The Best Reading Skill No One Ever Taught You

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Elizabeth Filips

Elizabeth Filips

Күн бұрын

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@vaibhavi.singh.
@vaibhavi.singh. Жыл бұрын
I don't know when I picked up this habit but reading multiple books is a great way to avoid reading fatigue and a great technique in general
@deutschmitpurple2918
@deutschmitpurple2918 Жыл бұрын
True 👍👍👍
@bryanmelton5538
@bryanmelton5538 Жыл бұрын
IM GOING TOO TRY THIS
@SanujaJagoda
@SanujaJagoda Жыл бұрын
I love reading multiple books according to my mood. Really works for me 😊
@vaibhavi.singh.
@vaibhavi.singh. Жыл бұрын
@@babystepstinydrops same, same lol
@vaibhavi.singh.
@vaibhavi.singh. Жыл бұрын
@@SanujaJagoda ditto
@briannabaker453
@briannabaker453 Жыл бұрын
this video literally just changed my life. for years I've gotten so mad at myself for taking months to finish a book when I have so many more books I want to read but you just made me realize I CAN READ THEM ALL AT ONCE! bless your soul. 🙏
@handshakes76
@handshakes76 2 ай бұрын
how old are you that you just realized this
@doctrinafidei
@doctrinafidei Ай бұрын
The big problem I see with this habit is that it increases the likelihood of abandonment. Invariably, people will give priority to what speaks to their heart. Without certain rules, it's difficult to bring a reading project to a successful conclusion... Limits end up improving our selection criteria and we thus make better use of the literary choices we make.
@tonihandoko9706
@tonihandoko9706 Жыл бұрын
Sorry, I paused your video to watch another video in parallel. I'll get back to yours asap.
@daniiltanasiychuk
@daniiltanasiychuk Жыл бұрын
A lot of people told me that reading multiple books at the same time diminishes the message of each particular text. I am a musician and I tend to perform better in terms of lyricism and music production when I can hop between tracks and work on what ever stimulates my creativity. Thanks for opening my mind up to the existence of this concept!
@doctrinafidei
@doctrinafidei Ай бұрын
The big problem I see with this habit is that it increases the likelihood of abandonment. Invariably, people will give priority to what speaks to their heart. Without certain rules, it's difficult to bring a reading project to a successful conclusion... Limits end up improving our selection criteria and we thus make better use of the literary choices we make.
@gyananchan4256
@gyananchan4256 Жыл бұрын
Something that I would like to warn people about is overpressuring yourselves. When I got my kindle, it opened me up to carrying a lot of books with me at once. As a result, I would browse and download multiple books to read but what ended up happening was I was under too much pressure to finish all the books and ended up not reading at all. Elizabeth asks you to read according to your mood, which I feel is a good solution. I want to get back into reading multiple books again :)
@LinkEX
@LinkEX Жыл бұрын
While I didn't pressure myself on reading all of them, I am guilty of collector's fallacy when it comes to ebooks and audiobooks, lol. Writing down a note for each ebook you get with a personal summary and what you promise yourself to get out of it helps with deciding which ones to start. And to mix things up, just going with the flow and selecting a title you haven't read that sounds appealing to you does the trick for me.
@deutschmitpurple2918
@deutschmitpurple2918 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing 😊😊😊
@Siphomudau1990
@Siphomudau1990 Жыл бұрын
Lol, for me, not finishing books is totally acceptable. Its a sign that I wasn't that interested anyway. I have hundreds of unread books on my Kindle that I'll skim through once in a while and come back to whenever. I think thats alright too:)
@hippyvanmug
@hippyvanmug Жыл бұрын
Yeah this is why I don't use Kindle, because it's attached to amazon who want you to buy books constantly
@TallSexyHumble
@TallSexyHumble Жыл бұрын
@MultiBurst I think it's the fact that you started reading so much books or bought/download to finish those books, it just feels like you have to because thats what you planned to do. Well, that's how i feel at least. Hope it makes sense lol
@chrisrobinson7728
@chrisrobinson7728 Жыл бұрын
What got me into reading multiple books at once, was the comparison to watching TV. Series are shown in episodes, sometimes you can binge watch, but often there is only 1 episode per week. However you can easily watch multiple TV shows in a single week, without having to see an entire series to the end before starting a new one. Just swap TV episodes for book chapters, and suddenly NOT reading multiple books as once seems rather a strange way to read.
@Ognahx
@Ognahx Жыл бұрын
Excellent point. Thanks for sharing your idea., it really complimented what she said in this video. Now I plan to implement it as my daily reading method. 🙂
@afaris88
@afaris88 Жыл бұрын
TBH I hate to watch that way. That's why I'd wait until the season is finished before watching TV series. I once watched 2 different X-Men movies simultaneously, one was playing on the TV, and the other I was watching on my laptop. I got confused and the stories etc got mixed up, lol
@Silverraine1
@Silverraine1 Жыл бұрын
@@afaris88 I also hate to watch like that because I want to pause or continue an episode where I like instead of where the director likes.😆 As for getting confused, that's why she suggested not reading the same genre/type of book at the same time, just like school timetable with different classes/subjects throughout the day.
@afaris88
@afaris88 Жыл бұрын
@@Silverraine1 nice point. I'll surely try the different genre tips.
@NC4Walker
@NC4Walker Жыл бұрын
Exactly 👌🏼
@literarystudies1861
@literarystudies1861 Жыл бұрын
I've been reading consistently since 2016. This year I've started the habit of reading two books at the same time, each in a different language. And it's really working for me.
@bilderberggg
@bilderberggg Жыл бұрын
Why?
@v1d300
@v1d300 Жыл бұрын
Yes! different language book really is a good idea.
@literarystudies1861
@literarystudies1861 Жыл бұрын
@@bilderberggg because my native tongue is Arabic and I really want to learn more about Arabic literature after spending the last ten years studying English literature through my undergrad and then grad school. I also want to become more articulate in Arabic. Almost all of my past reading was in English. And I've always felt that my skills in Arabic are lacking behind...
@literarystudies1861
@literarystudies1861 Жыл бұрын
@@v1d300 I have to say that I love it so far.
@deutschmitpurple2918
@deutschmitpurple2918 Жыл бұрын
I hope I can do it. I am learning Spanish and Portuguse. I want to read some books in Spanish or Portuguse
@she_is_frost
@she_is_frost Жыл бұрын
This really helped me. I used to think I lacked discipline for wanting to start reading a new book before I finished the one I was reading. I would get discouraged to continue reading and end up not reading for weeks because of that. Now that I've watched this I feel more free to read multiple books and I'm looking forward to trying to implement some of your tips into my reading.
@patienceholmes841
@patienceholmes841 Жыл бұрын
I also really find it helpful for when you finish a book. When I finish a book and have nothing else I'm part way through I often have a lot of trouble starting something new, especially if the last book was really good. Having a few books I'm already part way through is so helpful to avoiding a reading slump. Having characters and settings I'm already familiar with means I don't have to leap right into an introductory phase and take on all that setup if I don't feel like it.
@jasongludd998
@jasongludd998 Жыл бұрын
I can relate to this.
@RVMTube
@RVMTube Жыл бұрын
Also, having unread books lines up.. 😅
@keithshowell6688
@keithshowell6688 Жыл бұрын
This is so true, Elizabeth! As a child growing up around college graduates and teachers, I was always into sports but fascinated with reading everything from comic books and encyclopedia to medical books and novels like One Day In The Life Of Ivan Denisovich! While playing professional baseball, instead of running to clubs I learned "syntopic reading" as a tool for research. I did not get rich playing ball, but have been enriched by reading the way you describe here. You've got another new subscriber now!
@andersonneil2293
@andersonneil2293 Жыл бұрын
The reader bill of rights 1. The right to not read 2. The right to skip pages 3. The right to not finish 4. The right to reread 5. The right to read anything 6. The right to escapism 7. The right to read anywhere 8. The right to browse 9. The right to read out loud 10. The right to not defend your taste
@JT1358
@JT1358 Жыл бұрын
No3... 😱
@davidvitale9338
@davidvitale9338 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant!!!
@marlyd
@marlyd Жыл бұрын
Skip pages...? 😶
@JD-hh2qb
@JD-hh2qb Жыл бұрын
Readers codes of conducts
@kenzieb2806
@kenzieb2806 Жыл бұрын
11. The right to read at any pace
@sheikhselim2312
@sheikhselim2312 Жыл бұрын
I've always been debating this idea, I had no idea that other people cared as much about this kind of rationalization as I did. Thank you so much for posting this video! I now know that reading books in parallel is a natural thing and a great thing!
@kaidollasign3757
@kaidollasign3757 Жыл бұрын
I used to be a strict one book reader too, and recently (like last week) decided to read multiple books at once. It’s funny how you uploaded a video about this not long after I had this realization lol This was really insightful ❤
@Dbb27
@Dbb27 Жыл бұрын
Serendipity!
@yobabybubba
@yobabybubba Жыл бұрын
This is *SOOOOOOOOOO* helpful to me. Especially reading multiple books at a time. I usually read one book at a time. Many years ago (at a different church than I go to now) the pastor and I were talking about reading and he told me that he is currently reading 12 books. I was impressed. He said he is usually reading about that many at a time. I have been through different stages where I read 2 or 3 at a time but for the last few years I'm always stuck on one book at a time and I feel I can't pick up the next one until I finish. Right now I am in the middle of a heavy theology book And sometimes it's hard to pick up ...and now I'm going to set it aside and pick up another book. This feels like freedom to me. 📚📚📚
@Musicienne-DAB1995
@Musicienne-DAB1995 Жыл бұрын
In fairness, I can see why you might want a break from reading a heavy theology book.
@yobabybubba
@yobabybubba Жыл бұрын
@@Musicienne-DAB1995 No doubt. Now I'm reading 3 theology books. Lol
@umbella
@umbella Жыл бұрын
📌Key takeaway: *Reading multiple books at the same time is beneficial.* Emotional aspect: - You can find a book that is suitable for your mood so that you can get out of the reading slump Rational aspect: - Don't mix genres. (Just like at school, you read Maths, Biology, Geography textbooks at the same time.) - Use different ways of reading e.g. Kindle, physical book, audiobooks - You can draw interesting linkage between books that could be less obvious, bringing original insights for the books you read in parallel.
@jdwhite5892
@jdwhite5892 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for getting to the main points!
@TheJoshtheboss
@TheJoshtheboss Жыл бұрын
I love my Kindle, but I just can't read academic books on it. Black and white just doesn't cut it for me. I can't imagine reading a biochemistry book on Kindle where the diagrams heavily rely on colour. Can't wait for Kindle to make a colour e-reader. I know Kobo has one.
@unomenah
@unomenah Жыл бұрын
Love to u, may Allah bless u 💐💐💐🤍🤍♥️🤍🤍🫂
@gusmonster59
@gusmonster59 Жыл бұрын
I think it's all baloney. Just read. I mix genres when I read more than book because one book will generally be interesting but challenging and I need a break from it to process the information.
@calisongbird
@calisongbird Жыл бұрын
@@TheJoshtheboss the Kindle mobile app is in color. I have it on my iPad Mini (great size for reading, very similar to other e-readers) and also my iPhone. I think Kindle Fire is color also. Maybe you have an older Kindle, or the “paperwhite” version?
@mariepagan1506
@mariepagan1506 Жыл бұрын
I'm currently reading about twenty books! It's just as you say - it's a mood thing. I do mix genres sometimes, but on different mediums. Right now, I have a contemporary romance, a Christmas rom-com, a sports book, a book on marketing, a couple on writing, and another about the subconscious mind. Been doing this for years already, although not with a psychological view such as yours.
@doctrinafidei
@doctrinafidei Ай бұрын
The big problem I see with this habit is that it increases the likelihood of abandonment. Invariably, people will give priority to what speaks to their heart. Without certain rules, it's difficult to bring a reading project to a successful conclusion... Limits end up improving our selection criteria and we thus make better use of the literary choices we make.
@blackowl0265
@blackowl0265 Жыл бұрын
So, basically just read whatever book you feel like reading at the moment rather than force yourself to read only one until finishing. Thanks, this is the advice that I needed 😃 hopefully with this I can finish my TBR list before the end of the year now
@reidchikezie1161
@reidchikezie1161 Жыл бұрын
This is also applicable in problem solving, as a software engineering student, I usually jump between projects when I get stuck or I just don't feel like doing a particular project at that particular time, I just move to another entirely different task and that really helps me to accomplish alot in shorter period of time. I'll try applying it to my reading, Thanks!
@marsgizmo
@marsgizmo Жыл бұрын
This is great advice! I fully agree with multiple books in parallel 👏
@Alwayslearnimg
@Alwayslearnimg Жыл бұрын
I always have!!
@erniea5843
@erniea5843 Жыл бұрын
Multiple... maybe 2-3 max. But agreed, reading any book is always better than reading nothing.
@Beijaxol
@Beijaxol Жыл бұрын
I read multiple books in parallel as a student. I loved it when I didn’t have to spend most of my time working.
@gocoastal1988
@gocoastal1988 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately I don't read multiple books at once, but only because I'm currently close-reading the great books in philosophy, poetry, religion, and literature. For me, I want to live and breathe the books one at a time. I want them to be the only things on my mind while I'm reading them so I can confront the questions they bring up head on and one at time. Rather than juggling.
@mindsigh4
@mindsigh4 Жыл бұрын
@@gocoastal1988 even tho i used to read 2 or 3 books in parallel, & still do, i agree that if a book is worth reading, it's worth reading slow, being absorbed in the text, letting the words reverberate off of the canyons of inner experience. & reading slow, hearing the words, sometimes i'll stop to marvel at the power &/or beauty of a individual sentence or passage (& even contemplate if the wording could have been improved, or if not, why, what was it that grabbed my attention so viscerally?) if the author somehow was able to concentrate a truth from their experience into a work, how much gets overlooked when if a reader were just skimming the surface? tho with a found book, one i stumble upon, with no fore knowledge of, i usually first scan a book at random, to get a sense of the authors voice, if i like their style, i then read it slowly. picking a book by interest in a topic is fine, but if i dont like the authors style, unless it is the only book on that topic that i need to know, i move on, becuz life is so short, wtf why would i want to chain myself to a work that isn't working? like eating foods or herbs spices that don't agree with u, unless there were medicine that u needed in that food, move on.
@Georgia-Vic
@Georgia-Vic Жыл бұрын
This works with everything else also. I was reading a book on the Japanese martial art of Akido in which the author was talking about when someone comes to a point like "writers block", where a practitioner gets stuck or bored with a particular subject or art.He advised to "Stop what you're doing completely because by continuing you'll just get frustrated. You won't get anywhere at that point!" Move on to another subject that's not related.He advised having several projects going on at once( but not simultaneously like cooking and taking a car out for a test drive and cleaning your gutters😒🤭Some examples are: sewing a quilt, painting a picture, reading or writing, repairing a lawn more, upholstering a chair or building a yard fence. When you come to a point where continuing any further seems forced and stressful; to where it's not progressing then drop it immediately and go on to the next task in your agenda.On and on and on and on and on and on until you notice a motion and when you come back around to it you'll pick up where you left off and plow through it with no problem and learn about it in the process. That's because each time you spend time on a thing what's happening is you've learned from all of your previous subjects and automatically it carries over to the one you're on now because of the unbroken learning process that you have been doing.Each time, little by little you're building a synapsis. I'm a visual artist,a cook, an archer and a drummer of 27 years and I've gotten good at each one because having an interest in several things and enjoying spending time on each one is liberating and expanding to say the least.If you spend the equal amount of time on each thing,say like 30 minutes or an hour on something, then go to the next one, over a short time things such as your cognitive skills,attitude and creativity will blossom exponentially and before you know it you'll begin to change mentally, emotionally, psychologically and physically. By creating new synapsis which are like building bridges; you're expanding surface area by making brain pathways! That helps to counter things like dementia and overall degeneration later on in your life...try it out, what have you got to lose?...well except for a numbered amount of brain cells that don't regenerate but die for lack of use! 🙀
@aedb15t
@aedb15t Жыл бұрын
I love “The Untethered Mind” as well. It was very helpful. I thought I read quite a few books at the same time….. lol. Until I saw your list. I love the physical books and my wife always jokes that I need a backpack to tote my stack. Scribd has been a great subscription that helps clear space and allows me to try things I would normally not pick up. Thanks for this video. I enjoyed it.
@anitas5817
@anitas5817 Жыл бұрын
Your point about trading one’s brain and creating positive emotional reinforcement for reading is brilliant. I haven’t heard anyone talk about this before.
@razrasmos1033
@razrasmos1033 Жыл бұрын
😱Wow Elizabeth Filips; smooth articulation & intonation of voice, bright & brilliant, informative & a great teaching manner & so much more. This the 2nd KZbin clip of yors I've listen too, the first was on study, that will prove to be helpful. What I personally like is yor speed of conversation, yor obvious knowledge & enthusiasm on the topics. I totally enjoy listening to U & my eyes smile at the sight of yor beauty & accent of voice. Thank U Elizabeth. PS: Oh I read more than 2-3 books at a time to sometimes five & that's not including Audiobooks or Kindle or my Bible. Its an inner hunger which sometimes causes 'mental indigestion' but we overcome. Thank U Elizabeth Filips.
@ZoeysMusings
@ZoeysMusings Жыл бұрын
I second reading more than one book at a time. I'm also a mood reader and I find going with my mood helps me read better and almost always, whatever I'm reading can be related to my life which is enriching. Thanks for sharing your take on this, Elizabeth! 🙂
@elizabethfilips
@elizabethfilips Жыл бұрын
Thanks Zoey!
@omagbs2713
@omagbs2713 Жыл бұрын
I discovered this earlier this year. And it's been working as a charm. You even get to finish more books than when reading serially. It's more rewarding.
@LillyJeanne
@LillyJeanne Жыл бұрын
Oh, I always read multiple books at a time and just naturally assumed that's what everyone does. Interesting to realize that there are people who had the believe that it was "wrong" to start another book before the first one is finished. I totally see how one can have such beliefs and it serves as a good reminder that we should now and then question if the rules we set for ourselfs are helpful or might need an update.
@ValerieSmith-tn5lw
@ValerieSmith-tn5lw Жыл бұрын
Elizabeth, I really admire your commitment and passion. You can really help a lot of people with these videos!
@edv_9
@edv_9 Жыл бұрын
I find so much value in your videos. Although I am applying the techniques little by little, I watch your videos again and every day some things make a little more sense. I have also found much value in the information and research that 80,000 hours shares. I found them around 2017 and thanks to them I have discovered baseless assumptions and been able to integrate layers of analysis into the decision of which path I want to explore next. I think it is so cool that they have sponsored you!
@elizabethfilips
@elizabethfilips Жыл бұрын
Thank you SO much Elena!
@1The1Sun1Teacher1
@1The1Sun1Teacher1 Жыл бұрын
Two comments: One, I didn't hear the reason for the need to read so many books at once (aside from the entertainment and challenge in and of itself). Take the example of a person who graduated with a BA or of Science and they understood the words and their definitions over 4 years of university which began in high school. Outside of fiction books and poetry, all expositional texts (theology, philosophy, the physical sciences, and history) are on established sets of topics and as such only need to be scanned for whatever insight or new perspective the writer is bringing to the table. That is, these books do not required a "whole book commitment". Even genres of fiction and poetry have their conventions by which a reader becomes accustomed to over the years--if you have learned what they are. The other point is that facing and embracing life's challenges will brings more inherent understanding and impact upon the person seeking the need to read. The question, beyond schooling, ought not to be "how many books ought I read" but "which book will help me " through my foibles as soon as possible so I can apply them with success in my own life? This is the greatest of "motivators" I have come across. Beyond clinical "motivation" one's thirst for knowledge slices right through the content; one reads a book like a hot knife through butter. Thus, if you are reading for your job or otherwise against your own personal interests--scan for the insights; if reading for personal need and benefit--the reading will happen and complete itself on its own. Reading is a tool; a means to an end.
@consistentme22
@consistentme22 Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your refreshing perspective on the learning process. It's very different from a lot of self help and the ever present tune of rigid consistency one must adhere to to get ahead. Thank you for your spark
@elizabethfilips
@elizabethfilips Жыл бұрын
Thank you Erick!
@SaneAsylum
@SaneAsylum Жыл бұрын
If only the goal of modern education was teaching children to learn rather than to be taught!
@zenboy21
@zenboy21 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for posting! I've done this for most of my life, and it's good to know I'm not alone! 😎 I usually read bits of whatever I'm in the "mood" for on a given day, and never worry about "making sure I finish this one book." Works for me!👍🏾
@on9francisyu
@on9francisyu Жыл бұрын
It is true. It is removing stigma on reading.
@ninanegedu
@ninanegedu Жыл бұрын
I completely agree with this. I used to read one book at a time formerly but would take forever to finish it and now that I shuffle between 2, 3 or 4 at a time; I find that I go through books faster than I would if I read one at a time😅
@debbieslover
@debbieslover Жыл бұрын
Incredibly insightful and useful... this approach can be expanded to chores, business... pretty much every aspect of life... thank you so, so much. Also, as someone who finds their mood changing throughout the day, this video is very reassuring... and this from a 57 year old London cab driver, which goes to show that we never know who or where we are going to take the next lesson in life from and that you never know who your words are going to touch, Thank you, thank you, thank you!
@plantlove2585
@plantlove2585 Жыл бұрын
I feel like a lot of your videos encourage ppl to find what feels right and good to them from moment to moment and allow themselves to go for it. That's such a good support to find a recoonnection to ourselves, which often is overwritten by rules we have learned while growing up and now sometimes have a really hard time finding back to what we truly want, enjoy or to follow our gut instincts. So thank you for making this choice more obvious, easier to choose and available through your videos.
@waykeeperfarmandnerdery
@waykeeperfarmandnerdery Жыл бұрын
Yes I love this too! ❤
@coldfeet2553
@coldfeet2553 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, thank you!! I have been reading multiple books (physical and/or audiobooks) for years and this works for me but this is the first time I’ve heard someone talk about it. It’s not for everyone but above all we must enjoy the experience. New to your channel. Looking forward to watching more of your videos 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽
@ALifeofLearning
@ALifeofLearning Жыл бұрын
Reading multiple books at once SAVED my reading habit. I will never go back to being a mono-reader. Thanks for sharing your perspective on this and doing the research into why this works 🥰🥰
@folksurvival
@folksurvival Жыл бұрын
Less is more.
@boo_
@boo_ Жыл бұрын
@@folksurvival Sometimes. But usually less is just less.
@hewasfuzzywuzzy3583
@hewasfuzzywuzzy3583 6 ай бұрын
Finding so many people with videos talking about this really helps me to feel better about reading multiple books at a time. And yes, I do, I really do finish everyone of the many books I am currently reading at that time. Four to five books, sometimes up to eight at a time within a few days for a few weeks or months. And then I move onto the next various books I want or must read. Thank you for helping those of us that do this to not feel as weird I guess. LOL ❤
@j3ffn4v4rr0
@j3ffn4v4rr0 Жыл бұрын
Really great tips and advice in this video!! I'm always reading several books at once, and there are a couple things I want to add, about the synergy of "polyamorous" reading... Thing 1: I want to stress the point about how ideas from different fields can "cross-breed" in your mind when you read multiple books...I truly believe this way of interlinking concepts can, through synergy, literally boost your intelligence, not just your knowledge. The reason is, there are patterns of how the world works and when you start seeing these patterns replicated across seemingly unrelated fields, mental models will be formed in your brain that later on can allow you to immediately grasp brand new ideas, to which you've never been exposed. I believe this ought to be a goal more often for people, but it doesn't need to be super intentional...the way Elizabeth does, randomly mixing books (instead of carefully curating your reading list) is fine, and maybe even better, since the synergy of linking interrelated ideas happens almost automatically as long as you're tuned to it...plus, it's always tough to predict, and a really wonderful light-bulb surprise when it clicks in your mind. Thing 2: You might think, by reading a single book by an expert on a topic, you'll learn all you need to know about that subject. Maybe...But it can also land you in a Dunning-Kruger echo box...here's the reason. Most times, the basic knowledge in any field is pretty well established...so, at the introductory level there's plenty of agreement and a lot of what you read will be the same. But, at the expert level, there can be lots of disagreement because that's where the boundaries of the field are being pushed forward. So...for a topic I'm really interested in (two prime examples are economics and quantum physics) I always try to read several books by various authors (not necessarily concurrently). You'll start to see the various ways they disagree, or even simply how they approach the subject from different angles...and doing this creates a synergy that gives you an exponentially broader grasp of the subject, and even allow you to "triangulate" your own highly informed opinions about complex subjects that people often spend years studying.
@avilonwalston4930
@avilonwalston4930 Жыл бұрын
I’m a crafter and this works with art as well. I have multiple projects going at once. I do them as I’m in the mood for them. If I try and force myself finish one before I start another I just lose interest altogether but if I have many going in tandem then I am always doing something and enjoying my art even if I never finish anything. The irony is though, I usually do finish them more readily if I use this method.
@yobabybubba
@yobabybubba Жыл бұрын
Thank you , your comment is very helpful. As a wood carver many times I choose not to start a new project until I finish the one im working on and I end up not carving for months.
@nuvoclassic
@nuvoclassic Жыл бұрын
Same here - tfs!
@yobabybubba
@yobabybubba Жыл бұрын
@@nuvoclassic tfs?
@runawayirishgirl
@runawayirishgirl Жыл бұрын
I generally do this a lot. I used to have an ebook, a physical book and an audio book going at the same time. Now I work a lot more so I am trying to get back into my reading again. Definitely in a huge mood for non fiction in this season of my life
@LinkEX
@LinkEX Жыл бұрын
I don't restrict myself to one book per medium, but I do switch up the media as well (audio, ebook, physical book). Aside from the content, the form of the medium also helps I'd argue. And keeping track of what you've started also gets easier. As for audio, I also deliberately switch between podcast episodes, nonfiction audiobook and fiction.
@Divinitykim
@Divinitykim Жыл бұрын
I love that you constantly challenge the current paradigms , with other optimal ways of living life that help so many who have been stuck previously. Kudos!! 🎉
@tonidebcn
@tonidebcn Жыл бұрын
Your content is always very interesting and it is clear that it is not a copy of the content of others. I love that you reflect on these very philosophical and practical issues at the same time. I just want to thank you and encourage you to keep doing it ❤
@TheArtofKAS
@TheArtofKAS Жыл бұрын
Getting in or out of the mood for reading is the same as drawing and writing for myself. The art of switching has helped me get out a lot of ruts over the past year. Now, I'm able to switch when I feel I've done enough in one avenue and I can move to another. Thank you, Elizabeth!
@Bopsterjazz
@Bopsterjazz Жыл бұрын
I have always read like this and my mom and friends have always been like, “How can you keep the stories straight?” And I’ve never understood that comment because the voice is always so different. This also keeps me out of reading slumps because I’m always finishing things. If I don’t like a book I can just move to another without much trouble. It’s so nice! I’m glad I’m not alone in reading so many things at once. I used to think it was a problem, but ultimately, I think it’s a better way to read!
@JackHaveman52
@JackHaveman52 Жыл бұрын
People have asked me that, too. I always say that we were expected to study different things in school. Reading Shakespeare in English, 3/4 of an hour reading about the French Revolution in History and then an hour later, you're into how light refracts in science class. I've never mixed things up and they all agree that they never did, either. As long as you're not reading multiple books that are all the same genre.....like reading 3 "Hardy Boy" books at the same time. LOL.
@StanScott
@StanScott Жыл бұрын
I'm grateful someone can take an emotional inventory , identify each one and how to apply it to you benefit you best.
@giialiinh
@giialiinh Жыл бұрын
I really love your editing style. Is there any chance that you will make a video about how you edit yours 😊❤
@MasuseDeMojo
@MasuseDeMojo Жыл бұрын
I used to always read 4 to 5 books at the same time. I have read some books over a 3 to 5-year period. What bewildered most was my ability to pick up where I left off, finish the book, then describe the book in detail, as if I had read it all at once. I developed a way to compartmentalize each book, and not forget the story line. I really did enjoy this! Thank You!!
@JimFinley11
@JimFinley11 Жыл бұрын
Hear, hear! Thank you. As a habitual reader of half a dozen or more books at a time in as many genres, I couldn't agree more. Long ago I'd somehow or other formed the belief that if I started a book, it was wrong or shallow not to finish it. Then one day I had an epiphany. On my lunch break I'd gone to a small local library near where I worked. I was sitting in the main room with a book I'd lost interest in, trying vainly to regain it. I wanted to just abandon that book but felt guilty at the idea. Then I looked around and asked myself how many books there were in that small local library. I asked myself how many books I could read if I could somehow spend the rest of my life in that library reading, for twelve hours a day, seven days a week, with someone bringing me my meals and a bedroom in the building. I was in my mid-twenties, and I figured that might give me sixty years or so. I am a fast reader, and reading at that rate I'd probably average at least a book a day. I scribbled out the math and figured that would let me take in a bit short of twenty-two thousand books. Then I counted the lines of bookcases in that room, then the books on one shelf of one of those bookcases, and looked at the other two rooms in the building with smaller but still estimable numbers of bookcases. I realized that in that thought experiment, I'd never live long enough to read all the books just in the room where I sat. In fact, even if only a tenth of the books I started were interesting enough to finish, that library held more than a lifetime's worth. That was without the dozens of new books published every month. At first the idea was depressing, contemplating how much I would miss out on. That quickly gave way to contentment, though, at the realization that I could set any book down at any point with a clear conscience, because the supply of good books is effectively infinite. So at the moment I'm in the middle of one book of silly humor, one on political psychology, one on the social history of the 1960s and '70s, one on music theory, one on the language and psychology of cults, and one on insurgency warfare. I finished a biography a couple of hours ago and am starting a new autobiography. A bonus is that it's easier to spot connections among, for example, the one on political psychology, the one on the societal turmoil of the '60s and '70s, and the one on cult psychology. Last week I heard in a news story that a celebrity I am not naming had been asked in an interview about the last book he'd read, and had replied that books didn't interest him and he'd never read one. Surreal. I can't imagine what that would be like.
@foreign_agent
@foreign_agent Жыл бұрын
Such a calm, balanced, measured delivery.....................................
@mettlerr
@mettlerr Жыл бұрын
This is really helpful, I’m going to try this immediately. I always felt “guilty” about reading more than one book at the same time before. Also, this must be the first time I am actually interested in the sponsor of a KZbin video.
@elizabethfilips
@elizabethfilips Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the superlike Roland!
@walterrising4276
@walterrising4276 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a spectrum issue
@JenPop
@JenPop 10 ай бұрын
wow! I have always felt a mental block / moral dilemma around needing to finish the book I'm reading before picking up another book. I have always felt it slows me down from reading more books. I needed to hear this! Thank you!
@elenaeer729
@elenaeer729 Жыл бұрын
I don’t know if you did this intentionally because of some of the comments you’ve been getting about talking way to fast (for non-englisch speakers), but I really really appreciate that you talked a lot slower this time. It makes it so much easier to understand the amazing advice that you give, thank you
@DonnaCookAuthor
@DonnaCookAuthor Жыл бұрын
As a person with ADHD, I appreciate that she's one of the few people I don't have to speed up to stay focused on what she's saying, lol. So grateful for speed options that let me speed things up or slow them down. :-)
@shurmike
@shurmike Жыл бұрын
I could sit with this lady and listen to her and watch her for hours
@RVMTube
@RVMTube Жыл бұрын
Everyone always tells me that it is weird to be reading several books at the same time... when it feels completely normal. And it is amazing that you mentioned it, because that is how I "discovered" this "thing"... by reading a fiction book, a non fiction book, the Quran and tafsirs and The Holy Bible... all at the same time. My reason being, it is going to take for ever to get through this, so have a taste of all.
@yousefpasha
@yousefpasha Жыл бұрын
I have been reading more than one book in at a time -sometimes 5 books-, not because I had a smart idea or, anything; I just would get bored after 2, maybe 3 chapters, so I'd put it down, and go to the other, and so on. But now, after listening to you describing your experience, and following your advice, I can do that "Scientifically", knowing exactly what I'm doing. I, also, went and subscribed to 80,000hours' newsletter, I think I will benefit a great deal from their site; thanks a bunch, to you! Thank for your insight, time and for sharing your experience and the link. _Cheers_
@GiovanMedrano
@GiovanMedrano Жыл бұрын
This is fascinating. Watching this video reminded me of when I was a teenager learning how to play the guitar. My friends were wondering how I got good so quickly. I didn't realize it then but I was also learning multiple songs simultaneously instead of just trying to finish one song at a time. I would stop and pick up another song instead of getting frustrated with one. It kept me interested and excited instead of burning out.
@ib1ray
@ib1ray Жыл бұрын
This is VERY helpful. I've responded my self to learn how to play guitar in the coming year and i have Rocksmith for the computer. I'm going to do this and try out multiple songs at the same time! Thank you for your comment!
@harryvangrieken5715
@harryvangrieken5715 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree. I have 6 books on the go right now. Reading should be enjoyable. I jump from one to the other depending on what inspires me and if a book does not resonate I do not waste any more time on it. There are so many worlds to explore and enjoy! Happy reading!
@Abdullah-zl9ub
@Abdullah-zl9ub Жыл бұрын
Love your videos always especially when it’s on reading or productivity guidance. Love how you used Quran as an example here. I do read 2 or 3 books at a time fiction and non fiction so I want be feeling I’m wasting time only but to benefit. However finishing the books takes more time so the goal is longer to be reached. Plus sometimes I feel bored of having same topics for so months. Now I’m trying a book at a time to explore how it goes as well.
@allwheeldrive
@allwheeldrive Жыл бұрын
:). I learned this when I was at U Michigan during my undergrad in English Language and Lit (a few decades ago). We were ALL forced to read multiple books at one time EVERY semester. Do or die! What was very clear was that it was a great benefit to the overall critical thinking process, and gave plenty of opportunities to unavoidably compare the relative importance of subjects, thoughts, and approaches. Trust, your brain will thank you for it!
@m444ss
@m444ss Жыл бұрын
I started this years ago when I was reading a fiction book for relaxation/fun and had to read a non-fiction book for work. People seemed very surprised that I could read two books at the same time, but I said it seemed analogous to following two tv shows. From that I realized I could read numerous books at the same time, just as one watch multiple shows and movies over the week, and week after week, and be able to follow them all - characters, plots, etc.
@patriotpearl264
@patriotpearl264 Жыл бұрын
I love to read and watched this because I hear people say they hate to read and I wondered why. This makes sense from an emotional reading standpoint. I had no idea there was some unwritten rule about only reading one book at a time. I generally have two or three going... That's enough for me, but absolutely, read more than one, explore the world of the written word and if you don't love a book, you don't have to go back to it... Read what you love and you will love to read.
@MeryKeit
@MeryKeit Жыл бұрын
I’ve already heard about this idea from another creator and tbh got into it myself even before that, but it was an absolute game changer for me. As a recovering perfectionist I used to have this toxic idea that I have to finish a book if a started it (and especially bought it with my money) and I can’t start reading anything else before I finish it. Horrible mindset and so glad I moved past that. I also found out that the most comfortable amount of books for me to read at the same time is 3: one fiction, one non-fiction and one “self-help” (hate this word lol) or something similar to it.
@kerlygerl
@kerlygerl Жыл бұрын
Maybe “personal development” is better than “self help?”
@joshbutler2563
@joshbutler2563 Жыл бұрын
So, I just started watching your content. Idk if you've mentioned it another video or not, but you are 100% high-functioning adhd. I know, because I'm the same way. I'd often have 7 books or more going at the same time, and when everyone else thought it was weird, I guess I just saw it as my favorite way of reading. Keeping things interesting and fun, they gave me somewhere to jump to when I started getting a little bored or glazed over. I didn't realize until later than a lot of my behaviors were actually unconscious compensatory modifications that helped me function in a world unfriendly to people with atypical neurology. Very cool content. Whether you are officially atypical or not, I'm happy to see you're finding ways to get work done and enjoyment out of your life!
@stacykhernandez
@stacykhernandez Жыл бұрын
I love doing this! However inconveniently one time ( on accident ) I read 3 books with the main characters name Rhys 😅 I got lost a couple times but it ended up ending up well.
@CuriousCattery
@CuriousCattery 9 ай бұрын
Must've been so many plot twists 😂
@Hazard33
@Hazard33 Жыл бұрын
I love how you introduced the sponsor at the end instead of the beginning.
@sansumida
@sansumida Жыл бұрын
Keep it simple, I read 20 pages a day, then a 400 page book is done in a month! Easy and it works, don't skip or mix it up
@chilliram
@chilliram Жыл бұрын
You are such an impressive communicator. Your content is fantastic, more so is the way you present with such fantastic body language. Glad I found your channel.
@RichardCerny
@RichardCerny Жыл бұрын
Elizabeth, I like the way you address this subject. However, I have a difficult time listening to you since your voice does not project, but sounds more like a growl to me. May I suggest you focus on breathing to avoid the guttural sounds to make it easier for older folks like myself to understand your enunciation? Thank you.
@kakashiwithoutmask
@kakashiwithoutmask Жыл бұрын
I do this on a smaller scale! I usually have 1) Book club book (usually older fiction) 2) Random new comfort fiction I want to read 3) A nonfiction book on a subject I want to learn more about 4) A book I am actively studying, like a chess book
@thepangwin902
@thepangwin902 Жыл бұрын
This is how I play video games. I have different games depending on what I am in the mood for. And usually in a few minutes I get used to the different controls. Books I just consume constantly. All subjects, and some fiction. Seems I get through about 50 a year anyway I do it. I usually have one to read till I find something I really want to read now and then when I finish that one real quick I can fall back on the other book till another one comes up that I must read so I don't have any gaps between reading. And no pressure to find my next most favorite book. Thank you, I hadn't really put much thought to this before but now I see that I do the same thing you are teaching now.
@lilarose9348
@lilarose9348 Жыл бұрын
This is a very smart method. My 12 year old doesn’t enjoy reading. Giving her 2 or 3 options instead of having her pick one to start and finish at a time. Thanks you❤
@iurieguzun1014
@iurieguzun1014 Жыл бұрын
Hello Elizabeth, I found your video by accident on KZbin. But, I must say that I admire your passion for reading. You gave me some good advice about reading. I always thought that if I am currently reading a book then I must finish it first before I will start another one. So,, thank you very much.
@steveb4400
@steveb4400 Жыл бұрын
I always thought reading one book at a time was just what you were supposed to do. Thanks for posting. This is something I will try.
@rudinightwood437
@rudinightwood437 Жыл бұрын
I never realized how much depth there is to reading until I saw this video. I wouldn’t consider myself a reader, but this is definitely helpful :)
@khushbakht6630
@khushbakht6630 Жыл бұрын
Listening to you talk is like reading a classic in winters, with coffee.
@shaiannemiles
@shaiannemiles Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! I have never looked at reading multiple books like this. I read the Quran daily, and then another book which is usually self development but I’ve never looked at this as 2 books, I feel like I can never read more than one book for luxury. This has changed my whole perception on reading multiple books. I have one book I purchased and I have just been staring at it wanting to start it, and guess what? I am now starting it haha! THANK YOU ELIZABETH 😁🎉❤
@elneneray6679
@elneneray6679 Жыл бұрын
I was thinking that, and now I'll start to use this tip. Thanks
@_missmarissa_
@_missmarissa_ Жыл бұрын
i have always done this subconsciously you put it into words really well! (also i love your hair color it’s so so pretty)
@striveprosper295
@striveprosper295 Жыл бұрын
First of all 😍😍😍! On another note, I recently started reading more than one book at once and it great. I'm reading three at the same time and it works. Especially since I have such wide range of interests.
@CJ-xg6ii
@CJ-xg6ii Жыл бұрын
Never thought about it that way, but I agree. It makes sense because I always learn and remember better when I can make cross-connections.👍🏾
@RichardCInman
@RichardCInman Жыл бұрын
Elizabeth, Every one of your videos is exactly what I need to hear. I am a new huge fan. I struggle to read and get everything done I need to get done and I find your videos meet my need exactly.
@youpamp
@youpamp Жыл бұрын
WHAT!? Why have I never heard this!? I definitely have this tendency but have fought it! So, SUPERB! Thank you!
@lousiakisini6574
@lousiakisini6574 Жыл бұрын
Fabulous on the combination idea. I stumbled upon this after buying so many books and leaving them in the queue. Thank you for confirming such a good idea.
@audiophileman7047
@audiophileman7047 Жыл бұрын
It's good to see that somebody is reading. It seems like so many people don't read anymore.
@robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939
@robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939 Жыл бұрын
You’re BEAUTIFUL, intelligent, passionate and I simply LOVE your EPIC hand gestures! Stay blessed...
@ArborProTriCities
@ArborProTriCities Жыл бұрын
Every once in a while a new idea breaks on my mind like a sunrise on a new paradigm. Is this concept so suit
@andrewbiggins9404
@andrewbiggins9404 Жыл бұрын
This is me. I beat myself up about it but, hearing you talk about it, maybe I should embrace it.
@jarichards99utube
@jarichards99utube Жыл бұрын
Hey Elizabeth, Great Video & Great Advice.. Thank You. For me, I discovered this principle because I read mostly NON-Fiction books. These books often tend to be Information DENSE. Since I am READING TO LEARN it can start feeling like TOO Much NEW info to absorb at one time which feels draining. But - If I take a break and switch to a book about a Completely DIFFERENT Subject - I can often happily continue reading for a considerable amount of time... : ) Thanks Again...
@zurilyons457
@zurilyons457 Жыл бұрын
Yessssss I love The Untethered Soul and read it repeatedly! Thank you again for another amazing video.
@victorlewis3251
@victorlewis3251 Жыл бұрын
When I was in high school, I'd have at least 3 books going at once. Over the years, I slowly got out of the habit of reading. I don't know why exactly because a good book is a perfect friend: it makes no demands, but at the same time provides the opportunity to become a better person via emotional/intellectual/spiritual growth. I'm 70 now, live alone and spend my time on KZbin. More than likely I switched genres because I'm lonely for the "air-voice" of videos rather than the "mind-voice" of books. P.S. Elizabeth, I can't decide whether your manic hand gesturing is charming or disturbing so I concentrate on your gorgeous hair and soothing voice.
@dasiellopez8838
@dasiellopez8838 Жыл бұрын
I just found your channel on KZbin. And I am so impressed by your intelligence and personality. I am pretty sure this channel is going to be one of my favorite ones.
@tiniciayoung
@tiniciayoung Жыл бұрын
Thank you for creating this KZbin channel. I find your perspective in your videos very unique and genius. I'm grateful that you are sharing your techniques because they are very very interesting and very effective.❤
@naomibee8881
@naomibee8881 Жыл бұрын
This is EXACTLY what I have always done! How cool to see a vid on it.
@khailuong684
@khailuong684 Жыл бұрын
Thank you , I hear this at the first time, but I believe you because you have a very good example, when we go to school we have difference subjects, our brain works very good at every lessons.
@Browny84
@Browny84 Жыл бұрын
Here I was thinking I just had a minute attention span. I’m glad I’m not alone. I always rationalised it to others like, “how many TV series’s are you watching concurrently?” It might be different these days with streaming and the ability to binge watch, but back when I used to watch TV you only had the choice of what the TV stations wanted to play at the time they wanted to play it. So you’d end up having six or eight shows you watched each week and we never had any problem keeping up. I read books in a similar fashion. It has to be a magnificent book to hold my attention from start to finish these days.
@stephaniewilson6031
@stephaniewilson6031 Жыл бұрын
Wow, I am so glad you brought up this topic. As a teenager I would read multiple books at a time. Now, I know it was a good thing.🤗
@linhengli1790
@linhengli1790 Жыл бұрын
Lol, you really make me confident about my English, I can understand you, love to hear your voice
@Bugsy-gc6ii
@Bugsy-gc6ii Жыл бұрын
Isn’t it just wonderful to have an Angel talking to us about such a down to earth subject ! Ah well.
@caplondon
@caplondon Жыл бұрын
Agree. Reading multiple books keeps your interest active and wanting to learn more. Just found your channel. Black is a good look for you.
@robertcarleo6846
@robertcarleo6846 Жыл бұрын
With kindle I now read multiple books at a time too. I like history, philosophy, science and now also fiction. I usually read in the evening. I find I always have a desire for one of the books, so I read every evening with more interest. Our feelings and needs change from day to day. After a break I find I come back to the neglected books with greater interest. This increased the time I read and I have been finishing more books.
@leonardgibney2997
@leonardgibney2997 Жыл бұрын
What a smart girl. Now l know how to get those difficult books read I've been avoiding.
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