Why Silence Makes Your Ex Come Back

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In today's video, you'll learn why silence makes your ex return to you after a breakup.
After our breakup, we all want to talk to our ex and make sure we can communicate together. But when you do that, you're showing your ex that you are becoming needy. Silence is so powerful, because you can ignore your ex, and this is what human beings hate the most.
We don't like to be ignored - even negative attention is better than no attention. Showing silence is what turns the tables around on your ex. Watch this video to learn more reasons why silence actually makes your ex come back!
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[@julieanncorral2180]

No contact can give me work on myself in my own way.. Not expecting them to reach out.

[@MISS_SHERRY]

Silence is gold

[@hushpuppies872]

I want to just go away on my own and start a new life. Not because I am expecting anything to change but just for me to heal. I wish I could do that.

[@jacquelinedeku6058]

Silence is a very powerful tool

[@dedelove2812]

That doesn't work on guys that sleep around. All guys don't want commitment. They want lot of bed warmers.

[@xx-rc1ni]

The silence is deafening but it is also speaking volumes.... I'm done. It's me time. Happy .However he is, is not my affair 👍

[@annaschadewald1576]

It's been 2 months he came back were talking again we both apologized

[@soonermodels1173]

None of these videos comply with my ex...aint no way her hard headed ass will come back

[@dark_paradise27]

Maybe ex will come back maybe not but one is sure they will respect you as person as someone strong who is not depend on anyones attention.

[@zerihunchekol3860]

The first thing you should be silent after breakup is to help you move on.

[@madhumitaverma3712]

💯💯

[@shirozie]

What if he is seeing someone, after 4 1/2 years he walked out.. my silence has worked to some extent cos now he does not know anything going on in my life. I miss him dearly and pray for a miracle

[@amyroseabdul9059]

Hahaha, i did this almost 1 week and he start to calling me and texting me with lots of love🤣😍 Now he is mine💪🏻👌🏻🤣

[@sweetangel4761]

Both sides as a human will choose silence, then what????? Who is going to beg?

[@andreannlamco2975]

Hi my name is andreann please advice me whag to do if my ex wont contact me anymore.. I admit that i did something to her..i talk to her badly and doubting that she have another girlfriend.. She verh mad at me in the situation i give to her.. We dont have any problem to our relationship..the problem is me because i always jealous and doubt her every single time..i always look at my phone if she message or not or call me.. But shes online only.. But never message me.. I know i hurt her so mucn.. What will i do sir? Im very paranoid now because i dont know where she is..

[@kyomugishaphionah2149]

But no contact it's hard because I HV tried it, but I get attempted to text him. However sometimes I Text him and he ignores me. But currently I admitted to give up on him. though every day he is always on my mind. But I will be fine

[@akinyimauryn]

I left him.....I don't regret it and I don't want him Back. I had Enough.

[@rhondaknight2077]

This man stopped sex said he does not want to be with anyone.this as been going on 5 years he is a cheater a liar andcurel with his words. L need to walk away and not let him come back. Help

[@pudgie011]

Silence is good but if he came back would not take him back because if he loved you he wouldn't of left in the first place! Single now and maybe one day a real man will love me!

[@pearlratchford7835]

He Ghosted me went back to his ex had a baby what I'm I suppose to do with that ?? Ghost him back and focus on myself Love myself I come first I've learned a valuable Lesson. SELF LOVE is the best Love 😊

[@esthermunkondya1251]

This is very true I was quiet on my ex for months and suddenly he called

[@OscarMartinez-lo9ec]

I wonder if they come back if you messed up alot i messed up lots of times but i was always there for her and the the minute i losts her i was dying chasing her begging but i wonder i always wonder if she will ever come back i blocked her # because i am honestly tired of hurting myself but either way i wish her the best with whom ever she may be with now .

[@ginamendez6995]

It’s so true go no contact it’s been a month I’m not calling or texting being silent with him

[@Queeness1993]

Me too.

[@rhylievelarde2720]

Me and my husband (not yet annulled) broke up last feb 2019, i been no contact with him. Were in a long distance relationship. We talk, he said that he move on and his not mad at me anymore and ask me that he hope that i find someone else, but he refused to see me to talk and told his friends to stop pushing him to see me because he is still mad at me. I dont know what to do anymore. 😭 Help. If he move on like he said why he can't see me to talk? 😭 Is there any chance at all? He still mad at me.

[@monicavalencia9425]

What if he is confused and a coward? Will no contact still work? Will he still come back to me?

[@whiteswan8841]

My husband and i married but we are in a long distances relationship.coz im here in Europe and his in US and now he have new lady.he dont call and chat me😭😭😭😭😭please help me🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@nciknght87849]

Me& My Ex Haven’t Spoken Since He Ghosted Me 12 Years Ago. For A Third Party🤦🏿‍♀️He Requested Me On Instagram & He Still Hasn’t Said Anything.That Was Dec 2017. I’ve Recently Deleted My Insta Account As His Posts Were Triggering Me.& The Fake Accounts Got Too Much..We’ve Got Unfinished Business But He’s Too Scared To Say Anything.

[@meghanmcdonnell196]

My ex fiancé and I are on month 3 of being broken up. I made so many mistakes of begging and telling him I love him and crying to him that I can’t move on. Is it possible to go into no contact after all of that and for him to ever reach out? We last spoke the other day oh good terms catching up about life but I feel as I need to let him come to me. He’s told me within this break up that he will always love me and have a place in his heart for me and that if it’s meant to be it will be. “We don’t know the future”. He continuously says he wants to be friends so I’m just confused and think we need space.

[@Kennyfriendsworld]

My soon to be ex wife separated she gone cheatrd with a low life. We have kids together i dont bother her for shit i text her regarding my kids .but shr ignored me and dont reply. I stop texting doing the silence treatment. Am moving on.

[@vaishalivishwakarma5946]

Hii sir .. I really need your help please help me ... I had one 2 month's relationship ...between that relationship I was talking to one of my friend like a girlfriend ...but that friend was not my boyfriend or crush ...I love my boyfriend alot ...but he saw that chat and he don't trust me anymore and he was thinking I was cheating ...so he stopped loving me ...I want him back in my life what should I do ...what things or techniques I should follow please help me out

[@zlr7338]

She knows that I love her so much...but she left me for someone new.. she fall for the beauty... So I am worried will it work on me... please reply me😔

[@kimberlyfortich6693]

Hello . Help me 😭😭I'm doing good in no contact rules but still it didn't work. We've been together for 3 years . I did the no contact but still it didn't work . He talked to my mom that he is in so much pain ang he won't comeback and ruin my life (does he mean it?),😭😭1 month since our break up . Can I still start the radio silent? 😭😭😭Pls help

[@chidimma_Amanda]

I and my ex have not been talking since weeks now but yesterday was his birthday and I sent him birthday wishes, I'm thinking I'm wrong by texting him. Am I wrong by wishing him happy birthday? Please reply, how do I make him come back or miss me?

[@midnightcrave4169]

I have given the silent treatment for 10 months.. It's a little harder to have zero communication because we have children together, so... I don't know what else to do... He knows I look after myself... I've gone on holiday and posted and everything else...

[@thestars2460]

What if iam who block him?? , this consider as no contact too

[@cassandramanye7373]

My boyfriend broke up with me over the weekend,He didn’t tell me why but he just came to say it will be for the best.Just yesterday,I missed one call from him but he hasn’t called again and I haven’t called back either. I want him back but I don’t know what to do

[@sandhyap.shrestha4331]

After breakup he said not to do call msg or contact to him I plead him I begged him but he wants to leave and forgets me without any reason He doesn't want to be with me I don't know why and he unfriend Me on facebook I got blocked on instagram What should I do? Does no contact will make come him back?

[@kianar1320]

I told him that I will never take him back so I doubt he will try to again in the future

[@nailpolishinhale]

I told this numerous times to my ex he still tries!! For years now. But I don't love him anymore because he cheated on me at the beginning. If they really want you nothing you say will stop them

[@rahmaperis6336]

4 years I have been silent on my ex husband and just the other day I called to check him coz of Corona shit,his voice was shaking babe come home please &am well.😊

[@hamzadawal2979]

So my Ex broke off couple of weeks back but still said that she has feelings for me and misses me but suddenly she said she wants to live for her own and wants to figure out her life. So I started the No contact as she had started to ignore me and wasn’t saying truth. It’s been a week since I started the no contact she texts me on Snapchat everyday about me ignoring her or to say sorry and she made the decision of leaving social media as she is loosing people close to her Would it be correct if I approach her and just ask her about what is she sorry for ?

[@amsarahadil6864]

I dont think so, cuz shes talking to someone now 😔

[@tercsi1]

Doesn't it depend on the reason for the breakup?

[@emilycos3690]

So true Silence good ideas.

[@candysantos8908]

My ex does not comebk during my total silence.. He got new after .. Though he said always he was broken hearted due to me.. He found someone new after few months.

[@LailyMMarak]

My ex lied me he called me at morning and said he will come to meet me at evening but he didn't come and he didn't contact.

[@jenjen06fernandez47]

We broke with me last 2months and i did no contact..with him..and sadly till now he never contact amd back to me.what should you advice to me to do

[@alexandrabyrne5607]

No contact with my ex for 6 months.. no text no communication.. still have strong feelings cant move on.. why??.. what now?

[@grecyserenawilliamz1705]

Advice me. Ma gai blocked me on WhatsApp after me finding out that he has same one besides me. He even didnt apologise to me but he went ahead and blocked me everywhere for him he thinks that l don't know. Please advice me.

[@dulcedeleche7134]

Hey what Should i do i did the no contact rule on my ex in 10 Month know he started to contact me we even hang out ones we went out eating we kissed and know his distans after our meeting im going crazy i cant stop thinking about him i would love to meet him again!

[@kaylingomis8013]

My ex and I have broken up for more than a year now he still follows me on Facebook and he still has me on WhatsApp he doesn't communicate at all and I'm also doing the same when he sees me he pretends to not know me and avoids eye contact but then stares at me from a distance

[@aqilahluvtvxq]

My ex asked me for a break up. We have been 5 years together. I suspect that he is seeing this girl. What should i do? Is the relationship over? Does the 5 years of being together meant nothing to him. Do I have no chance at all, does this mean he moved on alrdy? Currently in the progress of the no contact rule.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

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[@audwingreene5003]

what happen s if wife is dating while in speration but she wont give u divorce also getting gifts from the person and tell u no matter she loves y u want her back

[@jaypool5609]

what about when theres a baby involved and need communication

[@richardlockett3514]

Hi, I broke up with my partner recently we have only communicated via email because he wanted some things back. I know he needs space. He has blocked me on whatsapp but I am not sure whether I am blocked to phone him. Shall I try to call him just incase he has not blocked me? If he doesn't pick up I suppose I should leave it but will it cause more damage?

[@Vonfrm4200]

I trust you cuz the accent 😂🥺🙏🏽

[@fredabryant7940]

💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀😭😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tig-qo6ky]

Why do you want your ex, back in your life.their out of your life for you to move forward.,"word of wisdom ".

[@austinkozel2932]

And if they are already talking to someone else?

[@oceanepereiraleclerc3620]

Hi, help... should i wish happy birthday to my ex who broke up with me 20 days before his bd and 11 days after he left me on read and since then i am trying the no contact rule. Thank you

[@mindymoresrosero]

No, don’t please. Ignore him. No contact rule all the way.

[@gwenmanila187]

Awww my × got married nah😊 but i already move on.

[@mayamaya331]

so even if calling me sometime should I answer or not

[@raineaugust4601]

I told my ex that i will cut all communications between us. Is it okay?

[@kittyflier8338]

Great video. I followed your advice three years ago and never had any contact with my ex ever again. Now she has a one-year-old child.😅

[@coucousalut4899]

Indortunately, you are one of the exceptions…but Life is not finished yet…

[@katemadalina]

😂

[@raniafarooq2174]

Sir i really need help i am from pakistan sir after 4 month he come back but now again all messed up i am to much in depression 😥he blocked me from every where

[@vincentt753]

Men just want to keep her from sleeping w someone else. Once u accept it's gonna happen u can let go easier .

[@henrystranger]

yooh!!cracked the code

[@madonacheong9682]

Hi,everyone im new here,but it's not the first time to hear bou't this kind of advicing and some tips of having a relationship,Honestly i was committed now a Long distance relationship,and eventually not seeing each other in real😔,but it was so sad that we are always fighting and i really dont know was the totally status of myself to his life?But i love him and i dont wanna loose him?

[@1989leaxy]

My ex came back after 9 months.. sorry but do people really think the one that got stood behind will wait for you and does not move on? It is almost delusional and I find it almost disrespectful to even think that after this much time I would get back with him

[@moeplasticos8573]

Sorry, how does silence work on a high value woman especially when they broke up with you. My gf broke up with me I do still love her, it was my fault I had bad communication and she kept saying we want different things. BUT how does this method work on high value woman?

[@yijapra]

What do I do if my ex thinks Ive been having sexo Withiidae my secretary Withiidae her sister and Withiidae 2 other girls. Its all a pack of lies but she believed them and kicked me out

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ and consider booking a 1:1 session so that we can help you on a personal level. Coach Alex

[@diamouguemoss4858]

Hello coach!! But how come she has blocked me on snap and Facebook but not whatsaap ? I don't understand and it doesn't make sense!! Almost 3 weeks now no call no text and it's a distance relationship

[@servantservantofallah1860]

Woow...I think all of this can happen when he is not in a new relationship....No .contact and silence take most of them away... The best way is to move on Which is difficult... But surely what did not kill you will surely makes you strong.......

[@berthaleonardbihondo1141]

Thought of that too...kinda no room for him to feel anything if he is in a relationship. My case for instance he broke up with me since i wasnt ready to start a family. But he broke up at the same time some few days before break up we had plans of starting a family now! So now he has another woman who he claims she is pregnant

[@psychedelicme2228]

Hi Coach,, mine is different. We've met online last year and been in a relationship for 7 months. We did things like normal couple do but in a distance. We have not met yet due to pandemic. I broke up with him 46 days ago and somehow had a NC during that time except ept 2 days ago I sent him a message wishing him well and yesterday asking him if we can talk. I want him back and wanted to continue where we left off.I don't know what to do as a dumper... Please help coach!

[@missjackie7983]

Grow a backbone and learn to love yourself more than you love being desperate and having low self-esteem. Work on yourself, improve yourself. Find some hobbies! That dude don't want you

[@lachuno1519]

I broke up with my ex but I am the one who is.hurt.I suffered depression, anxiety .He is very mad at me

[@harunahappy2651]

Y haven’t I seen this video for long. Thanks for this video that is what am actually doing now. But if I lose him a better one than him is coming.

[@Vjhandle]

I was not able to give proper time to my girlfriend as i was occupied by work.. she was so patient, used to say that “ baby i understand you, i can wait”. She gave me a hard stop all of sudden with no reason to point at that moment.. i tried contacting her and explained her but she just stopped talking to me. Absolutely she uttered no word. I gave my thoughts and stopped talking to her. Its been 2 months. What should i do now..?

[@lizstarcevic9657]

Interesting, but good god i wouldn't want an ex back, they are an ex for a reason, people are so full of ego, narcs, immature and toxic..without communication there is no relationship. Sounds all childish to me. Can trust people like that, that's not love at all. Simple.

[@lizstarcevic9657]

Cant trust*

[@devi511]

Me and my ex v re n relationship for more than 6 yrs. He got married but separated from his wife. I got married am also separated. Now I want to get committed to him. But I don't know how to tell that to him.

[@kitfeng1833]

She ditched me for an ugly tomboy, OMG, i begged i cried. I am picking up myself now. i hate myself for doing that last yr.

[@pitokawotsa6259]

Pray for me coz i need her

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

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[@fatmaathman3882]

i have a daughter with him.so how do i do the no contact.sometimes he sends message or calls saying he want to see his baby.

[@BELIEVERSSTRENGTH]

I sperated from my ex but now I want her back but now she is different towards me in speaking etc. Just yesterday I spoke to her telling her how sorry I am and I love her etc and I messaged her after that but she is different toward me. Should I back of and focus on myself now and ignore her?

[@hellenkarano8392]

I av learnt dat silence is the best medicine am suffering it now he told me he want a break up i started begging him he didn't reply de reason for breaking up wat he said is only he is tired

[@Bambino1974]

Can we apologize if we did something bad during the breakup?

[@mariezagreb7712]

Ok I am on NC rule for 5 days just I have only one question, this morning I was chatting with my friend on Twitter and I gave her number from my doctor and 30min later my ex send mi WhatsApp “what is wrong are you sick please let me know so I don’t have to worry” ok he is a doctor and I understand should I answer that I am ok or ignore message? I really don’t want him to think that I am rude or cold, because he was always always nice to me and taking care of me, we didn’t brake up in poor terms and he was very emotional and sad numerous time that he loves me, don’t you think that this will drive him away further? I don’t want him to say “ok I always have been taking care of you we had wonderful time and now you are acting like a little baby Don’t i deserve just a simple yes or no?”- and then when I will try to reach him after NC he won’t answer me...Please help me with advice what should I do.

[@Jbarhin8001]

My boyfriend just broke up with me and asked me to leave his house I’m actually moving out but what do I do next I’ve begged him several times already but he keeps telling me No What do I do please help me

[@isharasadaruwan8842]

Hi coach my gf just get upset with that she can't feel my love like before. And finally she just ask she need a break. And it's look like she wanna breakup with me. If I do no contact it is gonna help me to get back her?

[@musaibulhussain]

Plz help sir what I do

[@queenmuyu5131]

I broke up with my ex because he was ignoring me. N fr me not to call or text i blocked him and deleted his contacts

[@sadamanipoojitha6353]

Hi Alex me n my boy friend had a misunderstandings and small fights I am back of him n depressed now after 2 months he said ne need sometime and also said to wait for sometime...will he come back to me if I gave time and give me suggestions to get him back again👍😢

[@evangelinemalunes5767]

I dont know how survived now bcos my boyfriend always say me bye and he always chase me for something wrong that I'll never do😢😢😢

[@cathylayan5813]

Alex what if my ex is married

[@sorayacroton1399]

You are very good Alex. You really do know what you are talking about. Soraya x

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you, Soraya! Coach Alex

[@crissyandersson4888]

Better to move on and wait for the right man!!!

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

It's hard to move on sometimes and with the right actions it's possible to get someone you love back.

[@devi511]

My ex came back and expected physical contact but I want him to be committed to me so I didn't go ahead in that expectation. So he said if we both are away from first marriage by divorce then v can think about future like that. But right now I want him with me and tell he is there for me.

[@markygonzales4589]

What will i do if she left me with a letter that she wants some space and time for herself and then block me in all social media and phone contact. I have a heavy heart now because i did not able to release my feelings for the last time. Did not able to talk to her before she left. I have no contact anymore, im all block. Any advice?

[@daff3829]

Guys plz pray for me that me and my ex getting back together.. I still welling take the risk and I changing myself just for her..

[@mimi_curato]

I broke up my boyfriend last 3 months and I am now in no contact period and he is now in relationship, isn't possible that he forget me?

[@shivanir552]

Don't want him back, because within 2 months, he got a new girlfriend. No one can see his face and say that he was in 5 years of relationship before

[@schoolaesthetic]

Such men don't make good husbands. You dodged a bullet sister

[@Samjw90]

My ex asked me to be his girlfriend on the 28th December, dated for 4 months before he asked me, then dumped me on new years day 😂. I didn’t even know I gave him the silent treatment🤷🏻‍♀️ but I was hurt and I didn’t want to reply to his messges. Anyway cut long story short. He messaged me today 3 days after he dumped me and told me he made a mistake! Let him stew for a few hours and had a 2 hour convo on the phone and decided To gave him a second chance but we’re going back to the start clean slate and dating again and hoping he never does it again . Wish me luck 🙏 xx Ps... I love this guy and haven’t told him yet and he hasn’t used the L word with me but I think he does we’re just both not admitting it x

[@tobysmith8032]

Hi Samantha, I am very pleased for you😊 I am going through a similar situation with my ex and am hoping we can make it work this time....😎 Good luck 🤞 kind regards and best wishes, Toby xx

[@henrystranger]

mine too.hard to handle her back she sees am diffrent everytime we meet ...am in dilema

[@ishabah9042]

I love you Alex you are the best i will surely apply this from Africa....i watch most of your videos and i learned a lot❤

[@greatermpofu1448]

I learn a lot to your videos Coach Alex may God bless you

[@tamilover5048]

Hi, I like blue colour, so my ex will always wear blue colour dress, but now we break up now I am in no contact period now my ex wearing black colour dress to show his angry is it good sign. Please suggest me