The Black Woman's TRUTH About Interracial Dating & Marriage - Out Loud With Claudia Jordan

[@gorgeouslymade1754]

Vetting a man is important regardless of color. Dating a number of men, white or black, only increases your chances of finding the man for you. Open your options up to any great man.

[@shan6283]

Yes! as a BW I date whoever I LIKE (black man, white man, or otherwise). I will love who loves me. Period. Too many BW limit themselves from finding love because they're waiting on a BM. Meanwhile, BM are dating and marrying whoever they want. The only issue I have is when one race fetishizes the other or puts down their own race because they've chosen to be in an interracial relationship. It highlights inner self-hate issues that need to be addressed. However, if I choose to date outside of my race, it's my business and it DOESN'T mean I don't love my people. Some of these comments are so childish and ridiculous.

[@clarabowens6330]

@@shan6283 o

[@clarabowens6330]

@@shan6283 o

[@Sasha0406]

Okay so let me get this right. The girl in the middle wanted to “experiment” with a white guy to “see what it be like” but she was turned off because she thought he was just “experimenting” with her. Okay...

[@djp3732]

Sasha0406 white men yuck

[@aaronshadyoung9567]

No because she didnt get the vibe he was invested to really get to know her and possibly just wanted to hit it and quit it.

[@courylanders5154]

Sasha 0406 Right, people need to really listen to these people on these talk shows.Becouse a lot of these guests ain't that smart or just not worth listening to.

[@djp3732]

Lisa Jones I cant relate and no black women I know can relate. You either a white troll pretending to be black or you butt ugly

[@TURBOBEATZZZ]

@@djp3732 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jamesonlowe7602]

White male. I’ve dated a pretty much equal number or white and black women. There have been good and bad relationships with each. But I will say communication and a sincere openness is absolutely key in cultivating and sustaining a healthy interracial relationship. But you can’t let society dictate who you want to spend your time with!

[@KimberlyGraham-CEO]

Agree

[@kimwright6377]

I’m glad Claudia is being real.Its rare that someone that is biracial speaks with candor.Usually they paint a rosie picture of family life.They’ll usually only complain about how they were treated outside of home.She admitted she had struggles with her Mom being white.

[@claudiajordanreal]

Thank you!

[@RyeMOE]

Like Tamera

[@s8450631]

@@RyeMOE Tamera' s mom is black so not the same.

[@ibox107]

s8450631 her mom black yet she does the original comment said 🙄

[@ecclairmayo4153]

@@s8450631 - ?? Tameras mother is black and her dad is white

[@Mr12ob]

My girlfriend is Jamaican, I am Russian Jewish. 3 1/2 years together so far, I hope we spend the rest of our lives together.

[@Blodia1990]

Yarmulke and Jerk chicken for you guys. Mazel Tov and hashem blesses your union

[@c.h.theglam366]

The problem occurs when people put their own race, nationality, or culture down to say that they wouldn't date "their own." People can definitely have preferences, but don't downgrade others to try to justify the preference.

[@maatlaw1688]

THANK YOU !!!

[@luvbig41]

EXACTLY!!!!! That is the biggest problem with certain people who date outside of their race.

[@user-nq6um4bs5y]

Gentleman Rated Or look up majority of black male celebs swirlers and plenty of black men on KZbin disparaging black women. Very rarely is a black female swirler disparaging bm

[@TheSportsagent17]

Exactly, very great post!

[@cesarihill5062]

@@user-nq6um4bs5y thats a lie. Both black men and women are out here saying dumb shit to justify that they have a preference based on skin color.

[@Ceemoore3000]

Uh and let's stop acting like all black men are well endowed. All I have dated are brothers and they come in all shapes and sizes.

[@truefreeman100g6]

Ceemoore67 Uh let’s stop acting like all black Women have good vagina because I dated many and they don’t

[@Yna-u3g]

Exactly

[@henrylester4051]

@Ceemoore67, That is up to genetics and what they inherit from their father and his father (grandfather) etc.

[@blvckfiretrvpfire15]

@@truefreeman100g6 facts 💯...but I still love black women tho ❤

[@froberson41]

True Freeman100G that sounds like a women issue not race thing. Trust and believe I’ve gone behind women of all race in the ladies room trust and believe some of their ass stank to.

[@makeda3591]

Didnt even know Claudia was 46,she looks great.

[@sasthyme8857]

Makeda Ray .. she does...her hair suits her better this way too.

[@henrylester4051]

@ Makeda Ray, I know she does look great. I hope this show sticks around for a while, she has had the worse luck staying on shows.

[@blvckfiretrvpfire15]

So do you ❤

[@makeda3591]

@@sasthyme8857 it really dose

[@makeda3591]

@@henrylester4051 she seems to be doing well so far fingers crossed for her x

[@marlynnek6449]

I'm white and I dated a black man in the 70s when it was WAY outside the norm. I'm happy women today have more freedom to date whomever the hell they want.

[@dontletherspeak7575]

Jogger lover...

[@chocolatedreamdoll8444]

I am highly disappointed in this clip. Claudia please start interviewing your guest before you let them on your show. How did a conversation about interracial dating turn into how big black men's penises are?? There are so many other things that needed to be discussed. Claudia you introduced some great topics but your panel did not further discuss in-depth what needed to be discussed. And the fact that y'all started to discuss the size of black men penises is problematic and a fetish in itself, like WTF 🙄 I'm so annoyed.

[@claudiajordanreal]

We were just having a lil fun. My shows will always be playful and serious when NEED be. But thanks for watching we will have all kinds of topics in the future

[@chocolatedreamdoll8444]

@@claudiajordanreal I understand and I giggled a couple times here and there. But this subject matter is too heavy to be light hearted about. And the direction the conversation went with the BBC comments were honestly shameful and embarrassing. I believe in you, I think you're a great host. You remind me of Tyra, when she started her show. But Tyra was a beast and she didn't play. She tackled hard uncomfortable topics with the correct connotation. I seen that you were trying to gear the convo back on topic but your guest didn't help you with that. That's why I said, try to have a say in who's gonna be the guest and chit chat with them before the cameras start rolling. Because it just always seems like your guest have a different agenda than the topic at hand; or their input is uninformative and lack luster. If you're gonna tackle these subject's that affect so many peoples lives', please respect the topic enough to give it the proper context and information. Especially for viewers like myself who want to see in depth, unbiased, intellectual conversations about these kinds of topics.

[@chocolatedreamdoll8444]

@Celeste Shui yeah, with Fox's history, it did seem majorly suspicious. Like wtf is Fox 'Soul'? Why are you calling it that? Why is it separate from the main network? And why is it all black people?

[@chocolatedreamdoll8444]

@Celeste Shui I agree about Fox being in control and not televising the true issues in the black community. I don't think her being biracial means that she is incapable of having an intellectual conversation about black issues. She's viewed as a black woman in society, her experiences are just as valid.

[@laglendareed8086]

I agree the whole interview missed the mark completely dating outside your race is I mean is a deeper discussion. I know my son married white. And I could write a book about the complexity of me being a Pro-Black light skinned, light eyed Grandmother. It sucks...

[@earthis4poorpeople111]

I enjoy Claudia Jordan hosting she’s really good at it.

[@claudiajordanreal]

Thank u!!!!

[@tommyisrael6038]

No she's not. She's bias. So black women never hear black men or black women call black men sellouts, and weak? Or they only hear when black men do it to them?

[@emanualcarr7408]

I wonder why the MAJOR NETWORKS won't put her on, or give her her own Prime Time Network like Wendy Williams etc?

[@claudiajordanreal]

@@emanualcarr7408 Give em time to notice a sister!

[@jeffreygraves3595]

Great show

[@CDub-df2us]

To the girl in the red dress: is it the men or is it YOU? Sounds like it’s you .

[@eviefierce]

What I said.

[@user-nq6um4bs5y]

Carol Johnson You want a broke black kangzz Tyrone who will make u a baby momma 😂 enjoy

[@christopherturner8596]

@@user-nq6um4bs5y dont take it personal buddy

[@iamahero3246]

@@user-nq6um4bs5y are you white? its ok

[@pauloskidane2819]

I hate those racist fuckers

[@justbusiness01]

I’m glad they talked about fetishes because it is so true. People need to ask themselves what’s a fetish, discrimination and prejudice vs what’s genuine.

[@bohwe43]

Not all non black men fetishes black women. Just like there are black men that fetishes black women. Black men can fetishize non black women, and non black women do the same.

[@attainingknowledgeoftruth8348]

@ Bohwe, You sound like an idiot. A black person cannot be the fetish of someone from their own race. A fetish has to be for someone who’s unfamiliar.

[@attainingknowledgeoftruth8348]

@ Melissa Diamond, It is SELF HATE when black people uphold and prefer other races wether or not they are putting down their own race down.

[@bnwo]

It's interesting how it's only people who make a conscious choice not to date a black woman, because apparently black women don't ever make a conscious choice to not date black men lol

[@attainingknowledgeoftruth8348]

@ Bohwe, It is definitely a fetish when WP have a preference for black people. The media sexualizes BW which perpetuates the fetish. Soon as BW got off the boat WM fetishized BW which is why they ra9ed BW unmercifully. And to this day you are still getting ra9ed mentally and psychologically which is why you uphold WP above your own race.

[@bryanbeeman5256]

If black men don’t want you... forget him... find you someone that is going to love you for you.

[@latoyagriffin1410]

💯💯💯💯🤗

[@swatkins67]

How stop using black men to date outside your race .. black men don’t have to want you for you to date other men.. why it always have to be somebody not wanting you??

[@djsalteenuts]

How do you generalize a whole ethnicity tho?

[@gregsanchez39]

@@swatkins67 A lot black women these days hate black men and will that as an excuse to date someone white

[@dondread7363]

@@swatkins67 Maybe if the white man calls them the N word, and people say they never should have dated a white man in the first place, the women can say black men never wanted them that's why they got with a white man.

[@H1GHD3FF]

I dated interracial many times and in every one of them there was something missing. I have a better connection with black woman. There are some many unspoken agreements with in the culture.

[@H1GHD3FF]

@@bnwo Bummer

[@audreylove7783]

H1GHD3FF I agree, please keep it that way....let's not kill out our blood line black people. Wypipo want that to happen..

[@Chenaultchic]

Same

[@missbree1855]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@MakeWay4CJ]

@N.W.A. Yet you can’t explain why you think that, right? Trolls. 🙄

[@TotallyTammyXOXO]

Claudia is the best host I’ve seen on this series.

[@claudiajordanreal]

Thank you!

[@sumayzebecreating]

I agree...💜

[@tjj6362]

Why

[@Yahashuaskid]

@@claudiajordanreal lol you're great!

[@pattiamoh1953]

I am interracial

[@LeauxB]

I think the issue with some black women is that we tend to be closed minded because of the pressure society puts on us to "protect" and " uplift" the black man. The one thing I absolutely hate hearing is "there are plenty of good black men out there" because I had only dated black men, until I met my fiancé. Granted, I am only 23 (going on 24 shortly), but I think it's very "toxic" (for lack of a better word) to bypass someone who is going out of their way to cherish you just because of their skin color. Black women are one of the most under appreciated demographics in the country (USA), even when considering black men, so why would I spend such a long time searching for something that so many beautiful black women before me haven't found? I was raised to understand that "it's not about the black or white man, but the RIGHT man". I will NEVER speak poorly of black men, as they tend to do when they date outside of our race *COUGH COUGH*, but I will acknowledge that I have never been appreciated, respected, loved, and cared for as much as I am right now. I'm in no way saying that it's solely because my fiancé is white, but I am saying that had I kept the closed mind that society expects...I may have missed out on one of the most special men I have ever met. Wow. That was so long! lmaoo Sorry!

[@robet478]

I'm blonde and I like black women. I can't explain why I like it so much. But I know it's difficult for a blonde to have a black woman. A woman with African ethnicity is different from everyone else. It's very difficult to bear her power.

[@robertcortez3526]

BW bash BM everyday when dating outside their race. Stop capping

[@good4eva241]

For God sakes the conversation is about interracial dating they should’ve brought more people who are experienced dating interracially not just one.

[@whisperingwhiskerss4877]

Good 4eva exactly it was pretty dry.

[@coreythomas3633]

soul sessions tv Bdhrh there married black men with black women shut the fuck up

[@coreythomas3633]

@soul sessions tv Bdhrh Shut the fuck up are white men ENDING WHITE supremacy fuck out of here

[@awura2493]

soul sessions tv Bdhrh honestly, she does🤷🏾‍♀️

[@LeimertDreamer]

soul sessions tv Bdhrh But wait....I thought the conspiracy was to destroy the Black family, which is why you rarely see an all-Black nuclear family on TV anymore? It can’t be both. Either they want to destroy the Black family through not promoting Black love or they want to keep Black women single by only promoting them date Black men? These conspiracies are running wild!

[@LAmommy]

That is deep... how Claudia said her mom didn’t get it sometimes growing up and she at times wished she had a black mom for that reason. Her hair styles as a child too. It’s a real situation.

[@PrettyGurl12361]

A rose- yeah it was deep . She is strong person for admitted it.

[@pockahantiss]

If you wanna date outside the race, do you boo! Be happy!-✌🏾️

[@aloveaffairwithself]

My family is very mixed. And to be honest, I love my black men. But, if the man who is for me is white, Asian, Hispanic...I am happy. But, I just think as black women, we love our men so much more than they love us 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@allthingsdanielle1512]

Aggree

[@jacquelineellis7136]

They are a waste of time

[@aloveaffairwithself]

Here I am, back to this discussion a year later. As a black woman who has dated multiple cultures, men are men. However, there’s a specific reason why I think black women focus on this particular issue. The issue with black women, is that we really love our black men. To the extent where marrying someone of another culture is pretty much taboo. And let’s not start on the fact that we tend to get shamed a lot more for not being with a brother than black men for being with white women or racially ambiguous black women who can pass for another ethnicity, in particular. For black men, it’s often been a status symbol or inherent self-hatred. Colorism and stereotypes at its finest. But, I think the reason a lot of black women are so critical even unto themselves about marrying or being with a white man in particular, is because of the sheer judgment we get in general from the black community. Almost as if we betrayed someone. In spite of the fact that black men have been doing it for years. We tend to be extremely loyal to the culture which already has a shortage of eligible men. But, I’m sorry. If the love of my life is a Japanese boy or a European man and he treats me like gold, I’m not letting the culture and the need to please the culture get in the way.

[@robertcortez3526]

Then why do you treat them so poorly?

[@chuckiea7011]

They are not your men. They don't belong to you. You don't own them. They can be with who they choose to be with.

[@LC-uz6em]

I was in a relationship with a white man for 5 years. He actually brought me to the NAACP. He supported my interest in diversity and he was so comfortable with my friends and me with his.

[@Lovelymo]

LaRae Carter why yaw break up

[@bballforlife1231]

avil7141 I will bet my live savings that they broke up for a reason other than race difference. But let’s see what she says

[@keishanance5960]

Gf for 5yrs?

[@PrettyGurl12361]

LaRae Carter- NAACP isn't a black organization it supports ALL people.

[@Tasha8626]

Lovely 111 that is not true. It’s definitely a black organization. Please don’t get on here being misinformed.

[@arleneaugustahair8393]

Yes Donia! She touched on both being Black but coming from different backgrounds. I’m from a Panamanian household and my husband comes from an American household. We constantly argue because he refuses to go to Panamá with me to understand my culture. He thinks everything we do is “stupid” and I don’t play that mess. We’re different but we’re definitely NOT “stupid.”

[@rellenomics101]

1. Claudia Jordan is fine as hell and an EXCELLENT host. 2. The guests were fine as hell. 3. I love Fox Soul so far! 4. We as black people should have our own network to have more shows like this

[@dontrustwhiteyevery1]

WE USED TOO.

[@emanualcarr7408]

Auh.... We did have our own network to have more shows like this (4). It was called BET. Bob Johnson sold us out, along with many other BLK owned Magazines, TV networks and things specific to BLK people.

[@rellenomics101]

@@emanualcarr7408 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@claudiajordanreal]

Rellenomic$101 thank you!!

[@rellenomics101]

@@claudiajordanreal You're very welcome

[@asiagoins0004]

Claudia is one of the BEST hosts Fox Soul has! When a video uploaded with her hosting I'm INSTANTLY here.

[@claudiajordanreal]

Wonderfully Asia thank you so much!

[@blazebrown9102]

All black men aren't endowed, Truth.🧐 NO shade to black men or any man!☮️

[@Chenaultchic]

You ain’t lying... I was bamboozled like shit by one ... talk about bite size mini, so small he came and I didn’t even known he was in lol 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Jaedoe888]

Girrrl. I had a "2" inch black man,i am still traumatized by it. The sad part is,he was playing me with another woman.so i told every body who knew him. He was very conscious of the size as well. Never again it is HARD work with a small penis.

[@MrsNicolas]

I dated 2 micropenis BM ( both from California) one I was intimate with, the other I wasn't. It's very say because they can't control their size, but I had to let them go. I've also dated 3 gigantic size BM, and they had to go too. So big that it wasn't pleasurable, just straight painful. I'm like Goldilocks, not too big, not too small, but just right.

[@madamelogicbombdropperblac7799]

True! Not all black men are 10, 11, 12 inches. It's a myth.

[@MrsNicolas]

@@madamelogicbombdropperblac7799 10+ range is horse penis to me. I'm like, "you trying to put that in me?!!!" Hell to the no! 5 to 9 is just right for me.

[@yeezynapkins2970]

the woman in red dated 1 white guy who, according to her, acted just like a black guy (whatever that means). it's interesting she framed it that way, that the white guy acted like a black guy, as if the black guy has an act or a way. what she's really trying to say is that her TYPE of guy she would even entertain having a date with is a stereotypical player and it's entirely her fault for having poor taste and honestly enjoying being played on the low

[@ezekwu]

facts...

[@queenivy8600]

Very interesting because I see black men in droves dating/married to nonblack women. It's rare to see black couples here. I reside in Los Angeles CA.

[@mandamandamanda6722]

Queen Ivy a lot of black women date out in LA too.

[@LadyCharity]

Yes its more common in LA or the city near me NYC but mostly we stay in the culture for marriage however IR is on the rise for sure.

[@maatlaw1688]

THATS ONLY IN LOS ANGELOS I SEE BLACK COUPLES EVERYDAY YALL NEED TO STOP SPREADING LIES STOP MIXING ITS NEVER GOING TO LAST ANYWAY

[@queenivy8600]

@14bricks LMAO, I rarely see Black couples period. If you don't believe me, ask someone else that lives in Los Angeles. I don't wear rosy colored glasses over here, I am reporting what I observe daily. If you are that serious about it, take a flight to Los Angeles to witness the high number of Black men with nonblack women. Seeing Black couples is so rare to where, when I do, I stare. I see Black women alone out here with their children.

[@madamelogicbombdropperblac7799]

@14bricks WHEN YOU HEAR THE QUOTE "MOST BLACK MEN ARE MARRIED (NOT DATE) TO BLACK WOMEN," ITS A LIE! Many of those women are MIXED race or light skin Latinas that black men CALL black. Now the 2020 U.S. Census is coming and a lot of people that are mixed ( most a product of black men and non black women) will check the black box. Why? Because black men know that fewer black babies are being CONCEIVED between black male/black female unions, and this has lowered the 13-14% black population in America. So to make it seem like the black population is growing ( when it's really shrinking) they encourage their mixed race children (18 and older, white passing or not) along with their mixed race significant others that they are black and to check that black box on the U.S. Census questionnaire. No! The majority of black men who are married are not married to FULL-BLOODED BLACK WOMEN. Do not fall for the okay donkey black women.

[@alee7322]

I feel a lot of people in interracial relationships don’t understand each other’s culture.

[@thestarinhereyes2]

YOU feel! You!

[@oyinireland1561]

Very very true that's why I'd prefer to date from my culture wouldn't even think of interracial dating to be honest

[@claritywithkj2509]

I don’t get that women in the middle, she’s only white men to a higher standard and I appreciate Claudia for calling her out!

[@kgraham023]

So she should hold black men to a higher standard than white men? Sounds like she has the same standard for both. But went back to black men cause that's who she's attracted to truly

[@christopherturner8596]

Shes cheating she can't do that

[@mbindasthulutya4813]

@@kgraham023 captain Sava a how black men

[@mbindasthulutya4813]

@@kgraham023 captain save a hoe niggas

[@kgraham023]

@@mbindasthulutya4813 posting the same comment twice, ya dumbass don't even know how to do this shit right. No doubt your probaly easily intimidated see how this "assuming" shit work.

[@sirfostier]

He understands his privileges, but he took space and ran for President of the BLACK student union ...????

[@Howtonaturally]

I believe it was one of those paradox's that seemed revolutionary and forward thinking. Personally, I wouldn't approach a white man about certain aspects of my blackness either.

[@attainingknowledgeoftruth8348]

@ OHAGI, That tells you how BP have been ra9ed mentally and psychologically.

[@sirfostier]

@@tommyisrael6038 whoa. a bed wench?! thats mean bro. relax. i was just asking a question a rhetorical question.

[@rosestephen6789]

... They did this at an HBCU too. We are such idiots

[@JamieBleu]

THAT was in the past. In college.

[@welisanerich5376]

The problem with these kind of conversations is that, the blk men are not there. Its always the women. These kind of conversations are goid with blk men too so that you see the difference in the mentality between men and women.

[@a.d.w8385]

I get your point but from my experience the men just say that black women are the worst things ever and every woman is better than an western black woman.

[@dhorubabinwahad3218]

Sounds like social media babble

[@locks4]

@@a.d.w8385 western women are fucked up

[@PRETTYGIRLPOLITICS]

The title is BLACK WOMEN on interracial dating though. Not Black people on interracial dating. So no black men were not needed in this segment. There are plenty of interviews on youtube of black men on interracial dating. A lot of them will sound similiar and be very disappointing because many of them are dating outside their race because they have personal issues with black women. Not because they were curious or interested in exploring cultural diversity in love. When black women date outside their race it is because they are usually just being open minded to finding love period. It's more genuine.

[@PrettyGurl12361]

Welisane- yup.

[@kamigriff]

That dating stereotype. Ugh it's cringy to watch this dating expert say this. My husband is white and we give each other that look. We have no barriers in our conversation. If you have barriers that person is not for you. Communication is key.

[@millieb710]

Skye Griff exactly my husband is white and I give him that look like look at this shit

[@prid6427]

As a black man.....I respect that you give your White Husbands "that look" and I have know doubt that he understands that look from "you" but does he understands what the significance of what just took place? Do you have to explain it from a African-American cultural perspective and the answer is YES YOU DO!!

[@kamigriff]

Pri D No I don’t. Periodttt

[@prid6427]

@@kamigriff Congratulations your married to the first ever White Men that knows everything about Black Culture...... he should think about running for NAACP President, I'm sure Rachel Dolezel will support him!!

[@kamigriff]

Pri D I’m glad to know you know so much about people you don’t know.

[@CDub-df2us]

“My white husband was the VP of the black student union....” girl..... smh.

[@tamarastone141]

Ikr?!🙄😏

[@AvecPoesie]

What school was that?! 😬

[@SoundScientist1]

Sounds sketchy right?

[@MrDFJohnson]

Now that's a strange black student union.

[@CDub-df2us]

White savior complex

[@gigigratitude4u930]

This topic deserves a Part 2. There’s an explosion of mixing and mating happening and I believe it is largely due to the contributions of a social media influencer, business owner, and author of the book “Swirling.” Christalyn Karazin, Beyond Black & White is trailblazing through communities and cultures teaching BW how to expand their options despite an enormous amount of resistance from BM. I hope you will check out her videos, web page, and book and consider revisiting the topic of interracial relationships to expound on this growing shift.

[@steveenlowii482]

Been married to a black woman for 11+ years, racial issues has never been an issue. It’s about maturity not “the times” “culture”.

[@steveenlowii482]

@@anewx I love pissing people like y’all off!! Bwahahahah

[@GoddessBlueYozakura7]

@@anewx You dudes aren't marrying black women. Let that man make a black woman happy.

[@iamtheeduchess]

A man who treats me respectful has good credit and cares about his hygiene is quality potential and in all honesty Men are Men.

[@amnvendetta5289]

What you mean with good credit its about money what bring you to the table you are a surface person

[@thedarkknight4956]

@@amnvendetta5289 well do you want her with a broke man fool?

[@Natasha-kg1zw]

Agreed! How you are treated, good credit and hygiene are important!!!👏 This goes across all men!

[@anon5091]

No, not quite.

[@princess555o4]

@@amnvendetta5289 so you have bad credit and you are offended? Go fix your credit!

[@ShashanaCO]

Interracial marriage has been legal since 1967 Loving vs. Virginia

[@claudiajordanreal]

yup

[@rch3290]

melanated and loving it with a melanated woman agreed

[@thatthingyouseeatthecorner5249]

melanated and loving it with a melanated woman Lol are you one of those dudes who use pseudo science to prove that the father’s race dictates the race of the child?

[@thatthingyouseeatthecorner5249]

melanated and loving it with a melanated woman LOL excellent comeback sir. You fancy ad hominem fallacies, eh?

[@thearough]

If he " understood" he would not run or allow himself to head a black organization. It's the master knows best mentality.

[@latonyalapc9493]

Whoa!!! What a perspective... I hadn't thought of that.

[@JamieBleu]

That was WHEN he was younger AND he was VOTED in by black people.

[@demam4648]

We need allies of the white race to fight along side with us. Unity not divisiveness. Nothing wrong with it, hes not ruling over anyone but helping the whole movement. As long as the white man isnt oppressing but uplifting than why not.

[@thearough]

@@demam4648 why do we always make deflective responses. None of what u said has anything to do with my comment. No other race calls another race governing them unity or an alliance. No its a master save me slave relationship. U dont want to grow up and be responsible for your own race so u NEED alleged wite allies as a crutch. U need what they give and their compassion to survive. U don't have your own agenda or governance for anyone to aide or ally. Nor are we fighting for ourselves, only white inclusion,, interacial dating and acceptance. If we were fighting to have our own we would have no white allies. A race in a childlike state that does not governing their own cannot have allies only controllers. U cant be unified with someone ruling over u. U have a childlike slave mentality response. Unity among races does not replace a race being self sufficient being unified and presiding over themselves. We as blacks are more concerned with white allies than helping ourselves because we see him as a parent and a master. We are dependent on their help, compassion and acceptance as a means of survival. I can't be devisive in a race that's not together but under someone else.

[@thearough]

@@demam4648 where on the planet is he not oppressing?????

[@PH-lr2mp]

It's plenty black men and women in sports that marry date black and have families

[@rawo2187]

P H right majority date black pepper they just choose to focus on the mixed couples

[@INAN2222]

I celebrate beautiful Black families. But are these married Black wives, or baby mothers? Important inquiry.

[@nicholusjones6243]

That wasn't a "Black Student Union" then.. smh

[@chick-fil-agal2264]

Not at all

[@bwalto21]

Lmbo

[@cnotefrank43]

Big facts, dam foolz

[@thetayoung1465]

With your ideology, I guess Essence is not a Black Women's magazine and BET is not a station for Black people. Neither are Black owned.

[@dance4life1208]

Exactly I’m like wtf

[@melechdomeyhwh]

Damn we rip each other apart way too much...We all melanated ppl.If you want to date out .Just date out lol

[@ysoldemiranda8852]

Claudia is the bomb! I don’t get tired of watching her. She deserves her own show! #teamClaudia

[@cassidyddon74]

Can we get in contact with email [e-mail] my WhatsApp [phone]

[@JennHayden]

"didn't care what he looked like" yup.... you're haitian.

[@simeoda]

Jen J ??

[@ih489]

Lol

[@merriemelodies7830]

😆😂😃

[@claudiaschmidt3708]

explain yourself

[@dontrustwhiteyevery1]

@@claudiaschmidt3708 wow, you don't get it??

[@aviancag8716]

I’ve dated white guys and they have been very open to how they experiences are different then mine or the same .

[@billmwika7428]

@Dave Chapelle Hahahahaha I swear some black women think we live in fairytale land. Only if they knew how competitive this world is.

[@Militantreturns]

Oh brother

[@youtubeguy4539]

Ladies take responsibility for your actions. Period.

[@fahnakafranklin8211]

I told the universe I wanted something different: commitment, passion, hardworking. I was dating bums!!! It just so happen that the next person to approach me, happened to be white. We’ve been together for twelve this April and we have a smart, funny, and f-omg adorable little boy. My husband is educated on how to comb and nurture his hair. We have open and honest conversations. My husband in an immigrant, so explaining diversity and discrimination isn’t difficult.

[@sunvavachi]

I've dated couple black Americans. I haven't had good experiences but so far I agree with Donia. We are all human and that is what we should always do. Just keep giving people chances no matter what race.

[@robet478]

there is racism when a white man likes a black woman. a white man is considered inferior in everything. a white man can be attacked in the street just for being with a black woman. a white man has to go through all of this to have a biracial marriage. but it is very difficult to have a black wife in the United States

[@fah232]

Absolutely....I went out with a Italian guy an the whole night he only talked about how beautiful my skin and I was and I told him this isn't going to work out.

[@JamieBleu]

@TroubleChizzy2010 That's what controlling black men think back women want. In my opinion as a black man: Black women want men who love them for who they are AND how the look. It can't just be one or the other. That's how most humans are. the conversation becomes dehumanizing when some of us in the black male collective assume ALL black women (who date out) desire is the white gaze. They want love and protection.

[@aviissac2628]

I don't think someone being attracted to you physically is a bad thing or that person telling you that you are attractive. Most relationships begin due to physical attraction.

[@fah232]

@Ebony and Ivan That would never be allowed. But by the way I'm married now, that was years ago.

[@fah232]

@@aviissac2628 No it's not but when you can't have conversation about anything else it's a problem.

[@fah232]

@Savannah Peters It's not a compliment when it's obsessive and no conversation about anything else, I don't need to be told I'm beautiful every second.

[@SlimGoodie004]

The lady in the red dress was not "trying something new" if she still chose a thugged out Eminem kind of guy👎🏾. I could tell from the way she described him when they met that he was the type of WM that acted like a BM. She said she didn't even know he was white at first 🤷🏾‍♀️. So that means he was probably dressed in hip hop clothes, surrounded by BM, listening to rap music, in an urban nightclub, or speaking heavy slang that he picked up from his many blk male friends that he hangs around. And honestly this is probably what attracted her to him because she's used to dating BM only, so of course she would pick a WM that was as close to a BM that she could get. That was her initial reaction to him before she noticed his blue eyes and realized he was a WM, she was attracted to his BM mannerisms. I never date the G Eazy's and Eminems, they're just a different shade of BM. What's the point of "trying something new" as she said if you're deliberately picking the same thing? #ChooseBetter 👩🏾+👨🏼=🍦😍🍦

[@sleep1061]

Excuses

[@tommyisrael6038]

Slim Goodie but isn't that how most white men act and look? Why white girls love the way Justin Beiber act and look? Cause he acts black. Most white boys today use words like lit, drip and turn their hats backwards.

[@blvckfiretrvpfire15]

@Tasheri a naker??? you socialize with self hating swirlers who date racist white men don't you???

[@jadesmith7983]

I see where you're coming from. She probably didn't think that far ahead and just assumed since he was white it would be different.

[@peace-xm9nk]

@Celeste Shui 😂

[@samantasammy6415]

I understand what claudia is saying, my hair was a mess and my mom had no idea what to do with my hair.

[@morningsunshine0216]

My hair was a mess and my mom was black ...

[@PeytonFan1816]

Claudia is so relatable and transparent. I love when she hosts

[@Precious.Marketing]

The host was being so real about her experience growing up biracial with a White mother. In my opinion, if you are White and you are with a Black person, and you want the relationship to last, you MUST educate yourself on what it truly is like to be Black in the Western world. It will be helpful, especially when you have kids. And for god's sakes, if you have become a mother to girls, learn how to do the hair.

[@TLJones-bq7wk]

I enjoyed this discussion. It was entertaining but tasteful and well rounded.

[@deestevens2883]

I agree, great discussion

[@craigdoyle6674]

Yea this is how it should be done

[@LuckyLucky-db5td]

I am in an interracial relationship and we’re happy. I educate myself about the culture and all the fights black people have to go through and he is starting to love his skin. When he said I hate my skin color I cried, because the black people are so so beautiful. I mean their skin looks like gold and so smooth and beautiful. In an interracial relationship you can be pro black and be active against racism! I love the woman with the white husband she gets me and my thoughts about being open minded and don’t shrinking yourself

[@yumchi09]

I don't know why everyone was clapping when she said her white husband was the vice president of the black student union! Would a black person ever be the vice president of the white student union? NOPE! So that made me very uncomfortable to be honest.

[@PrettyGurl12361]

yumchi09- yeah that is suspect. LOL He seems like he wants to be Black when he can.

[@helandacrespin]

Is there a White Student Union? Most all student groups on campuses are for white by white and are often quite comfortable with segregation.

[@humilis42]

I dated a white man before I started dating my husband. At the time my husband was a friend and he even said that he thought his chances with me was very low because I shared with him how well that guy treated me and how much I liked him. I never compared him to black guys though because to me that didn’t make sense since my father (God rest his soul) was my heart ♥️. He still is, he’s resting in peace now 🙁. I didn’t like the stares we got when we went out because he was the whitest of white guys and he was all over me. LOL Hand holding, staring into my eyes. I don’t know, I wasn’t used to guys being that affectionate. He didn’t notice the stares from others but I did. Anyway, it didn’t work out and so I ended up with the friend whom I told everything to who just so happens to be Haitian 🇭🇹. 20 years later, we are still making each other laugh. To each his own. If you fall in love with a man, it doesn’t matter what race he is, as long as he loves you and treats you well.

[@amnvendetta5289]

Hypocriet bitch

[@humilis42]

Am!n Vendetta How am I a hypocrite? By the way, you might want to learn how to spell before you call people out of their name. Hahaha

[@prid6427]

@@humilis42 Thank you for sticking with us "Black Men".... the way this country treats us make it hard and difficult to be affectionate especially in public. Black men must be hard/hardened for survival purposes.

[@humilis42]

Pri D I understand. The sad thing is that if a black woman is seeking an affectionate man and she only gets it from men of other races, she may start to believe that she is not attractive to black men. Of course, that was not the case for me.

[@AthenaLolita2]

How about you date for values and character instead of superficial crap. Date people you like and who likes you.

[@respectknuckles428]

THIS IS STILL A TOPIC AFTER 500 YRS!!!! MOVE ON!!!!

[@stevewoodson4635]

Noah's ark ofzephaniah3:9

[@joepatrick3092]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Militantreturns]

🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

[@OGSuki.]

Claudia is 46? That’s not old but I would’ve never guessed! Go girl 💖

[@nipziplsutiger7913]

I only date within my own race specifically bc Ive learned that we are just different people that have different cultures and completely differing views on the world and how things should be. It's not bc I'm racist at all bc I'm not. Im just not attracted to other women on that level. There's nothing wrong with that at all but the media and all of these liberals want people to think you are a racist if you believe that way. It's like they want to tell people who they should be physically attracted to now. It's just ridiculous.

[@jadesmith7983]

I THOROUGHLY enjoyed this conversation. And Claudia is a mess!!😂😂😂

[@jadesmith7983]

TroubleChizzy2010 OH girl thank you lol. I had a major brain freeze with that got damn word lol. I knew someone would correct me!😂😂🤷‍♀️

[@claudiajordanreal]

Jade Smith why thank you!

[@jadesmith7983]

claudia jordan Your very welcome. This was a great discussion.

[@jadesmith7983]

TroubleChizzy2010 I'm not reading all that. The beginning shows me you just like to assume things about ppl you don't know based on their race and sex. "You black females" lol you sound hurt. Go back and talk to the women you say think this way cause you don't know a thing about me. Good day sir!

[@meddeck]

The woman in the middle...ugh! 🙄🙄🙄

[@Mia-hw3hr]

Why is it that when a black woman gets mad she is considered"Typical"

[@Michelle-jz8vl]

Cause it is.. I say that to say, I’m black!, but black folks have never ever accepted me..Till this day I get the eye roll and name calling for no reasons whatsoever..

[@acp2078]

Umm what does typical mean

[@princess555o4]

@@Michelle-jz8vl there was a reason, you just dont like taking accountability. you come off as combative. if everyone around you is an a-hole, you're probably the a-hole

[@deestevens2883]

Rachel was tripping and lying about her indentification... so it made her look bad and crazed about our culture. She went way too far. Be you and be honest

[@Machenziethemodel]

These generation of men are different 😆. They’re raised differently. My issue is they only show either a white man or a white woman as the standard of interracial dating. They have Asian guys too plus some Arabic guys like black woman. And saying that all Black men are well endowed is over sexualizing them. Your basically just saying they are only good for one thing. Plus the definition of well endowed for is different for everyone. Some people think 9inches is small. So it just depends on the person.

[@a.d.w8385]

I am a lighter skinned black woman and Arab men love me. Im married to a black man. Yet, I know I could have gotten with an Arab man or an Indian or latino. Those men have approached me just as much as black men.

[@christopherturner8596]

@@a.d.w8385 good grief!😰💦

[@jyde50]

not ALL black men are big. saying ALL is dumb , the fact is that black men on average are larger than any race.if you see one blackman with a 5 inch penis be sure that for that one black man there are one thousand white man with 5 inches.

[@amarelogan7081]

@Hopeless in Nyc I had a woman tell me anything under an 8 was small she said 8 was average she said a 9 was medium and anything over 10 was big...I've also had many women tell me I'm big and I'm only a 7 in a half....then I had some women tell me I'm average...so I've heard it all...

[@caramelbeauty3007]

@Richard Byfield Well black men sure are not taking responsibility of raising the men they father. Black women can't produce children by themselves. I bet your ass can't take responsibility for this one either. Dumb Ass!

[@tonacor1413]

I love black men because I love myself. There is a lot of black men that want black women and is with black women.

[@Loverlovelife]

I notice the two ladies that love black men so much is ringless 🤔 I guess black men don't love you that much to put a ring on it but the lady that dated out married that's what happens when you don't explore your option you end up on national tv ring less saying how much you love black men

[@pinkrain]

Danny D 😩oh damn..I mean it does make you wonder

[@rebeccahphan6401]

facts 💯💯💯

[@reclaimedandrested]

THANK YOU for pointing that out!

[@RUDYRAYYYMO]

Shut up white boy.

[@christopherturner8596]

Well you have to hink when this problem of single black woman came about. Back in the days the black household married and being single with kids was frowned up upon in the black community why has it changed so much now?

[@EO-jr7li]

Was this made in present day? “20 years since the legalization of interracial dating,” Loving V Virginia was decided in 1967.

[@turntableone4356]

EO 9981 53 years

[@morningsunshine0216]

Go get a calculator damn smh

[@sherrisolomon2843]

@@morningsunshine0216 lol!

[@Militantreturns]

Learn math

[@antatall3603]

Claudia said it was 20 years since they've legalized interracial relationships... Interacial relationahips were legalized in 1967 so thats 53 years ago not 20.....

[@loveafrica97]

Anta Tall ...

[@hankwilliams8939]

I feel the best thing to do in interracial couples learn each other's backgrounds and culture and don't change or sell out who you are. IF YOU BEING FAKE THE REAL LIFE SITUATIONS ARE GOING TO BREAK THE RELATIONSHIP ANYWAY, BE STRONG IN SELF AND YOU CAN HAVE ANYONE. A LOT OF OUTSIDERS WITH ISH TO SAY CAN'T GET A MATE IN ANY FASHION, THAT'S WHY THEY HATE!!!

[@kaki_karei]

Claudia is doing an amazing job! 👏🏾

[@domj8504]

Great discussion as usual. I have dated white men but I just love our black men. The swagga, mannerisms, strength, chocolate complexions and everything else that attract other women of other races to our men. Black men are amazing! 😍

[@TheMRS]

& do not forget THE SMELL..... 🤗 I wouldn't be able to have a non black man on top of me sweating w his hair sticking together on his face!! Just the thought of it makes ME gag.

[@domj8504]

@@TheMRS lol right the smell of a black man 🔥😍

[@Yna-u3g]

But, that's just physical...They may be aesthetically "amazing," but they are not amazing providers, protectors, builders, nor leaders...

[@blvckfiretrvpfire15]

And black women are amazing as well ❤ 💯

[@domj8504]

@@Yna-u3g lies that is a myth. You need to expose yourself to a better group of black men.

[@yalisaconner]

Would it be classified as "closed-minded," to say you only date a certain race?

[@swiitdoll]

yalisaconner no it’s not it’s a preference. I date only black and that’s my preference because I can totally be friends and colleagues with people from other races but I have zero sexual attraction to them.

[@sharpaycutie2]

No. Unless you're white then you're a "bigot"🙃

[@Khrys32]

If you're looking to date outside of your demographics (not just your cultural and ethnic background) one of the dealbreakers is seeing how the person is willing to access your environment: Your neighborhood, being around your friends and family, dating you in places you tend to frequent, etc.

[@ValonMaddox]

I love Claudia as a Host! I would like to see her hosting more!

[@HelloKitty8709]

How can you not like Claudia! She is such a sweetheart! This is her calling :)

[@ricorogers9319]

1 minute in, and there it is.."he had a beard, and he was tall"....Literally all these chicks care about..

[@officermills]

And he was fine! Being cute matters.

[@ricorogers9319]

@@officermills The thing is "tall with a beard" IS fine to them...😂😂 it's not facial features.....stupid I know

[@quinkareem181]

So I guess your short.

[@ricorogers9319]

@@quinkareem181 So I guess you wont address the point

[@kkingmusic13]

If a dude ghost you he not into you... stop setting for that bs or making excuses for theses dudes also men r more responsive to str8 to the point short responses it works

[@1life744]

Claudia is very beautiful

[@coreythomas3633]

1 Life bitch shut up

[@1life744]

@@coreythomas3633 why so angry? You dont agree that she is beautiful? Or cause I'm white?

[@coreythomas3633]

@@1life744 No you white folks pander to much it makes black people believe you care cuz ya DON'T

[@1life744]

@@coreythomas3633 I'm human you are human. I dont see a division

[@christiancoach9418]

This video gave me a lot of things to think about!! It was very interesting!!

[@deestevens2883]

Claudia said did you see his thang ?? Lol 😂🤣😅

[@reneamitchell7975]

So a man can identify as a woman and that's okay, but Rachel can't identify as black???

[@jayro792]

Renea Mitchell yes because your skin colour clearly dictates what race you are. Your sex/gender is dictated by your genitalia and hormones and if your hormones effect your body in a way where you have the inside of one sex but appear as the opposite sex on the outside. Then you will have identification issues. That’s totally different then having the reverence for another race to the extent that you identify as that race

[@ms.ladybug6186]

@@jayro792 👏👏👏

[@pinkrain]

Renea Mitchell helloooooo 😏 so agreed

[@accrualworld318]

@@jayro792 Could the "inside" really be psychological rather than hormonal? Js

[@RNM-bu4rj]

Jay R but that happens in less than one percent of transgender,who were born with ambiguous genitalia.And most of these situations are rectified when they are young.

[@dmoney9285]

Just came on here to say I’m white and I love black women lord knows 😍

[@ttp436]

Very interesting listen to each individual experience. It’s important and a must that we respect each individual’s experience because we have not walked in their shoes. It is a must if we are going to learn from each other to ensure the mistakes of the passed are not repeated

[@MyWorld-xw6ic]

I gave up on Tyrones. Getting ready for a date now with a non black guy.

[@anon5091]

Don't have kids by a pale if you believe in the Bible.

[@SIGMAMAN69]

So?

[@Phillymall]

Rachel was a minstrel show, walking around in black face.

[@Laura-sg6ss]

Just open up your options Black women. We have options🤷🏽‍♀️

[@naga7461]

🤣🤣

[@lauraholton7306]

I’ve always loved Claudia! I used to wish I had a black mom too.. I’ve always related to Claudia Jordan on so many levels. She looks amazing... totally goals for me

[@melaninmoxiellc963]

We attract who we are. If you don't work on yourself and figure out why you keep attracting the same negative outcome, dating interracially won't change anything...you'll still get the same bad results.

[@whisperingwhiskerss4877]

It was very good to see all different view points.

[@Onelovekeepcalm]

The woman in red is so cringey!!! Alot of bm worship going on there.. 🤢

[@demam4648]

Claudia is biracial shes only half black yet She seems to identify as a light skin black women. Biracial is different from light skin black

[@claudiajordanreal]

I dont even identify as light skinned. I identify as a black woman

[@RJ25255]

@@claudiajordanreal tell em sis!! Lol

[@dalion7790]

@claudia Jordan A black woman is the correct label. The dominate gene is the black gene✊🗣🗣

[@RyeMOE]

Because she has to constantly defend her blackness which over shadows her Italian side...racism will never allow her identify solely with her white side!

[@serveriamanning6313]

@@jesuisleconqueror you are the idiot..lol. Claudia is a BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMAN!

[@mmfogar]

The mind set of the women on this panel is why the majority of black women are and will remain single and/or dissatisfied with their romantic lives. You have the exact relationship with your mate you want and deserve.

[@405boy4]

As a black man I've dated both black women and white women. In fact, My oldest daughters are Biracial and my 3 kids from my Ex-wife are black. I'm not going to say one race of women are better than the other, but if I were to get married again, I'd prefer a black woman. No knock on white women tho.

[@patriciamckennie5373]

Interracial marriage in the United States has been fully legal in all U.S. states since the 1967 Supreme Court decision that deemed anti-miscegenation state laws unconstitutional.

[@tiazeta]

Patricia McKennie where they get 20 years ago from???? Now I’m gonna fact check everything they say.

[@4daluvofnikki]

Yes since June 1967. 52 years ago. I wasn't sure I heard them correctly. I should have rewound the video but I was busy. I have no clue where they got their erroneous information from.

[@DRoyale1]

Lol, I’m not an “alpha male” by any means...I’m a dark black male that just works hard and tries his absolute best...I know I that amongst my ppl I’m not desired...but I still do what I do, my nieces and nephews look up to me and I keep trying hard in spite of...lol, according to my own ppl I suck...

[@cachaygreen9641]

DRoyale1 I am a darkskin black female and I feel like the darksin man in our community is a prize!❤

[@amarelogan7081]

@T Martin u should be embarrassed for yourself..cause if your man ain't a prize then u ma'am is settling🤷‍♂️

[@cachaygreen9641]

T Martin I know that the woman is the prize and that the man chases her. I was just saying that the black man is a prize and should be treated as such and not everybody hates you is what Im referring to. I think the most beautiful man is the God fearing black man. If thats embarrassing to you, you are entitled to your opinion❤

[@morningsunshine0216]

T Martin exactly it’s so sad DS BW YOU R THE PRIZE!!

[@SIGMAMAN69]

Yet the very same black women who would reject your for being boring for not having a criminal record or too dark would shit bricks if you dated outside the race

[@TheAlkebulanTrust]

Never go into dating and relationships with the mindset of wanting to be with a particular "race" tribes we can just about get as you want to uphold the traditions say for example #IgboCulture but other than that you should go into dating and relationships with knowing what your role and position is as a man or a woman and live out that role. The problem is so many don't know how roles and relationships actually work. So they move by trial and error and get hurt and then blame a particular "race" and then decide well let's date another "race" and then realize it's not them it's you whether you have good experiences or bad experiences...true or facts?

[@Butterflyyyy9]

Exactly

[@brooklynzflyybabez]

Did Claudia Jordan just say Interracial Dating became legal 20 years ago as in 2000..someone please point her to google.

[@claudiajordanreal]

I know. it was in the prompter. We all know it was in the 60s when they allowed interracial marriages. mistakes happen

[@RNM-bu4rj]

claudia jordan There’s even a movie about that couple....I think it’s called ‘loving’

[@yaelsmileysimckes2662]

So interesting. I am Jewish and tried dating non-Jewish men. Our antennae are always on and we are hyper-aware of racism and anti-Semitism, which many white non-Jews are totally oblivious of. In the end, I moved to Israel and married an American, Jewish man. No more justifying or raising awareness. Now, let's solve see of the hatred!