11 SIGNS Your EX Has Moved On & NOT Coming Back....

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Coach Paz Goldman

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@Champman543 7 ай бұрын

Not the video that we wanted but the video that we needed..

@PazGoldmanOfficial 7 ай бұрын

Always here to give what YOU NEED 🙏🏽🤍

@andziagreen4922 7 ай бұрын

True

@nellies7767 7 ай бұрын

Definitely a hard truth. my person broke up with me bc i was asking for them to spend time with me. Im like who breaks up with someone for that. I feel like they just moved on and it was hard to just break up with me when i have not done anything wrong. so when i started a conversation that they did not like, they took the opportunity to just end it. i guess they were just waiting for that moment. Im focused on me!! I know my worth and what i bring to the table. So its their loss!! I am a total gem and deserve better. fck them!!

@andziagreen4922 7 ай бұрын

Amen🙏🍀 that's the approach I finally got after year of crying and pitying myself, f... this. He is not worth my love and attention, he feels better with toxic people. Avoidant's discard is breading pure obsession which I'm still healing. Never again. Good luck on your journey

@PazGoldmanOfficial 6 ай бұрын

I feel you my friend! Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this! Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)

@jamie-r2034 2 ай бұрын

@nellies7767 im a dude and went through the same thing. I wasn't needy or anything but liked to spend the evenings with the one i loved. Looking back now, im pretty sure she had avoidant personality. It wasn't your fault! You deserve someone who will treat you amazing. I told my girl she was beautiful everyday, cooked for her, and even made her coffee before i left for work. I did this for 12 years. She broke up with me on a Monday morning as soon as I got to work by a text message. Crazy

@moomanchu608 5 ай бұрын

The “indifference” hit hard because that’s how it became

@MagickYoga 4 ай бұрын

I spent the first 2 months talking to coaches before I got a Psychologist. It took 2 different coaches to point out I was in a verbally and emotionally abusive relationship and cheated on/monkey branched in the end mixed with posting it 2 days after we split. I never seen the verbally, emotionally abusive behavior because it slowly happened mixed with her manipulation and gaslighting. The trauma from that is different than heartbreak and getting over someone. Abuse will always be identified with that person from then on and carries its own separate weight of memories from the trauma. I hope people realize or seek a psychologist to see if they were verbally and or emotionally abused and not confuse that with not getting over them as it has a big effect of a lot of thoughts and memories that could be mistaken as not getting over them or wanting them back.

@ritapeters1330 4 ай бұрын

And now? . Did you heal?

@brandonrobertkersjes 2 ай бұрын

I was emotionally abused too. Her parents did it to her, and she did it to me…It hurts so bad, because the breakup makes no sense and it was way more cruel than it needed to be.

@virtuoussoulhealer3644 2 ай бұрын

This was good

@asdfxcvbn746 7 ай бұрын

3 years & she hasn't reached out. thats the only sign i need.

@kh123 7 ай бұрын

How many months?

@kh123 7 ай бұрын

How many months no contact?

@asdfxcvbn746 7 ай бұрын

@@kh123 3 x 12 months = 36 months = 3 years... its probably closer to 4 years, but I lost count.

@iamjason1279 7 ай бұрын

How long were you together?

@andziagreen4922 7 ай бұрын

It's nearly 2 years and he didn't reach out

@rel0302 24 күн бұрын

Strange. My ex never contacted me, but he contacted my family and friends. He went out of his way to drive to my local bar (30 minutes from his house) for a beer, rumor is he got engaged to someone 8 months after our 2 year relationship ended, he didnt return my things nor ask for his. He never set clear boundaries, talked avout getting a dog together 2 weeks before our breakup, when we did see each other post breakup (at the gym i introduced him to) he went out of his way to talk to me with a smile, absolutely no closure or final talk, he blocked and unblocked me he next day on social media, spoke to mutual friends but never about me. From my experience and what I've gathered from this video, my ex had his chance and when he comes back, that chance will have blown with the wind up into the atmosphere out of sight.

@brandonrobertkersjes 2 ай бұрын

Relationships are dead these days.

@sallyannbest3728 7 ай бұрын

I blocked my ex because I really didn't want to see him on his rebound journey of Psychological Displacement as he super imposed our relationship on his new one.

@PazGoldmanOfficial 6 ай бұрын

@fuzzypanda1684 3 ай бұрын

Wait, he got into a rebound relationship? How?? Most guys struggle to get any interest from girls period, let alone so soon after a breakup. (I'm hurting and lashing out, please don't take my comment seriously).

@NeveN-XI 5 ай бұрын

After a few months of NC, it's over and out, finished.

@fuzzypanda1684 3 ай бұрын

You don't need signs, you can FEEL when it's over. Listen to that feeling, it's always accurate. But in my experience, once a girl leaves you, she's gone. It doesn't matter how long you were together, how strong your connection was, if she tells you she needs time to figure things out and actually seems to mean it etc. The moment she leaves you, that's it, walk away. All sticking around will do is give you false hope that you'll be able to fix things.

@cf6096 7 ай бұрын

She has been “returning my stuff” for 4 months. Still has all of my stuff

@PazGoldmanOfficial 7 ай бұрын

Sounds like It’s time to move in my friend… In the meantime educate yourself and do the work to heal! Feel free to check out my course “The Rise Of The Phoenix” this is a online healing coaching program that will guide through this challenging times my friend, in any case know that I’m here for you if you ever want to talk or simply as me a quick and where you story, much love and healing 🙏🏽🤍 pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix

@firstlastname84 6 ай бұрын

I just had that happen to me today. He has 2 bikes of mine and dropped off 1. I asked about the other and he responded that it's in his garage. No clue when he plans to give it back.

@NotJoeBiden_LGBFJB 5 ай бұрын

I wish I could have radio silence. She's cold and has changed quickly. We have a 4 month old son, she says she doesn't love me anymore even after saying she loved me the end in June.

@firstlastname84 5 ай бұрын

@@NotJoeBiden_LGBFJB is she having postpartum depression?

@NotJoeBiden_LGBFJB 5 ай бұрын

@firstlastname84 questioned the same thing. Sure doesn't seem like it. She's cold as she's ever been and just over it. Won't answer anything besides our son like she's found someone else and doesn't care.

@GuidedByAngels 4 ай бұрын

Your doggie is so cute 🥰

@PazGoldmanOfficial 4 ай бұрын

@@GuidedByAngels lol 😂 thank you so much!

@AustinKloud 7 ай бұрын

Fellas- once she leaves, she is on her phone apps looking for a new man. 😂 XX’s have a saying “the best way to get over a man, is to get under a new one” Trust me- once they leave - YOU don’t want them back. Stay strong fellas- they don’t love you, they love what you can do for them. (Money, energy, attention, time)

@RadarblokeAnna 5 ай бұрын

You have been helpful…Thank you.

@andziagreen4922 7 ай бұрын

I appreciate your wisdom🙏🍀

@PazGoldmanOfficial 6 ай бұрын

You are so welcome 🙏🏽 thank you for your acknowledgement 🤍

@ancientbehemoth6448 3 ай бұрын

Have a conversation and look for the reactions and actions, what and how they say or not say... But have a conversation, if you can, this way you are in control and you decided to be mature and at least talk it out so you know and not guess. Guessing is the worst option.

@DonnaMartinKuhn62 3 ай бұрын

Actually, I’m not the one who is interested anymore….😜

@Raadestdude 7 ай бұрын

My ex wife found my replacement within a month. 😞

@JaskiratSGrewal 7 ай бұрын

a week for me

@jreid72081 7 ай бұрын

Likewise bro. We can heal from this bro

@PazGoldmanOfficial 6 ай бұрын

@greggregory2756 6 ай бұрын

@@JaskiratSGrewal that's mean the other person already there before the break up. They just monkey branching.

@achillesconstantino7699 5 ай бұрын

After 15 years of living together with my partner, in Oct 2022, she monkey branched and dumped me for one of our farm workers. Thanks that she's no longer my obligation because my feelings for her are also starting to grow weaker that time. I left the farm and took care of myself with no contact with her anymore. But in the last days of August 2023 or after almost 10 months of living with that guy, karma reached her. The grass is not greener ... then she started contacting me. At first I was just being polite to answer her calls or mssges then one day she asked me to come to her place as his older brother died. She asked for my help which I obliged, on the same night we slept together and had good sex after 10 months being apart. After her brother's funeral she asked me for a reconciliation, I think over the pros and cons of having her again and tried to look back at the feeling of being cheated /betrayed. But the compassion and empathy within me being a Buddhist prevailed and after a compromise I took her and lived with her again. I had given her a chance and I hope she already learned her lesson. Presently, we are peaceful and happy together with our set limitations and boundaries. When I am alone I'm asking myself if I am really a low self-esteem and low self respect man just in trauma-bond with this woman. The whisper that I would hear is "let your Buddha-mind prevail." I hope this will be of help to those who are now in my perflexed situation in 2022.

@aliabdi7824 7 ай бұрын

I am getting confused watching this video bcoz i am in no contact since 40 days and she never contacted or give any signals to me so i can relate to all the signs but i will never know for sure bcoz we are not communicating at all Edit: i broke no contact after 60 days we are meeting once or twice a week but she still doesn’t wanna get back together

@JaskiratSGrewal 7 ай бұрын

43 days NC for me... nothing so far

@andziagreen4922 7 ай бұрын

Take this time as a blessing and heal. Get emotional help if you need🙏best of luck🍀

@sarahjones5172 4 ай бұрын

Treat others how you want to be treated

@vedrant4686 2 ай бұрын

she took her things at my place on 3, 4 different occasions. Still has my book at her place (hard to forget that one because she took it like 2 weeks ago). She still has me and my family on FB, hasnt blocked me anywhere. She did removed IG tags on some picture of us (tags on my photos) and she left the old tags from older vacations (no, she didnt missed them, i dont have so many pics on IG) and on her highlight story album she removed all our photos except one. She is giving mixed feelings and i dont know what she is thinking. And there is one main reason (My strong opinion) i think why we are in this situation - her hormonal birth control has made her different, acting like a different person. We were 6 years together and since she started using pill (2 years of using it) she became distant.

@Beans300 7 ай бұрын

Great video!

@PazGoldmanOfficial 7 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it🤍🙏🏽

@DonnaMartinKuhn62 3 ай бұрын

Thank you!🙏

@lucabilly8433 6 ай бұрын

Paz, it’s been one year since the break up and 7 months of nc. I am unblocked on whatsapp. What do you think of this? I am trying to have hope but I feel lost and don’t know what do to at this point.

@PazGoldmanOfficial 6 ай бұрын

Your situation is unique and I need more information before I can give you a definitive answer… you can try to explain more here and I’ll do my best to give you the best answer possible or you can book a call with me and we can unpack this together and create a gamelan or a healing plan for you. ➡️ bit.ly/coachpazgoldman You can also check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)

@ritapeters1330 4 ай бұрын

And now? Did he come back? I am also unblocked on whatsApp, him ghostug me 2,5 mths. 3rd time within 1 3/4 yrs. 😢

@robbymitchell2284 Ай бұрын

Wisdom, wisdom, wisdom

@DonnaMartinKuhn62 3 ай бұрын

Wisdom!🙃

@paulagipson3909 2 күн бұрын

Wisdom - thank you i am slowly healing but it will take time.. he cheated on me with someone loud, abrasive and an attention seeker, she knew he was with me (9years) they both sent text msgs to each other that would make your hair curl they deserve each other, they are both jackasses, karma will be waiting. I am moving forward.

@jcc6356 7 ай бұрын

Wisdom!!!

@PazGoldmanOfficial 6 ай бұрын

🙏🏽🤍

@pablooso1941 6 ай бұрын

Maybe when she says "I'm being a good girl" when you know her previous relationships were always filled with her cheating. This statement may say to you that she won't cheat on her new boyfriend with you so don't ask.

@jaydub7386 6 ай бұрын

My ex reached out two months into no contact, but I didn't want him back. I found myself and moved on.

@PazGoldmanOfficial 6 ай бұрын

Yes! I’m happy for you my friend! 🙏🏽🤍

@Baggio10520 7 ай бұрын

Love I actually have all the signs…, it’s over😂

@PazGoldmanOfficial 6 ай бұрын

Yup! I feel you my friend! Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this! Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)

@conbranerendel2919 6 ай бұрын

These are also just things that ex's do. I think you're painting with really broad strokes here. For instance, yeah if your ex is an avoidant, they're going to avoid reaching out and avoid confrontation. I don't necessarily think it's beneficial to tell a bunch of people hurting on the internet that all of these normal breakup behaviors mean that their ex isn't ever coming back. Almost every ex does almost everything on this list.

@ritapeters1330 4 ай бұрын

I agree fully 💯

@ritapeters1330 4 ай бұрын

My FA with covert traits came back twice, was with no other woman

@brandonrobertkersjes 2 ай бұрын

And they are an ex for a reason.

@ShirleeWhite Ай бұрын

My ex left over a year ago almost to the day he came back and said she left him she stayed with him for a little bit but she always she's always had someone else then he went on full-blown no contact he did start saying things like we should do this together and we should do that I was the one who said I don't know I'm not sure and I'll have to think about it and he's back to no contacts so I am working my way away from him so when he does come back I don't want him no more

@GuidedByAngels 4 ай бұрын

Wisdom 🎉

@PazGoldmanOfficial 4 ай бұрын

@@GuidedByAngels 🙏🏽💯

@mcostilla7603 Ай бұрын

Well then he lied when he told me he loved me and our marriage obviously didn’t mean not thing to him especially if he’s already in a relationship.. and that’s when I realized it was time to move on when he decided to be with other females.

@Timothy_Trottier 7 ай бұрын

Mine changed her number the day after she broke up with me. She went ghost on all social media. Was cold and mean when I tried to email. Six months went by I reached out and she said she wished we could be friends only but we can’t because it always turns to drama. This sucks because it’s her actions that I called out. I guess I should have over looked the red flags that I already didn’t. Why do I still want her after 7 months? She was my first love in jr. high school. She found me on Facebook in 2009. We commented for 14 years and finally moved in together and well it did t last long. She bi polar2 and it sucks because I miss her and want to work through things. I feel it’s another guy but she claims it’s not. What to do other than no contact and better myself? We live in different states so it’s not like I can see if it was another guy. If it wasn’t I want her back. This absolutely is the worst pain I’ve ever had to endure. Help!

@pablooso1941 6 ай бұрын

The previous statement may also mean she is trying to bait you to test her into cheating with you so she can still feel the power of being desired and thus you are addicted to her. At that point you become an inferior male and she will probably move on without you since she feels she succeeded in baiting you. Don 't take the bait. Just say "that's wonderful, I hope this all works out well for you".

@ToPal-e2h 7 ай бұрын

הי פז, תודה לך על הסרטונים המועילים❤

@PazGoldmanOfficial 6 ай бұрын

באהבה ענקית!

@TheChosen1406 4 ай бұрын

12yrs together 10yrs married it went up in flames 🔥 for her monkey branch…

@roseamey370 3 ай бұрын

I got monkey branched also

@TheChosen1406 3 ай бұрын

@@roseamey370 sorry to hear that…

@roseamey370 3 ай бұрын

@@TheChosen1406 Paz's videos helping me a lot. It happened 2.5 months ago.

@malouurquico8068 5 ай бұрын

Wisdom.

@PazGoldmanOfficial 5 ай бұрын

@@malouurquico8068 🙏🏽🤍

@bmore9088 Ай бұрын

Yeah i can feel its over. I was will her 15 yrs and married two kids. She cheated and tried getting out. Caught her were good for a min and she did same thing again but this time ended it then junped into relationship. Hiding it but i know shes with the dude. Also got her own phone plan own bank account and moving out soon. Still live together. Also tellin iur kids soon. It would be nice if the monkey branch/rebound relationship fails and she comes crawling back so i get the last laugh and say nope. Bye

@cooldad895hess8 6 ай бұрын

I have no idea if she’ll come back. It’s been 11 weeks with no contact/radio silence. The only sign I’ve had is ‘nothing’. Probably will never come back. 😂😂 Oh well 😂😂😂