This Documentary follows three families and their hunt for an Au Pair. #documentary #family
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@LizaFergison3 ай бұрын
An Au Pair is meant to be a parent's assistant, not a replacement. These parents are giving them the responsibilities of a full time nanny, but probably paying them a pittance. Shame on them.
@illumindonnaughty2 ай бұрын
💯 taking complete advantage!
@lolitanolita91072 ай бұрын
Yes, they want cheap labor. I think au pairs are protected in the sens that they can only work a certain amount of hours
@ccbloom93503 ай бұрын
It should be called the dangers of living with a family as an "au pair"
@endless_summer_rose3 ай бұрын
Agreed lol
@brookebickley68733 ай бұрын
I couldn't live in some of these houses
@Love-pd8lz3 ай бұрын
My thoughts 💭 exactly 😢
@standup29823 ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@mhrgall3 ай бұрын
literally one second in and my thoughts already!
@samdasilva19143 ай бұрын
Let´s be honest all these parents want is cheap labour for childcare, cooking, cleaning and walking the dog. They all strike me as people who would be the types to say they would not work for a low wage, but that is what they want to pay that to complete strangers to look after their kids. None of those parents could even be bothered to do a proper handover or spend a few days "shadowing"
@user-sy6fj2bm1z3 ай бұрын
Agree!
@gigi93013 ай бұрын
That's your opinion. I think this is a great documentary, and showcases real scenarios where it works out, and when it doesn't . Seems like one out of three works out, and this is usually the rate of success in general in my experience. The Brazilian young lady is a joke and I would have sent her packing in under two weeks. She's lazy, crying, homesick, whatever. She just got a free place to live for six weeks. If these women had real-world skills, they would be able to get "better" jobs, but they don't so they're going to have to either suck it up buttercup or pack it up and go back home doing whatever it was they were doing beforehand.
@summerbright27693 ай бұрын
Yes I understand what you mean However in this day and age there’s no point in having strangers to look after your children while one you can work around it while raising your children and working from home. I have worked from home since the 1990s and it was the best experience I picked up my children from school we spent time together I personally l can’t imagine other people caring for my children.like I do. The Mother she’s Educated surely she can work and still earn good income.while raising her children
@gigi93013 ай бұрын
@@summerbright2769 so you watched this just to pat yourself on the back for how great you think you are? Nice!!
@linsfisher54483 ай бұрын
Each of those parents were looking for cheap labour. Every household is diff and it takes guidance from the parent as to how the house is run. That girl wasn't even given a key to the house before the parent raced of in the morning. Besides aren't au pairs child minders and not housemaids or dog walkers???
@olgasankin58993 ай бұрын
As someone who was an au pair in the past, all these families are walking red flags. They just want a working horse for (preferably) free. Even when i was younger back then i wouldve never even considered any one of these families.
@lizf13533 ай бұрын
Then they turned the title into the dangers of living with a au pair as if it's the au pair industry that is the problem and not negletful parents 😢
@Andy-di1zd3 ай бұрын
@@lizf1353 absolutely right, that is glaringly obvious
@notbaltic2803 ай бұрын
Look at this comment - incredible - these people are being asked to perform basic household duties. I know no one amongst my friends etc who would not have accomplished their chores list and been to work - including feeding kids, school run, turning beds, cooking main meal, shopping, garden. Do you realise when it snows before 8.30 am we by law have to clear the road outside our house or we receive a fine. Stop moaning this is life - get a grip.
@Booboonancy3 ай бұрын
@@notbaltic280 So, the red flags that I also see all went over your head ?
@pattymelt-go3fv3 ай бұрын
"The dangers of living with a family".....that should be the title. Au Pair has a bloody HARD JOB!
@La_Ru-yg8es3 ай бұрын
"Somebody bright, intelligent, and responsible, who doesn't mind being an indentured servant who is paid pennies and expected to have no life of her own and be at our beck and call."
@cherylk.24743 ай бұрын
We have no idea what thay were paid. They also received room and board. However, I am fortunate I was never in the position of needing help to care for children while I worked.
@user-hv5so6qz9z2 ай бұрын
@@cherylk.2474 Wow, room and boarding....so generous!
@ashlieleavelle3 ай бұрын
I was a live- out Nanny for 20 years. Raising peoples kids is rewarding and very tough. Parents should not impose everything on the au pair when the parents are home. If you are home, clean your home and cook for your kids. Care for your kids when you aren't working. People want kids and want help, often for when they are NOT working. Dont be shocked when your kids attach to their caregivers. Also, pay your children's caregivers well. I was fortunate and was paid well and treated well by the families I was with, except for 1 family. When you are a AuPair or Nanny, you are working very hard. Pay well!
@darlaangel78533 ай бұрын
The Girl from Texas,....ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL!!! She stood up for Herself,& put the Children in place,Behave or Im Telling Dad!!! Great Job, Young Lady!!!❤
@lulubelle532 ай бұрын
And She can dance!!! Go Taberge!!
@AninhaMatt3 ай бұрын
I was an aupair. 20 years later and I’m still close to the family. It was an amazing experience. I still work as a nanny
@1celloheaven3 ай бұрын
I suspect your 'family type' is not represented in this film. The idea that one person is employed to look after the childrens' daily welfare, act as their chauffeur, and clean the house, (in the case of the 'Chelsea' mother), is purely exploitative. I think the appropriate term is modern slavery.
@n0tfr0mth1sw0rld2 ай бұрын
Sounds as You were very lucky as my experience has been similar bad or worse as those shown
@n0tfr0mth1sw0rld2 ай бұрын
@@1celloheavencorrect
@SAVAGE.paradise3 ай бұрын
The families are awful I feel sorry for the aupairs
@alexs67703 ай бұрын
TAB and Anna are amazing both in difficult situations.
@AnimaLibera3 ай бұрын
To the moms: I understand your worries but you can't expect an au pair to think and act exactly the way you think she should think and act.
@nitachiquita99883 ай бұрын
It’s true and it’s so hard for Moms to not be there for their kids so they see and find problems, worries and guilt at every turn.
@gigi93013 ай бұрын
Boo fricking Hoo OMG Is this you tube crap all about 30 somethings that don't know WTF they're doing?
@witchkitty4825-ju2sh3 ай бұрын
Au Pairs r not cleaners or cooks for your entire family, they look after children. if want cleaner and cook you need to hire someone else
@charlotted80223 ай бұрын
I find this terrifying that parents leave their children with complete strangers who don’t fluently speak the same language and have little to no experience with children.
@marianeparsi13233 ай бұрын
Au pairs do have extensive with children and they have to prove that. They don’t speak the language fluently but they must be able to communicate well to be accepted in the program. They go through a background check and must provide several references too.
@gigi93013 ай бұрын
@@marianeparsi1323 Yes, from what I have heard all this is true. In my own neighborhood, I have heard horror stories of au pairs having affairs with the husband. We couldn't afford to have an au pair, but I would have made sure she was not attractive preferably a gay unattractive female. I have heard a lot of the au pairs become entitled and demand a car, this, that , the other . Most of them I have heard about have gotten fired. This is just in my neighborhood, but I'm sure there are many happy stories where it actually worked out, but I personally would never have a stranger in my house especially to be so familiar with my family and bring boyfriends over, use my car, etc. No Thanks. The au pair additionally uses it as a pathway for citizenship in the USA anyway, not sure how it works in other countries.
@gigi93013 ай бұрын
@@marianeparsi1323 How are you going to check someone's background if they're from another country? Please let us know how that works? Anyone can purchase references
@deliafreeman1463 ай бұрын
Need a qualified English N.N.E.B Who is DBS checked. Children are so precious! 😊
@jeanieolahful2 ай бұрын
They really don’t care. They’re servants
@mssdn89763 ай бұрын
I was so lucky when I was an au pair, seeing these families I really fell on my feet. They had a chauffeur and a housekeeper so I did no cleaning (au pairs aren’t there to clean they look after children). They bought me a car to use and I really enjoyed it
@FM-jo1jh3 ай бұрын
wow, where was this? obviously a rich family where these parents are average working class
@mznastee3 ай бұрын
Um where sign me up lol
@tlee21193 ай бұрын
I thought au pairs were there to look after the house and a nanny looks after children. If they're rich, wonder why they didn't have a nanny?
@mssdn89763 ай бұрын
@@tlee2119 the children I looked after were 9 and 12. They went to an international school. The chauffeur took them to school and I picked them up. I’d take them to music lessons, I’d take them to the outdoor pool in the countryside. I was only 19, I had so much fun. If the parents were away on business I’d have charge of the children. I was there partly to improve my French speaking (the family paid for private lessons) and partly to enjoy living in an amazing area in Europe. It was a life changing time for me
@sapphirerain703 ай бұрын
You should write a book! Seriously! 🎉❤
@babycakes84343 ай бұрын
They should be called "cheap labour nannies" because they are definitely not an Au Pairs. Au Pairs are cheap too, but at least they are working legally, because they are provided legal paperwork and visas if needed. Family needs to pay the agency too. But these families don't even want to spend money to go through the legal process. No wonder these girls stay only for few months, they are underpaid, overworked and stressed out. Who wants to work for such a crazy people. I was an Au Pair for real and legally, and I worked for the family for 2 years. I did that to improve my English, and I was treated well by the host parents (aka. my bosses).
@mareavoce12723 ай бұрын
Poppy’s mother is a handful! Forget about the child.
@AnimaLibera3 ай бұрын
Makes you wonder what is wrong with her.
@jeanieolahful2 ай бұрын
@@AnimaLiberashe’s just used to a very well ordered life, and having a baby at 45 is a shock to the system. They feel by providing an explicit schedule they’ll be in control. It doesn’t work like that, and it causes burn out. If you’re going to hire a caregiver you’re going to have to have some flexibility and trust them. Former nanny and caregiver here..
@adriannemason54513 ай бұрын
The children were blessed to have Tab for awhile because Gemma doest seem too into being a mother or cleaning the house and seemed jelous. The brazilian girl Anna did great but the lady she works for seems hard to please. The Turkish woman did well but was clearly unhappy and out of place.
@anhingasnakebird99473 ай бұрын
Those parents were separated so it wasn’t Gemma’s house to clean. That tip is dad’s fault.
@caitrionakenny9993 ай бұрын
Gemma is very unusual. Tab did well with that family. Hard job.
@gauloise64422 ай бұрын
If I were Tab I would rather end up with that family then the other two.
@ronalddonner33963 ай бұрын
Mom is giving her princess a finger bowl with "lemon",yet she wants the au pair to "lay down the law." LOL as they say.
@renbrent23143 ай бұрын
That's the first time I ever heard of a finger bowl, and I'm 48😂
@1celloheaven3 ай бұрын
I was born and raised in Bombay, 20 years older than your good self, and because of 'finger food' the finger bowl was common practice. We returned to England in 1964 and whenever we ate curry there were always finger bowls on the table...and I recall it was also something offered in restaurants during the 80s. They make complete sense. @@renbrent2314
@Juanita-gf4te2 ай бұрын
They are used in Europe a lot and were used by medieval royalty and aristocrats.@@renbrent2314
@jackieridley84653 ай бұрын
I wouldn't look after none of those kids , not even for a million pounds 😂
@ccbloom93503 ай бұрын
Me too the nightmare would be unbearable 😨😨😨
@purpleviolet20583 ай бұрын
Agree💯
@ashlieleavelle3 ай бұрын
I was a Nanny 20 years. Some kids are just the result of very poor parenting. Some of these kids have parents who are not involved, yet they buy them stuff to make up for their absence. If these kids get a loving caregiver, it can really be beneficial and life changing.
@AdelineCowgirl3 ай бұрын
I would for a million.
@Leahmoonbeamflower3 ай бұрын
Whatttt? I would definitely look after them for half a million dollars 😂. I love children. My mom has 12😂
@erickapoletti20533 ай бұрын
Would not work in the engineers house. It’s a mess and they are crazy!!
@seriousstrawberry2 ай бұрын
Even outside the house. It doesn't make sense. Spring cleaning every day until it looks normal.
@sharonbrazier30013 ай бұрын
Its when he says to "keep the place tidy "he needs a deep clean team in 😮😮
@alexs67703 ай бұрын
Tab needs a family that pays and treats her well the mother is dreadful to her. I hope Tab left immediately. She deserves so much better.
@gauloise64422 ай бұрын
They became friends by the end and went out socializing together, even without the kids.
@alexs67702 ай бұрын
@@gauloise6442 Sounds good lmao
@summerbright27693 ай бұрын
My opinion is that she should work from home instead of getting strangers to look after children.. and then start working when children start school Surely that’s the only way anyone can enjoy Motherhood. Unfortunately lots of Mothers don’t enjoy looking after their own children…..
@lovelyshirl3 ай бұрын
How do all these people live? Looks like a nuclear bomb has gone off in their homes!! What a freaking mess!! Every single one of them are quite a few fries short of a happy meal - scary.
@harbinger36983 ай бұрын
Jesus what did I just watch! That second family are Feral and I mean the parents.
@illumindonnaughty3 ай бұрын
😂😂
@HLJlovejoy2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 Lord forgive me, they said it and I hollered because it’s what I thought too
@lovelyshirl3 ай бұрын
"Where are you from? Texas, Massachusetts?" REALLY? "Texas Chain Saw Massacre"??? Wtf?
@CAstrawberrygirl3 ай бұрын
it's ironic that she didn't realize how much she was telling the world how ignorant she was....
@bekahiam12 ай бұрын
Agreed
@piaauman90203 ай бұрын
the mother with the glasses.... was so weird.. her singing🤣. this was so bad. they just hire these poor girls so they don't have to pay much. it's shocking really.
@liverbirdxoxo19843 ай бұрын
dont know why you would bother having kids
@relocatetoItaly3 ай бұрын
The first woman admitted poppy was an accident and the result of a fling
@kafacela4833 ай бұрын
"what drink do u like"? Ammm...whisky,wine and whiskey...jack danniels....😂..WHAT???a new aupair???wow
@brookebickley68733 ай бұрын
Yeah I certainly wouldn't respond to that question with only alcoholic drinks
@Leahmoonbeamflower3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 at least she was honest 😂😂😂
@tlee21193 ай бұрын
Wonder how much it was edited?
@francineleduc30223 ай бұрын
Langage barrier. Drinks mean alcool in many countries.
@antoanetaanastasova39463 ай бұрын
@@francineleduc3022 true
@phina83923 ай бұрын
What a 🤡 that dad with the petrol around the child,,, oh it’s o.k he’s a safety officer 😂😂😂😂😂. On the phone while driving 🤬
@elliegreen47383 ай бұрын
@phina Very well observed and said. The edges of that huge, wild fire was too near the children and they looked scared pushing back against the fence from the flames.
@vickythefist70623 ай бұрын
The kid doesnt walk ???? Mpre like mum hates walking so slow and having to hold his hand so she bangs him in pushchair to make her life easy. Sad really
@PaulaW-wq1kh3 ай бұрын
Not the case, it's for safety and small Children need one to be safe etc.
@moms94573 ай бұрын
The man they met said it was a 20 minute walk, there and back. That's a bit too much for a toddler to walk, but a short walk around the block would be fine without a push chair. I was more concerned she didn't bring diapers, water or a snack.
@abbeylane37943 ай бұрын
the whole reason you become a parent is to be a parent. You just don't farm out your children to other people because then you are not a parent. I understand when things become difficult and you need someone to help. Perhaps we should be more loving and kind to each other and really respect one another including children and the aged
@user-sy6fj2bm1z3 ай бұрын
Andrew’s ex wife is nuts 🌰
@MM-ng8lj3 ай бұрын
Yes, I hate to say it but I think maybe she is a bit slow or something
@bbe30343 ай бұрын
I had a really nice friend who I met on my tennis team in 🇺🇸. She was from France and such a lovely person. Her niece wanted to come to 🇺🇸, so I invited her to live with us. We had 2 sons 6 and 3. Our daughter was 12 months old. It was extremely awkward because she had been so sheltered. We gave her our largest bedroom upstairs but it broke my heart because we did everything to make her feel like a part of our family. But she was so homesick! I ended up parenting her also. It was heartbreaking that she missed her family so much! But of course we wished her well when she flew back to France.
@baublesanddolls2 ай бұрын
She reminds me of a drug addict.
@baublesanddolls2 ай бұрын
The dad is just as insane.
@Juanita-gf4te2 ай бұрын
And he is a laid back honey......
@JB-hb7fd3 ай бұрын
Would be interesting to have a 2024 update.
@user-sy6fj2bm1z3 ай бұрын
I bet these families are looking for more au pairs
@catepilarr3 ай бұрын
@@user-sy6fj2bm1z there hardly any au-pair in England these days, thanks to Brexit.
@eedragonr3 ай бұрын
Thanks to Brexit a young woman can live and sleep free homeless on the streets. It looks completely safe. She doesn't need to take any risks. We are no longer in the 19th century.
@gauloise64422 ай бұрын
@@catepilarr Turkey, USA and Brazil are not part of EU. So what would be different?
@aujuliawod3 ай бұрын
omg lady if it makes you feel bad that your kid walked somewhere without you then just stay home and be their mother…🙄
@n0tfr0mth1sw0rld2 ай бұрын
💯 not sure why it's such a problem to make a child walk either
@tinahochstetler21893 ай бұрын
Tab was amazing! I felt so sorry for the sweet girl from Brazil. She did everything and the lady was never satisfied. And the one from Egypt, missing her home right away and I can't say I blame her. Is there a reason they only hire girls that have just come from another country and don't know anyone and barely speak the language? They need the families to take car of them too if they're going to bring someone that's going to just feel lost and alone. If they don't want to make those girls welcome and see that their needs are being met, they should hire a babysitter from their neighborhood.
@user-cy4vw1qj9m3 ай бұрын
That would cost more too mean to pay.
@lavender97573 ай бұрын
Because they look for cheap labour
@shirleyscott88793 ай бұрын
I can’t imagine having someone who doesn’t speak your language taking care of your children. The family with the American girl, Tab, is lucky. She seems very calm and responsible.
@shirleyscott88793 ай бұрын
Families will take advantage of girls from another country. I went to Montreal from England when I was 21 and worked from 7 am until 10:30 at night looking after a baby and a 5 year old. I had a day and a half off per week. The family was extremely wealthy but paid me very little. It was the same for all my friends.
@gauloise64422 ай бұрын
"British people refuse to work these jobs" ie, British people require decent pay and decent treatment.
@tatjana52073 ай бұрын
I'm fed up. First words you learn in England as a foreigner 😂
@ijeomao.48473 ай бұрын
Lmao
@elfriededrunus64023 ай бұрын
I was an Au-Pair through an agency. The family was vetted as well as I. Everything worked out great. I would recommend only doing it with a respected agency.
@elfriededrunus64023 ай бұрын
And we were in contact for over 3 months beforehand.
@angelaberni88733 ай бұрын
Many years ago when my children were small over a period of years i had 5 au pairs. They were all from a reputable agenzy and the girls had a list to tick off what they were prepared to do in the house,so i knew exactly which one to choose. Luckily i was a housewife and we did everything together with the children. No way would i leave my children alone with strangers,its not fair on the children or the young girls. These girls all cried when they left because they realised that they were treated as part of the family and not like servants or worse skivvies. If i were an au pair i would have run a mile with everyone of these families.
@user-zh8vt5dv1x3 ай бұрын
The second parents..... I bet even all these years later when somebody says what was your worst job ? I was driven round the garden by a little boy on a child size toy 😮😂
@ukwhitewitch3 ай бұрын
Jill is awful, no wonder she has difficulty getting and keeping someone....treating them like they're servants 😮and poor poor Poppy! Talk about an insufferable micro managing helicopter parent...perhaps the standards she expects would be better reached by sending Poppy to a boarding school. That poor child, I see a word of hurt and a feeling of never being good enough in her future 😢
@gauloise64422 ай бұрын
That list: Poppy wakes up. Practises harp for 15 minutes. Eats Breakfast. So regimented.
@gauloise64422 ай бұрын
That poor Turkish girl with the couple that looked on the brink of divorce. What a miserable, unhappy home to be placed in. Out of all of them, the whacky dad with the Texas girl seems the best, the only one where the family seemed to love each other with warmth and treated the au pair like a human, even if they were eccentric.
@chlox28703 ай бұрын
the handover from claire was awful what a shit show that poor girl x
@tinahinkle19563 ай бұрын
Did I really just see that "Snotty" woman give her very young daughter champagne?!!!
@Naijella863 ай бұрын
In England you can have alcohol with your family at home when you are five years old. It’s completely legal. Just small amounts but it’s not a crime
@gauloise64422 ай бұрын
It's very normal in Europe to give kids a sip of wine or a very small amount diluted in water.
@winterbeaches2 ай бұрын
The European alcohol culture is quite liberal. It's fairly common for a glass of dinner wine, often mixed with water, to be given to the family's children during special occasions. Have known families in the states that do this as well.
@jarkachalmovianska78122 ай бұрын
@@winterbeaches never experienced that def. Not normal or healthy.
@eunicestone65323 ай бұрын
The first couple needs a housekeeper and landscaper and a nanny. Handling a couple of kids and cleaning up that mess the house is in
@nitachiquita99883 ай бұрын
Yes Jayden was indeed fine. He walked like a little trooper. I think he enjoyed it. 👍😺😊
@patriciadawson41643 ай бұрын
Yes I was surprised that she was upset, he was outside getting some Sun & exercise. She should want that.
@gauloise64422 ай бұрын
Sometimes it's the best thing when kids are sent to boarding school or with an au pair . That was probably the most spontaneous thing those kids ever did in their lives.
@omw123wilkins53 ай бұрын
Don’t cry love she’s horrible to work for I certainly wouldn’t
@teamcougars3 ай бұрын
I don’t think I would be comfortable with a stranger living in my home caring for my children full time 😂
@tauiraclay42353 ай бұрын
A working mum with high standards, will always appreciate the effort, well done young lady, Poppy is a lovely girl. And you rose up to her standards.❤
@MustangMach1696.03 ай бұрын
I think tab a great nanny.😊
@annaosborne28153 ай бұрын
I thought au pairs had a work week of about 18 - 20 hours. This seems borderline servant labour. Low wages and their priority is to be a household conducive to helping the au pair learn English. .. I didnt see that happening very much. Looks like they are low paid nannies/house cleaners - awful
@babycakes84343 ай бұрын
It was used to a rule that Au Pairs legally could work up to 40hrs, so it wouldn't be considered full time, for visa purpouses, but recently I have heard some other info, that they can work even more than 40hrs🤦♀️
@user-cy4vw1qj9m3 ай бұрын
You are right they are supposed to get time off to learn English.
@catepilarr3 ай бұрын
Depending on the country and mutual agreement, au-pairs in Europe work between 20 and 40 hrs a week. In US its up to 45 hrs and only a minimum of 1.5 days off.
@E-Kat2 ай бұрын
Nannies don't do housework. They look after children exclusively. Otherwise it's like asking the plumber to fit the carpets too. 😮
@TierraUtopia3 ай бұрын
Poor au pairs! 😰
@shaunalea8233 ай бұрын
All these people are nightmares wtf would want to work for any of them? Straight up if you want things done a certain way do it yourself it’s not fair to except someone to be a mind reader and to be exactly like you.
@IcelynnDezz2 ай бұрын
That second family the way the mom looked at her hand like "ugh" ... when the au pair shook her hand. So flippin rude!
@amc25102 ай бұрын
what is the compensation for live in Nanny. seems Anna is doing duties beyond Nanny; house cleaning. Cooking for mom. I can understand daughter at lunch. So the pay must be very good, I hope. P.S. Get your own mustard Poppy.
@NotThisShipSister12 ай бұрын
This mother of three boys who aspires to become a Nurse has seemingly checked out long ago!!
@kafacela4833 ай бұрын
Tab is the best
@shethingsd2 ай бұрын
Once you have no control of your children's discipline, why would you expect someone to come fix your children?
@donnaallgaier-lamberti39333 ай бұрын
I also find this terrifying -children lfet with strangers. There must be agencies who specialize in this? l Why did these people have three children when they don't want to be there to take care of them?
@brookebickley68733 ай бұрын
There are agencies who specialise in this. They charge families fees, and do background and suitability screenings on all the applicants. These families are trying to do it on the cheap.
@patriciadawson41643 ай бұрын
@@brookebickley6873they can do it the cheap way, but you have to do all the work yourself, they have not done anything but interview these woman. Who hires people who you have not even done at least a criminal check on, to look after your Children. They didn't only want cheap, they wanted easy as well. Very neglectful in my opinion.
@gauloise64422 ай бұрын
I find it more terrifying for the girls who are alone, barely speaking the language, getting into peoples cars who they only met online and hoping for the best.
@samanthawalters21143 ай бұрын
It’s a safeguarding nightmare..
@Love-pd8lz3 ай бұрын
What they need are housemaids not au pair
@sherrywebster16753 ай бұрын
Whoa Poppys mum needs to CHILL a little :))) As a single mum of 3 , over 30 years or so, I know the value of relaxation in the home. not abuse, not big messes, but calm and fun and gentle teaching of chores and responsibility.
@kathleendowner65063 ай бұрын
I walk all day with my grandson keeps them fit and they sleep well
@kafacela4833 ай бұрын
No way with that finger water....no f way
@aliamacintyre4832 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 That would have sent me
@lucyroberts28003 ай бұрын
I think if just because you decide to cut back on your cleaner dog walker and make that your child cares jobs doesn’t mean it’s fair or right . Wouldn’t have worked with any of these families nightmares all of them .
@nunyabizniz19833 ай бұрын
Some of those kids are WILD! Maybe Claire should stay at home with her kids then.
@donnae95662 ай бұрын
Having kids is not compulsary, i reckon it's better not to have them if you want to maintain a career
@remindmewhy3 ай бұрын
Aww, Tab is great ❤
@RoyalBeach_3 ай бұрын
when she said "oh she must have super powers" to counting backwards, was really heartwarming
@SAVAGE.paradise3 ай бұрын
She’s amazing with the kids ❤
@ajayjackson77273 ай бұрын
Gemma doing the flamenco on the dance floor 💃
@llyngibson41603 ай бұрын
The man with the children reminds me of Chitty Chitty Bang Bang.
@piaauman90203 ай бұрын
these ridiculous parents! omg... shockingly stupid
@vickythefist70623 ай бұрын
I didnt know people like this existed 😂😂
@baublesanddolls2 ай бұрын
Do you live in a bubble?
@infamouszxnicky2 ай бұрын
Au Pairs in the very wealthy areas here only make maximum 250 per week for 11 or more hour days. Yes they get free room and board. They also only get one day off a week. Rarely two days off a week. They also do household chores etc. and that’s through an agency. It’s a fancy way of taking advantage of someone.
@TaylorTiree3 ай бұрын
Andrew is a Safety engineer!?
@JB-hb7fd3 ай бұрын
Right ??🫣 Proceeds to throw petrol on a fire 🔥 😳
@helentucker64073 ай бұрын
Lol, I thought that too 😅
@relocatetoItaly3 ай бұрын
Yeah let that sink in
@wilmafallon87123 ай бұрын
🤣🤣
@tinahochstetler21893 ай бұрын
He tries things. If he survives, it's safe. 😂
@Langolin19982 ай бұрын
Poppy’s mom has given me an anxiety attack, all the way in the US. I wouldn’t last three days there. What a micromanaging control freak!
@HLJlovejoy2 ай бұрын
Poppy’s mom is out of touch and needs to pay for the services she requires. The young lady she hired is not a cook or a maid let alone a babysitter. Make it make sense
@hayleywhelan32433 ай бұрын
Tab was a great nanny 👏
@elenawilliams322 ай бұрын
Choosing the person who cares for your child because of their star sign... Yikes...🚩🚩🚩 Those poor girls.
@username.not.known24733 ай бұрын
Anyone who meets these criteria to be an au pair of the kind these families expect, is in a much better paying job than au pairing.
@nomadicam2 ай бұрын
2 weeks into my au pair experience I had to have a very tense talk with my host family about what "40 hours a week" actually means. I was waking the kids off, getting them off to school, doing chores while they were gone, picking up the little one at noon, making lunch for the family, entertaining the kids all afternoon and evening, putting kids to bed, doing chores at night. It definitely put me off parenting 😂
@gauloise64422 ай бұрын
These girls are really courageous just showing up in these peoples houses with all their stuff. I wonder how many disappear or are attacked by the fathers. People talk about the parents leaving these girls with their kids, but these girls are just as vulnerable from these random ads they reply to.
@lolitanolita91072 ай бұрын
100%... There is a story where an affair was murdered by the family she worked for.
@ingridakerblom75772 ай бұрын
47:02 the people is clapping to the fact the song is over 😂
@lovelyshirl3 ай бұрын
THIS is how people randomly choose Au Pairs? Really???
@catepilarr3 ай бұрын
No. At least not in my experience. I find this document very bizzare.
@Jenny.MG822 ай бұрын
On one of these parents Social Services should have been called.. shocking
@babycakes84343 ай бұрын
British mother "Texas Massachusetts"..... and then Europeans make fun of Americans about not knowing the geography😂
@louuj60582 ай бұрын
That look at 40:07 says I am THAT close to grabbing the nearest saucepan and getting rid of some tension lol
@flossydonnellon48933 ай бұрын
No you don’t have to put your trust in complete strangers ! You choose to , you allow your priceless child to be at the mercy of god knows who COMPLETE MADNESS, ever heard of Stranger Danger, Claire’s priority is Claire 😡 Andrew is a complete nut job ,god help anyone who has the misfortune to be employed in his home it’s a TIP, Gemma doesn’t trust the au pair well look after your kids yourself, because Andrew hasn’t got a clue how to vet anyone
@kittencatlover1563 ай бұрын
There are not a whole pile of woman taking on the care of children just in the hope of committing a crime to inflict on them. Children go to School and you have to trust that, You get people in to do maintenance work on you home and you trust that. These children have voices so they can talk and tell if something is a miss. There not a huge criminal world of Nannies committing crimes for christ sakes
@kittencatlover1563 ай бұрын
a fyi stranger danger is a myth you are more likely to be killed by someone you know that a stranger
@n0tfr0mth1sw0rld2 ай бұрын
Im feeling so bad for those poor aupairs having to deal with the parents of the kids. Reminds me when ive been an aupair for two families and both were rather strange 😒 the language barrier makes it even harder and you feel more vulnerable
@MaxItUpwithMarta2 ай бұрын
I do not understand. I see working class people hiring au pairs but how much are they paying for the au pair? The reason I ask is because the homes seem to need repair. I would try to repair my home and find more time to rear my child rather than turn them over to an au pair. I would hate to work for Poppys mother.
@Celtic_Amy3 ай бұрын
I'm confused are they just doing their on advert (kinda like a Craig's list) Shouldn't you go through and agency. Your hiring your own employee, no background check, don't speak English well, and just start working with only weeks notice? Then you hire someone because she's "fun and has a good star sign"
@thearcherofjustice14923 ай бұрын
I once had a Swedish au pair. I was freshly divorced and had to learn how to be responsible of myself and 3 small children, begin a job. We were like best friends in no time. She had to look after the children all day while😢was at work, and had free time I believe from Friday evening till Sunday evening. Her parents came to visit and I let them stay at our home instead of a hotel. It was a beautiful experience. When she arrived my kids had just been treated for lice 🤣 and there was suspicion in the air hihi... And as she was about to leave us, she caught chicken pocks from my kids 😂 That was a problem for her cuz she loved going to dance on weekends, but now I was putting treatment all over her back etc 😂🤣😂 That was funny retrospectively
@MortishaPoppins2 ай бұрын
She took the two very young children on an actual excursion, for a minimum of one hour, without a single thing, no food, water or even a sweater for either of them. A very poor decision when you have two young children with you.
@vicksenful2 ай бұрын
A whole hour in mild weather without food, water & a sweater? How on earth did they survive this massive hardship?
@lorrainebennett75283 ай бұрын
I'm a pet sitter, 7 dogs no problem but I couldn't do this lol!
@br52102 ай бұрын
The danger of getting taken advantage by parents not the other way round. Cheap laborer as a parent replacement...
@kafacela4833 ай бұрын
Who wd take a 2 y old for such a long walk
@IcelynnDezz2 ай бұрын
Tab is amazing! 😊
@susanannamagdala73763 ай бұрын
I think Tab might just be an angel .!
@l.s683 ай бұрын
The au pair idea is they should be like kind of older siblings doing some light House work and childcare but plenty free time to socialize and study ect