THE COST OF GETTING MARRIED IN SOUTH AFRICA?!

[@simphiwe_stb]

Another idea, the cost of getting a divorce, i think would be interesting

[@Ntandoyenkosibiya]

Would be very interesting coz a quarter if not half of these hundreds of recorded marriages end up in divorces 😢

[@Bjm365]

🥵🥵😩🙆🏾‍♂️

[@hopegiver6409]

The system won't support that. Just look at the Red Pill Community

[@masilomoshesh1475]

"If you ain't no punk , holla we want prenup"

[@Terrymtshali]

@@masilomoshesh1475 We want prenup! YE

[@ronewakudzingana5328]

a fair price for loboa would be one that still leaves the newly weds with enough money to start their lives together max 50K

[@revolution475]

A better idea is to scrap it altogether and let the families assist the two in starting to build a home.

[@dot510]

@@revolution475 That's better for men. The best idea is to scratch marriage altogether. Let men marry each other if they so want. If women were wise they should refuse to have sex with you.

[@kekagiso]

@@revolution475 A fair price is R0. It's a union between two people, why is one party paying as if the woman is being sold?

[@Facts_Only_SA]

R10K-R30K is fair. Anything beyond that is what holding us back.

[@ISaidTheMan]

hai make more money my brother...

[@dot510]

Lobola has always been based on what one can afford. It does n't make sense to charge Khaya Ngqula or any millionaire R30 000 because he is wealthy and will expect expensive gifts from the brides family.

[@Facts_Only_SA]

@@dot510 I agree with you.

[@MuzorewaRatshikuni]

​@@dot510 The evidence does not support your claim. It's a false claim you are making that lobola has always been based on what one can afford. You know very well that many have had to make lobola payments even many years AFTER their weddings because they could not afford the prices asked when negotiations were taking place. The PRINCIPLE, not just the PRICING of lobola is what is wrong with lobola.

[@MuzorewaRatshikuni]

​​@@ISaidTheMan What a silly comment. Uou don't even know how much money that person makes. Emotional reactions, such as yours are really silly Hai be more intelligent my sister.

[@lastcolnew4520]

A Fair Lobola price is R0 women fought for equal rights it’s about time we address that topic.

[@mechailreydon3784]

Danko grootman 🙌🏾

[@khanyasambumbu3474]

😂😂😂

[@zuzanidumile8984]

This is a traditional custom it has nothing to do with rights. The purpose of lobola is to show gratitude to the bride's family for a raising a daughter who is able to build a home alongside her husband. However your opinion is relative to modern day misconceptions on the purpose of lobola...

[@mechailreydon3784]

@@zuzanidumile8984 what home building do modern women do since most men can and do cook, clean and do everything a woman would traditionally do in a home along side their woman? Why isn’t the man’s family compensated for raising a useful and respectable man?

[@dot510]

​@@mechailreydon3784You cannot group all modern women together. There are still decent women out there some of them are done dirty by men and decide to do life by themselves. You can not judge all women based on your choices!

[@zuzanidumile8984]

Trust me, those Gauteng marriages ARE the business 😂😂😂😂

[@kekagiso]

I was thinking the same thing when he said that 😂

[@becauseitsjoyinafrica]

Us as black people have complicated a process for us that was simple and could be less expensive. We want the lobola/traditional part and also the western/white wedding part which is just simply crazy to me. I thought people will learn a lesson during the COVID times that you don't need R1 million and 50000 ceremonies to have a meaningful,beautiful wedding. Personally, I will choose the lobola, then home affairs route. My anxious brain would explode from the logistics of planning and executing a white wedding.

[@loyisosandiso6987]

The crazy part is that we do our own traditional wedding and we also want a white wedding which is a white mans tradition .It just doesnt make sense .Colonialism and apartheid really did a serious number on us.

[@sirkermitthefirstoffrogeth9622]

@@loyisosandiso6987 or... people just like white weddings. Plus, a lot of us are Christian.

[@nlocnil3602]

​@sirkermitthefirstoffrogeth9622 how is a white wedding more Christian than a traditional wedding because they are typically both officiated by pastors/religious leaders?

[@sirkermitthefirstoffrogeth9622]

@@nlocnil3602 because a traditional wedding has roots in Paganism. There is no "more christian" there is christian, or there isn't. So what if is officiated by a pastor? It is a union between man and woman under God, are they Christian or not. That's what I say.

[@nlocnil3602]

@@sirkermitthefirstoffrogeth9622 lmao I can't believe what I just read. You seem to have a very strong "white is right" mentality. Nothing about a white wedding is particularly Christian either. It's not and has never been exclusive to Christian marriage

[@simisophahla8235]

lobola + 75 rand = happy life

[@lebogangnyatlo1334]

Not even R75....R20

[@revolution475]

😂 xactly

[@mamahlahamoloi6950]

This is for people who want a marriage(usually leads to successful marriage). People who want a wedding are the ones who pay boma R350k (marriages usually fail coz they focused on wedding, not actual marriage).

[@FM-ny7xh]

Great subject! You nailed it! I have been a wedding planner for several years (now retired)and it broke my heart to see parents and couples spending so much money just for one day, and as a mother of 2 sons, I told my sons that I would help them for a house deposit rather than a white wedding. And they totally agree with me. During covid lockdown I was getting bored and decided just for fun to write 2 wedding planning books: (one for the bride one for the groom) I actually wrote it for fun and also because I wanted to share all the hidden costs of planning a wedding. After seeing your video I think I‘m going to publish it. 📚 Precious is the leader, but first those who can’t afford to spend a lot, planning ahead is a must and above all make it simple to save to buy a house 🏠 Talking about lobola: whether you are educated or non educated woman a fair lobola price should be only symbolic. From R1000 to R10 000 max

[@tsepomaphatsoe2105]

I'll buy the book

[@MuzorewaRatshikuni]

"Lobola should be only symbolic"? Symbolic of what?

[@becauseitsjoyinafrica]

Please publish the book.

[@nlocnil3602]

A very rich old man just paid R6000 for his also well established older bride just 2 weeks ago. For some reason it outraged people because they think a rich man must pay a lot of money and forgot the reason why the tradition exists....

[@Nompumelelo_Sindane]

Honestly lobola money should be used by the couple to start their life together or contribute to the wedding .

[@MsRoriT]

Agreed!

[@RuthMadumo]

As long as you're referring to your own kids

[@omphemetsetlhapane4919]

The woman should fight for that since the money is paid to her family

[@RonnieKudau]

This thing scares me. Even as a conservative Christian who seeks to build a family with a good moral compass and value. I will marry, I'm just hoping that I will find a woman who has value and who will also multiply in value when she is married. Pray for me please.

[@ISaidTheMan]

no one gets married faster than two horny Christians...

[@MuzorewaRatshikuni]

Ronnie, every human being has value. Which means every woman has value. Whichever woman you find will have value. And their value will not "multiply". They already have infinite value.

[@RonnieKudau]

@@MuzorewaRatshikuni . No man marries a what, they marry a who, because they value what she can offer, unless they are doing it for the eyes of the world. Just like women gatekeep sex, men gatekeep marriage, they choose, they calculate, they weigh. We're not talking about value in a general manner, every life is valuable, including that of a cat, because God created everything.

[@TheKillacee]

Will pray for you brother, may our Father bless you in Jesus's name 🙏

[@simphiwe_stb]

bro you are killing it with these topics. damn

[@lehlohonol]

Love your content mate. Keep it up.

[@mooshtaffa]

Glad you enjoy it!

[@MentalFacility-u7o]

Scrap lobola. Let the families meet and break bread together, and then baye home affairs, and live happily ever after.

[@dot510]

@@MentalFacility-u7o In your dreams!

[@MentalFacility-u7o]

@@dot510 I WILL decide how i wanna do things. I won't be held prisoner to outdated cultures or traditions that have been distorted. They didn't fall from heaven, we created them, and we can create new ones. If it means I marry non-black(even thou I would prefer not to) so be it nigga...

[@MentalFacility-u7o]

@@dot510 I will decide want I want to do. I will not be held prisoner to customs and traditions that have been distorted. Those things didn't fall from heaven, we created them and we can create new ones. If it means I have to marry non-black, even thou I would prefer not to, so be it...

[@lwandosomacele6396]

You definitely made good research on this topic. As a wedding videographer(who can't afford a wedding himself) I was more informed through your video. By the way Precious is not answering my texts or calls(literally).

[@mooshtaffa]

🫣🫣🫣🫣

[@tbangbangsa]

every long weekend its going down in limpopo 🤣

[@mooshtaffa]

@@tbangbangsa EVERY SINGLE ONE. THEY DONT PLAY THERE 💍😂😂😂

[@IsabellaS967]

😂😂 leave us alone guys

[@simphiwe_stb]

R75 - R400 000 is crazy

[@dot510]

@@simphiwe_stb nothing crazy. If you are a poor man your family should negotiate the pric for you. R400 000 Is fair for other people.

[@ongamadidishe3529]

I love your content man.

[@mooshtaffa]

Thanks 🙏🏾

[@thabisomogane5170]

My cousin was lobola'd for R600 🎉 R600 was used to buy a few cases at the tarven after the negotiations That very night they came back from a tarven with a few bruises... 😅

[@lehlagaremogadime7494]

🤣🤣🤣 izinja ze game

[@nompumelolo]

Your family has sense. Men think expensive lobola = buying a person

[@bando_nollie]

😂😂 awe

[@mlamulidlamini8380]

So I am from the Kingdom of Eswatini. Here if a woman has no child, and is of childbearing age usually lobola will be around 15 cows. Each family determines what the value of a cow is in terms of cash, but in the case of a family member of mine who recently got married, the family put the price of a cow at R5000 a cow. So the lobola price ended up being about R75 000

[@mpathwenhlemlondemngadi17]

My bru… how I understand ilobolo is that it’s an offering/gift coming from the groom and his family. NOW! When ever, on your birthday have you negotiated what kind of gifts you would like to receive. Same goes for ilobolo. As much as they would like to coin it as this but, it is not a measure of how a man is going to provide for his family but a kindhearted offering to the makoti’s family for her hand in marriage ❤️

[@davisonvurayayi5387]

That stick is gone 0:11🤣

[@RamalepeNoko]

😂😂😂

[@thulasizwegwamanda3944]

Very impressive research done

[@columbusbandilehlatshwayo9973]

Wonderful work. Thanks

[@simphiwe_stb]

"i bring ibele to the table"

[@mooshtaffa]

🤣🤣🤣 delete this

[@Bjm365]

Drizzle drizzle 🤣🤣🤣

[@ThabisoRatlou]

😂😂😂😂

[@mbuyisenimajola1939]

🤣😂

[@sibonelozulu5259]

Dammnit😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣

[@SAG3__]

Think i will opt out for home affairs. Too expensive 😂.

[@Sheri-kp8nr]

A great video, best info, keep going...

[@Bongiwemsibi]

Spending 350K on a wedding can be a really unfair and a poor financial decision sometimes esp for middle class couples. It’s important to remember that, while the day is special, that kind of money can lead to a lot of stress and possibly even debt. Starting your marriage in the hole financially isn’t how you want to kick things off. The wedding lasts just one day, but the financial impact can linger for years. Instead of enjoying life together as newlyweds, couples could find themselves stressed about bills or putting off big dreams like buying a house or saving for kids’ education. Plus, those big, flashy weddings often shift the focus from the love and commitment being celebrated to just the spectacle of the event. At the end of the day, what really matters is the relationship and the life you’re building together.

[@MT-04]

You're a valuable asset. Please join the next mans conference. 😂😂 R75? I can now consider marriage otherwise I had no plans when I analyzed costs

[@mooshtaffa]

😉 I’m coming

[@Roseofnomansland201]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@yandie_z]

Lol the reference/s to Precious the Wedding Planner 😅

[@SandileNkonyane22]

Your growth has been beutiful to watch bro

[@sihawukelesihawukele102]

Very informative videos🔥💯

[@becauseitsjoyinafrica]

Great, thought provoking topic as usual. Please consider doing ulwaluko/umgidi costs. Seeing that the women have entered umgidiz with the MaXhosa outfits and expensive alcohols as amabele.

[@dot510]

What do women have to do with umgidi?

[@qhawejames134]

Iimigidi yase Kapa 😅

[@becauseitsjoyinafrica]

​@@dot510ngamazibazane kaloku nje.

[@ColouredXzaza]

I adore you! Love your videos and love your inclusivity in your pics and videos.x

[@sibusisondlovu7706]

Unfortunately in SOUTH AFRICA - MARRAIGE OR WEDDINGS was always a SHOW OFF thing amongst us BLACKS IN TOWNSHIPS as far back as the 1960's - This is the same as our ( Blacks ) Funerals in SOUTH AFRICA. Our Funerals are VERY EXPENSIVE UNNECESSARILY- With Other things added like " AFTER TEARS "-

[@njabulomasina4180]

Getting married is cheap. Weddings are expensive.

[@AkwandeGumede-e4h]

Awu ngeke my bruh your making me rethink marriage

[@MissCombs1511]

Not to be a hater or nothing, but just a question: when you go to varsity to register today, do you throw a graduation party the next day?? So why spend so much when you haven't even passed first year? 🤔🤔 While talking about university.. the R200k or more it costs for a wedding, why not get your degree or more with it now that it's not your parents' money, or mine (NSFAS)?

[@RandomSouthAfricanMan]

Gents If you marry umlungu ongathandi izinto, You can save on lobola and accompanying ceremonies. A small ceremony for close friends and family and then signing at home affairs will run you about R50K max 😂

[@MuzorewaRatshikuni]

Do you not realise that you can refuse to pay ilobolo. You just have to tell whoever is forcing you to follow their culture, that no disrespect intended, but you're not participating im the payment of lobolo for a woman. The problem is many couples are not aware that they have this power to refuse.

[@selulekontshangase4578]

I learnt that in English culture the bride's father pays for the wedding.

[@siyabongamakhoba4057]

@@MuzorewaRatshikunithere’s no way you can do that, if that is what’s done in her culture, you are doing it as well

[@MuzorewaRatshikuni]

@@siyabongamakhoba4057 I am not telling you theory. I am telling you what I have personal knowledge of a couple doing. It's your own poor thinking if you think it is impossible. Your wedding and marriage is your wedding and marriage. It is not someone else's life. Therefore, you decide if you want to hand the power over whether you marry without lobola to a committee. What remains undeniably true is that you and your spouse are the ultimate decision-makers over your lives. And you can go ahead and marry without paying lobola. If it is her culture to pay lobola, then you need to have communicated the issue that you're not paying lobola way before or at the start of your relationship. That way, she knows that you are not going to pay it and she can decide to leave you or to stay with you and marry you despite no lobola. All the power is in your hands, not in the hands of the families. Your only decision is whether you have the courage to standa against culture or not. Your only decision is whether you are swayed by other people's opinions and requirements. So, if you don't want to pay lobola you don't have to pay it - you tell the girl, and you tell the families and then you let the chips fall where they fall. But I agree, many men are cowards, they are not man enough and will let families bully them into practicing their useless cultures.

[@MuzorewaRatshikuni]

@@siyabongamakhoba4057 If you think there's no way, it's just an indication of your own oppressed thinking. Off course there is very much a way. You discuss with your girl right from the beginning of your relationship that you are not going to pay lobola for her. You make sure she understands that you're not joking. This way you give her ample opportunity to decide whether or not she dumps you. A real man is not afraid of a woman walking away from the relationship if she does not align with his values. Real men don't let others bully them into practicing cultural things which are not in line with YHVH's values. And real men are not out there to seek the approval of others, whether family or friends. Real men have the courage of their convictions. So, I am not telling you theory. I am telling you a real life story of situation I know where the groom informed the girl and the families that he is not going to pay lobola - and they went ahesd and got married in spite of his rejection of the practice. They have kids now. It was the girl's family's culture to pay ilobolo. The man respectfully but firmly let the families know that he was not paying it. And he didn't and still got married to the girl. Not everyone agreed off course and some were upset. But its his and hers wedding, marriage, and life. They have the ultimate power to choose not the families. So yes, you can refuse to pay lobola. Most men are cowards and will just capitulate.

[@gt_n1722]

In our culture the groom's family sets the price. If the bride's parents feel that the price is too low, then the bride's parents can charge a penalty where the future lobola of the groom and the wife's daughters will go to them (the bride's parents).

[@icypotatoes3871]

This video made me more certain as a man that I don’t wanna get married because I gain nothing from it.

[@Terrymtshali]

Same here

[@miss.namiee]

Unfortunately, women don't gain anything from it too other than risking their lives bringing other humans into this in the name of growing the family name.

[@ISaidTheMan]

I hope all the gents that were born to be husbands like myself are here...

[@TyTy_7_]

great content!!

[@mthunzimzwakhe9112]

Avoiding white weddings and keeping it within your culture can also tighten the costs of getting married.

[@DTogo3774]

Dj Smangaliso.. great guy😂

[@makwandemadolwana1041]

5:27 a fair amount would be in a region of 10 to 25 k depending on what is the job of the broom

[@TheRealMaulidi]

So as a Muslim Man, if I want to go all out I’d have to do an Islamic Wedding which is not too expensive, a Traditional Wedding and a White Wedding…. Yea Cyril’s economy has to change for the better! 😂😭

[@_moonopoly]

I'm curious, why would you include a white wedding if you're Muslim?

[@zuzanidumile8984]

The fair price is determined by the number of your (groom's) close relatives because it will used by the bride's family to buy the groom's family gifts...

[@nottheoneneo9471]

Isn't the Northern Cape population also small, so it would make sense why their marriage numbers are low

[@nompumelolo]

My biggest fear is my mom pricing my lobola ridiculously and my person thinking that is him buying me and he can fro'vaya me.

[@readyplayerone1110]

I wanna see how much I'm saving by not participating 😂

[@Cranedabuilder]

Dope content 🔥

[@XOWAKAMBAMBO]

Precious caught smoke today😭

[@mooshtaffa]

Good smoke 💨🤣

[@Roseofnomansland201]

The 1000 views are ladies stalking the men's comments 😂😂😂😂😂

[@nompumelolo]

No we are here commenting 😂😂

[@IsabellaS967]

Got me 😂😂 🙌🏾

[@mashadidolo4887]

Bathong “precious” 😂😂😂😂

[@mandisingalo9912]

How about the cost of getting divorced? I'm looking forward to this one.

[@miss.namiee]

5:08 a woman's value will always be high for the virtue of her womb. When she has an education that makes her more valuable because she is smart and is deemed as, "she is going to raise good children who will be successful because she has a good head on her shoulders". The sentiment about lobola is very much still the basic role of each gender, modernity aside. If you are going to marry a woman as a man, the fact that, she is going to bear children carrying your surname, thus growing your name is more important. there is nothing in life more valuable than the womb, it is more valuable than gold, even diamonds. The fact that the woman will risk her life to bring forth life therefore adding to the human population will be always greatly valued. So as i and many other would think, a woman providing her womb and the man providing and protecting for their offpring gives more of a common ground for both parties. Providing and protecting is what the man will be doing with his supposed education and achievements if he knows how to use them well for the sake of his family.

[@ntobelangquseka]

Weddings freak me out and I don’t know if I wanna be in that situation.

[@s.r.l6328]

Rather buy me a house 😂

[@SAG3__]

Damn its like these videos are for me😂.

[@mooshtaffa]

@@SAG3__ 😉😉😉

[@bando_nollie]

I thought I heard “That’s a hell of a lot of white dudes” 😂😂😂😂 I was so confused lmao

[@willianbashemane8920]

A fair prize for lobola is R0. You can not pay for someone who can decide to live you tomorrow ni..

[@LaughingOutLoudMeme]

Yoh I'm not getting married anytime soon mos 😭

[@thubagwadiso9818]

1 body count = -R10 000

[@kamogelothamaga5751]

There’s no way, my partner and I are eloping 😒

[@clashaccount2166]

Imagine having to pay for a bridal price only for her to leave you 😂.

[@fortunbras]

If I'm not mistaken, if your wife cheats on you or leaves you, you are entitled to a refund.

[@clashaccount2166]

@@fortunbras @fortunbras true but they could be a number of reasons why couples separate and/or chose to settle down with a significant someone, and when and or where people are involved is never that simple... People are complicated you could love and hate someone but prioritize their needs above your own, at times one's careless words could hurt someone but that doesn't represent how you perceive the person and/or your the feelings towards them... Something people do thing with a mixer of rational thoughts, emotion and social pressure, social norms and interests compounded over time... Simply put effective communication is key at times communication is limited with the addition of how receptive the person is, then again over sharing today could be weaponized tomorrow.

[@clashaccount2166]

@@fortunbras I forgot to mention the wedding cost and time invested into a relationship 😂😅

[@karlgwambe8860]

Before we discuss what we think is a fair lobola price/fee. My question remains; What is the verb for the lobola process?

[@views_by_mali]

Let me camp here with popcorn while I wait for answers😅🍿

[@RuthMadumo]

Ask contralesa I'm sure they're in a position to answer you

[@dj.conkey802]

As a dj, why are we always an afterthought? You know if i don't show up, your wedding is gonna pap! With all your expensive deco & your what what!😅😅😅

[@mooshtaffa]

🤣🤣🤣 facts

[@andilesimelane9884]

A wedding would make sense if both parties must contribute, ngiyama lapho.. because you find that one has everything to lose and the other can exit anytime she wants to, and still cashout when she does that

[@tshepopaballomaseko9442]

R20 000 is fine. Non negotiable for me. Or else I would rather be single

[@vuyogqola]

It makes sense why Limpopo is the lowest. The ill treatment wives go through as shown on Mojalove

[@bohlalematsetela2154]

bomma first 🤣🤣🤣

[@xolanimti4714]

@mooshtaffa I see you crack more jokes now, Oscar is gonna come for you 🤣

[@Ksquared2222]

So, here’s something interesting

[@Bjm365]

That time and despite these stats....uzozwa amadela kufa ethi "thina asiflayi ✈️ sihamba phansi la emzansi - waya waya" 😩😩😂😂🙆🏾‍♂️ Ludacris indeed my bro - up to R500k?? 👀

[@revolution475]

I am going for that R75 wedding.

[@sokopinions]

Given men pay lobola women should pay a divorce fee

[@samklelolatakisa1846]

Where I come from five cows are enough. Lobola is now a way to enrich people.

[@millicentsifisomthunzi3799]

Personally, the amount should be the one we/I can afford when I decide to go back to my parents house😂

[@revolution475]

Some are going to use two-pot for lobola and wedding ai 🙂‍↔️.

[@teboho_26]

Mahali(lobola) max should be 50k. Mahali then home affairs is the route to go. A ceremony is just too costly.

[@Sheri-kp8nr]

Lobola is an unfair cultural practice. Don't put a price on love. Equal the playing fields. Rather both parties work to buy a home, in a decent neighbourhood (also before having kids).

[@Innocentiamasingi]

8:28 ❤❤

[@ZamanirubenMolaudzi]

Hi man tell us about 2 pots what is that how it works

[@mxolisipercy7394]

Should I Accidentally get married, we should just a house turn it into Airbnb and make money... invest profits into other ventures till we both have enough money to for free time.

[@mduduzinkabinde6222]

I'd say 40k is a fair lobola price

[@thobashangase]

How did you get to this number and how do you consider this fair?

[@FictionHubZA]

Your videos have been oddly specific lately. Maybe this is a sign that I have to settle down and get married.

[@mokoepa]

😂 😂 🤣 🤣

[@hellendiale]

Bathong Precious ke mang? Precious wa manyalo?😂

[@bulelanibotman]

a fair amount for a lobola is R0

[@SORRY_HIM]

I personally don't agree with lobola so ya.

[@kekagiso]

Who is Precious?

[@arthurqampi3239]

I'm shocked Limpopo is not in the top 3 😭

[@sibusisondlovu7706]

Loblla amongst Nguni people is expensive and LUCRATIVE because of COWS - It seems Every other group ( Sotho , Tswana , Venda , Pedi ) wants to use the ZULU METHOD - which is Very Expensive - and has massive gains if your your DAUGHTER is marrying a ZULU man in particular a BLACK ZULU MAN FROM DURBAN.

[@rottencarrot]

Fair lobola price should be calculated on costs the maiden family will spend on the lifetime of the family member the soon to be wife will be replaced with for a domestic or care giver, ie, if the bride was the bread winner for the family at a monthly income of x, the lobola should be calculated for the annual income lost.

[@revolution475]

That is extortion 😂

[@rottencarrot]

@revolution475 there's a sense of miseducation of what value a woman brings and at the same time what is lost to her maiden family.

[@thisisntokozo]

A fair price for a gent in his 20's is 20k and in his 30's 40K

[@budgetbossrsa]

The real cost of marriage - your mental health 👌🏾

[@EnHl3]

😂😂😂

[@MentalFacility-u7o]

Banna! 😂🤣

[@siyabongahopewellmchunu2191]

Hhawu Mustafa iphi I average ye divorce bafo?😂😂😂

[@begginerm9339]

market cap 25 billion, GG

[@allKetso]

Morden lobola is a serious business 😂

[@Phetollo]

I will not pay anything more than 30k... for lobola... And that's all no big ceremonies nothing But I hope to get lucky enough to only pay R150... for my wedding... Paying lobola for someone who might divorce you tommorow it's dololoh

[@richardbanda9340]

What about the ring and the outfits 😫 yeses I need to get rich