Traits that predict and cause illness: 1. Automatic concern for other people's (emotional) needs above your own 2. A rigid identification with duty, role, and responsibility 3. Repressed (and/or suppressed) emotions 4. (Self-limiting) beliefs: 5. Responsibility for other people's emotions 6. "I must NEVER disappoint ANYONE..." So, When there’s a disagreement, when I need to say YES or when I need to say NO, when I need to state my needs, and ask for them to be met... When I need to create boundaries... There's a possibility and a probability, that someone will inevitably, most likely, be disappointed in me... So I engage in every encounter, interaction, and relationship... In a way that ensures, that the person disappointed in me... NEVER ends up being me! I aim to never repress, never suppress. I aim to never lose parts of myself. Radical honesty only: 100% of the time. Always, all ways. I NO LONGER HAVE MY VOICE SILENCED. I ROAR!!! ‼‼‼‼‼‼‼‼
@LewisPsychology6 ай бұрын
I love this. Thanks for sharing. Best wishes, Teresa.
@ClarionAkhanolu-nq7by26 күн бұрын
Was finding it difficult to understand all that goes on in the unconscious mind, this video was straight to the point and detailed, thank you.
@healforreal956611 ай бұрын
I love the iceberg analogy. It's a very clear explanation of the model. 😊
@LewisPsychology11 ай бұрын
Thanks for your support. Best wishes, Teresa.
@GodHelpMe3697 ай бұрын
how do I heal? how do I swim through the oceans of grief? how to release the rage? why must I suffer? and how do I stop suffering?
@adrianmiles76786 ай бұрын
Have the courage to choose to face what’s in ur subconscious, no matter what it is and find a therapist who does EMDR. I’m 4 years in to the hard slog but can only say this about it. It’s the most meaningful journey you will ever take in life!
@waynezahra92137 ай бұрын
This woman’s explanation is spot on. She has a great way of explaining. Have you seen other KZbins videos trying to explain? They actually like the sound of their own voices and forget what their purpose is. -True story.
@LewisPsychology7 ай бұрын
Thank you for your support. Best wishes, Teresa.
@waynezahra92137 ай бұрын
@@LewisPsychology Good morning Teresa. Have a great day. The power of our mind creates our world right? 🙏❤️
@LewisPsychology13 күн бұрын
Yes ❤️
@stevebatty77336 ай бұрын
When I was around I was bitten in the face by a black lab while in our front yard. My father came running when he heard my screams. I only know of the event because my father related the event to me many years later. There used to be a few small scares along my hair line and have long since disappeared. I can never remember having a fear of dogs. I attribute this to how my father reacted to the event as he examined my face. My father was a small town MD and a had a very calming nature with me and his patients. He frequently told me Steve, don’t let fear control your life. Except for my college years and two years in the USAF I have always had a dog in my life. Sometimes more than one. Thanks Dad for being there for me.
@LewisPsychology6 ай бұрын
Your father’s calm reassurance certainly made all the difference here. Thanks for sharing your story. Best wishes, Teresa.
@malakdarraj4943 Жыл бұрын
The way you talk is so soothing 🫶
@LewisPsychology Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. Best wishes, Teresa.
@harastefanou49407 ай бұрын
I enjoyed the shift from the iceberg image to that of the puzzle because it aligns with Lacan’s idea that the three topographies are actually one the same surface level and it’s a matter of connecting them.
@LewisPsychology7 ай бұрын
Glad you like it. Best wishes, Teresa.
@perusewithme9 ай бұрын
you teach better than my psychology teacher😭. Loved it fr!!😭💖
@LewisPsychology9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. Best wishes, Teresa.
@jamieestavez77528 ай бұрын
Thanks for the short yet detailed video. I have an exam on Tuesday and am trying to simplify my revision and this has helped. 😊
@LewisPsychology8 ай бұрын
Best of luck! Best wishes, Teresa.
@liontigercatviji Жыл бұрын
Very clear explanation.
@LewisPsychology Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Best wishes, Teresa.
@musaarif3126 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your effective explanation
@LewisPsychology Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind feedback. Best wishes, Teresa.
@lienrich25072 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this insightful video! :)))
@LewisPsychology2 жыл бұрын
That's great to hear, thank you. Best wishes, Teresa.
@krishnendu008 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for such a wonderful and simple explanation..A really helpful vdo..
@LewisPsychology Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support. Best wishes, Teresa.
@denaceabeo20212 жыл бұрын
📌thanks for this video!💓 helped me a lot🌟
@LewisPsychology2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Denace. Best wishes, Teresa.
@3SIDEGOOF Жыл бұрын
Is it possible to not have any repressed memories ? What if i have experiences trauma or something unpleasant but I can remember it all ?
@LewisPsychology Жыл бұрын
Yes, not all memories are repressed. You can remember unpleasant experiences too. Best wishes, Teresa.
@dogstick12 Жыл бұрын
My take away is grouping things in three gives you the ability to access things in your conscious.
@tomkat69pc10 күн бұрын
why people always say "unconscious" instead of "subconscious"? unconscious is mechanical like blinking and breathing while subconscious is where trauma is hidden ..
@LewisPsychology10 күн бұрын
The video is clinically accurate. I’m talking about Sigmund Freuds teachings. Best wishes, Teresa.
@alyaaqilla7108 Жыл бұрын
Hi Lewis I do really love your explanation! it helps me a lot in completing my thesis. If you don't mind, could you help me by mention some books you use to explain this video? Thank you in advance!
@LewisPsychology Жыл бұрын
I’m pleased to hear my video has been helpful. I think any book about Freuds work would be helpful. I can’t recommend one book. Best wishes, Teresa.
@sultanalblooshi8912 Жыл бұрын
you helped me so much thank you :)
@LewisPsychology Жыл бұрын
That’s great to hear. Best wishes, Teresa.
@abdurrafay8381 Жыл бұрын
Great work
@mayasnew20855 ай бұрын
❤ Great thanks
@YutiyaH. Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the great insights and explanation. I found it very useful.
@LewisPsychology Жыл бұрын
That’s great to hear. Best wishes, Teresa.
@RainnaSpencer Жыл бұрын
Very helpful
@martinnogales225911 ай бұрын
I'm very happy to find your channel , the topic are amazing , plus your british accet are marvelous , You have a new suscriptor , and thanks for your effort and confidence
@LewisPsychology11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words of support. Best wishes, Teresa.
@MonaRamadan-q5l Жыл бұрын
Thanks ❤
@myrahouse2368 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou.
@emekdenizdemirci Жыл бұрын
Thanks for a Great video
@LewisPsychology Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind comment. Best wishes, Teresa.
@jeddklampitt9749 Жыл бұрын
The conscious mind has no memories. All memories and life experiences are inside the unconscious mind. In Transactional Analysis, there are three ego states. They are the Child Ego state, the Parent Ego state, and the Adult Ego state.
@LewisPsychology Жыл бұрын
I have many videos on TA. Take a look at my TA playlist. Best wishes, Teresa.
@jeddklampitt9749 Жыл бұрын
I have many books that I read on TA so I am well informed about the subject.
@putripurnamasari-zk6kx5 ай бұрын
@@jeddklampitt9749hello can you recommend me about the books? Sorry i am not fluent at english. Thank you
@jeddklampitt97494 ай бұрын
@@putripurnamasari-zk6kx I recommend Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman, The Road Less Travelled by M. Scott Peck, I'm OK - You"re OK by Thomas Harris, Transactional Analysis by Eric Berne, The Mind Diet by Maggie Moon, and The Six Pillars Of Self Esteem by Nathaniel Branden.
@cronesgaming79127 ай бұрын
Can we access represed memory
@LewisPsychology7 ай бұрын
It is not available to us, it is repressed. Best wishes, Teresa.
@adrianmiles76786 ай бұрын
The preconscious is just the easier stuff to access as it’s not as traumatised as the fully repressed stuff.
@asamnbelay33527 ай бұрын
How deep our 🧠 is 🤔
@asamnbelay33527 ай бұрын
Is there anyway to delete our unconscious memory?
@LewisPsychology7 ай бұрын
No. Best wishes. Teresa.
@oopswrongplanet73095 ай бұрын
You can change the contents of your subconscious mind. You can’t delete it but you can edit or alter it. There are several ways to do this and numerous videos you can explore on this topic, especially from Joe Dispenza, and Bruce Lipton.