuals who sexually interact with other polyamorous partners. 2) each individual person is unique and will therefore will each respond to varying agrees of attachment, depending on their mindsets and experiences. The human is extremely adept and malleable and is not programmed to operate solely in monogamous relationships. This is where DeVon Franklin's appeal to design by nature fails because (assuming the existence of a god) it assumes monogamy is of a natural essence. Which leads to the third point... 3) monogamy is a social construct and not an innately ingrained behaviour into the human psyche and is not the only means for achieving emotionally fulfilling relationships. Non-monogamy has been practiced in various non-Western cultures and it is only relatively recently (in large part due to the Roman Empire) and its transplantation into Christian European society that monogamy has been normalized/standardized.