The Danger of Using Weak Words

[@VALUETAINMENT]

Which words do you need to stop using?

[@magnitudainfo]

Later - right f***** now or ASAP! Actions, only actions!

[@GlazeEm]

I am stressing & I want to quit!!

[@Durchii]

'Maybe.'

[@rayhage3971]

"I don't know"...it should be "I will find out" or "I will learn"

[@Casmige]

“Let me....” As if I have to get permission from someone other than myself....

[@jaydejong1336]

“Watch your thoughts, they become words. Watch your words, they become actions. Watch your actions, they become habits. Watch your habits, they become character. Watch your character, it becomes your destiny.” - Lao Tzu

[@wealthfundamental4859]

Too true

[@marioskomnos4661]

Oh, this is really deep!

[@Daniel-Davies-Gonstead-Student]

Your thoughts become your destiny.

[@ibnebatuta4868]

@piztah I too took ss but when using this quote I'll erase word watch, it looks more impactful without it

[@SeekYHWHsface]

I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak, for by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.” Matthew 12:36,37

[@chefboyarleezy4162]

Pat I feel like you’re describing me. For 8 years I was 340 pounds a alcoholic coke head who lost everything. My family my Job and myself. Then one day I hit rock and bottom and joined a gym. I lost 100 pounds in 5 months got clean and sober and got my family back and started a business. I’m in 5 in half years clean sober healthy and happy now.

[@Nathantooit]

Hope ur still doing good brother!

[@nifan7706]

How are you doing?

[@mrbradley1]

He literally said "clean sober healthy and happy now" why you asking how he is right now?

[@scanty5695]

@@mrbradley1 Because he sent this comment 2 years ago so he is checking up on him

[@phoenix-king779]

Yes suh

[@seanwilliams6417]

My father used to say I’m broke a lot when I asked him for things when I was a kid. Subconsciously I knew these are words I would never use as an adult. Words are power! Speak strength into your life!

[@SpaceRanger-q7o]

are you broke tho?

[@user-jl8wj8fz5q]

@@SpaceRanger-q7o he's broke

[@rochmoppa6573]

My parents are the same way, anytime I would talk to them about something they went right to how much it would cost in full, instead of thinking of ways to make it work. Its very damaging to the mental state to discard all possibilities just because you cant afford the end goal tomorrow.

[@LaurenLawDawg]

A very wise woman told me never to say that I'm broke...I a getting more money. NEVER broken!

[@gurpalsingh3498]

My parents were ultra negative throughout their lives. I am still recovering from that. Now they are 65+ and nothing in the bank account.

[@Triumvirate3]

Victims are those who’ve died. If you’re alive today, you’re a victor. Live like it.

[@masternobody1896]

we are f by the rich people rip

[@Batman_810]

Sounds like you've never been in a life and death situation SkyNet!!!

[@janosd4nuke]

@@Batman_810 Of course it is simplified and not applies to every situation. But really dude? Guess if someone is so eager to search for excuses, they'll find some eventually. But is that what you really want?

[@marlee7389]

@Daniel Hertzler Basically why I love Deadwood!! It had such great dialogues in it. And gotta love/hate Al Swearengen 😅

[@misskay130]

What you said is true and Powerful!!!

[@alanarzate93]

I'm glad you spoke to your child and let him know what you actually meant a lot of children fail because the parents put them down by using the most toxic words and fail to recognize how much harm they are actually doing to the future generations

[@arfinoti]

ok i wont use t word i think i gonna use n word much more thank you

[@NewbieValorantYT]

Yea, even a small word can can huge impacts

[@dildodiggins1341]

@@NewbieValorantYT it definitely can can

[@scoper7897]

i almost fell asleep listening to that guy. had to skip to the end. so boring speech

[@nicholasboule5134]

I think you are 💯 for me name calling is the worst thing as well as put downs anyone can do to their child. Saying things like, you dummy. Are you stupid? What is wrong with you? Etc.

[@Thomas-xd4cx]

My grandfather always said “Tiredness doesn’t exist - laziness does”. I kept it with me all my life.

[@YuriLifeLove]

True... I'm very lazy and no one can tell me to leave my bed... __(:τ」∠)__

[@BygoneT]

😂😂😂 what a moron, yeah the body doesn't give you a feeling of tiredness when you used up all the energy without recharging, yeah 😂😂😂

[@SHIVAM_Unconventional]

​@@YuriLifeLove i can tell by the pfp

[@Williamtipq]

This video might have just boosted my energy levels for life.

[@george___kush]

i can relate to that

[@vivienneduong6541]

I enjoyed the video that he posted that caused so much controversies bc real conversations are uncomfortable. The world isn’t ready for strong minds like pat

[@Antonio-us9yd]

Facts

[@maximusaurelius610]

Same respekt ✊✊✊🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 - what does victimhood lead to? Anything good?

[@moonlight2373]

how you doing after 2 years body lol

[@baritpeor1454]

This man is incredible, he passes on great knowledge and sincere presentation.

[@gbassaisaac7553]

And it's free

[@RyanHoltz]

I AGREE!!!

[@atlaszane]

Are you serious? If you think thats great "knowledge" then you seriously need to grow up experience life. What he's preaching is cheap and generic trash.

[@baritpeor1454]

@@atlaszane his audience is bigger than me and you. Why are you watching a cheap and generic brand knowledging lol

[@atlaszane]

@@baritpeor1454 his vidros showed up on my recommended list so I thought I'd check him out. But he's clearly way, way into himself. His economic advice is bad and sometimes just plain wrong! His interviews are boring and he doesn't ask obvious questions, and his pearls of wisdom (such as this video) are stupid and self gratifying.

[@Mr.nesser]

This man understood the power of words early on. He realised how much words can affect us even if we ourselves don't believe it. He has managed to live his life by keeping his mind clear of negativity by not letting certain words get into his head and therefore letting his mind stay clear of relating to these negative words. I should stop thinking I'm a disappointment. The word disappointing is something I should keep out of my life. Sir, I thank you for your wisdom

[@HelloThere.....]

I love how we can say words are so powerful that bad ones can hurt you, that saying something makes it real but then we could say that we should have free speech because words aren't real and they can't hurt you

[@Mr.nesser]

@@HelloThere..... Humans are filled with hypocrisy after all

[@growingoaks]

@@HelloThere..... it takes quite a while of unlearning to avoid negativity. Most people do not do it.

[@Pbcvl]

This is why we gotta take the example of Gordon Freeman who is all action no words

[@lavvgiver]

"I am not a victim. I don't buy that." Strong words for the majority of the US today.

[@GodsWheat]

I have to say until 14 years old I felt like a victim, my step-dad my mother always acted like victims of something, what doesn't matter only when I saw people who have are actually successful even though they had worse lives like living in horrible conditions but they spoke like its the past and the past shouldnt hold you down and they got the success they deserved only then i turned stronger and slowly grew thicker skin, before id cry after every insult now i think why would say that and when I realize the reason I understand how they feel and let them think what they want

[@jasonjaeger3898]

Majority of the Western World unfortunately...

[@Bipolarcloud]

I'm 49 years old and I wish my father was half as caring as you. Your chat with your son was so deep and meaningful. He is blessed to have you as his father.

[@Soul-co7ki]

Yea but you are a grown man, you can blame him for everything in your life.

[@mohamedmnissar238]

​@@Soul-co7kino he still his father anyway

[@RamsinAdam-wl1fb]

​@Soul-co7ki keep the word blame for yourself

[@yassirhassani9166]

you're not too late to change

[@jout738]

@@Soul-co7ki Why should he blame his dad for everything in his life as 49 year old?

[@ladyliz9981]

I’ve been hearing constantly men are cheaters and that I shouldn’t get married. Then I realised I was turning away wonderful men, because I was listening to and repeating these heartbreaking stories. We must use our words and thoughts for positivity 💕

[@user-jy1mu7lv1u]

Yes. There are good men out there

[@commissarkitty3553]

That's a wonderful perspective really hard to do. I'm glad things worked out for you.

[@moraleslauralucia]

God this made me cry. His kids are so blessed. This man is such an amazing dad. Happy Fathers day Pat!

[@Brightenigh]

It must be that time of the month.

[@alekhinesgun9997]

@@Brightenigh wtf is that supposed to mean??

[@shakesy1075]

@@alekhinesgun9997 I think that he’s implying she cried because she’s on her period

[@alekhinesgun9997]

@@shakesy1075 yea I get that but its so cringe when people say shit like that. He took the one line of the comment that mentioned anything to do with emotions and immediately made a cliche remark, it just screams insecurity

[@shakesy1075]

@@alekhinesgun9997 if you got what he meant then why did you ask?

[@homealgordoncorp.8169]

"How I feel is how my family is going to feel",this is very important. The energy of leader is attracted by the followers.

[@tiger10149]

The fact that he spoke about the mistake he committed while referring to "kids being annoying sometimes" reveals how honest he is to admit his mistake in public and how he rectified himself. Salut Patrick

[@muhammadwajdankhan]

This video made me cry being a grown up man! Especially the part with his son. I learn a lot from you Patrick. Stay blessed and keep motivating us to be on the right and positive path in life.

[@oo-jj9xv]

Ha!

[@Benamp2011]

I felt like Patrick was talking to me as a Son. Thank you Patrick.

[@es8559]

SON. BROTHER. FATHER..

[@OfficialIndianGamingCommunity]

me too... i was so hooked up

[@Snow_Pulse]

Right

[@7al00m]

patrick is the older brother i never had , and i wish i could be like him for my little brother , ill keep trying till the day i die , noting will stop me .

[@cjona619]

Hahaha same

[@Officialem4]

I’m 29 years old and I just learned this lesson not so long ago six months ago I was in a very dark place I didn’t even know who I was and my wife kept on telling me you need to change the way you think about yourself and what you say about yourself so that universe can feed you with positivity and boy my life has changed. I listened and I worked every day very hard to change my mindset. Thank God for my wife, and I thank God for life. This is very true props to you for sharing this through your platform.

[@reginapontes5672]

Pat, I've had 4 cancers stroke and other illnesses. It's all about perseverance and perspective! Love your stuff! Silver lining in everything if you look hard enough. Keep up the great work!

[@montana7490]

@Regina Pontes- and I love your attitude! You get it girl! That’s the reason you HAD the cancers and illnesses and do not HAVE them anymore. Our minds are very powerful- stay positive you’re an inspiration! God bless.😘🙏

[@everythingautomotiveeta5839]

You got this regina!

[@hunterhollingsworth9058]

You are basically the Rocky Balboa of cancer. Thankyou for showing those who will follow in your path what they can accomplish

[@reginapontes5672]

@@montana7490 Thanks Mon! God blees! 😃🙏

[@reginapontes5672]

@@everythingautomotiveeta5839 Thanks! Like I say in my book, Perseverance Is Key! 😃🙏

[@georgeg2369]

Pat - you are speaking timeless, biblical wisdom. In fact, most of what you say fits into this category. For example - Proverbs 18:4 “A person’s words can be life giving water; words of true wisdom are as refreshing as a bubbling brook” Proverbs 18:20 “Wise speech is rarer and more valuable than gold and rubies” Proverbs 18:20 “Words satisfy the souls as much as food satisfies the stomach; the right words on a person’s lips bring satisfaction” Proverbs 18:21 “Death and life is in the power of the tongue And those who love it, will enjoy its fruits” Mathew 12:37 “For by your words you will be justified And by your words, you will be condemned” Patrick - excellent and insightful as always.

[@Newgrfx321]

Working with children as an art instructor taught me the value of words. After a few years of experience in capturing their attention and focus, I found a constructive way to promote positivity with enforcing the omission of the words ‘hate’ and ‘can’t’. This was a powerful transformation in the kids productivity and general tone of the whole class setting. Thank you for this great content sir!

[@psycoticreaction9135]

"I'm being protective of my spirit". Thats the best thing I have EVER HEARD YOU SAY!!!

[@royalnavarre1673]

Yes, it's important to guard our spirit. We must be careful what we see, hear and the thoughts we entertain. Thanks, Patrick!

[@edrod8807]

Now what if you had your spirit going in the wrong direction, but you didn't realize it because you only had tunnel vision for you want to see, hear, and give thought to? What then? Is what Im typing right now currently something you don't want to entertain? I am currently being phased out from your "sprit radar", ignored? Or am I making sense? Maybe we should analyze all points of view and then make conclusions from a stance of understanding/reason, instead of having tunnel vision for what is let in.

[@shmclaren6902]

Words to stop using (or at least be aware of the context): 1. Never 2. Can’t 3. Tired 4. I don’t think…. 5. If I only had (fill in the blank)….

[@johnny7840]

Wise words Patrick. Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof. Proverbs 18:21

[@waterheaterservices]

Amen

[@ihavetubes]

Great Proverb

[@gabrielgutierrez1409]

Yes sir!

[@lionelltemple2243]

Oops I wrote something similar then saw yours lol Yes praise the THE HOLY SPIRIT that inspired the HOLY scriptures

[@vicmitchell9962]

So true !

[@joetesla7009]

This is 100% “the secret” that nobody ever talks about.

[@rogermoore3991]

Its overrated, now lets be real.

[@moisesjimenez4391]

@@rogermoore3991 attitude is everything, this isn’t necessarily about words it’s about what beliefs you adopt and not accepting the negative beliefs of others around you. When he says words he really means beliefs

[@TheGjkddk]

@@rogermoore3991 it’s not overrated. If anything it’s the most underrated thing ever. Not everyone can change their mindset. Your attitude and mindset can literally can make or break you with anything in life.

[@thelookingcat]

@@rogermoore3991 complete opposite

[@gritticus]

@@rogermoore3991 I DONT WANT TO HEAR IT

[@FlyingElvis]

My son was born Jan 17 2012. 6 week premature, and 2 weeks in NICU. Your relationship with your son and me and my son are very close. I admit my mistakes to him. I hate when I let my tongue slip. However I can’t let my pride get in the way of my relationship with him. I strive to be a great example. So admitting I let anger in my speech I want him to see that I am not perfect and am responsible for my words. I also tell him that I love him every chance I get. Thank you for telling that story, makes us all feel human. As far as the rest of the video, priceless.

[@6jjbncam9]

I’m so happy I found Patrick on KZbin. I didn’t know of his existence 6 months ago. He’s such a winner, and i love his messages to the world. He’s a great influencer in a time when we need them.

[@mr.q8023]

I'm glad I watched this today. I forget how impressionable a child's mind can be.

[@bloodwashedsaint]

“The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences.” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭18‬:‭21‬ ‭NLT‬

[@jacoboutaleb5211]

Jim rohn. Said don’t let anyone dump crap in your mental factory. This is the greatest video of yours.

[@garthheckman9650]

"No, Daddy's in trouble." - Love it. Way to set a Godly example for your family.

[@josephrios8530]

I love this, Never allow anyone to steal your positive energy with their negativity. walk away or tell them to shut up about it. AND it is okay to tell them they are wrong about whatever they are saying.

[@crmax]

“Watch your thoughts, for they will become actions. Watch your actions, for they'll become... habits. Watch your habits for they will forge your character. Watch your character, for it will make your destiny.” ― Margaret Thatcher

[@QuestionEverythingButWHY]

"The tongue has no bones, but is strong enough to break a heart. So be careful with your words." -Unknown

[@adrianmobley6805]

Beautiful quote

[@stephanriley5304]

Yeahh i like that one ,,

[@recyclespinning9839]

The tongue has no bones >> yet it can break bone. Old siciliano proverb.

[@mihabrilj152]

i am energetic, enthusiastic, powerful, carismatic, respectful, smart, fast, strong, wise and unstopable repet 5 tmes a day, every day

[@untoyflores8127]

Im 23 yrs old and starting my own business , i take all the hints from valuetainement every step of the way .more power to mr. Bet-David🔥

[@ryanthepianoman27]

Your rich

[@redchurch1840]

Hows going

[@duckiesvisions]

@@ryanthepianoman27 and u just make excuses.

[@horuzz2009]

Can you give us an upset

[@vanishingfox1339]

When I was in my early 20's I used to mutter "it must be nice" when I seen someone better off than me. I was a bitter person, hated everything in the world, a hot head. Then one day after thinking to myself I realized its not fair for me to judge those who seemed to be well off and had it easy or had all the nice things, I don't know what they went through to have those things or be in those positions. That was the 1st time I was truly free and slowly started getting building my self up. I slipped backwards a few times but I always took two steps more than I lost. To this day nearly 15 years latter I still don't say the phrase. I'm over all happy, have a family and not too bad finically. It is nice.

[@fluffyfeet2304]

Patrick , this really got me. Growing up my mom has a negative impression of the male species. She would say unkind words about my father which I tended to block out. Because exactly as you said about your father I didn’t want to hear it and wanted to treat people as individuals. That thought process still serves me until today. I think I speak for everyone here when I say ,thank you for an insightful reminder that we are stronger than we think.🥰.

[@punani_slayer4209]

Great mindset 👍🏿

[@aidinlayne]

@@punani_slayer4209 ur name is the reason people have this impression on the "male species" (idk why she worded it like that lol)

[@punani_slayer4209]

@@aidinlayne this is the name my mother gave me when i was born don't be a bigot🤨

[@dalaee51]

punani slayer real for that 💯💥

[@AKA96369]

Damn! It's just incredible the way you stare at the camera and say such influential words. "Everything in life is about language."

[@joshuamiller9930]

Thank you for this. There is so much power and strength in your words and actions that represent masculinity. Yet, you are discerning, empathetic, and were able to take ownership over your actions to develop a stronger relationship with your family. We need more men like this. It is encouraging.

[@savorthepassion]

That's one of the first lessons I try to teach someone when it comes to changing their place in life. You must immediately and consistently stop the wrong words and phrases from being used when speaking to you and in your precense. You must

[@kikintheaaa]

Dude I just came across this video and it hit me hard! Thank you!! I called my daughter immediately and talked to her about some things I said in front of her or to her when she was little, and I reassured her just how important she is to me and that I’m proud of her.. all that good stuff. I’m a believer in this myself, words really do affect our lives.

[@lewisistic]

what was her reaction to it? I am genuinely curious and would be thankful if you do mind sharing?

[@lewisistic]

@piztah thanks!

[@zMolly]

padre coñazos

[@lesliem5617]

💪👏 for your humility. That action erased so many wrong words, and freed her mind and choices.

[@T20-c8f]

My wife and I have literally manifested every major goal we come up with each year without even thinking about it. We put it on our dream board in dry erase marker and hang it on the wall. In 4 years we have literally moved mountains. All we do is set out focus, pray every single night before dinner, and no matter what all of our goals magically happen before our eyes. Attitude, intention, and stubbornness are all virtues.

[@robertthompson5936]

You are so right about the power of words. I hate when people say “I can’t…” My response is either “Can’t never could or you won’t be able to if you keep saying you can’t. “

[@Troy_KC-2-PH]

This is so true. My dad used to call me a loser, good for nothing etc etc ... over and over again. At first I didn't accept that, but later I did (unfortunately begin to accept it) ... I let those words have power. It is unfortunate, but ultimately we have the power. WORDS ARE DEFINITELY POWERFUL.

[@tophcookie7033]

You talking to your son is the conversation I didn’t realize I needed as a kid 😅 Two words I used to describe myself as a kid annoying burden. Now a 31 year old veteran here in those words for the first time out through your video

[@justicemoody]

“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.”

[@woojinhan3165]

logos

[@satanexposed7373]

✊✊✊

[@Kitiwake]

Tell us... What word?

[@sntsmilian]

And The Word Was Oom

[@triangularcity]

Be

[@VJ-kl5mw]

I got really emotional when he was talking about his son. Very beautiful moment I got to witness

[@mattsmith3726]

I realize this is an old post but it is still very powerful today. I have 5 children and I agree that words are so very powerful! I remember to this day 40+ years ago something my dad said to me that always rubbed me the wrong way. I did something wrong- can’t even recall what it was- I said to my dad “I’m sorry, but you’re not perfect either” his response was “I’m damn close”. Through the years I’ve realized that none of us are damn close. We all fall short and should humble ourselves when appropriate. Bless you Patrick for recognizing the importance of noticing when we say something wrong and being the strong man you are to be a powerful role model to your son! Thank you for what you do . Matt Smith MD (Clermont, FL)

[@ChrisVincelli]

Patrick, thank you for this...your advice has HELPED SO MUCH! I lost my job due to the pandemic, but since then I’ve started a KZbin channel on Personal Development and Investing...and is it GROWING!! Thanks again for the advice, and everyone else…NEVER GIVE UP!!!

[@ChrisVincelli]

@shy boy Thank you so much!

[@barfeyman3622]

@@ChrisVincelli i subbing too

[@sumaiyamaryam3862]

Subscribed!

[@GabrielMartinez-ng1wi]

Congrats- stay positive!

[@ChrisVincelli]

@@GabrielMartinez-ng1wi thank you so much!!!

[@andrewperez7844]

It's not often that I completely get drawn into a video and feel like the person is talking to me directly, but this was one of them. Thanks Pat, your content has been so inspirational!

[@yoopii8514]

I felt the same, he had 110% of my attention.

[@divineone2135]

@@yoopii8514 Exactly

[@dcab6447]

This is one of the most powerful, life-changing videos I've seen on the internet. I've always chosen to be positive in my life but this really adds some power and emotional "why" to it. The part about refusing to be a victim should be seen by a lot of people. Being a victim is a choice in how you react to life's events. Too many people in our society are walking around looking for reasons to be offended or feel victimized.

[@mehmetserhatkara1229]

This was surely powerful. I always thought not being able to tolerate such words was a problem only I had. Seeing a person like him saying he doesn't like to hear it brings me confidence to give a stop to it.

[@jj-bu6yb]

Absolutely 😊

[@MrNeuroMind]

watch andrew tate xd he once beat his friend for using "weak" words and stop being friends with him :D

[@LeslieDaCostaJr]

Words have the power to create or destroy, and should be used responsibly, because someone is always listening, even yourself, and embeds into your spirit or subconscious mind. You blessed and empowered my belief system. Thanks Patrick!

[@grantwilson3219]

Pat since my dad passed 7 years ago, I’ve missed talks like this. Your words on words meant a lot to me. Needed to hear it.

[@ben502]

Very strong message. America needs more people like you.

[@trestonrudder]

Omg my mom talked about being tired everyday growing up. This video speaks to my soul!!

[@charniecearielle]

Mine does too. She also sighs a lot. I got annoyed at first and sometimes I still find myself getting annoyed when she does/ says these things but I just remember that her generation of people went through a lot physically as well as mentally and it's made them exhausted.

[@dYanamatic]

Very true - your mother must be exhausted. Before I had a child, I would NEVER use those words. I would train twice a day, compete in sport, work, train in gym daily, study and learn new things, and work on my own business at home. Once I had a child who never slept for more then 1 hour in the first year, and up to 3 hours in the second year (she still wakes up every night a few times and she is 2.5 yo), I put her to bed and work until 3-4am in the morning. I am too exhausted to get up in the morning at 8:30am, and feel like a bad role model - even though I'm not lazy. This is a good reminder to never use those words to my child regardless of what I feel.

[@charniecearielle]

Diana yes having children can challenge us in ways we never thought possible. Raising children is probably the most challenging task ever. I don’t have children but I’ve heard from every parent I know that it is quite a job and I believe you all! Blessings to you for taking it on I’m sure you will raise amazing people that will be a great contribution to the world ❤️

[@NicholasRees-ic8jx]

I agree in part. You've laid out an excellent argument as to why you shouldn't say certain words or phrases. I think I'm going to start doing this myself. However, when I hear you saying that "I don't want to hear that" that's something I don't want to say. I want to be strong enough that I can hear whatever anyone says and can overpower, perhaps even persuade them of the opposite belief. There are things that I will not say, but there is nothing that I will exclude myself from hearing. I find it more important to discover truth I didn't know from other people than it is to be misled with their lies. If I'm mislead, then at least I can take responsibility for that. However, if I shut someone down and discouraged them from speaking not only would I not benefit, but everyone else around me--if for no other reason than for an opportunity to prove what they say to be untrue. I am completely and utterly opposed to any kind of censorship for any reason because censorship is only needed by people who do not aim to align themselves 100% to the truth.

[@capturethephotons2078]

I went from being stuck on pain meds with nothing and owning my dealer and nowhere to live. To back on my feet, off pain medication, back in an apartment, 2 cars, a great job and now own my own house. Motivation and relentless dedication to bettering myself and my families life and being positive got me here. No excuse, it's on you. When you hit the bottom, as long as you're not dead, there's nowhere to go but up.

[@upssidep9283]

Unbelievable self awareness, your son is lucky to have you as a father.

[@mattinchley8561]

ISN'T HE

[@watLegends]

Sir, you've become an inspiration for me today. I've been complacent of letting my mouth run wild for far too long. Self-depricating and being ungreatful to myself for the level of success that I've achieved. I've driven myself on a mindset of "impostor syndrome" as an excuse that something's just wrong with me, as if that is normal. Thank you for reminding me, that even God in the bible warns us of what words we speak with our tongues towards ourselves and to others. I feel like I can move on and start maturing this part of me. Thank you for this video!

[@TheCesarDuron]

This is literally the best video i have seen, so much Value in less than 12 min. Thanks Pat

[@brandonmw1906]

I feel your passion man. It touches my soul brotha.

[@carlosmatheus4317]

Man, one of the best things that happened to me this year was to find this channel. I truly wish to have found it sooner.

[@DjushiRenee]

This is powerful. Thank you Pat. I'm going to start protecting my spirit and my family's spirit - now. I'm ditching some words!

another word I dont like is CANT. I teach my son CAN'T is a bad word

[@EBR1]

"Can't" is not a "Bad word" at all. I can't fly. I can't run at the speed of light. I can't pull my head off and then put it back in place. Words are neutral. It's the intention behind the words that matters. It's not the words, it's the beliefs that people hold.

[@grayhound5863]

Can't Vs Don't Want To = there's a difference

[@vincentortega4284]

I agree Christoper, I don't ever say the word Can't; because I do not want to put any word like that in my brain, thinking I can't I always want to know How can I accomplish this.

[@mikyas4238]

knowing ur limit is one of the greatest things in life im sure ur son cant do many things stop raising ur kids to believe they are special,and they can do everything just give them opportunities to explore and find smtn they like and persist

[@juanayala4784]

Truthfully I don’t always agree with what you say in your videos but this one popped up in a weird time of my life. I was shot in the leg by a stray bullet on 7/31/22 in downtown Orlando I was one of seven shot. I’m thankful I’m alive and my leg has recovered. But my mental state has been very bad, I felt like a victim, I missed time at work, and when I returned it’s been an uphill battle (I work in sales) but this video is spot on. I won’t talk down to my self, call myself an idiot, or say that I’m useless anymore. I’ll take care of myself and I will implement this and protect my spirit and become an elite version of myself. The only way is up from here.

[@jonathanaprin425]

This is the greatest advice ever, extremely powerful. 🙏

[@mindpsychs1805]

An incredible dad and son conversation. Thanks for sharing this to the world. I always wished I had a conversation with my dad. I suffered your sons 20 minutes suffering for the first 17 years of my life. I am waiting for my son or daughter, to come to this world to be the best father.

[@HighTimesTrader]

I wish I had a father like you Pat. You're a good father to your kids.

[@epicminecraftplayer1969]

simplicity is the best and smartest way to convey something especially words. People who use simple words are smarter than those who pretend to be smart using words they don't understand just to convey something they don't even know.

[@aquilaalliance3672]

“Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.” (Proverbs 18:21)

[@pierre1979]

This man is the perfect example of a good father, your son is truly blessed to have you guiding him.

[@AKTapRoom]

Our words shape are reality. Words cast spells That's why it's called spelling. Words are energy. Use them wisely.

[@uncommon_name9337]

Bruce Lee

[@Chad_N_Stacey_Hopson]

THIS IS THE BEST VIDEO THAT YOU HAVE EVER MADE, IN MY OPINION. I NEEDED TO HEAR EVERYTHING YOU JUST SAID.... YOUR INTERVIEWS ARE AMAZING BUT THIS PAT, REALLY HAD ME GLUED TO THE SCREEN..... AND FROM BROTHER TO BROTHER ( FORMER GREEN BERET ), I THANK YOU SIR!!

[@supercartel3000]

Exactly

[@montana7490]

That is really true. I love bettering myself and when this video ended I instantly thought, “I wish there was more of these!” The “T” word is a good one! I agree with you 100%, I’ve never liked hearing it, but also never realized it was because of the WEIGHT it has behind it. It’s an energy sucker for sure! Thank Patrick!

[@hunterhollingsworth9058]

Thank you for every moment of service you put in. Good men are hard to find, Great men are not found they are made.

[@Amir-iz8eh]

"'-You're being weird. -No, I'm just being protective to my spirit " That was gold

[@trevorjames1030]

"There is a great deal of difference between an eager man who wants to read a book and the tired man who wants a book to read." - GK Chesterton

[@kree8art395]

A teacher of mine taught me somthing similar. He used to tell us never say "I can't", always say "I'll try". 30 years later it has stuck with me and its somthing I try to always pass on. Thank you for this - I hope it benefits many people.

[@Debo1717]

The portion of you having a heart to heart with your son really touched me as a Man, inspiring better communication with my family. Great video. Thanks for the transparency Pat

[@kushsmoketv4051]

A lot of pride is not good. Its leads to the fall...

[@VisionInTears]

As an Assyrian man at 24, I thank God I saw that last name. Your words have cleaned the dust off of my old thoughts that lingered in the shadows of the back of my mind. And how you explained it and entailed it to reach me has given me the most excellent satisfaction and joy because I shared these ideas, but you have revived it back for me. So I say thank you and hope it reaches our people and everyone in this world. I'm looking forward to more videos like these.

[@samhatem1084]

Hey man , I'm Syrian , are we related?.

[@Balanced--]

@@samhatem1084 we are all related lol

[@themiddlechild8952]

@@samhatem1084 No

[@RamsinAdam-wl1fb]

​@@Balanced--who is all

[@XSNN1]

@@samhatem1084he’s Assyrian not Syrian

[@julzee111]

You LITERALLY had me sobbing. This was a message sorely needed -so simple but incredibly PROFOUND! This should be mandatory viewing in all schools. But schools have become tools to strip children of every spiritual tool they possess. Thank you for reminding me how powerful words really are

[@adrianmiranda77]

I have a lot to learn, very eye opening. “I HATE” is my saying. I do it all the time and I noticed i been saying it when i don’t mean it. It just puts me in a bad mood.

[@H786...]

Same, for me another one is “I don’t care” or “I can’t believe”

[@Shamilt3]

Excellent Patrick. I'm on the last few weeks of a 3 yr negativity onslaught. I'm ready to get away from it and rid myself of this nasty energy, and create a wonderful life. Speak in the direction, that YOU choose to make happen. So many people do not understand that words are thoughts, thoughts are reality.

[@sawday-li5yl]

this is how a strong mindset think i must take notes

[@domingodeanda233]

Exactly! early in life I talked to my kids about not being tired nor bored, you will never hear those words from them.

[@anthonydmorse]

Domingo De Anda My late grandfather used to say “boring people get bored” as you can imagine, I never use it. When people tell me they are bored, I tell them this. The change in them is instant. 👍😀

[@danielmeecham464]

Excellent to hear! I'm fifty-six now and I've always said throughout my life "I have never suffered from boredom." It's never been a word or concept I've every understood. As a consequence, my kids do not understand boredom either! Also from Yoda, "There is no 'try,' there is either do, or do not. So make sure you do!

[@thailandtreats4816]

This is why a boy needs a good father!!!

[@Veilfire]

It's ok to have vulnerable moments. We're human

[@raybassman7536]

Patrick, once Again one of the most powerful videos ever, When ever I want to hear top quality content and not waste my time, I go to your channel first! God Bless you and your family.. Also please give a thank you to your great video producers who finish out your videos before they go live. Excellent work.

[@cnotake]

A couple of years ago, I told my boss that I was tired of his bullshit of how he talked and treated co-workers and me. Today, I don't work for him. I seen the light and I am on my way to healing from being bullied. That was one time the word "tired" was positive for me. I was bullied in my army career and in civilian life. Today I'm free. God is good!

[@TIGERBILL-will-m-2]

Thank you for this. I've been sober 2.5 years now and I have been feeling stuck. I've gotten to a certain level in my life, but I know I can do better, be better, be further along my journey in life. But I've been spinning my wheels in the f'n' mud for many months now. Staying awake at night wondering why. I've caught myself feeling sorry for myself and stopped it in time to avoid possible relapse. What you have said in this video has opened my eyes ears and mind to fix my stinking thinking problem. The weight of the words I choose to use. Makes a difference. Also have to not let people build houses in my head. Thank you for this. My eyes are open and my ears are tuned once again. Thanks for letting me share this. Hopefully someone else reads this and is going through the same bad place I'm in. And they will know they are not alone. I'm going to take this advice and use it.

[@BT-fg1is]

One of my childhood friends told me his Parents always told him there's no such word as 'can't ' and if you know him you can tell it worked. Great video and great message.

[@BryanBarcelo]

Saying "I don't want to do this" are weak words, powerful words are "I'm not doing this".

[@MBTIMemes]

Even stronger is when you say "I am" instead of "I'm" because it puts even more emphasis on it. And the reason what you said works is because now it's about our identitiy, what and who we are.

[@dragonballzkai9283]

I don't understand why so many people are talking about they're crying their fucking eyes out listening to this guy or how what he's said has changed their life and now they're multi millonaires. The overall message of this video is pretty alright, choose your words because words carry weight, etc. But this guy bounces around all over place going from tangent to tangent to tangent I don't even remember what he was originally talking about.

[@jamesfrancese6091]

He claims to care so much about “language”but is full of hot air himself lol

[@coconutsfor2963]

When i tell my 6 year old hes annoying - he laughs it off and says I know Dad - so are you .

[@luxurybuzz3681]

It's true

[@siddharth_kashyap21]

Lol

[@venuselectrificata]

he must play fortnite 🤣

[@maxthreshold]

@@venuselectrificata Fortnite? The conversation would slightly be different in that case, I could imagine him responding by saying "u mad?" instead haha

[@DJMixxwell]

This oddly hit very close to home with situations going on in my personal life. Thank you for this Patrick

[@mariovargas8533]

I wish my dad was like you man. My dad left when I was 4, and my step dad always treated me like shit. He said and did so many things that I still remember that affect me for years.

[@TheForgivenman]

Let's talk when you raise your own son successfully. Not excusing your dad but fatherhood ain't easy

[@phichi5488]

Hard not to be dragged down by all that is going on today, but we can choose to stand and speak life. You can be a victim or a Victor. Timely video, thanks!