The Compliment He's Dying To Hear (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

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[@MilesWithMila]

It's so true! I had very love self-esteem when I was little. I liked one guy in our school and he knew it but he liked another girl. And one day, our teacher called pairs, girl and boy. And we had to say something about each other that is true, doesn't matter if is it good or bad. My classmates said different things about each other, good and bad. And suddenly, our teacher called me and that guy. No one knew I liked him. It was just random action. And in front of the class, of 30 teenagers, he said that I am very beautiful, clever, and funny. Beautiful... No one laughed or made any comments. It was like something quite obvious. I was 13. It changed my internal world forever. I'm 44 now. And I still remember that day, that guy, every single word, and my reaction.

[@sabat8068]

So sweet...

[@BronwynAlexandriaa]

As a 23 year old woman who’s never been in a relationship and had zero experience with men, these videos are VERY helpful on how to be a genuine person with integrity

[@a.m.thomas9366]

Beautiful !

[@hhunstad2011]

Agreed, I'm 35 and find them extremely helpful!

[@warmlavender5525]

Agreed! I feel like I don’t have to pretend to be someone else to be attractive but just be more conscious of things I already do that I should do more of

[@amylama7583]

Im 28 and never had experience being in a relationship so Im following this videos thank you 🙏 😊

[@vhayashi7369]

Men will play you, I'm not dumb and have been played a lot. Too many narcissists and games. I was married to my best friend and he cheated and abandoned me with babies. All my friends have been rejected after having kids with their man. Please be careful don't let them ruin your life. I am on a mission to tell young women. All the women I know are not that happy with their husbands or they've been screwed over. Make sure you are financially ok and not depending on them and don't put up with disrespect. It's hard to find a good guy after your 20s and when they're young they're immature. After 30 they're all damaged. And I keep attracting men who pretend to be straight. Watch out for that.

[@pansyflower9697]

If you tell a guy that he is very attractive and he thinks he is a geek... He will love you forever.. Tell a guy who has to much ego he is attractive you get nothing in return

[@begumyalcin7468]

:( sadly

[@paused8854]

+Pansy Flower So true. Go for the loving geek, I say. Those guys with the ego and big following of sighing girls, not mentioning any names, rarely deserves the attention nearly as much as those loving ones who recieve so little of it. Pisses me off!

[@RM-of4bu]

+Pansy Flower he said don't compliment the obvious

[@gracesalvador2010]

the best way to impress the egoistic men is ignore them, challenge them mysteriously and he will go crazy about you..show them that you're not that desperate and play with their game of love.

[@tyanthony-james9091]

+Gbc Means Love But let's say the guy is attractive and just so happens to be shy because his entire life women and men have ignored him and have tried to attack his confidence because they so insecure about his attractiveness, comparing themselves to him, when in fact they are just so desperately needy and possessive of him, making him believe this entire time that he is not attractive. Might mess up his entire life, but women are selfish and manipulative by nature. It's really up to the man to dominate her socially and let her know that he is attracted to her by touching her and by simply being a man.

[@xmine08]

"The Compliment He's Dying To Hear" Any compliment, really.

[@kikinatrone]

Ikr

[@livinglifejaybyjay3063]

Hahahaha

[@thetruepuresoul]

xmine08 😂🤣🤣 exactly like girls we love compliments as well.....humans lol

[@annemarielabreche]

Ahahah

[@ararune3734]

@@thetruepuresoul Yeah no shit, you should try giving them sometimes instead of just receiving them.

[@SuperWowstyle]

Oh he should make a video on 'how to get matthew hussey' ♥♥♥♥♥ He is soo HAWTT!

[@mikalaroco9413]

Im sure that is part of his 10% complement

[@yuliag9655]

I think there's a ring)

[@janinarenner3723]

***** naah I don't think that's a wedding ring :P

[@yuliag9655]

Janina Renner I thought it was because he's from Europe where it's on the right hand. But you may be right because I later learned he lives in US now :)

[@colleenroberts404]

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[@patie_tariro]

Who is here after 5 years😂😂😂 I love Matt's examples. They are so real and practical he makes everything easy to understand and apply.

[@teresai1877]

I'm here! Preparing for whenever I find Mr. Right :-).

[@reillybab1]

🙋🏻‍♀️

[@naomicranston9972]

'if you see something good in others - speak it' such great advice

[@mysweettlife]

Sometimes I'm afraid to give people compliments. Because I don't want them to think that it means more than it does. Like just because I say someone is handsome does not mean that I'm interested in having any type of relationship beyond friendship.

[@gabrielasofia4816]

You only would say that to people you would wish to have an interaction with. Why would you tell someone that he is handsome if you are not interested in being with him or dating with him.

[@nicoletakasamas9201]

@@gabrielasofia4816 you are right

[@barbaragolden3620]

JW McCabe exactly!! Thank you

[@silver_sixth]

Thank you lol

[@cookiemonster7099]

@@gabrielasofia4816 I'd say it to anyone; when I see art, I simply praise it.

[@thusharividanagamachchi9779]

When we were young, we did this. Compliment someone to a third party. It’s because we don’t have the confidence to say it to their face. My ex was not generous at compliments. Even when he did, they were backhanded. So I’ve learned to compliment people without a moment’s hesitation. It creates such an uplifting feeling for everyone. Life is beautiful when we make each other feel good.

[@pricklypair4377]

Prayers, I am about to compliment my crush with no one around for comfort sunday, oh boy I am nervous.

[@ararune3734]

So you've learned...meaning you did not give people compliments, yet you whine about not being given compliments. I swear, most women when they get a compliment they're just like "thanks" and never, ever give one proactively or even reactively.

[@thusharividanagamachchi9779]

@@ararune3734 I’m always appreciative of compliments. I’m talking about giving compliments. For example, when I was young and found a guy cute, I would not say it to their face because it felt awkward. It takes a certain courage to pay someone a compliment because one never knows how it will be received.

[@ararune3734]

@@thusharividanagamachchi9779 It does take some courage. When I was a teen, I wouldn't give any compliments, not because I didn't mean it, but because it was just awkward and didn't know how to say it, it's exposing yourself. Nowadays I give many compliments and I've learnt to be a much more supportive person. Though I still never will compliment a woman on her looks, just because of the sheer amount of hurt and emasculation I've been through, it makes me uneasy to show anything that can be interpreted as interest. The most I did was compliment a uni colleague on her outfit.

[@thusharividanagamachchi9779]

@@ararune3734 it’s so relatable. I’m sorry to hear you had to go through these experiences and they make us hold back our authentic expression and women can react to compliments in a negative way because of their own trauma. When we’ve been wounded, compliments can hurt because they remind us of the unworthiness we’ve experienced growing up. I believe the best way to heal ourselves and others is to express what we feel in our heart through complements, regardless of how the other person receives it. It’s all about healing our collective emotions and feelings of unworthiness.

[@heatherdurds]

this is so true.. it's such a great feeling when someone says things about your character rather than your looks. i'd rather be told i'm funny than that i'm attractive because it shows that's not the only thing they see you as.

[@roseann_ramos6434]

its good to be praise by your character rather than your looks!.. looks change character dont!.. #slowclap #hisAWESOME :D

[@nadiirly]

true but coming from experience, it's not that great 😔

[@George-vd5tz]

@@nadiirly Hmmmnnn, I'd love to hear about why u think it's not.

[@nadiirly]

@@George-vd5tz ngl i totally forgot i wrote that comment so i have idea what i was even talking about lmao

[@nadiirly]

@@George-vd5tz oh! i think i was referring to being called 'funny' or 'nice' sucks if the person was kind of implying that you're ugly :/

[@sweetisaduff]

This guy looks like a mix between Patrick Dempsey and Daniel Radcliffe lol

[@alyden567]

grace m cuter than Patrick D.

[@deanieblades3244]

You're right he does .

[@kalaylaekdom7912]

He totally does!!

[@adargopatil]

grace m I know right!!!

[@ChiselKilas]

I think he looks like Tom Felton haha

[@ATrueLoveOfficial]

I soooo agree on this. I used to tell my bf, "Pa, you're so handsome" And he would just laugh. But everytime I complimented him about something deep, he would literally pause for a moment and then said, "Thank you, I love you" with sparkling look in his eyes.

[@DefensePlayer4]

I love this! It makes me think of what you say in your book "Get the Guy": "It's fun to make someone smile by offering a compliment, or asking their advice, or displaying interest in a book they might be reading. People, no matter who they are, feel good about themselves when someone notices them."

[@sharipeterson1126]

When I was 10 years old a couple on an airplane kept staring at me, and then told my mom right in front of me that I was beautiful and should be in modeling. Never in my life had anyone said that about me. I thought I was ugly and very plain. Now I make sure to always find things to compliment people about. It sure made a difference in my life because I had no self esteem whatsoever.

[@nicholecollett5982]

I found out what my boyfriend's love language is and was surprised to realize that I had been doing it the whole time we'd been together. His is words of affirmation and I always tell him how proud of him I am and how great he is at things that he excels at in life. It has taken our relationship to such a deeper level of commitment and connection. I couldn't imagine a more perfect man for me. For all the women saying Matthew is the perfect man, remember there's no such thing. He is human and I'm sure he has many flaws. He's found a nice way to make a living and he goes with that but u don't see what goes on when the camera is off. I'm sure he's a great man, but no one is perfect.. However for each and every one there is someone who is perfect FOR YOU!

[@George-vd5tz]

Wow... Thanks for spilling out this raw truth, it's so amazing the way u said it. I'm sure many of them know this deep down but prefer to say that to compliment Matthew and make themselves feel good.

[@Ari_diwan]

What an intelligent comment 👏

[@thusharividanagamachchi9779]

Awesome. Matthew sure looks like the perfect man in that light blue shirt 😃

[@t.lc.777]

I too found my perfect for me partner recently. Worth the wait, I had to be very patient. I worked on myself while single and followed my North Star. Then the universe worked its magic…put your intentions out there, live your life, and love will find you in the most miraculous ways. ❤

[@nicholecollett5982]

@@t.lc.777 Congratulations!! It honestly is amazing finding your true "perfect for you partner"! When I commented this so long ago I thought the relationship I was in at the time was it for me, I later found out that it wasn't and it was one of the worst heart breaks I've ever experienced in my life. However, I spent the next 2 years working on myself, rediscovering who I am on my own and learning to love the real me outside of being with someone else. I am now engaged to my TRUE "PERFECT FOR ME" person and although the road isn't always paved with smooth asphalt and we have to dodge potholes and bounce over gravel and even go through some mud at times, our love is always strong enough to overcome it.. I will say that we have found that communication is most definitely the key to overcoming the battles. but it's not just the communication, You both have to be willing to say "I'm sorry"...

[@Dinahsaurs]

I've compliment a guy I've been with before but every time I say something nice about him he doesn't believe it. It's very difficult.

[@colleenc.8051]

+Colleen C hello name twin

[@HToothrot]

+Colleen C do you want advice from a random guy on the internet? Don't call him 'sweet' or 'nice' or 'cute'. Call him a gentleman or handsome

[@Dinahsaurs]

I have a man and I call him handsome every chance I get. :) Thanks

[@cloudyskeyes1592]

+Colleen C I like to be called sweet. I also like to be called hot ;)

[@Dinahsaurs]

+BrawlingGrizzlyBearProductions Thanks for your input but I'm going to call my man handsome if he is. I've said sweet and hot too and I've had no complaints so far.

[@TheSarahRose131313]

I soooo get this! One time my friend said " you know what Sarah, your really funny, your soo funny!" I instantly felt so bloody good!

[@brunettehair1]

Can this man be any more attractive? He speaks eloquently, he's funny, and he's English!!

[@rosegarcia2371]

kcjjfjd rkfjfj I know. I am learning tons from his videos but there are no cuties like him out there. He is so lively, witty, ahhhhhhhh. The real men pale in comparison.

[@beeb2169]

kcjjfjd rkfjfj very personable

[@juniper10]

GoomyWoomy he's not

[@nora22000]

@kiwibrown It's the accent. Dreams of him reading Shakespearean sonnets...

[@katrinaoliver4167]

No, he can not be.

[@amberlucito1068]

I took your advice and used it in a third date with a guy I really like tonight and it definitely worked. He referred to me as a “rare bird”. Thank you for being so helpful and honest.

[@afra2159]

His friend's story is adorable

[@saimazameer1470]

afra alfalasi

[@rosegarcia2371]

afra alfalasi I have not even listened to his speech cuz he looks so cute in that shirt!

[@brandib264]

I tell my boyfriend when go out for dinner or drinks etc how lucky I am that I get to take the hottest guy in the bar home. He lights up like a Christmas tree and I'm not lying most of the time!😉🎄

[@celestinac1105]

Brandi Bernethy awwwwww

[@judithhermes6593]

aaaaawww...lovely

[@sitongliu923]

Awwww!! My heart

[@artistic_mama2295]

Lol

[@artistic_mama2295]

I like the “most of the time” part....!

[@DianaThermopolis]

This is so true. A little over 15 years ago an ex boyfriend told me loved I was so brave. To this day, it really helps me do things and get on with stuff. The power of the compliment. I might not be as brave as I am today if he hadn’t seen that in my fifteen year old self.

[@jenniferinderlee9396]

Compliment openly! No need to be shy. Early on in my life with great losses it has been learned we may only have so much time with someone and that one good thing, one compliment, one generous exchange of genuine truth could change the entire course of someones day. I believe it is important to give the compliment when there is an impulse to. It feels good to make others feel good about themselves too. Yet, it must always be with truth.

[@Anna-vd1nh]

This makes so much sense! I've never realised how often we miss telling the person rather than the third party something positive about them!

[@elky360]

Godamnit Mathew that blue shirt on you is just... I can't.

[@rhodacampbell]

When I receive a compliment, I always see it has a lovely reflection on how astute and generous the person is. It’s nice to have good feels all round and that’s what sincere compliments do :) nice video Matthew, like the two levels- going deeper . Thanks

[@George-vd5tz]

Very true, compliments are very good.. They bring a sense of appreciation and help the partner to be even a better partner.

[@GabrielaCenturionNeumann]

Nice advice! I love finding what people are good at! I love finding even the most little thing that make them unique and special and tell them about it. Not only because it makes them feel good and it makes me feel good as well, but because I believe that when people feel appreciated even in the small things, it makes them want to do more, to do better. I won't lie nor over-compliment, but I will always try to find the good in everyone :)

[@cocojenise]

I loved your comment. Positivity all around!

[@GabrielaCenturionNeumann]

cocojenise Awww! Thank you for taking the time to reply :) Have a lovely day or night... whenever you might read this!

[@nkosiguduza2131]

you should investigate me :) and tell me what you like about me :) aha

[@soneelita]

***** I over-complimented sum1 n now i regret it !

[@GabrielaCenturionNeumann]

soneelita​ Well, that can happen too. We're all human and we're all in the learning process. But don't let that one mistake take you away the joy that comes from making others happy by finding their good side and telling them about it, OK? You'll do great, I'm sure :)

[@gone.sailing]

I complemented him today oh my gossh , i said, " i really like your hair cut". and then he started a converstation about his barber and stuff and told me he liked my eye brows 👀

[@jessicajenson3480]

I am amazed. This guy is super smart.

[@FireSilver25]

I needed to hear this. I've dated soooo many narcissists that giving compliments just sucks me into their manipulations. And in romantic situations I feel I need to have the upper hand. I hope I can learn to just relax and be ME!

[@evaannmarie]

Hey Matthew - Im a counselor working with people on Probation/parole and have CPS cases. Within the curriculum that we use, 1 of the sessions is on “giving and receiving compliments”. I’m so glad you brought this topic up. This is one of my favorite sessions to teach/facilitate. I have everyone pass around the group a piece of paper with their name on it and everyone has a chance to write a compliment. Then I give my patients an opportunity to read the compliments others wrote. They then journal about how the compliments made them feel. Often times, this is the first time someone has said something nice about them. I love watching how people leave the group that day - high up on the clouds!

[@POONyukfai]

Man you just give such good advice for anyone in general to become a better person and create better relationship with others. Thank you for being such an honest and giving person! Wish you the best! x

[@writerspen010]

I try to do this a lot with people.--I feel like you had another video like this a few years ago, and it's what kick-started this habit in me.--I feel like doing this not only helped look deeper into the people I know, but also helped me become a bit more outgoing and honest with those around me. And I noticed that some of the people I would compliment regularly started speaking their minds more not long after I made the effort. Kindness is contagious it seems :)

[@bananaisyuk23]

Please do more videos like this Matthew! Little tips that can make a huge difference, I love it!

[@quilequila]

It's a great thing to be specific about what you like about another person, and then share that with them. It can build vulnerability and intimacy, even on a smaller level. It is equally valid and important to supply that affirmation for yourself, to yourself... It's important to be enough for yourself 1st; or else you can risk being someone who is searching for compliments and validation because of personal insecurities.

[@danielamaria1465]

Why Jameson never answers? 😂

[@felonyharlem2219]

Attractive, smart, charming, and secure. What a great combination! Keep being you Matthew!

[@katharinah.334]

Giving him compliments all the time :) I also like to compliment my female friends. Everyone is happy about such a thing.

[@ssmith968]

wow. that was one of the best tips that hardly anyone, including myself, is aware of. I'm always trying to make sure they don't know my feelings lol

[@resawohlrabe2749]

Just recently, I've been complimented on that other 90%! I've been working outside doing yardwork and my husband just out of the blue mentioned that he likes the fact that I like working in the yard because I have a "vision" for landscaping. And I was like... huh... that's really strange, but I really liked it, and I can't stop thinking about it! It's been a week! Totally makes sense:)

[@NaturalDivineGoddess]

"People Like People Who LIKE THEM Maybe if You SHOW That You Like Someone They're more Likely to like YOU.."

[@TheMichellearc]

I felt so unusual as a woman complimenting others for what I felt was pretty neat about them. Once it came to mind, I would tell them. It didn't matter whether or not I knew you. Having heard Matt say in this video, "tell them...," helps me feel like I'm doing it right. :)

[@aliciaguiang9679]

Matthew, with your program you made me feel I'm in my 20's again! I enjoy listening to your program! Thanks for sharing!

[@happycustomer1046]

So true. I always tell people their amazing traits from my heart, you don’t know when your going to make someone’s day with that one comment and uplift them for a long time to come

[@itsnygeria]

I took your advice from another video!!! I’ve been talking to a guy I met online for a week now, we’d already been talking everyday from good morning until we fell asleep. In the video I watched you mentioned taking the initiative to have a phone call with your interest. So, I asked him to video call when he said he wanted to have another deep conversation like we’d previously done- we started a FaceTime call at 11 pm & stayed on the phone until 5 IN THE MORNING burning through conversations, sharing stories, & it ended with him asking if he could take me on a date!! Thank you SO much for your advice, it definitely helped us move to the next steps of getting to know one another!!

[@elleari89]

How true! Funny enough I instantly fell for a guy who took a moment to really see me and gave me such insight into myself, and he even complimented me on things i never thought anyone saw in me. needless to say, he and i dated for 2years :)

[@ayamewilliams2065]

This is a valuable tip. No only for getting a guy/girl, but rather for making friends in general. We all have our insecurities, and having someone just tell you something new and good about yourself can make a world of difference.

[@Nina-vv3ev]

I could picture little Matthew being “fun” and spinning around lol

[@ericasun2121]

I love your accent!!. You are so handsome!!!

[@DeeLaBee]

two things to say: 1) Your accent is really neat, and no, i'm not saying that because of the video :D 2) I know what you mean. I like that, when people complement me to my face. I also like when people notice something new and instead of asking why i did that or saying (for example) 'You got a HAIRCUT!' it's nice when they say (calmly) 'I like your haircut!' 3) Another complement: i like that you're people-smart. That's a good thing! I like to watch your videos!!!

[@joshuaroybosse]

Hazel Daly i

[@ReddArrow]

Excellent video. I want to make a vlog episode about this point. We don't complement a lot as human beings, it's easier to judge people because it takes less courage and effort, but with complimenting, people think about the risks of rejection and what they don't think about is the fact that they might change someone's day in one sentence. Thanks for inspiring me!

[@practicallyheidi8505]

That is just really good, simple advice. We all remember the people that gave us those kind of compliments. Thanks.

[@Karen-uu5fj]

The things you say are scary brilliant - i knew this on an instinctual level but recognized it first now when you pointed it out, its so obvious now that you have said it, yet I have never thought about it like this before :D keep doing what you are doing man, you don't only give advice on guys but you help regain women's confidence and that's beautiful, so thank you for doing what you do :)

[@agotacsaszar43]

To me this goes down to the mere fact that if someone gets good feeling from you they will come back for more and compliments give good feelings anyway 😊

[@Khanarium]

Matt i'll leave my compliment to you " You really make a great contribution to this world " :)

[@kdeloris2225]

You are so right about that because people like feeling special both men an woman

[@francesariannetaron1020]

you look like ryan gosling i like him ;)

[@SuperNdo0osh]

even better

[@vamanosninja4143]

I think he looks like Orlando Bloom.

[@SuperNdo0osh]

Vamanos Ninja orlando + ryan = mathew lol

[@vamanosninja4143]

***** Totally :) British accent and brown hair from Orlando, facial features from Ryan.

[@Patrizia4Christ]

My Compliment to You today and the part of "90 %" I see in you. You are consistent!

[@reinaramosable]

Hi Mat. Can I get an advise on how to date you? ;)

[@TheAna1616]

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[@AshleenKaur]

reina ramos lol how old is he anyway?

[@r.ianuhh]

....

[@annagold86]

Now, in 2016 he is 29 :)

[@deluluma]

Taehyung's Stuffed Elephant army everywhere

[@valeriecollura]

This is such great advice on a human level. How often I’ve probably missed taking the opportunity to make others feel good about themselves!

[@Rima-ll5pe]

The reason no one tells us our nice things is bcs we ourselves do not recognise and acknowledge them. Once we stop focusing on our flaws, and begin to highlight our positive traits, we will begin to attract more compliments in our lives. 💗

[@miladorotea2338]

I agree that ppl forget to compliment I usually do make a meaningful compliment and it’s amazing to see their face light up

[@bakalovinamvz]

This video is the blatant truth! Take notes everybody!

[@gracegrace790]

I got complimented today after a guy saw me smile.. and they said I had a beautiful smile that changed my day, and people treated me differently because I felt better about myself! it's the little things. so I responded maybe a little ....silly but said thank you and merry christmas! and smiled again at them. I don't smile much as I am very shy, so people have to catch a smile to see it; im bashful.

[@KattLover5412]

Oh my god my crush does this all of the time. He has completely won me over, but I have no idea if hes flirting or its just his nature.

[@luckymodestar]

matthew you have gold advices that changes my life and helps me a loot thaaank you

[@hipnhappenin]

Nope. I compliment people all the time. For their character, work ethic, looks. Anything. And all to no avail. Even my really mean ex used to ask why I loved him (because he never believed me) and I gave him truthful answers, even though he treated me horribly. He ended up cheating on me, breaking up with me, and to this day continues to torment me

[@pinkmuffin9842]

So true for girls as well. I was always told that I was smart and everyone told me only that. Last night a man I was sleeping with interrupted for a second and said "you are beautiful" (not in english but that doesn't matter). I've never been told that and it might seem superficial to some, but it totally made my day, maybe even my weekend.

[@heatherkotrla7323]

He's truly brilliant and he's giving the best advise and not trying to rip people off and charging an arm and a leg. I love his intelligence,knowledge, wisdom,and passion for wanting to help people fall and stay in love I give it 5 stars... And he's super HOTTT

[@anthonyburwell2860]

So true especially men we don't always get compliments

[@lindithomas8291]

Thank you Matthew Hussey. Coming from a Life Coaching background.. And sharing your videos with my guy friends..(which can even imply to them and their insecurities) you have broadened my mind and my standards. Just a suggestion.. I know your videos focus primarily on woman but maybe you should expand and give some guys tips too. When I share your vids with them they are like.. Wow.. I wish I didn't put girls on "pedestals" that make us too shy to talk to.. or do that thing that he said we do. Thanks for being the voice of reason that we so often need.

[@GeonelleRoseFineArts]

I imagine that you're essentially mr Rogers for adults. Love it!! Absolutely adore this advice.

[@TheLovely990]

I try to give compliments as well, when its in my head.

[@amandagioia1]

I throw great qualities at every one that part no one sees. I get the same obvious comments a lot so I know what it feels like for ppl not to see you.

[@corastory4817]

I once told someone that they looked like they should be on a magazine - that their style was that good. One of my friends heard me say it, and they called me "a Gem" - compliment on top of compliment

[@blacksheep9772]

Totally agree. I paint funny designs on cars (just cause) & get comments about the paint job everywhere i go, am used to it. But one day was driving through a drivethrough in one of these cars. When the The young guy working at the window saw the car, he said "I like the way you express yourself". It was so different and unique to the usual and standard comments i receive. I will always remember that. Thankyou to that random guy at KFC Mawson Lakes (South Australia) 😃❤❤❤

[@Gg-rssystG8]

Absolutely right and if people don't like you because you're not 15 there's not much you can do about it.

[@Shasha8674]

I agree people don't validate others enough during conversation and tell them encouraging things maybe since they are not feeling good about themselves...so feel less if they compliment the other person. I can't respond fast....everything is delayed...like an Autistic person..may say it in my head, but not out loud. You can usually tell by a person's expressions what they are thinking without saying the words.

[@watchwoman16]

I said a prayer to Thank God for you, Matthew Hussey. You have an uncanny gift for identifying human behavior and decoding it. It’s teaching an old lady like me of 53 what to do. Who says you can’t teach an old dog new tricks? 😉

[@marlaheiler2796]

53 is NOT old...🙃

[@4.1132]

Have a tendency to be too honest so sometimes I just randomly throw out oddly specific compliments for people... which tends to earn me very confusedly pleased yet irritated stares (especially from my male friends) 😂

[@mikimiki-s9g]

Hi, dear Matthew. I found this techniques work well with most of the guys but it didn't work for my ex. I was involved in a verbally abusive relationship. When I told him the compliments he told me . 'awww, you are not too bad yourself...'At that moment, I sense something wrong. Then he became quite verbally abusive like calling me awful names, trying to push me down, saying he is too successful for me . I broke up with him, then he said I am controlling and abusive because I broke up with him. I took his stereotype comments personally for 8 months after the broke up. Yesterday I went to the therapist, I decide to move on. After the session I understood I was in a verbal abusive relationship for so long since the beginning. I think many women experienced that . Matthew, I look up to you a lot, could you please do a episode on 'verbally abusive relationship' and how to walk out of the abusive situation. Thank you so much. Miki

[@andreahoyosl]

Have no idea how I ended up in your channel. But I'm subscribed already! I Loved these tips about complimments. You are so smart and sensitive. Greetings from Ecuador. 

[@MagdalenaH]

A compliment for you Matthew that under the surface of dating advice you are exceptionally inspiring when it comes to business relations. thank you!

[@LiriTheDisneyFan]

Very valuable. It's the small details within daily communication that make the difference.

[@evekansas1464]

like your smile Matthew so innocent 😢love it 😊

[@BinaBinaBee]

The other day a girl told me that I should have a talk show because I'm so funny. That compliment made my entire life!!

[@catataf]

A lot of what you said is such great advice in general, not just for dating or flirting. Compliment others, notice them, be kind!

[@NinjaBunni13]

"I'M COOOOOOOOTTT!!!! SHE THINKS I'M COOOTT! I'M COOOOOOOOOOTTT!"

[@elsie132]

😂😂

[@lilacw]

Wanna hear something silly? I'm often complimented about being smart. I'm often teased about being too kind (that I'm a pushover). Last summer, a lady told me I had a beautiful smile. And no one had ever told me that before. (I have a huge insecurity about my crooked teeth.) She made me light up the whole trip and she still does whenever I think of her compliment, whether it was genuine or not.

[@themeek01]

I agree. Ive definitely gotten better at giving compliments over time. It was not something I was really taught. Good advice :)

[@iam6Machine]

I just told my man, “ Did you know Matthew Hussey?, He’s damn so hot, but you are triple hotter than him, baby.” And my man lights up like a fire works!!! Lol 😂

[@pooja350]

He's one lucky guy haha

[@a.m.thomas9366]

😂 STOP MESSING WITH THE MAN.

[@g7show]

Wow, I am just starting to date again at the young age of 59, I look great, just have to lose a few pounds and I working on that-but Matthews tips are so right on-so simplistically practical and I am sure effective if not for him ( my date tomorrow ) for me to feel better and more confident on taking this journey to find a life's partner for the next 40 years of my life- thank you Matthew . . . Pamela from California

[@MeliLeani]

Sweet buttery biscuits when Matt put his hand in his hair... 😳😍

[@BexHuggins]

I am still on auto pilot with aggressive / passive aggressive - this helps me snap out of it! thanks!

[@jobellesephine1495]

Excellent, thanks Matt. Oh and Jamieson ~ great taping and recording. Love to you too babe!

[@vamanosninja4143]

This is the best he's looked of all his videos I've watched (which I started doing today.)

[@shphonic]

KZbinCrush Right there. Hes so intelligent..Educating us all. No we don't tend to voice what we thinking in the moment. Sometimes it good to speak our minds ;-) Thanks for all your advice Matt...I'm learning fast. Just saying Hi from the UK.

[@northernrokz79]

Thank you #MathewHussey for your videos. I just found you and I watch you every second I can. I have been with husband for 15 years and married 10. I had been feeling routine in our relationship. I want for from myself and him. Thanks to your advise I feel I can step forward and grow. You are amazing. ♡

[@northernrokz79]

'more'

[@veneeroyc3967]

Beautiful, love listening to you Matthew

[@alea5586]

That was a great tip! I usually compliment people on looks, for example when I see a nice scarf or a cool hairdo. Somehow I'm always shy to compliment them in something deeper because I fear that they think I'm clingy or annoying or something... weird, I know!